THINGS YOU SHOULD STOP BUYING | BUDGET FRIENDLY HOME TIPS & TRICKS

[@NoseyFloridaGirl]

We all have our personal style . I’m not into black, white, tan , large modern art , miss shaped pottery. .. but the concept of your video are helpful . The key to a happy environment are personal items that bring a smile .

[@cathybird]

Small art - created by independent artists can be beautiful. Perhaps not on walls but tucked in bookcases or consoles become one of a kind treasures. As opposed to large mass produced items from Amazon ??? I’m an artist myself and spend hours creating my work regardless of size.

[@daphneroman9163]

I agree. I buy art from the artist studios, sometimes from a gallery. I had some small pieces that are presented in such impactful way that nothing more is needed.

[@rneustel388]

I agree, and it’s something I won’t change. I think her choice may be governed more by what she doesn’t like, and it’s definitely not right for everyone.

[@kimchatwin-smith891]

Completely agree with this ... I also love small thematically curated clustered works ... that make a large statement piece - I think its lovely to be able to peer into a small piece. When you have a large space the artwork (unless highly figured and coloured) just make ubiquitous graphic shapes on the wall - and end up bland - just an homogeneous space filler

[@LoryIvey]

This. I hated this advice. It isn’t controversial; it is just bad advice. I am also an artist, and while I don’t make small art, it is important to remember there is a lot of wonderful art out there that is small and intended as such. Thank you for this comment, Cathy!!

[@TheJENNIFERHOBSON]

I am in agreement. I'm a creative and artist and disagree with this "recommendations" for various reasons.

[@Keepinitreal55]

I think it all depends on what stage of life you’re in. If you have little kids you can’t avoid some corny decor and bright colors and basically trash that you wish wasn’t there but makes your kid so happy! You can only have a designer house like this if you’re single or already with grown children

[@helloimsara6364]

I agree with most of what you said. Especially the seasonal decor!! But I love finding original, small pieces of art and putting them in unexpected places in my home. It feels so quaint in my more modern house and I love the juxtaposition it creates.

[@lu_re7198]

I agree. And a beautiful small work of art can have a more powerful impact bc it draws the viewer in and feels personal. Also, most people can’t afford really good art, and it doesn’t make sense to spend money on bad art just to fill a wall space. An affordable alternative is photography, a framed textile or making your own minimalist art.

[@annschwetjewright4808]

Agree on seasonal decor, but with kids, they get attached. I would use some ribbon, satin, burlap (no wire) to bring in seasonal color… I dunno for example, wrap a red Renton, secure with pin, not bows with matching color use seasonal red berries or greens (cut from your yard!) Either match the colors with branches or invert them..,,

[@impactfully5714]

I agree with all but Christmas, Valentina. My son is under 20 and absolutely loves Christmas. Also, my nieces and nephews enjoy coming to our home for the magic. We try to incorporate the natural pieces where possible but I love seeing their joy.

[@jesss2145]

Yes! I totally agree. Christmas is the only holiday/season I still decorate for. I don't change plants or pillows either, only blankets and sheets. I want to store as little as possible, because I just have way too much stuff!

[@lu_re7198]

I agree. The little lights add so much warmth, the greenery/pine cones bring in elements of nature and the hope/excitement for this celebration brings people together. However, I do agree that collecting/storing decor for every single holiday can add a truck load of clutter to your home.

[@jeanettewhite2144]

I love the minimalist look but I miss your black and white artwork on the fireplace. It just made the room and the fact that you painted it made it more special x

[@alejandraalvarado865]

I agree. It s too empty !

[@ulovemichelle]

It would look so beautiful with something large above the fireplace.

[@kristiclark4494]

Me three! too bare and cold!

[@rosechagnon1173]

It looks like a black hole!

[@stephanieholderfield2475]

YOU ARE SO RIGHT! I definitely STOPed shopping at Target and all the new releases and I just pick out a piece or two that I really love. I started shopping pottery barn and invest my money in one great piece that I JUST LOVE and I really enjoy that piece and it makes me happy. Now cleaning is much easier. I don't have so much dusting to do and I don't feel overwhelmed in my space. THANK YOU for this video and for putting things in perspective, at least for me. Smiles

[@loreadnan]

Me too 😀 it makes such a difference!

[@alanahenderson6030]

Same and it is so freeing to not have so much clutter and wasted money going out on stuff that doesn't last.

[@bettyschriver3277]

Buy real Art from real artists, not pottery barn.

[@stephanieholderfield2475]

@@bettyschriver3277 I have art that I love around my house. A lot of it is my son's and art that was gifted to me from special people in my life but I love vintage artwork so, no Pottery Barn art as of yet lol.

[@stephanieholderfield2475]

@@alanahenderson6030 Oh my goodness, yes! waisted money for sure.

[@carolslavens5565]

Wow, I have been feeling the same way! I also stopped buying seasonally specific decor, mostly because I got tired finding a way to store it. I have really scaled back what I have out on display. I really just want to have a few select items that I can transition by changing the greenery in a vase, etc.

[@lk2688]

I needed to hear this today. I am having surgery and my recovery will be intense. My husband and I discussed the topic of decor; earlier today. I realized I won’t be physically able to decorate for the holidays this year. I will be focusing on making memories with my family this year instead of baking and decorating. This will be a HUGE game changer for me since I normally decorate my clients homes for the holidays. I will be taking your advise and enjoying a home with minimal fall and winter decor in 2022. I love your channel. Be blessed. Lynda

[@amandawoods847]

Can share in the joy of hanging line of christmas cards or of hanging photos. Can still create joy with these images and with just a couple of indoor plants Over winter scented pelagonium can be a highlight from rose, pineapple, lemon just a couple of natural scented leaf flavours with or without flowers!

[@dianegougelet1829]

LK...Sorry you will go through this. I wish you a speedy recovery. Feeling the love given to YOU this year will fuel your healing. May He watch over the surgeon's hands.🙏

[@crich4503]

When children are adults, often seasonal decor is no more.

[@joleneosignac7123]

I love fall and Christmas decorating. I mostly have things I truly love and look forward to seeing every year and don't go too overboard. But believe me by January I am soooo ready to get back to normal. I am trying to incorporate more room decor to reflect the season but I also find that once I get a room the way I want it I am very resistant to change. Maybe living in Southern California and lacking seasons adds to not feeling the need to change seasonal decor as much. 😘

[@kristineg9816]

When you toss the large decor beads, I will believe that you are reformed on buying trendy items.🙂

[@fancycat]

And Tom Ford....

[@shawnamahan3676]

Yes!

[@kendratea]

I love the way you approach seasonal decorating. But, Valentina, where do you keep all the things that are out of season? In that respect, I would love to learn about your home organization. Thank you for your awesome videos! :-) Good thoughts, Kendra

[@mr.a.]

I want to know this too! Lol. I have way too much . And honestly I donate at least once a month! It’s constant cycle. We have three folks here and a dog.

[@SarahJones-un9xh]

Me too!

[@KimJimenez]

Same here!

[@marylut6077]

No one asked me, but I keep out-of-season decor in closed storage in the home office, I donate if no more space. I only decorate with meaningful collected items, not mass produced

[@DecoratingTheShackWithEthan]

yes! organization ideas please 😍

[@anitas5817]

I couldn’t agree more about seasonal vs holiday decor. I still do my Christmas tree and a garland on the front door for Christmas, but otherwise changing the textiles and what’s in the cases feels more authentic and connected to me as well. In my fairly open floor plan, we can see the Christmas tree from everywhere and it’s enough.

[@jocelynevaillancourt7573]

This video was really useful. I would like to see your plates and mugs for every day in your kitchen. Maybe, a video about your arrangement in that room. LOVE YOU VIDEO!!!

[@fayejordan175]

Loved this video! I’ve gone more minimalistic in my home also. It does feel more calming. I stopped doing coffee table books and put books away. I will still put out the seasonal decor for holidays, but it’s fairly minimal and I enjoy it. I plan to try to eliminate stuff I store that I don’t really love. I doubt my kids want it either! My goal is to “Marie Kondo” my entire home! You have all great tips! The “one off” tip made me put a pillow from one of my sofas in the donation box this morning! I don’t like small art either!

[@SS-xo6oj]

I loved this video! I keep feeling like I need to decorate more because of social media but I personally want to keep the paired back look

[@marthainks2910]

It is so freeing to pair back. It’s relaxing.

[@kayelle8005]

Ugh. As a lifetime avid reader with thousands of actual books I can’t comprehend why anyone would buy a fake book.

[@patriciakeegan4228]

I love the way you decorate your home…and I also love the way we decorate ours! I hang out with you because you give me inspiration and challenge me to do a better job. And while I love to change things up seasonally, I also like simplifying things. I totally agree with your thoughts on one-offs, I like sets too. And I like the ideas you give us on adding texture and changing it up seasonally. I like both big art and small art. I seem to have perfect places for both…and some things have a high degree of meaning and won’t be leaving our home anytime soon! I must be a Gemini at heart. Anyway, I do enjoy your videos and thank you for sharing. ♥️

[@carmencarrillo1862]

Great information Valentina!! I love changing my decor as well and have been trying to get rid of some extra stuff I don’t need. Just keeping what I enjoy looking at and special to me. Thanks for sharing . ❤️

[@yourconnection9303]

I'm with you on everything you touched on in this video. Less is more. It's like you can even breathe and think clearer without so many smaller items, including mismatched items. As for seasonal decor, I've got away from that, but I still appreciate seeing other people's home decorated in seasonal decor when it's done with style.

[@paulortiz2035]

Most all of my everyday dishes are one offs. Or 2s or 3s. Each piece has a particular memory. A salad plate from Aunt Olga, a bowl from my neighbor, a cup and saucer from grandmum. Later today I'm having lunch off a plate from my mother's sister, June! Odd, one of a kind, mismatched pieces? Yup! Love each and every one! Should you need, or require, all matchy-matchy dishes..... please go to a restaurant! It will save both of our blood presures from going sky high! -------- I recently invited someone for dinner. "Who else is coming?" and "What are you having!?" were asked before answering. And my neighbor is 94, so he certainly knows better! And he certainly wasn't brought up that way! Someone wants to complain about my dishes.... "the front door is in that direction"! Absolutely impossible to have a dinner party anymore! Who is coming? Really? What are you serving!??? How boorish can you get?

[@yourconnection9303]

@@paulortiz2035 I can also appreciate the different peices of dishes people had given to them over time which they value. Some are very unique.

[@willsx2]

Great list! I agree with everything except the one off art pieces. I think art is something you should buy what you love when you find it and it will work. Maybe it is because I tend to be drawn to consistent color palettes. The biggest problem I have is where to hang pieces because everything I buy works in so many different areas of my home because of that palette. That being said, I 100% agree that lots of small art pieces look busy and take away from the impact. I have tons of built-in bookshelves so I do have a few special small pieces tucked in them but never on the walls

[@daphneroman9163]

I have not that small art but small but I custom frame in big frames and it has work very well to enhance the piece. It has to be done by someone with lots of experience with fine art.

[@lisagorman2480]

In total agreement with you regarding "fast home fashion" in places like Target. I stopped "popping in" to Target every week and I noticed how much less I spent on each week!

[@Beajacks]

Oh Valentina, your so lovely. Its brilliant how much of yourself you share with us all, as though we were all friends of yours. Totally agree with the sizeing up. I had a large painting given to me some years ago and I leant it against a small wall, just for now thinking to put in in another larger space. Then I realised, yes! this was the space to put it. Putting large items in small spaces work and as you say, not having a cluttered look, with lots of small stuff definitely calms the mind. Thankyou for sharing all your wonderful tips with us, you are definitely a kindred spirit ❤x

[@jerriflowers8579]

Great video as usual, love your advice on most design. I don't see me giving up my love of Christmas anytime soon. Quality decorations and some fun ones too. Decorating for Christmas brings me great joy. The rest of the year a hint of color change, fabric textures and plants/blooms.

[@forgivemore4488]

Love this. You have totally inspired me, and confirmed how I have been viewing home decor, as of late. Thank you. You're so inspiring and cheerful! God bless!

[@julieoblouk7332]

I love you and Jack - such a cute couple! I’ve spent years “curating” my mid century decor and I have a lot of glass and various antique items that I love. But I also feel that it’s too much visually, and I’ve been trying to edit and pare down my home. I’ve shown my husband (who doesn’t really care about decor) your home and also some pages out of Jenni Kayne’s Pacific Natural At Home book and his first word to describe both was “calm”. So, you inspire me! We all want to have a calm home and visually overstimulating spaces don’t help!

[@nancypoindexter2781]

Love this! I follow so many people on Instagram and always think where in the world do they keep all this stuff they are always buying and showing. It’s taken me many years to realize, I don’t have to keep up and that truly in decor and peace of mind, less is more! Thank you for sharing this content. I hope you will share more along this line.

[@christesharp2854]

Love it! Once I fell in love with RH, I adapted their less is more minimal luxury principles and it is sooooo freeing ❤️❤️❤️. But I’m a black/white design girl, and love the way you are so real about how to achieve your style!

[@viviennewright7868]

Love your channel V. I love home decor and completely agree with you regarding seasonal decor. You seem a lovely family and your enthusiasm is tangible. I cannot wait till your next video. Great conwnt thank you so much, and Jack xx

[@aniazurek7258]

I love your emphasis on less but better! That concept actually leaves you feeling better all around. Less overwhelm while still feeling inspired. We have a similar approach to our home decor and I find that I actually use, love, and appreciate our things more when there’s less. Great video V! Xx

[@kerrywitcher8163]

I absolutely love your style and ever since I discovered you, I watch all of your KZbin videos and lives on Amazon. I have learned so much from you and appreciate the time you take to teach us these things. I would love to see how you would style dark furniture like a black sofa 💜

[@OlgaRodriguez-qw5bc]

I am so in agreement with the seasonal decor. At one point, I thought I was depressed or something since I no longer like it! I got rid of all my fall decor and only do a Christmas tree and like you said.. change for the season with pillows, curtains and materials. Love your style! Really enjoy your videos!

[@PizzaRoyalty]

Completely agree with your seasonal suggestions. I started incorporating seasonal items with my decor …organically… years ago. 🧡

[@alenatorres7071]

Wow, this is a great list! I have a 5 and 3 year old, so different season of life/style. But I can definitely incorporate these tips. Thank you!

[@carolefox6553]

Go deep, Valentina. Go deep. I love to hear your personal 'Whys'. And, I love everything you said about books. I've always been a big reader and I use some books as decor because they're more accessible AND they express who I am. The same goes for when I'm in other homes... I'm always intrigued by the books I find there. Thank you again for your great advice.

[@Belleabooful]

I too reflected on the stuff I have back in December when we moved into our new home. I realized I had so many great things that I didn’t need to add more. Yes, lots of stuff is beautiful, but I don’t need it.

[@briore3856]

YES! We are here because we want to emulate your style. And, frankly, because you're super fun to hang out with! Thanks for the light and joy you bring to the world. I love when you go deep and talk about your philosophy behind design. You introduced me to the idea that design facilitates vibrancy in life. That resonated so deeply and I often think about it when I am working on my own spaces. Cheers!!

[@paulortiz2035]

Yes, nothing brings light and joy to the world quite like black, dark greys and white/cream/beige!!! The poor children! The parents are afraid of colors. Got it!!!

[@paulortiz2035]

Taking about what she did/does and why is one thing. But telling others what to do or not do is really getting way to preachy for me. Perhaps she should stick with 'I' more and not over use the pronoun 'you' . Not a fan of being told what to do by strangers. Dictates are not a real viable form of communication. Usually.

[@jeanettesperry8351]

Love you and Jack. I'm not quite ready to stop decorating for seasonal/holidays, however, I am trying to scale back. Trying to move away from trends as well and buying only functional items I can use and get rid of things I don't use. See you Friday.

[@whiteoakinteriorstudio8232]

I just love you Valentina...your videos are always sooo good!! I agree with all of these things you've mentioned and I've stopped buying them as well. Thanks for sharing💗

[@RosemarieSKikel]

I love, love the direction that you are going....less is more ! Can't wait to see you implement this style !

[@jrmerkle]

I so enjoy you and your decorating ideas. And I love your positivity. Hubby is supportive & a hoot!

[@martymcgrady5535]

I love some seasonal décor except for neutral and natural pieces that are timeless. I also love to thrift and go antiquing for pieces that fit nicely with a modern home. I do decorate my bar and my coffee area for the holidays and it is super fun.

[@sandramulchahey8268]

I love this video, I have stopped shopping unless I absolutely need something and the only time I change out decor is Christmas 🎄

[@patwilkinson2182]

Hope you get to 300,000 this week. Cheering you on. Thanks for letting us know what we shouldn't buy! ❤️ Happy Sunday!

[@dks5927]

I got rid of ALL my one offs and sanity was restored! I am using white as the base color for all cups, plates, serving ware etc. and it is so much better. I add pops of color as needed and most are neutrals.

[@jennifer_freitas]

Such a practical and informative video. I related to all of this!

[@heatherparker9820]

I love all my “small books” it shows who I am as a person the same as the big display books. I have noticed the trend to turn your books around or make them color coded etc. as if books are an eyesore. As for everything else, I totally agree.

[@amyp8187]

Yes, I think all books are beautiful. Color grouping or not showing rhe spines or covers is just ridiculous. I don't like big showy books. Too hard to handle. Too each his own, I suppose.

[@thebeauty_minimalist]

So excited for you to hit 300k! 🎉 I totally agree with not buying one-offs and small objects. But I have to say, I love displaying all my books like trophies!

[@nml1930]

I’ve been catching up on episodes I’ve missed. This was a really good one! I had never heard of fake books 😮. I love what you are saying. I get stressed by too much stuff & I need the calm of things that work well together. I’m sure you feel much better ditching your previous ways. ❤😊

[@amylolois]

I agree with you on all topics and thankfully I have stopped buying most everything you mentioned and I find myself clearing and cleaning the one odd pieces. I must say that is really difficult when for so many years I have been chasing dreams of an eclectic English inspired interior. I am slowly getting rid of so many things and some of it is so hard to get rid of. I think there is fear that I will regret it. I am working on getting there where I want to be. Sometimes I look back at different combos and decor that I created and think, Wow, that was beautiful. I am finding that I feel peace of mind with a limited colour palette and I am craving order, elegance and simplicity. Oh, I love your space by the way, so yes I think I need to bite the bullet and just continue to get rid of all those bits and bobs. Thank you for another great video.

[@brendadyck4759]

Great video!!! I totally agree with you.

[@carolineruivo6342]

your passion for interior design is so lovely and inspiring!! you look very refreshed and relaxed valentina :)

[@gregtowner704]

I am also designer. I too disagree about the grommets. I think they capture the minimal look with a touch of “jewelry” and gives a bit of texture to a room without making it look cold and bland, something for the eye to look at. I agree with you about the big art and I do see a big piece of art above your fireplace. I also can see a bit of a splash of color in pillows.

[@04Katie1]

Me to! My house looks so much different and I love it!

[@lindalussier5067]

I agree with your approach to seasonal decorating, with maybe somewhat of an exception for Christmas. While I will never do Santas and snowmen, elves and such, I do bring out a red theme. I have red, silk and velvet pillow covers for the pillows on the couch, a red table runner for the dining table, cranberries that I put around the candles in my hurricane lamps, etc.. Otherwise, I do it all with fabrics , the type of florals, and things of that nature.

[@elisabethgrace9680]

Loved this one, V!! You are soo close to 300k - I’ve shared your channel w a few friends.. it’s too good not to share!! Keep creating awesome content - this is my fav channel 💯

[@alisoncooper1864]

Good to watch your video. I also only have things that I really love in my house. Less is more ! I do have some lovely things and people always comment on how restful my house is .

[@oliviaedwards7875]

Amen! As I get older, I need a simpler, calmer environment. I agree completely - avoid those impulse one off purchases, seasonal (i.e.pumpkin) decor, etc. Keeping our traditional pieces for the holidays but skipping all the other "stuff". I find keeping the key items that I love and moving them around the house as the seasons change keeps the decor fresh and gives me inspiration. The one thing I might never stop buying is candles :) Thanks for this great video and the validation to be content with fewer, quality, meaningful items in our homes.

[@tamic193]

Totally guilty of the seasonal decor. Mostly fall (pumpkins) and Christmas! I have a tiny home but put up 3 trees!🤣 I have tried to move towards decorating with pillows, throws, curtains, but what helps is pillow covers so I can use the same pillows, but just replace the covers.

[@frazzledthoughts1308]

Thank you! I too have been "moving on" the small pieces and refining my home. It has felt so cluttered as I have downsized. I just don't need all the STUFF!

[@jankelly8169]

I totally agree . I am into natural items .My brother lives in northern Wisconsin and every year brings down a truckload of pine branches that I use for Christmas.I love it . Simple is best

[@crystalrosenberger4221]

When you say curtains with rings, do you mean grommets? If so we have some very nice drapes with high quality grommets that are beautiful…don’t remind me of a showers curtain at all.

[@maipham4766]

Thank you so much for your tips and professional knowledge so helpful Valentina ❤️❤️❤️ completely obsessed with it

[@Otmani777]

You are amazing and thank you so much for this great video. I was looking for curtains but i was not sure which ones i need to order until i came across your video!! You just made my day❤

[@sofiataveras9241]

Thanks Valentina for the knowledge and entusiasm that you share with us in every video🥰

[@hangingwithjen]

I think as my kiddo has gotten older (teenager), we've begun to decorate for the seasons a bit differently. I think as our "season of life" changes and evolves, so does our decor style. The HOW and WHAT we decide to surround ourselves with, evolves as we grow older. Great video HOV!

[@liliacollazo7394]

Thank you Valentina for a well prepared content. Well expressed with honesty. Thank you!

[@cloverazar5315]

Congratulations on the milestone, V. It’s been a treat following you for the past few years, and you deserve all the successes to come. And if nothing else, your advice has probably saved me thousands in setting up my first home, so I appreciate you sharing your expertise with us!

[@mrsverovalera]

You’ve mastered the seasonal decorating approach. It looks way more put together and high end looking. I leave the kitschy stuff for my childrens room…they love it, I get what I like… it’s a win, win.

[@deniseb7013]

Great video!

[@brenmanock]

Love you style sense. I’m right there with you except I have a small house in the PNW and not much storage I also dislike the seasonal chachkies.

[@Dian2Gig]

When I first moved to a suburb in NC I was into the seasonal decor because everyone in our small town was. Now that I’m in my 60’s I’ve started to become a minimalist and only investing in things that bring me joy. My avatar says it all. 😊 BTW Valentina, I love the black base cabinets in your kitchen area. I have black base and alabaster wall cabinets in mine. 👍🏼

[@lizettenoguera9183]

So excited for you, almost 300K!!! Congrats!!!!!

[@elizabethduffy2145]

The only holiday I really go all out for is Christmas, but part of the joy of it is having collected really special ornaments over the years. My tree is covered in things I've collected while travelling, other things for the mantel were handed down from my family. The only thing I buy new for the season now is real foliage wreathes or garlands because I can't resist the smell of a real evergreens. But I agree in the main that seasonal changes have more impact - when the blankets come out we know we're in cosy mode. But I also bring out a lot more lights - more fairy lights, more candles, extra lamps. Having the winter lights in place also makes it a little bit less depressing when all the Christmas stuff suddenly comes down.

[@selmaleoahlip1752]

Thanks so much. You inspire and enlighten me. 👏

[@HouseofValentina]

You are so welcome!

[@nataliefisher1202]

Hi Valentina, I really enjoy watching you and Jack. Enjoy your designs and understand where you are coming from. That being said, everyone should decorate with what makes them happy. Unless my clients said to me that they love my style and want me to imitate that to an extent with them, I will do it. The end result is they are living there not me. So guiding them to make tasteful choices in their style is important! There are so many styles I love that I have to say…I love yours, also love color and gorgeous coordinated patterns and some antiques mixed in also! Large art trulymakes a statement and that is needed but a grouping of similar art like botanicals put together say two over two to fill the wall is lovely too. Decorating for the holidays makes me happy…not overdone! Styles come in and out. Minimalist is in for awhile then people tire of it and decorate a bit busier and things thoughtfully placed that make you happy! Then it goes around again! I love yours because it is artfully done but love many other styles also…Less is More and More is More! Love it all when tastefully done!

[@Asphodel27one]

Great advice. “Less is more” definitely has helped me - and I love my big art!

[@daynacartier8641]

You are such a joy to watch ❤️ I have learned so much from you and love your style. I am slowly redoing my space to what brings me joy ( too bad I just bought those exact ring curtains from IKEA two weeks ago though that you were talking about…lol….but I loved the simple cream white and the feel of them… but now seeing your pics I see why the others are more luxurious looking…..unfortunately I can’t return them….it is too far away from my home…anyway I digress 😂) I truly look forward to seeing you and Jack every week. You make me smile ( from way up here in Canada). Thank you, and until next time 😊

[@mads6847]

Loved everything apart from the last bit, you are killing me😭 I love my books (unfashionable as they may be), and will be keeping them even if it makes my living room look less curated.

[@marionwhittemore4352]

Very smart video and I totally agree. Spend your money on experiences, not more stuff for your home.

[@pamela3213]

Just realized I have had the same velvet curtains as you. I Love them and keep the black in my bedroom up all year. The rest I have are ivory and they're perfect 🤍🖤💫

[@lindacgrace2973]

I, too have lived overseas. And, yes, holiday-themed decor is definitely an American thing. I go for it on Christmas; I put up lights, light-up angels in the front yard, candles in the windows, garland, stockings on the mantel, and a tree. I do not go so far as to have holiday-themed dinner plates or tacky sayings on cheap throw pillows. Santa never enters the picture. I put a pumpkin out on Halloween and use one as a centerpiece on Thanksgiving. Easter gets loads of spring flowers and the traditional basket of red hard-boiled eggs. I put bunting on the front porch for the 4th of July and that's pretty much it. It is too expensive and too cumbersome for me to do anything more. I also think that most themed decor is pretty tacky.

[@olga8p1]

I loooove Xmas and Halloween decor, in Europe we do not celebrate Halloween so to me it is absolute fun and tickles my inner child. And Christmas is such a great holiday, especially if your kids are little. I definitely do not invest in holiday themed kitchen items or dinnerware but kitchen towels. I have white and wooden plates and serving dishes that is so easy to style all year round

[@soniagutierrez9867]

Omg do a pantry tour!! I loooveeee those videos and I can imagine yours is stunning and functional

[@bugsbunny2357]

Last year I took out knick knacks and substituted with more lamps. I quit buying pumpkins and santas a few years ago and tried to up level my every day decor. It's still a work in progress trying to declutter (and stay decluttered).

[@cynthiapittard4086]

I agree re seasonal decor......finally reached that point.

[@barbarahuff117]

We like the words of wisdom. You guys keep sharpening the point. Thanks favorite.

[@lytxn1453]

Watching this today reminds me of buying only one (why???) black sculptural (got that word from you) candleholder. As you can guess, now that I want to put cool stuff on my new dining table, I cannot find the same candleholder and have searched everywhere with no luck. I can't even find one that will mix well with the other one, which I really love!! Lesson learned!! Love your videos and style!

[@carlamccall8271]

This was a really good one! Minimal and sophisticated…high quality items..totally speaks to the design style that I appreciate! Authentic! thank you!

[@suelong5031]

I just love you, girl!! You are always right on the money!💕

[@TG-sm6gu]

Thanks for the video Valentina! Will you restart the month by month series? It was so fun.

[@gaylevoelker5179]

Hi Valentina Just had to tell you that I just donated a whole back car full of much of my Christmas decor! I put the seats down and packed the car, and I am not done yet! I agree, I am over it! Especially taking it all down and packing it away when the holiday is over! Some of these items were probably 10 to 20 years ago, I have really simplified my style! I also agree with the small art. Great video, I always love your videos, and taking us on your trips, and even locally with some or all of your children are so enjoyable, your family is so sweet!

[@moiramarriott4403]

New subscriber. Love your house ...I have always switch things around for change of seasons ... agree of buying oddments of themes .. I change colour not buy in tat ..

[@bonniefuller858]

I so agree with you on the curtains...I am definitely on a budget, but I would definitely save and get those curtains...it has been something I have been looking for, and not satisfied with the results until I saw your video today...it’s the curtains...it’s about drawing them back and feeling the wonderful feeling of velvet without the pomp and circumstance...actually kind of minimalist but quietly grand..I want to find those curtains, I guess...thanks for the video ...

[@rebamoon4965]

I agree...I use ribbon, throws and pillows, candles and holders and some foliage, and a wreath. Works great! No more small art, use statement pieces of art to make an impact.

[@unframedarts5378]

That one really made me think, and yes, buying one off and small things, is something I'm guilty of too. I will be taking that on board going forward. Thanks.

[@marylut6077]

V, so proud of you for taming your “haul” beast…I think you will find it is emotional freeing. 🖤

[@ilonaaponyi4755]

Love your content! But I would love to see more reveals of actual projects you did! thanks

[@nasevedodge2551]

Wow lets celebrate 🎉 your success....not a total surprise how you and Jack t sharing the laughter with all your journey is so inspirational how you share and open your home with laughter but able to give out great ideas Love your journey keep smiling beautiful 💕👏👏🎉🍸

[@michelebradley7813]

😂 🎄 is my absolute FAVORITE holiday, so that's a tough one! I've definitely downsized my Christmas decor inventory. When our kids were young & until the youngest was 20 y.o. we had at least five 6ft(+)Trees, I started collecting 🎅🏾 🎅🏾 🎅🏾 our 1st baby's 1st Christmas & every yr since. I stopped when he turned 18 & I've began gifting them to them a couple of yrs ago now that they're young adults & we became empty nesters/downsized. Your video has made me think long & hard on my next moves for Christmas future ❣️💯

[@marciabutler987]

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