Healing Lesbian Heartbreak

[@sirdishrag]

I feel so sad:( Edit: time heals! I feel so much better!

[@ChaChaWitYa]

Awww good for you

[@saraazizam4519]

Happy for u ❤

[@vickiscool4812]

its bee 2 years for me and im still not fine please help

[@ellengomm6972]

The worst type is when you both still like each other but something unchangeable comes between you and forces you to spilt up Edit: Hey y'all, this was ages ago. Just wanted to let y'all know I'm thriving now, with great people surrounding me (including a new partner!) I've been reading some of your stories, and I hope you're all doing okay. Just remember, you're never alone and the hurt will pass♡

[@jordanamichellegutman]

Yes, that sounds very painful. 🙏🏼

[@_ih34rtU_]

That's what happened to me

[@steffthesensitive4697]

Yeah and what if it’s one person who isn’t currently able to not be codependent so then you have to be broken up because eventually the codependency gets so bad that it causes the partner not to be their best self and it just doesn’t work because of codependency that’s where I’m at and I’m very sad because we keep getting back together and breaking up over and over and over again almost on a yearly basis and I’m just tired of it and I know I can’t I can’t do it anymore and I can’t resist her and I can’t do it anymore

[@acaloid1234]

this omg

[@elodiegendron4731]

I feel you! into that right now, have you found some support / ressources for that painful situation?

[@evelynevelyn6330]

going through my first wlw breakup right now, watching this video and reading the comments made me feel a little better :')

[@sadiesoul776]

I’m so happy I found a lesbian relationship channel!!! This is amazing! Thanks for doing what you do x

[@jordanamichellegutman]

Thank you! 🙌🏼💃🏻

[@drkadirilovespellhome]

Listen guys, Are you going through a painful breakup or divorce? I am a lesbian who lost my lover to another woman. After 3 Years in a relationship with my lover, my lover started going out with other woman and showing me cold love, on several occasions he threatens to broke-up with me if I dare question her about she affair with other woman, I was totally devastated and confused until an old friend of mine told me about a spell caster on the internet called Dr Unity who help people with their relationship and marriage problem by the powers of his gods, At first I doubted If such thing ever exists but decided to give it a try, When I contact him, he told me everything I needed to do and I did and he helped me cast a Love Spell and within 11Hours my lover came back to me and started apologizing, now she has stopped going out with girl and she is with me for good and for real. Contact this Great spell Caster for your relationship or marriage problem. Here's his contact.. WhatsApp him: [phone] Email him at: [e-mail] His website:unityspells.blogspot.com Martha Thomas,Tx,USA

[@KnowledgeSeeker78491]

Call me 😏

[@MichelleLohde-p8m]

@@jordanamichellegutman my name is Michelle lohde . my girlfriend told me she need sapce I missing her bad what i do to wait for her talk me again ???. she told me she has care her teen sons and work.

[@KnowledgeSeeker78491]

“She needs you to be strong for her” That just made me cry

[@hannahbeeandme]

my first lesbian REAL RELATIONSHIP heartbreak just happened this week. she broke up with me over a note that she taped on the door. I came home from work to all of my stuff on the porch, locks changed, note taped to our front door, and her and her "best friend" (new gf I'm pretty sure) GONE. after two year (which was a long relationship for ME) I AM LOST. my life feels so incomplete. lonely. i miss her so much. thank you for this. you're really helping me feel better about my situation. SUBSCRIBED

[@jordanamichellegutman]

Oh no, I’m so sorry. 🙏🏼 😔 I know how painful heartbreak can be. I know how much it hurts when the woman we love doesn’t love us back. It’s normal to feel lost and lonely and incomplete and heartbroken. The fact that she left means that your only choice is to focus on getting over her and moving on. You can do it. Broken hearts are agonizing, but nothing we can’t get through. You will be a stronger person when this is over. Wishing you all the strength you can gather. 💪🏼 🙌🏼 💃🏻 🙏🏼

[@hannahbeeandme]

@@jordanamichellegutman that means so much. thank you. ❤😭

[@jesstula4]

Have you any advice? I am now in the exact situation 😭 Please tell me after 5 months it gets better, mines only been a week and it is killing me 😭

[@jrd_711]

Tell me it got better for you? Mine happened two weeks ago. I got dumped by her. And also just no explanation really. Cuddos to you all, and hope we all get through this❤

[@hannahbeeandme]

@@jrd_711 it's been a rocky road but we are working on whatever the hell this thing is. I'm sure yours is a lot less complicated. drugs, cheating, and a lot of mistakes were involved in ours.

[@jadey_wadey333]

Despite how abusive my relationship was, being cheated on with her ex boyfriend, and being constantly lied to, I was resisting the fact that my reality was I was betraying myself and sabotaging by staying with her. This was a wake up call when I felt the urge to be dumb and hit her up after I left her. Thanks for the great vid 💛

[@solli2330]

hope you're okay

[@isacharminthing3235]

Thank u ...❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ u helped a broken girl tonight. Your channel is great .

[@jordanamichellegutman]

Aw, I'm so glad I was able to help. Wishing you an abundance of love and healing.

[@diurnalreign]

I'm on the same boat, for now

[@jordanamichellegutman]

@@diurnalreign I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you're ok.

[@cristinejoyestorque9372]

Hi

[@yes5974]

she broke up with me yesterday and we still love eachother, we cant stop telling eachother that we are still in love, i dont WANT to move on. i know we can do it but i just wish she would be willing to work towards us again

[@wizardsamboltoni]

im here now. did things get better? I'm sending lesbian solidarity to you.

[@consuelolawrence2080]

Rebound relationship really sucks. Going though it now. Time heals and I have to move on with my life.

[@jordanamichellegutman]

Yes, this can be painful. I talk all about rebound relationships here. kzbin.info/www/bejne/Y6uwiqynpaufoM0

[@dumbirisss]

My lesbian break up just happened yesterday, we were on a break for more than a month no texting,no calling or anything. I already knew what she was gonna say, i didn't know what i had done , it was the worst month of heartbreak for me. Finally we decided to meet ( that was yesterday) and we had a long talk, we had the perfect relationship she loved me, i loved her mostly we were happy so i thought. She was always there for me, she saved me, she was helping me heal from all the struggles of my life but while trying to help me she was hurting. She gave hwr everything to help me she couldn't do anything for herself. I became so dependent on her i couldn't do anything without her. That was too much for her to handle. She wanted me to be independent and thats the main reason we decided to need it. It was a very peaceful and understanding break up. We care for each other that's why we broke up.

[@vickiscool4812]

it has been 2 years for me and im still not fine

[@camilleanderson7755]

My ex girlfriend whom I adored and worshipped which is something I never should have done really taught me a valuable lesson. I stayed even when she said I am not inlove with you anymore. However I still managed to stay with her and we finally broke up but we were still physical active and wih each other. I learned that this was a very toxic relationship and I am so glad that I am no longer in this hurtful relationship anymore.

[@jordanamichellegutman]

I'm so glad you got out of that toxic relationship. You deserve to be with someone who loves you back as much as you love them.

[@isacharminthing3235]

You are doing something very different than anybody else here on you tube .. and that’s the way .

[@jordanamichellegutman]

Thank you so much. I really appreciate you saying so. 🙏🏼

[@xXxXimenaXxXx]

I didn't like the end bit where you say that wallowing and holding onto the past is depriving your future partner of you. Everything else was good advice but that part, while being kind of a fun way to look at it, actually instantly increased my feelings of shame like not only was I not enough for my ex but now I'm hurting a person I haven't even met yet!

[@vallesterfaith]

“She needs you to be strong for her.” 💗💗💯💯💯 so true

[@jordanamichellegutman]

Yess!!!!! 🙏🌈🙏

[@Angelamar819]

Yes keep it real. Its not all puppies and kittens. 💔

[@jordanamichellegutman]

True. Sometimes it hurts like crazy. But not in a way we can't handle. And love is worth the risk.

[@rain7bow437]

My girlfriend dumped me 4 days before my birthday. She told me she was gonna buy me an engagement ring for my birthday then BANG she ended it out of the blue. Heartbroken isnt the word 😖

[@rain7bow437]

@Heena Kousar she'd been planning on moving away for weeks before hand and just didn't have the balls to tell me much less discuss the whole thing with me x

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[@_ih34rtU_]

Omg thank you so much you don't even understand how much this means to me

[@beckyanna7287]

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[@lablab223]

iam searching on how I overcome my feeling right now.Im having a hard time to understand and accepting my relationship with my gf..when I found of this vedio of yours,I realized why I always got hurt ,because I always till to my self that she still love me even she's not.😢😢😢the word "Resistant "is the word that hold me to keeping her and hurting my feelings again and again..the fact is ...I need to "Rurrender"..I need to accept that iam not the person she want in her life anymore...it is so so hard,hurting me so much😢😢😢😢😢

[@yoongilover23btsfan26]

...i cant believe im doing this

[@ashleyb.8217]

Hugs to you

[@Laffingrl]

I was 'catfished' 10 years ago and I am still not over it.

[@jordanamichellegutman]

Oh no, that sucks. 😔

[@puyyu5582]

Today, my girlfriend left me because she said she believe in her god more, she said she love me and still gonna be my friend. she wants me to be happy, but my happiness is her. All i can do is crying and cant tell anyone and it goes same to her. We both live in strict religious family and neighborhood, she said maybe we happy at first but until when? Even i told her i'll do anything until death do as apart but she refuse to believe and said god never let us be together, our love is not wrong but women can't be with women. Even tho she is still here, i'm losing her forever.

[@regerniquerasco7428]

I am so very sorry to hear this. I gave up a relationship that truly meant the world to me, because I was in constant conflict and honestly needed therapy. I miss my ex so much, I miss her so much. She found someone more compatible I’ll say… & I’m still trying to accept being a lesbian. It’s really sucks. I’m sorry, I started venting under your message. I pray if she is truly for you and you for her, I pray she makes peace with her love and her belief and is able to possibly serve God & love and enjoy her relationship with you. It’s so difficult, now at this point, after truly feeing the lost… I’m… I wish I lot.

[@frenchracqlett5368]

@@regerniquerasco7428 I can relate.

[@SophieeMarie]

My girlfriend broke up with me a few days ago because her parents found out we were dating and they are paying for her schooling… homophobia yk… anyhow this helps. I still love her because of course I do but I know that we can’t be together. She’s just not willing to sacrifice her family life and her schooling.

[@peaceflow1416]

surrender was nice. i neede this a$$ whopping cause i didnt even know i was telling myself all these lies and hopes about he maybe's. its a trap and a loop. thank you

[@heatherc2062]

My first gf just broke up with me. She told me she has mental and emotional issues. I accepted it. And let her go. But the pain of the heartbreak is like killing me, i have chest pain, my heart was exploding. I felt like dying. The saddest thing is that we were friends before lovers. I feel loss. I really love her. She said said she loves and cares for me but she she needs help. And it will be to mean if she will ask me to let me wait for her. So she let me go.

[@jordanamichellegutman]

I'm so so so sorry you're in all this pain. But all broken hearts heal, eventually. So give yourself a lot of love and hang in there!!! 🙏 🌈 🙏

[@felanutela]

She left me and my eyes are red from the crying...

[@felanutela]

@A Honestly, yes, after everything I was able to understand that it was toxic so now I'm healing

[@tracyspencer1674]

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[@haideeophelia]

I dated a girl that is bi but liked boys more . Hurt me af when i had to beg for her but she didn't care .and got a bf after 1 month and that boy could made her heart broken. And The way she looks too needy when she dates another boy that are not even attractive.

[@bliviate513]

She asked me on a date. This was my first actual gay experience and really finding myself. We had a wonderful weekend last week and after saying yes to being her girlfriend, she told me she was polyamorous. I only started opening up to this world and didn't really understand. She tried explaining and I said No, I can't share you. I should be enough. It hung like a cloud over us. I tried fighting for us and she started being distant. My friend pushed me to break up with her earlier and she just said "oh, I respect your decision ". I am so heartbroken. It's like I mesnt nothing.

[@jordanamichellegutman]

I'm really sorry you're so upset. It seems unfair (and a little selfish) that this woman didn't reveal that she is polyamorous until after you had fallen for her and agreed to be her girlfriend. She didn't give you the chance to know in advance. Had she been clear from the start about being polyamorous, you could have protected yourself by not opening your heart to a person who fundamentally doesn't want the same things you do in dating/relationships. This might not be any consolation, but you should know that polyamorous people don't intend to cause the pain they inflict on monogamous people in relationships. Their romantic operating systems simply function in different ways. If you are monogamous (and find it too painful to share the women you date) then from now on you should probably ask upfront to see if someone is poly or mono. (Because, as you learned from this woman, people won't always tell you in advance).

[@bliviate513]

@jordanamichellegutman Thank you very much for the response. The hurt stems from losing a friend whom I needed to navigate through my journey. All my friends are straight and she really helped me. Now I feel like I am fumbling. I'm hoping it will get better, but I am just very closed off now and thinking of her based on my feelings for her.

[@marieswit103]

She was my first and first girlfriend. We started to dated during the COVID when I was 17 years old. Now I am 20 and she left me. I still feeling like I am still in the Covid times. Nobody is near me, I am in the same place, where she changed the places and finds someone new. And she is younger than me, while I am feeling so bad..

[@jordanamichellegutman]

I'm so sorry to hear this. It sounds like a great time for you to start getting outside your comfort zone to meet new people, make new friends, try new things, learn new skills, and work on making yourself feel better. Broken hearts heal, and this is nothing you can't bounce back from. And no matter how wonderful your ex might have been, there are always other women out there who will make you just as happy, who you will love just as much!

[@nandikhoza8004]

I broke up with this girl 6 years ago and I'm still hurt. I feel like she was in a relationship with me because she felt sorry for me because I'm blind.

[@jordanamichellegutman]

I'm so sorry that you're still hurt from your breakup. These things can take years to heal. But regardless of your ex's motivations, you deserve to tell yourself a more empowering story about your relationship. Perhaps write a love letter to yourself, from yourself, to reflect on all the reasons you are lovable and an amazing catch. And you can also write a love letter to yourself from the perspective of your future partner, where she talks about all the things she appreciates about you and all the ways that you make her life better. 🙏🏼

[@saraazizam4519]

I love ur videos❤

[@Domsym_]

I was the rebound relationship

[@jenniferokazaki38]

So funny how my last two gf's thought they could have a month long fling with me playing dress up games, me usually playing the guy even though I'm shorter and a lot more petite. Then, suddenly blowing me off with "Well, I'm moving to Toronto" or wherever, basically shoving me in the face. Forces my hand in showing them where it's at -not so fast, bytch. I have friends. They find out that just because I'm Japanese doesn't mean I can be used as a doormat. Eff that. Mess with us Asians and you'll get it twice back. Don't disrespect me. Anyways, back to your channel.

[@Ellasti879]

Am a lesbian I find it difficult to love a man because there's as always no affection and am dying cos am in a country that doesn't allow lesbianism pls can anyone help me out

[@NAhuufeloo]

So much pain 😢

[@jordanamichellegutman]

I'm so sorry 🙏

[@grahamcrackerjay]

Thanks for the video

[@jordanamichellegutman]

Thanks for watching! 🙌🏼

[@cherryflaviano9429]

Im in pain Now then i saw this vedio , i was begging to her to come back To me For almost 7months bUt she said she has another love,,, and she didn't blove me anymore😭😭😭 what should i do i really love Her....

[@nxi96]

thanks for this❤

[@jordanamichellegutman]

🌈 🙏🏼 🌈

[@cryptotech9871]

Ohhh God my girlfriend has left me afyer3 years and its sooo painfull i am in pain so much pain💔

[@jordanamichellegutman]

I'm so sorry. Heartbreak is the worst. But it will get easier, and you'll get through this.

[@krisyoung1834]

My relationship is so so confusing she shows this support and love and then she says she doesn't..we have been together for 6 years...I am ok with being without her but how do u push away from the routine

[@EugeMarcos]

❤️ thankyou

[@jordanamichellegutman]

🙏🏼

[@diurnalreign]

Keep it up

[@jordanamichellegutman]

Thank you :)

[@beeba3343]

not a website anymore :/

[@jordanamichellegutman]

lesbianheartbreak.com is still up and running - try again 🌈

[@francesmorris8881]

🙏❤️

[@jordanamichellegutman]

🙏🏼

[@sarah2lol]

i think im gonna die

[@jordanamichellegutman]

I'm so sorry. You will get through it. As painful as broken hearts can be, it's ultimately nothing you can't bounce back from. What doesn't kill us makes us stronger!!! 🌈🙏🏼🌈

[@cristinejoyestorque9372]

😭😭😭

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[@jemgv9089]

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[@beckyanna7287]

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