Adaobi, Adanma, Adaora, Adada; your name embodies every energy in a woman. My husband and I are just like your parents; both of our children have only igbo names. It also made sense for me when I dropped off my own english name. In being different you celebrate yourself, and connect to your culture, especially if you are overseas, where everyone is separated by color. We are so proud of you and your achievement. Congratulations Nnwam!!!!!! Ijele, Dallas,Tx.
@lilmindless287 жыл бұрын
My name is Fanta people always say 'oh like the soda?' But no it's a west African name that existed years before the soda company
@gunnaryoung7 жыл бұрын
To be fair, they're saying "like"the soda, not "after" the soda...
@adannenna69067 жыл бұрын
Wow!!! I'm Igbo too... I had this same problem....I didn't like my name....and I asked my dad why didn't he give me an English name when I was a teenager and his answer was.....if I had named you rice or beans would you have been happy? And that was the end of the conversation.....I slowly began to love my name because it made me feel unique and I didn't come to fully love my name untill I started applying for jobs....my name always stands out and contrary to how adaobi was feeling...I usually felt pretty confident when applying for jobs because I knew my name stood out.thank you Adaobi for this wonderful presentation....and I'm the Ada of the compound too 😀☺️😍🤗
@MargaretBelle7 жыл бұрын
'Challenge your narrative.' Love it.
@mrcolemore58317 жыл бұрын
Self love over self loathe anytime. As Africans, we have to love ourselves first. If others choose to follow cause, it is a secondary benefit but if not, Our love for ourselves and our culture should be sufficient enough.
@xXGodsGraceXx7 жыл бұрын
Well said
@MillionaireMello7 жыл бұрын
This was good Ms. Adibe. Now I feel the urge to share my Nigerian name, although its listed as my middle name. Its Boma and it means 'God's blessing.'
@brunoloverxx7 жыл бұрын
forever Mello what tribe is that name from
@MillionaireMello7 жыл бұрын
Simba Kalabari tribe from Rivers State, Nigeria.
@victorclement34463 жыл бұрын
Beautiful. God bless you adaobi.
@blase0577 жыл бұрын
One of the first TED talks that actually captivated me 👌🏼
@fiz83347 жыл бұрын
the most powerful TED talk I've watched, ended up crying lol
@adeogilvyprcontent35347 жыл бұрын
My name is Adémiluyi, Shortened to Adé in social circles and Aday when at work and applying for jobs. I created Aday to get my employers and colleagues to pronounce my name the way I wanted. Getting English people or People born in England to pronounce my name the way I would like has been a challenge since I started primary school. It still continues today.
@WitchyLady21 Жыл бұрын
As someone who was raised speaking English, I can understand this. I can't for the life of me, roll my "r's", and not for lack of trying. LOL. My advice is to be patient with people who come from different ethnic backgrounds. It's not that we're not willing to try or that we don't care. Sometimes, it's just a physical limitation.
@TyishaVache6 жыл бұрын
I think African names are beautiful, loved this TedTalk :)
@tbryant36857 жыл бұрын
She just preached to me! I had been considering using my middle name for business purposes, feeling that people would respect me less, or not even give my services a chance based on my name. My name is Tawana and its a shame that we think about these things, even worse that they are usually true.
@eulerianorder69727 жыл бұрын
T Bryant are you from zim. 🇿🇼
@tbryant36857 жыл бұрын
Jamie Handitye no, unfortunately I have no rich and beautiful culture or heritage to call my own as I am an American born descendant of enslaved Africans.
@samuelsagwa43515 жыл бұрын
Great video but I’m still changing my name 😘
@WitchyLady21 Жыл бұрын
Every individual is a star. If we can't honor someone's name, that says more about us than it does about them. Every person deserves to be respected and loved for who they are. Their name is part of that.
@nancyturnbull27987 жыл бұрын
Inspiring! Go girl!
@Hebrewsistah75 жыл бұрын
As an Iber (Hebrew) woman of the African Diaspora, I truly understand and agree with what Adaobi Adibe is saying. My birth name is Starleigh, which in my opinion is very European! Lol although I would love to actually know what my Iber name would've been, I am also grateful that I was given a name that helped me succeed in the European country I live in. This is one of the best Ted talks I've experienced! Amazing!
@MrsMoyo7 жыл бұрын
I totally relate. Teaching my child to accept her African-ness.
@johnkeithrobinson73994 жыл бұрын
that was good keep up the good work
@happyjudas67 жыл бұрын
Good girl!!! You have made my day. 👌✊✊✊👏👏
@lucygborie75317 жыл бұрын
love this
@ta_team8086 жыл бұрын
My name is Te’a but ppl usually think it's tea. I got so tired of ppl mispronouncing my name eventually I just stopped correcting them especially substitutes in skool. But after leaving more about my name n where it comes from I'm a lot more proud of it.
@ADAJ3KINGANGEL7 жыл бұрын
It's always people with meaningful names that get fun of.
@supergirliex123x6 жыл бұрын
so true
@Superanimewuver7 жыл бұрын
Wow! This is amazing :)
@zeekmz69587 жыл бұрын
I relate to this so much
@bigaluk19807 жыл бұрын
Amazed
@kikitaughtme2 жыл бұрын
Ever met an African with an African last name that not even Africans could pronounce correctly?
@eoba84887 жыл бұрын
😭❤️😭❤️
@rexmelo41946 жыл бұрын
Legend
@whitneyade50177 жыл бұрын
Yes hunnay!!!
@kaykaysway19926 жыл бұрын
she butchered the name Achebe smh. And she doesnt say igbo correctly. But this is a great Ted talk.
@adaobiadibe45976 жыл бұрын
you're right I did! Sorry about that, only realised after I watched it back lol, will do better next time! I do however say igbo correctly, you just haven't accounted for my accent.
@marcelamouofo76527 жыл бұрын
Amen
@harsharya5455 жыл бұрын
Harshendra , here
@tunjilegba7 жыл бұрын
I actually have Irish name in real 😕 life but I prefer an African name online
@tashboog6 жыл бұрын
✊🏾
@truebut32437 жыл бұрын
I can't relate. But why do Africans make fun of African names
@jayhey9747 жыл бұрын
Just by that question we can all tell you cant relate.