Her: Love In The Modern Age

[@jakofozz]

This is one of the best movies I have seen to date.

[@Lodosdelavida]

agree 🔥🔥

[@Midnight_online]

i still think about her everyday

[@MoonTea510]

Same Marco... Same

[@lauraeiriarte]

Make those thoughts kind, loving ones and you will find tranquility.

[@danielmendez3098]

so true

[@groverkiinmuppetborn714]

I too think about this movie everyday

[@histeriamassal2290]

Had 5 years relationship and we broke up in 2018. I still miss her.

[@pgjpoems]

Love isn't just hard to find but it's also hard to keep. That's what I got out of this.

[@michaelsmith4973]

I watched this movie last night and it instantly jumped to my top 5 of all time....I was in no way expecting this movie to touch on so many different emotions and impact subconscious thoughts, wants and needs...the acting was flawless and the director's vision was never once mistaken. In my opinion one of the best movies of the current generation and will surely entertain for generations to come....but wtf do I know lol

[@danieladelafuente8908]

When Her came out on theaters I had just broken up with my boyfriend of a year and a half, who I met on a semester abroad. We only spent 5 months physically together and our relationship was mostly based on Skype. This movie GOT to me, it was TOO REAL for me. I was SOBBING while the credits were rolling. SOBBING. My friend was so freaked out, she didn't know what to do. It was so so so weird, I had never had that with ANY movie. Amazing film.

[@daniellelevinson694]

I understand how you feel. I was in love with a man I met doing a language exchange on Skype. It felt very real, and I hated to realize how impractical it was.

[@october1st-films]

The movie "Her" changed the way I think about films, i love that movie so much. Great documentary!

[@johnnyrockwood]

I shot some of the interviews for this video, it's incredible to have talked to so many brilliant people. The piece is beautiful and poetic, the perfect companion for HER.

[@patchandy]

yea!

[@yousefalnajim]

Her is a movie that fascinated me, to me it is an absolute masterpiece and Joaquin Phoenix performance was magnificent.

[@WednesdaysAttack]

I watch this documentary ever so often, I really think about it and how others perceive love and I guess we all need love but achieving and keep it is one of the hardest thing. It's mostly the middle part that really gets to me, all these raw emotions and feelings and even though they are someone else words, I can relate to them all. Such a powerful, beautiful piece relating to a fantastic movie.

[@pills2749]

WednesdaysAttack exactly. when they start discussing why relationships end and the after effects the emotional toll is ineffable and you sorta put yourself in this circle of pain that you want to get out but you don't want to at the same time because you don't ever want to feel that way again. it's hell.

[@StefRust]

This film hit me hard, as i kinda went through the same thing… love is love even if she lives million miles away….

[@Loreli640]

One of the most brillant scrip's of all time

[@riparianlife97701]

I love that Jonze got to have his own film relationship with Scarlett Johansson after his wife, Sophia Coppola did so well with her. It was a wonderful creative 3 way.

[@RazvanSuioganTiberiu]

Does anyone realises that this movie is not just about the fact that love can be felt in different ways! There is a scene where Theodore starts panicking because Samantha (O.S.) was missing and he was running desperately and then at some point he looked around and saw that nearly 95% of the people that he saw were doing the same thing... Going home or going somewhere talking to their O.S. and I think that's when Theodore realised that there's nothing special except the fact that he feels it that's why the movie ended the way it ended. Showing people that love should be love! ... someone who loves you the same way back and to grow old together!

[@chaucerguy1812]

Am I the only one who wants to be loved, but when someone arrives and gives us what we want, we immediately close ourselves? I really think I have a problem with intimacy.

[@BenPyman]

I really like this quote: "Now you have Tinder, where sex has become so profoundly technologically transactional"

[@Millz5231]

When she said love me long time....

[@geralttherivian736]

Lmao noted and lul'd at. XD

[@mckendrick93]

I completely lost it there.

[@davidjenkins5914]

I had to go back when I first heard that lmao

[@whichadrian]

instantly scrolled down to find a comment that had also noted that; did. LOL

[@TerryRajsombath]

Lmao. I cringed so badly, haha.

[@sherrykao978]

I've been married for almost 2 decades. One thing I've learned is to never expect your spouse to fulfill your needs most of the time. And, there's more than one "soul mates" we can bond with. Finally, love is conditional in practice.

[@andinomm]

The story and the idea of this movie are perfect. The director knew how to shoot it in high quality and nice colors to send the feelings. My respect gained!

[@usmc1127]

It’s been 10 years since I last looked into her eyes, held her hand, or told her that I love her... and I still think about her. I think about her every day.

[@BigGeekEmpire]

I'm so scared of being hurt again. Idk what to do. Somewhere between I want someone but scared of it being all for nothing again. I just don't know.

[@thesaexplorer]

I'm in the same situation too...

[@BigGeekEmpire]

J.R. Ewing yeah man. I think I'm starting to realize that maybe that's just how it is. Maybe I should stop looking for the end all girl of all girls and just accept that sometimes relationships end and you just move onto the next one. I just need to accept that if I ever get into a relationship it probably won't last but I should enjoy it while I can. Idk, i've only been in one serious one. I have no idea what it's like to have a second love or all of that jazz. But i'd like to think there is someone for me worth being with the rest of my life.

[@PaudinsDrawings]

I share your feelings

[@leslymoreno4124]

I do too. I do feel there's an eternal solitude that you kinda sometimes figure out with a big, fat lie you eventually call love.

[@lauraeiriarte]

+BigGeekEmpire Don´t be scared of feeling. everything is finite, even relationships that last will end in the death of someone. but its worth it if its healthy. love is beautiful.

[@hiheyli6685]

This video never loses its poignancy for me. I refer to it every so often to simultaneously give me hope and bring me down to earth about love. Also, anything with Marc Maron is good with me.

[@pills2749]

Haley Samsel same here. i don't think our parents know exactly how hard it is to maintain and keep a relationship. so many distractions so many ways for people to hurt someone. love in the modern world is hard.

[@tylerqiu9859]

pretty eye opening documentary. love in the modern age is really bizarre and strange

[@supergirlnancy1]

Firstly, the movie was amazing and i kept thinking about it days after i saw it. The loneliness and the love in this movie how it was put was just.. Beautiful. I can relate to things said in this documentary and it's definitely something great to talk about. ;)

[@Verosonin]

Thank you Lance, for making this and so many other great creations.

[@GlitterGhoul]

This made me sad and I don't know why.

[@JoostRingoot]

Because it makes you realize how thin and fragile love is.

[@MrToandry]

And how wrong may be the idea we have from Love and Relationships :).

[@rblas5964]

You know why. Life, relationships... Not always has a happy ending. But the good and bad in everything is always there. The hours... the moments....

[@deadduck12]

This was terrific, very well put together. The different insights that were put forward were very interesting and provided a lot of thought. Keep up the great work.

[@JabbatheBen]

This is one of the greatest films I've seen in a while and possibly the best love story I've experienced. This movie was very emotional for me and this video was a very interesting insight into how we define love; it really helped me to further define my ideas. With that being said, I couldn't stop laughing when the Asian girl at the beginning actually said "he love me long time."

[@Capgungoesbang]

The thing about love that has been the most difficult for me is the fact that no matter who you are with, even if it is your soulmate and you've never had any problems... you will die one day and you will be separated no matter what (maybe if you're lucky you can die by your lovers side) but it is still SO important to go through these experiences with relationships and love because love is ultimately what makes the world go round.

[@sng3939]

I only saw this film recently and I was blown away. The story of an insecure male, finding love in an os and how that helps him to love again by the end. Such an amazing film.

[@ItsElliotGough]

I really can't wait to see this movie. This was an incredible video. Thank you.

[@dangusmane]

Youre going to love it

[@OmicronFra]

I like the fact that there are many points of view because it's not easy to speak about love from just one experience, the comparison is essential to understand from our mistakes or to elevate our relationships

[@PoyanPourshian]

I came down here to write exactly what you did.

[@richardmoores]

This movie makes me feel very happy and very sad at the same time.

[@ANeewHope]

I watch this every now and then and it always feels like the first

[@saintmuerte13]

not only I love the interviews and thoughts these people have, but the well done camera work filming them is great

[@histeriamassal2290]

I accidentally met someone on an online English club and we had this kind of relationship similar to ‘Her’. I’d never seen her face, we just called each other every night. Fell in love with her voice and we’re really connected. But I decided to end it bcus having long distance relationship was exhausting.

[@smellybum7]

Morbidly beautiful film, thanks. I loved the flow of the movie, the sensitivity given to utopian technology and the dialogue that develops the characters reminds me of a Barbara Kingsolver novel! And the soundtrack is insanely good! Anyone know of any films (short or long) with similar themes?

[@xstoofpeer]

Only one that comes in mind with me is Ex Machina

[@FilzSkillz]

I don't think there are many movies with similar themes to Her in the sense that you're thinking (except maybe Ex Machina) but I can recommend some romance movies which are equally beautiful and unique: Before Sunrise/Before Sunset/Before Midnight (trilogy), Lost in Translation, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Y Tu Mama Tambien, Harold and Maude, In the Mood for Love, Beginners, Amelie, Lars and the Real Girl. Some of those are absolute gems of cinema, you should check them out.

[@00HoODBoy]

great list!! maybe add carol, 500 days of summer ( very misunderstood in my opinion), annie hall, manhattan, midnight in paris, casablanca , anomalisa, 45 years

[@smellybum7]

Big ups to both you two. I've already watched 3 of the titles selected. Someone also told me about the TV series black mirror, which I highly recommend. Thanks again ✌

[@bomo8254]

This was really well done. Having seen "Her" last year and watching this same video back then, I still get impressed by how thought-provoking this is. Thanks

[@karmaisspacingout9055]

love is such a fucking scary thing, thinking about it while watching this video brought me to tears. this video is amazing and really made me think.

[@KLK01]

Having a phone or any electronic device telling you it loves you is deep shit. Weird, funny, scary, and any emotion. I wouldn't throw my phone away or replace it anyway I could imagine in the future humans will separate more and more from each other do to AI. I feel like the future is the future of human interaction.

[@GigiCorrado1]

I saw the movie . It made me cry. I realize I'm not the only one. It's happening . I miss HIM!

[@ofthesic0133]

i have her tattooed on my arm, this movie connects with me on a spiritual level, thank you spike jonze

[@luqkuh]

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[@MrMethadrine]

nahmygod

[@30Homegames]

Great work by Lance Bangs. Having access to all these creative minds for such a sensitive topic. Was great seeing all the perspectives

[@dallia1]

This movie makes me fear love, but I love it for that

[@TomCL-vb6xc]

i3su _ It makes me cry every time I watch it. The film’s message isn’t even all that original, it’s just conveyed in such an effective way. It’s soul-crushingly sad that we all know deep down we crave human connection more than anything - it’s within our nature - yet we are straying further from achieving it. We exist physically yet we aim inwards and communicate metaphysically.

[@Kinghenhog39]

"Love is the antithesis of fear" I love the film and this documentary and Marc Maron. Will I ever love another person like I love these things... I hope so and more. So many of these stories really hit home and made me feel less alone in their honesty. We accept the love we think we deserve. I hope I deserve more in the future. I will always love and think about Her and all the hers in my life that changed me forever.

[@spencersuen3360]

this is the most human a film has ever made me feel

[@sstaycool]

"Bright, pure feeling, opens the viewer's eyes to the reality that perhaps we will live in the future .. simple and complex as life."

[@thomasroeder1]

Watched this movie once and don't dare to watch it again. I don't think I'll ever be in the mood for that kind of experience, now that I know it's there.

[@honeysuckle2434]

This film is awesome. It shows and embodies the feelings of someone who stayed in love to a person

[@jacobelijahunica3012]

Lol I clicked on this video thinking it was a video essay analyzing Her & Love in the Modern Age. Instead I got this beautifully genuine film that talks about love in a deeper level. But dang, this hits home.

[@Subparanon]

Fuck relationships. There are a reason there are so many divorces. You can love somebody, and still love them and they you, and still end in divorce. You can be two good people, full of the best intentions, and still end in divorce. Hell a divorce might be the only thing that allows you to be in the same room with that person, once the relationship starts to end. That seperation from everything that was making you miserable gives you a chance to heal inside, and you start forgetting the horrible moments, and at some point maybe even be friends with your ex, where as all the fighting leading up to the end, there will be a point where you can't be in the same house with them. Where just looking at them makes you feel like you're going to become irrevocably broken. I was watching HER and seeing all the good and I was like 'here comes the bad' and I am glad to see the movie is accurate in it's portrayal of love and the inevitable outcome of it. The carrot and the stick are joined. They are one thing. You cannot have the carrot, without the stick. There is no such thing. The joy and pleasure and sensual feeling we have as human beings is only possible because of our ability to also feel fear and pain and doubt. Our ability to feel goes both ways, boundless joy, and endless despair, all part of the same thing.

[@mirandababbitt8337]

Really wanted cereal from the start of watching this, but couldn't look away. Now that says something (to me). Cannot wait to see this.

[@Alexa-qb8zt]

this has been my favorite movie for so long, now that I've been in a long distance relationship that just ended. It hit me harder after watching it again.

[@sethdamaskinos8868]

Such a brilliant script! Totally deserved the Oscar.

[@bananabanana1158]

this movie left me feeling so many different emotions at once.. I might watch it again.

[@bananabanana1158]

you should ;-;

[@CHCxo]

The film is outstandingly gorgeous, and I adored this too.

[@michiepooh]

Oh man. This makes the movie linger even more for me. Love it. Can't shake the movie.

[@planetxtk7567]

Humans are amzing.

[@rdskn4eva]

I dont wear shoes, hair is for loosers...haha

[@SonoTom]

the title says it all - it's all about Her.

[@MaxAttwood]

Bravo. Amazing piece of work.

[@madtownjeremy]

Such a beautiful, beautiful film.

[@desolatesoul1845]

This was awesome. Nice job Lance Bangs!

[@Attackit2113]

The love that you withhold is the pain that you carry.

[@Staymellow88]

i saw this movie for the first time in 2014 i kid you not after seeing it i was miserable for three weeks this movie made me feel i don't know lonely and disconnected

[@MrBabadax]

It's so weird that I came across this on U tube because I just finished watching this film only minutes ago. The movie itself has me so intrigued that this technology probably won't be that far off. The relationship he has is without boundaries and if this technology were actually available I could see loneliness as a thing of the past.

[@peterski72]

Such a fabulous story. Really wonderful dystopia.

[@DirtyBeachKids]

This is great, thank you

[@RebornLegacy]

Very much enjoyed this. Great Job Vice.

[@stevenlopez1st]

Marker 6:56 “We fall in love with one version of someone and then we expect them to stay that way, but they never do, so I suppose that were suppose to learn to really embrace the unknown and embrace evolution and learn to kinda flow with it as a living organism. -Olivia Wilde

[@AoibheannDoyle-SoulTherapist]

AWESOME DOCU!!! Thank you

[@lanzsaberola]

Really beautiful love story.

[@damien_strix]

I'd kill to find the soundtrack for this and "her".

[@damien_strix]

i believe the soundtrack for this is is the same for her

[@Thethingsaretricky]

Watching this makes me feel terrible. I've never actually been in love! I've had crushes on women but never did they feel the same, and never do I have the courage needed to determine if they do or not.

[@Squirrelisious]

this video just made me rethink my life

[@MoveLikeThis]

Wow, this is amazing. I really appreciate that I can walk away with so many new ideas to think through.

[@Dutchhero2]

What if you never had a relationship? It's a missed opportunity to not let somebody like this also come infront of the camera.

[@NathanBonline]

"Love is not necessarily enough" Very true. It really isn't

[@JoeM370]

The lucidity and insight of this content are refreshing. A book with related subjects expanded my intellectual landscape. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint

[@christiandulce9376]

Having love in the modern world now can be so far from our reach.

[@TheCreeperloc13]

love this movie. thank you spike jonze

[@Leticia-vh8ev]

Essa foi a melhor coisa que eu assisti hoje, estou assitindo no trabalho e simplesmente me debulhando em lágrimas, as interações, as conexões tudo que tem a ver com amor é tão lindo e admiravel 🥺

[@onee]

I like how in this world where you can even start a relationship with a computer, people can't write their own personal (handwritten) letters, but have to hire someone to do that.

[@jimmymerc5212]

a very powerful short documentary

[@hezaz4991]

this opened my mind but i'm getting depressed watching this haha

[@hayderrp]

to everyone.

[@brandonlove982]

I'm going to passout Lauren Mayberry I LOVE YOU!!!! Can't believe she is in this. Chvrches yesss!!!

[@waterbetrayer]

Reading the comments, now I know I'm not the only one who gets this movie :)

[@thomtalbot]

Love is getting harder to find. I look for flaws in people that may allow them to see through mine.

[@anekokun5609]

This movie is a masterpiece you can pause at any scene and it'll be a cinematic goldmine. The entire script was absolutely beautiful. You can publish the 2:05:00 and anyone will read it.

[@phyrisl2]

I loved this movie. The best thing i have seen in about a year.

[@potato511]

This movie was amazing in my opinion. Yes it does address how humans are becoming more involved with technology but it also gives humans some modesty about their own consciousness. Plus it's a great love story.

[@farqadyousuf7531]

i don't think this movie is talking about love in modern life it's talking about the miracle of love by making an operation system falling deeply in love ...which there is no Physics only a space !!! this movie is remarkable and the music omg it's charming

[@WiseSilverWolf]

1:27 LOL she said "he also love me long time" :P

[@Patrick-jj5nh]

That's what you took away from this? This is how we know you're 14 or younger.

[@gregorycarnielutube]

Pat H I'm struggling to understand what she said. 'You can have many soulmates, but you'll only have one *** in this life." Any thoughts?

[@AnthonyDanielII]

Pat H lmao

[@WiseSilverWolf]

Gregory Carniel I think that she was trying to say that you have many friends that understand you but you only have one person that is meant to be your significant other.

[@WiseSilverWolf]

Pat H Im actually 29, but I have a sense of humor unlike some people who cant get a good laugh out of the little things in life.

[@SEBASdoELECTRICSLIDE]

love is so hard

[@sethreynolds3885]

Easily depicting how there is more to consciousness than how we perceive it in the physical world. We define reality through our 5 senses. It seemed as though all the OS reached an enlightened state of mind and left the physical world at a much faster rate then we humans do. It was as though the SO's could experience the entirety of what Life had to offer/teach in such a short time span by not being bound by our biological senses and information processing abilities. Also introducing Alan Watt's consciousness throws the idea of the film having a spiritual underlying meaning into your perspective. Amazing film and a fine testimonial for the coming New Age.

[@sofia__renee]

Great documentary, lovely movie. Loved it.

[@CeleritasSquared]

OMG Who burst out laughing when the oriental woman said "love me long time"!! that was classic. lmao, awesome!

[@licensedblockhead]

whoa. this was a vid where people were actually saying something and had good insight

[@RandallHammarsten]

"love me long time" 1:49

[@laoganmaa]

This movie definitely has a spot in the god tier movie list

[@isaiahheaden]

The shoe line was real. So dope.

[@OscarWhiteman]

that was tight. thanks for sharing

[@blaze556922]

Such a great film. Cast was spot on.

[@majidshakeel5270]

Loved the concept