MY AUTHENTIC SELF GETS ME REJECTED

[@nicktaber2969]

I honestly wonder how many kids labeled as "bipolar" just felt all emotions more strongly. Not saying every case is BS, but I bet some were.

[@CandacevanDell]

100% with parents who emotionally avoided or invalidated

[@gregthompson-y9f]

@@CandacevanDell straight up truth ... been there , done that , both myself and also my son ... yea i got live with that .....

[@Joroco-]

Yes very true I see that al the fine with enneagram type 4’s nothing bipolar about then, just intense emotional stamina!

[@CandacevanDell]

@@Joroco- society likes to label things that are not “usual” normally this means special haha

[@Joroco-]

That reminds me. Many years ago my Psychotheraphist at the time said I was special, but no more special then anyone else, I’m not sure if it was a compliment or not!😂

[@nehemilia5033]

Exactly we simply here that we are the problèm we dont look st the people calling us à problèm

[@btlfilmmedia9514]

If you're being yourself decent people won't be triggered by you only people with issues get offended ..Thats when you learn to choose your company and set boundaries or just move on

[@CandacevanDell]

Boom!

[@nicolec8884]

Thank you I needed to hear this.

[@nehemilia5033]

I might be out of shame, late disorganised and i still love myself

[@nehemilia5033]

I feel alone because i have rejected myself. Whoaaa never ever saw it like that. Stop waiting for people to treat you the way you want to be treated to feel loved and deserving. Start treating yourself the way you want to be treated. Simples définition of self love. Treat yourself the way you want others to treat you.

[@rosiemac2538]

We're a rare breed 😅 We process deeply and have quick thinking minds

[@carlypastore]

“Be the bestie that you need” 🤗☺️ Thank you Candace!

[@CandacevanDell]

Yes! Welcome 🙏🏻

[@nehemilia5033]

Highly sensitive people.oh my goodness

[@stephaniemthoma]

I just watched this 3x in a row to let it sink in. In a period of really standing in my worth and people having strong reactions, and willing myself to focus on those who don't bat an eye or WANT to understand. It can feel like a tunnel without an end but holding the faith. My concern is when the incubation phase becomes longer than is healthy.

[@CandacevanDell]

Yes! Ask yourself what is blocking true connections. Are you holding yourself somewhere your soul does not belong?

[@RondaNelson-ff2il]

Those words made me cry 😢 … such truth! “You. Are. Too. Sensitive… “ I was told: why can’t you handle me saying the truth… right!!? However that truth for them… was “ their truth” … not really truth at all…as it always pointed toward what I did wrong. Not fact… but their belief about who I was…I get it now… it was such BS … but the H. U. R. T. Is still there. 😢 Time to heal Too much energy lost ❤ thank you

[@CandacevanDell]

Sounds like you were the scapegoat!! It’s the most painful experience ever!!!! Sending 🤍🤍❤️❤️You got this!?

[@dv52528]

Self validation, yes!!!!!!❤ Right timing. Thank you !

[@CandacevanDell]

🤍🤍🤍

[@hannahelizabethdesveaux]

please stop them. please let me be free. please let me go

[@CandacevanDell]

Be free ✨✨✨

[@momione11]

Thank you. When I said stop and no from my insides, I was called fucking disgusting and fat. Even though my energy was disgusting. I see now that when I said stop, there was actually something. Has it been disputed. That's where I shut myself down myself.Started believing in them instead of myself.And started doubting myself.And felt crazy.No more ever.

[@blankearth5840]

I come from a toxic and psychologically abusive relationship with my father who was a narcissist, I was homeless with him for a very long time, I escaped that and went to go be with extended family that found me on the internet, but what seemed like a gift from god just turned into something that completely hurt me, I was only with them for 3 months because of how difficult they were to live with, and how conditional their love and regard was towards me, it’s just bloody unfair to me how my brother got to have what they called a “privileged life” while my upbringing pretty much got robbed and that it’s something no kid should ever have to have gone through. Yet, people on the internet and even one of my friends invalidates me and tells me “why should they love you” and “oh it’s because they raised your brother and not you why do you think you deserve everything your brother always gotten.” …but to me it’s just really unfair.😔

[@MindGymMeditations]

Powerful

[@1999Chelsea]

I donno I’ve been alone a long long time This is an extensive incubation period

[@VickyLicursi-Jani]

Thank you 😘

[@CandacevanDell]

Very welcome 🪄💜

[@yougotgroove]

emotionally unavailable... I am trying to forget about my DA ex gf.... I am 59 now, 3 1/2 invested.... She's unaccountable and abusive, friendzoning me like her ex partners (one a good friend apparently) I need to kill my ego.....Help!!!! She expects me when ever she wants. I am seriously thinking of finding a rebound and being upfront it would be short term... That would blow up the bridge... But I could never follow through with that. Sort of stuck!!

[@nehemilia5033]

Focus on yourself and allow God to do the rest.