This Is Why Women Have to Reject Men (with Dating Coach James Marshall)

If you've ever been rejected by women in your dating life, and you have wondered "But I did everything right, what happened?", then, this is the video for you! Keep watching to find out why women reject you and see things from her perspective. ►► James Marshall's KZbin Channel → / @thenaturallifestyles
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[@ItachiUchiha-ut6xj]

So basicly if a woman likes you you still have to do the approaching. And when you do there literally 3 million reasons which are beyond your control for her to reject you and when she does you still have to sympathize with her because it's so hard for her to choose the perfect man out of all those 363757 men that want her. That is beyond sad.

[@DELTA_77805]

Exactly!!!

[@jaredpage819]

I love seeing the women who rejected me in college getting divorced. Now I reject them and date their daughters and their daughters friends. I’m cool w it! No child support, no marriage/ divorce bills, just hot women 1/2 my age, money, freedom and a body I worked 20 years on! Karma is amazing! 😂😍🤷🏼

[@SunshineSuperstar]

It's a truly beautiful thing indeed!

[@karlteai3699]

Haha

[@leaderofnoone5096]

Stay single. Stay sane.

[@romancleanser2709]

Don't wear out your fleshlight

[@andrewlerdard-dickson5201]

It sounds like to me that women do not hesitate to show deliberate manipulation and disrespectful attitudes toward men unless it's all about financial expectations

[@tronalddump2444]

I am sorry if you had to make the experience.

[@hdrenginedevelopment7507]

So the whole video ends up talking about how hard one has to work for one of those urban clubby high risk/high maintenance girls are that I can sense a mile away and wouldn't touch with a 39.5 ft pole? How about talking about some of the good characters that are not just out for self serving attention, money, and sex....oh wait, maybe there aren't any of those? The high maintenance ones just set too high of expectations and demands on the guy to be so perfect and align with her life just right....uh, what could possibly go wrong here? Lol. Many of the actually good guys actually do have some kind of meaning in their own life and they're not going to want to assume the liabilities of these crazy girls' demands and critera.

[@georginajovanovic]

absolutely right. Those girls and brutally nasty, not just to men but with other women

[@flynryan3053]

Dude, said PERFECT, my last relationship to a T

[@AnthonyManzio]

@@flynryan3053 They she divorces him for being a cheater the bad boy. Let her become a single mom all alone till dead with cats and dogs. She will be saying wear did all the good men gone.... Never date a 304

[@MrBooYa-yd5er]

The wall exists. That's why James laughed when she denied it.

[@josiahmick1175]

I was completely put off girls early- It's comical when they hit the wall and get bitter and resentful when they find out their friendzone is now empty too

[@mateoarzua7706]

The biggest treat to a woman is a man that protects his own financial resources .....

[@LuisTheFilmHack]

Normally I like Hayley's videos but this one is HORRIBLE! What she and James Marshall seem to be saying is that young, attractive women reject men at such high rates that most men who approach them are almost assured of a rejection. If that's the case, then why approach them at all? This should NOT be the message of a dating coach.

[@dreal500]

Your missing the fact that they will reject you in their Prime. Once they're done and they're past their Prime then you'll be attractive with all your resources once they are shut out of the market

[@Ghostrider-ul7xn]

Would you rather have lies sold to you or the truth? Because when you're acting based on lies, you'll never know the actual reasons why you keep failing. You'll keep blaming yourself for failing even though most of its on women themselves. Knowing the truth on the other hand is liberating because you can chose those actions to play by their rules

[@romancleanser2709]

Doesn't make sense to you either ?

[@VoiceOfThe]

I don’t get anywhere because they ALL want kids & I don’t. I also won’t date single mothers as I refuse to raise another man’s seed. I’m 46 & feel like giving up.

[@billfallon2372]

Why should you "adapt" to HER? SHE needs to adapt to YOU.

[@brachiosaurus6541]

Women have the necessity and privilege to reject men. Women also have to understand that we men have the necessity and privilege to not asking her out anymore

[@SunshineSuperstar]

Absolutely!!!

[@teharotomohaka3901]

Thing is they won't care because they still have heaps of options

[@rascal211]

@@teharotomohaka3901 Exactly This guy acts like they will care about him. If they reject you they'll latch on to someone else quickly and won't care at all about you.

[@bdslade]

I enjoy how much defense there is in here for things that are entirely women's own faults: model walks around for days, being surprised no guys talked to her. THEN TALK TO THE GUYS YOU FIND ATTRACTIVE. Women reject guys that aren't high up on the social ladder because it won't get them into social clubs and so on and reject them for cold ask-outs, and then are surprised that they can't find quality guys. Ohhhh Weeeeell. It's also funny that we're expected to feel bad for women for bad dating experiences with men, when men clearly have significantly worse dating experiences than women, since rejection rates will never be better than 30%, but we're supposed to suck it up. Guys, improve your self-esteem and recognize that you're just worth more than being society's meat-grinder.

[@isaiahgovea2319]

Time to hit the Jim

[@bdslade]

@@isaiahgovea2319 Time to hit the dictionary.

[@isaiahgovea2319]

@@bdslade it's an actual meme phrase man lol

[@bdslade]

@@isaiahgovea2319 Haven't heard it before. Mustn't be very popular, or just used in pretty specific circles. LOL Thanks for the explaination!

[@isaiahgovea2319]

@@bdslade lol all good man. It comes from a lot of younger guys, usually in terms of men should improve on themselves (working out, build career, etc) and not let women be their focus. Either after getting rejected, cheated on, or broken up with, etc. Keep your head up king, kind of mentality lol

[@ECO473]

This only aggravated the hopelessness of it all. Thanks for nothing.

[@DanThomasUK]

Not sure why so many references are made in the video to women being invited to parties, being relentless social climbers etc - that’s definitely not everyone’s (or even most people’s) thing, male or female. There may even be a potential “red flags” topic there....

[@demonfox0958]

I learned to have resentment and hatred toward girls and women at a very early age (like elementary school). I believed women were just out for a man's money and material gain and I needed to stay away from them. This was mainly learned from watching the relationship between my mother and father, my father not mentoring properly (warning me against women), and what I now believe is undiagnosed Asperger's skewing my perceptions of social cues and environments. When I got into teens and adulthood and girls would approach me I would reject THEM! I saw what was the norm in society and I reversed the narrative - basically out of spite. If a girl tried to approach or get my attention I would either shy away because I didn't understand the cues or be cold and rude to her to make her go away. It actually made me angry when a girl came up and tried to be friendly because I had the attitude of "your not getting my money!!". I never hurt a girl, but I would fantasize about just kicking them in the chest and slamming them against the wall for having the temerity to try to talk to me. It took many years into adulthood for this mentality to slowly change, but it wasn't until about 2.5 years ago (at age 45) that I started studying PUA and social dynamics that I finally truly learned to understand and love women. It has made my marriage and general social interactions SO much better, and had made me a much happier person. Thanks to coaches like Hayley!

[@MrBooYa-yd5er]

So are you getting laid or what?

[@nothanks7991]

10 %, really ? . Using the baseball batting average analogy, you would quit and do something else. MGTOW.

[@noway2434]

What they are talking about is the Western women. Avoid them at all costs ( appropriate pun).

[@tortoisegamer5804]

0 dates, 0 interest, 0 chance; Perfectly balanced, as all things should be.

[@enniswhalen2428]

What? With all these MARVELOUS, WONDERFUL dating coaches?

[@hcamry]

It doesn’t make sense, one time that model for 2 weeks no one approaches her and then in another time you say ‘hot gurls’ Get approached all the time, which one ?

[@bdslade]

The correct one is just that it's easier to complain and paint yourself as ill-done-upon no matter the scenario than it is to have a consistent worldview. hah

[@hcamry]

@@bdslade if you dont have an answer to the question, then you're better off with the quote: Silence is golden hah

[@dreal500]

You know! These dummies don't know what they are talking about.

[@Ghostrider-ul7xn]

Hayley is hardly objective in her analysis. In another video she gave reasons why men are single and it was totally off the mark.

[@SunshineSuperstar]

@@Ghostrider-ul7xn She's useless at attracting women...fish catching fish and all that...and he's just echoing her like the good little boy that he is. This channel and all their videos are a waste of fucking time and mental energy!

[@sloebone7399]

It sounds good and makes sense but since when do women make good decisions about the guys they date?

[@Me-ji2pn]

As someone who’s never had a gf and is one of 3 brothers it’s good that Hayley gives an insight into a girls thinking

[@luhrare]

11:09 social media already takes care of this, even if no one on the street approaches her. Look at her DMs and tell me otherwise.

[@angusgow1887]

So when a women runs out of branches she will stop climbing the tree?

[@SunshineSuperstar]

No!

[@rh5776]

so what the basic message is, only 8-10s need to apply. Rest get filtered out. She, her etc.

[@garmisra7841]

Sod off incels

[@Ghostrider-ul7xn]

Exactly.

[@paigeward27]

Hayley and James were good in this video ( presented themselves well) ...but this one to me was complicated. Meaning it's almost all about being cool and super social. And women do not have all the power ( they don't). If your always " trading up " ...after awhile you'll find yourself broken and alone. Old saying..." If you always play hard to get...you don't get got."

[@solitaryone5501]

Lol at that Intro😂😂😂 "Look at me please, im hot and please dont forget to mention it"

[@letmelickbud]

Girl who go to clubs , are good for short term only , booty call or part of your rotation . When ready for a real relationship , demand zero body count . Demand slender . Look for traditional values . A strong male role model in the family home . When choosing a girl for wife , the highest value wife has best chance of surviving long term

[@bigdantanner]

2:37 Check out James's asymetrical body language, and how Haley tries to hold back cracking a huge smile around 2:39. This just goes to say that, once you do it enough, it becomes second nature. Inspiring video Haley. Thank you both for sharing a part of who you are, being present in the moment, and dedicated to exploring and uncovering the social context we often miss. #genuine

[@nothanks7991]

The cat plays with the mouse, it torments it, before it kills it.

[@noway2434]

Its always the "clubs, or bars ". Aint going to no club and I dont drink alcohol, so what then ?

[@romancleanser2709]

@@Krzysztof_Kasprowiak and what then ?

[@romancleanser2709]

Yep, and what then ?

[@rpgamer05x84]

Summary: The person with more power choose and the other one is selected. Power in women = Beauty Power in men = money Im a not a MGTOW guy but in my opinion we should stop focusing on women and instead focusing in us *it sucks* but unfortunately thats the only way to have the life we all men dream

[@jzirani]

Sure, if you have a lot of money you can find a super model that is looking for a financially secure life. If that's your metric of success, right but there is no seduction more like a trade. If your metric is seduction, then the deciding factor is not beauty but "charm": what happen when you open your mouth.

[@Victoria-dh9vb]

I don't know why it's portrayed that clubs are the best place to meet women. Go out and do something you enjoy, do stuff that adds value to your life, and while you are out doing that stuff, that's where you're going to find people. And if you don't? Then you've spent your time making YOURSELF a happier and high value person. If you always wanted to learn a language, take a class and/or go to language exchange nights. If you like going to the gym, sign up for some classes that you've never tied before. Who knows, maybe you might even like yoga more than you expected. If you like art, go check out some galleries and see if there's a workshop you could check out. There's always tons of different kinds, painting, pottery, glass work, metal work, heck I've even seen black smiting classes before. You like books? Book clubs, poetry readings, author meet ups. You like nerd stuff? Your local nerd store 100% has different games nights for all sorts of different interests. Join a volunteer group. Sign up for a tour. It could be a local tour of your town/city or maybe go big and book a tour that takes you on a tour bus through a bunch of new places. Etc. Etc. You're going to not only get to meet new people, you're going to get to meet people who are interested in the same things as you. And you already have a built in conversation starter, because you're both there for the same experience, you can totally start off talking about that. It's a no lose solution.

[@jamie49868]

So if you like drinking and eating chicken wings.....

[@Victoria-dh9vb]

@@jamie49868 I know that is a joke. But take a cooking class so you can make your own bomb ass chicken wings. Do some wine or brewery tours. You could take a wine or beer making course. Wine/whatever alcohol tasting events. Organize a block party with your neighborhood that has drinks and chicken wings. Organize a games night (either sports or board/card games) with your friends where they can invite another person to come along and have drinks and chicken wings. If you are learning, or doing something fun, you are inherently a more interesting and attractive person to spend time with. Just saying, life is like a video game, if you want something, level up your stats to be able to do what you want. #getgood

[@marcusnoctis2406]

The reasons are too complex, and for most men it's not worth deconstructing this issue. Easier to cut losses and move on.

[@SunshineSuperstar]

Yep!

[@johngato7661]

I make well above 6 figures, have my own house and a fine sports car. Now I reject them, why? Aside from sexual interaction, they offer nothing I don’t already have or can’t get on my own…

[@sidrat69]

Lol! Try acting out Hayley's 'advice' here in Central London when approaching women and see what happens. In recent years every time I've approached women here in London in a non-creepy normal way they tell me to get lost or "go do one"! I remember one girl I was approaching even shut me down before I even opened my mouth to talk to her! And another woman was giving flirtacious signals to me whilst we were both waiting at a bus stop and when I responded to her overtures she started shouting to everyone that I was harassing her!! And she was the one looking at me to begin with trying to get my attention! You do hear stories of women giving false signals to men in order to entrap them and hurl false accusations at them. As a consequence men are now far more reluctant to approach women and Hayley knows this which is why she's desperate to give out this 'advice' as women are now complaining that men are now reluctant to approach them. Hmm.. I wonder why? 20 years ago or so it was far more straightforward to approach women and chat them up without any fear of backlash. I had many dating opportunities because of this. Men these days are not so lucky. Unfortunately in recent times the @ Too and 3rd Wave Feminism movements have killed the art of flirting and approaching women not to mention killing relationships and commitment between women and men. So sad what it's come to but this is what 3rd Wave Feminism wanted and the brainwashed women around the world that believed it were not astute enough to see how mendacious and damaging the movement and it's aims are.

[@eteold]

Men are incels and creepy for addressing getting rejected...but if women are rejected, they are empowered. Priceless. For everything else there's MasterCard.

[@shazell24]

Sounds like a lot of work. A lot.

[@janh3827]

Have standards as a man Don’t just date a woman just because she’s hot That what most guys do

[@kc270352]

exactly 👍

[@jamie49868]

Women are all basically the same. They may start out slightly different, but they end up the same. That being the case, and understanding what you are going to be dealing with, you might as well go for the hot ones....the not so hot will cheat on you and take you to the cleaners just the same.

[@noway2434]

Dont "date" anyone.

[@ShaunHensley]

No it isn’t

[@cybermavrik]

Be authentic and strengthen you personality and to hell with manipulating women

[@kungtony]

This is why we need to educate women. When I get objections from daygame it's not always her telling me she has a boyfriend. Sometimes they just give me a simple no thanks as if it's no big deal for her which pisses me off. What I hate is harsh rejections and looks of blankness or disgust just because I've given a compliment. Women need to learn to appreciate the hard work men put in and appreciate the courage ir takes for a guy to walk up to her. I think dating coaches have a responsibility to educate women on what guys have to go through because it can feel like a tough interview or audition trying to attract a woman. Cold approach is hard because you don't know whether a woman will be friendly to you or tell you to fuck off.

[@thrilla72]

If she's not interested in you, rejecting you has at least saved you time. Move on bro

[@kungtony]

@@thrilla72 sure and I understand that but I hate harsh rejections or where girls seem to derive pleasure from rejecting guys.

[@thrilla72]

@@kungtony Trust me, I've not met a woman who treats men like that, who doesn't have misery in her heart. It will come to bite her. I've had several women who harshly rejected me come crawling back years later. Karma is a b*tch.

[@kristiannoel4866]

@@thrilla72 I've had a woman cheat on me come back to me, or try. I turned her down flat.

[@platinum11110]

Never 'cold approach'.

[@Xarencey]

Gotta say this really felt pandering to women and as for the men the message was it fucking sucks for you but deal with it. Feels to me its that mentality that just turns men away whole sale. A really bad point was where it was mentioned a women been in the game and has "matured" for years if not decades and then to the man its like you are just getting started basically saying you are immature. With that framing as a man who probably doesn't have a whole lot of confidence makes me say shit pack up and go home you ain't got a chance and if you thought you did she's the one with all the power.

[@somaspecialist]

This

[@RapidBlindfolds]

that factoid about top tier men's rejection rates is simultaneously depressing and uplifting. i was ruminating about the rejection streak i'm currently on, and that helped put things into perspective

[@rascal211]

This woman doesn't have a clue how difficult it is for men. It doesn't suck to be a woman when it comes to dating, they hold the cards and make the selections and rejections from far more options than men have..

[@teharotomohaka3901]

Yup exactly woman have endless options the true symbol of mens rejection it's amazing their isn't more rapes frim angry sexually frustrated men lucky we can whack off otherwise rapes would be off the charts

[@vidsarchive]

I went out to this bar on my own and the people weren't that friendly. There was this girl that I knew had a boyfriend. She stood right out in front of me and started getting nice. It ended with her kissing me on the lips. For me as not a bad a baddass player this was a great success. I'm one of those guys that always gets fucking shunned

[@teharotomohaka3901]

Im like that 2 is like im fukn invisible

[@nobodyman6817]

I'm building my own company online so I can work remotely overseas in Asia as a digital nomad. My dating coach said my Instagram needed to have more pictures of my "social proof" and "worth". Just wait till all the western girls see my photos on a beach in Asia with my laptop out while I'm dressed in a suit with an asian girl holding my hand. How's that for social dominance?

[@pattstickman]

Honestly it's all fair and good to accept where it isn't your fault that you get rejected - but i feel women as soon as they show up to the date basically drop all effort and go into receiving mode. It depends mostly on how her initial attraction to you shows involuntarily so that you feel confident with 'making moves' and generally acting less agreeable, which is a turn-on when done right. I've had successful and less successful dates this year and it always came down to me feeling enough vibes to more or less safely escalate. The notion that they see their job in showing up and yours in presenting yourself has hardened, and again: not all dates were bummers and during some of them some coincidence pushed the whole thing onto the next level - or over the cliff. But i sometimes feel like during a date women act like an instrument and want you to learn how to play them in the next 2 to 5 hours. They should be singers though and a date should be a duett instead of a garage band rehearsal with a guitar that misses two strings.

[@Jay-ef2ii]

Age will drive one to the "corner." Ageism is huge for older people.

[@WICKEDMAN85]

Its bloody depressing but so true, being good at Daygame is only half the puzzle!! Im lacking my social life and for sure its crippling my social and dating life. Hayley is a great teacher and thats from personal experience back in 2011 as my tutor in the bars of London. She got lot more attention than me from the ladies too!!

[@chrisg9864]

If a women makes you look good, other women will follow. All hayley has to do is talk good about you behind your back.

[@Ghostrider-ul7xn]

Dude, she's a woman. The average woman gets lot more attention from women and men alike than what men get. I'm baffled to see how so many are so oblivious to this fact even in this age.

[@miner080]

Women reject men only if she does not find man sexual attractive. For women sex is the most important in relationship.

[@SunshineSuperstar]

Stupid!!!

[@eyemovie824]

i am financially broke. staying alone with a rented apartment. feeling alone all the time that's why always thinking about 'if i have any girlfriend ,who love and care me will be great'.but on the other side i am thinking at first i have to become financially free then i should invest time to try on girls. what should i do? should i first become financially free then try on girls or i should focus on both at the same time

[@andreidoanca4262]

I'm 2 minutes into this and I'm blown away by the truth spoken so far! amazing insights and thanks a lot for sharing them!

[@erielugo891]

This comes to an end when the woman starts to hit the wall. Go MGT0W!

[@somaspecialist]

After watching this....WHAT's the point of women?

[@angusgow1887]

Is this man trying to sell men a used car?

[@agentdark64]

Western society needs more guys like kevin sammuels. Look him up on youtube and his channel.

[@ryannello]

The title seems like click bait but it’s actually true facts

[@lovev8ci123]

Happy to hear a mans is not valuble.

[@teharotomohaka3901]

Yup men aren't worth fukn shit it's all in womans favour fukn bitches

[@Deeredman4]

How do I get rejected quick? I am actually really concerned about my time too. Often what I find is that I end up down this friendship rabbit hole that I don't want to be in that keeps leading to uncomfortable conversations and upset. I actually appreciate it when a woman is direct and tells me as soon as she knows that she isn't interested. I get turned down all the time. I can't afford to be friends with every girl I am interested in. On top of that; I run a business. So; how do I communicate that I'm not interested in being friends early on without looking like an asshole?

[@SunshineSuperstar]

Uh...duh!!! You ask them out on a date instead of ACTING like a friend first. Are you a fucking moron or what?

[@p0dcat]

Great video and content, really like how you guys vibe together and the flow is really good, xx

[@rascal211]

Women are far more experienced than men the same age with male/female interactions.

[@SandTguy]

It sound like Me I was out before I got started. I do not see how a guy can compete if a female has been doing all this for 20 years. Before a Guy has begon. Only the luckiest guy that is really smart will get them. Unlike someone like me being below average I have no damn chance. I know this to be true. I am in my middle 40s and never have I every had the first girlfriend or kiss. Though I have stop looking and apparently not worth anything to anybody.

[@renearredondo6145]

Hayley ! I wonder how can a man be patient make a girl fall in love with you for the long term ?I can´t get past the first stages of a relationship

[@isaiahgovea2319]

Keep gambling bro

[@thesilentknight4554]

Huh, K? True surprising story: I actually tend to attract female who grew up very privileged & have a wealthy family. Where I'm a very poor individual who has very little. Not even a car!😱🚗 My guess, because I truly am sincere & respectable & actually talk about feelings, this makes me glow like the sun. So, similar to Aladdin basically!😂😂🤗 Plus I'm not a terrible singer either😌🎤🎼

[@thrilla72]

They have money, have met plenty of men who also have and have already learnt that character is vital.

[@thomasgallegos2832]

Who really cares if she knows whether or not you've been around women like her. Wouldn't want to be with a woman like that

[@arande3]

Since it's such a loaded topic, it's very hard to think about this without self-deception. If I had to describe what I am looking for, it would be akin to listening to Odesza's album A Moment Apart for the first time. There's a special sense of depth you feel that inspires a state of wonder and awe. I do occasionally meet people who exude that depth, but typically it catches me off guard because it's so rare and I'm not expecting it, and deep down I may not be ready to embrace it. But ultimately what I'm looking for is to cultivate that sense of depth in my life.

[@SpiralDesignWorks]

So are you two dating? Two of my favorite KZbin coaches.

[@SunshineSuperstar]

They're both quite stupid to be honest...him especially.

[@KarismaKing]

The channel has a really clever angle. Good job.

[@jamie49868]

You spelt "cleavage" wrong.

[@kristiannoel4866]

10%!? I'm lucky to get 1%! :-(

[@Philippoable]

I've heard better sales pitches for womanhood truth be told.

[@anthonymercuri8885]

"women are like this because of X". It's not an excuse. It's still incredibly cruel to be so constantly judgemental toward fellow human beings. Imagine if women actually cared about other people, were actually curious about other people. I want someone I can interact with on an equal level, not someone I have to teach basic things like "how to be a decent human being to those around you". And not someone who constantly looks at me with eyes of judgement, expectation and "filtering through swathes of replaceable people"; rather than eyes of care and consideration for a fucking human being.

[@isaiahgovea2319]

Women have the privilege of having too many options. Make up your mind honey, yall's time is running out ;)

[@deangelotaylor7068]

stay mgtow and stay safe.

[@victord.4388]

Excellent video! Hayley Quinn + James Marshall = GOLD CONTENT! Thank you both for these precious insights. 😱😱👌

[@qcitizen6738]

Wait... The two people in this video AREN'T both women?

[@SunshineSuperstar]

Might as well be!

[@gunner4life568]

what an utter nonsense

[@dreal500]

You know. This is such bullshit. Too much fucking catering. So I'm supposed to wait for your ten years of pound town is over so you can come back to me after? Fuck outta here.

[@Victoria-dh9vb]

Why women reject men? Because most guys come on waaaay too hard and fast (pun only moderately intended). Not only is that a turn off for a lot of women, it's also very difficult to respond to. If you wouldn't know immediately how you would respond to what you are going to say to a woman, chances are she isn't either. And then you both are going to feel awkward and it's hard to keep anything going like that. Women love to talk, get them talking to you. It's kind of hard to figure out if you like someone if all you have to go on is "hey, you're hot".

[@kristiannoel4866]

And there was me thinking that women reject me for fun. (Rolls eyes)

[@Victoria-dh9vb]

@@kristiannoel4866 *shrug* Some might, some people just enjoy cruelty, but the majority don't feel super comfortable about it.

[@kristiannoel4866]

@@Victoria-dh9vb ok, but don't forget that how you turn a guy down affects how he sees other women. You don't know if you're the 1st, 1001st he has approached, so tact is important, or if he'll give up on women because of it which would stop the one who doesn't turn him down having a chance with him. Sisterhood and all that, Ra Ra.

[@Victoria-dh9vb]

@@kristiannoel4866 I get where you're coming from, and everyone deserves to be treated with basic human dignity. That being said, you can't really have your self worth be dependent on other people. There will always be ass holes. You can't expect or depend on other people to have your best interests at heart, because that's just not realistic. I mean, I could say the same thing about men who will say anything to get into a woman's pants, and all they are looking for is a one night stand. That's going to shape how that woman sees men, but that's really not going to change those guys' behavior. At the end of the day, the only person who is in charge of your emotional well being is you. That doesn't mean that you shouldn't invest in other people, because you definitely should. There will be amazing people in your life that will treat you well, but that is a gift and not an obligation. Just like if someone is toxic to you, or you simply don't like them, you are in no way obligated to continue to invest in them. That's why you value people who are good to you, because they don't have to be, but they choose to be anyway.

[@kristiannoel4866]

@@Victoria-dh9vb I agree. There are stereotype and double standards of behaviour for both sexes, that will always be the case. I myself have seen the worst in people, (being a soldier) but likewise I have also seen the best in people. I know people serve their own interests, whatever they think they are at the time, they are neither good nor evil.

[@isaiahgovea2319]

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[@NA-dh3dn]

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Not all men. Just average ones.

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[@rickyticky3350]

How can you get women what is your best advice? Tell us a story on how you do it to attract each girl ?

[@agentdark64]

@@rickyticky3350 He attracts women by making them believe he attracts women.

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[@aguyghow9783]

I am probably the wealthiest commenter this site will ever have, you don't have to believe but it's true .. my home sits on 40 acres .. having said this, no woman rejects me .. I reject her! .. why? .. because all dating is about money .. she want's it and if I let down my guard she'll get it .. no happy endings. The entire PUA mantra is for guys who have essentially nothing to offer, the mere fact that they roam the clubs and streets proves that they have time on their hands .. I don't .. case closed. Cold approaches, a losing proposition and a woman's instinct knows this. People meet people through friends.

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