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@OneTopic2
@OneTopic2 10 ай бұрын
40% off my sunglasses FOR CHRISTMAS!🎉 shopkuma.com/discount/OneTopic40 if you want the same pair i have, i wear the Hawaii💜
@Stolas676
@Stolas676 10 ай бұрын
First
@CheeseTheHuman
@CheeseTheHuman 10 ай бұрын
Hello OT! Love your videos
@JustCallMeDom31
@JustCallMeDom31 10 ай бұрын
Oooh i bet i'd look good in a pair
@CheeseTheHuman
@CheeseTheHuman 10 ай бұрын
OT where can I get the Bightsaber? I have a “close female friends” that is Bi possibly Pan so I was wondering where i can BI it lol.
@buttercupup3687
@buttercupup3687 10 ай бұрын
9:25 that audio is Pedro Pascal in Kingsmen 2
@toxikkwasted666
@toxikkwasted666 10 ай бұрын
I became bisexual by pretending to be gay to piss off homophobes and then realized I actually like men.
@nononope75
@nononope75 10 ай бұрын
Just a smidge of trolling
@sharplily
@sharplily 10 ай бұрын
Too much trolling
@The-Person-Who-Asked
@The-Person-Who-Asked 10 ай бұрын
Same, but instead of just being homophobes in general, it was my parents.
@PerovNigma
@PerovNigma 10 ай бұрын
Fake it till you make it!
@Redfrootloop
@Redfrootloop 10 ай бұрын
Slay
@mittinss
@mittinss 10 ай бұрын
Petition to make "they were gym bros" the official masculine alternative to "They were roommates".
@audreydoyle5268
@audreydoyle5268 10 ай бұрын
Yaasssss! The himbos need one too!
@thewitchykitty5789
@thewitchykitty5789 10 ай бұрын
Gym bros, himbos, its perfect
@snowfire321
@snowfire321 10 ай бұрын
here me out: they were fishing buddies
@AnimationEvi
@AnimationEvi 10 ай бұрын
Yes
@EAustin-ge4yh
@EAustin-ge4yh 10 ай бұрын
Here me out- Tent-mates Ya know? Like war? Ok
@ChristyAbbey
@ChristyAbbey 10 ай бұрын
My kid came in one day and asked, "Would you be mad if I told you I was pansexual?" I laughed a bit, they started looking worried, so I said, "Would it make you mad if I said I was too?"
@wintig24
@wintig24 9 ай бұрын
You must be an awesome parent
@Irene-The-Bestest
@Irene-The-Bestest 7 ай бұрын
This is freaking awesome. ❤
@terrariaguy216
@terrariaguy216 7 ай бұрын
They should have responded with "There can only be one."
@Moon_lovesToh
@Moon_lovesToh 7 ай бұрын
@ChristyAbbey You really said:UNO REVERSE CARD
@ChristyAbbey
@ChristyAbbey 7 ай бұрын
@@Moon_lovesToh 😆
@LifeSeekingTruth
@LifeSeekingTruth 10 ай бұрын
The "scared the gay out of me" SENT me because that could've been my younger son LOL The fam has several stories in which his long hair got him mistaken for a girl. My favorite is when he was walking thru a store and some kid remarked "Look at the a** on that girl... Holy crap she's TALL" (He's 6'7") So he turned around and casually said "Oh thanks Man..." and the kid about fell over. Idk where the boy came by his wit, but he's my hero. XD
@everdale_stormz
@everdale_stormz 2 ай бұрын
That's fantastic 😂
@davigamer2144
@davigamer2144 2 ай бұрын
*Our* hero
@davigamer2144
@davigamer2144 2 ай бұрын
*Our* hero
@Perceous_Jackson-Wonka
@Perceous_Jackson-Wonka 16 күн бұрын
😂Fanstatic and Hilarious
@Im_sav_now
@Im_sav_now 6 күн бұрын
I heard somebody say that to my guy bsf💀
@hellakamechi102
@hellakamechi102 10 ай бұрын
I know it is totally parasocial relationship, but it's always a big boost of serotonin to be called roommates and got boopy. Thank you OT for, like, just existing.
@OneTopic
@OneTopic 10 ай бұрын
Thanks for being a roommate.☺️
@lampekartoffel
@lampekartoffel 10 ай бұрын
I know, right?! Words cannot express how happy I get every time he does the boop😭💙
@mjrasco
@mjrasco 10 ай бұрын
Same. ❤
@klash813
@klash813 10 ай бұрын
​@@lampekartoffelI don't often watch the outro of videos, but I make it a point to watch and wait for the boop! It makes my day.
@lampekartoffel
@lampekartoffel 10 ай бұрын
@@klash813 Yes! Same! It was a pure coincidence that I accidentally watched the outro of an OT video one day, think it was before the boop, but I kinda liked it and just continued. Then he started to give boops before telling us to get out, and now it's something I look forward to during the whole video🙈💙
@PokhrajRoy.
@PokhrajRoy. 10 ай бұрын
OT got out his Bisexual Lightsaber? Immediately a cultural reset. Thank you for all the affirmation, awakenings and accommodating more roommates.
@konstakivinen4228
@konstakivinen4228 10 ай бұрын
Incredible intro indeed
@kilian-one-l
@kilian-one-l 10 ай бұрын
so I read this before watching and I guess I've been reading too much smut because lightsaber just means a censored dick to me lmao
@Nerobyrne
@Nerobyrne 10 ай бұрын
What a legend ^^
@Idkpleasejustletmechangeit
@Idkpleasejustletmechangeit 10 ай бұрын
I'm sorry, but Bisexual "Lightsaber". I'm so fucking sorry. I just saw an opportunity for a joke. I am asexual. I will never make any jokes again.
@FederalKenobi
@FederalKenobi 10 ай бұрын
A BI-saber
@_StarlightRose_
@_StarlightRose_ 10 ай бұрын
"Why are you wearing an outfit made entirely out of books?" It's *plot* armor
@sternentigerkatze
@sternentigerkatze 10 ай бұрын
😂
@evanwoodward6376
@evanwoodward6376 10 ай бұрын
Take your 69th like and get out
@PippinFisherreed
@PippinFisherreed 10 ай бұрын
Uuugh
@PippinFisherreed
@PippinFisherreed 10 ай бұрын
Great job with that 🤣
@ThingInTheHall
@ThingInTheHall 6 ай бұрын
Take my like and get out
@fadez420
@fadez420 4 ай бұрын
"modern problems, bisexual solutions" is gonna be stuck in my head forever
@vanti_garg
@vanti_garg 3 ай бұрын
I want that on a T-shirt. It's a 𝙣𝙚𝙚𝙙
@auggieluv360
@auggieluv360 3 ай бұрын
@@vanti_garg Send me one please? 🙏🥺
@midpixie
@midpixie 10 ай бұрын
Love that OT went from "here's how to make friends at the gym" to debating dating his gym buddy
@mizu_yt
@mizu_yt 10 ай бұрын
honestly fair enough
@athena1491
@athena1491 10 ай бұрын
yeah that and talking about the "i want a boyfriend and another boyfriend who are boyfriends and im their girlfriend" as the ideal relationship
@loveyourwaifu1035
@loveyourwaifu1035 10 ай бұрын
fun fact. being bi and being a switch means you swing both ways... in both ways
@octagonalpsycho4399
@octagonalpsycho4399 10 ай бұрын
Lol that's me and I'm also genderfluid so i tell my friends I'm fluid in all but the physical sense
@Astro-fm3bk
@Astro-fm3bk 10 ай бұрын
​@@octagonalpsycho4399 on all levels but physical, i am water
@padmeamidala6850
@padmeamidala6850 10 ай бұрын
I'm just imagining a really cool ride at an amusement park. Like: you're swinging, and then the bar is also swinging, and everything is like spinning in circles.
@octagonalpsycho4399
@octagonalpsycho4399 10 ай бұрын
@@Astro-fm3bk exactlyyyy
@sundalosketch4769
@sundalosketch4769 10 ай бұрын
@@Astro-fm3bk A great motivator for staying hydrated, is to replenish and rejuvenate one's genderfluidity /j
@dotdotdot...176
@dotdotdot...176 10 ай бұрын
_"Sometimes it's nice to look at men"_ - One Topic, 2023
@OneTopic
@OneTopic 10 ай бұрын
👀
@red_riot2114
@red_riot2114 6 ай бұрын
👀
@CorlenoftheRoundTable
@CorlenoftheRoundTable 6 ай бұрын
😋…I meant 👀
@willpelkey1510
@willpelkey1510 5 ай бұрын
👀
@GoodBallAnimations
@GoodBallAnimations 4 ай бұрын
... I mean...
@bluelfsuma
@bluelfsuma 8 ай бұрын
9:51 _I saw a keysmash, realized it was the alphabet, skipped over halfway. I've never felt more called out in my life._
@AllieS_0706
@AllieS_0706 3 ай бұрын
LOL
@dr.bananagamez8594
@dr.bananagamez8594 2 ай бұрын
What sexuality are you? Yes
@Smoky_axel
@Smoky_axel 2 ай бұрын
Pansexual vibes
@Mythis1
@Mythis1 2 ай бұрын
I saw it was the alphabet and after halfway, sped through the rest (but still perceived each letter). Straightness confirmed 😆
@lilmeowmeow3592
@lilmeowmeow3592 Ай бұрын
Lol same
@tzisorey
@tzisorey 10 ай бұрын
"So you're like, half gay, half straight?" "No, fully gay, fully straight. Think of it like Jesus - fully mortal, fully divine"
@Tonsils-micman
@Tonsils-micman 2 ай бұрын
I'll use that against any Christian that says I'm going to hell, I'm just gay though lol
@tzisorey
@tzisorey 2 ай бұрын
@@Tonsils-micman Same. But my boyfriend is bi.
@teathesilkwing7616
@teathesilkwing7616 Ай бұрын
True, I was also determined to be bi at an ecumenical council meeting
@khornelordofskulls7090
@khornelordofskulls7090 10 ай бұрын
i love the "i come with nuts" comic (at 23:41) because the flat-chested M&M person means they're either 1. A trans MtF girl (dressing female identifies female), or 2. a femboy (dressing female identifies male) and there's no real way to tell which one it is.
@amandalynn4979
@amandalynn4979 10 ай бұрын
The comic creator confirmed that Garrett (The blonde one) is a femboy!
@UndecidedASMR
@UndecidedASMR 10 ай бұрын
@@amandalynn4979as a fan of an m4m series with a character named garrett, i can confirm
@malachi1970
@malachi1970 9 ай бұрын
​@@amandalynn4979who's the creator I want to read more
@amandalynn4979
@amandalynn4979 9 ай бұрын
@@malachi1970 The creator is Skaroy!
@Here_have_a_Flower
@Here_have_a_Flower 9 ай бұрын
What’s the comic called and where can I find it? Asking for a friend
@popechucky
@popechucky 10 ай бұрын
Honestly, I’ve known I am Bisexual for over 5 decades… and now I’m just happy to live openly🏳️‍🌈🥰🏳️‍🌈
@AramatiPaz
@AramatiPaz 10 ай бұрын
❤ Congratulations
@popechucky
@popechucky 10 ай бұрын
@@AramatiPaz you are very kind🏳️‍🌈🥰🏳️‍🌈
@treefrogg
@treefrogg 10 ай бұрын
this is such a sweet story! i’m so happy you’re able to be yourself 💕🏳️‍🌈
@smeargle518
@smeargle518 10 ай бұрын
We really need new pride flags emojis 💙💜💖
@UserMcUsyface
@UserMcUsyface 10 ай бұрын
I absolutely love that. ❤️❤️
@illusion7007
@illusion7007 10 ай бұрын
As a pansexual, I’d like to say the sims one is accurate. I do speak gibberish and I have, indeed, almost set my parents house on fire.
@5tr4wberrys0da
@5tr4wberrys0da 7 ай бұрын
I hate when i wash my dishes in the bathroom sink 😓😓😓
@isaiahh_1
@isaiahh_1 6 ай бұрын
Man it's so annoying when I can't step over a paper towel 😔😖
@dumb.blonde12
@dumb.blonde12 4 ай бұрын
Man it’s so annoying when the pool ladder just suddenly disappears and I almost drown 😔
@Earthstar_Review
@Earthstar_Review 3 ай бұрын
Okay the only one I haven't done is the last one.
@Kaare-The-Heathen
@Kaare-The-Heathen Ай бұрын
Simlish is an actual constructed language which makes this a bit funnier
@asterisnotalive
@asterisnotalive 10 ай бұрын
CAN WE TALK ABOUT HOW GOOD THE “BECAUSE I COME WITH NUTS” LINE IS?
@your_local_transmasc_warriors_
@your_local_transmasc_warriors_ 10 ай бұрын
YES! Now we just need a transmasc version :')
@fairygoodmuller8065
@fairygoodmuller8065 10 ай бұрын
soo smooth
@dyingofdioxide
@dyingofdioxide 10 ай бұрын
@@your_local_transmasc_warriors_ something about trypophobia and having more holes...
@your_local_transmasc_warriors_
@your_local_transmasc_warriors_ 10 ай бұрын
@@dyingofdioxide ... I HAVE a form of trypophobia, but it's more in the sense of how homophobia is meant, something about a hole bunch of holes (get it? Ik its bad TvT) in one place doesn't really scare me, just sort of disgusts/creeps me out/fascinates me
@spook6394
@spook6394 10 ай бұрын
Hope u like donuts bc mine is glazed EWWWWWWW WHAT IS THIS
@nothankyou6840
@nothankyou6840 10 ай бұрын
"I want two boyfriends, and I want my boyfriends to be boyfriends" is my life's goal. I just want men, all around me, who all love me and each other, and we're all extremely gay for each other.
@adrianomaly1760
@adrianomaly1760 10 ай бұрын
Hey it can be real! Keep strong!
@the711devin4
@the711devin4 9 ай бұрын
Go on get your harem of men!
@dr.markus-level3researcher
@dr.markus-level3researcher 9 ай бұрын
So real
@KirbosPlanet
@KirbosPlanet 9 ай бұрын
polyamory then?
@pansexualpickle
@pansexualpickle 8 ай бұрын
YESSIR GO GET YOUR MEN also that’s really cool
@rubenvandebelt8979
@rubenvandebelt8979 10 ай бұрын
Making friends as an adult can seem very difficult, but remember that "what is your favorite dinosaur?" Is still a good conversation starter, make it light!
@Alex12111980
@Alex12111980 10 ай бұрын
Im 43 and I would gladly speak about favorite dinosaurs with anybody of any gender or age. Your theory stands.
@neoqwerty
@neoqwerty 10 ай бұрын
@@Alex12111980 Seconding dinosaurs, mine is currently microraptor because TINY FOUR WINGED MAGPIE PROTOBIRB GLIDER!!!! edit: Though the yi qi is my runner-up second if only because of how odd it is, it's like someone decided to remix archaeopteryx but more bat wing.
@this_is_me_Mika
@this_is_me_Mika 10 ай бұрын
​@@Alex12111980Same! But now I'm curious, what is your favourite dinosaur?
@NeoRena
@NeoRena 10 ай бұрын
ankylosaurus. They're super cute and look like little turtles almost and have an awesome club trail for defense! Plus the spikes along their sides. They're just the best for me~
@hannahtoennis8860
@hannahtoennis8860 10 ай бұрын
Mines archeopteryx (i think that’s how it’s written) they are pretty cool for being this small and are definitely the underdogs of the dinosaur roster
@RubyRed88422
@RubyRed88422 5 ай бұрын
I found out i was bi from dating a girl and thinking i was lesbian, then dating a guy and thinking i was straight, then dating a femboy and realizing im bisexual.
@tmmkanka7777
@tmmkanka7777 2 ай бұрын
DATING A FEMBOY !!!! I WANT ONE TOO
@ShriekingLlamas
@ShriekingLlamas 10 ай бұрын
The bisexual lore is shared with the ace community. It’s that meme about switching the purples on our flags because they look better that way
@charliekahn4205
@charliekahn4205 10 ай бұрын
Is there a bisexual/asexual flag code, where these colors are officially defined in hex, or are these codes just colloquially agreed?
@Okay_Is_Wonderful
@Okay_Is_Wonderful 10 ай бұрын
They _DO_ tho fr 💜
@KiboSanti
@KiboSanti 10 ай бұрын
​@@charliekahn4205I'm sure there's an "official" hex code list of pride flag colors *somewhere*, but I have absolutely no idea who is in charge of keeping it "official".
@broblerone413
@broblerone413 10 ай бұрын
@@charliekahn4205 yeah there's a semi-official hex code based on the original designs, but it's not really a required thing
@mjrasco
@mjrasco 10 ай бұрын
Kapwing has one, but the purples are almost all different.
@Anna-ul6wm
@Anna-ul6wm 10 ай бұрын
About all bards being horny af: Thursday I started playing an socially awkward ace/aro bard with high charisma, who is just charistmatic and persuasive without noticing. It's been fun so far 😂
@toni2309
@toni2309 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for your sacrifice, hopefully this will let me play a sorcerer, warlock or maybe an artificer who wants to lay everyone.
@Anna-ul6wm
@Anna-ul6wm 10 ай бұрын
@@toni2309 It's an honor ( honestly I'm kinda playing myself 😅)
@BLEBBLEB
@BLEBBLEB 10 ай бұрын
I also play a bard and he's not that horny...I mean a bit...but not that much ^^'
@HALOSnHORNS
@HALOSnHORNS 10 ай бұрын
My goals is to create a tsundere Rouge ranger ❤
@kirstenwyatt9675
@kirstenwyatt9675 10 ай бұрын
My bard characters are more in the "if not friend, why friend shaped?" I have become an emissary for 3 monster villages, and am garnering a reputation for luck in working out trade agreements.
@adrih8694
@adrih8694 10 ай бұрын
I was raised in an accepting household, but the only exposure to relationships I had in media was mlm couples and het ones, so I never made the connection that I, a woman, could get a girlfriend. But in middle school, some classmates started talking about sexuality, and when I asked them about it, they gave me the basic rundown. At the end, I just decided "Well, I'll be bi, that sounds like a very cool thing to do." and I've been bi ever since.
@tylerphuoc2653
@tylerphuoc2653 10 ай бұрын
"You were born bisexual. I learned about it in school and immediately converted myself. We are not the same." 🗿
@mallardofmodernia8092
@mallardofmodernia8092 10 ай бұрын
​@@tylerphuoc2653like choosing a class in a skill tree after reaching the required xp and storyline progress 😂😂
@Aura_DastlerTv
@Aura_DastlerTv 10 ай бұрын
I read about bisexuality on Wattpad and went "yea, that seems about right." So yea-
@kellymurphy1098
@kellymurphy1098 10 ай бұрын
Read this comment and thought it said MLM relationships and I was like "So you thought you had to be straight or in a pyramid scheme?"
@sus_shark
@sus_shark 10 ай бұрын
@@kellymurphy1098 no one fucks you harder than a pyramid scheme 🥵
@ACAB.forcutie
@ACAB.forcutie 8 ай бұрын
The "I took a married man to bed.. and his wife" the wife is awake n the video was probably her idea, she's playing asleep. Hubby is still sleeping.
@crownclowncreations
@crownclowncreations 10 ай бұрын
As a trans man who used to be out as a "lesbian woman" for years, I was so confused about my sexuality and gender, due to internalized trans- and homophobia. It took me getting hospitalized with severe depression to finally start acknowledging my feelings - including that I am a man who really likes other men. I am also a HUGE Batman fan/nerd, so ofc I was extremely hyped when "The Batman" with Pattinson came out. Went to the movies to see it, and the entire time I just sat in my seat, flustered in a pansexual panic at how attractive Pattinson was as Batman and Zoë Kravitz was as Catwoman 😳
@EzaleaGraves
@EzaleaGraves 10 ай бұрын
On of my friends had the exact opposite story. She had a lot of internalized homophobia from her parents, but growing up the topic of gender identity never came up so she never got any internalized transphobia. In college she realized that she liked women, and the way her upbringing manifested made her think that she must be trans as men are the ones attracted to women After a couple years of soul searching and living with different sets of pronouns she eventually realized (these are her exact words on the matter), "Oh, I'm not trans, I'm just a dyke" 😂
@Montesama314
@Montesama314 10 ай бұрын
Pfft, what's go great about Batman? A pillar of man, shrouded in the darkness clinging to his form like raindrops down his chiseled countenance, his fiery stare just as strong as the fist he deals upon his enemies or the hands he uses to pull a beautiful catburglar into his mighty arms? Pfft, nothing hot about that...
@cheddarcheezit2647
@cheddarcheezit2647 10 ай бұрын
@@Montesama314 We know it's you, Talia Al Ghul-
@psymar
@psymar 10 ай бұрын
​@@Montesama314Meh, I can't see all that past the part where he's a cop.
@Boopthe_bip
@Boopthe_bip 10 ай бұрын
I’m sorry this happened to you, this is an amazing story I’m so happy for you, but I just had to say, agreed, the batman franchise is rlly cool, and she was the hottest catwoman to boot :)
@chickenmaster3879
@chickenmaster3879 10 ай бұрын
One day, OT should end an r/suddenlybisexual video by saying the last word of a meme and then IMMEDIATELY "BYE!" and the video ends without the end cutscene.
@frigofroid104
@frigofroid104 10 ай бұрын
Instead of "Bye bye" it's "Bi Bye"
@W1ndowP4in
@W1ndowP4in 10 ай бұрын
Even better if its just a monotone "Bye.", itd scare me tbh
@MillyThe_Rat
@MillyThe_Rat 10 ай бұрын
​@@W1ndowP4in scarier than the monotome "kyaa"
@freddiefishton
@freddiefishton 10 ай бұрын
He would be suddenly saying bye… I get it
@artbookgaming
@artbookgaming 10 ай бұрын
Ideas for next april fools I guess
@sloth7ds
@sloth7ds 10 ай бұрын
The "95% attracted to X" is what ive learned is called "heteroflexible" or "homoflexible" depending on your flavor, and was how i began my journey to coming out as Bi.
@fafnirthelagaardianhaxorus9862
@fafnirthelagaardianhaxorus9862 10 ай бұрын
​@@b14hb14h Lol
@the711devin4
@the711devin4 9 ай бұрын
I KNEW THERE WAS A NAME FOR IT
@stormmai9204
@stormmai9204 7 ай бұрын
I am a trans man who got hit up on fetlife by a heteroflexible man. As a trans person it’s so hard to tell if someone is being transphobic or actually heteroflexible
@MaggieBentley-zy2nh
@MaggieBentley-zy2nh 8 ай бұрын
The bisexual flag can be flown with pink or blue on top, because it’s OK to go both ways.
@heartofdawn2341
@heartofdawn2341 10 ай бұрын
As a very sapphic bisexual, the rare times a man pings my radar are always a pleasant surprise Oh, _Hello!_
@Soken50
@Soken50 10 ай бұрын
As a very gay dude, same. First time it happened I swiveled so fast I got whiplash, followed by a lot of reexamining my preferences.
@justaperson4656
@justaperson4656 10 ай бұрын
Same but in reverse. I'm a dude, I like dudes most often, but women... Damn 👀
@Jane-oz7pp
@Jane-oz7pp 10 ай бұрын
saaaame, every now and then I see a guy and I'm just like "... yes. Yes indeed, that is a nice looking man" and then can't get them off my mind. Otherwise it's sapphism all the way down babyyyy
@DRMatt-zd4rh
@DRMatt-zd4rh 10 ай бұрын
And then a while later she comes out and everything makes sense
@TheDarkNerd
@TheDarkNerd 10 ай бұрын
​@@DRMatt-zd4rh was just gonna ask the original poster how often that happens.
@kellymurphy1098
@kellymurphy1098 10 ай бұрын
So the "bisexuality is default" thing was actually Kinsey's finding back in the day (That both exclusively gay and exclusively straight people were quite rare), and is one of the things people freaked out about the most when he released his reports. Historically there's pretty good evidence for this as well because many ancient cultures like Rome embraced this as well. Being bi was considered normal, and limiting yourself to one sex or the other was viewed as odd.
@PokeMageTech
@PokeMageTech 10 ай бұрын
I would’ve been odd then. Well. I already am. Autistic, ADHD, germaphobic.
@PeachDragon_
@PeachDragon_ 10 ай бұрын
I do actually agree with you about bisexuality being the norm, but as an amateur historian i would like to point out that Rome was perfectly fine with zoophilia and Roman orgies included animals as standard practice, so I am doubtful about them being a very good example
@PeachDragon_
@PeachDragon_ 10 ай бұрын
​@@PokeMageTechare you diagnosed by a professional? I've never heard of someone having ADHD and autism, they're complete opposites, it must be very weird.
@ravvy9329
@ravvy9329 10 ай бұрын
@@PeachDragon_ Certainly Rome was more liberal, but you'll find evidence of gay or bisexual relationships in many other histories as well, including Japanese, Chinese, Greek, Egyptian, etc. And even in American history, paying particular attention to military. When men were away from their wives or even just deprived of contact with the opposite sex, some would seek each other to have needs met. In Japanese history, it was common for warlords to find a brothel before a huge battle because they needed their minds clear. Interesting facts. 🙂
@gamehero6816
@gamehero6816 10 ай бұрын
​@@PeachDragon_ADHD and Autism are almost always diagnosed together.
@Myder_Dragon
@Myder_Dragon 10 ай бұрын
For me its wasn't suddenly bi It was years of having to undo the homophobia that I'd been taught as a kid and come to the realization that guys can be hella cute
@mezzthedragon
@mezzthedragon 10 ай бұрын
For me it was reverting years of misogyny, it made me more accepting of myself and the side effect made me slowly realise how gay I am
@am3z_ssbu
@am3z_ssbu 10 ай бұрын
frfr but for me it was every single gender (and the genderless!)
@tobiaszmichalik9672
@tobiaszmichalik9672 10 ай бұрын
Same
@mrce420.7
@mrce420.7 10 ай бұрын
Me except I'm a girl and one day I went "wait why am I supposed to hate gay people again, because they're weird? i'm weird." At like twelve years old. And then proceeded to have a crush on my girl best friend for five years straight 😀 that's why I didn't get it, I was one of them 👍🏼👍🏼
@ihatepeople231
@ihatepeople231 10 ай бұрын
Well you're at 69 likes and I'm not messing with that so 👍 But also yeah me too I had so much homophobia instilled in me from a young age that I would gaslight myself into believing I was straight because it was easier than facing the truth. It took a long time to get over that before I realized that I really like women a lot more than I like men (even though I do have an absolutely amazing bf rn)
@noodleofgaming5516
@noodleofgaming5516 5 ай бұрын
I remember the day I realized I was bi was extremely sudden. I was standing outside of a hotel in California in the rain, on tile, and a guy walked by on the sidewalk and it was right then and there where I realized that my romantic thoughts about men was in fact me actually being attracted to them and not just *weird shower thoughts*. I then promptly fell flat on my ass when I went to step forwards.
@llmkursk8254
@llmkursk8254 10 ай бұрын
I had a thought about that “if you were the opposite gender for a day” and very quickly realized that yes, I am trans. Good to know!
@brihebert119
@brihebert119 10 ай бұрын
Congratulations! 🎉 Being aware is the first step... but it's also the most scary step because now you're like of f*ck what do I do now... and being trans looks different for every trans person in terms of transitioning, partially transitioning, and even not transitioning at all! Just know that from a non binary person here that you're valid no matter what.
@llmkursk8254
@llmkursk8254 10 ай бұрын
@@brihebert119 Oh, I'm 6 months past the first step, hun. I'm still trying to feel it out. Mostly because I'm poor and have more pressing matters to worry about first. I at least live in a US state that is very accepting of LGBTQ+ ideas, so there's that.
@xdani_thethinkingneko
@xdani_thethinkingneko 3 ай бұрын
​Depending on where you live, you should look into see if state health insurance,if you happen to qualify for it (which if you're impoverished ,you most likely do) , covers gender affirming care. I live in connecticut, and legislation was passed, to make it so that state health insurance coverage gender affirming care. At least for people who are on State health insurance. @@llmkursk8254
@VancePantss
@VancePantss 10 ай бұрын
I think a part of the problem with the guys saying they're hooking up with tons of guys but they're still straight is the lack of separation in sexual orientation and romantic orientation in mainstream society. You can be bisexual and heteroromantic.
@katanah3195
@katanah3195 10 ай бұрын
The thing is, there have been a lot of times and places where sexuality and romantic orientation have been viewed as separate things, and in a lot of them, being bisexual but not biromantic was seen as perfectly normal and acceptable, either just for men or for everyone - or it was largely believed that the type of love one can experience for one's own sex and for the opposite sex are completely different and so it's fine to hook up with both as long as you're not cheating on a long term partner, or there was a concept of "you marry someone your opposite sex who you can tolerate in order to have children, and then sleep with your same sex friends you actually like behind their back. It's not really cheating because if it's gay it doesn't count the same as if it's straight."
@LeyCarnifex
@LeyCarnifex 9 ай бұрын
I mean, if he says he's straight, then I believe him. You can hook up with people you're not attracted to. Plenty of people do it. You can enjoy sex with men without actually being attracted to them, just like it's possible to date people without experiencing romantic attraction. More power to him for being so confident in his sexuality that he feels comfortable hooking up with men while still identifying as straight. It's not just about separating different types of orientation and attraction, you also gotta separate attraction and action.
@bluester7177
@bluester7177 8 ай бұрын
@@LeyCarnifex I'm ace and I agree, but dude hooked up with 50+ guys, I would say he is at least a little bit bi, but he can use whatever label he feels more comfortable in.
@seigeengine
@seigeengine 2 ай бұрын
I personally completely disagree with this notion. I have seen zero reason to even acknowledge the notion of romantic orientation as a thing that exists. If you want to bang but not date someone of the same sex, you're not "heteroromantic," you're a homophobe.
@FeffurW
@FeffurW 10 ай бұрын
I declared myself as bi in like 5th or 6th grade because my ace ass thought that "liking" both genders meant actually liking them and being their friend 😭 In my defense I was only told by a "friend" that straight means liking people of opposite sex, bi means you like both and homo means you like the same one. We also didn't have sexED, so this was literally the first time I've heard these words
@elizabethyow1165
@elizabethyow1165 10 ай бұрын
This story was so funny and sweet, and also relatable 💜🖤🩶🤍
@waterworks_yes
@waterworks_yes 10 ай бұрын
STOPP IM AROACE AND I DID THE SAME 😭😭
@kriticalwatermelon5850
@kriticalwatermelon5850 10 ай бұрын
From what I remember, asexuals were often branded as bi back in the 70s? It was the logic of "Well being bi means you like both genders equally. So No-Attraction Nancy is Bi, since she doesn't like both genders equally."
@jmurray1110
@jmurray1110 10 ай бұрын
It’s apparently quite common
@MercurialHaze909
@MercurialHaze909 10 ай бұрын
Wow. Honestly this sounds like something I'd do if my parents hadn't told me what different words for sexualities meant early 😂
@unHolyEvelyn
@unHolyEvelyn 3 ай бұрын
You described exactly how I view sexuality - bisexuality being the default and the extremes being more rare but taught more in society.
@Yeshuah6
@Yeshuah6 2 ай бұрын
I've said for many years now that everyone is at least a little gay. Whether they want to admit it or not.
@hulda4ever
@hulda4ever 10 ай бұрын
I feel bisexual girls get such sh*t for just being with men...I like girls way more but I fell for a bisexual man and was with him for 6 years. He didn't turn straight and neither did I. We just admired people together
@screamingcactus1753
@screamingcactus1753 10 ай бұрын
People seem to treat it like Schrodinger's sexuality, like being bi just means the waveform hasn't collapsed yet and as soon as you date someone, that cements you as gay or straight
@ChristyAbbey
@ChristyAbbey 10 ай бұрын
I had one of those. 'Twas *fantastic*!
@wintig24
@wintig24 9 ай бұрын
"Look at that guy over there, he's so cute." "Omg, you're so right!" Absolute couple goals
@radschele1815
@radschele1815 8 ай бұрын
Omg, I love my straight boyfriend, but I'm jealous 😢 (And I can talk with him about that like that, too, but it's more technical for men then. He's a bit of a fit nut, slightly
@AliceBunny05
@AliceBunny05 6 ай бұрын
yeah definitely, I'm a bisexual girl who does have a preference for men, and I'm also hyperfeminine which for a lot of people makes them think im even more "straight" even though, as many sapphics know, hyperfeminine women are actually really often sapphic. a lot of the hyperfeminine alternative fashions attract a huge amount of sapphic individuals.
@EvanAfton10
@EvanAfton10 10 ай бұрын
I think the bisexual vs pansexual argument is the only time Omnisexual and polysexual people are glad to be forgotten, because they don’t have to be dragged into that mess
@casperthenotfriendlyghost
@casperthenotfriendlyghost 10 ай бұрын
As an Omni I can confirm
@shadowolfkiller9337
@shadowolfkiller9337 8 ай бұрын
Wait, polysexual exists? I always suggested that we changed the name from pan to poly since it had the same initial and made more sense, btw what are the differences?
@loreteller.
@loreteller. 8 ай бұрын
​@@shadowolfkiller9337Pretty sure poly people are okay with *multiple* partners at once, regardless of gender, while pan people prefer only one partner at a time (also regardless of gender) - anyone feel free to correct me if I'm wrong
@shadowolfkiller9337
@shadowolfkiller9337 8 ай бұрын
@@loreteller. thank you
@loreteller.
@loreteller. 8 ай бұрын
@@shadowolfkiller9337 No problem
@endo5464
@endo5464 10 ай бұрын
I came out as bi a little while ago and I have known for three years, i have never been more happy. I am so proud of myself :3
@maironelfstone896
@maironelfstone896 10 ай бұрын
I'm proud of you! ❤️
@chloehopewell8362
@chloehopewell8362 10 ай бұрын
Also proud of you 😊❤
@andrecarpenter2432
@andrecarpenter2432 10 ай бұрын
Congrats!
@alicebthegachaweirdo8378
@alicebthegachaweirdo8378 10 ай бұрын
Congratulations!
@Mysterious_Chaos_Wolf
@Mysterious_Chaos_Wolf 10 ай бұрын
I’M SO PROUD OF YOUUUUU!!!!! Coming out can be an incredibly personal and difficult thing, you absolutely should be proud of yourself!
@theodorebarton4256
@theodorebarton4256 10 ай бұрын
0:14 “what’s up roommates” what, no more what’s up my beardos and weirdos?
@zeanyt2372
@zeanyt2372 9 ай бұрын
Us being roommates means KZbin legally can't evict us. (Meaning unsubscribe us) It's an ongoing joke.
@theodorebarton4256
@theodorebarton4256 7 ай бұрын
I know, I’ve been around for a few years, but still. It’s nostalgic
@Mysterious_Chaos_Wolf
@Mysterious_Chaos_Wolf 10 ай бұрын
Not me thinking I was straight for years and ignoring my strong preference for men thinking I just wanted to be like them because I’m trans. The wanting to be like them thing was actually true for a while but once I was more comfortable with myself I realized I was absolutely bi. Also, little shoutout to my fellow biromantic aces out there!
@RavenMenel
@RavenMenel 10 ай бұрын
I became suddenly bi by kissing my friend as a joke
@miserablepumpkin9453
@miserablepumpkin9453 10 ай бұрын
Nice
@Samurai_2552
@Samurai_2552 10 ай бұрын
Omg what a way to find yourself!
@Luca..S
@Luca..S 10 ай бұрын
Blushing skeleton emoji is so cute
@Jackie777
@Jackie777 10 ай бұрын
I was that friend once. I just like kissing people and one girl came over as a dare from her boyfriend, and then approached me on her own 3 more times that night and the next day was incredibly confused. Her boyfriend was, on the other hand, very amused. I think he knew XD
@flawedmind
@flawedmind 10 ай бұрын
I had a very similar experience and another with a short snuggle but in a purely asexual way. It was very alterous.
@thatonelizard5193
@thatonelizard5193 10 ай бұрын
I've never heard someone call bisexuality a cult but it was really funny. I'm bi and I immediately went and shared this with my friends so they knew where my allegances lie. Thank you.
@ANGST-e2w
@ANGST-e2w 25 күн бұрын
Mood, OMG
@abbienormals1669
@abbienormals1669 9 ай бұрын
I was a little 'suddenly bisexual' when I first saw the movie Hackers. Have you seen Angelina Jolie in that role? Hot damn.
@SienAppelsien
@SienAppelsien 10 ай бұрын
That bisexual flirting thing is literally so me, i went to gamescom this year and met a female league of legends team i like and one of them is literally so tall and super stunning and i just stopped in front of her and said 'ooohh my god you are seriously so pretty' and then left, almost tripping while going down the stairs cause my cosplay was tight and heavy 💀💀
@xionxiv9293
@xionxiv9293 10 ай бұрын
Sounds so cute ❤ 😂
@glamfishy
@glamfishy 10 ай бұрын
I'm not bi, but I am ace and I think there is a surprising amount of crossover between the 2
@areswalker5647
@areswalker5647 10 ай бұрын
Yes because actually neither of us gets any action with any sex 😂❤
@alachedelmictlan648
@alachedelmictlan648 10 ай бұрын
​@@areswalker5647as a kissless virgin biromantic ace, indeed neither we get any shit with none 😂💔 We are not bisexual/biromantic, we are bi-ourselves 😂😂😂😅😅😅
@Lectrikfro
@Lectrikfro 10 ай бұрын
The most epic crossover since Avengers Endgame
@riverstyx7251
@riverstyx7251 10 ай бұрын
People assume we’re exact opposites but actually I’ve heard a lot of ace people spend time in the bi community because they’re like “well I feel the same way about every gender and surely romantic and sexual attraction is something I experience so I must be bi” I am ace people. Aroace to be exact. Hello~ It was really fun explaining to my pansexual therapist that I’ve been ace all this time when she thought I was bi. I just went “oh, everybody assumes that because they don’t listen to the rest of my sentence when I say I’m biromantic grey aroace. I stopped trying to assert the aroace part at some point since that doesn’t compute in people’s brains as easily which means sometimes I trick myself into thinking I’m just bisexual all over again until I remember I’m not :D”
@Genderanarchy
@Genderanarchy 10 ай бұрын
Fun fact the bi community and the ace community were largely comingled in the early days of the lgbt community, and with same gender attracted aces they were called Bambi lesbian/gay/bi. Bambi I guess used to be a slur for the mlm community (specifically against young bi men) in the 50s but was reclaimed because of someone rediscovering the term “Bambi lesbian” and posting abt it on tumblr! (Edit: Bambi in this context meaning a sexually fluid and sensitive person who prefers cuddles and kisses to sex)
@President_Starscream
@President_Starscream 10 ай бұрын
If you saw the alphabet, you're straight, if you saw a keysmash, you're gay, if you saw the funniest word you ever heard, you grew up with Sesame Street.
@sivalley
@sivalley 10 ай бұрын
Oh Big Bird you silly himbo. . .
@Cat-but-a-little-gay
@Cat-but-a-little-gay 10 ай бұрын
I did. It’s me!
@Idkpleasejustletmechangeit
@Idkpleasejustletmechangeit 10 ай бұрын
If you think that's funny, then look at "abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz&". Ay Bee Cee Dee Ee eF Gee aycH aI Jay Kay eL eM eN Ou Pe Queue aR eS Tea yoU Vee *_dubble-you_* eX whY Zee AND per se AND/ampersAND Now that's a good joke. Ampersand/And in the alphabet. Ha. Who ever thought *that* was a good idea?
@dziooooo
@dziooooo 10 ай бұрын
Ah, the Elemenoupee, my favorite English word
@Dasky14
@Dasky14 5 ай бұрын
97 calls is probably more than the total amount of calls I've made in my entire life tbh.
@Metalwabbit
@Metalwabbit 10 ай бұрын
It's KZbinrs like OT and threads like this that made me finally comfortable being bisexual. I came from an accepting home but it was here I learned it doesn't have to be a 50/50 split to be bisexual and that I fall into the bisexual camp even if my sexuality is 85 straight and 15 not. So thanks OT for making me finally realize my own sexuality
@a_potat
@a_potat 10 ай бұрын
I love this for you ❤you are so valid
@throughcolouredglasses9300
@throughcolouredglasses9300 10 ай бұрын
I'm so happy for you! I'm also a bisexual with a preference for the opposite sex, which makes me feel like I'm "too straight" sometimes. But we're here and we're just as valid as anyone else :) And omg when that 15% hits it makes me realize how *definitely* not straight i am. It's kinda funny how much it still surprises me. XD
@horsecrazy4978
@horsecrazy4978 10 ай бұрын
@@throughcolouredglasses9300 Yes! This exactly! I feel like an imposter, then the gay creeps up on me suddenly reminding me, nope definitely not straight! lmao
@lucasparadox6823
@lucasparadox6823 10 ай бұрын
15:42 i think the point of no return would be fearing you're faking it, only to see your type walk by and immediately go "NOPE, I AM BI AS HELL."
@strawberrysplitz1566
@strawberrysplitz1566 10 ай бұрын
Ah yes perfect profile picture
@Bug-q2q
@Bug-q2q 10 ай бұрын
@@strawberrysplitz1566 YOU STOLE MY LINE-
@PabloLewis-ve6ud
@PabloLewis-ve6ud 10 ай бұрын
STOLAS BABYYYY! also yes
@Montesama314
@Montesama314 7 ай бұрын
Stolas: "I'm definitely in love and have even been attracted to my very womanly woman wife--HEEEEYYYY BLIIIIIITZYYYYY"
@SanicAdventure
@SanicAdventure 7 ай бұрын
Why is this relatable as f***? 😂
@gracen8010
@gracen8010 10 ай бұрын
Found out I was biromantic after one of my friends pretended to be my girlfriend to keep me from getting harassed by boys at school. We never ended up actually dating, we really were just friends, but she did play a key role in me feeling comfortable with who I am today, and I’ll always be grateful to her.
@willpelkey1510
@willpelkey1510 5 ай бұрын
Its been so long since I saw this channel, this is the first of your videos to show up for me in about a year!
@Creator-bean
@Creator-bean 10 ай бұрын
The bisexual light saber was PEAK. my mom would love that lol
@Samurai_2552
@Samurai_2552 10 ай бұрын
Love the pfp also WORD
@Creator-bean
@Creator-bean 10 ай бұрын
@@Samurai_2552 thanks lol
@jasminefields4781
@jasminefields4781 10 ай бұрын
One of my friends who is a boy asked another one of my friends if he likes boys or girls and I said “I LIKE BOTH” and he said “ your gay and straight at the same time?” And the sorrow I felt in those moments because he didn’t know the word bisexual was very disappointing
@kitcat8308
@kitcat8308 10 ай бұрын
The conversation on sexuality/ romantic feeling etc from aro/ ace community helped my hubby realize his Sexual attraction is straight but he's demi-romatic 😅 it's so wonderful the conversations being had by those with open minds 😊
@Devlinator61116
@Devlinator61116 10 ай бұрын
It occurred to me that I hadn't felt romantically attracted to anyone in seven years. I paused for a moment to reflect upon all the partners my siblings had had by my age and I began to question why I was so chronically disinterested in everybody. After doing some internet research, I found the label demiromantic and suddenly my entire life made sense.
@thomascampbell4535
@thomascampbell4535 9 ай бұрын
18:02 Bro I swear if my straight friend tells me “Being Pan is just being Bisexual” one more time I’m gonna flip out. Edit: 8 months later, that friend is Pan now.
@AliceBunny05
@AliceBunny05 6 ай бұрын
It's reallyyy incredibly useless to argue about labels. It's all made up, we made it all up y'all. "Gay" itself doesn't actually exist, it's just a term we use to describe a set of things because we wanted to make a term for it. Labels are completely made up boxes
@akitkat-1225
@akitkat-1225 4 ай бұрын
​@@AliceBunny05 Which is why bees are fish.
@shellpoptheepicswordmaster755
@shellpoptheepicswordmaster755 3 ай бұрын
Straight doesn't exist either it's just a label we made.
@seigeengine
@seigeengine 2 ай бұрын
@@AliceBunny05 Labels are incredibly important, because language is the tool we use to break down and understand the world. Them being made up does not mean they're useless. As for pansexuality, it exists, but acting on it is probably going to get you a prison sentence.
@ShyDigi
@ShyDigi Ай бұрын
@@seigeenginethats not… what pansexuality is… unless it is *for you*? Because no, labels do not mean the same thing for everyone. Hell, words themselves evoke different thoughts, images, and emotions to different people
@OctozenX
@OctozenX 10 ай бұрын
21:56 “well yes but actually no” quick PSA. I find it surprising how often people in the LGBTQ+ community accidentally forget for a moment that physical sexual dimorphic attributes (eg whether or not someone has boobs) does not define their gender or pronouns. Eg, I could and would recreate that video, I look feminine and have no boobs (cause I’m AMAB), but I’m still a girl and still she/they. (This is why unless told by the person in question I will default to they/them pronouns since they’re non gender specific pronouns and most people are okay with them. The only people I’ve ever met who haven’t been okay with me using they/them before I know are just people with anti LGBTQ+ mental issues (or psychopaths, often both)
@-en_x3
@-en_x3 10 ай бұрын
this
@emikat92
@emikat92 10 ай бұрын
I cant tell you how happy it made me to read that last line. I really, REALLY love that you used their wording against them ❤
@OctozenX
@OctozenX 10 ай бұрын
@@emikat92 hehe, thanks 🩷
@cheddarcheezit2647
@cheddarcheezit2647 10 ай бұрын
Absolutely, tysm!
@Pokemeninblack
@Pokemeninblack 10 ай бұрын
Yeah! I also got a little upsetti at the one at 23:54, cause that doesn’t seem bisexual, and saying it is just transphobia mainly
@mossdragon123
@mossdragon123 10 ай бұрын
I've said it before and I'll say it again, OT is transition goals. Don't put yourself down OT
@HauntakuTV
@HauntakuTV 10 ай бұрын
OT is certainly an 8/10
@sprinkl13
@sprinkl13 10 ай бұрын
@@HauntakuTV only an 8??????? Im 90% sure this man is the reason I figured out Im bi.
@sleepy-emerald
@sleepy-emerald 10 ай бұрын
​@@HauntakuTV AN 8???? WHAT ARE YOUR STANDARDS???
@kirstenwyatt9675
@kirstenwyatt9675 10 ай бұрын
Oh gods, I just realized OT is my (realistic) transition goal! He is close to my body shape/coloring, and has a similar aesthetic. New Official Goal!
@wavechild5164
@wavechild5164 10 ай бұрын
Was just thinking that
@viohazard6150
@viohazard6150 10 ай бұрын
The "I just didn't know what bisexual meant" reminds me a lot of something that happened in my own life When I was in middle school some older boys came up to me on the first day of class and asked me if I was a lesbian. I didn't know what that meant at the time, but somebody sitting nearby told me to tell them that I wasn't, so I did. I guess I sounded unsure or confused because they started laughing about it, so I doubted it myself and said I actually was, which just made them laugh harder. Joke's on them though because it turned out I actually AM a lesbian. I just didn't even realize I was a girl at the time.
@Rivkatheartgay
@Rivkatheartgay 7 ай бұрын
Oh my god that had more twists and turns than a rollercoaster
@Theothekyree
@Theothekyree 7 ай бұрын
That was the best plot twist XD
@SilkyCrow
@SilkyCrow 8 ай бұрын
starting to suspect OneTopic wears sunglasses so we can't see him watching workouts *respectfully* 😄
@larslionheart
@larslionheart 10 ай бұрын
At this point I don't know if OT is trying to tell us he's bi or if he's just still being a good ally
@julzbehr6696
@julzbehr6696 10 ай бұрын
It really doesn’t matter
@HauntakuTV
@HauntakuTV 10 ай бұрын
Straight men can hug men too
@larslionheart
@larslionheart 10 ай бұрын
I am aware they can but some of the things he says and the fact he got flustered and blushy at one point in the video is just confusing to me
@HALOSnHORNS
@HALOSnHORNS 10 ай бұрын
Either way he's getting a cookie 🍪 ❤ best roommate ever
@MarcyTheKindaCoolWizard
@MarcyTheKindaCoolWizard 10 ай бұрын
unless he saus otherwise, he's just a straight guy who's jsut compellty comfortable with his identity qnd doesnt mind joking about it amd such
@craftsmenMC
@craftsmenMC 10 ай бұрын
I realized I was bi this past week, I feel so comfy with myself now. The last few days have been very happy days :3 I feel so proud. It’s peeps like my friends and content creators like OT that helped me explore that aspect of myself.
@Lemonnitenite
@Lemonnitenite 10 ай бұрын
ohh thats very nice :>
@NellyArnhold
@NellyArnhold 10 ай бұрын
Congratulations!
@Whisperwillowtree
@Whisperwillowtree 10 ай бұрын
I hope you are doing well and congrats
@Beeseverywhere333
@Beeseverywhere333 10 ай бұрын
Two things, 1, I am bisexual and felt all of these on a spiritual level. 2, you sir are very fine and do not look weird in the slightest
@PinkPerformer3821
@PinkPerformer3821 6 ай бұрын
“If attraction is all it takes, then we’re all bisexual” Me being ace: if attraction is not all it takes then I’m aromantic.
@AlexIsASimp
@AlexIsASimp 10 ай бұрын
I am pansexual but I feel like Phantom of the opera is a universal experience in the bisexual community (for the most part. I absolutely love it)
@ace_c99
@ace_c99 10 ай бұрын
The Phantom from the 2004 movie was my first gay crush 🫣
@CREN13Queen
@CREN13Queen 10 ай бұрын
Me: Yeah it's fine to experiment that doesn't mean you're bi it's just healthy sexual exploration Also me: ONE OF US ONE OF US
@honeybunnyhanni1931
@honeybunnyhanni1931 10 ай бұрын
A real life changer for me was finding out that you can use three different things to describe yourself. You can say who you're sexually attracted to, romantically attracted to and aesthetically attracted to. There was a time when I was wondering if I was bisexual because I love women but when my sister and I watched the vampire diaries I was weirdly attracted to Ian Somerhalder. And I realized I would be interested in him until he'd drop his pants. Now I'm proud to say I'm a biaesthetic homoromantic homosexual
@BloodrealmX
@BloodrealmX 10 ай бұрын
Nobody actually categorizes their aesthetic attraction, never mind lists it with the other two. It's just sort of irrelevant. It's also much less gender or sex based than the others.
@your_local_transmasc_warriors_
@your_local_transmasc_warriors_ 10 ай бұрын
This is me, in a way- My first ever non-hetero sexuality was bisexual. I realize now women just look prettier than men (sometimes, femboys beware!) and I'm just a gay trans man
@Lostflightwarriorcats
@Lostflightwarriorcats 10 ай бұрын
@@your_local_transmasc_warriors_ another trans masc warriors fan? What a coincidence
@katanah3195
@katanah3195 10 ай бұрын
Wait, this fits me so well. I like girls 90% of the time, but those few guys, I'd be interested til the clothes came off and then not so much. Heck, some of 'em I would like to make out and cuddle with, just don’t want to go further than that - although whether I draw the line at "both of us fully clothed" "his shirt off, mine on" or "both of us topless" is highly dependent on the individual guy. And it's very rare a guy gets this response from me... and the odd thing is that I don't really have a type, so much as extremely occasionally I'll see a guy and go "That's definitely not a girl, but I still want a kiss and to cuddle and touch that slice of beefcake." Mostly it's guys with a certain style of beard though, there's something about fuzzy kisses and I think I more like that than I actually want to kiss any of those guys because they look objectively attractive.
@ChaoticDux
@ChaoticDux 9 ай бұрын
​@@your_local_transmasc_warriors_Another trans warriors fan?
@KeraniFox
@KeraniFox 9 ай бұрын
Loving this! As a recently out bi, I need more! Also your laugh is super contagious. OMG the boop at the end and the "get out of here" had me blushing :3
@omayoperations8423
@omayoperations8423 10 ай бұрын
I found out about OT after the purple hair, and I can't imagine that he once had completely brown hair. I've looked at the old videos with brown hair, and I still don't believe it.
@eli_h309
@eli_h309 10 ай бұрын
Same here lmao ❤
@MittensZora
@MittensZora 10 ай бұрын
Same
@Barumonster
@Barumonster 10 ай бұрын
As a woman in a relationship with two men who are also in a relationship (closed triad!) ... throwing axes sounds like a dude date to me! Also hiking, picking out plants for the garden together during the Spring sales, going down to the river to look for driftwood and agate, etc. Granted, we DO live in a rural mountain town, so lots of nature stuff. Those are some of their dates together! They're very cute.
@dyingofdioxide
@dyingofdioxide 10 ай бұрын
happy for you (:
@corvusgaming2379
@corvusgaming2379 8 ай бұрын
whataboutgoingtothebeachanddiggingahole?
@bshap495
@bshap495 10 ай бұрын
21:58 I honestly couldn't tell if they were a femboy, or a pre-top trans woman. Either way, they slaying it 💅💅
@aceanimations3214
@aceanimations3214 10 ай бұрын
I follow them on insta. They're a model, femme presenting.
@fivesARC--5555
@fivesARC--5555 10 ай бұрын
Real
@raistlinmills131
@raistlinmills131 6 ай бұрын
@@aceanimations3214 who are they?
@aceanimations3214
@aceanimations3214 6 ай бұрын
@@raistlinmills131 Jorge Chacón
@EmeralBookwise
@EmeralBookwise 8 ай бұрын
Been there before with someone who worried about their gender. My old GF was closeted trans, but worried constantly that she'd never be able to come out, or even if she did, she might not be able to transition. I told her straight up it wasn't the shape of her body I loved, but the shape of her soul.
@DemigodEmery
@DemigodEmery 10 ай бұрын
Am I the only one who took the “some people pull girls, some pull boys, some pull both, I pull a door that says push” one as an Asexual callout post?
@emilyshen2436
@emilyshen2436 10 ай бұрын
"Bi lightsabers: we swing both ways" 😂
@eli_h309
@eli_h309 10 ай бұрын
OMG I LOVE THIS
@FleegleFazbeagle
@FleegleFazbeagle 10 ай бұрын
"Pan lightsabers: We swing in EVERY direction you can think of."
@eli_h309
@eli_h309 10 ай бұрын
@@FleegleFazbeagle who needs physics when you got a pan lightsaber
@Galaxybluehole
@Galaxybluehole 10 ай бұрын
@@eli_h3094D lightsaber
@emilyshen2436
@emilyshen2436 10 ай бұрын
@@FleegleFazbeagle "Ace Lightsabers: We don't swing in ANY direction. We hit you." (= a dagger?)
@lbtheescapist
@lbtheescapist 10 ай бұрын
22:50 The journey of OT realizing Macaulay Culkin and Brenda Song are married and have 2 kids made me cackle a bit
@ender_fire7994
@ender_fire7994 2 ай бұрын
A bit late, but in regards to that post about bisexuality being the default at 13:00, I remember talking to my Latin teacher after school one day about how Christianity wildly changed the world’s views, and one of the things he said was that if you lived in the Roman Empire back before Christianity, you were kinda expected to be bi.
@Princessarocha
@Princessarocha 10 ай бұрын
The Shakespeare meme unlocked this freshman year memory when we were reading Romeo and Juliet. Nobody wanted to play Romeo so I raised my hand 😅 and well it was an accidental sapphic story. after that only girls were participating in the roles so we just had a sapphic rendition of Romeo and Juliet.
@Jay-ch7fp
@Jay-ch7fp 10 ай бұрын
Every time OT does a bi vid, it’s always “buddy, roommate, my guy, do you have something you want to tell us?” But only when it’s not “buddy, roommate, my guy, do you have something you wanna tell yourself?”
@TheRaven9844
@TheRaven9844 10 ай бұрын
I'm actually a bi Christian, and I've never been happier! God loves you no matter your sexuality or identity, and no one should tell you any different!❤
@db_524
@db_524 10 ай бұрын
As a Christian Bi Ace myself, I confirm and agree. 🩷💜💙
@unapologeticallylizzy
@unapologeticallylizzy 10 ай бұрын
Eyyyy fellow bi Christian
@LettuceGayming
@LettuceGayming 10 ай бұрын
Yeah I think LGBTQ+/ally Christians are following the Bible most accurately. It says to love everybody, not to love everybody EXCEPT if they’re so and so.
@Lodit24
@Lodit24 10 ай бұрын
you have no idea how much this comment means to me. so just thank you for leaving it
@steemcgee5150
@steemcgee5150 10 ай бұрын
Here to add my Catholic lesbian voice to the mix
@MrMagicChicken
@MrMagicChicken 8 ай бұрын
ngl OT has to be the best human that i've seen on youtube basically all of his videos are fundraisers, and all of his videos are insperational and are truely funny. thank you OT for all of the videos you make and including everyone (exept hateful people)
@llewballantine6678
@llewballantine6678 10 ай бұрын
I get the reasoning behind the whole "bi is the default state" thing but, at the same time, as an aromantic asexual, I'm always just like "..?"
@TRaWi
@TRaWi 10 ай бұрын
I feel you. Not in the same situation at all, but after I've studied in 5 schools and tried 3 universities besides orbiting various smaller groupings along life, I just have to say straights are the gigantic majority and there's no way around it.
@PokeMageTech
@PokeMageTech 10 ай бұрын
I mean… it’s like the default state, except libido is at zero.
@llewballantine6678
@llewballantine6678 10 ай бұрын
@@PokeMageTech And the attraction is at complete zero, instead of some degree towards more than one
@dragonsaway9710
@dragonsaway9710 10 ай бұрын
​@@PokeMageTech libido and sexual attraction are the same thing
@genericyoutubecommenter589
@genericyoutubecommenter589 10 ай бұрын
​@@dragonsaway9710sexual attraction is not the only kind of attraction
@aspiring.creative.person6092
@aspiring.creative.person6092 10 ай бұрын
32:44 OT nooooo don’t get self conscious. I promise no one even noticed, not even after you mentioned it lol. We love you so much and you are such a joy and delight to watch. You look fine anyway, but this audience really watches you because of who you are and what you mean to us.
@patriciaolds7675
@patriciaolds7675 10 ай бұрын
a boyfriend date is where the boyfriends paint each other's nails while yelling at great british bakeoff because that fondant won't be done in time and the cake will overflow out of the pan.
@areswalker5647
@areswalker5647 10 ай бұрын
I...I want to be part of that date night
@emilygrow4060
@emilygrow4060 7 ай бұрын
BAHAHAHA! Not him questioning if Kitty Hawk is a real place when that's literally where Orville and Wilber Wright changed history as we know it forever; By flying the first recorded plane 120 feet on Dec 17, 1903 LMFAO I CAN'T-- LIKE YES, IT IS A ''SILLY QUESTION'' LOLOLOL
@HappyGingerWolf
@HappyGingerWolf 10 ай бұрын
50% of this feels more like suddenly polyamorous, and I'm here for it
@Squish_Squash
@Squish_Squash 10 ай бұрын
10:30 I can completely understand this because it weirdly enough reminds me of my asexuality. You can have sex or hookup with people and NOT be attracted to them. It's just sex. There doesn't have to be a sexual and/or romantic connection. So this straight guy sleeping with other guys because it's fun to him isn't him secretly being bi to me, it's just him having fun with no romantic/sexual feelings involved
@toni2309
@toni2309 10 ай бұрын
I swear, I wish this was more normalized. I have a bit of difficulty recognizing and understanding my feelings for people and don't want to tell them that I'm like super into them when I... just don't know. But still enjoy some romantic or sexual action.
@sus_shark
@sus_shark 10 ай бұрын
Is there like a thing where you're not really into relationships and being lovey dovy, but you like just being friends and sometimes fucking?
@dagmar131
@dagmar131 10 ай бұрын
​@@sus_sharkI feel like that could be either queerplatonic or demisexual, if that helps narrow your search. Demi mean you only feel attraction to close relationships, like your homies. Queerplatonic is kinda broader and really changes from person to person. Both are shades of ace
@TheGoldenDunsparce
@TheGoldenDunsparce 10 ай бұрын
​​@@sus_sharkThat might be aromantic. You can be attracted to someone sexually and want to hook up, but you don't want to be all lovy dovy gf bf with them. If you're not sexually attracted, you'd be aromantic asexual. Asexual just means that you dont have any sexual attraction toward someone based on appearence or gender, but you can still feel love and have sex (but not always); you just don't look at someone and immediately go "omg I wanna fook that one!"
@toni2309
@toni2309 10 ай бұрын
@@sus_shark To me that sounds like somewhere maybe on the aromantic spectrum and maybe just good old friends with benefits.
@alt-lemon
@alt-lemon 10 ай бұрын
26:01 i love that ot refers to his gym partner as his gym boyfriend
@ALocalArtist505
@ALocalArtist505 10 ай бұрын
I have to love the fact that I click most of his videos for the thumbnail and he actually shows that one every time
@tim_the_traveler
@tim_the_traveler 10 ай бұрын
As a guy, I would not mind having a strong woman as a date, or a strong guy as a date. ether way I'm happy.
@Alexander-rk4cu
@Alexander-rk4cu 10 ай бұрын
So, on The Into Deep Info, here is Something from my end: Asexuals, before we got our own name, used to go under bisexuals, because of the attraction modelle of being equally attracted to men or women, since Aces have 0 for men and 0 for women thus equal for both genders = bi. This thought procces is also one many aces will tell you that they went through. So in short Aces used to be called bi because of equal attraction to both genders.
@bobaoriley1912
@bobaoriley1912 10 ай бұрын
16:01 this was kinda my point of no return. I remember searching up the difference between bisexuality and pansexuality like multiple times. I think that was a sign I wasn’t just a “very enthusiastic ally.”
@PansyPops
@PansyPops 8 ай бұрын
I had a similar experience with being NB. I didn’t know about trans people in general until about 3 years ago, and only found out about nonbinary within the last 18 months. Since it was all new I kept looking it up and different identities under it. You only get to the point of no return when you look at something and say “why does this exist, that’s a normal experience” and tell your friends about it. Then you find out that no, it’s very much not common.
@alexlovel
@alexlovel 5 ай бұрын
13:50 I made the opposite mistake once. "I can use both hands to draw and write with, I forgot the word for that" and I replied with "ooooh, you must be polyamorous"
@LoremIpsum-dp1li
@LoremIpsum-dp1li 10 ай бұрын
Hey there! For those interested, I'd like to recommend the webcomic Rain by Jocelyn Samara. It's a webcomic about a trans girl who goes to a Catholic high school trying to pass as a girl and makes a couple of queer friends there. There is a bit of outdated language in the beginning (it started in 2010) and there are a few triggering scenes, but overall, it's very wholesome and made me emotional. It's also not just for trans people, there are people of every shade of queer. Posting finished in 2022, so you can read the whole story now.
@LoremIpsum-dp1li
@LoremIpsum-dp1li 10 ай бұрын
Also, if you like it, check out the author's second webcomic, My Impossible Soulmate. That one's much newer (started just a year ago) and it's still only about a hundred pages in. It's a more fantasy-oriented comic, but it's also LGBTQ+ positive and it ties into Rain (read them to find out how).
@cassiopeiasfire6457
@cassiopeiasfire6457 10 ай бұрын
Yes! Rain is beautiful.
@Freya5426
@Freya5426 10 ай бұрын
Rain helped me learn a lot about myself, and to accept and support people. It's how I've found out I'm pan funnily enough. It teached me that lesbian and gay people aren't the only ones that exist in the LGBTQIA+ community. For the longest time I didn't know about the rest. Because education about sexuality and gender identity, isn't someing they like here. Rain was such a great read honestly. One thing specifically that I adore about Rain, is the little updates Jocelyn put on her chapters. THEY'RE ADORABLE. Thanks to your comment, I might go and reread Rain again soon. And while I'm at it as well, I'll read her new comics! I've been wondering about them for some time now.
@just_gill6113
@just_gill6113 10 ай бұрын
Being bisexual for a decade now, I figured out what kind of bi I am It quite literally depends on which feels better. Sometimes I'm 200% gay, sometimes I'm both, sometimes I'm a leaning majority of 90% straight but there's always a piece of gay so deeply-seated in me. Sometimes I run into the thoughts of "Oh shit, where'd my gay go" and "Oh shit, where'd my straight go", but then I flip back to memories where I was *absolutely* one or the other and that just fixes things. It's hard man :3
@BloodrealmX
@BloodrealmX 10 ай бұрын
"Sometimes I run into the thoughts of "Oh shit, where'd my gay go" and "Oh shit, where'd my straight go"" I feel that. And so do a lot of people. It's apparently fairly common.
@just_gill6113
@just_gill6113 10 ай бұрын
@@BloodrealmX No kiddin'?! Thank fuck someone at least feels that. I try and keep it balanced, but fuck some days I'm just full on gay, and other days I'm just a straight shot. But there will always be a remnant of gay
@The_Opposite_Of_The_Obvious
@The_Opposite_Of_The_Obvious 7 ай бұрын
huh, relatable things? I have found the relatable things here.
@just_gill6113
@just_gill6113 7 ай бұрын
@@The_Opposite_Of_The_Obvious Relatable things called, they said they wanted to get close with you and understand how you feel
@StitchedStuff
@StitchedStuff 10 ай бұрын
fun fact, at 12:15 the hippo in the flag is from a game called battle cats, their original description used to say they're bisexual, in the new description it states "we don't know if it is a she or he"
@mikekuppen6256
@mikekuppen6256 10 ай бұрын
Bonus fun fact: pygmy hippos still exist, wtf?
@alvarkilborn8166
@alvarkilborn8166 10 ай бұрын
Interesting...
@Lectrikfro
@Lectrikfro 10 ай бұрын
@@mikekuppen6256 Do they have the same Destroy All Humans energy as their larger cousins?
@mikekuppen6256
@mikekuppen6256 10 ай бұрын
I only know them from the zoo @@Lectrikfro so I can´t vouch for them but they are fricking adorable.
@CourierCat-2
@CourierCat-2 2 ай бұрын
BATTLE CATSSSSSS YAEAHHAAHAHHASHA
@justneb
@justneb 7 ай бұрын
The "Screaming Hippo" Is actually from a decently popular game called The Battle Cats, it's one of the first enemies you fight. Great video, I just thought i'd share :)
@breegrimm7142
@breegrimm7142 10 ай бұрын
Accidental Ally is always fun! But then, all of your videos are a lot of fun! Your energy is infectious and your blanket acceptance of all people is so comforting.
@Seamusandsonis
@Seamusandsonis 10 ай бұрын
I'm loving the dynamic between OT and his editor. I'm getting strong bratty vibes from the edits and I'm so here for it!!!
@InternetStrangerThatCanRead
@InternetStrangerThatCanRead 10 ай бұрын
12:05 where there's a hole there's a goal. I absolutely love this phrase because you can say it while talking about women, dudes, bagels, donuts anything
@i_ate_ink_again
@i_ate_ink_again 10 ай бұрын
I scrolled the whole comment section for this comment 😭👍
@InternetStrangerThatCanRead
@InternetStrangerThatCanRead 10 ай бұрын
@@i_ate_ink_again your quest was not in vain return to your village in triumph
@Lectrikfro
@Lectrikfro 10 ай бұрын
Where there's a hole there's a golem... they fell in and can't climb back out and are waiting for someone to come along and help them
@Maay.00
@Maay.00 4 ай бұрын
In Brazil we say "Who ignores a hole is the government"
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