Heidi reacts, 4th trimester!

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Hi! I'm Taylor Calmus, a Colorado-based actor/comedian. I started Dude Dad© two weeks before my son Theo was born as a way to stay creative while learning to be a father. My wife Heidi and I now have 3 kids and over 300+ videos. My purpose for the channel is to entertain, enlighten and inspire.
In addition to Dude Dad©, I have been in numerous TV shows, commercials, and have regular appearances on Jimmy Kimmel Live. I will also be hosting my own TV show called "Super Dad" on the new Magnolia Network / Discovery+. Heidi and the kids will also be a part of the show. I am originally from the rural community of Howard, South Dakota.
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[@laurawhitney9326]

As a new mom, would love to see a series that Heidi gives mommy advice. She seems very knowledgeable!

[@MissSunshineHS]

Yes please!@

[@shannonpilittere200]

I would love that too!!!!

[@adriennegonzales2636]

Yes please!

[@wildveganmama6388]

Even as a veteran mom (I have four) I’d love to see this!!

[@laurawhitney9326]

Yall we need to make this happen somehow!!

[@abigailphoenixthepaperaddi2501]

My 4th trimester was 24 years ago. I totally related to nursing/pumping in public. Worst for me was taking my baby to a celtic festival & him needing to nurse... i needed a quiet shady area, but every shady area was packed with people! I finally found a spot, sat down, got lil man settled and suddenly, surrounded by men staring & a few women glaring and all were muttering. I even had a blanket tossed over baby, even though it was nearly 100 degrees out. Finally, this lovely much older lady hobbled over and... well, she's my hero. Told them that if it bothered them, why were they staring? How would THEY feel if she came and stared at them eating THEIR lunch, or taking a pee? Then... she guarded me & told me to pull that blanket off the baby before he suffered heatstroke. Bless you, Ms Betty. I hope you're still out there, protecting moms from idiots. I vowed to do the same, and I give it my best. Heidi... you're doing an amazing job. I'm so glad Taylor is such a great hubs to see what's happening and more importantly, to understand WHY. These videos made me laugh, but also brought me down a memory lane I haven't really travelled down in many years. Thank you both! =D

[@melissahuntington6197]

Love this. We moms need to defend nursing moms and protect them as well.

[@nikan7704]

I totally understand why people wouldn't like to see a woman nursing in public if she's not covered up because let's face it that's exposing so much breast at that point :) but if she's covered up then what the heck is the problem! I don't get it 🙄 Good for this woman for telling ppl to mind their own business!

[@tristantries9211]

@@nikan7704 well and Celtic festivals will most likely have people in costume which are quite boob revealing anyway so really it's just hypocritical. She is doing what she is suppose to feed her baby not be salacious

[@nikan7704]

@@tristantries9211 lol yes sometimes those dresses leave almost nothing to the imagination 😄. I was referring more to any public setting- parks, restaurants, etc. I have to wonder if some of the negative treatment comes from ignorance. I once heard a woman, who had no kids, talking about how inappropriate it was to breastfeed in public. Even with a cover on. I think that's simply ignorance. A person who has never fed a baby might simply have no idea how often you actually have to feed a baby or how long it can take sometimes. It's simply not possible to leave the house and never have to feed your baby while you're out. I wonder if some people don't understand this and that's where their hatred comes from. But I guarantee that's not everyone who gives dirty looks- some of them do have kids and should understand! Edit: Or perhaps it's some terribly outdated belief that a mom SHOULD be doing nothing but staying at home and caring for her baby. Not doing anything for her own sanity/entertainment? I could see this being a reason as well...

[@helterskelter4every1]

First off, thank you for sharing that story. It’s such a beautiful reminder that women really do need to stand up for one another rather than tear each other down. Secondly, I am both shocked and saddened by the comments on this thread. Why is it perfectly acceptable for men to go topless in public (especially at this type of an event), but heaven forbid a breastfeeding mother is going to offend women around the country and is going to magnetize men like maggots to rotten meat (perfect description for anyone who gets off on this)? It’s a pathetic, backwards, and a way, way outdated way of thinking that has GOT TO GO!!! Women, please start encouraging each other. Saying “well, she was covered up so I don’t see why people were complaining” simply isn’t acceptable these days. Women should be able to dress how they want, style their hair how they want, name their kids whatever they want, and this whole nipple debate is just ridiculous. Everyone on the planet has nipples, so why is this even a debate??? If men can expose their nipples, why can’t women? Vendor fairs don’t have places set up for mothers to feed their babies. The OP is 100% correct, she should NOT have to put her or her child in danger just so she doesn’t “offend” the other women around her. Nor should she have to worry about perverted men staring at a partially exposed nipple that is feeding her newborn. I don’t understand why it’s so difficult for people to just mind their own damn business these days?? And if they can’t manage that, then ladies, start sticking up for one another, stop making the “well at least” excuses. Anyway, thanks for reading this, and to the OP, thanks again for the lovely story

[@cheeseoffuego]

As a husband, post partum depression in my wife is one of the scariest aspects of child bearing to me. It is very refreshing to take a lighthearted moment to laugh at some of the funnier aspects. Seriously Ladies you go through so much to bring children into this world, don't let your mental health go unchecked because you have so much going on with a new child coming into this world. You owe it to yourselves!

[@jwrightgardening]

Yes, this is so important! And I think asking for help with mental health can be very difficult so it helps when the husband is looking out for PPD too.

[@katchmeifyoucan1131]

You sir are a true Blessing to your wife and family!

[@alexandraalbertz1442]

Kolby, I wish your wife health and happiness. And to you and the baby. Enjoy your new family.

[@fairydust950]

What a lovely comment, your wife is a lucky lady.

[@stefaniekasal8620]

I wish all men understood this. My husband was completely unsupportive and wanted to leave me because I had ppd

[@Batmanzwife]

Heidi seems like one of the coolest people. She speaks her mind but also encourages her husband to keep doing what he's doing. That's an excellent example. I really like this couple. Thanks for the fun videos. I'm currently 34 weeks pregnant with my first child and after watching your video if "1st Child vs. 3rd Child" I am concerned for my third child since my first pregnancy has gone quite like the 3rd example in that video. But that's great to laugh about. Thanks for bringing so much humor to parent life. It's appreciated!

[@tarynvye9378]

Agreed!

[@kryxena]

Congratulations, and best of luck! There's nothing like a new baby 💙

[@TinaMartinez97]

Congrats! I am also 34 weeks with my first :))

[@Batmanzwife]

@@TinaMartinez97 Thank you! 😊 Congratulations to you as well!!

[@Batmanzwife]

@@kryxena Thank you! 💙 I can't wait!

[@ajT1D]

As a father I can totally relate to hearing the wife say "my nipples are bleeding" and "liquid gold". Love it, thanks guys!!

[@TurtleMom23]

When Taylor impersonates you demanding he not die, I felt that! My "babies" are 20 and 23, but I distinctly remember being in fear of my husband dying and telling him that if he does, I'm killing him 😂

[@carols-corner]

This was so relatable. Being a milk machine, and having anxieties and rollercoaster emotions were the most relatable. And I have binge-watched a show during all three of my postpartum fogs. Glad I didn’t pick “This is Us” to binge!

[@nurseinapurse8677]

I would say the only thing he missed was constantly being SOAKED with breast milk! My third is a few weeks younger than yours and I’m still constantly soaked

[@PatricesProjects]

I was soaked all the time with my first. I would have breast pads with me at all times in case I leaked through.

[@janicerenee9593]

...especially when feeling emotional....like when watching "This is Us" or when hearing another baby cry... or watching a video of someone else's childbirth... : )

[@EmilyAnn634571]

Right?!?! Just damp all the time! I had a bra grow mold

[@nurseinapurse8677]

@Emily Ann Lincoln how we all don’t get “trench boob” is beyond me 😂

[@emmaauty2922]

Not all of us leak though! I never really did!

[@marygmack]

Omgosh, Heidi just keeps getting better and better. I am still impressed with her lifeguard bod right after giving birth!!!

[@mramirez5239]

Right?? We want to know your secrets!

[@Successfulness]

I think the biggest thing that was missed was the constant checking to see if they're still breathing even though you JUST laid them down. X3; (And/or the just sitting there holding them through a nap because you don't want to risk waking them by trying to lay them down. X3; )

[@burnyizland]

I think that breathing thing is just for the first born. I hope. I sure do remember that though.

[@annetteg1174]

Nah.....not for the 3rd baby. That only happens with your first baby. Lol!

[@krystlepoulin6382]

I thought it would just be my first too but I was just as worried with my second. Then my sister's third passed in his sleep and I know even when I have grandbabies I'll never stop worrying without a monitor on them.

[@BickyToya]

@@burnyizland nope, just had my 4th baby, she's 4 months old and I still check to see

[@joslynborup4231]

Yup!! Third baby and I still check on his breathing. Maybe slightly less than with the first but it's still often.

[@kirstenbenson6830]

My favorite part: how Taylor looks at you waiting for your reaction❤ So much Love!!

[@eyem4freedom]

I love that Taylor has to observe you. I've been married 26 years and I'm not sure my husband knows what color eyes I have.

[@joobrien1863]

Same here. Together twenty five years and husband says my eyes are "swamp" coloured and he'll tell me if he likes them when they make their mind up! Can't complain too much though, that man is my rock. I'm sure you have good reasons for staying with your husband too, after all it's a quarter of a century! Best wishes to you

[@FC-hj9ub]

Sad. I think people get married too soon or for the wrong reasons

[@toomanymarys7355]

@@FC-hj9ub My husband didn't know what color our bathroom was. I told him to put something in the blue bathroom, and he thought that was a ridiculous to specify the bathroom by that color. This was a 1960s bathroom that we hadn't remodeled. So the tile (walls and floor) was blue. The painted walls were blue. The toilet was blue. The ceiling was blue. The sink was blue. And the bathtub was blue. But he said, "how am I supposed to remember which bathroom is blue?" We had 4 bathrooms, all a DIFFERENT bright 60s color. Some guys just stink at color. And no, he is not color blind.

[@ClassicMan1]

Oh my goodness. My wife had our second baby within days of you guys and we send your videos to each other back and forth. It is ALL. SO. RELATABLE. You guys are helping us through a similar situation in such a great way! It is a HUGE encouragement!

[@opie652003]

He did a great job with it, recognized the struggles and points them out to put a funny by real sense to them. My wife is now 3 months out and having a difficult time with hair loss and not being ok with her body. I feel for her 😔 and don't know what else I can do for her or help her. She's beautiful inside and out and I've told her that. I just have a hard time showing her and making her believe it as well.

[@trevinotrio121]

Just gonna pop in here and say I had 3 babies in 3 years. Nothing prepares you for the mental shift and physical changes that your body goes through. 3 months post is not even enough time for her hormones to start regulating again. It can take up to 2 years for your hormones to go back to normal if you’re nursing. You’re doing what you can and I’m sure she appreciates it. It took me a solid 6 months each time before I started to realize I was doing the best I could and that my body would settle into its new form eventually. The darkness that come from sleep deprivation, constant pain, and intense recovery causes you to only see the mistakes you made and the imperfections you see in the mirror. I’m now 2 years out from having my last and still not ok with my body. But I’m finally starting to accept and appreciate it. This journey might be long, but it’s worth it. You’re a good husband for trying to make her see what you see. She may never see it herself, but she will see that you genuinely care. Keep showing your affection and give her grace for the first year minimum. Grace for yourself as well. After the first year you both can at least sleep at night which helps immensely. Each stage comes with even harder challenges, but you usually get more sleep with each month which makes things bearable and eventually more fun. This turned out much longer than I intended but everything she’s going through is normal and you just being there for her during the hard first year will keep your bond and love stronger. Her body will heal and transform into a new form that hopefully she can learn to love in time. That’s all any of us humans want. To feel good in our own skin 😊

[@sailorarwen6101]

Has she seen this? It won’t exactly “help” because you simply can’t control how those hormones make you feel. And you dad, just need to ride that wave with her because nothing you say will really help. I think the video will make her laugh and remind her that everything she’s feeling now is what EVERY new mother feels and that she’ll overcome it soon.

[@nurseinapurse8677]

If you’re able, take the baby and make her a hair/ nail appointment so she can be pampered for a little while and feel good about herself. I’m also 3 months pp and it’s HARD. Having a supportive partner makes a huge difference

[@nicelizreu1]

I’m also a woman who’s had two kids recently, and had a hard time accepting and appreciating my body. For me, every attempt my husband made to comment on how beautiful I was made things harder, because what he was saying didn’t line up with what I saw in the mirror. It just made me feel like my physical beauty was that important. I actually was able to accept myself more when he just loved me for who I was, and commented on the things I already was able to appreciate about myself. That gave me the room to love myself more, and then I could start to accept my new body. All that said, it is just my experience, and it took me a while to even realize that’s what I needed. Another woman’s experience may be entirely different. And responding to Heidi: they missed the insatiable thirst that comes with breastfeeding! I would get so mad when my husband emptied a water bottle without refilling it!

[@SeraphinaoftheBayou]

Awe. I think your comment deserves the t-shirt.

[@feelgreatchannel5457]

Heidi needs to be on this channel more often talking to women and giving it to you straight. I just had a baby and I'm a milk machine too! I love that she owns her postpartum experience and can laugh, because its legit hard! Also, thanks for the reminder, I need to go pump...

[@hammerslap5639]

I felt every part of the postpartum emotions portion. Wife cried cause she couldn't find a spoon to stir her chocolate milk, then she hit me when i asked why she couldn't stir it with a for or butter knife. We still laugh about it 7 years later.

[@SarahMacDonald1991]

Lol.

[@laurenammond6980]

I definitely related the most to the “I’m gonna get things done while baby’s napping!” and then totally not getting anything done because I’m also napping. 💁🏼‍♀️😅 My LO is almost two, and I still never manage to get anything done when she naps. 😂

[@jeanettejackson4906]

Me, toooo!

[@laurenammond6980]

Thank God I’m not the only one. 😂

[@priscillachapman9145]

Yes an “A”😂🤣 my favorite comment is the same as in all the other videos - “I’ve got a headache- and - I’m wearing a diaper”.

[@queenofsheba8420]

I liked the "recti" one. It's so easy mistake one term for another and say something really embarrassing. I work in an ER and it only happens when everyone is standing near by and is able to hear the mistake. Double thumbs up guys. Great job!

[@MyName-ht9ir]

I love that you laughed at yourself. It's so important that we show grace and kindness to ourselves as well as others. During this last 2 years I've found lots of new comedians, you guys are my favorite because....it's just real, and never about putting anyone down. My kids are adults and I still relate to all of it. ❤️

[@jamaicarochester6210]

I am totally able to relate to the mood swings and needing to recover. It’s awesome to see that you get so much support. Thanks for making me laugh and sharing pieces of you life with us.

[@nosacchfry8458]

The pumping and bleeding nipples! I powered through mastitis this last postpartum (makes me feel like a rock star now), and managed to nurse for 10 months! Hard things are so worth it, parenting included.

[@Xtremehiphoptati]

I would love to hear more of Heidi’s postpartum experience, it’s so relatable!

[@heale3944]

I just love Heidi, we all need understanding mom's like her in our lives. And props to Taylor for paying attention.

[@tiffanyluna5826]

I always called myself a human food dispenser while nursing. You never get a break. I don't miss postpartum because my emotions were all over the place. My favorite part was the banging on the pot and acting crazy because I relate to that. I really appreciate the laughs you all provide. All of these videos are a great reminder of what I'm about to go through this December.

[@blessedwtwins]

As a women who breast fed twins I can totally relate to all the woes. I remember sitting in the doctors office crying because my nipples hurts. Then telling someone how much I loved doing which just sounds so wrong but I did. I love that you are very open about breastfeeding it is a beautiful and natural thing.

[@anneh7725]

I'm so glad they get your reaction Heidi! Watching the 4th trimester video was awesome, and then the icing on the cake is KNOWING we get to see a second video on what you thought. Makes it better knowing he's trying to entertain not just us, but his wife. 😉 I had thoroughly wished for some sort of comment on the freezer being plugged in. Like him (as Heidi) buying a super expensive generator just for the freezer and checking on it. I'm so sad that happened in the past, but it would have been a great little ad on! (Protect the milk!!!) 🍼🍼🍼Keep being such an inspiring couple making us laugh about normal stuff 🥰

[@naomireaves3742]

AMEN! You have quite a refreshing attitude! Being seen and heard are huge obstacles of motherhood, so to see your awesome husband be able to not only make you feel seen and heard, but also make your heart happy with those struggles is beautiful. What a blessing! 🥰 Love you guys!

[@kb7984]

The hair! That was hilarious! But what isn’t hilarious is not being prepared for how much hair actually does fall out postpartum and having your emotional hormones make you cry that you’ll be bald forever. 🤣 It’s funny now, 2 years later.

[@vickicerruti]

It's no joke! Till this day I'm still shocked I didn't go bald! 🤣🤣🤣

[@smay745]

And then like 6 months later when you realize you have a full head of hair that’s half an inch long growing out a different color/texture.

[@VioletJoy]

And then it happens again during menopause. Booooooo!!

[@Angie_King_Bens_Grandma]

@@VioletJoy right?!🤦🏼‍♀️

[@VioletJoy]

@@Angie_King_Bens_Grandma Yeah, no fun!

[@lucyfresh4190]

that fact that Heidi literally doesn't even look like she's had a baby 🙄😒. But you look great! Otto is adorable! And I totally related to the pumping, and feeling like a 24/7 milk bar!!! Hahahahaha

[@leisewri]

Honestly I find it sweet that he's so attentive to your needs and experiences that he can ace a video like that. And I love Heidi's humorous and lighthearted approach to seeing it! You guys are a sweet family (:

[@kimberlymh3983]

Omg god! Some doctor, not even my daughters doctor, told me that my one month old would be delayed developmentally because I did not start tummy-time early enough. She was my first born and I didn’t know! And then she was condescending and said tummy time doesn’t count with the baby laying on your stomach!! Well now she is 3, and perfect. My husband and I had our second baby 2 months ago❤️. Love the videos! Always makes me laugh. I share them back forth with my sisters🙌🏻!

[@CarrieMyPhilos]

Thank you so much for this! As a first time mom at 5 months pregnant, it's really easy to get overwhelmed and scared with everything. I love how your videos show that even though things can be hard, that doesn't mean they're *bad. It's really encouraging to see how you are as a team, laughing, supporting, and getting through the tough stuff with so much love and positivity. 💗

[@Startingfresh87]

Heidis reactions are just as funny as the videos!!! Love you guys!!!! Thank you for all you do❤️❤️❤️

[@average13]

Oh gosh, 15 years later and I still remember all the nursing. I remember crying because it meant I could never get a moment to myself (dramatic hormones) but after awhile I realized I could use it as an excuse to leave situations. “Oh, I gotta go nurse…”😂👍

[@MoogieB]

A great time to rest with your feet up & actually enjoy the hormones!

[@ghostlyrose8946]

I use it as my excuse to sit and breathe. Otherwise I wouldn't sit down all day!

[@heathersimpson672]

You can tell he values her reaction so much...the way he looked at her at the end and rejoiced with his buddy 🥺 so sweet!

[@sparklemotion8377]

Both Heidi and Otto look amazing!

[@heatherhiggins6905]

The piles of laundry, the feeling that you’ll never catch up lol

[@DebBeePlus3]

The fact that you two can laugh at each other and appreciate each other through big life events is so encouraging.

[@littledancingfawn]

This is the reaction that hits home the most. She’s laughing through the entire video instead of explaining or defending herself. Awesome Heidi ❤️

[@mylavenda1]

"I need to pump" "I need to pump" "I need to pump" That was the most relatable part I think. Thank you so much for making this video. Also Taylor, DO NOT GO INTO A FIRE AND DIE!!!!!!!!!!

[@jessicalarson7042]

This was very relatable. I would say the only things missed were waking up soaked and the constant hunger and thirst after pumping/nursing

[@reannonking5514]

Watching this with my 5 week old sleeping on me. All of it, so relatable! This is my first baby and I really enjoyed watching these videos throughout my pregnancy.

[@hermithag]

Thanks for all the memories. My youngest is 28 now and I nursed him for the first 9 months. Taylor nailed it. Hang in there Heidi, you know how fast they grow up.

[@amandab6034]

I’m glad you feel seen! The whole what happens after baby is born is ignored by most. It’s a real deal recover!

[@jewelsgrl]

Nailed it with the nipple bleeding and the diaper! I’ve had 4, and I would also maybe include the falling asleep mid-sentence, horrible irrational fears about the baby’s safety or health, and wondering for a solid 2-3 weeks what the actual point of my husband being there was 😂😂🤪

[@misskara1586]

Maybe “postpartum” never truly goes away as your reaction to this video brought happy tears to my eyes. My part favorite was all of it. I’m a single mom of a 23 and 14 year old; I’ve never had the blessing of a husband or father like yours. Don’t get me wrong - my blessings are in plenty, just in a different form. To be seen and understood by your husband and the father of your children is priceless! Congrats to you Heidi - and your gorgeous family!! ❤️

[@mikekleven8130]

You guys have such an awesome relationship... So much love and understanding and being able to relate to one another and still make fun of each other...it's truly admirable 💯❤❤

[@asmilebrightenslife]

Sitting up even tho they are sleeping and you are exhausted just to watch their little face. And make sure they are still breathing. 😆 you all know we have all done it.

[@christinwoodrow9297]

“Mama’s Milk Bar open 24/7” SO TRUE and really overwhelming at times!!! My little guy is 6 weeks tomorrow. Haha, thanks for the laughs!!!

[@hanaauxier458]

You look STUNNING. Your hair compliments your skin tone beautifully- soft pink also looks great on you!

[@cindland]

Heidi wins on the impersonation videos. She’s got your mannerisms and speech quirks down. TOTALLY. Love how you two can totally laugh at each other’s ‘unique character traits’ and then laugh with each other about your interpretations too.

[@rachelolesen2827]

My kids are 16 months apart. I didn't even try to do anything when they napped, just napped with them, baby on top of me and toddler beside me. Now they're 6 and 7 and I can nap alone while they play lol. He missed (for me, at least) holding the extra stomach skin and asking what I'm supposed to do with it.

[@katelynlamb4580]

i’m pregnant with my first (well first and second i guess, it’s twins) and i have been watching these videos all throughout my pregnancy and i swear they’ve prepared me more than any book, blog, or doctor’s appointment😂💛

[@Insanity_awaits]

Taylor did an awesome job at capturing how so many new moms feel and what they go through everyday with a new baby. How Heidi felt with a pump on her pretty much all day is how I felt with my first baby pretty much attached to me All Day! Lol ❤ he was a feed on demand baby 😆 I'm pretty sure the amount of hair I lost could have made 2 full sized wigs out of both my pregnancies! The loss of hair is so real 😩 thank you Taylor for seeing us mama's out there and capturing it in a way that feels good. I truly miss the first year of a new babies life. That is when they needed me the most, I will never feel that needed from them in their life again. 😭

[@joslynborup4231]

Love this!! My hair falls out like that, too and it makes me want to cry. And he totally NAILED the emotional rollercoaster. A couple other things I'd add... Telling the baby "wake up, my boobs hurt". Leaking milk through shirts and bras and on the bed. Lots and lots of laundry. Especially between spit up and breastmilk. And constantly hearing phantom baby cry (especially while showering for the first time in a week). Thank you guys for doing these! I had my third baby early this year as well. The struggle is real. 🥰

[@PrayThenBreathe1528]

So excited to see this! I was hoping you would do this 😆 get ready. He was pretty spot on lol And as for the breastmilk, you can use it on anything! Burns scratches anything! It literally save my diabetic uncle and his knee. They had removed his leg and he formed a scab on his stub from where he tried to walk in his prosthetic and what would’ve taken him months, possibly another amputation, saved his knee! For real lol I would think I’m crazy too but it seriously works for everything. Save that crap! And let’s face it, our emotions are everywhere after a baby! Dads just don’t understand. Well, most dads I’ll say lol Please be patient with us. It isn’t our fault. “You did this!” We so need that on a tshirt lol

[@alisonchalmers8288]

Wow!! Seriously?!!

[@DudeDad]

LIQUID GOLD!

[@sailorarwen6101]

That’s the most wild thing I’ve ever heard and I’ll remember that

[@mamaj1844]

Haha! I'd love a tshirt that said that! We have eight children and have decided the last one (6 mo) really is THE LAST ONE - I definitely needed a shirt like that for my last pregnancy, LOL

[@LW-ej6id]

Yes. Extremely dry hands from dish soap...like crocodile skin dry and...it was normal in 3 hrs...stuff is alive

[@calluna7065]

The milk bar is open! Yes! I love how Heidi acknowledged that Taylor has seen the struggles. I will try to offer that appreciation to my own man.😉

[@GrammaTink615]

I love that Taylor paid attention to everything you’re going through and that you appreciated what he did and could laugh about it.

[@aijiexi]

I just love how you guys love each other and can take life and spit out rainbows from your soul like Care Bears!

[@acurtis64]

Oh, the constant pumping was so relatable for me. I exclusively pumped for 19 months with my second child and put on over 3000 hours on my pump. We were basically one entitity for those 19 months. 😂

[@jodiemcpherson8577]

Great job! I did it for 11 months and I’ll never get over that noise, it’s burned itself into my brain 😆

[@juliebranton1730]

That about sums it up 😂. I didn’t get hair loss, but the emotions are so real!

[@kristinmason8953]

Taylor and Heidi! Thank you so much for your amazing channel. I found y’all almost a year ago when my husband and I started to try for our first baby. One year later and we have an amazing baby boy. My husband is military and your channel has brought me so many laughs and warmed my heart during a very tough 7 month deployment. While the hubby didn’t make the birth he returns tomorrow to meet our two week old son. Your family is beautiful! Keep up the amazing work. You’re authentic, hilarious, and inspiring 💕

[@erinthom4997]

Spot on! The hair loss, the tears, the pumping, the complete exhaustion, the liquid gold reference to breast milk! Yes, I think the first (and last) time my husband dumped the remainder of the milk from a bottle down the drain he learned his lesson. Love your videos!

[@rileymccollister]

Favorite part was when you said you were using the breast milk on his cradle cap! It is seriously a cure all! I just used mine on my husband’s poison ivy! It truly is liquid gold! 😂

[@VerumBonumPulchrum777]

I think I related Most to the INSANE amount of hair loss (just had baby #3 as well, in April! We were very close to on the same track, my babe actually came Way early!!), the Diastasis Recti (mine was SUPER REAL this time with an emergency c-section!) and having your heart Melt over your babe and say you’re really not done having babies (even though everything was CRAZY intense/traumatic this time around, I’m more tired with 3 three and under, and my body healing is Definitely rougher 😂). So I chose 3. Too bad. 🤣 but seriously, the hair loss is OUTTA CONTROL. Can’t think right now of anything Taylor missed, he REALLY hit the nail on the head this go!!! 🙌🏽 I was laugh-crying!!! 🤣 🤣 🤣

[@cindishane7559]

The hair loss was so relatable because they don’t prepare you for that!! The one thing that I would add is the first “restroom visit” after having the baby. Every woman dreads it!

[@jennaom1]

What I relate to most is having a husband who empathizes! I’m 2.5 weeks postpartum with our first baby. It’s a lot. Im pretty tired and my nipples are raw. But my husband has been so great taking care of both of us. He acknowledges that he can’t do the feeding, so he tries to do all the rest. He’s also been mindful to get me out of the house to keep my mental health up as well. And as a bonus task, he saved our newly renovated basement from being destroyed by flooding from the recent hurricane… two days after coming home from the hospital! We’re talking elbows deep in sewage runoff, shoveling water into the sump pump, and bleaching the floor multiple times afterward. I’m so lucky to have a supportive partner, and it looks like you are too!

[@krystynalwood4161]

my favorite that I can seriously recreate is the hair in the shower. my hair hasn't stopped falling out from when I had my baby, BACK in October

[@erinmc5]

Pumping in a drive thru. Once you’re nursing and pumping nonstop, it’s so exhausting that you definitely get to a point where there are zero f*cks given anymore.

[@gardendancing1012]

I remember answering the door with my boobs out and not realizing it because they were always out. Luckily it was my mom and we all had a good laugh about it but My older kids started calling out for a boob check when there was a knock at the door.

[@openyoureyes3969]

Thanks for being such a good sport, because you guys have sure made me laugh the last year!

[@englishislit7720]

You guys are in tune. Love it. Thank you for the video.

[@gwenschillo1510]

The constant pumping is soooo relatable. I swear there’s a permanent butt print in my couch because for the first year of my youngest’s life all I did was sit there and nurse or pump.

[@thereseenders6899]

Currently sitting in my butt-dent after just having finished nursing my two month old. We got a new couch between babies one and two and I've already made a dent in the exact same place in the new couch.

[@gwenschillo1510]

@@thereseenders6899 Our couch was brand new too! 😂 Butt dents of the world, unite!

[@Brianna_Little_Apple_Mama]

I love the one where he’s taking a selfie and he says it’s for all the haters 😂. He didn’t mention any part about the leaking boobs!!

[@LanLuv]

I love it where she legit had anxiety he was going to die from a fire. I have had several of those, once my hubby parked the car with engine on to go grab something from store after a pediatrician appt. The car next to us moved and I immediately panicked and got scared our car started moving on to oncoming traffic. My heart stopped! Also he forgets to mention how your constantly having care for baby, cook, chores, clean, take care of kids, feed pump etc in a day while in pain, sleepless and exhausted!

[@emlanger7]

Love you guys! Thanks Heidi for being such a good sport, postpartum is tough, awesome you acknowledge it.

[@yvonnepalmquist8676]

"Let's just get one for the haters." Legit my favorite line. Unbelievable the amount of people who think they should/can comment on when and where a mother should breastfeed. What has happened to us as a society?

[@teamtina5571]

I love the fact that you still appreciate his humor. And I loved watching him watching you and waiting for a reaction. So very cool guys!! Mine are now grown up and I wish I had captured the spirit of parenting as you guys have!!

[@catherineflores7106]

I think this one was his best of the pregnancy videos he’s made. It really captured some of the struggles of the time and made them something I could laugh about. The extreme emotions are so real. Those hormones do crazy things to you. New moms need patience with themselves and patience from those around them as things balance out and everyone adjusts to all the changes that come with a new baby. I’m 3 weeks into 4th trimester with baby number 4 and some things are still as hard with number 4 as they were with number 1. My other 3 kids deserve lots of sympathy and gratitude for their patience with their poor hormonal mom during this time.

[@stephanievu3893]

Sooo my baby is about to be 5 months! He is our first and I have so enjoyed all of the Heidi episodes! They have really helped me keep my humor, and even helped ease some of my worries. Thanks for making it true, honest, AND funny!! Way to go Dudedad

[@rubyslippers1935]

Heidi, I am also going through postpartum with our second. Your laughter is what I needed today! Thank you so much!

[@rochellebartschi151]

Love this so much! Also, Heidi, nice job on keeping all of those plants alive! 🪴😉

[@nataliegraham9552]

This 4th trimester video and reaction was so funny! My kiddo is a teenager now, but I still remember the newborn months and the rollercoaster of sleep deprived emotions. I think what sticks with me even to this day from that time is the baby-soother bounce/sway. I now consider it a dance move. 💃 I catch myself doing it even just standing in line. As a matter if fact, I had a foster kitten burrito'ed in a receiving blanket last night and was doing the bounce/sway thing as it snoozed after getting some meds on board. 😄 Thanks for the laughs, I enjoy your content a lot!

[@stephaniemcguire]

I just recently discovered y'all, and I just love y'all!!! I'm mid 50s, workin' on 39 years of marriage. Y'all make me laugh so hard, so relatable, and brings back so many memories of my young wife and mommy days! Thanks!!

[@draaijman]

I always love Heidi's reaction video's even more than the already hilarious original!!

[@judymcpheron5955]

I needed this humour 38 years ago when I had my daughter! Lucky parents who see this today and think: "Some precious souls who get me! Thanks for all the laughter you two. 💗🤗💗

[@ashleylockwood4255]

Very relatable! Thanks for sharing truth but also making us laugh! I would add being touched out to the list too!

[@karenperry8538]

Heidi, you're the best. When I was postpartum I would have not been able to laugh at myself. (Although probably just as hilarious) Kudos to you for being a great mom, a great wife and all around great person!

[@RainbowDaffodil]

I love Heidi's reactions! Her laugh is infectious!

[@amandab6034]

The video I was waiting for! Looking great! Glad you all are well

[@kerigienger4925]

I loved laughing along with you in this video and how you acknowledged the very real truth of how good it is to be seen and acknowledged. As far as relating to the original video. The hair loss without a doubt was the most relatable... I've ended up with a bald patch in the front for my last three pregnancies (8 pregnancies, 6 living kiddos) and then as it grows out and looks like intentional layers when someone tells me my hair looks nice my response is either: thanks or this was accidental due to pregnancy hair loss 🤪😅. Thanks for the laughs!

[@paulversteegh7376]

I really enjoyed Heidi’s reaction to your impersonations. I hope she makes more videos like this. Very entertaining.

[@christie724]

God bless you Heidi ❤️ You are such a trooper! I appreciate you guys sharing like you do and making me laugh uncontrollably at times! 🤗

[@buttercupslightningbugs8089]

It’s tough being a new mom, but so rewarding 🥰. I was back in the hospital for severe postpartum preeclampsia for two weeks then sick a while after. Thank goodness I had help with our baby. I could definitely relate to the hair loss! My hair has stayed so thin but I’m just grateful to be here to be a wife and mom! 💙❤️Cheers to all the moms, and thanks for the good laughs!

[@Angie_King_Bens_Grandma]

Perfecting the one arm nursing, while picking up the house with the other hand... multi-tasking! I wasn't able to pump with the ancient home stuff available when I had my daughters, but I can relate to feeling like a walking milk machine. I loved nursing though. Going tent camping when my younger wad 4 months old was so easy without worrying about bottles, formula, etc... I used to doze off nursing, both of us lying on the bed😂 And the emotions🤪 definitely all over the place! Great job showing the real issues, but having fun with it too! 🌻

[@daniellehanson3137]

I love it! I can so relate to the milk being gold and the fact that Taylor paid attention to know you use that liquid gold for other things. Not a drop goes to waste! I have such a hard time pumping so much so that I just take baby with me everywhere and don't even attempt to pump so more power to you Heidi, you are supermom!

[@coffeeplease7924]

My most relatable- ALWAYS being attached to the baby or to a pump! New mom's never get a break! I pumped and nursed for the first 6 months of my son's life, my milk still was not really coming in so much and baby would get frustrated about my letdown sometimes if I waited to long to nurse. It was a very emotional time. I finally had to give up nursing and pumping because it was so draining on me physically and emotionally. I guess emotional rollercoaster is number one too. Baby Otto is so sweet! I would love to snuggle him! He makes my baby fever even more intense! You have been doing a great job Heidi! Keep it up! And Taylor has been doing great keeping an eye on you too! 😉

[@mariadennis5247]

Heidi’s reaction is sooo cute! And genuine.

[@KTplease]

I’m SO GLAD moms today can talk about breastfeeding and pumping so openly! I wish it had been that way 11 years ago. You go, Moms! Get that liquid gold!! It’s hard, but WORTH IT!

[@luckescotchy7089]

I watched that the other day, and have been waiting extremely impatiently for this reaction video. Totally Worth It! 🤪👍 Love You, Heidi! #1 Dude Mom! 🥇🏆