How to make him feel he can lose me?

[@pineneedles1946]

At the end of my marriage, he said to me: " I thought you were too nice to ever leave me!" (Taken for granted)

[@barbarabuonincontro1990]

Yes I tell my daughter that all the time don't do sooo much for your boyfriend he takes you for granted. She s always there for her boyfriend.

[@whosyourdaddy4579]

Well, he'll feel it when she decides she's had enough of his attitude and leaves him!

[@danilaroche1156]

She's probably giving him 'wife' benefits too. I encourage my adult children. A boy and a girl..not to have sex until they're committed. Casual sex is destroying people emotionally & spiritually .

[@betsymendez4939]

I don't want him no more.

[@Dorothy35]

Make him fight for you. Make him be afraid of losing you. Make him feel he is not good enough and he needs to prove himself. Make him feel he doesn’t own you.

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank for your comment! I'm happy to hear your insight on this.

[@katarina1122331]

Thank you for this video Alex. My ex broke up with me a couple of weeks ago. Everything what you said it's true. My ex had a lot of problems and I always tried to do my best to make him happy. But I forgot about myself, I felt I'm not important in this relationship, I had no relation with others, because all my friends are married with children, so had nobody for going out. He has a lot of friends and a lot of weekends I spent alone, waiting for him. He dumped me and pointed my mistakes you mentioned in your video. After the breakup I have changed: lost my weight, so I'm way more attractive now, have training of martial art, meet new people, go out for concerts... And my ex reaches out to me regularly and knows I'm doing great... Girls, never do mistakes I did. Love yourself first, don't sacrifice for guys. By respecting yourself, your guys will respect you back.

[@Deew.5634]

This only has a chance of working if the man cares slightly about you in the first place. If he does not have the courage to tell you he’s not interested, your backing away, seeming to move on with life, etc. will only satisfy him. It will make his exit that much easier with no guilt. If he doesn’t care, he won’t care about you distancing him. You’ve just made his job easier. That said, it is important to let go of someone who does not appreciate you and what you have to offer. If you’re too much, let him go find less.

[@pradeepdheer6225]

Alex everytime I listen to you, I can feel how you genuinely want us ladies to value and respect ourselves. You are a great mentor😊Much love 🥰💯

[@coolcatsandthe70schick71]

He doesn't care. It's just about making money from desperate people

[@Yadi0330]

i feel the same. real af advice and you can tell he really cares for us.

[@barbarabuonincontro1990]

Yes that's true. You see how fast he moves and changes when he see that you work go out go to the gym and have friends he respects you more and does more for you. Thank you so much.

[@888RELK]

I will make him feel to lose me . I will make him fight for me and that I deserve much better. ❤️mercii

[@linsleygethrudeesley636]

Thanks Alex.... I will really make him feel that he is loosing me for good. 👍👍💯💯

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching! I hope this video helps you!

[@linsleygethrudeesley636]

@@FrenchRelationshipExpert Yes Alex it's really helping me. I feel that I'm the boss and he's scared of loosing me but I'm playing the push and pull game so it's going on well... Very much appreciate all your coaching👍👍💯🙏🙏

[@SeaViewCLEANERSMartiena-wf3im]

You are the "new guy" in my life. Goings to follow your advice, through thick and thin !!!! I HAVE TO . I am 61 and busy losing a nice man because I was too hard-up. I'm so glad I found you 🎉

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching! I hope this video was able to help you and thank you so much for the support ❤️

[@MrN6747493]

I'm watching from Papua New Guinea.

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@toscadonna]

Alex, you are so sweet to help women like you do. You’re also helping children, too, so that their fathers will love their mothers, and they won’t have broken homes.

[@MelissaKellyHerStunts]

I work in film so it was hilarious to hear you say we are not living in Hollywood

[@candydelauney6230]

Q:Yes he thinks he can take me for granted and uses me for his benefit only, not investing in the bond

[@christinemumbua656]

I've listened to you for just one week and I see results. You have helped shed light on how I see issues and I have seen positive results.

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

I'm so happy that my videos were able to help you!

[@Aila289]

When ever I feel low I watch your video

[@theobservantexcursionist9428]

I will make him feel he can lose me!

[@jenniferma]

I will make him feel that he is losing and that he's good enough for me.

[@SaystheTruth3]

Hi Alex! Ty ! I just told him that I expect more of him. He needs to carve out time for me otherwise I will find someone else that will give the world to me in which I deserve 👍

[@totorialnotaurjrjrj9613]

If it's so bloody annoying to like someone n so much hassle to b close to someone, forget it. Satisfy the masses. They r going thru more emotions than I do.

[@camehdinhobangura3396]

Yes Alex I'll make him fear to lose me

[@marywestlake6273]

Thanks Alex. Yes, I am in that situation. I will make him fear losing me.

[@ReginaKeleu-jj9cl]

Alex am from Papua New Guinea, you such a good adviser

[@MIDNIGHTMONKER]

I can’t find the 25 minute video. I clicked on it and it brings me to something else.

[@bilkisubmusa3220]

I'm Bilkisu from Nigeria. I sincerely appreciate your help and always enjoy listening to your teachings. You are doing great, God bless you for helping.

[@nakanjakoshakirah2324]

Sure I will make him fear to lose me. Thanks Alex you a great

[@michellemcnary4415]

This is spot on. Thanks Alex. This is all about bringing the best in our men.

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

I'm always happy to help!

[@deloresmcray602]

Alex, I will make him feel he's losing me!

[@enoguoghojoy1340]

I like the way you DELIVERED this topic I pulled away and now he is worried.

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

I'm always happy to help!

[@cindicook3409]

You give great advice Alex!! Fantastique!!

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching! I deeply appreciate this!

[@daughterofzion2229]

Thank you so much l will make him feel he can lose me.

[@ProJadaBeverly12]

Not anymore....Im not expecting this behavior from him anymore, I'm done. He messed up on this, the whole four months we built, gone. I deserve so much better.

[@LeocardiaMbulaf]

Thank you Alex. I did and he has loosed me. It will take alot for him to get me back for sure

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Love this mindset!

[@dimaawad7725]

Alex I will make him feel he is not good enough! I will make him feel he can loose me!!

[@dimaawad7725]

We love advises because they are PRACTICALLLL and its the REALITY!!! Thank you so much

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

I'm always happy to help!

[@maggiewanjiru2807]

Yea Alex. How ever, when he feels like that, you can't make him feel any other way cos he doesn't want to.

[@deloresmcray602]

Thank you so much Alex for helping ladies be strong and independent in dealing with men. You have taught me so much!! I appreciate you ❤

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for the support! I truly appreciate this!

[@annamariaseammen8265]

Alex I'll make him think he will loose me thank you

[@daisytimothy8031]

Love this

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@mariesaint-franc3350]

Each other respect one another love not rude, love is not bullied, love is not fight, love is a respect

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thanks for watching!

[@naomibandy6707]

Alex i promise I will make him feel it

[@suparnasingha3534]

Alex , your way of talking makes me confident 💛

[@eunicemicere7163]

You've really shaped my love life Alex. May God bless you with more knowledge and wisdom 🙏

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

That's amazing to hear! The work was all on you, Eunice! 😊

[@VeronicaMurray-ki9ec]

Thank you, this information is priceless. I really to hear this. No more Walt Disney

[@thereseanderson2512]

Thank u soooo much! Yes it is a scary thing to admit he possibly losing me and i losing him, but that is reality. We only have one life. There are so many ways for that to happen. Him finding someone; i finding someone; taking up something that takes us somewhere far away; death; accidentally losing communication. Everyday he isn't in my life is a day he will miss forever. I hear relationship requires work in order to succeed. If he isn't willing to try hard enough, it isn't gonna happen no matter what he says he feels.

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

You're right Therese!

[@alegnavblack]

Alex, you are the best. Happy holidays 🎄💫

[@lorettawilson9160]

I really love your videos alex I watch all of them I have learned so much from you thanks again you the best 😘

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching my videos! I'm always happy to help!

[@truthwithsandy]

My perception changed today... Thank you so much❤

[@KristinaWSvik]

Grazie mille😘Kristina,Revello,Piemonte

[@ambercockcroft9801]

I’ve started doing a course, so I’ve not got much time for him at the moment. I’m now concentrating on me, no more doing his house work, no more cooking for him, no more chasing him. He knows where I am if he wants me.

[@iamvyvaciousxvyvaciousx9779]

You’re not his maid and not his cook. You’re the Prize. If he doesn’t treat you like the Goddess you are ignore his calls/texts… don’t be available. If he cares for you he’ll start to worry that you are seeing someone else and someone with more money than him. Have some mystery about yourself. Don’t tell a man everything about yourself when the relationship is new. My boyfriend told me I’m too busy for him and asks if I’m seeing someone. 😊 Don’t text or call him constantly or too much you will look thirsty and needy. Always look gorgeous every time you leave your house. Your Nails are done, you have a pedicure your makeup and hair is beautiful. Change up your looks frequently… the same hair is boring… experiment with different looks by wearing pretty wigs. Most importantly always look and be feminine wearing pastel monochromatic colored outfits (not abstract patterns) wear high heels or sandals in summer/spring and knee high boots in the fall but not sneakers unless you’re working out. Be classy feminine (not trashy) and seductive, flirt with him (eye contact) remember ladies our femininity is our power! My Ex messed up and is stalking and begging me for another chance today (never again he’s done). Don’t be a yes woman all the time… make him earn your love. You’re the Prize not him. Alex is spot on. Listen to Alex ladies. Alex thank you, you’re amazing! Love, Peace and happiness to you!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💙💙

[@shirleyzimmer3236]

Hi from Hawaiian islands. Your videos became a part of my daily routine. Thank you for sharing. You are the best! I love your accent.

[@wendyali1744]

Thankyou you are right Wendy from Scotland x

[@Micallef27]

Alex, this video was shaky.All my previous experiences ended up in the same way for not being what you just taught me today. Thank you. I can't wait to apply one in one all your teachings. 🤗

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

I'm always happy to help!

[@coolcatsandthe70schick71]

@@FrenchRelationshipExpert you don't really help. You just say common sense stuff that all normal women are already doing. What do you charge for? You get Ex back course was a waste of money. Maybe it will get a French guy interested but not a native English speaker. No way! That long boring letter you suggest to write at the end of your course was embarrassing actually. No guy would come back after reading that and no self-respecting woman would write that haha. Also when you say 'Smash the Likes button' and 'destroy it' sounds nasty and disgusting. It has sexual connotations and it's not good. You need lessons in English to know what NOT to use. Seriously

[@sedakuday610]

@@coolcatsandthe70schick71 such a disrespectful comment.I shall report it under cyber harassment act. @alex: FYI.

[@munahamza3336]

Alex u ar best coach I've never seen thank u

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for your support, Muna!

[@rosechapa5629]

Thank you Alex!!! ♥️🙏 I will make him feel to lose me And make him feel not good enough (ha) love this!

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Yes rose!

[@AgnesAquelia]

Hi Alex I am agnes aquelia from the Philippines. I love your advice. I always watch your video

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate your support!

[@mariesaint-franc3350]

Thank you Alex for advice God bless you

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thanks for watching! I appreciate your support!

[@Tricywana8899]

Thanks 🙏 for your help! Men are just jokers sometimes. Greetings 🖖 from Australia 🇦🇺

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

I'm always happy to help!

[@herstory1012]

From London. Great tips....thanks!

[@marialorenarevilla5509]

Hi sir Alex,thanks for all this tips..i realized now that he don't want to lose me😁. Thank u so much sir, always grateful to watch all your videos. Watching from Qatar

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

I'm always happy to help! Thank you so much for watching my videos!

[@eftipsa]

Exactly like that!he is never good enough...

[@summersky7824]

Thank you for all your amazing advice Alex! I appreciate you! Warm Regards, from Cape Town, South Africa🌍🇿🇦🤗

[@VanessaWJ007]

Thank you so much Alex

[@monicawylie3985]

Thank you so much for this. This is what I needed to hear

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

I'm always happy to help Monica!

[@arathinath6334]

Thank you, Alex, I really needed to hear this right now!!❤️ Love from NYC!

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

I'n always happy to help!

[@Bksachpay4031]

I would love to befriend u. I am an Indian girl. Really interested to hv an American (female) friend. ♥️

[@annlaughren9060]

It's same for husband to miss his wife, He love learning on computer about health, he science minded. I agree

[@cheapcrossiant898]

I just found out i am pregnant and he is taking me for granted.

[@hildatizeba5741]

This video is GOLD!!!

[@chie77865]

I just lost somene, Omg i fell in love with you couch Alex made me big smile

[@albertinachikonde2802]

Thank you so much for the word of encouragement.... 💪💪💪💪Your English is okay Alex . Merci 🙌🏻

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

You're always welcome!

[@Meyouletsgo]

I agree distance doesn’t help much !

[@hinashah9256]

Yes I will make him fear losing me!

[@bayot3561]

I had a crush on you Mr. French Man. Love all your Love/Relationship advices. I need to hear this and will apply this to my bf hehe.. im from Philippines 🇵🇭 currently in India 🇮🇳 ..

[@Calida2308]

We are in a lockdown nearly 2 years.. I can't even go to gym. I don't enjoy every single moment.

[@mariesaint-franc3350]

You speak English good Alex i am very enderstand you so much take care

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@dorothystewart5138]

Thank you so much

[@Aila289]

Love you alex you give us courage

[@sumintraramkissoon3701]

Thank you

[@lailaansari7293]

Aaah Alex how right you are...and it's misery...why do we do it? Your advice is really genuinely true.... you really are like a friend, un amie.. thank you soo much....greetings from BC Canada 🇨🇦

[@Khanyi-d5t]

Much Love from SA

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for your support! I appreciate you!

[@kendalljennerfp4520]

You are the best at explaining! I will be here everyday. Can you tell us how 2nd chances work? And how to handle it. Please im dying of pain. I want to forgive this person but i hate what he did.

[@juanitagonzalez8333]

You are awesome🎉

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much!

[@mariesaint-franc3350]

Amen good idea Alex

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@marqueaimorris7333]

Your words are very helpful.....❤️❤️

[@juliaazoulay2619]

Im in the same situation. Im from israel,i am listening. Thank you

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for your support!

[@juliaazoulay2619]

I can ask a question? My boyfriend send me messages, i dont know how to unswer him. Should i tell him that i dont want him ,not the he is now . 8 years together.

[@chidinmaodunukwe9628]

thamks alex,am from nigeria

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

thank you so much for watching!

[@nadiaafrinmeherin2075]

I love it alex.. U r the best❤️

[@eagle7396]

I will make him feel he isn’t good enough for me. He will fight for me

[@pat2398]

Another great video…!!!🤩

[@LisaBurke-g2p]

Alex I am a widow this is all new to me

[@sept2866]

Great advice!

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@Shaminalasbin]

Love from INDIA

[@user-yk9sk7pg6v]

Thanks Alex

[@lyubomirafashion]

God bless you, you are really my Best friend 🤗🙏🕊️👊💪

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for your support!

[@barbaratominac925]

Hello from Chicago

[@kimberlywright2049]

Yes my on and off man keeps doing these things and more that I can't say on here to much to type he keeps doing these to me

[@ElfPH]

Hello Sir Alex, i am married to a canadian. He is a very sweet man, thoughtful and generous. We have been married for 2 years and since dec 2019. We are not able to live together because of the pandemic. At first he is okay if ill work here at Philippines then he dont want me to, he supports me financially because i dont have work but as things go by he starts being controlling. He rarely admit his mistakes and always slaps me with mine. He screams at me whenever he lost his temper.

[@teriballa6282]

Please try to find a work .If he treat you bad leave him he will never change .

[@brendyshay]

I will make him fear to lose me..i made a serious mistake with mi past relationship but now no no no more!!

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

I love this mindset! Let me know if you have any question?

[@airishdelfin6392]

thank you coach ❤

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for your response and your comment!