HIGHLY SENSITIVE PEOPLE - Where do I fit?

[@WildAlchemicalSpirit]

Amazing timing. I was literally sitting here crying because I don't fit anywhere. I'm glad I opened my phone to see this. Thanks. 🙏

[@hollygul]

Me too! Nice timing! I have been feeling like I'm alone. My kids and parents think I'm crazy. 😓 I'm sick of trying to make sense and trying to be so nice to them when they treat me so wrong. And btw you are beautiful! 😊 🌹🙏

[@WildAlchemicalSpirit]

@@hollygul I completely understand that feeling. Sending a hug your way. You're a beautiful lady, too. So glad Candace us doing this work and bringing us together in this community. 🌠💖🌟🙏🌟💖🌠

[@ToMyLegacy]

"You cannot find where you fit in a world that you were born to change." 😭😭😭👏🏾👏🏾 That just rocked my entire world!!!

[@tiredly_artistic]

I've actually been wanting a therapist who understands me, & as I child it's hard but I still fight to heal

[@bamereg]

Hi Candace, it is such a relief to hear you say all of this. There is someone who understands and speaks up, I can't believe it! All of what you say is what I have always known to be true and I thought I was the only one. That I was delusional because everybody except me was in this system that I couldn't understand (and I very much doubt those people do). At the moment i am working on the coping mechanisms that served me when I was a baby, and that I now no longer need. I am on my road of recovery, and what I will recover is myself - at last. Thank you so much for this video.

[@JahinIinI]

Thank you for having one of the best you tube channels, period. So succinct. Real tools for real healing. Your delivery and style are vibationarily aesthetic. It’s literally everything about your videos that works. You have created the only channel i can enjoy video after video without something (other than youtube haha) offending my very sense of vibrational aesthetic. I see you in your power helping people in a most pleasant and effectual way to be empowered to deal with the unevolved emotional status quo and giving real useable tools for helping emotional processing. I feel transformed like a phoenix after a binge. Wading wings for the jump into the emotional void. I seek words to honor your divinity and path but words cannot suffice. The world is less lonely knowing there are people like you in it. En la kesh.

[@drifter536]

my Guardian Angel's have been giving signs be a lightworker. I'm in constant turmoil in toxic environment I'm in. Soon as I get my positive energy overflowing the npd's bring me down to their vibration. Constant inner conflict breaking my free spirit. Self doubt, what ifs, guilt has kept me from leaving. I asked my Guardian Angel's for more signs break free from self doubt, guilt. Couple of your other videos has given me clarity I seek. 🦋

[@amadeodgiorgio2]

The TIMING couldn't be more precise! And I felt like you were talking to me personally haha. Thank you so much Candace :)

[@hollygul]

Me too! You're the best!

[@SurroundedByClowns1926]

When it comes down to where I fit within the world I don’t and if I’m forced or peer pressured into doing so I get negatively triggered I shift from being a highly sensitive being to being able to share emotions although I do have them under control I can emotionally connect with people it all depends on how close myself and these people are it’s an amazing and beautiful but sadly enough frustrating/evil world I do believe that I’m becoming more consciously aware to my surroundings as well as myself ✌🏻🙏🏻🌏🌍🤗🤗❤️📖

[@fanmar8723]

I feel frustrated about myself sometimes. I just finished a Dietetics and Nutrition class. We had a case study of a obese child who never exercise. So I read the case and even thought is a simulation, make believe I started feeling so bad. I read her respiration rate was 27, I was thinking this child in distress, I emailed my professor and she said that’s not your scope. I realize sometimes people see like I am making a big deal about something, I wish I were like other people that just do what they have to do and that’s that.

[@yenningchua9607]

I study health policy/public health and I just want to say that what you have found is completely valid - even if it is not within your scope. Obesity can occur as a result of stress, so stress is a crucial factor to look into (www.jstor.org/stable/20788949?seq=1). Moreover, people who are overweight/obese may go through additional stress due to struggles with their body image and etc. I have gone through this before and I still felt very insecure even after losing weight because I didn't want to go back to being called "ugly" by boys in high school. In other words, you are not making a big deal about something and I think the world needs more people like you.

[@fanmar8723]

Yenning Chua I agree that stress makes a big impact on being obese but I was referring as being in distress because her respiration rate is high, as you know it should be between 12 and 18, 22 is high I can not imagine 27, that’s what I was referring to.

[@sarahimcoles7115]

Never felt that I fitted in with family, school job,church. Thankyou for ,showing me that there is a lot of people like me ,. Would spend a lot of my time in the woods only place I felt safe. I am learning to be with OK with me

[@AON216]

Thank you Candace.

[@yarivdavidkohaly4998]

Thankyou Candace. Especially your take on COVID 👌

[@leannesmith1207]

A world we were born to change... Wow. Goosebumps :)

[@juleh.6346]

felt the same :)

[@leannesmith1207]

@@juleh.6346 amazing!:) got goosebumps reading your comment! Goosebumps within goosebumps hahah!

[@clearwater7000]

Beautiful!😊❤️

[@yvvanayeboahduku9548]

Thank you! I appreciate this

[@gavinr5576]

Every video is just ringing that truth bell and sending resonance all through my body, girl. Thank you so much!

[@perfectlyimperfect3164]

When I first heard you it feels relatable and connected .. going through bad phase and your words, tips and talk with yourself and talk with your emotion helping me a lot me a lot Thank youu so much..and Good luck ✨✌️🙃

[@wildotter3673]

Thank you so much for this, just what I needed to hear right now!

[@jack3361]

Super Love for this video

[@kelseyrayne5168]

I lovvve thiiiissss

[@Insightful_Locs]

You’re literally describing my life

[@deanmoulton8994]

Beautifully explained Candace! Most people don't understand the feeling we get from creation, because they are so afraid of death/failure. Love your vids! Thank you!

[@Olivia-bh7vs]

I have a hard time speaking my truth about my opinion and thoughts. I always feel like being looked at like I’m crazy and yet I am deciding to carry on sharing anyway. We came to shake things up, not to fit in. Love your work Candace x

[@cjrg2779]

New subscriber here! You have changed my life, I can't thank you enough for all the videos that you make. I have always felt alone, isolated no matter how many people I am with...I have always felt like I don't belong. My parents were very loving but neglected me emotionally without realizing it. I am 27 and till this day I have been trying to figure where I belong..I know my parents love me but I don't feel like they accept me for who I am.. I feel the guilt doing things that make me happy...I get anxiety and it makes me feel selfish...and so much more.

[@wouterdesmedt1736]

Candace on 🔥🙌

[@mazp1111]

Oh yes, this certainly did hit me in place that truly counts. Thank you Candace. Powerful stuff here. Speaking your truth, finding your tribe, validating your own voice, in a way to say that I BELIEVE YOU - I needed to hear this. THANK YOU! ❤

[@LisaSmith-yb2uz]

Daily Candace pep talk 🙌😘❤️

[@jessiepauloski181]

Thank you Candace ❤ I really needed to hear this and highly appreciate you as a person (:

[@andersa3448]

We are right now moving from 3D to 5D and this is a "pause" where we need to let go from all sh..t we have in us.

[@jennahjensen9071]

Loved the video! I'd love if you made a whole video about your perspective on the lesson of covid + how you believe it's a calling for society to get back to our roots on an individual level! If not, may I at least quote you on that?! Thanks for your work and all you do!

[@19nefertiti87]

Damn, I felt that too hard. Amazing message.

[@Johnnyo1300]

You said all right almost eerie how spot on you are for me with this I’ve never been tested INFJ but I know the truth when I hear it I’ve been on this journey of self discovery for a very short time but the speed in which we just celebrated it’s hard to put into words! This awakening that you speak of well I’m right in the middle of that process unless than 2 1/2 minutes into your video and I had to pause i’m extremely honest with myself made many mistakes with this virus and many other circumstances all at the same time we’re not the only ones that are waking up the problem is too few people understand what’s going on and it’s way too hard to explain but the things you said in less than three minutes makes more sense to me than things I’ve heard in the last three years And that’s a fact back to the video

[@juleh.6346]

hits me like "booom" there is the answer you`re looking for :D thanks so much

[@abjelic1]

Thank you ..

[@twixie__5651]

I am an HSP and INFJ. I usually get lots of attention but I hate it. I need alone time as well. I enjoy reading and looking at views and listening to soft music. Most of the time I feel like I don’t belong to the society because most people are too loud and vile. They can be insensitive as well. I also feel like most people will not understand us HSPs because they will usually say we are too sensitive, emotional or dramatic.they can’t relate because they lack compassion and comprehension. So we have to be the ones to adjust for them. I also cry easily even for sad commercials. I can feel deeply. Whenever I meet someone, I can feel their energy that it is a bad energy and I am usually right with my gut feelings. I never wanted to assume before, even if I feel something is off because I always think it is not good to judge others fast but I always regret not trusting my gut feelings because in the end I was right about those bad people. I am so glad I found videos about HSPs. I even took the quiz. I have a bf who is amazing. He is also an HSP. We both understand each other. We also share the same sentiments and concerns.

[@Coach-Abdelghani-Fertas]

Birds coexist with their forms, and work to implement the Law of Attraction is very important with a strong personality.

[@thomasvalentavalenta9298]

For once, I have to agree with her, when I was at work last night, the entire day I was there, I had the strangest feeling or experience where I felt as if my entire cosmic path was horribly off kilter and I was not where I was supposed to be and I was not doing what I should have been doing and it was really bothering me to the point to where my stomach started bothering me. It was the strangest feeling I think I've ever had in my entire life, was I the only one or did anyone else feel like there cosmic path was completely screwed up yesterday or last night . I sure whould like to know because that really bugged me . just saying .

[@HatBilly2008]

The narcissist, incapable of experiencing any depth of vulnerability, projects his/her shame and rage outwards onto certain targets in order to not have to “carry' his/her shame and rage within him/herself. This projection sometimes takes on the form of disdain, disgust, and contempt. Please make a video about this in your words your ideas , best wishes

[@beller8501]

🙏🌷

[@Coach-Abdelghani-Fertas]

Hello madam ... Thank you for this very important subject .... The fact that the external influences of the ocean affect the character to a large percentage.

[@nehemilia5033]

I am currently clinically depressed and I feel like am actually dying

[@sugrandspyce]

“Forced by home to self” - YES! Thanks covid. 🙃

[@Silvercardinal7]

Where could I meet other people who think this way?

[@CandacevanDell]

Silvercardinal7 in my monthly membership. It is called The Truth Room Tribe. Tons of content and we meet as a group every Friday! TruthRoomTribe.candacevandell.com

[@svetlanakuzmina6386]

make video about bulling please

[@LisaSmith-yb2uz]

🙌❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏

[@Johnnyo1300]

Oh yeah duh I don’t fit here I’ve been saying for years I want to go home and it’s got nothing to do with suicide and everything to do with this place is not home just saying

[@kelseyrayne5168]

💗💚💜💙💛

[@Johnnyo1300]

Do you know how hard it is to gravitate towards your message while the mess in Portland is going on in the background but what you’re saying here is so relevant but how do we spread the word that’s what I’ve been trying to do on my channel in my own way is pay it forward using my voice to give some hope some encouragement as human beings we have to do better this country is about to come apart at the seems and we don’t have much time we have to be better every day a little bit better better than yesterday and tomorrow better than we are today there Hass to be progress not regress your video is extremely important I hope it empowers those who are awake to help those in their circle it took my brothers death for me to lose my filter and that was just in November of last year as long as I’m still stuck here I’ll do what I can to make a difference everyone that watches this video should try to do the same in their own little circles and it will spread I have no doubt the only question is are we Out of time?

[@HellerVali]

It means you are a witch.... i started doing magic and everything is ok