Life Begins at the End of Your Comfort Zone | Yubing Zhang | TEDxStanford

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9 жыл бұрын

Leaping off buildings wasn’t exactly something graduate student Yubing Zhang ever thought she’d do. But pushing beyond her comfort zone and taking that bungee cord leap taught her more than she ever could have imagined.
Yubing Zhang is a first-year MBA student at Stanford University. A series of transformational moments have led Zhang to completely change her understanding of fear and courage, redefine her comfort zones and push herself to the edge. She has experienced the unlimited potential that exists when we break through our comfort zones, and is dedicated to inspiring others to do the same. Zhang has lived in six different countries and worked in four different industries. She holds a master of science degree from the University of Oxford and a bachelor's degree from the University of Hong Kong. Zhang has served as an entrepreneur for the Bank of China, launched a vocational training program for victims of domestic abuse in Cambodia and founded a platform that supports and coaches everyday people to share their passion, ideas and extraordinary stories through talks and performances.
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@deckearns
@deckearns 5 жыл бұрын
"Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will."
@nicholasharper3296
@nicholasharper3296 5 жыл бұрын
Well said.
@rajeshsingh-mv7zn
@rajeshsingh-mv7zn 5 жыл бұрын
True these words should be marked
@freemediasociety7866
@freemediasociety7866 4 жыл бұрын
Powerful.
@TxTdariAwan
@TxTdariAwan 4 жыл бұрын
your word motivate me, lol
@dazzlingdrea7064
@dazzlingdrea7064 4 жыл бұрын
Yes you're right
@robichard
@robichard 7 жыл бұрын
I am 65 years and have been held back from living to my true potential all my life. I cried through the entire speech. What does that tell you about the lesson this girl has to teach.? To all you young people out there. Fear is the biggest dream stealer. It never goes away. But, you can change your relationship to it by conditioning yourself to act in the face of it. If do this, when you reach my age, you will not have the regrets I do.
@homepcmacbook5996
@homepcmacbook5996 7 жыл бұрын
robichard Thank you!!
@f.r.4171
@f.r.4171 7 жыл бұрын
robichard thanks for the advice, we will our best
@santanaw5001
@santanaw5001 7 жыл бұрын
robichard as long as there is air in your lungs it's not too late.
@maggie0285
@maggie0285 7 жыл бұрын
My heart is heavy. You can still overcome your fears. I am 45 and I decided to try a new job that scared me. I didn't know what I was doing and I still want to give up but it has been worth it. You are still young in my book. Don't get stuck in that thought it's too late. There are people in their 90's getting college degrees or going back to get their high school diploma. Life is a gift.
@blessedbeyond5722
@blessedbeyond5722 7 жыл бұрын
robichard you still have time so regret nothing. Mr Macdonald did it. When I sense fear I know it's time for me to act , I have invested all I have worked for to help me reach where I want to be I hope I can rip off someday.
@kiraknight2951
@kiraknight2951 6 жыл бұрын
I am 27 now. I am trying to get out of my comfort zone. Good luck to me and to all who are doing the same. #inspiring
@seareteklay2720
@seareteklay2720 6 жыл бұрын
kira knight me too 27 same good luck for all of us sister
@miloso.1042
@miloso.1042 6 жыл бұрын
28 and fighting! 💪
@vjdhinesh5282
@vjdhinesh5282 6 жыл бұрын
Good luck
@charmedprince
@charmedprince 6 жыл бұрын
Me too. 27 here. I'm trying to start a photography studio. I make bags for a living but i get exhausted by it, doing it just for the money. Turning 28 this June and pursuing new passions! Good luck to everyone of us!
@hope4421
@hope4421 5 жыл бұрын
kira knight 27 too & i feel stock. I need to work on getting out of my comfort zone. Good luck guys!
@myfavoritepointguard446
@myfavoritepointguard446 2 жыл бұрын
Comfort is a drug. Once you get used to it, it becomes addicting. Give a weak person consistent stimulation, good food, cheap entertainment and they'll throw their ambitions right out the window. The comfort zone is where dreams go and die.
@erikatan3809
@erikatan3809 2 жыл бұрын
This is so true!
@vanessadof3846
@vanessadof3846 2 жыл бұрын
You are correct 👍
@zicob2536
@zicob2536 2 жыл бұрын
Well said.
@reallyreynaa
@reallyreynaa Жыл бұрын
i’m realizing this after being at my job for 4 years! i want to move on and learn new skills. i tried to quit once and it didn’t work out. the next time, will be the last time. 🦋💕
@OmobolaOyewusi
@OmobolaOyewusi Жыл бұрын
This is powerful. I'll write this boldly so I can always remember it.
@moesalam6837
@moesalam6837 6 жыл бұрын
This speech touched home. Two years ago I start living my life end of my comfort zone today I have two companies 10 employees and growing.
@danorion369
@danorion369 6 жыл бұрын
congratulations! I'm so happy for you! =)
@mohamadkaakii
@mohamadkaakii 5 жыл бұрын
Great news!
@dhineshs888
@dhineshs888 5 жыл бұрын
Good luck
@asrulasmah
@asrulasmah 4 жыл бұрын
Congrats and good luck to you. I hope you always out of your comfort zone.
@DaanTheodenPro
@DaanTheodenPro 4 жыл бұрын
How is it now?
@robichard
@robichard 7 жыл бұрын
To all you young people out there, please remember this. All your fears, self doubts, and insecurities are all in your head. When do the work to condition your mind to be free of all those disempowering thoughts and beliefs, you will be able to accomplish more than you can possibly imagine. This is universal truth. "As you think, so you will become".
@theultimatereductionist7592
@theultimatereductionist7592 6 жыл бұрын
I will still support Marxism, antinatalism, outlawing the meat industry, outlawing breedings, bombing all prisons to free all prisoners. Nothing you say will change my political views. You have no right to complain about my or anyone else's (not communists' not socialists' not Marxists') political views, because YOU just said: all YOUR fears are only IN YOUR HEAD.
@ubahkeyse5350
@ubahkeyse5350 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks 😍
@juneaddis4940
@juneaddis4940 5 жыл бұрын
robichard Thank you. I wrote down ur comment. very helpful.
@drmumu
@drmumu 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you @robichard
@michaelsuttles1531
@michaelsuttles1531 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@trakmator
@trakmator 6 жыл бұрын
1.) It's never as screy, as it looks 2.) Never be as scared, as you're exited 3.) Don't be scared of uncertainty 4.) Tell People close to you, that you love them ♥️
@hebah8549
@hebah8549 5 жыл бұрын
trakmator life starts at the end edge of your comfort zone
@huyvuquang9533
@huyvuquang9533 4 жыл бұрын
trakmator what if you have bad parents?
@El_Camino_Que_Recorres_Solo
@El_Camino_Que_Recorres_Solo 4 жыл бұрын
@@huyvuquang9533 he mentioned people close to you, it doesn't have to be parents, I also have a difficult relationship with my parents, but there are some other people in my life that do deserve to be told that they are important and that I care for them
@user-be2jj8lw3t
@user-be2jj8lw3t 3 жыл бұрын
@James Two weeks after applying his method to my life, my life has completely changed. Public speaking, social anxi ety problems, and various types of addi ctions have begun to disappear. search youtube "paradox of I can do it"
@coachtaguchi
@coachtaguchi 2 жыл бұрын
@@huyvuquang9533 Start been a better person today than yesterday. It doesn’t mean be a better profissional. It’s about to do your best in everything you do, wherever activities you are doing, always using good thoughts. And be grateful for the life you have been given for your parents. And keep having good thoughts. This energy that you spread to the Universe will return to you. Don’t be mad about your past. Be happy
@vivresimplement3378
@vivresimplement3378 3 жыл бұрын
"To get something you never had , you have to do something you never did " this wisdom may inspire you to overcome the comfort zone
@chika7343
@chika7343 3 жыл бұрын
“It’s not as scary as it looks” I will repeat this everytime I doubt myself. Thank you for opening my eyes, I hope we all have the courage to do what we really want
@RyanFila
@RyanFila 3 жыл бұрын
Honestly! That’s a great statement!
@gilangsurendra445
@gilangsurendra445 3 жыл бұрын
Yea it is, let’s try our best !!
@kabhisharma3464
@kabhisharma3464 3 жыл бұрын
Keep repeating n u will succeed like anything
@d.v.k1887
@d.v.k1887 Жыл бұрын
I,ll do the same hope we both have the courage to do the things we really wanna do🙌
@wanderer4694
@wanderer4694 5 жыл бұрын
I just appreciate how internet connects us with the best ideas and people. Thanks Ted.
@allysanhelgracerebolanan2387
@allysanhelgracerebolanan2387 3 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@user-pq4xx4kg1e
@user-pq4xx4kg1e 3 жыл бұрын
And KZbin!
@iche9373
@iche9373 2 жыл бұрын
The idea to leave the comfort zone? What an original idea. Thanks for the wisdom, and I thought we were too smart to recognize it.
@karenclaire8296
@karenclaire8296 5 жыл бұрын
One of my dreams is to talk here in TED and inspire people. One day!
@StellasLive
@StellasLive 4 жыл бұрын
Good luck dear. 😘😘I'll wait for you
@disarapornphalapree6526
@disarapornphalapree6526 4 жыл бұрын
What are you gonna talk about?
@avtarcheema6358
@avtarcheema6358 4 жыл бұрын
the most difficult task is to decide what you really want to do it's much easy to do the same
@ukpeudoeka8546
@ukpeudoeka8546 4 жыл бұрын
Sooner and later
@worldofsoumya
@worldofsoumya 4 жыл бұрын
You will definitely it if you believe and work for it. All the best to you!👍☺💖
@vn1118
@vn1118 4 жыл бұрын
Im 26 and is at the end of my comfort zone. I just quit the job that i hated, left a relationship which i knew i deserved better. I cried, i was scared but im also excited for the new path that im gonna take. I truly believe everything happens for a reason, and when one door closes, the others open. Im proud of myself to be able to take proactive decisions over my life and hope everyone here is proud of their actions as well. Dont be afraid of falls and fails cos everything in life is a learning experience! Enjoy the ride of life guys😊
@developerdeveloping9645
@developerdeveloping9645 6 ай бұрын
I am happy for you. I am currently at the same age as you were while writing this comment and I have the the very exact plan as you. I hope this comment finds you well and that you are much happier and fulfilled than 4 years ago.
@vn1118
@vn1118 6 ай бұрын
@developerdeveloping9645 Girl! Im in a much BETTER place now! Earning more money, the relationship after that bad one was so much better as well. Dont give up on yourself, trust your gut feeling and keep going. You've got this❤️
@stevebatty7733
@stevebatty7733 Жыл бұрын
My very wise father made this statement to me in my youth. "Steve, don't let fear rule your life. I've tried to apply it these past 76 years.
@wichetleelamanit6195
@wichetleelamanit6195 Жыл бұрын
And you won!
@thatsdope9571
@thatsdope9571 2 жыл бұрын
As someone with social anxiety and general anxiety I was bursting into tears through the whole thing. I hope I'd be able one day to do whatever I feel like doing without so much fear and feeling like my heart is going to leave my body constantly
@alaamohammad3043
@alaamohammad3043 Жыл бұрын
I hope you overcome your social anxiety..
@godjhaka7376
@godjhaka7376 Жыл бұрын
Have you tried mental health therapy?
@l3l3Cakes
@l3l3Cakes 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve lived in my comfort zone for as long as I can remember. Last year I told someone I was in love with them after 7 years of no contact. I was so afraid that I avoided the person for 7 whole years! I finally told them and they of course did not reciprocate my feelings, but now that I have taken the plunge, my heart is open and fearless. I will no longer hold my passion inside, but face it head on and wholeheartedly ❤️
@kabhisharma3464
@kabhisharma3464 3 жыл бұрын
Keep opening urs passion
@flowersmile123
@flowersmile123 2 жыл бұрын
Love your honesty and bravery. Stand in your truth.
@v3g499
@v3g499 7 жыл бұрын
Daaaamn this woman knows how to throw a speech
@abhinav13april
@abhinav13april 4 жыл бұрын
She truly does.. and she had this fear of public speaking.. how ironic..!
@vkents1714
@vkents1714 4 жыл бұрын
Her speech was inspiring, but it could have been delivered a little bit better.
@mistertexaz
@mistertexaz 3 жыл бұрын
Valley King it can always be done better, what’s your point?
@sassquatch9398
@sassquatch9398 3 жыл бұрын
@@mistertexaz assuming they mean it doesn't quite meet some of their favorite speeches they've heard
@Kit-Kat4L
@Kit-Kat4L 3 жыл бұрын
@@vkents1714 how so?
@vdsilva6806
@vdsilva6806 3 жыл бұрын
Took myself out of the comfort zone ... days before the Covid hit. Now, I’m living in a new city. Im gearing up to help young teens learn to be skillful with their hands and doing repairs on elderly’s homes so they can stay in their home safely. It’s about helping others while I’m still here and can. I’m 65 years old.
@EarthTemplee
@EarthTemplee 3 жыл бұрын
I love this!!! Good for you !!
@heatherwiner2883
@heatherwiner2883 7 жыл бұрын
This is so inspiring for me. I have severe social anxiety and can not date and have a hard time holding a job. Thank you for sharing. I cried when you talked of your mother. I have to step out of my comfort zone to live.
@liujustin8649
@liujustin8649 7 жыл бұрын
come on .you can do it well.
@JohnnyArtPavlou
@JohnnyArtPavlou 6 жыл бұрын
💛💛💛
@danorion369
@danorion369 6 жыл бұрын
@livingoncetwice
@livingoncetwice 6 жыл бұрын
Rooting for you Heather!! Keep fighting for your dreams and goals because you have strength to make it happen.
@12SA472012
@12SA472012 5 жыл бұрын
Heather Winer same here. I have social anxiety too.
@elenaa3408
@elenaa3408 2 жыл бұрын
The moment you begin to think differently from all your old thought patterns, then it's when you start to live your only truth. Some people say " I will get out of my comfort zone...and start living" but after some years you will be at the beginning of another comfort zone and so on...and on. So I don´t like to call it a comfort zone, I like to call it : "your purpose, your mission"and you will never ever find yourself in a comfort zone, and why? because living up to your only truth you will find yourself breaking boundaries and always looking to make new things each day because you have your only truth to live until your last day here on Earth. Peace to all!
@aidenpethick6871
@aidenpethick6871 4 жыл бұрын
*“You never change your life until you step out of your comfort zone; change begins at the end of your comfort zone.”*
@chisdailylife723
@chisdailylife723 5 жыл бұрын
Just came back to this talk after 3 months just to remind myself, why I decided to leave my comfort zone again. To anyone out there who still hesitate. It's definitely worth it. Take the risk or the leap of faith and get out your comfort zone ❤
@uniqueksa8551
@uniqueksa8551 7 жыл бұрын
"I see life as a constant fight against your comfort zone" Well said!
@fredgeller2778
@fredgeller2778 7 жыл бұрын
That's it I'm moving out of my parents basement.
@Vinchenzo25228
@Vinchenzo25228 6 жыл бұрын
did you?
@ram6763
@ram6763 6 жыл бұрын
SPER Lol! Nice one bro
@sundayonah1775
@sundayonah1775 5 жыл бұрын
stepping out of your comfort zone does not really mean to move out of your parents' basement, but to ventures into your ideal, ignores the fear that has been holding you down captive and become the person who you are created to be!!!
@mrchembe5051
@mrchembe5051 4 жыл бұрын
Hahaha
@hariomkushwaha9773
@hariomkushwaha9773 4 жыл бұрын
Did you??
@christianze9783
@christianze9783 5 жыл бұрын
She is beautiful her accent ,her voice and speech are amazing and inspiring.God bless you
@mmmickmorrison5
@mmmickmorrison5 3 жыл бұрын
For Real though
@WorldAreAll1
@WorldAreAll1 7 жыл бұрын
God bless this woman and let her be an example for many others for fear of public speaking. Cheers mates and share with everyone.
@arianguyen2995
@arianguyen2995 7 жыл бұрын
^
@charmainephasoana6850
@charmainephasoana6850 4 жыл бұрын
I conquer my fear of public speaking in the name of Jesus!!!!
@dominiqueolivier881
@dominiqueolivier881 2 жыл бұрын
“I see life as a constant struggle against your confort zone” magnific
@SMFITNESS786
@SMFITNESS786 4 жыл бұрын
I’m 24. I needed this. I will get my training contract. I will qualify as a lawyer and I will be a successfully published author. I can and will do it! It’s never as scary as it looks!!!!!!
@Raaniin
@Raaniin 3 жыл бұрын
I listen to this because I'm right now pushing myself out of my comfort zone. For whole my life I've lived with my parents. Last week I moved to another city to do my internship at a pharmacy. While I was there it was completely fine, but going back to my parents to visit gave my a lot of anxiety, so much that I can barley move or think. I could have chosen to do my internship a bit outside of my city, 1 hour from where I live, but I choose another city so I could train to live by myself. Everything is fine in the city I moved to, but visiting my parents made me regret my decision, because I feel I just want to be near them (we are very close). But at the same time I feel I'm being a coward because I'm so attached to my family. I guess this is what you go through when you're scared of the unknown. It is really hard actually, but I'm going try to push through so I can become more confident.
@jessiesmokeshop
@jessiesmokeshop 11 ай бұрын
How's life now? Did you end up moving back? Did you pursue your life in a different city? Did you get past your comfort zone? How's everything! Thank you for reading
@anmolverma9318
@anmolverma9318 6 жыл бұрын
I am a student from India. I was searching for"what is wrong with me?", "why i am not achieving, what i want?" for a few days. Then, Today i found that i am tightly bounded to my comfort zone. I found this video on KZbin and it inspired me so much.i wept a lot by watching this video and forgive myself for what mistakes i made. Now, I'm feeling light and determined that i will push my comfort zone. I really felt connected to miss Yubing Zhang, thank you so much ma'am for being such inspiration.
@siddhipatel2499
@siddhipatel2499 5 жыл бұрын
I am a young doctor about to give my board exam. I have been feeling anxious but I guess it is a good thing. I'm about to start a new chapter in my life and this is maybe supposed to feel like this. This feeling of discomfort is the beginning of my new life. Maybe my life is finally heading in the right direction. I love how she shared this with us. I feel so much better about my situation.
@johnkuchta9325
@johnkuchta9325 5 жыл бұрын
The world needs a Doctor like you!
@kabhisharma3464
@kabhisharma3464 3 жыл бұрын
All the best
@kholofelomotsibi1597
@kholofelomotsibi1597 Жыл бұрын
Wow I am 26. I struggle with getting out of my comfort zone and really pushing and fighting for what I want to achieve In life. I live a lot in my head and don't often take action. Thank you for this wonderful speech. It really touched home and opened my eyes
@Mohammed_alee
@Mohammed_alee 3 жыл бұрын
This saying touched me deep . Thank you Don’t try to get rid of fear , accept that you’ll be afraid and then go do it anyway
@kalena4662
@kalena4662 6 жыл бұрын
Her talking about the Asian part of her family and how it feels u comfortable to say ily and express feelings is so true!
@kabhisharma3464
@kabhisharma3464 3 жыл бұрын
R u too from Asia
@widyirawan1604
@widyirawan1604 3 жыл бұрын
Yess Relatable
@americanexpatintablasislan6419
@americanexpatintablasislan6419 7 жыл бұрын
Wow! Your talk was 110% perfect!!! You had my undivided attention from start to finish. The content together with your sincere delivery brought a tear at the end. Thank you!!! :-) :-)
@haiyennguyen1652
@haiyennguyen1652 5 жыл бұрын
Tieng hat thu hien
@songulcan2723
@songulcan2723 3 жыл бұрын
Yess dear👍
@Nishadpkinutube
@Nishadpkinutube Жыл бұрын
I wish I had watched this years back. I was devastated after my first and last break-up. Couldn't even try to start a new relationship. Ended up an introvert. Getting old faster. Feels like I'm done.
@itswow3014
@itswow3014 2 жыл бұрын
Comfort zone is like a magnet it attracts but leaving it will make you proud of your self.
@s.s.4916
@s.s.4916 2 жыл бұрын
At 30, I stepped out of comfort hoping to find my true passion. Eight years later, I am still as lost as ever. I don't regret at all, but just because you left your comfort zone there is no guarantee that life will be netter
@yewmunwong642
@yewmunwong642 Жыл бұрын
You are right! Couldn't agree more!
@QuanBoyy
@QuanBoyy 5 ай бұрын
At least you gave it a try
@kolkerya
@kolkerya 7 жыл бұрын
This will lead me out of my comfort zone. It will never be scary as it looks. Great speech!
@prudencedantye9297
@prudencedantye9297 7 жыл бұрын
I think for me, this is the best TED talk I have ever watched, because I can relate. Thank you so much Yubing Zhang. I loved it from begging to end.
@JadeCampbell40
@JadeCampbell40 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I needed this it brought me to tears.
@community1854
@community1854 7 жыл бұрын
Lovely; what an amazing speaker! It is never as scary as it looks ! Her eyes glow with kindness; never seen a more gentle and powerful voice!!
@MsChelle_BIAM
@MsChelle_BIAM 6 жыл бұрын
Wow I love this and can so relate. This brought tears to my eyes for I've been living in a comfort zone all my life and beginning to step out. Time to live for I am the end of my comfort zone. Thanks so much for this!
@spacegirl7290
@spacegirl7290 3 жыл бұрын
It really touched my heart, her speech was so peaceful yet too deeply painful...
@danmart1879
@danmart1879 4 жыл бұрын
Fine woman, brave enough to open her heart to us all. Blessings.
@meileevaj
@meileevaj 3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with what you said about our comfort zone. We are so afraid to think outside of the box that we don’t realize how much opportunity there is. And of course so true what you said about Asian parents. I still today find it hard to say too much on how I feel to my parents. The fear of dishonoring one’s parents has been so ingrained in our head that we value on that so greatly, we hold our emotions back. Kudos to you for being able to share.
@OmobolaOyewusi
@OmobolaOyewusi Жыл бұрын
She spoke from her heart to each heart that cared to listen. Thank you. I'll share with my husband and with myself again.
@GaladRiel1512
@GaladRiel1512 3 жыл бұрын
One of the best talks I've heard so far!!! Touched me deeply as words of wisdom are flowing in this talk!
@kendermichel3803
@kendermichel3803 3 жыл бұрын
I can feel what you felt,it's so emotional,it's so encouraging
@boscopereira8590
@boscopereira8590 7 жыл бұрын
What a superb speech by Yubing . God bless her heart.
@roswang2668
@roswang2668 6 жыл бұрын
Her own story brought me into tears because I felt it. I know how hard it is to tell my parents that I love them so much and I deeply want to call my mom sharing my struggles with her and tell her I miss her alot.
@cphilly2015
@cphilly2015 5 жыл бұрын
this is honestly one of the most powerful speeches iv ever heard her genuineity is so noticably authentic and put out there without the slightest indication of hesitation for anyone who thinks it's easy to get up on a stage give a speech filled with a room full of people you better reconsider your evaluation she goes so in depth about her fears and struggles with such a soft tone in her voice that's how you know she conquered them society needs to open up it's eyes and listen to people like her without the inclusion of judgment surfacing I think we all as humans can learn something from this strong woman
@anupamasworld8312
@anupamasworld8312 7 жыл бұрын
Yubing Zhang, you just put the finger on my painful problem!!! I am living in the comfort zone but with lots of shame about myself , fear & uncertainty about future. But now , I will remember your words that "Your life starts at the end of your comfort zone. So dare to step out & live your real life with proud." Thank you so much!! You met me at the correct point of time in my life!!! So many blessings!!!
@doctor-zd5yi
@doctor-zd5yi 7 жыл бұрын
why are you ashamed of yourself??
@paulelletamar7447
@paulelletamar7447 7 жыл бұрын
Anupama Lotke don't be ashamed of Who you are. It will still be a way to be as perfect as you want to be. All my prayers go to you
@alexadoman4819
@alexadoman4819 3 жыл бұрын
WOW. Goosebumps. Incorporating her own fears of public speaking and sharing the love for her family as an amazing example of pushing that comfort zone. Thank you for sharing Yubing.
@jakrang2762
@jakrang2762 3 жыл бұрын
I have never said “ I love you to my mom” even though I have in my mind that I wanna say. I will say “I love u to mom” and leave from comfort zone as well.
@yanjinsun4681
@yanjinsun4681 3 жыл бұрын
I cried when hearing the last the story and the love between family members will always touch heart.
@liaoweicong
@liaoweicong 7 жыл бұрын
stepping out of comfort zone is easier said than done. This is a very inspiring talk sharing stories of stepping out of comfort zone and how it changes lives.
@chantalmanton9891
@chantalmanton9891 Жыл бұрын
"Accept that you will be afraid and then go do it anyway." Just wow. So inspiring. I really needed to hear this and I am so glad that TEDx talks allows people to connect and encourage each other in this way.
@cynthiasmith6913
@cynthiasmith6913 3 жыл бұрын
I could watch this a thousand times without being bored. Thank you very much. I am stepping out of my comfort zone. Thank you for giving me back my confidence.
@maryjanebrant
@maryjanebrant 7 жыл бұрын
Yubing Zhang, your talk touched me deeply. You have done a great service to share your heart with your mother and with us.
@sneakpeekmoments
@sneakpeekmoments 6 жыл бұрын
Truly beautiful the way she made her points! Too good ..
@akanksha1202
@akanksha1202 4 жыл бұрын
It's already been 6 years since I moved out and now it's the part of my life.
@chamakajayashan7391
@chamakajayashan7391 4 жыл бұрын
I used to watch many inspirational videos when I was under pressure. Every time I watched those I felt like motivated. And suddenly, I started to work hard. After few days, again I dropped into my comfort zone. I believe this will be my motivation to come out of the comfort zone. Let's see what will happen in next few years...
@jdvn3599
@jdvn3599 5 жыл бұрын
Good job on your speech! "Its not as scary as you think it is" the line i will try to think whenever I face a new skill I need to learn in school.
@ltjm2166
@ltjm2166 4 жыл бұрын
just what i needed and we all needed ,in this world where everything is holding you back you must get out of your comfort zone try new things be who you always wanted to be and enjoy every second of it, have a nice out of your comfort zone day ,you can do it
@youareyourreality8813
@youareyourreality8813 6 жыл бұрын
I've been interested in expanding my comfort zone for a long time. This video is really helpful and I'm definitely going to put this into action!
@arcticm5634
@arcticm5634 2 жыл бұрын
I totally get her when she says it's hard for her to talk about her feelings to her parents. I'm 26, and I shared my feelings with my mum for the first time only 4 years ago. I was an off-site student living in a different city my parents did. I called my mum almost in tears and I told her I was feeling very bad for a girl and I needed to come back home immediately. I still have struggle with sharing my emotions with my family but making that call really made my day. I'm currently on a phase of life in which I'm looking for courage to leave my hometown and start a new life abroad. It looks so scary I sometimes experience a bad anxiety, but I really want to do it. When I am afraid of doing it, I will tell myself "It's not as scary as it looks".
@priyabandi8219
@priyabandi8219 Жыл бұрын
More power to you ! It’s just a fog that stopping you 🌼✨
@deborahol
@deborahol 4 жыл бұрын
That speech was incredible. The nine and a half minutes or so felt like just one minute, it was that engrossing. Every word touched home and makes perfect sense. Hoping to be stronger to stop that negative voice from winning as it has been doing for so long. Good luck everyone.
@saikhanaaz7350
@saikhanaaz7350 3 жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful story. Going through exactly the same process.
@andreafalgui855
@andreafalgui855 3 жыл бұрын
I've found my life begins at the end of my comfort zone when I finally left my job I thought I was passionate about. And now that I realized that "quitting is winning" too. Cheers to all the nurses out there who came back to our sworn profession after a long time.
@BeingTinashe
@BeingTinashe 2 жыл бұрын
This video just popped up on my feed. I really do live in my comfort zone and this is very eye opening. I’m 21 and I’m trying to live out of my comfort zone creating my KZbin channel was one of the things I always wanted to do until I did it. There do many things I wanna do I’m trying to break from my shell. All the best!
@boingocthai9776
@boingocthai9776 3 жыл бұрын
The speaker has such a beautiful voice! Her voice is so soothing!
@Thanhnguyen-ti4wd
@Thanhnguyen-ti4wd 3 жыл бұрын
What you talked is a great inspiration. I am trying to get out of my comfort zone to do what I want . Thank you
@sabined.6221
@sabined.6221 7 жыл бұрын
What a speech.. I was travelling in the train while listening and I had to stop the video multiple times.. it made me so emotional and who couldve stopped me from crying..
@gayimanasa
@gayimanasa 3 жыл бұрын
Time to achieve my dreams. All it takes is to leave my comfort zone. All the best to the people out there. Let's go!
@pearl1400
@pearl1400 4 жыл бұрын
Can't deny how amazing this speech was...... Caused me to do some deep soul searching for sure. Excellent job!!.
@berdiyoribodullayev7861
@berdiyoribodullayev7861 Жыл бұрын
The most inspiring story I have ever watched. Thank you, Zhang.
@michc273
@michc273 7 жыл бұрын
2 thumbs up......life begins at the end of your comfort zone!!!
@Elena-fu7jj
@Elena-fu7jj 5 жыл бұрын
Oh wow she made me cry. This is beautiful.
@JuniorTechs
@JuniorTechs 3 жыл бұрын
Hello
@atNguyen-ql8fx
@atNguyen-ql8fx 5 жыл бұрын
three years of university, I was always scared of doing the new things, The fears of failure had hold me back for a long time. But no longer after this video. thank you.
@Momma_AL
@Momma_AL 6 жыл бұрын
Man! So true and so well said. Thank you for sharing this.
@surajsingh-vb7sq
@surajsingh-vb7sq 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for this precious video
@RyanColaco
@RyanColaco 7 жыл бұрын
This is a very enlightening speech and so much truth in it. It's very well delivered and I can see it inspiring many out there. Well done. 😃💯
@chasetheflow6868
@chasetheflow6868 3 жыл бұрын
This video is helping me during theses rough times ! For anyone : don’t quit, continue to push
@is2950
@is2950 7 жыл бұрын
The best uplifting speech I have seen in years.
@vibingchakras
@vibingchakras 7 жыл бұрын
I absolutely LOVE this!!!!
@riyascorner9198
@riyascorner9198 3 жыл бұрын
I was scared abt taking this really hard class in school for the next school year but I took a leap of faith and got myself signed up and turns out that the class wasn't even that bad it was a bit hard at times but it challenged me in a good way and I''m glad I took the class. :)
@AaAaAaA-mm7cc
@AaAaAaA-mm7cc 2 жыл бұрын
I am 20 and today I have my very first job interview. I am not excited to get the job but I will be proud of myself even if I get it or not, with this I face my social anxiety a big time, just leaving this here maybe I'll see it in years and have a lovely memory.
@beatrizg.5501
@beatrizg.5501 7 жыл бұрын
Amazing speech, Yubing. Thank you.
@dhawalsharma8889
@dhawalsharma8889 3 жыл бұрын
8:18 The feeling of reconnection after so many years is like magic... Damn Yeah it is...
@staringproblem2191
@staringproblem2191 6 жыл бұрын
I just ask myself "what's the worst that can happen?" Just do it.
@tomerart9544
@tomerart9544 6 жыл бұрын
Staring Problem thanks man helped
@user-lq3vu1re5n
@user-lq3vu1re5n 6 жыл бұрын
Staring Proble
@danorion369
@danorion369 6 жыл бұрын
sounds helpful a question to ask yourself but for those with the fear of death, it doesn't really work. In the face of a bungee jumping experience, if a person that is scared of jumping asks him or herself "what's the worst that can happen," do you think it'll help em jump? If it does for you, that's awesome but I'm guessin it may not for others. hehe. However, I do see that working for a lot of scenarios. =)
@kristiyangrigorov5232
@kristiyangrigorov5232 6 жыл бұрын
by asking this quoestion it makes me thing of what can happen so it doesnt work for me ;d
@Mikaelamofu
@Mikaelamofu 5 жыл бұрын
Don’t know why but this comment moved me.. thank you 😊
@randomvideos1432
@randomvideos1432 6 жыл бұрын
You woke me up from a nightmare. You changed my mind. You build a courage in me. Thank you very much
@zumakrop7588
@zumakrop7588 6 жыл бұрын
Very inspiring . There is another dimension once you are out of your comfort zone. A world previously unknown, a totally new experience full of possibilities you never knew could exist. Courage is never in the absence of fear, it just ignores the fear and does its thing.
@mariannewolf57
@mariannewolf57 5 жыл бұрын
What an inspiring story- what a brave woman.Thanks a lot for your amazing and brave speech, Yubing Zhang. Go girl!
@YoungShiro
@YoungShiro 6 жыл бұрын
what an emotional speech,the message hit me deep,am ready to step out of my comfort zone
@ericahill1584
@ericahill1584 7 жыл бұрын
I could not agree with the message of this video more. Very inspirational and overall excellent work -- thank you for sharing.
@flowwiththeuniverse31
@flowwiththeuniverse31 3 жыл бұрын
timing is everything. when the right time comes youll know and you will leave your comfort zone!!!
@Kobe29261
@Kobe29261 3 жыл бұрын
In some* country in West Africa, the closest we come to the expression of emotion between parents and children after 10 years of age is 'Is that you?' "Yes, Dad."
@justinamusyoka4986
@justinamusyoka4986 3 жыл бұрын
There's always a communication barrier in most families and unfortunately peer pressure,tv and internet take from there.
@mahmud-ahsan
@mahmud-ahsan 4 жыл бұрын
Excellent talk very inspiring, thank you.
@shihansenadheera3250
@shihansenadheera3250 2 жыл бұрын
A nice speech which would assist me to be encouraged more and pushed my self further. This is exactly helping me to be who I need to be rather than who I am today ! Ty❤
@user-ze1lt8wx2z
@user-ze1lt8wx2z 7 күн бұрын
Wow. Such an amazing speech. The exact words and stories I needed to hear. I love you, thank you!
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