Honest Q&A | Dating Boundaries, Cussing, Sexual History

[@lillysmith8091]

I was once told: when you in a relationship with non Christian, you're sitting on top of the tree, the non Christian is at the bottom of the tree. Your both pulling on the same string, it's easier to pull someone down, than pull someone up. Just keep that in mind.

[@nateandsutton]

Lilly Smith Love the analogy!

[@rosetteruiz8615]

Nice

[@caroelizau]

Love this!

[@lexie02jones25]

hey that's true.

[@futurelane3377]

@Anna Smith stop complaining about nothing... EVERY religion n non religious person does it. They think what they follow is better. Stop making it seem like Christians only do. Asian religions did it back in the day... n to this day... theres Christian's in a country where it has a major population of a different religion n they're getting beat up for it...

[@lizziesanders7743]

I really dislike when men say "Christian women shouldn't cuss". Christian humans shouldn't cuss. It shouldn't make it worse when it comes from the mouth of a woman.

[@bellad5968]

preachhh

[@meghanodonovan8020]

He just means that he finds it unattractive

[@Tishsaw]

@@meghanodonovan8020 yeah

[@nateandsutton]

We agree that both men and woman shouldn't cuss. I was just saying that it's an unattractive quality for me

[@Lauren-hk5hu]

“Christian women shouldn’t cuss” come on, this is so true!! Gender argument actually blurs the point. If he was a girl he would’ve said “men” in place of "women”.

[@lillysmith8091]

Praying out loud has made a huge positive impact on my relationship with God :)

[@futurelane3377]

I dont pray out loud... cuz my mom n family is nosey I dont want them knowing my business.

[@shirleecampbell1305]

I love you guys. I’m almost 80, but still young-and BTW you will never feel old in your mind. Everyone around my age still see themselves as around middle thirties. So it is a shock sometimes to meet yourself in the mirror. One thing I sense (and it may not be so), but after watching a few of your interactive videos, Nate, you love doing them, but at the same time maybe you feel a little exposed and uncomfortable. And maybe you’re just young and not settled into yourself, yet. But it takes a lot of courage for the two of you to open up a public forum to get your love of Jesus and living a clean life out there. I pray that the seed you’re sowing falls on fertile ground, especially among the young people who find your channel.

[@nateandsutton]

Shirlee Campbell that’s awesome! We’re excited to be 80 and still feelin young! Thank you for sharing 💛

[@cristinagarcia1582]

Thanks for letting us know how 80 will feel like, I am 42 and sometimes I think why don’t I feel old, but the mirror will remind ourselves that we are aging outside our bodies 🤨

[@sophierodgers2154]

Sutton looks so beautiful in that picture she sent you, that made me sad😔 also about that “especially coming from a woman” comment, it’s also “such a turn off” when men are sexist btw!!!!!!!! :))))))

[@m.haynes]

Sophie Rodgers I was super taken aback by that picture comment.... it was an adorable photo & I want a man who loves my most natural photos as much as my dolled up ones. Otherwise, I love watching their videos.

[@joshandrews8913]

It's not sexist. He's talking about what is or isn't attractive to him as a straight man. On the topic of a relationship, how he personally feels about other men doesn't matter as much because he wouldn't be attracted to them anyway.

[@HopeUnquenchable]

jacky o, he didn’t actually say that. He said that most people try to impress online with their photos - especially the first photo they send to whoever they’re talking with. He was actually impressed that she _didn’t_ try hard to impress him with that first photo ☝️

[@HopeUnquenchable]

jacky o, you’re right, I just rewatched that bit, and he did say those things 😝 I can see how you got the impression that he thought she should have sent a better picture, but the impression I got, came more from what he said after she explained why she didn’t go through all the trouble of, you know, blow-drying and fixing her hair, putting on makeup and her best outfit just to take that “Yes, I am really me” photo to send him ☝️ Having watched some of their other videos where they talked about how they first got in touch and started getting to know each other, I recall that the photos he saw of her on Facebook before he even started talking to her were gorgeous, professional shots that made her look like a model, so I interpreted his reaction to the “holding name” photo, not as one of disappointment, but surprise that she wasn’t trying to impress him with more of that kind of look, and just sent a completely normal - even slightly goofy - snapshot of herself as she happened to be at the time. When he said, “I think it worked, because I was like, ‘Hmm! She’s not really trying to impress me too much,’ so it kinda made me more intrigued,” the impression I got was that it surprised him, but in a good way 😉

[@jollygoodgordon5580]

Feminist women turn of off as well

[@Bohlaleinabowl]

Sutton is so raw and honest, she didn't let him slide when he tried to play coy 😂

[@Kontraleah]

She is so likable and gorgeous.

[@HopeUnquenchable]

I love her reasoning behind not getting dolled up for that first photo: “If you don’t like me at that moment, then you’re just not gonna like me, because that’s how I am.” There’s a confident woman who’s comfortable in her own skin - the opposite of a catfish! I know _I’d_ have a really hard time sending a photo that real of myself to someone if I really liked them (granted, I’m not as naturally good-looking as Sutton); I’d have to put all kinds of disclaimers on it before sending, and be like, “Sorry it’s not the best picture of me; I just got out of the shower and I don’t normally wear makeup at home, so this is just what you’d see if you walked into my room right now 😳,” and have all sorts of anxiety that he’ll see the picture and think, “Ew, that’s what you look like? We should probably just be friends.” 😅

[@desiraep.4018]

The Lord formed you fearfully and wonderfully and the Lord doesn't make mistakes, ask the Lord to help him to help you love yourself as he does and sees you as you does!😊

[@Rae8Anne]

Definitely confident. Sutton looked cute and fun in that photo...don't know what Nate's problem is.

[@RutPerez]

My church very much believes in speaking in tongues. I have found that when I feel anxiety and depressed I start to speak in tongues and I start to feel God's presence and peace. I believe this is such a powerful gift from God that the church everywhere should put into action.

[@vicachekhovskiy]

The ability to pray in tongues is one of the gifts of the Holy Spirit, and God does not distribute the same gifts to every person. This is why churches need to encourage people to ask God to reveal their Holy Spirit gifts to them, so that people can use them in God’s favor. This does not mean tongues are not an amazing gift of the Holy Spirit, I’m saying that not everyone is made to have that gift, and it cannot just be passed on from a person. Every gift comes from God, and not every person is meant to have the ability to speak in tongues.

[@Hey_Ruthie]

Vica Chekhovskiy Anybody can speak in tongues if they ask God for the gift. He withholds no good thing for His children, it’s a gift.

[@shakerrasalter1032]

Mark 16:17 “And these signs will accompany those who believe: In my name they will drive out demons; they will speak in new tongues;” ‭We all have the ability, all of us just don’t have a strong enough desire

[@alondramendez-acosta7330]

Shakerra Salter I don’t think that every believer will be able to speak in tongues God has appointed these in the church: first apostles, second prophets, third teachers, after that miracles, then gifts of healings, helps, administrations, varieties of tongues. Are all apostles? Are all prophets? Are all teachers? Are all workers of miracles? Do all have gifts of healings? Do all speak with tongues? Do all interpret?” 1 Corinthians 12:28-30

[@couronneeclatante224]

Thank you both for your transparency ! I really enjoyed this statement from Nate :" I think a great way to stand out as christians is to not cuss". so true !

[@nateandsutton]

Couronne Eclatante yes it has been very true for us!

[@couronneeclatante224]

@@nateandsutton That's a great testimony. Thank you for setting this example . we do need that

[@nerdforchrist9235]

I love how when Sutton said she regretted dating in high school, Nate immediately followed with “YES!” It reminds me of the Lord’s jealous love (SOS 8:6) ❤️❤️❤️

[@kristinballancemusic]

The thought of marrying a non Christian is so sad, because that deepest part of your most intimate self, your spirit, would be something you can't share with the other person! My husband and I are bound closer to one another by the bond of both being Christians, and I am forever grateful for that! We waited on the Lord be and each other, and married at 34/35. So worth the wait!

[@mariposarn8038]

Thanks for sharing Kristin. That's inspirational, considering I just turned 35 last Thursday and I'm like😱😳🤪no one on the horizon, yet I'm determined to wait on the Lord.

[@futurelane3377]

Aaa... not to put u down... but I cant... it's too close to 40... at that time I probably would've just told god to forget it... not saying u should've done that... but that's what I would do. But I got 20 years til I'm 40.

[@mariposarn8038]

@@futurelane3377 I hear ya, but ultimately, the end goal is being more in love with Jesus and conforming to *His* will for our lives. We choose to die to self, reminding myself not my will Lord, but Yours. I'd rather aim to be in His will than mess up my life missing His blessings for it. 🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️I dunno; to each their own.

[@bigred8730]

My dad was not a Christian when my mom met him. He started going to church and all but in the past year even after 30+ years of marriage and 11 kids my dad has stopped going to church, turned to alcohol, and now they're facing divorce. It's heartbreaking for me as I'm the youngest and I'm the only one left at home (I''m 13, I do have a 16 year old sister but she is often at work) I'm so happy that you found who God had planned for you though! It is wonderful when I get to watch others fall in love around me and experience that passion for each other and for Christ.

[@xprettynpinkx911]

This is beautiful and it touched me. I am a 30 year old Christian non married woman. So thanks for reminding to keep my faith strong 💗

[@Michelle-by9fp]

Sutton, the photo was not the "least flattering", you looked amazing! I agree, that was mean. Power of life and death are in the tongue, build up your wife with your words no matter how "dolled up" she is. Just my opinion, Christian woman also, married 10 years.

[@JessyJ318]

She’s more real than him....love it!

[@janellee250]

JessyJ318 couldn’t agree more.

[@yomomma3345]

He loves to preach but doesn’t love to be vulnerable

[@emilyspears8911]

I started praying out loud recently and now I way prefer that to praying silently! It's like I'm having a real conversation with God ☺️ I'm sad that y'all didn't really answer the question about what your boundaries were...I wanted to know lol

[@elizabethryder6004]

I’m 17 and never curse and all of my friends do it without realizing it. It’s one of the easiest habits. They always ask me why I don’t and I ask them why they do because there’s no reason to. I have a very good vocabulary so I don’t need to curse to get my message across.

[@sabrinanaser9327]

sameee

[@jesuslovesme3249]

I don't curse but my vocab sucks.

[@annikastout]

it was all fun and games until he said "i dont like that word *especially coming from a woman*" triggered

[@hillerepera]

Haha right, sorry our existence is not to be attractive for you

[@gracewilliamson1000]

annikastout that’s just something that’s unattractive to him I mean i don’t blame him. I know our world is all about equality and stuff these days which is good but we’re still girls and should hold ourselves to a certain standard and be proud of being a lady. you shouldn’t get triggered that a man is turned off by a fowl mouth

[@annikastout]

grace williamson it’s that it is worse for him coming from a woman than a man. Unacceptable double standard in my opinion.

[@hillerepera]

@@gracewilliamson1000 I totally get being turned off by swearing, but girls don't need to hold themselves to a higher standard. Individuals can hold themselves to a higher standard, but it doesn't matter if you're a girl or boy. Guys with double standards are unattractive imo

[@gracewilliamson1000]

hillerepera & annikastout I definitely see where you’re coming from and respect you’re opinion. I just interpret what he was saying differently then y’all I guess. I definitely don’t think he was directing cussing at girls specifically like I’m sure he doesn’t find men cussing great either but he was just addressing women cussing specifically because they’re talking about they’re relationship and expectations of eachother.

[@MiaKarineDesigns]

You guys are one of my favorite Christian couples!! And thank you so much for another awesome video!!💜

[@nateandsutton]

mia pinelo you're so welcome and that makes us so happy to hear!

[@LaurenCarducci]

He's okay talking about her flaws but doesn't want to talk about his?

[@joshandrews8913]

He's talked about his own flaws in other videos, don't worry. The video they did about porn was all him.

[@janellee250]

Lauren Carducci right on!! There’s just something about this couple that doesn’t seem authentic with what they say vs. what they portray. Does anyone else agree??

[@janellee250]

Irene - I was wondering what you mean by “too white” as for religion goes

[@melaniem828]

I feel like they’re like on edge with each other, idk how to explain it.

[@memesfeast7688]

Janel Lee LoL why pressed

[@izabelawisniewska1629]

Nate you are insane. That picture of sutton holding the name looks phenomenal. Natural and all. You should take a look at how not even half decent your picture looked.

[@dachshundmamma2071]

Izabela W I know, she looked adorable. To me he seems way to fake and all into himself

[@kimrive]

Her picture was way better than his 😂

[@abbieg3945]

Literally she looks so beautiful this guy sorta seems like a douche and really like he is vain

[@alid0228]

He definitely comes off shallow at times. He should be more self aware about it

[@ThePickle143]

Izabela W well that’s mean.... for no apparent reason

[@pineirokatherine]

I want to hear Sutton reply to more questionssssss. Like more 50/50. I believe there is richness in different perspectives; even if you're of like-mind

[@ChelseaandNick]

My husband and I would love to meet y’all!! ❤️

[@nateandsutton]

The Hurst Family Yes absolutely would love to! Messaged you back on IG :)

[@shayleejordan1058]

yes please!!! I watch both of your channel and that would be fantastic!

[@fdoctor79]

Nate, you are already famous in our father's eyes. And that catfish picture tip is great, Sutton. lol Better to be safe than sorry!

[@lisaoswald7860]

I think you if you guys get 100 thousand followers this year you should print, donate and deliver like tons of bibles to people in need since your mission is to bring others to Christ through this channel.

[@nateandsutton]

Lisa Oswald love it keep the ideas coming!

[@imacitykid]

Or instead of printing them there are a number of good organizations that deliver bibles into countries where bibles are illegal to have, like China. Some organizations even let regular people smuggle them in and ship them out all over the country.

[@aubrey4895]

Haha 😂 “if you’re burnin, maybe you should get married”

[@radiantsun101]

Wait.. did anyone else think that was actually a really cute picture of Sutton? 😂 she’s always so pretty!

[@allicheathem9583]

It's nice to see people on youtube who show that they have really thought about what they believe. The fact that you guys are open to different opinions on smaller issues debated by Christians really conveys that you see following Jesus as more important than being a "perfect" Christian. Keep up the good work! :)

[@xStephieboox]

I think the “don’t let the sun go down on your anger” verse is more meant to tell us that at the end of the day we need to love each other and be able to tell each other that & mean it, even if things aren’t resolved, and THEN go to sleep.

[@emilycatherine9459]

I love what Sutton said about sowing a seed! For me, personally, I find it really discouraging when I feel like I’ve extended an Olive branch to someone or gone out of my way to share the word and it doesn’t pay off. I’m more confident now in the fact that I have sowed the seeds, and that’s what my job is.

[@ethanhennigan6933]

Nate and Sutton I really believe that speaking in tounges is something that God has for anyone who seeks the gift. I've been speaking in tounges for about four years now. I find that when I'm confused and don't know what to pray, speaking in tounges is my go to. I agree tho sometimes it is hard to comprehend.

[@ronniea7119]

When I am anxious tongues comfort me

[@hersheychocolate7717]

This was so good, sometimes serious, and other times cracking up at Nate's comical remarks, always great to see true honest people, keep working for the Lord and keep making videos,ideas for reaching 100k, don't do something dumb, your family needs you, but something funny to keep us laughing , that would be great😅

[@nateandsutton]

Hershey chocolate haha yes! Def not something dumb!

[@cocoanddarius5515]

omgsh i love you two!! also while watching what really stuck out to me was going to sleep angrily i feel like we all as brothers and sisters could encourage each other not to let the sun go down on our wrath... but to talk it out! or pray it out!! Ephesians 4:26 “Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath:” please, keep me and my family in prayer on this one! you and your family are in my prayers as well! love you all!

[@zoeathina9880]

My new favourite duo. You guys are the funniest, goofiest, loveable, kindest people around love you two!!!! and the fam of course hahahahah

[@nateandsutton]

Zoë Norrish aw thank you! 💛💛

[@rachelwhitehead6977]

Mega respect to you guys!!!! Love seeing this kind of content put out there. A little fact about me i grew up in a Mennonite church group (kinda like Amish but we could have electric and cars ect) anyway they were the very strict group. Ladies always have to wear dresses, a covering on their head ect. When i was 24, for various reasons, we left and went to a more liberal church. And since leaving we have had many family and friends "abandon" and try and preach at us and convince us we are wrong, because in their words we are "going to hell" because i no longer wear a head covering. I do always wear modest, skirt and shirt i have been convicted against pants for now. So anyway when yall talked about sharing beliefs with people it did bring that to mind....now i know everyone's experience isnt like ours but that can be a very big turn off when tbey come at you like you're a sinner and you HAVE to conform to their church. Anyway...all that to say, not all mennonites are bad, and i still do love and respect them but am thankful i have found freedom to be who God created me to be and can be a light for Him where he has called me, and yall greatly encourage me. God bless yall!!!!!

[@annafaithdance]

Your intro might be the cutest thing ever!!!!!!

[@nateandsutton]

Anna faith aww thank you!! 😁

[@rachelking7002]

I love how transparent you two are because it shows how human you are and allows for other people to see even Christians make mistakes.

[@annietandeo2801]

Sundays are reserved for Nate and Sutton 😀😊 hey best friends 👋😂

[@nateandsutton]

annie tandeo Hey!! 👋🏼

[@kristimarie5850]

I noticed that praying out loud keeps me from being distracted also. I like to write them down sometimes too. Love the Q&As!! ❤️

[@mikgonzales]

"Be angry, but do not sin. Don't let the sun go down on your anger." -Ephesians 4:26. My husband and I use this verse as a reminder to solve our issues before going to bed :)

[@DahliaReyes]

I am so glad this popped up on my recommendations! You guys seem like such a joyful couple spreading the love of Jesus. ❤️

[@nateandsutton]

Dahlia Reyes thank you and welcome to the channel! 💛

[@danielletaylor9129]

I love your videos...like you guys are probably my role model rn. I'm 21, a Christian and I'm saving myself for marriage!

[@angelhelton9098]

Nate and Sutton, I just recently started watching y'alls videos. I greatly appreciate your honesty and transparency! Thanks for all you do! Love y'all!

[@nateandsutton]

Angel Helton you're so welcome and welcome to the family 💛💛

[@jeromeshannacrawford7417]

Y’all are THE CUTEST! Keep lifting up Jesus! We are cheering you on.❤️

[@nateandsutton]

Jerome & Shanna Crawford thank you! 💛💛

[@bigred8730]

Anyone else have major Full House (the old version) flashbacks to the mothers day episode? As soon as Nate started going "What day is today..." my mind immediately went "Today is mothers day!"

[@gigigreer__]

Baptism of the holy spirit AND speaking in tongues, WOW! I love that this is a part of the video. I go to a non-denominational church and these kinds of topics (spiritual gifts) is talked about so as Ive grown in my faith, I havent experienced any sort of anxiety or been scared of them. I do feel like spiritual gifts and baptism of the holy spirit arent talked about enough? Spiritual gifts and the holy spirit are both things I am passionate about so maybe thats why i feel that way? Moral of this comment- I love that question and love hearing Nate's testimony with the holy spirit!!!! Maybe that could be a topic for a video??? Love you guys!!

[@90210reyes]

One of my favorite couples!!! They are so cute. Nate was in one of my classes back in high school. He is such a sweet guy and always had great advice. A true Christian ✝️

[@rebeccameade2606]

More than a carpenter is a really great book! It’s written by someone who was an atheist and became a Christian. There’s so much research and facts about Christianity and the Bible and who Jesus is. I read it when I first became a Christian and it really encouraged me :)

[@thecraf-thome1712]

Worst advice is to never go to bed angry. It’s ok to take time to cool off, to process what your spouse has said and the way they are feeling, and then reconvene to talk it over more calmly and with fresh thoughts. It’s took hard to talk sense when you’re emotional. Some people can do it and that’s awesome, but if you can’t that is ok too!

[@rosebudvlogs1205]

You guys are the people I look up to. I always look forward to your videos and when I grow up I hope to fine a spouse that is as wise, fun, and as close to the Lord as you guys are. I love you guys so much!

[@nateandsutton]

Rosebud Vlogs that so sweet thank you!! We hope that for you too!! 🙏🏼

[@chanehanekom6112]

If you came here for the boundaries 25:42

[@gloriadjeufa1147]

God bless you. Thank you so much for saving me +20 minutes.

[@BookReviewsWithBecky]

I agree that Christians dating not Christians isn't a good idea! My sister dated and married a non Christian and it ended with them separated and her raising their baby girl alone! Plus I wouldn't want to fall in love with someone, knowing they are going to Hell if they die without getting saved! I couldn't bear the thought!

[@nateandsutton]

Lynn Millard yess very good and true perspective!

[@Aja.S]

yep same here as muslim ! we have to believe in the same thing and path :)

[@shuktijan1311]

Are these comment for real..... Religion seriously needs to stop. Gosh. Do you people even hear yourselves?

[@idontcare0953]

It’s so sad that people actually believe that if you don’t follow a specific religion that you’re going to hell. As if all the prejudicial judgemental Christians are going to heaven 🙄

[@futurelane3377]

@@idontcare0953 saying ur christian doesn't make u christian... when u practice it then u r... if they say they're Christian's n do different practices then there not christians...

[@jacobfreeman5054]

I’m so proud of y’all! Even with all the criticism and hate many people are trying to give y’all, you both seem to really stay encouraged! Also I think honesty is a good thing because it’s important for people to realize that y’all aren’t perfect neither. It’s so taboo as a Christian to admit that you struggled with lusting your girlfriend/boyfriend or fiancé when that’s exactly what happens with at least 99.9999999% of people. Y’all approach it with grace and maturity so thanks!

[@rebecaiacob4642]

Wow the positivity in this video literally made my day.

[@carolinamachado6668]

It’s so good to see the smile on their face when talking about gratefulness

[@deborah-keirpaulsen1973]

i just love how you grow more and more comfortable in front of the camera sutton! you're already there, nate. since day 1, lol.

[@stunningmisadventures]

I laughed so hard when Nate talked about being so grateful sitting in the bathroom 😂 I’m binge watching all of your videos!

[@rachelmeade9307]

Thank you for being so honest about your boundaries instead of what “should” be! So many talk about what they should be but fail to mention their own shortcomings.

[@Hegetstheglory]

Your hearts are just so beautiful. It brings me so much joy and hope seeing other people so passionate about this. Thank you so much.

[@nateandsutton]

Kiersten Elizabeth that's so sweet thank you!!

[@claricekick7902]

I have always hated swearing and it’s soooo hard to find guys who don’t swear😕 Nate is a rare breed

[@naomilock122]

Literalllyyyyyyyy. Like what's the need? And I always find that guys who seem close to being great for me end up swearing and I'm like ughhh 😂

[@marmar-ui4be]

Naomi Lock right

[@claricekick7902]

Naomi Lock sammeeeee

[@ambermassotti4397]

As far as dating in high school, I think the primary thing to be advised is to honor their mother and father. If they are a minor, following their parents convictions/rules is the right thing to do, regardless if it is considered a matter of Christian liberty. Also, I just discovered you guys and love it! You guys are the cutest

[@lizm9863]

An older Christian couple I read about approached anger and arguments before bedtime by saying "I know we are in the middle of a dispute but I do love you and want to say goodnight and God bless. Let's come back to discussing this issue tomorrow at...... (Time) ..... When we can sit down calmly because we both have the time. Just an example 😀

[@DallasFoodBlogger]

Y’all are my favorite Christian couple on KZbin. Keep up the great work y’all! Such good conversation topics.

[@nateandsutton]

rae_muk thank you thank you!!

[@alb4868]

It's so funny when my husband and I were "courting" we would fight over who would pay for food. We both felt so obligated that we would play fight and try to give the server or check out person our card or cash before each other. It would be a battle until someone finally won haha usually someone would give in because whoever was trying to finish with us would be so annoyed. Ah, reminiscence 💜

[@nateandsutton]

A B haha the way it should be!

[@20cgonzalez]

I’m catholic but I love your guys’ transparency and honesty! Keep it up, praying for y’all!

[@ashbear5906]

I know that no kissing before marriage sounds really extreme, but it seriously helped us so much in our dating and engagement. We sure didn't do everything perfect, but we don't have any big regrets. Praise Jesus 🙌

[@Howdy2024]

That sounds so cool. I have thought about doing that before, but I am already struggling with the commitment made not to kiss until I'm engaged.

[@ashbear5906]

@@Howdy2024 you won't regret it 😘

[@JarisaM]

You guys have such amazing personalities! Lol and it’s refreshing to see that along with how transparent and HONEST you guys are with us about yourselves/your relationship! It really reminds everyone that we are all human and that Christians are not aliens. This channel is sooo different from even other Christian marriage channels. In an awesome way! God bless you guys and may he keep helping y’all spread his word and truth through here! 🤗 I’m so glad I found this channel.

[@shirleecampbell1305]

Oh, and one thing I might add, is that I write my prayers at night before sleep; I call it writing letters to God. Praying out loud is something I’m going to try, too.

[@alishalyn5773]

Every time I watch your videos I’m like I know her from somewhere. Well I clicked the link for your pastors book....now I know where I’ve seen you and heard your name. Small world. ❤️ Your channel is great and I pray it reaches more and more people and plants many seeds I know it will. ❤️

[@nateandsutton]

Alisha Lyn haha that’s funny! Thank you for your kind words! 💛

[@alishalyn5773]

Nate and Sutton you’re welcome ❤️

[@DontTellDaddyPodcast]

Hey Nate and Sutton! I love your videos and I’m so happy y’all are passionate about spreading the message of God. As someone who did anthropological studies throughout college and also believes in God, I highly recommend reading scholarly books on evolution before dismissing it. It’s not that it’s something we can argue on, because it is scientific fact. The amount we know on evolution goes above and beyond what we know to be true about God. To trust in Him is amazing, but we shouldn’t let it blind us from the truth of the world. To say it’s all a work of God is one thing, but to say it doesn’t exist is just not true. Through the Lens of Anthropology: An Introduction to Human Evolution and Culture Is a great book to start with.

[@katielupton6273]

I so enjoy Sunday with you both. Your honesty is refreshing, and your passion for your faith feeds my soul. Thank you!

[@nateandsutton]

Katie Lupton 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@jennalindsey1958]

Yes! I love that y'all are doing KZbin to tell people about Christ! It's hard to find good Christian who are honest abou their Faith. Keep doing it!!

[@anniemcguffin3860]

I love your videos!! I love that they're not just you guys doing random stuff to entertain ppl but they actually have a purpose. You guys are also such funny and holy ppl and great role models!! I love when you guys laugh with each other:).

[@nateandsutton]

Annie McGuffin aww thank you 🙏🏼 we try our best to give value!

[@Estiexo]

I love this video so much aha. You guys are so personal and I really appreciate that! :) EDIT: Also for the boundaries question, I've learned that the key to setting up strong boundaries is also making sure that all parties involved understand a clear and strong consequence for breaching that boundary. It's human nature to test boundaries which is why having consequences for the actions can be extremely beneficial.

[@nateandsutton]

Estie P thank you 🙏🏼🙏🏼 We try to keep it real 💯

[@pamseklawi8116]

What worship songs do you recommend? And what is your opinion on listening to secular music?

[@yailinayala4341]

Elevation , new wine worship . And secular music has spirits in them from the world and it takes God's timing and level of maturity with his word and prayer and fasting to be able to stand firm as his child and still understand the spirits in the world operating .

[@yailinayala4341]

Sorry if it is not explained properly but I can give you a call and explain much better out of experience

[@bigred8730]

Pam I feel like worship is for you to decide what works for you. Just listen to music and find what you like. I love a lot of specific worship songs but that's mostly because of my taste.

[@shylaroseh168]

I’m on Spotify Shyla Rose Hope and I have a playlist called Jesus Tunes that I absolutely LOVE. You will find a lot of good worship songs on there. Secular music, I don’t think it’s a sin to listening to it or anything. But you need to pay attention to what is going you because that’s what your feeding off of. If you are listening to music about sex, drugs, partying it’s going to be something you think about all the time. You want your heart and head to be filled with god but when your putting those dirty things into it your not as pure as you could be. I listen to a lot of jazz and older music like Frank Sinatra. The music is all about falling in love which is sweet, but it’s still not praising God so I try not to listen to it too much.

[@princessvaldez8459]

i love the honesty and difference when yall were talking about "going to bed angry".............

[@nateandsutton]

Princess Valdez gotta keep it real!

[@NasEllis]

I hit the like button before I started watching because I knew I'd be in for an informative and entertaining video 😊 sending y'all love from another Christian ytuber ❤

[@nateandsutton]

Nas Ellis you're the best Nas thank you!! 😊

[@marcelacoutinho7778]

Nas Ellis SAME!

[@laurarodriguez-dn6rr]

You are a blessing! I love all your videos and I look forward to them every week. You are such an inspiration for young generations. I wanted to tell you that your words and testimony are reaching people like me worldwide (I watch you from Colombia) ♡ God bless you!

[@nateandsutton]

laura rodriguez so amazing thank you for sharing!! 💛

[@kaylacampbell8806]

I just found y'alls channel, and I really appreciate it. I am trying to get back on track with my faith after taking a stray path for a couple of years, and y'all are truly a motivator.

[@piageffken4266]

Lots of love from Germany

[@ck337]

Yes at night is not the time to talk about anything very important. Lol My hubby and I have realized that about arguing before bed...that you just have a harder time talking things over and resolving things. When you’re tired from the day’s work and you’re frustrated it’s just really hard to talk through things well without getting angry. We do try not to be angry going to bed but it does happen sometimes! I think it’s unavoidable sometimes. Lol But you do need to make up as fast as you can because you never know when you or your husband’s lives will be over and I know I’d feel so sad if one of us passed away with our last words to each other being rude ones. 😢 You guys are sooo hilarious and cute together! Your videos always have me in stitches! 🤣❤️ The part when Nate was pretending to rip off a bandaid made me die. 🤣🤣 We had a chaperone most of the time and it really helped us. We weren’t perfect either but we saved the biggest things (kissing and intimacy!) and we tried really hard and prayed a lot and had to readjust our priorities again and again to make sure we were on the same page and as our relationship progressed, things got harder so we had to set up new (or more) boundaries. 😊

[@seliloski]

The fact that Nate has the same passion in his voice when he's talking about steak and potatoes as he does when he talks about Jesus... Sutton you married well girl, gotta tell you that :P

[@austynhernandez7103]

Praise God for y'all. Using your platform to glorify Jesus. Gotta appreciate the transparency too. Keep shining for His glory! PS I see Nate with them gains. Can we get a workout routine?

[@nateandsutton]

Austyn Hernandez haha thank you for the kind words!! And we might come out with a workout routine vid!

[@austynhernandez7103]

Nate and Sutton woop woop

[@oliviathreat7408]

My husband and I started watching your videos and we smile the WHOLE TIME 😂😍

[@nateandsutton]

Olivia Threat 💛💛

[@tristin301]

Did you guys fall into any temptation while dating? btw, you guys are a big influence to my life. My boyfriend and i are waiting until marriage and sometimes it gets a little hard but we won't do anything until marriage. (we have been dating for 2 years)

[@daphnatorres9867]

I'm supposed to be watching my lecture but I'm watching this instead and I have NO REGRETS!!! Love you guys, beyond happy I found your channel!

[@nateandsutton]

Daphna Torres hahaha uh oh! We're happy you're here too!! 😊

[@huckella2131]

I'm looking forward to the day God brings me a man that looks at me the way Nate does to Sutton.

[@christinedoudou2537]

I love how u are HONEST, it is a very good thing. about not having so many friends it is okay, u are normal because it better to have friends who are really into that friendship and the ones that u see things the same way as Christians! me too i dont have many friends but i thank God for those i have. be blessed

[@victoriamarks1343]

Agreed 1000000% on being a completely different person from 18 to 24. I got married at almost 23 almost 24 and I was totally different from 18!

[@nateandsutton]

Victoria Boyer truth!

[@livingunashamed4869]

You guys are awesome lol. Definitely will reach 100K by the end of the year. That honey app is awesome, thanks! God bless

[@nateandsutton]

Kevin B 🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@lydiamj4845]

Thanks so much for the beam of light!!! Love the video and all the tips - I felt it was exactly what I had needed in my journey of Christian beliefs!

[@cantermac6087]

Thank you both for being so honest and loving! It is so refreshing to see 🙏 May God continue to work in and through you!

[@highland_persuasion]

Nate, dude, Sutton looked gorgeous. You looked older than your age. Like waaaay older.

[@rebeccafeldman456]

Btw I love your intro!! Oaklen falling backwards 🤣

[@Juiceboxx17]

Sutton is so genuine and true and respectful. Nate just seems very wishy washy as if he’s trying to cover up his true colors in order to look like a good guy.

[@francineh6899]

You guys are awesome! thank you so much for your honesty and transparency and just being real! Could you guys do a separate video all on boundaries when you dated, what you might have done differently and what you do even when after messing up?\\ y'all are amazing, keep spreading the gospel and the name of Jesus!!!

[@nateandsutton]

Francine H Thank you Francine!! we just might thank you for the idea!

[@mr.j3371]

I can’t help it, you guys make me smile when I see you two 😁. Love you guys!

[@mattpatterson1447]

Real life issues in a world gone mad. Great back and forth. I’ve enjoyed your guy’s channel. God bless

[@jacquesnicolay9221]

It’s funny how people live their lives a certain way, and then look back and are like “You should live your life in an idealistic way that I did not” but yet, their life now is just fine having not lived that idealistic lifestyle.. they’re married, they’re doing fine. The grass is always greener, don’t do what people say, always do what people do (who are successful) ;)

[@jasmineh7784]

The comment about the first photo of Sutton not looking her best was a bit unnecessary! She looked gorgeous in the photo and for you to say otherwise is kind of shallow. So what... she didn't have a ton of make up on . She still looked beautiful!

[@nateandsutton]

Jas298 Riley she did look beautiful and always does. I was just giving her a hard time

[@ananastea]

Jas298 Riley i actually thought it was super cute! lol how different the perceptions can be.

[@coriannevlogs8231]

Wow I agree with every single thing said in this video. Especially the evolution part. I love yall!

[@andrewparvin6287]

What do y’all do to have such white teeth?

[@nateandsutton]

Andrew Parvin haha we used to whiten them but haven't in a while. Now just use Colgate toothpaste with baking soda and peroxide plus good lighting works wonders! 😁

[@vayvaygirl2120]

Andrew Parvin Why does it have anything to with people getting they’re teeth whitened? It should be about the Lord. Not how great we can look, dress, or how much we can workout to see how big our muscles can get. Thats a bunch of showing off.

[@brianaguajardo6268]

@@vayvaygirl2120 I think you misinterpreted that🤣 I'm sure A LOT of people wonder. Just sayin🤷‍♀️

[@rexiioper6920]

Savannah Suffridge I'm sure dude bro appearing on the video in his muscle Tee with his biceps flexing alongside little demure wifey has his focus only on the Lord. 😂😂😂

[@aresg9670]

Color grading 😂