He was certain he found the one, but this happens all the time here (beware)

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@ChadFosterExplores 4 ай бұрын

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@rod1147 3 ай бұрын

23 is too old, a red flag

@sn0wolf 4 ай бұрын

until you can be there full time you are only ever temporary.

@ExpatNTraining 4 ай бұрын

As the ancient Eastern saying goes, “Stop trying to steer the river”. Enjoy the journey and for Gods Sakes don't allow a piece of patch to control YOUR dreams and wreak havoc on your serenity.

@garyzies3486 4 ай бұрын

Dating in the Philippines has changed drastically in the past few years. Many foreigners have flooded into the Philippines and competition for a potential partner has become much harder. In the past, Filipinas had limited options when it comes to dating foreigners. Social Media, dating apps, y**tube promotion and LDR's have changed that dramatically. Filipinas have become aware of their value and are enjoying all the attention they're getting. They're making the best of it while many foreigners are finding out that the "traditional Filipina" is quickly becoming a thing of the past.

@Rebewfloda 3 ай бұрын

Money can change the character 🎉🎉😂😂

@kristinhannah001 3 ай бұрын

Let's just say : As the Philippine economy continues to improve, why would you allow youself to suffer by dating an aging man?

@tomjeffersonwasright2288 4 ай бұрын

As a seaman who has long experience with Eastern women and their values, I cannot believe how naive these old guys are. Young women are not hot for an aged guy and his aged body. They want the things he can do for them. Many live their lives like an auction, and it is easy to get outbid. In their defense, they know that the youthful flower of their beauty will not last forever, and they are eager for a commitment NOW, before they begin to fade. . They have seen too many expats come and go and never return to commit to one who is not with them right now. One of the big differences between men and women, is that to most women, physical presence is much more important

@youngandfree93 3 ай бұрын

It's better to be with a partner within 5 years age. Similar way of life, more in common. I am a Millennial and I have no interest in older folks either. Not in a relationship sense that is. Just as a friend

@rod1147 3 ай бұрын

@jacked6 that ideal age gap is outdated. The new dating dynamics has evolved BACKWARDS and greater age gaps just makes more sense (particularly in the west) mainly due to large financial contrasts in men and women. ie broke women want men with higher earning potential. Unfortunately this leaves most average men with lower earning in the dark and alone.

@youngandfree93 3 ай бұрын

@@rod1147 common seriously women now make just as much as men do in many countries. That also includes places like Japan and South Korea where I lived for several years. There is no reason or incentive so be with an old person if you still have a lot of life ahead of you. You can't expect money to help pay them off to see you. Most in my Millennial age bracket have Millennial partners too and starting families. That's just how it goes. Older folks are like invisible to us in an attractive sense. If I had an old partner they would become more of a burden than an asset once their health declines. That's just life.

@rod1147 3 ай бұрын

@@youngandfree93 I meant larger age gaps are slowly becoming more and more acceptable in the west (ie albeit transactional and even pay for play) Also more single women are owning homes in America than single men, and these women will forever be single. And that's why birth rates are declining in Japan. As a millennial I've dated gen z women and that dynamic seems to work the best because we need eachother the most in these stages in life, this is assuming her family isn't nuclear and wealthy and has a permanent parachute for life, most families are not unfortunately.

@youngandfree93 3 ай бұрын

@@rod1147 I really believe it's quite the opposite considering it is so easy to find partners now of age brackets alike unlike the old days. I can't even imagine being like 15 to 20 years older or even more. I mean why bother? Imagine going over to their home with all her like minded friends her age around, you the only old guy maybe even as old as her parents. Crazy uncomfortable. I almost love it when I hear old guys losing everything and money to these young ones. Well deserved.

@richardclausen154 4 ай бұрын

I was wondering her age, and it is no wonder why she was not ready. Moreover, his expectations were unrealistic to think a cute young female with unlimited options would be willing to settle, while in her prime riding the carousel with male validation and attention nonstop. A Province girl has its own pitfalls. Importing a partner from another country is very difficult for any girl younger than 35, and or a handful of kids to keep her busy and out of trouble. Female nature is universal, and without family/ society/ religion to keep them in check, they can end up just like females in the West. Lastly, LDRs never work if she still has options. My words may sound harsh, but I speak with 25 years of overseas dating and relationships under my belt, and from 12 different countries. I gave up, until now since I am about to retire, and will be moving to the Phil’s permanently. The only way I will put time into a serious relationship. Hope this helps .

@tonymars1093 4 ай бұрын

I totally agree with you.

@garyzies3486 4 ай бұрын

I agree 100%. Most Filipinas have unlimited options now, thanks to social media, internet and dating apps. There are plenty of foreigners arriving daily, happy to steal your "traditional Filipina".

@richardclausen154 4 ай бұрын

@@garyzies3486 Very true! Internet has ruined traditional relationship standards. Not just Filipinas but ALL females, as there are too many options available to them. Thai girls, it’s even worse. Thank you for sharing your words of wisdom with the brothers.

@richardclausen154 4 ай бұрын

@@tonymars1093 thank you for sharing. I was hoping some white knight would challenge this notion, but good to see men who now understand the bigger picture.

@garyzies3486 4 ай бұрын

@@richardclausen154 I've been traveling SE Asia extensively. I have a story or two to tell 🤣😆🤣😆

@franciscoaguilar123 4 ай бұрын

This is a common theme and its just not the Philippines. When women have infinite choices online and 50 guys willing to chat with them this is what happens. The large Passport Bro movement has just made this problem 2x or 3x worse than it used to be.

@garyzies3486 4 ай бұрын

Men are fleeing the West in droves, bringing problems to places where it never existed before.

@roadwarrior528 3 ай бұрын

Don't blame the men. Blame the women. Just because they have more options doesn't mean they should be leading anyone on or lying to them.

@benyosep5640 3 ай бұрын

Fear of the BBC! 😂

@RandallGlatt 4 ай бұрын

Had he stayed there, he might still be with her. Went back to Canada she wants someone that's going to be there long term...

@clrodrick 4 ай бұрын

Agreed!! I have noticed that happen again and again, the guys leaves to go home and the lady eventually meets someone else to be with

@jamesteele5726 4 ай бұрын

@@clrodrick Yup, and they have a lot of men to choose from, foreign and local.

@billyjohnson9166 4 ай бұрын

Exactly

@garrylafferty100 4 ай бұрын

Most filipina don't want to leave their country family

@jamesteele5726 4 ай бұрын

If she has dated foreigners before she probably thought he is not coming back. So many of them think that, because so many of us do not come back. Kinda happened to me too. Next time I go, I will not be coming back to USA. I will not even look for a girl until I'm there again.

@ChadFosterExplores 4 ай бұрын

Yeah definitely ...I know that's the case for many. He is actually pretty set on coming back.

@tonymars1093 4 ай бұрын

Yes, you have to realize the Filipinas have been scammed many times too in a lot of cases. From guys who are sexpats to guys who come, make big promises and don’t return. So don’t judge them so harshly. The smartest thing to do is to not go on dating sites until you are in country. Then tour the country a little bit and decide what you want. My recommendation is province girl all the way. If you then leave to return to your home country you probably need to return and make the trip long enough to make sure you found the girl of your dreams. Being sure and vetting her is important and worth it when you are talking marriage.

@botaka54 4 ай бұрын

As the Eagles once sang......city girls seem to find out early, how to open doors with a smile.....

@tryscience 3 ай бұрын

not a happy song.

@napoleonmdusa8877 4 ай бұрын

It's very simple--she didn't want to be in an LDR. Foreigners living there would be able to be in a relationship with her full time.

@graceheartycook 3 ай бұрын

Chatting man online it does not mean that woman cannot be trusted. She just searching for the real man to love her and acceot her for what she is. Lots of foreigner also keep promising to a filipina women

@ChadFosterExplores 3 ай бұрын

Yes I completely agree with you.

@stevedoyon1833 4 ай бұрын

Chad, Agree with your advice and commentary. I joined Christian Filipina before seeing your video and focused on Filipinas 35-45 since I’m 52 and retired. I see too many minefields with a 20 something year old for me. Others can do what they want, I don’t judge. I’ve been communicating with a 37 yr old for several months, from the province area who worked overseas several years, taking care of her father and feel comfortable with the decision to communicate with her but I won’t know how the relationship proceeds until I visit this summer. I spent 25 yrs interviewing and interrogating suspects and online dating is easy to get manipulated and lied too. I ran across a few scammers and it took me several days to figure it out. So men out there have to almost be trained to identify the red flags. The fact that these women are a 10 can cloud our judgement. Keep chasing your dream.

@garyzies3486 4 ай бұрын

LDR online dating used to work fairly well in the distant past. Nowadays, it has become a platform for scammers, freelancers and gold-diggers.

@Matthew-gz4oh 4 ай бұрын

Great on point video as always, and the selection process is much harder than people realize. Most Filipina's do not fall in love quickly, although they will say they love you. They love the idea of a lifetime love, but will trade you up in a heart beat if a better option comes along. Online dating apps have made trade up easy, and its destroying relationships. You have to live and be here to find the right girl most likely, and if you want a girl like her focus on metro areas 250k population or smaller,

@ChadFosterExplores 4 ай бұрын

Well said, thanks 🙏

@tryscience 3 ай бұрын

it's easy to test a Filipina with a handsome guy friend (preferably who is already married with kids and devoted to his family).

@rod1147 3 ай бұрын

Great video, but in her defense he abandoned her for 2 months?!? of course shes gonna keep her options open because for all she knows, she only has a promise to marry her but then he leaves her COUNTRY?? Get real. Yea that's how lots of "chicks boy" play the game of promising a future and marriage in her past experience with forgn playboys. Shes probably not a bad person and would have actually married him had he not left her. You dont leave the COUNTRY the love of your life is in especially in the early stages. Hes kinda a fool imo. If you cant afford to stay in the country then stop looking for a wife lol

@ChadFosterExplores 3 ай бұрын

He lives in Canada this was a long distance relationship he came only for the amount of time he could take off work and wanted to come back and see her again as soon as he could. He also found out recently that she lied and had other guys she was planning vacations with while they were together. This type of thing is somewhat common with Filipinas that have foreigner dating experience and exposure to meeting more foreigners easily, they likely love the attention and the free vacations. It's really hard to do long distance relationships with them once you are back in your country they move on to someone else

@HandleMitCare 4 ай бұрын

Its just a business transaction. Women are insatiable everywhere. They get bored because of hypergamy, fantasy and a burning desire for drama and chaos. Loyalty and devotion is fluid and fleeting. Do not be deceived with actresses putting on an act. Stability, consistency, predictability(trust) and peace are boring to them.

@jsully4064 4 ай бұрын

@HandleMitCare Do not agree, although you can apply this description to a lot of the girls in the Philippines, there are plenty of good women to find in the Philippines that are not actresses.

@HandleMitCare 4 ай бұрын

@@jsully4064 I am sure that might be, but how can you discern which are acting or not?

@jsully4064 4 ай бұрын

@@HandleMitCare Well for one find a girl who works to help support her family, if she has sibling that help support the family even better. Actresses won't ask you for money if they have a job. Good Filipinas are too proud to ask for money imho.

@scalper68 4 ай бұрын

You watch too much fresh and fit.

@josephbranch2342 4 ай бұрын

Especially with social media.

@stephenbreslin6859 3 ай бұрын

Right on, on all that experience & wisdom. Only ignoramuses can fail to agree.😊

@spiralings 2 ай бұрын

Thanks for the honesty!

@PhilippinesMyParadise 4 ай бұрын

Another interesting video! Full support as always! Good luck and all the best/Ned 👍👍

@ChadFosterExplores 4 ай бұрын

Thanks 🙏 really appreciate it

@shanelouro3761 4 ай бұрын

Province girls are best hands down. You get the right one and you will know the inexperience to me is how I knew and what I fell in love with when I met my Filipina.

@0SLiDeR0 4 ай бұрын

I hope your friend doesn't give up, and tries again to find his filipina. It will be worth it in the end, when he finally finds her. It took those experiences to figure things out, now he is wiser. Best of luck to him, and all the guys who dream of a filipina woman as their wife.

@ChadFosterExplores 4 ай бұрын

Thanks! yeah he's feeling optimistic again and going to try again

@tkltkl9075 4 ай бұрын

Thx Chad,...this is good advice & insight...keep it coming, learning lots from you and your experiences. As I prep for my own move internationally ((still deciding between Vietnam vs. Philippines)) I find this type of info invaluable. Appreciate your effort...be safe.

@attadeal3130 4 ай бұрын

It’s not that there was no red flags it’s that he was color blind from the start. Did she her mom cousins and sister on the first date? Probably not. Did u visit her house or community? Probably not. If it’s just u and her then there are no u in her future.

@amigo2k10 4 ай бұрын

I just went through a heart break with a Philippina when she found out that I was with another Philippina I let her down and I feel like a piece of garbage she was a single mom but I was her second I'm really hurting over this

@edprobe4707 4 ай бұрын

I've always believed that when you go out looking for love.... red flags are often ignored. This goes for both men and women. Dating sites are mostly to blame for this. Not a great way to meet.

@maypupa4840 4 ай бұрын

If a man having hard time to find a woman to be with him for ever it seem goes with a woman. It's hard to find a man who can be trusted. Who support a woman's dreams and aspirations in life. Man and woman should be partner and not taking advantage of each other weaknesses. Support with one another that is how a relationship works. Willing to comprise because at the end day, it's COMPROMISE that will move us along 😊.

@jsully4064 4 ай бұрын

Thanks for the video, yes it does take some time to find the right girl in the Philippines. It's not that easy...lol. Watch for red flags. Most good Filipinas will want to talk to you all the time if you are chatting online. If not they may have other foreigners on the hook. Lots of things to watch out for. No one Filipina is perfect as neither are any of us. Good video and a good reminder for all, Chad...Jim

@ChadFosterExplores 4 ай бұрын

Well said... Thanks I appreciate it 🙏

@Ytorisv 4 ай бұрын

Talk to you all the time😒😬....that is clingy, weird and annoying. Its a NO, for me.

@jsully4064 4 ай бұрын

@@Ytorisv Said they will want to talk to you all the time. What you do is up to you.

@Ytorisv 4 ай бұрын

@@jsully4064 Um yuh👍

@stupadass6989 4 ай бұрын

Don't bring your Filipina to Canada ! I fled Canada ! Just too expensive now .. Rents have doubled and inflation rampart . Best for her to stay in the Philippines with her family and friends , find a foreigner with an income or pension and have a good life . My Filipina is happy and so am I . Gary from Canada ....

@ChadFosterExplores 4 ай бұрын

I agree it's out of control there

@Ytorisv 4 ай бұрын

Leave her at home, I agree.

@garrylafferty100 4 ай бұрын

The question is where is her heart if it in Philippines dont bring her to west been there done it don't matter what you want it what she wants. The west cant change her unless she want that of course she has to grow .Yes it cost a lot more money for a better life that means nothing to her if she dont want to be there. This girls probably never wanted to leave her country most don't if he said he was moving to her country outcome may be different.

@salmonjackson4448 4 ай бұрын

That's not an option for everybody. Some people cannot live permanently in the Philippines, or any other country. I feel like that's all I hear...don't bring her to Canada, don't bring her to the US. That's my only option...so I wish I could hear someone say something positive on that note. Honestly if you bring your girl back to the US and she turns into a "woke boss bitch", then you probably picked the wrong girl.

@algodro 4 ай бұрын

Canada is DEAD !! Don't move here 😉

@gowithin9451 4 ай бұрын

WEAK men lacking love with the power of money MEETS Smart girl who knows she will never be poor again EQUALS business transaction (NOT ALL). As long as both parties are happy and content, I see nothing wrong with this type of relationship and I find myself jealous at time. LOL

@gemmaleandado 3 ай бұрын

Now a days its difficult to figure what really happened ,to me its the opposite its my ex. I thought were good and end up together, but we can't control everything people changed, and in the first place why some guy come to someones life and that person invest her feelings with a good heart and good intentions and at the end he just broke up with her.

@stevencohen5494 4 ай бұрын

Chad, the Philippines nursing schooling is very much equal to that of the US and Canada when your sweet loving Filipina gets here first she will get westernized and second as a nurse in Canada she will be making about $100,000 a year with overtime. If that isn’t a train wreck in the making, then what is. My LDR is I know on line and on tictoc (which I hate and has already caused some tension between us) and as much as I really feel for her I am ready for both the best and the worst when we meet later this year. As an older dude with a wide age gap between us I guess I’m pretty cynical. Also there is a significant language barrier that you have to factor in many cases. I’m a bit different than most guys as I have been to the Philippines 5 times. But I’m ready for a rocky road.

@traceanthony 4 ай бұрын

Dude got a sweet situationship and a drama-free exit after months of rearranging her guts and he's sad about it. Sad.

@tryscience 3 ай бұрын

lol smh

@dave_in_florida 4 ай бұрын

As an older man, I would seek a Filipino with a child as that will anchor her down, and if you can tolerate the two of them, that’s a good solution

@youngandfree93 3 ай бұрын

She could still bolt for a younger guy

@Kthomasritchie 3 ай бұрын

@@youngandfree93 A younger guy is less stable - maturity and financially.

@youngandfree93 3 ай бұрын

@@Kthomasritchie times change. Many skilled younger digital nomads around making way more than pensioners. On top of that way more in common, better physical shape, appearance wise, and so on. Older people become a burden as their health goes down. Nothing in common. In South Korea younger women prefer being single than be with an oldie taking up their time. No shame in getting old but delusional creeps in fast amongst the elderly. They zero competition for the Gen Z or Millennial alpha.

@leonardclanton4829 4 ай бұрын

From all the research and KZbinrs and bloggers, I’ve watched over the last 10 or 11 months one of the worst things you can do is take the Filipina out of her country to live somewhere else. I’m sure it can work occasionally, but in most cases, everybody says it would be OK to visit your family in your country, but don’t live anywhere but in the Philippines with your Filipinato have a successful relationship

@garyzies3486 4 ай бұрын

That strategy is not as safe as it used to be. The girls have tons of options to trade up in their own country now.

@jamesnichols2511 4 ай бұрын

interesting facts. so many guys think with their small brain and get in trouble before they know it. I'm coming to Cebu from Texas in feb and plan on living there for many years. I recently checked out Christian Filipina, just curious, and my son and Filipina daughter in-law just about had a cow over it. They said not to get involved with any Filipina's until after I've been in the Philippines at least 6 months. I assured them I was only curious, not serious. besides, I'll be 75 when I get there. I'm not worried about dating, I'm there to just enjoy the beautiful people and the land. If I get a companion, it'll be a cat. I'm a cat lover.

@garrylafferty100 4 ай бұрын

sir you will lose sleep cat fights all night as you try to sleep lol

@franky3231 4 ай бұрын

I guess one of the issues with most younger foreigners is income. They are still working, not retired and they can't stay. They have to come for short visits and leave and sometimes plan for bringing the girl back to their country which is a big issue on its own. Leaving the girl for long periods of time as we all heard it many times is not ideal either because they just go meet someone else who is there now.

@youngandfree93 3 ай бұрын

Many young people work remotely now and good incomes. It's not like it used to be per pandemic. Younger guys definitely are the cream of the crop in the dating pool.

@bareski22 4 ай бұрын

Im the most blessed on Facebook. Over 3800 yummy pinay. Then one day hello from the most sincere reliable loving caring do right province girl ofw in China. Impossible to ignore here no way. Its been 10 yrs now.she loves me with every bone in here body. Its called DEEP LOVE. Times have changed to Chads point .

@BeeboiZam 4 ай бұрын

Basically, in 2024, the dating market is savagely becoming efficient globally. I mean a 40 year old trying to lock down a prime aged 23 year old girl…gotta have your game on lock.

@ChadFosterExplores 4 ай бұрын

True especially when the girl lives in an area with lots of dating options right there

@jasona5806 3 ай бұрын

Does anyone know the level of difficulty for a Filipina to get a 30 day visa to Canada?

@ziaali5264 4 ай бұрын

They all change. No woman is worthed you commit yourself to her all your life ..... . Period .. so just live your life and have fun and always be suspicious.. sorry, this is reality

@siriousga 4 ай бұрын

Show us the volcano. How is the eruption? Stay safe.

@davidkaiser810 4 ай бұрын

Hey Chad, what ever happened to the motorcycle trip that you and carefree chris were so excited to go on? That lasted about a week and we never heard from you guys together again...

@raiderr3d 4 ай бұрын

Careless chris is all talk. One inconvenience, or if things doesn’t go his way/plan. He’d leave your @$$. He has OCD and very sensitive. As mentioned from chad’s previous video regarding his sensitivity issue. Try going on a trip w him and you’ll see🤣

@ChadFosterExplores 4 ай бұрын

We ended up going in separate directions but we chatted about that prior that things could come up that would steer us this way or that way. I ended up traveling around leyte and biliran for 3 months. Mainly Biliran I love it there, southern leyte as well. The Mindanao portion will come after returning from a family visit.

@thebigcheese6606 4 ай бұрын

Great video. Maybe concentrate on the one at hand and not the ones in the bush.

@Flymike53 4 ай бұрын

My experience is in the province the morals are pretty basic, if you’re not there and others are they will go with that. Remember a lot of the bargirls etc come from the province. That doesn’t make them bad necessarily but realise the culture is different and the day to day mentality I think can apply to dating also. Not saying all but I think it’s pretty common.

@Eric-qm5xw 4 ай бұрын

Guys only date province girls as they are the hanging fruit. The province Filipina really are very different from the modern city girls ..I’ve dated all types and the province girls have little class.

@DH-wr7rw 4 ай бұрын

If you're not in country giving it to her someone else will be. These girls don't do "alone". It ain't in their vocabulary.

@Eric-qm5xw 4 ай бұрын

@@DH-wr7rw A quality Filipina committed does not cheat ..that’s my experience. Especially if she knows she knows she’s got a good guy.

@garyzies3486 4 ай бұрын

Same goes for Thailand. The majority of bargirls are from the provinces. That's where poverty is highest and the need for quick money is greatest.

@Eric-qm5xw 4 ай бұрын

@@garyzies3486 and as well seen as a cash cow for their respective families..life can be very cruel.

@anthonycataldo1291 4 ай бұрын

Hope my LDR GF works out. I am 66 and she is 57, so quite a different fact pattern. I arrive to stay on July 18.

@garyzies3486 4 ай бұрын

At 57, you don't have a lot of competition to worry about 🙂

@anthonycataldo1291 4 ай бұрын

@@garyzies3486 Yup. Reall glad so many are focused on the youngsters. 8)

@youngandfree93 3 ай бұрын

@@anthonycataldo1291you'd be surprised though

@graceheartycook 3 ай бұрын

Dont generalize everything.

@ChadFosterExplores 3 ай бұрын

I actually specified in the video that I was only trying to make a point to help people understand common things. I always let everyone know that everyone is different but some things are more common than others. Over time you start to see certain trends.

@tor3672 4 ай бұрын

You have to date for a while, i would think if you loose contact hard to Get a hold of, excuses about being busy, i guess that speeks for itself😮

@Re3iRtH 4 ай бұрын

My limit is if the girl has dated 0-1 foreigners. Any more than that, NEXT. Yuge red flag. Why do guys keep getting into relationships with foreigner hunters?

@samuelmendoza8585 4 ай бұрын

Chad I thought YOU the were one who would give us a province adventure report with Filipinas so we could vicariously compare what the difference is?

@billyjohnson9166 4 ай бұрын

Smart girl. He wasn’t her type

@JohnArbuckle-tz9rg 4 ай бұрын

That doesn't give her a reason to lie and cheat on a genuine guy. She could have been honest and just break up with him.

@Mikewilliams728-v5z 4 ай бұрын

I'm surprised I've never heard of a foreigner getting revenge after being badly scamed by a Filipina.

@murrmjmacasero4596 4 ай бұрын

Some foreigners got their revenge by reporting it to a senator Tulfo and they got their money back as well as being humiliated in public

@cryptorocketeer 4 ай бұрын

Oh I'm first for a change 😅

@Jonathan-L 4 ай бұрын

I decided to wait and let you go ahead of me :)

@joebloe4374 4 ай бұрын

Just wait 5 minutes He wilk meet another one They are like buses 😊

@nelsonsack2694 4 ай бұрын

You didn’t tell us the age. That makes a difference.

@ChadFosterExplores 4 ай бұрын

Yeah my bad he is 40 and she is 23

@ChadFosterExplores 4 ай бұрын

Yeah my bad he is 40 and she is 23

@Gurkha9 4 ай бұрын

@@ChadFosterExplores Too young to know what they really want at that age, generally speaking, but that's what many tend to go for

@youngandfree93 3 ай бұрын

I am near his age. Honestly our sweet spot should be 35 to 45. Definitely not 23

@mikevaldez4895 4 ай бұрын

this happens you get a experience Filipina. there a lot girls in the province but those girls you have stayed with her and see if you really want that person but if you go through a dating app then those are looking security or father for children.

@ShikokuFoodForest 4 ай бұрын

Hi Chad. How’s your personal experience in the Philippines in terms of meeting someone for a committed relationship? The experience your friend had must have been a big let down and overall major disappointment. I guess it was obviously not meant to be. I haven’t had first-hand experience in the Philippines, but relationships can fizzled out for many different reasons anywhere. I’m not expecting it to be easy at all meeting a Filipina I’m compatible with for a long-term relationship in the future there. Of course we know you are generalizing. There are always exceptions and differences.

@Eric-qm5xw 4 ай бұрын

Most peoples want to date up…Filipina are no exception. The foreigners that come to the phil’s are often happy to date the poor girls, it’s a symbiotic relationship but can definitely work out. But when your in say locations like Duma, you will be dating a certain demographic. I personally found these young poorer girls are not my vibe. The generational and cultural difference is huge ..but guys ego’s are swayed by the nubile poor girls. Most foreigners cannot date the quality professional Filipina as their dating criteria are very different …

@ShikokuFoodForest 4 ай бұрын

@@Eric-qm5xw I can only imagine the generational, cultural and other differences could very well be insurmountable preventing a deep, meaningful relationship, yet I suppose in some cases opposites actually attract. I have no idea if it could work for me, but at least I have an open mind at the moment. I’m certainly not expecting to easily find the ideal province girl/woman quickly.

@Eric-qm5xw 4 ай бұрын

@@ShikokuFoodForest Good luck to ya..for sure there are certainly some very attractive women here. Gyms are a great place to meet the ladies ..Filipina are very much getting into the gym now.

@ShikokuFoodForest 4 ай бұрын

@@Eric-qm5xw Hi Eric, I’m definitely into health and fitness being a regular gym goer for decades - and still am here in Japan. Great to hear Filipinas are getting into going to the gym now. I’ll be certainly looking to join a decent gym right away, so it would be great to meet some women at the gym. I hope they are much more approachable at the gyms there, since approaching women at gyms in N. America and even in Japan is pretty much a guaranteed rejection (and I’m tall, athletic, financially independent, outgoing, good at conversation, etc., but women seem to always be holding out for their vision of the ‘ideal’ man fitting into the top 5% of available single men). I stopped even approaching women years ago. It will be interesting to see if the Philippines is different.

@Eric-qm5xw 4 ай бұрын

@@ShikokuFoodForest Most Filipina are approachable although dodgy to approach while training unless done in a smooth way lol. I’m off the market as i have a fiancé ..but for sure there’s lots of opportunity especially if ya have a base and there’s a college nearby or large banks etc etc all the best .

@Lawrencerice 4 ай бұрын

That is the big problem with online dating, especially here in the Philippines. It's like going from the kiddie pool to swimming with the sharks... and they are maneaters! I have never tried the online dating thing, but almost anyone that has can tell you some interesting tales of scammer and dishonest people infesting them.

@kristinhannah001 3 ай бұрын

Well if you're an intelligent man, why would you even hope to find a decent women on online dating apps? Isnt that st*pidity too? #justsaying

@maxxd4119 4 ай бұрын

Yawn..stay single and never take the rose out of the garden

@frankcentofanti9317 4 ай бұрын

This is how not to get scammed 1. Don’t be Desperate 2. NEVER start communication until you’re ass is in in the country 3. respect your money the money you worked your ass off all your life so that you can retire and enjoy life 4. even 20, 30 40 whatever bucks if you start sending money before meeting them, they know they have you. You are now what we call a sucker. 5. learn from all the guys from the Philippines that got scammed they all show it on their videos smarten up men this is your brain talking you are the one in control. You’re the one with the money. 6. Don’t be an idiot and have them move in with you within three months or even a year. Would you do that back home? Hell no 7. Enjoy your retirement that’s what you worked your ass off your whole life for don’t make the women the focus of your retirement or else you’re gonna go miserable or insane. 8. Make sure when you make a Third World country your home for the rest of your life that you know what you’re doing. 9 & 10 Don’t be Desperate Enjoy Retirement Healthy and wisely

@garrylafferty100 4 ай бұрын

Number 2 i don't agree you can learn a lot about her 6 months a yr on a webcam. Is it love ?You cant know that on a webcam it has to be in person .Don't waste thousand of dollars to go see her until you have a good communication gut feeling about her

@frankcentofanti9317 4 ай бұрын

this is exactly my point. What’s the rush why be desperate why investigate for six months before you even get somewhere? Move there and have fun and meet somebody naturally don’t plan it six months in advanced what if the girls doesn’t work out you just wasted six months.

@Travelguy-re9qz 4 ай бұрын

But for those of us who are just visiting with limited time or on a discovery trip, I think it would be wise to have some “options” at least lined up when you arrive. That way you can maximize the limited time you’re there and who knows could turn into something.

@johnevans8328 4 ай бұрын

very downer vid.....i guess my saving grace is im moving to live in the Philippines

@robinchat9024 4 ай бұрын

Better luck next time but I don’t think it’s a good idea to take the Filipina out of the country permanently. Set up an income where you can live in the Philippines and visit (home) as holidays together.

@ChadFosterExplores 4 ай бұрын

Yeah a lot of people do feel that way and there's some good points made on why you shouldn't, besides it's so expensive there now!

@roadwarrior528 3 ай бұрын

Social media has ruined women forever. Even Filipinas.

@MartinLutherCoonJr-lz5bo 4 ай бұрын

Hey Chad why did you ditch Carefree Cris in Leyte ? Was it because if his unusual attraction to High School girls Actually both of you acted pretty creepy and giddy chatting to the H.S. girls .