Hey Steve: Her Fiancé Hijacked The Wedding Planning!

She's recently engaged and is looking forward to tying the knot with her dream man! But there's one big problem...he insists on making all of the wedding planning decisions. Can Steve get him to back off?
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[@DarkAngel-cj6sx]

I am a woman and I had never dreamed about a wedding day as a little girl! 😆 My husband has more shoes than I.

[@fadumohassan5715]

Same here.

[@kaydickey9239]

I never dreamed about a wedding day as a little girl either. I can just go to the courthouse and throw a great party after!

[@monawilliams286]

Me either! I tried my best to go to JOP but the King wasn’t going so I put on a dress and showed us. my Husband was the star that day and it was fine by me!

[@spitfire9502]

Nothing inspire me to dream of the big day maybe wphepn i find my person I'll start dreaming

[@anika14149]

In générale saying ; there's exceptions and you're one of them !

[@1OOKSubsChallenge]

This man has proved everyone that he can entertain anyone without using derogatory words ❤️

[@henrybryson9987]

I love the way he entertain without using derogatory words. ♥️♥️

[@david87384]

The lawyer guy knows when to talk and when not to talk back 🔥🔥🔥

[@stephme2686]

This was nice because my boyfriend actually started to worry I had an addiction to Victoria’s Secret 😂 he stopped talking about it when I started picking things out that he liked and wore them for him. My exact words were “I do this for you, mainly me, but you’re the only man who gets to see it. So feel special”

[@bahativide839]

When did his ass start dreaming?🤣🤣 Classic Steve

[@Myleanfitness]

Died 😂😂😂😂

[@Jordy_NL]

😄

[@leethebee101]

Just wow. He's paying for most if not everything, so I'd say it's his wedding just as much as it's hers like goodness gracious man...

[@OneWomanMan888]

Steve Harvey is taking sides because of Marjorie.

[@OneWomanMan888]

Nope old video 😂

[@freddypie7613]

Yh I think it's too one-sided

[@realtalkwithphil]

The point Steve is making is; Men don't have "dream weddings". However, if you're paying for most of the stuff, you have to let her know what you can afford and a sensible lady would know how to work with whatever you give to her. Don't go about stressing with providing the finances and on top of that still stressing in most of the preparations. Let the woman share that burden in a different way by planning for most part. You're still supporting her by assisting in planning as she's supporting you financially with paying some fewer stuffs. 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@OneWomanMan888]

@@realtalkwithphil You don't have a point, don't know what are you trying to say.

[@Cozy__Simmer]

What you mean "it's not his wedding"? THEY are getting married TO EACH OTHER, so HE get's to say in this too..wtf?!

[@itheyab]

I LOVE YOU MR STEVE HARVEY YOU ARE A LIFE JOY 🥂

[@essyjosphat243]

Hi Steve am a Kenyan watching from south Africa 😍

[@tenofspdes]

STEVE, YOU'RE SO WISE. YOU MUST GET YOUR WISDOM FROM UP ABOVE 🙏🏾

[@alaraarmin4376]

Of course it is, Every Gift comes from above from Almighty Lord Jesus 🙌🙌

[@tenofspdes]

@@alaraarmin4376 Thats not true, the devil gives counterfeit gifts, and fabricates wisdom. But I'm quite aware that Steve's wisdom comes from God..

[@sfisomthemba5704]

Can we have Stive's show back please

[@Silverritter]

Love Steve but the man got as much right to decide the wedding as the woman does.

[@angeldo8546]

I agree, with the attitude it’s not his day, it’s setting their relationship for failure for the future.

[@evadedenbach1226]

Yes. The partner may have some ideas that could be incorporated into the wedding. In fact, if my partner doesn't like an idea, I'm willing to hear his argument. If I don't like an idea of theirs, then I'm willing to voice my opinion. I'd much rather do the wedding planning as a team, rather than just have one person take over.

[@MochaZilla]

His money = his decision. If she doesn't like it then she should go raise the money herself.

[@elisabethjones4917]

@@MochaZilla If that's how he feels then why would she chose him? That type of argument and lifestyle isn't really a relationship. She must be willing to be purchased or a gold digger, plan and simple. I don't care how much money someone has, they're not going to take away my desires and choices.

[@MochaZilla]

@@elisabethjones4917 thats fair, but why is she allowed to take away his desires and choices then? Her very question shows that her mentality is all about her choices and she seems very unwilling to compromise. Marriage requires compromise. You forfeit "me, myself, and I" when you get married. If you don't yoy are guaranteed to be single again someday.

[@Kim-bp1kb]

I feel like the fiancee had a bigger problem .... Turning everything in to an opportunity to bully his fiance with his ability to out argue her.... And refusing to ever lose the argument.

[@Kirwina]

I totally disagree with Steve. A bride and groom are equally responsible for planning their wedding

[@MochaZilla]

@Jerry Neumann trying to pick up people through the youtube comments? Still got the moves.

[@shreddersaurusrex323]

They should both consider the concerns and desires of the other person. It’s not worth spending beaucoup money for one day to then have to spend years paying it off.

[@apolskie3462]

It's both their wedding. Men also dream of their wedding. I think what he should have said was for them to talk about it and compromise, and not to only focus on what the woman wants and say that it's her wedding. I am a woman, too. I, too, have my own dream wedding, but it's not gonna be mine ONLY. It's for the both of us, so it's important for me that we get what we both want for and on OUR wedding.

[@royaldecreeforthechurchofm8409]

That's not a man. That's a homosexual if he dreams about a wedding.

[@Jordy_NL]

You're taking it too litterally. Obviously the man is not like only a spectator. The point is that the man wants the woman to feel special on this special day. What could the man possibly care more about (besides obvious things) than his wife being happy?

[@apolskie3462]

@@royaldecreeforthechurchofm8409 so are you saying that men don't have the right to express what they want for their wedding? When women always want to be equal with men, do you think that's equality? If a man cries, he's not a man? If a man wants something for their wedding, he's not a man? IF YOU SAY that only women has the right to dream about the wedding, don't you think that's being unfair? The wedding is not only for women. Weddings are for the couple. The two of them. To celebrate their union. So if you say that he's not a man for dreaming about his wedding, then I think you need to think about it again.

[@apolskie3462]

@@Jordy_NL I don't think I'm taking this literally. Just the face that she was told to go with what she wants and not mind about what her partner wants. Of course, the groom cares about his future wife to be happy. But what about the bride? Does she care if her future husband will be happy with she wants? Again, a wedding and marriage are shared by both. It is not one sided. Not only one person is getting married, but TWO. There are soem t hings that you need to compromise so both parties will be happy. Now, if we only care about the women's side and sense of happiness, then maybe they should just marry themselves. Not have a partner and disregard what they want. I am a woman too. But with this, I can say, women nowadays are so entitled.

[@adamxei9073]

That’s one thing I disagreed with about weddings is that just the wife’s day the husband is getting married to you know. Modern relationships are partnerships and we do things together for one another.

[@Royal__Kitsune]

If the guy is paying for the wedding then he DEFINITELY deserves a right on what goes on during the wedding

[@Jordy_NL]

The point is that the man let's the woman have her day. How could the man even 'want' something knowing that that would ruïn the wedding for his wife?

[@Jordy_NL]

Assuming his basic needs get met. It's not like he wouldn't get food or something right lol

[@Jordy_NL]

@On The Water Lol I agree. Wasn't talking about the costs. You can spent all you want but if it's not what she wants, there's a problem there.

[@theingambainka840]

Enjoy your show everyday 🤠😉😉 Steve ....

[@eddiewilson5765]

Thank you Steve for keeping it real😊!

[@fliptop157]

When keeping it real- goes wrong 😋

[@MyWayWendy]

Marjorie is watching the show..

[@MyWayWendy]

No massage from me..

[@fakeidonthaveahandle]

If it's a more traditional marriage, then it is in fact HER wedding. It's going to be all about him and the kids after the marriage has settled. So it's her last day to focus on her shining. Girls have been raised to think about their wedding from very little, so let her have the heavier say in this. Groom can give opinion about the cake and music.

[@MochaZilla]

Women have been CONDITIONED to fantasize about a wedding day. That doesn't mean its all about them. It just feeds their ego and self centered nature to act how she's acting. She's already showing signs of being a bad partner. He should find a less selfish woman.

[@lheens]

@@MochaZilla Rest. Plug your phone and get some rest.

[@MochaZilla]

@@lheens ahh look a woman doesn't like the truth. What else is new? 🤣

[@elisabethjones4917]

@@MochaZilla you're not replying to her traditionally themed answer. Traditionally, is the man but seen as head of household. Traditionally do men not want to make the most of all of the income? Traditionally are men not expected to try to fix things? See the only way she and Steve would wrong is if they were trying to get away from traditions. Even if she's a trophy wife they would be right. Now if I'm the relationship they discuss other things, expectations, life goals etc. and they weren't tradition type people, then yes they should be building and planning together, not just letting him or her run everything. See what people don't realize about Steve's simply answer of the man saying I do, is that the man is still, after everything choosing to commit to her and be with her for a lifetime. That is a very very moving choice to make. It feels great when we know the man we love chooses us, even better when he wants to commit, and the best when ACTUALLY does commit. It's dangerous to speak for all women, but I'm pretty sure I'm 95% correct here. I still think they should work together on something so important to the both of them, but traditionally it doesn't happen. I wish think, the wedding is something that really needs to be discussed early in the engaged... Kind of before the planning even starts. And ideally they would know favorite colors, style, favorite foods/flavors, etc. way before so wedding planning really shouldn't even be that hard. Set the budget, pick the place, how many guests do you want vs. how many can you afford. Those are the hardest things in my opinion. The dress can be difficult, but must women know what they like to wear and what design they're looking for, so I think the only difficulty is actually making the decision and loving herself before she even starts to try things on. Your dress doesn't have to be THE one when you love yourself and you know he loves you for you.

[@coolhead8686]

Steve, men also have dreams about their wedding day. Not just girls. It is supposely to be once in a life time for both, not just her.

[@hiviboswu7312]

lol. I thought about marriage but never dreamt of having a wedding haha we are men!!

[@pollbun7490]

Not nearly to the extent women do, don’t be ridiculous

[@coolhead8686]

@@pollbun7490, Of course. But to be fair, men also deserve the respect.

[@Jordy_NL]

Of course it is special for him too, but that's obvious. That's implied.

[@pattinahukah3146]

I like you Steve for your honest replies to questions 🥰👍👍👍

[@Alex-hk6zg]

Steve Harvey is not the person to take advice from....AT ALL!!

[@katz0625]

Loooove the second lad-Orchid I think it’s her name. I forget what it is lol old age is so fun!! But both of those answers Steve made was awesome and hilarious!! Lol

[@TaqSoto]

Now I bet if the dude showed no interest at all then she'd complain he doesn't care about the wedding and he's not involved enough. Smh.

[@MyWayWendy]

One "GOLDEN" rule in a marriage.."Your wife is always "RIGHT"..

[@Bonethugs90]

That’s how you become like Will Smith

[@makobooslajabless570]

Total BS....and this coming from a man in a 44 year committed relationship, married for 24. NOBODY including a wife, is always right. Why are all the vociferous defenders of equality not chiming in to say no? It is tyrannical oppression to say that a wife is always right. After accusing men of being oppressors for so long, is it turning out that women have been the oppressors all along? Just asking...

[@MochaZilla]

Normally I agree with Steve but this one missed the mark big time. When you get married it ceases to be about YOU and your focus is supposed to move onto the other person. This woman is extremely self centered and believes it's HER day. Last I checked, getting married involves at minimum a party of two. So why is it HER day? Why does she need to have a princess moment like she's an ultra wealthy Disney princess? Isn't it THEIR day? Its supposed to be a shared moment of two separate individuals coming together as one. It is special but its not all about her. This man should run for the hills. She looks at him like he's a bag of $$.

[@janemike3048]

Hello bully

[@MochaZilla]

@@janemike3048 hey everyone

[@MrAkaacer]

Nah mate, you didn't listen. Girls dreamed (and maybe even planned) their wedding a long time before Guys do. Let them have their day and shut up.

[@MochaZilla]

@@MrAkaacer what u say is trash

[@nicidevine6670]

For sure

[@rajuvadar7019]

Hey Mr Steve it's kavya from India am staying in Goa am big fan of yours love to watch your shows stay blessed always lots of love

[@zusterhalima5367]

Here i dont agree, its THEIR day, its not just gis day or just her day ,its THEIR day

[@ezarra6347]

Tough times never last but tough peoples do....

[@krisjackson5967]

I hate buying shoes these days as I have damaged knees & struggle to walk so can't wear high heels. I need to buy some for summer

[@keithbailey3207]

"It's your wedding it's not his"

[@shawkorrrTWITCH]

Yup, good point about those cigars, cost a dang fortune, especially in Norway! I cannot complain about my woman's spending (not that she really spends much anyhow) when I pay like 20 bucks for one cigar (x25 if I get a box)...🤣

[@vassienix621]

Tell Him Steve.

[@NathanSmutz]

It's sad to see brides and their mothers fight over wedding details. I think there's been a generational change where it used to be a bride-and-mother party; and somehow the expectation changed to a one-woman-show.

[@anupamraj3922]

I don't agree with the weeding part..he got the full right on his weeding too

[@debieroep8460]

😂😂is her day

[@Livelaugh44]

I agree with Steve if the woman wants to plan the wedding let her!! 🙂 the only reason to step aside is if the woman doesn’t want to plan haha. For my wedding I planned 99.9% of it, thankfully my husband took no interest but I did ask him to help with the planning on a couple things and he did. I got to be married in a church with the pastor I wanted, the colors I wanted, the place to eat, everything haha 😂 my husband had a blast and everything went great!!! 😃😃😃 he trusts me to plan everything because he knows I have good taste and wanted it to be my dream wedding and it was at the beach just like I wanted!! Win win for everyone lol

[@SomeBody-ce3gq]

0:57 I'm dying hahahahahaha

[@Ratpoisonbean]

Omg that woman looks exactly like Brenda Song lol

[@HGCUPCAKES]

I’m a woman… I have one pair of sneakers, one pair of thongs (Australian), I pair of sandals, I pair of boots, 1 pair of heels. That’s it. My husband has 5 pairs of shoes too lol we aren’t into shoes. I’m not into hoarding handbags or clothes either.

[@debbieryan2768]

Steve, I'm not like that, I've got shoes n clothes I've had for 10-15 years, I can't n don't like shopping, n when u have been homeless n moneyless u Appreciate what u have n take care of em'... I don't understand why some of these women go out n blow money on things they don't need...it's just extra baggage if u have to move around...

[@dr.majidahsmith9006]

DISAGREE with Steve. The wedding day is not just for the Bride/Woman unless she's marrying herself lol. The WEDDING DAY IS FOR THE COUPLE (Man and Woman). He deserves to have his input especially when he is contributing to the expenses. Starting off pike this is not a good look. They need to change their vocabulary to We and us instead of I and me.

[@dancox819]

Just as much his wedding as it is hers

[@lifeisgood525]

lawyer vs the honorable judge steve

[@lyudmilagavrish7035]

i clicked because i thought that was the actress that plays London Tipton:)

[@torisefford5671]

How is it only her wedding?just because he doesn't dream of a wedding,doesn't mean he isn't part of the wedding.Steve brown noses women so much it's pitiful.

[@BenzoEsquire]

Steve dead wrong.

[@MochaZilla]

Facts.

[@jennifermoore1584]

I like handbags. But boy my husband loves clothes and shoes. So it works out for us lol

[@fliptop157]

I hope the second lady is as understanding when he exercises his options 😉

[@chrismazz75]

Here's a tip: Don't enter a marriage with someone who argues with you on everything, and you need to out-argue him.

[@BIGGDUDE42]

Instead... enter a marriage with someone who demands that you go along with her on everything, even when she thinks that the wedding is ONLY for her... run

[@debbieechiribel1860]

I use to have plenty of shoes too but never ?? It

[@tonyquek6157]

Hey Steve, a wedding involves both the man n woman. No one should be

[@kartikeyasingh38]

So he's not marrying, it's her whose marrying.

[@shaeharris7961]

They will find some other reason to complain about you but the life goes on no matter what.. haha

[@gracenamara7229]

Oh yeah! Clothes, shoes and bags are the ladies thing

[@wasclit11]

Been happily married 53 years and we share everything 50/50 - Its her house - my house payment, her car - my car payment - you getting the picture? At least I get the last word in any discussion - "Yes Dear". 😎

[@makobooslajabless570]

I've been with my wife 44 years and I totally disagree. I not only believe in equality and taking responsibility, I insist on it. I am a happy person, regardless of what anything else does or does not do. I have explained the concept to her but she prefers to think that someone has to make her happy: husband, children, siblings etc. I do not force my point of view on her though. When I am wrong, I Admit, Accept and Apologize (3 A's). After 44 years she still has a bit of a problem with the 3 A's, but I accept nothing less. It is foundational for me. I totally reject the idea that a woman must be made to feel she's correct even when she's not.

[@evdark-7638]

but i watch football for free and her shopping is not free 😂

[@distorbia20]

No Steve. It is his day too. Is two people getting married not one person. And this is coming from a female

[@AamirSajjadChawan]

Love ❤️ from Pakistan 😂

[@AamirSajjadChawan]

so great😂

[@Jordy_NL]

Nice😁

[@sereneboon4890]

Love uncle steve

[@MohammedIbrahim-px7cc]

Im glad his show is over, steve has never gotten over his 3 divorces and that shaped his perspective on relationships. He puts women on pedestal.

[@25803]

wow

[@a.i.marvin6180]

Understanding is not essential.

[@K_Jai20]

Nice vid

[@Touchedmymouthministriesint]

Hats👒 and shoes👞

[@joeanthony9162]

My wife has a whole walk in closet filled with clothes, and much more. I dont say a damn thing.

[@KidFromQueens]

He's trying to argue culture with that first couple! Also, it's ridiculous to say a man has no say on THEIR wedding day! Down right belittling and disrespectful!

[@maddox3369]

Wow

[@diyallthings]

I don’t like many shoes , clothes or handbags!

[@twentyseven-]

OUR wedding wth.

[@mrpoopoohead7668]

she wants to be a bride...but does she want to be a wife???

[@mohitobonshokarimova3209]

Classic ☺☺☺☺

[@anandkmrbharti]

from lndia ✋

[@nataliewalters2759]

No it’s both of their wedding . They are becoming one. There is no I in marriage . However , her fiancé needs to let her plan most of it but still give his input .

[@nicolii7321]

I dreamt of my wedding day too but you can't control other ppl. My husband's mother went behind the scenes and made it all about her. Caused a lot of stress.

[@alraisee]

اللهم صل على محمد وعلى آله وأصحابه أجمعين لا حول ولا قوة الا بالله العلي العظيم أستغفر الله العظيم واتوب اليه سبحان الله وبحمده سبحان الله العظيم وبحمده حسبي الله ونعم الوكيل نعم المولى ونعم النصير

[@MellyB]

It’s the man’s weddding too tf they wedding wouldn’t be happening if he didn’t propose. Let’s stop this sexist narrative

[@CognitiveDiscussion]

So the man is paying, yet it’s her day? Huh

[@jarjeestariq8561]

I don't get this notion that the wedding day is supposedly all abt the woman. it is special for him as well.. he has every right to pick his own damn dress whether u like it or not cuz guess what honey it is HIS wedding as well. in my opinion if ur that controlling from the get-go then it's a recipe for disaster. we need to understand the simple fact that it takes 2 people for marriage and if one enforces his/her choice on the other then it ain't a choice it is just tyranny

[@hayagtie]

Sorry but what?? It’s also his wedding day! Thats the whole point THEYRE getting married. Not just her

[@shahedahmed4751]

Men n women are equal. On the wedding day, its women’s day, not men’s.😡😡😡 let women say i do to themselves. No need men there

[@positivobro8544]

Bro this was last month?

[@snowbird1381]

Why is it always the cute ones that are taken and married? And the ones that are single are just ugh in every way???

[@maryoleary2037]

Is she the actress on Emily in Paris?

[@YouTubehandl3333]

This is old huh? It’s May lol

[@rokutube508]

America has too much time & money, I guess. Now the world has came to where Wedding is more important than creating a family. What does it really matter how/what in the wedding, marrying someone they love should be. Just sad, then what happens divorce?. I have three friends that got divorced over last 3 years, pretty much one per year, because the girls cheated on them, they complained their husband came too late from work, or don’t spend too much time going vacations; however, they were good fathers and try to put the roof, bring food, and clothes for their baby girls. My friends gave them wedding and rings that they asked for. Sad, truly sad. More Johnny Depp cases around us because of these stupid shows brainwashing people.

[@stevemillard8934]

Can you be simple and cheap for me to 🥺🥜🤕🥰?

[@boukhrisazhar2461]

I do 😂😂

[@reinalee7604]

I think it’s a big deal for both people getting married, not only the woman. Yea. Most woman are the dreamers but some men also dream of getting married to. Not just us. He has the right to pick out some colors, maybe choices on places where to get married, who can come, & other things added to the list. Not only her. He putting money in it, he should also have the right too. Wtf. Lol

[@nevkrisjackson8065]

I have a pair of sands shoes, slip ons + thongs & a pair of boots ... A wedding is for both of you. Sadly my darling husband died recently but we loved our wedding day on the beach .. $500 😎

[@Channie_00]

I get how the wedding is mostly for the woman, but if the time comes that my partner does purpose I do want my partners take on certain things with me together

[@MochaZilla]

The wedding is not mostly for the woman. What a selfish view. Its for the two separate people coming together as once person before God and their family. If you want a successful marriage you can't be so self focused.

[@Channie_00]

@@MochaZilla I see you jus dismissed everything I said and only focused on the first few words. If you worked on your reading I said “most women” I didn’t say me. I also said when the time comes when my partner purposes I want him to be included in things. Reading the whole paragraph before you try to give me advice on how I should view life. Thank you😒

[@Channie_00]

@@MochaZilla and don’t bring God into this, I could careless about religion

[@sounsure9108]

I a woman, am disgusted by the shoe hogs out there.

[@JohnHayes-fc2dl]

❤

[@krissmgvlogs]

Two interfering men, stay in your own lane! 😂😅

[@mikenelson8377]

It’s not her wedding day. It’s THEIR wedding day. SH, this is horrible advice.

[@mraquaticnews5676]

Classic!