How Do ESTJs Compare To ENTJs? | ESTJ vs ENTJ | CS Joseph

How do ESTJs compare to ENTJs? CS Joseph discusses ESTJ vs ENTJ.
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[@tiny_lion8477]

Thank you for being so positive about these types! I feel, in the MBTI community, a lot of people are very, unfairly, overwhelmingly negative about these types. You helped me realise that being an ESTJ is not a bad thing and I'm not an unfeeling robot who just bosses people around.

[@putritd3230]

Okay, I am an ENTJ woman. What pissed me off the most from my parents are they always tell me what to do. They raised me as if I am ESTJ. And anyway, I've always loved photography and poetry. I think your analysis is spot on. Thanks, this is very useful.

[@StyBekka]

Mine too. It’s really annoying being told what to do when you’ve done it or about to anw

[@Brxwn9]

When CS said, “parents treating their child as another MBTI type is terrible,” I realized that this saying has a lot of power. It’s terrible that people are treated and forcefully engrained to think one way that differs, even completely, to how they should naturally think. To who they truly are, and who they truly are meant to be.

[@StyBekka]

Watched this video 1 year later to find out I made the exact comment I want to make now 😂

[@sunset.orange]

This confirms my theory that President Snow from the Hunger Games is an ENTJ. ISFP subconscious: grows a rose garden and oh so stylish ESFJ superego: Hey come to my formal dinner oh btw it’s laced with poison

[@k.l.darling333]

Agreed! He’s my favorite character in THG. 🖤

[@meilei8716]

It took me aaaages to learn my type because I was confronted with a shadow response due to trauma early in life… I thought I was INTJ, enfj, entj, etc… even istp & estp! But my earliest memories of my natural self were verrry classic estj. The trauma spun me into an infp cultivation. I was literally water-fasting and deep into Tibetan Buddhism in my teens… I was great at helping others get to their inner truth, as a guide. But I hesitantly began to accept I’m estj at work (exacting quality control technician), home (judge, jury executioner of those who act outside of decency in an egregious manner) and aspirationally (USMC reservist officer hopeful). Others are repeatedly shocked at my memory and my severity in execution, but I do struggle with knowing I’m the character I already exude. It’s such an unexpected result.

[@nijisquish9034]

Omg you have no idea how much this video helped me... I tested as ENTJ and then ESTJ and I've been so confused and stressed about where I fall... but you've made me realise that I am indeed an ENTJ. You're explanations are so clear and understable compared to all of the very technical type of explanations. I love your use of real world examples. ♥️ You had me at short term memory and wanting things... lmao I hate it when people tell me what to do 🤡

[@CSJoseph]

You’re welcome. Please subscribe

[@VialofNMTears]

I’m so dead about the notes land. I’ve always been a crazy note taking person. Once I write things down I tend to keep it in memory. I also do so much that if I took a step back from my planner I think I’d die. I’ve always joked that my planner is my life line.

[@SaadetOZTRK]

i felt like you love ENTJs more.

[@CSJoseph]

lol no, I love INTJs more

[@SaadetOZTRK]

@@CSJoseph you were comparing Estjs and Entjs 😅

[@akhui5040]

I was about to google these 2 types and i found you here explaining the differences haha thank you😊

[@bobs344]

DUDE!, you f***in nailed it! i picked up a clip board to write that book title and you immediately say we need to write everything down. the betrayal anxiety, the F E demon unresponsive to others, actually incompetent at even guessing what to do with others feelings . IDK crazy good lecture!

[@ShadowQuik]

Lol DICs that’s quite a fitting acronym

[@erinpatchell]

ENTP here with an ESTJ 14 year old son... pray for me folks.

[@flexbabe1122]

Good luck!!

[@cratcliff8820]

ENTJ mom here with an ENTP husband, one ENTJ son and the other is an INFP. We have to throw everything we know about life out the window parenting him.

[@Faliat]

Pray for him, more like. Lol. I'm an ENTJ and my dad is an ENTP. He was always tearing down my systems and putting down my values and warnings when he was in my life. I could never get anything done between him and my ESFJ mother.

[@kimngandong]

He would be a very responsible, independent and reliable child. Good for you. - An ESTJ.

[@adrienneb5445]

Yay! I’m looking forward to reading this book.. Thank you!

[@CSJoseph]

You're welcome ^^

[@CuddleClaw.]

Excellent video! So interesting!

[@sapaajabolehhh]

To be honest I've been looking for an answer whether I'm an ESTJ or ENTJ, because I learn something new just by "connecting the dots" (Ni) and also I'm also constantly worried of my physical appearance (Si). As you said that ENTJ are very vulnerable to this "covert contract" trap and you explained it a little bit, I realize "I subconsciously do it all the time." That's why I'm constantly quickly disappointed with people I've just met. I really regret it and give my best to not do it anymore. Also I have an pretty bad long-term memory, so reminders, alarm clocks, and my notes are my best buddies I can't live without. As I only have Te, I need people with Ti to help me digesting some deep information. Now I know that I'm ENTJ.. Thank you so much, Chase. You've got a new subscriber! cheers! :)

[@ShadowQuik]

Ni trickster is real for ESTJ. I know a couple of them who think they’ve figured out the right field to study in and then they just keep switching it cause I guess they realize it wasn’t right for them.

[@LDT7Y]

We can't know how we will feel/react to a situation until we've actually experienced it. So being asked to pre-guess whether we will enjoy a career is impossible for us. I had to just temp in about 15 different fields in my 20s before I found the right one for me. Then study in my free time to get the required qualifications for that career path. There was no way I could have known I'd enjoy it until I actually did it.

[@pyosomemore6383]

Woah... i thought for the longest time estjs were finishers... i guess not

[@cherishtheday2223]

@@LDT7Y Okay, reading your reply, I think that I am an ESTJ. I'll be so hopeful of something being for me, but once I test it out it's just completely not for me. I've been telling myself to just try out a million different occupations and different partners since I've noticed this pattern in my life. I'm learning more about personality types so that I can "figure out who I am" and "figure out what I want." Now I'm unsure if that'll even help or if I'll need to continue field testing instead.

[@LDT7Y]

@@pyosomemore6383 Smaller projects, yes, as we can see what needs doing. But 'bigger' concepts like careers have too many unknowns.

[@beverlykwok9704]

Omg… this is so true it hurts… I am an ESTJ and I feel this so much

[@ocho8172]

Excellent. Thank you!

[@Melissa-ld8fz]

Thank u so much for understanding types and making this series. I’m so relieved to finally be getting accurate information about what the fuck is going on inside people.

[@thetrimreaper1019]

Awww damn im number 8 on the comments, bummer. Anywho, great stuff C.J.!! Keep at it brother, hard work truly does pay off. Peace buddy! 🤙🤙🤙

[@gorxor]

That was very helpful, again. I did a test once that came out with ESTJ whereas the majority of MBTIs / Neo came out with ENTJ. Besides being the DIC at my working life, I am a musician. So, clarified now. Great

[@valentynabelofsky9374]

can't wait for the romantic compatibility lectures

[@CSJoseph]

They are coming!

[@valentynabelofsky9374]

Thanks! BTW, your videos have taught me so much about people that I didn't know before

[@ijmimi9186]

Yay! I requested this video and I'm glad to see it's finally up. Can you do an ISTJ vs INTJ comparison and ISFP vs INFP comparison? Gracias!

[@CSJoseph]

Yes, those are all scheduled

[@ernestogamez9300]

I got my telescope ready for this one!😎 Someone needs to make a cool intro for his videos! He deserves it!

[@penta4568]

Just found your channel. I think you are hilarious and it’s funny that you have really long videos cause you should know ENTPs don’t like long videos but ENTPs also like to talk so I see why you have long videos I don’t mind though cause I can put you in 1.5x speed. Also I knew you’d have playlists so I can first learn about myself(entp) before learning about the other types. And I’m sure you’re gonna be through in your analysis which is super nice.

[@mireilleuribe2999]

[26:47] is the story of my life.. even though I’m an estp, estjs think I’m quirky af but the entjs seem to always seek my friendship on a daily basis

[@danielwo106]

This video was freakin' informative! Thank you! Daniel, ENTJ

[@CSJoseph]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@epicgeek9147]

Very great and very helpful video sir 😉😉😉

[@spammail3026]

This should be added to the ESTJ and ENTJ playlists

[@christiecochran18]

What people don’t understand about ExTJs is we demand respect. We work hard for other people constantly and we earn respect. If you disrespect us expect to be disrespected in return. Fi inferior will not allow for anyone to make us feel bad. We need empathy and emotional validation; it’s not a want it’s out greatest need. This is not the same thing as giving advice. If you are trying to be “nice” keep in mind, Empathy or sympathy is not an excuse to assert yourself on people. That’s a selfish covert contract. Unless you are asked what do you think, what do you want, how do you feel, or what is your experience in a similar situation keep it to yourself. Don’t make us feel worse by disrespecting us by insinuating we are incompetent or stupid when we just feel bad by default. Expect us to escalate in anger. If your not sure how to validate feelings leave Fi inferior alone or unfortunately you will have to deal with rage. We would rather isolate than be overwhelmed emotionally but if you provoke Fi inferior to anger expect intense anger. If you want your inferior function respected by us give us the same courtesy.

[@jesssc402]

A lot of y’all are rude af tho. Demanding respect but extremely rude and you dont even know y’all are being rude. It’s never an ExTJ’s fault 🙄

[@bradeye1133]

​@@jesssc402fe demon has no issues looking down on people lol. Its a huge issue. The best Te heroes are taught to properly value and be grateful from a young age. They MUST make it one of their core principles to combat fe demon's bs. From my experience out of more famous people, the best fe demon i spotted was for Gordan Ramsay. I wouldnt mind at all if he yelled at me and shit. Cause ik hes doing it out of a place of love. He genuinely appreciates u when u do well, and is just a great dude overrall

[@billgreen7519]

Rather interesting.. Thank you 🙏 now I know that my memory is okay. I have long been worried about my memory capacity and that is why I usualy cary two small notepads in my blazer. One contains my to-do list with key objectives/critical path and one contains some decision rules that I have developed over the years and also as idea pad. These two notepads are my survival kits, physical made of paper and yes I like it simple and old school. 😄👍

[@cody3504]

Speaking of facts. Im currently enrolled in sociology class basically where we look at statistics and so many people in my class are offended by the facts of the area they grow up in. Like it's the FACTS!! You can't argue against the facts!!!

[@realSimoneCherie]

Agree with everything and YES thank you for the conversation on memory - I am completely dependent on my technology to manage my personal relationships. I literally have a salesforce so I can remember people's birthdays or kids' births or whatever just because people are so sensitive when you forget these things and I do need relationships to be successful but man - I can't even attempt to store that type of shit in my head on my own Listen to an ESTJ tell a story and it will take forever. They'll start at the beginning, tell you everything including the unimportant things. An ENTJ will tell you the point of the story first -then, in telling you the story they'll only share the pieces of the story that support the point. ESTJ will tell you the day of the week or time of day it was when it's entirely irrelevant to the point. Both types hate incompetence, but ENTJ's are especially impatient - we like to make decisions, and make them once, ESTJ's are more thorough decision-makers, but do not like moving forward as fast as we do. Finally, ENTJ's Ni questions authority - often undermines authority - ESTJ's SI is more likely to respect authority and defer to authority.

[@tbmcnation]

34:06 - 35:24 lmaooo that is EXACTLY what happened to me with an ENTJ. he kept using things that he did to help me (sometimes even unsolicited) as guilt-tripping ammo. then things grew out of control and he became increasingly entitled to my resources (emotional and otherwise) until the relationship became very severely imbalanced. it was super dysfunctional lol

[@careglow7669]

always enjoy your information alot, very helpful and understandable I just get it when you explain things

[@CSJoseph]

you're welcome ^^

[@Anita-silver]

As an ESTJ, this needing to be told what to do is too familiar and a source of great stress for me. I have this going in several areas of my life. I will ask someone who I feel is an expert or someone I respect about what to do and then collect several more opinions. Then the opinions contradict each other or putting them into play ends up not feeling right for me and I'm left with over thinking and chaos in my head not knowing where to turn. Adults shouldn't have to rely on others for the answer to everything. I want to be able to trust myself but as you say, I don't know what I want. What's the answer? What makes this more confusing is that there are areas of my life that I very much know what I want. I always know were I want to go to dinner and what kind of house I want to live in for instance.

[@CSJoseph]

watch all of season 16

[@Anita-silver]

@@CSJoseph Thanks - will check those out. I'm finding your content so valuable as you bring forward issues in type that other's haven't.

[@maylynbayani]

Same! After graduating in Uni, ai have no idea what to do. I even told my friend I hope there is a step by step manual in life to be successful so I can proceed with doing that efficiently. I was basically waiting for someone to tell me what to do next so I can do it exceptionally well. I have always been dutiful to what my parents wanted and all I know is that I have to excel but i never stopped and asked myself if I wanted it. In general, i just want financial success. What makes me happy has always been trivial to me. Alas, life is not like that and I had to go through a lot of mjstakes before becoming successful. However, i am thankful of the experience because I can now mentor my younger siblings on how to manage their career better.

[@tajmarie1329]

@18:11 I have seldom heard Ni described as such since I have presumed from others that it is a perceiving function. To be specific, I had gathered from other sources that Ni is for pattern recognition and the Te function is mostly about effectiveness and efficiency towards a perceived objective. However, you seem to be describing Ni as a pathfinder function. Also, this is the first time I have heard Ni described as memorty of the future which is cool. . . never thought of it that way, but it make sense. For fashion advice, you should continue wearing your shirt in the same manner with one button loose. That seems to be the best look for you 👍👌.

[@CSJoseph]

It actually is one button loose but these shirts are like too tight!

[@gregson8533]

I just found out i'm a ESTJ and your videos are very informative and entertaining, Just subscribed!! What is your discord? Would love to join some time.

[@CSJoseph]

the link should be in hte video description :)

[@marc-andrebrodeur8324]

Interesting video Chase, i’m always trying to figure out if my GF is ESTJ or ENTJ. The Se critic part does resonate with her, she always notice if something is wrong with my look,but the problem is she does seems to have Ne critics too... she can have bad prejudice about peoples intention.She as a great long term memory (Si) but can be the life of the party and does enjoy being the center of attention (Se). We have a friend who is ESTJ and my GF always said, she’s like me but with a stick up her ass. I don’t know if she is a ESTJ with a healthy Ne or an ENTJ with a very down to earth Ni

[@yassinhassan1778]

Yes, I know what you mean.

[@RyuMasterEX]

On the outside the Te hero makes it a tough one to notice any differences

[@deborahbroadway1958]

Yep, I’ve been called a Dic before. Different kind though. 🤣

[@donells.6458]

“and I’m like... YEAH I do exist!”😂

[@EarlyBird792]

I like how you keep mentioning DISC.

[@yogs8280]

"They are afraid that they are a bad people, they are afraid that they not human enough" Exactly 😭, I usually said to my ENFJ friend : "Am I less empathic? Im sorry if I am, I really want to but I have no idea about what they really feel" And when there is one of my teammate which hard to be contacted, the first think that come to my mind is wondering wether I less human on treating my teammates? Actually I really want to be warm person who could comfort others, but yah, I think its ok not to force that side, alhamdulillah one of my best teammate is a warm person so I could believe her to build that atmosphere

[@smile6889]

Thank You,

[@luissardina6710]

This is pure gold - ENTJ here

[@SavaNedev]

I'm conflicted. 1) Although I feel more like an ESTJ (being interested in the philosophy of things), before I discovered all the self-development stuff, it's almost as if I was astonished by the art of things - for example, every detail when it comes to basketball and physical exercising. 2) However, I discovered self-dev before even turning 16, is it possible that through nurture I've become an ESTJ? Duty and self-discipline have really been key in my upbringing, almost as if bestowed upon me by my parents and I'm definitely someone who loves routines. 3) I do indeed like being told what to do (as I like seeking all the opportunities first before committing to one), but I remember as a kid and even now at 21 years of age I hated being told what to do, especially things that I didn't WANT to do, which I find is a bit of a paradox. 4) I can definitely see myself as an INFP, but I feel that as a kid I used to see myself as more of an ISFP. I was very turned off by everything that sounded "spiritual".

[@yustinushalim8661]

Thank you for sharing my stories so far I know myself as an ESTJ as well. I can relate to all of your stories. I also can get kinda obsessed on looking at details on things I feel comforted with, example: basketball. I am glad that I get to meet another ESTJ as well. Cheers from Indonesia.

[@djgranville]

We, my friend, sound like the same person. Lol.

[@YEDxYED]

Considering you said “I like being told what to do,” an INFP is probably not you

[@xandirkuro4790]

which types are the "If I get the time, I might as well do the crime" ones ? Pragmatic ones?

[@jennahudson3420]

I want to officially get typed but I typed as an INTJ but especially after this, I am more convinced I’m an ENTJ and I keep breaking apart the functions. My bro typed as an ESTJ. My daughter online typed as and ISFP and my son online typed as an INFJ but I think he’s an INFP or INTP... I’m not sure but we are new on our MBTI journey... I WILL figure this out. Lol 😂

[@CSJoseph]

You visually look like an ENTJ

[@raylin2057]

"Or you could just communicate " lol ill keep that in mind. You were on fire today. Hey! Is there a way to determine the type of a 3 year old? I'd like to use the info if it's out there. And if it's not out there, you should make it so.

[@CSJoseph]

Use the type grid, and be aware of how it manifests, which is explained in my first q & a session.

[@raylin2057]

C.S. Joseph thank you sir!

[@michelleschaefer683]

I love your channel so much! Will there ever be a 'Are ENTPs und ENTJs compatible' video? My girlfriend is an ENTP and we're really into MBTI and most of the time I can't find any good content on the real question if our personality types are compatible. It's only comparisons and not really people going into how the types would interact with one another. It's really bugging me.

[@CSJoseph]

Yes but in season 14 found here: csjoseph.life/members

[@michelleschaefer683]

@@CSJoseph Thanks!

[@Researcher9868]

Mmm. I took the test a couple of times and got ENTJ but once I got ESTJ on another test. In this whole lecture I was leaning to one then to the other one. Still pretty confused on it to the point I want to say I'm both. 😑🥴

[@HobDobson]

ESTJs get frustrated with ENTPs? Can't imagine how that could happen. FWIW, @38:38 psychometry

[@boogieap3617]

It’s almost comedic imagining the Entp I know and the estj I know ,who I go to for reference points for the two types, interacting with each other

[@markrittman2437]

I'm an INTP and trying to figure out if my fiance is an ESTP or ENTP. Even though she often likes to advise me about my appearance, I'm thinking ENTP because she often asks me to remind her of what day my birthday is. I'm thinking an Si parent wouldn't forget my birthday, but an Si trickster would. She also is very future oriented, as Ni parent would suggest.

[@raulsanz7120]

"Don't become the target of their nuclear option"... good advice! ;-)

[@Entyipo]

You talk about how SJs especially SFJs live the longest but what is the statistic for the other types? Like is it more type specific based or based on how much Si a person has?

[@romain6063]

Thanks! It helped me figure out my father is an ESTJ, have you got any advice for an ISFP with an ESTJ father?

[@mzi668]

you are screwed - ENTJ

[@moonshoestarkid]

as an infp living with my estj mother...it’s ALWAYS combative...

[@maylynbayani]

Im an ESTJ and thank goodness I can always repress my impulsivity. However, I always wanted to be an ENTJ.

[@mahamkhan3388]

So there’s one website that tells me I’m an ESTJ and several of the rest say ENTJ. Your video about ENTJs was like a genius picture of me recognising things even I had never recognised. I’m conflicted too. But a big and I mean big part of me just can’t live with the fact that there’s a possibility that I’m an ESTJ. Almost as if it’s defeat. I’d very much appreciate it if you’d clear me on that. Feel free to ask anything that’d help you understand. Although I must confess when I first attempted the test on the website it said ESTJ, I worked on developing my Ni function which was already ~half developed. There is one certainty though. I can’t be told what to do. I like to have my options. Sometimes to the limit that I become a rebel. And when the pressure is high and I have no choice, I would end up ignoring the whole situation and do something I shouldn’t be doing just to I guess confirm to myself that no I do have options. Which is very twisted.

[@gabepetro358]

I e always tested entj in the past. Now recently estj and I feel the same way. Lol. It's annoying. I'm the poster child for an entj female. And I also do some of the same things you listed. When we're answering the questions , it's the one where it asks do you tend to look in the now or the future I think. Entj does both. But answering you see the now gives you that s.

[@fatimahaljifry9830]

Same for me I recently got estj but I still feel like fundamentally I relate to ENTJ’s more my one thing is that I have a good memory (not sure long or short term) when it comes to revision and school but I tend to be forgetful of other things .. I am also not very “what if” tbh cuz I tend to stick to logic but at the same time the whole intuitive function I can relate too it’s very confusion

[@151yaron]

Female thinkers have a more intuitive nature than male thinkers, meaning that you know you're very intuitive, but that could lead you to think youre entj while youre not. If you don't have one definitive way you want your life to go towards, criticising all of the trajectories which are inferior to it which others choose and choosing your actions based on the longterm trajectory youre shooting for, youre not an entj. Also for entjs long term vision is linked to Fi, while for estjs Si(memories or subjective imprints) are linked to Fi.

[@meredith18352]

Oh boy, you aren't wrong about the ESTJ wanting things. I just put a random idea into my ESTJ partner's head about a puppy I was looking at and boom, next week I had him once he had decided that he wanted him as well. I would have procrastinated for way longer than the dog would have gone to someone else. ESTJ partner with an ENTJ mother, pretty sure they are both typed correctly even though my mum thinks she is and ENTP. She needs to watch these lectures.

[@alphadevoir6310]

Which type is more likely to play the blame game? The estj, or the entj.

[@hazeoszee101]

When was the last time I questioned my intelligence? That may sound Dunning-Kruggish, but I can't remember at all. I just don't get the Ti nemesis part where you mention how ENTJs worry about their own intelligence. I can easily look at facts, data, statistics, others' opinions and verify whether they are committing fallacies/being logically congruent/unbiased. It's not stressful at all. In fact, not checking out and verifying whether the information is true or false (to me) is stressful because I despise delivering information that could be biased/erroneous. It just comes naturally. I ask for others' takes on the issue because I want to see whether I am missing out any perspectives and whether there are more optimal paths to be taken, which I then discern through internal (does it make sense/is it logically correct) and external (is it applicable and empirical) means whether the perspective is right or wrong/useful or not. Finally, back when I used to participate in the Discord chat, what I came to conclusion was that I enjoyed way more discussing with supposedly Te users, as opposed to Ti users. It just seemed to me that Te was much unbiased in its way of thinking while Ti was so sure that they were right in accordance to their inner way of looking at things, which made them ridiculously stubborn and annoying to deal with, so I also can't relate too much on preferring to interact with Ti users to feel smart.

[@tajmarie1329]

I agree to an extent of the first paragraph (My participation on the Discord has been fairly limited). The only difference is that I have Ti critic as opposed to Ti nemesis. Being in engineering, energy, and modeling, I am highly cynically of models unless I understand the physics, the conditions, the boundary conditions, as well as the assumptions. Even when looking at news clips, I lean towards independent sources because I know that most sources are skewed and inconsistent. Analyzing is not stressful for me as long as I have sufficient time. However, supporting unverified information is stressful. As for Ne, nemesis, I am naturally mistrustful of people's intentions. However, I don't do loyalty checks as others may have. I pretty much watch people and their actions like a hawk in the same way an autistic person watches an illusionist or a magician. It is not so much that I care or want to be observant, but the fact that I don't have much of a choice if I want to understand other people's motivations.

[@parvindashti4606]

Hi can you tell me the difference of Te as a hero and Te child? They seem like each others

[@mahardikaerza5010]

I am an ENTJ, I am both philosophical and artistic

[@deborahbroadway1958]

I have some ENTJ but I’m leaning wildly toward ESTJ. I think there is something you’re overlooking. It’s not that I want to be told what I to do because I can’t or shouldn’t make decisions. It’s because I’m impatient and don’t want to listen. So give me the bottom line that is practical so I don’t have to deal with feelings. If it’s about walking through your reasoning, that is not important because I either am loyal to you or I’m not. So if I’m loyal, I don’t need your reasoning. But if I’m not loyal, I won’t care about your reasoning (for the most part). Reasoning is only important for me in the following instances: - it pertains to my plans - if your idea sounds so dumb I would never be onboard with it and you have to prove it to me. I make large decisions all the time without issue so that seems like where the ENFJ steps on or *gasp* there is an issue with this theory. Also, thank you for complimenting my body. So true. 😀

[@N0URii]

I adore these two badasses..-intj

[@luckyclover012]

the lack of hoboness is greatly appreciated...hahaha

[@spookyidcri3290]

I'm confused though because I'm an ENTJ and I'm extremely traditional.. and i also have high pain tolerance and just tolerance in general. But other than that, I mostly find myself relating to ENTJ 90% of the time so..

[@antiday]

@38:45 Psychometry!

[@fatimahaljifry9830]

The thing about raising the kids according to their type really interested me ..cuz I was wondering if it is possible to type ur child even if they havnt really matured.I’ve heard various sources talk about how u should not do these MBTI tests before ur 18??or is it ok to have someone else type them??

[@CSJoseph]

It's helpful to type them, observe your children when they're with other children, but don't just do it once, verify it so you don't act on bad info. Or you could just book a typing session for you and them and get it over with.

[@Mztbtc]

Does this mean estj works well under an entj?

[@crazydragon7865]

I feel like EXTJs are good in their sense, but not always in other's sense, because there are certain standards of what defines good, and they are capable of not reaching those standards, and that can be bad for society, depending on what it is that is good that they are without.

[@Entyipo]

Can you tell me the name of some of the music videos your ENTJ ex boss did?

[@irenecheca6575]

ENTJ here and... could not disagree more about art&philosophy. ENTJ has to be more philosophical, as it is pure abstract thinking. I do agree about the morals, almost asking myself for true motivations and their morality. Also: long term memory is fine, that is why we can be scientists. It is shortterror memory for daily life that we Suck at, completely forgetful about that stuff. It is about prioritising what to remember. We can remember whole conversation but not what we wanted to grab from the room we just entered.

[@dylanmartin7515]

Would you say sensing is only about “WHAT IS” *right in front of you*, or can that apply to a larger scale? “What is real on a large scale, search for concrete truth/objective reality” kind of thing?

[@CSJoseph]

or behind you

[@dylanmartin7515]

Thanks. I’ve decided I’m ENTJ.

[@sofia8574]

What’s Ni dominants’ job? (As Te doms ’ is making people more intelligent/learn more)

[@CSJoseph]

finding a path forward

[@sofia8574]

C.S. Joseph thanks!

[@cherishtheday2223]

I might not be an ESTJ, I'm unsure, but is it really a good idea to tell an ESTJ what to do? How would they react to that?

[@CSJoseph]

It is

[@EM-eg3qc]

The first time I watched one of your videos I was totally lost. I am slowly grasping what you say in your videos. I have much more to read and learn. Anyway, can you help me with a question. I have taken three tests online from different sources. The results initially indicated that I am an ENTJ. However, I also received a result of ISTJ. The third result was ESTJ. These tests were all taken within the same month. Is it possible that I am on the border for all these or am I just not being honest in my answering of the questions, or am I just not taking the best test. If that is the case can you refer me to the best site to take this test to really figure out my personality. When I saw my result of ENTJ and saw the description I thought that a lot of the characteristics matched who I was. My wife does not think everything is accurate. The more I look into it I worry that I am reading a result and just finding the similarities and therefore accepting that I wasn't ENTJ. when I read the ISTJ I can see a lot of similarities there as well. I know this is based on research but sometimes I worry it is like astrology. I know that's not the case but I'm still confused on what my personality really is. If you could help that would be awesome!

[@EM-eg3qc]

@@saltychebs Jasmine, thank you very much for your detailed response. I appreciate you taking the time to provide me, a complete stranger, with your well written insightful response on this topic. That means a lot to me! I took several more tests. I read the descriptions. I am fairly certain that I am an ESTJ. I am in a leadership position and love learning how I can improve in that area. Hence that is why I asked the question. I learned a great deal from you remark. Have a nice weekend. Thanks!!

[@elisabethschlarb3059]

So when it comes to not attacking them for their Fe demon and not caring about how others feel, what about when trying to ensure they're not being manipulative, excessively bossy jerks who may mean well by directing others but end up making doormats out of anyone willing to do their bidding? How do you tell them off and make them be more considerate without bringing out their demons?

[@CSJoseph]

Show them why it doesn't make sense, use Ti to hit their Te and they'll consider.

[@ewandavies2344]

Concerning Fe Demon, would it mean that they would not be able to understand that someone crying is most likely upset for example, or would it mean that they would understand the process of what's going on but not actually have any concern that someone is feeling whatever they are feeling despite knowing it?

[@CSJoseph]

They don’t have empathy. They do have sympathy though

[@jassielpeguero3373]

19:26 DO THAT!... That got me transported to my childhood. Not a good memory. My father is an ESTJ, my MOM an ENFJ... and I'm a ENTJ. It was not a peacefull Home. I HATE HATE THAT MANNER OF THEM.

[@looovee1000]

As an ISFJ with an ESTJ brother no one can hurt me anymore😂

[@aquament]

Hmm, I have regularly debated my own morality in the belief that I am a bad person at the core of it, although, assuming I’ve typed myself properly, I have fi child and not fi inferior. Would that be expected for fi child or have I perhaps mistyped myself?

[@CSJoseph]

There is a good chance of a mistype, have you looked at the type grid on the front page of my website as per the links in the description of my lectures.

[@aquament]

I have, heavily. I've subscribed, sent in my email, the works. As well as watched a number of your videos and looked into the functions on a personal basis. I find myself to be more direct then Informative, and significantly more responding than initiating. If these remain to be true observations, according to the type grid, I should fall within the see it through types, and here lies the issue. My internal debate on my own morality, if a product of Fi child does not exist anywhere besides these two types. The type I believe myself to be, based on function, and not some some poorly described internet opinion piece, is an ISTJ, with some former debate whether I might be InTj. I do believe I have Te, and based on my general behavior, Fe is pretty absent. I can play an extrovert, but its a sham job . I prefer one on one, two on one interactions, or even being alone far more as group events tend to drain me. I only really initate if I'm in charge, or very close to someone. What does Fi child look like in your experience?

[@sandradibiaso7316]

My sister is not philosophical at all. She does not like being told what she should do but she does brag about her accomplishments. She wants people to be loyal to her. She loves to decorate and buy artsy things that will get people to think highly of her home. My sister loves working out and showing off. I believed my sister was an ESTJ but this video proves she is an ENTJ. She remembers everything about her childhood and my childhood. My sister probably remembers a lot when she is her INTP shadow and ESFJ demon

[@hulk2546]

Hey I know this may be out of context, but how would you type Goku and Vegeta. I think ESFP(goku) and ESTJ or ISTJ(Vegeta)

[@CSJoseph]

Goku ESFJ / Vegeta INTP

[@hulk2546]

@@CSJoseph hollyshit really, It kinda makes sense that’s why some people say Vegeta is an ENTJ he has an ENTJ Shadow and Goku Just doesn’t make sense I wouldn’t have guessed. Therefore in other words Goku/Kakarot is kinda like the Superman of anime

[@vannarubi4591]

what do you think of an entp + enfp face to face/romantic relationship

[@CSJoseph]

i would avoid that like the plague

[@sylvial1985]

What is EGO / Subconcious / concious / super ego?

[@CSJoseph]

These are the four sides of the mind, please watch my lecture titled the four sides of the mind.

[@alexcomer63]

So what if I told you I want to teach people things such as philosophy and personal development, but since I was a child I've always wanted to design video games? I am extremely passionate about both.

[@alexcomer63]

I like writing and art, but I also ponder ideals quite a bit...

[@alexcomer63]

Yeah, definitely an Ni user; my memory is trash and I constantly look for the best path forward to reach my goals.

[@alexcomer63]

One time I was hanging out with a, "Friend" and his friend (My acquaintance) came over to chill. My, "Friend" was busy playing games, he barely even acknowledged me or his friend when we came over expecting us to just sit around and watch him. So naturally I started talking to his friend and hanging with him while he continued playing his game by himself. Eventually his friend left and it was just me, him, and his girlfriend. He finished playing his game and got up to talk (after his friend had already left he engaged), his intent was to find something to get angry at me for. He was offended that I took away the attention he so desired, he snapped at me and acted completely out of his normal character. I was confused at first and then I pieced together what had happened, he was a narcissist (There were a lot of initial warning signs I had seen prior to this instance). I calmed him down and took charge (Since he wanted to act like a child, I treated him like one) I said, "Why don't we sit down and make a D and D character together?" He was a DM or GM so he was happy to start that, I then made the most unique character he had ever seen. I (with his help) made a whole new variation of a race that made it entirely unique as well as giving the character properties and equipment that made it something never seen before. I discussed past disagreements with him while doing this intermittently (even though we were having fun he would become instantly irrational and furious, again I just took a parental role and didn't allow it). Once I realized there was no way to make the situation favorable to me in any way I finished up the character. I then talked about future possibilities with the character and fun character quirks, until I could find a natural opportunity to ask for a ride home. I haven't spoken with him since, he never got to see the character that he was so excited about used in any capacity. I baked him a poison cake. P.S. his girlfriend was actually apologizing for his behavior to me, he was that out of line.

[@alexcomer63]

@Vee Quilfe ENTJ

[@alexcomer63]

@Vee Quilfe Do you know your type?

[@Josh-bn3qp]

Must protect the child!!

[@melissa7777]

ESTJs are an awesome personality, I mean we created it after all to survive life lol so we must have liked it..! The world has a false view on ESTJs coz they only know a certain few versions. There is a huge variety of them objective personalities believes 30 versions per 16 types and Enneagram says 9 versions per 16 types. Which means not all ESTJ's are the same! Ive never meet an ESTJ like myself yet, but seen similar online.

[@girlie78]

Do you think ESTJ/ENTJ is suitable with ENTP as a romantic partner? Since I am ENTP woman and difficult to understand his temperament

[@CSJoseph]

Yes/No a fellow Si user makes chemistry more difficult, good emotional compatibility with both though.

[@thaisplouvier5403]

ESTJ often take humanities in school with INFP sub INFP sub changes the what if/ ISFP sub changes the what is 16:00 abstract is memory of the future 18:30 ESTJ always regret their choices "I shouldn't have..." 23:15 Se child is privately showing off / Se parent publicly 24:50 Se critic criticizes Se child showing off / Ne critic criticizes Ne child stick in their ass, being boring, stuck up 28:00 can't verify all their beliefs, stressful. Easier to ask people they believe are intelligent. 30:00 if not center of attention, become background standoffish isfps 32:00 Se nem : puts the dog hair away / Se critic "you probably should fix that" (be responsible with that) 36:00 ne critic jumps to ccl on ppl's intentions 43:00 "They don't have to follow social norms, in fact social norms exist for their sake" 44:00 ENFJ superego "I'm gong to teach you a lesson" 45:00 ESFJ superego will destroy your social life and health and future.

[@bellarose8511]

Best line of the vid. “they don’t give a damn about how you feel”

[@justmonique82]

Please make me stop abusing my child. I hope I am not but I really would like those sessions on parenting and typing kids.

[@june5801]

You're so sassy. 😂 Never change, unless it's your angle and lighting.

[@CSJoseph]

yeah I totally suck at that

[@june5801]

C.S. Joseph I know I'm just teasing.

[@elitecoaching4927]

Hahahaha ENTJ Info is good but your personal projection on ENTJs is hilarious...❤️ i

[@lailarizkyamaliya2380]

how about esfp-estj for long-term romantic relationship?

[@CSJoseph]

it can work, sexually compatible but emotionally not so much, everything is solved with sex.

[@toniok.4726]

@@CSJoseph LUL

[@bellarose8511]

ps it’s called psychometry 😉

[@afterschool88]

Hi Joseph, I just want to know it is possible if ESTJ changes to ENTJ?

[@CSJoseph]

No, not at all. That's a lie.

[@afterschool88]

​@@CSJoseph Thanks for the reply! Does ESTJ and ENTP will be good together or it will become a disaster?

[@maylynbayani]

@@CSJoseph so sad. Im an estj and i want to be an entj!

[@evolinaloherraine1481]

Be loyal to me. :) Thanks for helping me figure out my type.