HELP... I HAVE TRUST ISSUES! | Dealing With Insecurities In Your Relationship Ep. 1 of 4

I can't stop wondering if he/she is cheating on me. I need to check his/her phone and social media DM's to make sure there's no side dish!
Sounds familiar?
Well, we've all had some form of trust issues here and there before in our current or previous relationships but have we really dealt with them constructively?
Join in on the conversation as we dive into some signs of insecurities and how to deal with trust issues in your relationship.
Enjoy the video and God bless you.
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[@RegoDise]

Hey Fam Bam, Have you had “Trust Issues” in your current or previous relationship? 💔 How did you deal with it? 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♂️ #RegoDise #FamBam

[@rinaemukumela3038]

territorial its even worse Rego ,if you look at the definition it talks about ownership ....that sound wrong and that's another reason we have high rate of GBV .we dont own people ...as always thank you for good topics .

[@tumelomotheoleipego]

I am learning to not question anything, even when my partner does something wierd or suspicious... so currently learning to enjoy Gods peace nstead.

[@thulilekhoza818]

Love it 🙌

[@RegoDise]

Now that’s wisdom. 🙏🏽

[@andiswavilakazi4721]

Can't we skip all the heartbreaks,insecurities,trust issues and just be led to our soul mates 😭🤦🏾‍♀️

[@ebenezarmwanyenya9325]

I affirm 😭😭❤️

[@rebbekanambala4936]

For real 😩

[@RegoDise]

Now that would be the best case scenario 🥺😔

[@omaatlaleepo3418]

We have to learn, if we don't still we will fail to handle a blessing. So it's necessary we go through pain

[@nomthandazoxulu9830]

This conversation was top tier. I once went through a partner’s phone once and let’s just say I found what I was looking for!😭🤣🤣

[@RegoDise]

Eish! 🙈 What happened thereafter?

[@KhanyisileDlamini23]

Wow thank you for this topic and the tips to deal with trust issues.when Rego said "don't expect your current to be like your ex" I really felt that😭😭❤I'm not married nor in a relationship coz I want to work on myself and I'm really learning alot from you guys😭you are truly a blessing ❤❤

[@RegoDise]

You’re welcome doll🤗♥️💐

[@yolandaclemons7401]

This is very good. I had not realized until this 3rd instance occurred with my boyfriend that he is insecure. 😢He continues to feel is he sees other men staring at me..he assumes I am staring back, or interested. I often have no clue of the presence of the other guys until he comes at me as looking. I am starting to feel very uncomfortable when we go out.

[@nakihlomayi4997]

You are both amazing. Beautiful title. Just that trusting God tends to be easy because God stays proving himself to us. He loves us even when we are undeserving and I think that's why most women have trust issues because it's in us to want to be loved and feel the person is trust WORTHY. SO TRUSTING God and having all those qualities of trust towards someone comes with them having proven themselves. Sometimes when trust broken...building it will take longer than the length it took to break it.

[@lesedidibetso802]

So glad i came just in time for this 🥰 #regodise #fambam

[@RegoDise]

We’re glad toy made it Lesedi 🥰

[@boitshokoponcho3604]

I needed to hear this. Thank you Rego and Dise❤️

[@RegoDise]

You’re welcome Boitshoko🤗💐♥️

[@nthabisengmthimkulu3996]

Beautiful Topic Fam' I just love how you open and honest about your feelings about it... We are all learning here, very insightful🙏

[@RegoDise]

You’re welcome Fam Bam🤗♥️

[@zusiphezuma1341]

I'm in a long distance relationship, and I've always wanted not to form up such emotions. But when certain things happen 🤔 it created those moments exactly of insecurities. But gradually I try to come over that. Thank you for this. Great content FAMBAM

[@gaythelchiwara7181]

Thank you for this topic RegoDise

[@RegoDise]

You’re welcome Gaythel😊

[@tshepisoboitshepo8912]

I needed to hear this .God bless you fam

[@RegoDise]

You’re welcome Tshepiso 🤗♥️

[@zinhle2428]

Eish ausi Rego bo Becky bamosha izinto. My bf was also too friendly with other females yhooo and I ended starting to check his phone nd we would fight nje I then tlked to him about hw I felt about it and then wayeka but it took him time

[@tumisangteeigh4399]

Thank you so much for this video and thats what most couples experience. I for one still have trust issues and just realised that I really lack self confidence

[@RegoDise]

You’re welcome Tumisang 😊 It’s important to build your self esteem before entering a relationship ♥️💐

[@MthaniyaM]

First let me just say I love you guys so much!!! Y’all are an amazing couple 🤗❤️. Thank you so much for such an informative video. I guess sometimes we may not even be aware of our insecurities although we trust our partners fully and that’s the worst type of feeling in a relationship.

[@RegoDise]

We love you too Lindo🤗♥️ So true… sometimes insecurities are our blind spots. 😔

[@maryntlama8530]

Thanks for the beautiful content 😍😍😍

[@RegoDise]

You’re welcome Fam Bam 🤗♥️

[@jasintamumba3738]

Thankyou for addressing this topic... I have learned so much especially that I had trust issues thats reason I ended my last relationship

[@RegoDise]

You’re welcome Jasinta and so sorry to hear about your previous relationship. 🥺 Now it’s time to work on self before entertaining another relationship. ♥️

[@rebbekanambala4936]

You’all suit to be presenters gosh🥵♥️♥️ I learnt a thing or two ...Thank you so much FamBam

[@RegoDise]

Thank you Rebbeka 🥰🙏🏽♥️

[@tshepangmokwena8738]

This honestly made me uncomfortable because the topic is so relevant to me and my current season. Thank you so much👀🥂

[@RegoDise]

You’re welcome Tshepang🤗♥️💐

[@sybilmthimkulu]

Let's hear... 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

[@RegoDise]

Enjoy! 🤗♥️

[@yl9165]

Thank you

[@mariaboemelwang7741]

Thank you guys ❤❤

[@RegoDise]

You’re welcome Maria 🤗♥️

[@neshnesh8649]

Amazing lesson guys much love

[@RegoDise]

🤗♥️🙏🏽

[@RealTalkWithNthabi]

loved it fam.

[@RegoDise]

Glad you enjoyed it Nthabi🤗♥️💐

[@tumelomotheoleipego]

I love this couple!

[@RegoDise]

This couple loves you too! 🤗

[@AR-ye2rt]

Hello Fam Bam, The trust issues in the partner, has nothing to do with the relationship directly. The partner has some unresolved issues with themselves and need (not be in a relationship at the time) to admit it, so their mindset go to easy way out to the blame game.🙏🏾

[@RegoDise]

Agreed. 💯

[@phoebeiheanetu1199]

I prefer the word "territorial" over "insecurity "

[@kgontsemadiba9785]

Wholesome content ❤️

[@RegoDise]

🙏🏽♥️

[@naledilady-k7202]

Thank you #FamBam for the topic

[@RegoDise]

You’re welcome Naledi ♥️🙏🏽

[@donaldmokgotho6995]

Your love content is so amazing 👏 . You guys are inspiring us and showing us that love exists. I'm really admiring your love life. I really wish for my partner and I to be mentored by you guys

[@RegoDise]

We are humbled. 🙏🏽 Thank you so much. 😊

[@kerrya2128]

💯Perfect match 👌love you both 👍💖

[@RegoDise]

🤗♥️

[@KhanyisileDlamini23]

Notification gang❤❤❤

[@RegoDise]

🤗♥️

[@rebeccabiyela9363]

Hello my favorite people love you guys so much

[@RegoDise]

Aww 🥰 We love you too Rebecca ♥️

[@kebaneilwemmesetse5445]

Notification wat wat❤❤

[@RegoDise]

💃🏽🎉🕺🏽🎉💃🏽🎉

[@kgontsemadiba9785]

It’s the Mpintji yaka for me at the end ♥️🥺😭

[@RegoDise]

🥰♥️

[@nelsiwempumelelo9604]

Loving the hair, what's the hairpiece?

[@RegoDise]

Thanks doll💁🏽‍♀️🥰 Check out Jullz_hairstylist on instagram.

[@bettyomondy6957]

Hey lovebirds....looking beautiful....

[@RegoDise]

🤗♥️

[@amylovona9309]

Yay!! 💃

[@RegoDise]

💃🏽🕺🏽🎉

[@adelaide_ratie9922]

Hey guys thanx for the vlog,what a very interesting topic indeed...Got a question guys,is it ok to trust too much😂😂??Coz I'm that type of person who does that,but in my last relationship it backfired😂..Now I've decided on the next one,i won't trust that much,he has to earn my trust 1st... By the way fam congratulations on the 70K subscribers ,surely our family is growing😊. #FamBam💖#

[@RegoDise]

You should definitely put your guard up in the initial phases of your friendship. As you begin to open up each other, you can obviously let your guards down. The key is to first build a friend. 👫🏽♥️

[@candyletshwiti4969]

My favorite couple

[@RegoDise]

🤗♥️

[@lukhonasouls5568]

Abantu bam 🥰

[@RegoDise]

🤗♥️

[@jasintamumba3738]

Fam bam❤️❤️❤️

[@RegoDise]

🤗♥️

[@zethudlamini2573]

Territorial

[@omaatlaleepo3418]

Rego when she said don't drag someone child and inflict them with your pain, I was dead 😂😂. And Dise laugh also was hilarious. Yah neh I am healing and stepping into the new season. I love my ex just that we were not aligned, I could say it was a purposeful relationship but I was not mentally mature to handle it. So now I have to on a jounery of finding myself

[@RegoDise]

Lol..🥰🙈 The healing journey is required and much needed, in order to reset and refocus on self first, before entertaining a new relationship.👫🏽♥️

[@omaatlaleepo3418]

@@RegoDise Thank you Regodise your relationship gives me hope that there is love. And life offers us second chances as long as we are willing to do the inner work first

[@mpumelelombense5659]

Hey Fam bam 💥

[@RegoDise]

Hey Mpumi 🤗♥️

[@wendymurangi]

Notification gang

[@RegoDise]

💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

[@rosecru-shay6840]

Fam bam ♥♥♥♥♥

[@RegoDise]

🤗♥️

[@mweli.4617]

My parents all the way♥️♥️♥️

[@RegoDise]

🥰♥️💐

[@elizabeththaisi6059]

Hey Fam!

[@RegoDise]

🤗♥️

[@bettyomondy6957]

Anyways i wonder why we don't guard our hearts, mind, body as much we do with gadgets

[@RegoDise]

So true hey… 😔

[@zee4458]

Let me just say FAM BAM I think you guys are compatible and soulmates ngoba thina on the other side we deal with a lot of issues in these relationships/marriages. I wish God may bless your marriage and help us learn from you .❤️❤️

[@RegoDise]

Thank you Zee 🙏🏽♥️ What’s going on in your relationship?

[@zee4458]

@@RegoDise Hi Fam Bam thank you for asking and I am glad you back , we missed you. I think the main problem is that we coming from different backgrounds , I was raised by married loving parents and when I get married I expected my marriage to be similar as of my parents and unfortunately my hubby was raised by a single mom and expose to abuse so I think that experience traumatised him but he is not abusive it’s just that he doesn’t know how should a marriage be so I have to teach him , it’s tiring sometimes but we are in a journey of getting help. And it’s not like this are that bad it’s just that I had high expectations and I know what my heart wants. But we will be okay fam bam And I am sharing here coz maybe someone else can relate and realise that they aren’t alone . Thank you fam bam can’t wait to watch Thailand videos♥️♥️

[@nokwandaaphiwe9952]

Hey Fam Bam🤗❤ So how do you know our relationship is officially ??

[@RegoDise]

Have you both agreed on the relationship and is there peace in your hearts about the relationship?

[@mariamofokeng1047]

The way Dise look at u😍😍

[@RegoDise]

🥰🙈♥️

[@sindysibanda1841]

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@RegoDise]

🤗♥️

[@ponaningoveni3528]

I stopped teaching, right after the notification 🤦‍♀️

[@RegoDise]

So sorry! 🥰🙈

[@parkerfares4235]

Is it ok for your partner to flirt with other girls

[@yl9165]

This is my issue he has lots of female friends

[@Thutomokone22]

Location sila 😍🤗

[@RegoDise]

🥰♥️💃🏽🕺🏽🎉