Headstone Can't Be Laid to Rest | Part 1

[@rogerbear5455]

I agree with JJ , you are a grown man , you made the mistake of not knowing that they would allow or wouldn’t allow a headstone , not the defendant.

[@LilyBell-Beneaththecrust2023]

@rogerbear, that's something that probably never crossed their minds. They just assumed, as I, and I'm sure many did, that having a headstone on a grave is a given.

[@drinny26]

True but what cemetery doesn’t allow head stones? Then it’s just a field.

[@LilyBell-Beneaththecrust2023]

@@drinny26, right.

[@queenbee3647]

I dont understand putting someone in the ground that doesnt allow markers.

[@brucevarnes978]

@@LilyBell-Beneaththecrust2023 I would not for a million years assume that I couldn't put a headstone down. I personally never saw that.

[@michelleg7444]

People will blame anybody for their own negligence

[@Rantsack]

But will ALWAYS say GOD is good when ONLY GOOD things happen

[@de2296]

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[@NH-tb2sm]

What kind of cemetery doesn't allow a headstone?

[@jennifer_mertens]

Many no longer allow headstones, but they do allow in ground plaques. Something about the headstones deteriorating and keeping them maintained.

[@anndeecosita3586]

Some private cemeteries are perpetual care and don’t allow headstones except from vendors they have contracts with.

[@caseyking0917]

Poor lady was only 36 when the Lord called her home. Peace and healing to the sons.

[@Phyoomz]

That's wild. My biggest fear is leaving my kids when they're too young. I've seen how it can really destroy a family.

[@sunnystormy4973]

my mom passed away when i was 15 years old and my dad 10 years ago

[@razgriz380]

There is no 'Lord'.

[@PartyOf8Please]

@@sunnystormy4973 🫂 🫂 🫂 I have no words 😢

[@PartyOf8Please]

@@Phyoomz Be proud of your sons, they seem to have grown into very softspoken but respectable young men. May you rest in peace, Mrs Hayes.

[@camilelovejoy6574]

HE should have asked that before he ordered it from her.

[@christylouis2611]

My thing is, anybody would have just assumed it was allowed because like he said there were other graves with headstones. So I can’t necessarily say that it’s his fault for not checking because he saw other headstones there and thought it was allowed which naturally anybody would’ve thought so his issue needs to be taken with the cemetery people.

[@AH-te5gs]

@@christylouis2611 It is slightly unfair that there are other headstones there, but it's still his mistake and problem, not hers. She provided a service, that is all.

[@lululirac]

Merry Christmas JJ family! Thank you everybody because your comments on Judge Judy videos lifted me up after long tough days at work ❤ hope you all got tons of gifts from Santa this morning

[@kemzyacco5629]

Its not her fault.

[@margaretwade]

You have to check with the cemetery BEFORE you choose a headstone. Not all allow them.

[@caseyking0917]

Correct. Hope the young men can find some peace.

[@LilyBell-Beneaththecrust2023]

@margarewade, thanks for sharing this. I, as I'm sure many, didn't know this.

[@GardenOfGethsemanie]

I sure didnt. I was just talking about getting my father a new headstone. Im definitely going to check with them 1st​@LilyBell-Beneaththecrust2023

[@noelledilisio-johnson6603]

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[@glamazonbeaute575]

Happy Birthday 😊

[@mauricethomas654]

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[@dawnsparks9207]

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[@tate6809]

Classic example of someone irrationally blaming someone else just because they are not happy.

[@marysheffield7028]

JJ is right. They need to take this up with the cemetery, because if in fact there are other headstones, why aren’t they allowing new headstones to go in there now?

[@anndeecosita3586]

The problem might be who they bought the headstone from.

[@kyled2329]

Imagine buying a Ferrari then suing Ferrari because a Honda dealership refuses to work on it. That is what they are doing.

[@mimim8532]

Merry Xmas JJ community! Love and light!

[@Pebs_dandysworld_781]

Merry Christmas 🎄

[@cdelane3335]

It's not the maker of the stones responsibility to make sure the cemetery you use allows headstones. They just make them and deliver. Bad situation though. I feel bad for men too.

[@celestep4891]

True. However, the ground needs to be a certain temp when installing the headstone. The maker should have definitely called the cemetery to find out when they could install. In doing so, she would have found out that it wasn't allowed.

[@anndeecosita3586]

I feel like this is on both of them. My family is only buried in a few cemeteries. All of them are private but only one isn’t a church cemetery. After the death of a relative we decided to bury her in the non-church one. I asked my aunt where the family had bought the headstones for my maternal grandparents years back. I called the headstone place and they said they would like to help me but they are no longer allowed to install in that cemetery. Come to find out the cemetery had been sold since my grandparents’ deaths. So then I called the cemetery and found out that as part of perpetual care they don’t allow for headstones that don’t come from specific companies they contract with. So you have to order your headstones through the cemetery. So the sons should have called the cemetery and this lady should have also called to see if and when she would be allowed to install a headstone in that cemetery instead of just showing up on private property. How did she even know if the ground was dry to install a headstone if she didn’t call ahead and didn’t know where it was? I have had somewhat similar situations in my job as a photographer. People will ask me to photograph their event at a venue. I make a point to ask them if they asked the venue especially if it’s a casino if it’s okay for me to take photos on the premises or I call the venue MYSELF to make sure because I know the people asking me to come obviously aren’t the owners.

[@scottmcwave9479]

Oh brother! You have no case!

[@charliedays]

I said the same thing to myself even before this part ended.🤣

[@silvanaperri1121]

@@charliedays I believe they should have had a case - it is the women's business and how dare she not know that this cemetery doesn't allow headstones.

[@Algebrainiac]

Merry Christmas everyone ❤

[@PartyOf8Please]

Merry Christmas! 🎄

[@littlemissdimples88]

Merry Xmas! Wish you all a happy 2025 :)

[@monnieluna1673]

Damn it took two men that many years to save $850 together?? I guess a down payment on a house is out of the question. Maybe when they’re 65.

[@VET7632]

😂😂

[@deefleming6271]

You NEVER know what someone else may be going through your life can change in an instant… better late than never R.I.P to their mother

[@TheRedScareIsAlive]

How about not worrying about or judging someone else's financial situation? You don't know what people have or will go through

[@trelljohnson9702]

​@@TheRedScareIsAliveAmen!

[@raquelleseda2302]

I believe the judge mentioned they were very young when the mom died.

[@themirrorsofmymind]

2:19 JUDGE JUDY: _"So, you want a refund?"_ SHARONE: _"Yes."_ JUDGE JUDY: _"You can't have it"_ (Because the cemetery won't allow a headstone.) SHARONE: _"Well, _*_listen,_*_ judge..."_ ME: WTF did he say?

[@marine296]

That's the equivalent of moving into a complex and getting a dog without checking to see if the complex allows dogs then blaming the person who sold you the dog for not checking that first

[@jess_a_yo]

Why would the plantiff assume defendant would know the policies of the cemeteries, when that’s information that should’ve been communicated between them and funeral home?

[@PartyOf8Please]

I’m glad I live in a community where everybody knows everybody, we’re practically all related some way or another and the undertaker is a REALLY nice guy who guides you through the whole process - including the stone.

[@celestep4891]

Not the funeral. The cemetery.

[@maxinegreise2384]

Shame on them.

[@joycampi7233]

This channel should have a million subs!! Merry Christmas Eve, everyone!!

[@PartyOf8Please]

Merry Christmas! 🎄

[@CrystalCylinder069]

It's wise to check with Management first before getting a new headstone. It's a cemetary, not his personal backyard.

[@dougedoug2105]

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[@DianaPrince777]

Merry Christmas, Judge Judy fam!

[@tonianderson8726]

Merry Christmas 🎅🏽

[@PartyOf8Please]

Merry Christmas! 🎄

[@k.thomaz3339]

Happy Holidays ❤

[@margaretdonato7888]

Merry Christmas to you.

[@jeffreyclinard2002]

Yeah, the defendant fulfilled the contract. The plaintiffs did not do their homework before they ordered the headstone. They should have contacted the cemetery and found out any restrictions on grave markers before they placed the order.

[@mikeaddison5697]

How is it the lady fault she make headstones … that’s the cemetery or the brothers fault for not figuring that out first 😂😂

[@cljerjr31]

i think the sons should have done the research to see if the headstone is allowed BEFORE they paid

[@portiabutterz7674]

Who’s here on Christmas Day 2024🎉 merry Christmas everyone 🎉

[@PartyOf8Please]

I feel bad for these guys, but a “Coffer’s Cemetery” sounds like a cemetery that is for persons who can’t pay for a grave … I don’t think this is going to go well for theses guys

[@BramptonAnglican]

Merry Christmas to everyone. 🎄

[@PartyOf8Please]

Merry Christmas! 🎄

[@lazyriver53]

Merry Christmas!

[@Dallstar88]

When he said Listen, I straight up and said SASSY

[@Julie-sl8ul]

What cemetery doesn't allow headstones?!?!?

[@shaneclark5022]

A mass grave

[@margaretwade]

My dad's grave could not have headstones - only plaques.

[@InuitInua]

Some only allow flat ones.

[@frigid4real]

There are many. They are allowed flat nameplate-type markers, but not standing ones.

[@krystala17]

Plaque/Marker is like that certain cemeteries or being cremated

[@jd-zr3vk]

Why didn't the defendant tell the plaintiffs to check with the cemetery?

[@PartyOf8Please]

It’s still not her fault, even if they did have that conversation.

[@bobscratchett5346]

They are two adults. It’s assumed that the customer has permission to have a headstone before they go to buy one. It’s like going to a travel agent to book a flight abroad then complaining that the travel agent didn’t tell you that you’d need a passport. Her contract was to provide a headstone to their specification - which she did. She needs to be paid for her labor and materials. Probably in future she should gets something in writing just to protect herself. But these two grown adults can’t blame her for them not doing their homework and checking with the cemetery first. It’s sad, but nothing to do with her.

[@gower23]

What kind of cemetery doesn't allow headstones? Why why why.

[@jeffreyclinard2002]

I think they prefer the ones set in the ground so that they use riding mowers to cut the grass. With headstones, the job becomes much more complex, with push mowers and edgers used on the headstones.

[@jj5469]

Merry Christmas everyone

[@riannonbrown1658]

Merry Christmas judge judy crew!!!!

[@jennifer_mertens]

How would she know if that particular cemetery allow a headstone or not? That's his job to find out.

[@nilaja-itsmylife]

La Juan 🤔 Man never had a chance 😅

[@MeaDiaz04]

Such an ignorant comment

[@ashleymonet6046]

If the cemetery doesn't allow headstones, how did they not know that? They will tell you that before during purchase of plot.

[@silvanaperri1121]

Someone complaining that it took the sons 27 years to get a headstone - how old do you think they are?

[@krystala17]

@@silvanaperri1121 exactly, they were kids when mom initially passed away.

[@stratfordbaby]

27 years for a HEADSTONE FOR MOM?!?!?! That should have been FIRST PRIORITY. They are HORRIBLE. That's a very small headstone. Would have been CHEAP!!!!

[@anndeecosita3586]

They were probably still kids when she died.

[@katrishamoore4070]

They were kids when she passed.

[@Hi-vp3zu]

What he was suppose to check that not her

[@PartyOf8Please]

The Ps responsibility is to check with the cemetery, not the stone company. There’s so much to know when a person dies and most people don’t have a clue.

[@lydiagarcia9813]

That's their problem for not knowing, not her job too

[@laurasaw6933]

I never knew thaat a final resting place, will not accept a headstone

[@dominator5871]

3:00 Judge Judy saying “don’t speak” means you are ahead…

[@alvitaphillips-scarborough8667]

Bro tried to sell that story, but nope!!

[@shannonbugeja3746]

Good morning from beautiful Melbourne Australia Merry Christmas to you all I hope you all have a wonderful Christmas Day with your loved ones.🌲🌲🎁🎁🍺🍺.

[@PartyOf8Please]

Merry Christmas! 🎄

[@dinahbrown902]

Merry Christmas ❤

[@drinny26]

What cemetery doesn’t allow tombstones?

[@walkingtrails7776]

This case is SOOOO DUMB...there is NO NEED to watch part 2. What a waste of time. Typical blame others mentality. Byyyeeeee🤦🏽‍♂️.

[@silvanaperri1121]

I agree with the sons - how come this woman doesn't know that this cemetery is not allowed to have headstones - that's her profession and she should have advised the sons of this predicament. Judge Judy got it wrong - this is by far prejudicial and even though I am in Australia how ridiculous this case is.

[@andreaparke4899]

So tired of emotional distress claims.

[@bbq4dinner997]

That is the smallest tablet and base I have seen. I have been installing grave markers for 3 years

[@Lenasevilla-yb4ei]

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[@kyoto32001]

so the plaintiff's , DANN's

[@stratfordbaby]

2:20 It's THEIR FAULT. They have to determine what is allowable by contacting the cemetery FIRST. They knew this IN ADVANCE!!! When they bought the plot!!!!

[@nilaja-itsmylife]

Happy Xmas 🎄 JJ Lunch Crew ❤🥰🙏🏽✨💯

[@PartyOf8Please]

Merry Christmas! 🎄

[@nichollerusso8262]

This is sad and a freaking joke thehbr really fighting over a mother is passed how about forget about it and cry toghter and think wow our mom is really gone now let's fight these w *mens* r cold for this

[@GJMeyer-s2h]

Part 2?

[@frigid4real]

6 more minutes

[@GJMeyer-s2h]

@frigid4real Thank you.

[@PartyOf8Please]

@@GJMeyer-s2h The channel posts videos every 30 minutes stating at 2:00P eastern time/11:00A pacific time, there’s usually three to four parts and one short. Merry Christmas! 🎄

[@stratfordbaby]

27 years to get a headstone. Took them long enough.

[@Lenasevilla-yb4ei]

They was kids when she passed

[@MovieJunky21]

I visited my family at the cemetery 5 times a weeks.. they only see her 3 times a year?!!

[@krystala17]

@@MovieJunky21 I don’t visit the cemetery at all. My loves aren’t there, and it doesn’t make me feel any better looking at the graves and crying my eyes out.

[@Lenasevilla-yb4ei]

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[@highlander666]

The way he speaks is nauseating

[@vetinaalvarez4004]

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