How To Find The One || How We Met

[@dianavogel4741]

“If you are unhappy without them, you’re not gonna be happy with them” Thank you. Really needed to hear that

[@shannongeisler141]

My pastor always says not to look for “the one”, but your “number two”. He explains that as Christians, we should look to place God first and then our spouse 😊 I know “the one” is a common term, but I think it’s important as Christians to rephrase it in our minds, knowing that God is the ultimate one who fills us up and satisfies, not a spouse!

[@nateandsutton]

Love that!!

[@chocortez23]

💯👌🏽

[@TT-zc1pv]

Right that’s how I feel. My spouse will never be #1 in my life. It will always be God!

[@littledoe1439]

I love the fact u saved urself for each other and that u always talk about god

[@NasEllis]

Same I love that too, and that's what I strongly believe is the best way to go 👌🏼❤ I actually just made a vid addressing this lol :)

[@sycamore0765]

*God

[@samanthapellew5989]

@@sycamore0765 yes , exactly God *

[@joyiwalla6172]

Capitalise the G please*God thanks

[@luciamakeup995]

I am 18 years old and I have never had a boyfriend, but with your videos you encourage me to continue praying for him

[@leoandange1733]

I prayed for my husband and didn’t expect him to come into my life as quickly as he did 😮 wouldn’t trade a thing ❤️❤️❤️ love y’all and love your content 😁

[@epmoua]

Thank you for clarifying that idolizing your future spouse is a real problem many of us face but we don’t even realize it and that God is the only one who can fulfill and satisfy you and not your future spouse. I also learned this in my Young Women’s Ministry that not only should you become who you’re looking for is looking for but you should also become who you’re looking for. If you have expectations for your future spouse but aren’t some of the things you expect of your future spouse, then you aren’t ready to find your significant other yet. Thank you for another Christ centered video. God bless.

[@nateandsutton]

Elizabeth Moua yes! Love that point! Most people are looking for what they should strive to be! 💛

[@lindalately]

Elizabeth Moua yes!!!

[@alanataylor5879]

Elizabeth Moua thank you God bless✨

[@dariusdragota3636]

I just discovered you guys. I can only say : God bless you and your family for the rest of your life

[@nateandsutton]

Darius Dragota welcome to the channel!

[@meganpettit6995]

"I'd choose waiting over settling any day of the week" is one of my favorite reminders. The majority of my friends are dating or have crushes or in "relationships" and it makes me want to have a bf. But...I have determined to set a standard for my younger brothers and to be with the man God wants me to marry. You guys have another subscriber and I have thoroughly enjoyed watching your videos!!!

[@lilianaluciano7742]

I am a 17 year-old, christian girl, and I love watching your videos. So inspiring for a young person like me. Keep up with the valuable content. Much love

[@nateandsutton]

Liliana Freitas that encourages us so much to hear thank you 🙏🏼

[@prashantkrishnankutty6038]

I wish I meet my future wife or girlfriend soon. I am in the time loving God with all my heart and following his paths and advice u to do so he will bring the best husband for u , but I am just 17 too so I dont have any experience with relationships though.

[@lilianaluciano7742]

@@prashantkrishnankutty6038 that's a great path to be on. As long as we follow Jesus faithfully and we trust Him with our lives, everything will fall into place, and He will give us the one for us. 😉

[@gabriella4059]

If your not happy without them, then your not going to be happy with them. I love this! 😁

[@chocolategrande6796]

My fear is that I won’t meet someone who is Christian and shares my beliefs! You two are such a great couple! Your son has the best parents! 💖 so happy for you both of you!!

[@nateandsutton]

Chocolate Grande we were in that same boat. They are out there, and if it's God's will you will meet them!

[@indianajosephine4881]

Proverbs 3:5-6 5 Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; 6 in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight. If GOD can provide a mate for the birds in the air or the deers in the fields, child of GOD, how much more can he do for you? Isaiah 34:16 Look in the scroll of the LORD and read: None of these will be missing, not one will lack her mate. For it is his mouth that has given the order, and his Spirit will gather them together. Dear one, our GOD is limitless, Nothing is too hard for HIM. Don't be afraid just believe. Ephesians 3:20 Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us. Seek HIM first & HIS kingdom of righteousness & all else will follow. But our must believe. Hebrews 11:6 And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him.

[@islandgirlxx3465]

@Chocolate Grande I have the same fear. I've been wanted to get married since I moved to the Netherlands about 5 years ago. And it's been hard to find a man who really loves the Lord. Most interest I got were from second generation muslims who live here. And what's more frustrating is those are the type of men I am attracted to. Like the middle eastern look. And everytime I have to turn their request down cause they are not christians. Really frustrating!

[@samitaroselin693]

Even i feel the same! For me, sharing the same faith and beliefs are very important. Otherwise i don't think I'll be able to spend my forever with someone who does not.

[@samitaroselin693]

@@islandgirlxx3465 similar things happen to me. All guys here who show some interests are hindus and sometimes even i get attracted towards them. But again i have to turn them down because of same reasons as yours.

[@gracethompson9504]

it so easy to become infatuated with someone and disregard how much they are pushing you away from God. in my personal experience, don't ever compromise your beliefs and boundaries for someone else, it is NOT worth it. i wish i could have seen this video before making the mistakes that i have, but i am so excited God lead me to your channel and it's amazing to be able to look at such a strong christian couple. ya'll have given me so much hope for the future and i can't wait to see your upcoming videos! God bless!

[@nateandsutton]

Grace Thompson this comment made me smile! Thank you for the kind words and for following along with us! 💛

[@gracethompson9504]

💛💛💛

[@Backhoebb]

I came to exactly the same realization after a fairly painful, but necessary breakup. I think god is doing something really special with there channel.

[@littledoe1439]

That's right amen god the only one that can fill any void ur missing

[@nateandsutton]

Jessica Young amen 🙏🏼

[@samanthapellew5989]

God*

[@marcelacoutinho7778]

OMG!! I just want to say (before even watching the video) how I COMPLETELY LOVE THE NEW "OAKLAN INTRO"!! Oh my.. he's so cute!! Smiling and rolling back! Urgh, I can't.. My heart is completely melted rn

[@nateandsutton]

Marcela Coutinho our hearts on a daily basis 😂🥰 thank you!!

[@user-jy7yn1ro8j]

Hi Marcela. Which are the best churches in Brazil where there are serious Christians that follow the word of the bible? The type of church where the young people are encouraged to save themselves for their wedding day.

[@sharonk-o9u]

It's so hard to let go of searching, it's almost an obsession. But I know what you're saying is true

[@janeznovak922]

I totally feel you. But there is no other way than let go and keep the good vibe :)

[@alupofortunate9152]

I love it when she said , let go and concentrate with your relationship with God and also praying about it. When He shared God will bring the right person at the right time. God bless your marriage and your family.

[@lydiameriana3154]

Hey! I was crying and prayed out to god for guidance in my relationship, and then stumbled upon your videos. God is so kind!

[@christa2627]

Lydia Jen I have been doing the SAME thing! What do you think God is telling you?

[@samanthapellew5989]

Be careful with the common g hun, always capitalize the G for God

[@afkoppauthor]

In early March, I made the decision to focus more on God and to stop idolizing the idea of marriage and a husband. It didn't mean I stopped praying for the right guy for me, but I changed my perspective. I decided to try taking extra time to break down scripture to REALLY understand what it meant. I have found that I love the book of James, and how it convicts you. It helped me realize I need to be a DOER of the Word, not only a listener who goes to church and forgets as soon as I leave. There has always been this one guy, who I've known for almost 4 years now, and I used to be infatuated/crushing on him. And then I prayed for God to save my heart multiple times, but one time, I put my foot down and said whether or not he is the one, save my heart. My 17-year-old infatuation with him was growing tiring, and within a week, I didn't have feelings for him (if you call that feeling). And it was a blessing because I felt free. And then, a month later I found he was dating someone. If I still had "feelings" for him, I would have been devastated. Two years passed as I tried to push off any feelings for him that I felt. Almost 4 months ago, is when I saw him the last time face to face. It would have been the last time in a long time because he was heading off to basic training. And that's when I came to accept that I still had feelings for him, but I was no longer infatuated with him. I kept praying and praying for God to save my heart for the right guy, but my feelings only grew. And recently, he called me and I realized that I really cared for him. Of course, as a friend, but there is something more that I can't put into words. Every time I try, I can't. Whether he is the right guy for me or not, I still pray for God's guidance and wisdom, and am trying to get to know the Lord more. And it is strange how even the last month, how praying for help on my weaknesses (my swinging mood and emotions) and allowing Him to touch me in those weak spaces, God has helped me through a lot of my emotions which has been my downfall for the past 19 years. And within barely even a month. Trust in God. He knows the plan, He knows the path, and trusting in Him, and praying for His peace, is such a powerful thing.

[@regiiphalange]

I am a Muslim lady and listening to you, I realize we're not that different after all. Literally, ALL you said applies to what I firmly believe. You are a sweet couple. God bless you!

[@tylerkaminski5345]

Go listen to their “why we believe in Jesus” video

[@mycupofcocoa1125]

Sutton smiling at Nathaniel when he’s talking about God like a dream come true finding a guy who directs ppl to God⭐️

[@nateandsutton]

My Cup of Cocoa so funny to watch myself on camera and how I look at him haha I obviously was never aware till we started making videos cause how often do you get to see yourself look at your spouse? 🥰

[@kimberlywinters2818]

I never comment on youtube, and I first want to say I love what this channel stands for and think Nate and Sutton are a beautiful couple in Christ. I just hope this comment helps someone who comes along to watch this video. Singles, don't ever think that God has placed the desire for marriage in your heart and that there's a possibility He won't fulfill it. That's not the kind of God we serve. If you desire marriage and family, God has NOT given you the gift of celibacy/singleness. I know when you are waiting longer than you thought you would it can seem that way. But God would not give you the desire to marry and then call you to a life of singleness. For those that God has given that calling to they have no desire or interest in marriage or intimacy. I once read from a praying for your spouse guide "a heavenly mandate to remain single when the desire of your heart is to marry would not be a spiritual gift. If you desire to marry, God is faithful and will provide a spouse for you in His timing. Singleness is NOT your calling if you truly desire marriage. I understand because I have been there and used to believe maybe I have this desire and it is not God's will for my life. This is not true at all. I mean no disrespect at all, but I don't understand why there are Christians out there who try to tell singles who desire marriage that it may not be God's will for them to marry and I find it so discouraging that people say this to those who desire love and family the same way they did before they married their spouse. This isn't true, God does not place the desire for marriage in a person's heart and then call them to a life of singleness.

[@masonbunch7302]

Kimberly Winters Thank you so much for writing this. I literally went to sleep last night saying to God that I was preparing to spend the rest of my life single even if that isn’t what I really want, but I just had this mindset that if God calls me to spend the rest of my life single, I may not like it, but I’ll accept it. Your comment just gave me so much hope that I can find someone on God’s time, and in the meantime, I’ll try to be the best person I can for God and for her when she gets here. I just got out of one of the toughest breakups ever, and yes I’ve dated girls since then, but nothing ever lasted. So every night I’m gonna pray on this like I have but this time I’ll wait for God’s perfect timing on this cause that’s when me and her both will be at a place in our lives where God’s ready for us to meet. Thank you for your comment, and I wish you the best in finding someone.

[@therandomd2717]

Can you tell me some Biblical verses/principals to support your claim?

[@CHOOSE_TO_BE_U]

I REALLY appreciate all you shared Kimberly Winters. Thank you very much for explaining how God gives us desires and has every intention of fulfilling these heart desires!! That is the kind of God we serve. 👏😉

[@Nancy-gf4yr]

I have had these same thoughts...i am older than most on this channel I am sure. Your message just goes to show that older is not always wiser and the younger generation can always encourage and teach their generation as well as the more " mature "....thank you for sharing your heart...my heart is strengthened by your words...my thoughts and prayers just took on new life through you..praying blessings on you and your ministry of hope...i often pray and thank God for waking me morning by morning and giving me the tongue and the ear of the learned....today I have "learned" through your kindred spirit...blessings ...❤🙏🙌☝❤

[@briannacollie2742]

Your son fell in love with the ice cream. That was too cute! But, recently God told me that im going to meet a Lot of new people this season, including my husband. And, I have met a Lot of amazing people so now I'm thinking "he's coming any day now lol." I need to stop thinking about it and focus on God like you suggested.

[@alesiajani5282]

Lol god told you,that must have been a hell of a conversation.

[@somayab3380]

Elegant Anne update??

[@delancey3181]

north m stop if your not Christian stop being rude and get off the channel

[@therandomd2717]

Did you meet him yet

[@Elizabeth-cm7lg]

ok but like the way he looks at her 😍 this gives me hope guys

[@nateandsutton]

Elizabeth S aww 🥰🥰

[@marypywtorak7798]

Thank you. I’ve been struggling with the thought, “maybe this is the best God has for me.” Your video helped me recognize that and reminded me not to settle.

[@renaissancegirl87]

Just to clarify something you’ve said. No great relationship is effortless. In fact just the opposite. Great, strong marriages take a good deal of consistent effort. I think perhaps what you meant was that being with the right person will not feel like a battle and a struggle.

[@nateandsutton]

renaissancegirl87 exactly ☝🏼

[@breannagillespie4229]

Thank you Nate and Sutton for being such influential Christ followers. We need more people like you guys on KZbin. Keep up the incredible work, you guys are doing great. God bless.

[@jenafrylink5132]

I am a Christian girl from Australia and absolutely love you guys!! I find you guys so inspirational and humble. I admire your strength and confidence in Christ, and motivates me to grow closer to him too!

[@nateandsutton]

JENA FRYLINK 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@ChicReal]

I just prayed this morning that GOD to direct my path, and I decided to stop looking for the one GOD has for me. GOD is the only one who fulfills my life, completes me and has given me the desires of my heart. I have prayed about it but in HIS timing. Is it just me but does it seem like most of the amazing godly men out there are taken? I just randomly came across your channel, and I'm so glad I did. God bless. 🙏🏻❣️🙏🏻

[@nateandsutton]

ChicReal amen 🙏🏼

[@ChicReal]

@@nateandsutton This song just now was recommended to me here on KZbin, and I began to cry because it's not only appropriate but my heart has been crying out to GOD for an answer. Thank you Father GOD. 🙏🏻❣️🙏🏻 Here it is: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mYero56Pd6qafK8

[@claudiaalyssa4740]

Love this! Newly single here 🙋🏻‍♀️ and this really spoke to my heart to immerse myself in the Word and influencers of high moral standard for guidance in this season. Love from Texas 😁🤠

[@sjahahsjananasn6455]

This helped ALOT! Thank you guys for this video, I just prayed to god about helping me be able to just sit back and let god take over on finding me the one. Truly appreciate you guys and the video y’all made! Thank you

[@nateandsutton]

Daltonn 18 so happy to hear!!

[@Mekinnahh]

Omg. Oakie smiling and falling over🥰🥰y’all look perfect and I’m so proud of y’all for spreading the word of Jesus🙌🏽

[@nateandsutton]

Mekinnah Currie thank you Kinny! I think Saley will be making an appearance in our next vlog 😁

[@basmamohamed5275]

I’m a Muslim Egyptian and your video really helped me a lot. Thank you 🌷

[@nateandsutton]

Basma Mohamed so glad to hear that!

[@heliaalves9062]

Sutton, God has blessed you with an amazing sister! I was not expecting to hear such a story, it's so much more beautiful than the cliché "boy meets girl in the street" (sorry Nate, I know that's what you imagined but I have to comment in all honesty). It turned out amazing, you are happy together and you have the most beautiful blessing in the form of a baby boy. Oaklan puts an instant smile in my face. The way he loved tasting the ice cream, his enthusiasm made my heart melt

[@nateandsutton]

Hélia Alves aww thank you we were wondering if everyone likes the vlogs so we are happy to hear you enjoyed them!

[@melissamaynardmusic523]

I want to thank y'all for posting this, so so much. I needed to hear this right in this exact moment. I am currently going through a heartbreak in breaking things off with a guy who I was absolutely crazy about, but the entire time I didn't have peace about him being my future husband and I always had this unsettling feeling in my heart. I had known that we weren't equally yoked and he wasn't in a mature place with his faith where he could lead me. I felt like I was always leading him and I just always told myself that he would eventually get there because I knew his heart. I realized that I couldn't do that and that God has someone out there for me who will only strengthen and push me closer to Jesus, than pull me apart. I have peace about that, even amidst the heartbreak and sadness I feel now. I'm so thankful I found your channel! God is so faithful, even when we aren't! :)

[@PaulandMorgan]

Love that you guys are on here representing the Lord and having fun while doing it! Keep it up you all! Also, Oaklan is the CUTEST! 😭 -Morgan Also- Tinder couples unite! 😂

[@nateandsutton]

Paul and Morgan Aww thank you Morgan! We love yalls channel!! Future collab seed planted 😁

[@sopuruoti4630]

Can’t get enough of their positivity

[@nateandsutton]

Sopuru Oti you're too sweet :)

[@hannahuvari9912]

Hi, somehow I came across your video. I believe this video was an answer to so many of my questions. I just wanted to say thank you! Your family is so amazing and both of you are so full of God. I admire you both so much, to make videos and talk about God with so much confidence. God is using your family and he will bless you abundantly! It’s so hard to find genuine Christian channels.

[@hanna2522]

I think you are helping me to get closer to God and grow in my faith🌿 I have always been Christian but I didn't grew up with 'traditional values' now I decided for myself to read more in the bibe in order to deepen my faith and wait for marriage even though it's not common to do this in today's society. I often feel directly addressed by what you say bc it suits my situation where I ask myself how I can find my future husband. So what I wanna say is your videos are soo helpful😊 God bless you and your family❤

[@nateandsutton]

Hanna that means so much to us 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@julieroddy8775]

So proud of you both!! What a shining example of godly Christian dating and now a happily married Christian couple!!

[@TheMajesticFamily]

Its encouraging seeing like minded individuals on KZbin! We actually just shared our story too!

[@shannon_cf]

Wow, KZbin randomly recommended me one of your videos and I'm so grateful for it because your channel and what you guys are about is just so refreshing. I can't relate to what a marriage is like because I'm currently a 22 year old student but I'm also Christian, and I often feel so lost and out of place around other people my age especially in this day and age with social media and everything else but watching your videos makes me feel understood and I'm learning so much from you guys too! Also, I've learned that you guys are videographers which explains why your videos are so incredibly well edited and filmed despite how young your channel is! Anyways, I'm looking forward to continuing your journey with you through your videos and I hope that God continues to bless you and your family with lots of love, good health, and blessings your way!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@nateandsutton]

THP so cool thank you KZbin!!

[@MrGoobergirl]

It’s so nice to find a couple that is inspiring others to live like god wants. You don’t find that anymore in society. You guys give me hope that we can still find someone living the way gods wants us to and we don’t have to settle.I love your channel!! 💕💕

[@nateandsutton]

Angel Bateman thank you and thank you for following along with us! 💛

[@mariel4822]

I feel God's presence in your relationship/family. When Jesus is at the middle of any relationship it is blessed. Amazing and helpful video! Godbless you both and more power much love xX

[@nateandsutton]

AndWhenSheSmiles best compliment we could receive :))

[@SaloméSonwane]

Such a genuine and good video! Your smiles are the best!

[@MV-pu7nb]

You both are so beautiful ! It’s amazing that in this day and age you guys had the same values ! God is amazing ! He used a sister ! My husband and I got married after 4 months of knowing each other . We really didn’t want to be tempted and fall into sin . Thank you for your testimony . May God bless you .

[@barbarabavier675]

My first thought: They probably met at church.

[@ashleyrckchannel7064]

That’s funny they met from Tinder lol

[@leslie117777777]

Y’all’s relationship is so beautiful, and God is so good! Its so beautiful how God’s ways continually reveal to be so much more amazing than anything we can imagine! ““My thoughts are nothing like your thoughts,” says the Lord. “And my ways are far beyond anything you could imagine.” -‭‭Isaiah‬ ‭55:8‬ ‭💗☺️✨

[@fdoctor79]

Okay, I just subscribed. It is soo refreshing to see an authentic Christian couple on KZbin. May God continue to bless your family and looking forward to following your content.

[@nateandsutton]

fdoctor thank you for following along with us! 💛

[@theresaflowers]

Hey Nate and Sutton thank you for this wonderful video of “ How to find the One”. You both are great together showing that He knows how to put us people together if we would just trust Him!!! Thanks again. God bless you both. 🙏💯😍🙌🏼❤️

[@lizbeltran219]

I’m in the same position as Nate right now. I went on a retreat and decided to stop looking for something only God can provide. I went to mass the week after and a young women had told me that her brother was interested. At the time I told her I’m was not interested because Im about to start school. But listening to your guys story, it gives me hope in knowing maybe God planted something in me. Since that day I’ve been praying and I hope some of you can pray for me as well!!

[@nateandsutton]

Liz Beltran that’s awesome! You never know! 🙏🏽💛

[@sallywally8770]

My religion is Islam but watching this video I feel I can relate to it, I used to daydream alot about my future spouse daily thinking where is he why cant he come to me now but from my experience with dealing with someone I thought I would marry I've learnt that only god is the one I can rely on, so now I dont find myself getting anxiety about not knowing where my man is because i know god has a plan and hes already written it for me i just need to focus on myself and better myself as a human being. My future husband will come when I least aspect it and it wont feel like I'm putting in all the work to chase a guy cause im much more than that. I've just started focusing on loving myself and striving to my own goals weather that's work or family and i feel so much more content and happy with life. I watched this video on my lunch break btw couldn't stop smiling loved this! Ive subscribed🙌

[@kaimene1127]

Sally Wally I have the same way of thinking and I'm A Muslim girl too, while watching this video i thought that they are Muslims hhh

[@sallywally8770]

@@kaimene1127 I'm glad I ain't the only one!

[@rebortiz28]

Literally 12 hours after I made the decision to stop looking for my future husband, I met him. Just like the few other times I met a boy and hit it off, I prayed and asked God to let His will be done either way. Let it be easy and smooth and not be difficult if it was meant to be or let us pass me by - every other time I would pray this, it would pass me by. This time everything just fell into place & we have been together ever since! God had really been preparing the both of us and getting us ready for each other and when it was time, He made it all happen!

[@nateandsutton]

Reba Germaine that’s amazing! So cool! 🙏🏽💛

[@nateandsutton]

Reba Germaine so cool!

[@NikeAirJordanGabes]

“When you know, you know.” 🥺🥺🥺

[@ItsSammAndJordan]

Your guys intro has the be the best one yet 💗😭 So beautiful ! Btw were small youtubers here☺️

[@NasEllis]

Aye small youtubers unite ❤

[@nateandsutton]

ItsSamm&Jordan aww thank you we're glad you like it!

[@marketa7752]

I like the message! Seems like it was that shift in the thinking that you needed to do. I personally agree with what you've said. Thank God that I started realizing few years back that what I needed was deepening my relationship with him and letting him work on my situation to feel whole. I think I'm getting to a very good headspace now and if someone cute and godly would come around I'd be glad. But finally I know I don't need anyone other than God to complete me, because that mindsed clouds your perception to the potential red flags and ability to think critically.

[@sb_3]

I’ve been loving your channel recently! Thank you guys for being so bold in your faith! God bless!🤗❤️

[@nateandsutton]

Skai Rachel Ann thank you for watching and supporting 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@Katherinep2005]

Thank you for this video! I am in a single season and DEF am learning that I have made an idol out of fear of God wanting me to be single and/or fear of never finding my husband. You guys are so cute and such a blessing!

[@beamarierodriguezgrullon5837]

Nice to see and hear a cuple talking about God as the first thing in their life. You inspired me !!

[@leahwray8159]

Thank you so much for sharing! I’m in tears listening to your words and coming to realize I am stuck in the “feeling lonely” being single. I greatly enjoy sharing my life with someone else... I have been single for almost 2yrs and there are times I am tempted to think I will never get married, etc. I do believe though that God is good and He has a man for me. Thank you for the encouragement. p.s I also use the triangle analogy!!

[@couronneeclatante224]

Awesome message and video ! thank you for sharing your keys guys. You both look so radiant. I do like your authentic smiles and sincere joy... it's undeniable it comes from our Heavenly Father. you are a blessing for me

[@nateandsutton]

Couronne Eclatante aww that makes our hearts happy! Comments like this really encourages us to keep going so thank you!!

[@couronneeclatante224]

@@nateandsutton Yeahhh !!! really honored to be an encourager for you!! you really deserve it ! I'm glad I bring joy to your hearts as you also bring great joy to mine. stay abundantly blessed!!

[@AE-lv8bh]

I’m not sure if you will even see this comment but I hope you do because I just want to thank you for what you have shown me and everyone else who has seen your videos. I want to tell you a little bit about myself. I am a 14 year old girl, I have been raised in a Catholic home and gone to a Catholic school all my life. I have a very big family. From a young age I promised myself to save myself for my future husband. I am about to start high school in two weeks and I am so excited... but I know it is very hard and there is a difficult road ahead of me. I just wanted to thank you for being such great role models for me to look up to. I know I have never met y’all but I feel like God blessed me with you guys. It is amazing how much of an impact you are making without even realizing it, and without getting anything in return. Any doubts or challenges I have or will come across in my future having to do with God and with staying pure until my marriage I am confident because of you. Thank you so much!

[@nateandsutton]

A E we see you! Wow thank you so much for sharing this with us! This is an answered prayer and so encouraging! Stay strong in high school 💪🏽 being different is cool! 💛💛

[@neveenzee7346]

Nate, you honestly read my mind. Everything going inside my mind you are out there speaking about it. Thank you. Thank you so much

[@britainelise9374]

That part about the idea of singleness hurting meaning you're probably idolizing marriage and your future spouse... hit HARD. Oof.

[@malisehargrove8971]

This is probably my new favorite channel. Right next to Jess and Gabe :)

[@nateandsutton]

Malise that makes us so happy to hear!

[@anniemcguffin3860]

That's exactly what Id say too:))

[@tarabledsoe1308]

Same here! I love good Christian influences on youtube!

[@andreamelendez4084]

Hi Nate and Sutton, I know this may be out of topic, but can you do a video recommending Christian music/playlists that you like to listen to? I’d love that!

[@nateandsutton]

Andrea Melendez good idea! We will keep that one in mind!

[@udemeasian]

For podcasts check my channel

[@laura___elise116]

Andrea Melendez hey, I listen to a lot of different Christian artists, you should check these out! (I’ll put some of different genres) for King & Country, Newsboys, Building 429, Skillet, Riley Clemons, Hollyn, TobyMac, needtobreathe, Colony House, Switchfoot, Capital Kings, Gawvi, Lecrae, Andy Mineo, and KB

[@jelennyburrel4819]

Aww Oaklan is so adorable. I loved seeing the family footage and this is a great topic. God bless you all.

[@nateandsutton]

Jelenny Martinez glad to hear that! We weren't sure if people like the vlogs or not so this is encouraging to hear :)

[@karolineott6001]

I just want to say I think your marriage and your channel are anointed; I see other Christian couples making videos that end up polarizing, hurting feelings and creating division. But somehow, you two share your faith in a way that is refreshing, attractive and humble. Thank you for being a light! Here's my question for your future video: how does a couple bond spiritually when they get married? Merging two separate, spiritual walks seems tricky.

[@nateandsutton]

Karoline Ott aww thank you that means so much to us!

[@ruthieradtke2067]

In 3/5th grade I prayed for a guy for me for that season and he gave me one. He really helped me grow, and that gives me faith. I have a crush on this guy, and he seems like the perfect guy- Christian and everything! seems amazing. But he has a crush in one one else, and I can’t tell if that’s God telling me he’s not the one for me right now, or satan trying to deter me because this guy has already challenged me in my faith- one of my biggest things.

[@hannahjoycheng]

i feel borderline obsessed too with relationships!! I'm done with it. I want to focus on my vertical relationship with God and myself

[@estelletruter7543]

you guys are such a good example of what the relationship between a husband and wife should be like, and I really want to honour you in that -- super encouraging! this video clarified many things for me :) I was especially surprised, because I prayed about most of the exact things you spoke about earlier today.. little gobsmacked, not gonna lie. thank you for your obedience and your servant hearts! much love & blessings - s x

[@alynnabenavides8270]

Yes!!! As soon as I let go and let God , He fulfilled all of my desires and brought me my husband whom I had been praying for. Because one God is sure He still has your heart then He knows you are ready for that relationship. He won’t put you in a relationship where you idolize the person instead of Him.

[@sb_3]

what does y’alls bible time look like? Any favorite books/studies that you guys recommend? 🤗

[@theredhead1900]

To start I woild recommend the letters of Paul. (Romans and than just keep reading. Personally I learned in my childhood a lot of the stories from Jezus. If you want to know Jezus better you could raad Mark single it is the shortest of the evangelical books and the one on wich all the others are based. (Mathew, mark, Luke and John)

[@Rachel-yj1qx]

So so encouraging!! Love everything you guys stand for and talk about on your channel!! It’s crazy how culture twists what God intends for good - there are so many people that need to hear what you have to say about relationships! Thanks for always being so real!

[@Vmtea]

Loved this message. Simple. Truthful and exactly what I needed to hear!

[@nateandsutton]

So glad!

[@Concatenate]

Can you do a video of when you first met your tooth whitening product?

[@e.j.o.4400]

😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

[@tophermagellan6017]

watch his jaw surgery videos. This guy has gone through a lot. That is probably why he is not arrogant.

[@diniques86]

ROFL hahaha

[@shandalesantana]

Hahah I love it!!

[@esterf7064]

Yo word I have been eyeing his teeth for a minute lol

[@NasEllis]

Ayye I'm here before 1K views :) I always gear up for you guys' vid like I'm about to watch a Netflix show because I know I'm getting quality content ❤

[@nateandsutton]

Nas Ellis Sutton just read your comment out loud to me and it put a big smile on our faces :)

[@aaronj4376]

Thank you Nate and Sutton for being obedient to God and following His will by sharing what He has put on both your hearts. Much appreciated guys.

[@zayrasaka6880]

Just found your guys channel , and it’s amazing ! It’s nice to have a KZbin channel that is Christian and how you guys make videos of advice ! God bless you guys ! 💕

[@wildflowersmile3224]

You two (three) are so cute together. I am so happy for you all. Your little one is adorable! I have been single 8 years after an 11 year marriage. I didn't become Christian until after the divorce. I do appreciate that God put his foot down in my dating life. I have spent this time loving on God and my kids and it turned out to be the very best thing for me.

[@nateandsutton]

Sandra Chatwin aww so glad to hear! Thank you for being here 🙏🏼

[@cristinadriviera8144]

OK . I have to say this first- bless you both. Everytime I see the image of Nate in his wedding suit, looking toward Sutton, as an expectant groom- I swear that look in his eyes as he looks at his bride, is so CHRIST like- i can't see it without cracking up! And just think , it's Christ IN Nate. Imagine the look Jesus has for His bride the church. Can you imagine it?

[@hopepursel4114]

This video is extremely helpful! I feel like I can definitely apply this to my own life and trust God's timing. I can really relate to Sutton's situation before she met Nate!

[@the5cvs]

God Bless you guys. You are the cutest. I've been married now for 18.5 yrs. I have a blessed relationship with my husband. I married "not equally yoked". It was the hardest decision of my life. I asked grandma for her thoughts about it before getting married. She told me "Only God can give the gift of faith and you can't force anyone to believe so alI you can do is pray for him. As long as he doesn't take you away from God." I now believe God put me in his life and him in my life for a reason. I could see he was a good man that would make a good husband and father. And that has turned out to be right. He is an amazing husband and the best father in the world. He does pray with me sometimes. His prayers are so beautiful. But he still hasn't fully opened himself to the Lord. Please say a little prayer for us. Thank you! Carmen and Carlos Vega

[@nancypermatasarisoedargo3347]

Thank you very much for your advice..i realise that I’ve been looking and idolizing my future husband and forget the important parts is that to look for God first and prioritizing Him, then everything else will be added to me for my own good.. Thank you so much❤️

[@nidhi0211]

THIS IS SO POWERFUL! When you guys said that for some of us it may not be in our cards to be married or find someone.. it hit me! i have been praying, writing in my diary and asking God for direction but nothing is happening... may be some other purpose is awaiting me and I need to be able to see it Thank you!

[@HENOC.S]

13:00 that triangle analogy is gold 👌

[@hdeaton323]

I was wondering if you could do a video on devotionals and prayer life! Just any tips on quiet time with the Lord.

[@nateandsutton]

Hannah Dorman good idea thank you!

[@familyfaithwisdom8706]

Love this! I can relate so much! When I stopped looking I definitely found the one ♥️ it makes it so much greater knowing it was fully coordinated by God and not of your own strength

[@nateandsutton]

Familyfaith Wisdom how cool!!

[@CiciSu]

Your family is cute! May God bless your channel. Be light of the world for Jesus

[@nateandsutton]

Cici Su thank you 😊

[@alischaschmidt7821]

Thank you it really helped me to know that I don’t have to marry someone I don’t want to because I feel like God has more in store

[@nateandsutton]

Alischa Schmidt you better believe it!

[@natacyadantas17]

It's amazing to see how you have fun with each other and your connection (with God, mainly). Thanks for using your life and marriage to help too many christians around the world.

[@katherinemacgregor6363]

This was so helpful and inspiring. thank you for your encouragement. your desire to honor God is so evident!

[@nateandsutton]

Yayy happy to hear it helped!

[@katherinemacgregor6363]

My sister and I have been talking a lot about relationships recently (what's new??😂), and knowing me too well, she recommended this video to me. It just really hit home.

[@chloejennings9119]

Just found you guys and I absolutely love your videos so inspiring for a 17 year old Christian girl ❤️

[@nateandsutton]

Chloe Jennings welcome to the channel!!

[@MaryScarpati]

Y’all are so sweet! I love your videos. You can tell that you have really good hearts. Keep up the great work! Can’t wait to hear about your engagement.

[@MiaKarineDesigns]

I’m so happy I came across this video! So much great tips. And you guys are such an inspiring couple 💚

[@rominamendez4634]

I cannot believe this video actually made me cry haha, love you guys ❤️ thank you for sharing your life with us!!

[@nateandsutton]

Romina Méndez aww that's so sweet 😭😭

[@Jill.McGlothlin42]

I am 39 and I have been single for 9 years and I have no desire to be w/ anyone and I can’t have kids. I personally believe not everyone is meant to be w/ someone. I am a new subscriber and I am obsessed w/ your channel. :)

[@nateandsutton]

Overcomer thank you for your perspective and welcome to the channel!

[@andrewsnow9201]

I really agree with almost everything you guys said and had a similar experience in finding my One. But where you said a deep desire for a life partner is making that person an idol is flat out wrong. God gave us that desire, he designed us that way! Adam was walking with God in the garden but still needed Eve! We are God's bride and he desires us with more furfor than we could comprehend! It's all in his great design. He's taught me more about the depths of His love than I've ever known as I'm learning to truly love this woman the way that He loves us. If you really think about it that's an incredibly powerful call. He died for us and undeservedly bore all of our sins, he sacrificed everything for us. I'm learning that true love is sacrifice of myself for another. It's unbelievably powerful and there's an endless amount to say on it but I'll end here. I really have to write a book about it one day😀

[@nateandsutton]

Andrew Snow Thank you for watching and thank you for your input! we aren't saying the desire is making an idol...we are saying that thinking about finding the one and putting that before God is making an idol.

[@andrewsnow9201]

@@nateandsutton thanks for responding guys! Misunderstanding there then, we totally agree, God has to come first! He has to be our first love and we have to know his love for us to truly love others! You guys are awesome, you're like the big brothers and sisters that so many of us watching have never had but have needed in our lives so badly. Thank you for the good work you do, love you guys!!

[@ewelaxxx86]

That is exactly what I experienced. I was looking for a husband for 7 yeras and pray but nothing happened. Finally God said I shouldn't put such an effort in it but let it go, because it will just happen without fighting, naturally, and It did.... After year and a half I was married 😊

[@nateandsutton]

Ewelina Cisek wow so good!

[@nateandsutton]

Ewelina Cisek that’s amazing! 🙏🏽💛

[@midnightbluebird9251]

Thank you for this video. I have been praying about this exact topic very recently and it has been weighing on my heart heavily. God bless both of you. I’m going to share your channel with as many people as I can. I want to share God’s light with others as you two do. ⛪️🌟💕

[@nateandsutton]

Midnight Bluebird aww we so appreciate that!!

[@kaylahbasoco1773]

I don't have a question, but I absolutely love Oaklan's new clip in the intro. He is too cute!