How Do ISTJs Compare To ISFJs?

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[@elnara1]

I'm an ISFJ and all you said is so true... You're absolutely right, I'm afraid of changes because I don't want to fail. Why am I afraid to fail? Because I'm afraid of pain. Thre's always this scary vision in my mind "me crying alone, thinking about my past and thinking how reckless I was, risking and ruining my life". Yep, the scary vision of Si users... There's always a possibility of failing. Often times I make changes out of fear or when it's the only thing that is left to do. It really sucks. I understand that I need to have faith that I'll be alright. I've had situations when I thought I would never make it and here I am, still alive, motivated to make my life better. Three years ago I made a big decision to change my life. It was SO HARD you cant imagine. I had to leave everything behind and start from the beginning. My rationale was telling me that I need that but I was scared. I was waiting 8 years until I finally made a decision. But now, I'm so happy I decided to change my life. It took 8 years but I did it. And from that day I started doing new things, alone (which is another scary part, doing new things alone). It was very scary and uncomfortable and I often failed. And my twin sister who is also an ISFJ was horrified by my failures and it made her fear taking risks even more. I'm actually ok with failures. It's not that scary. Yea of course I might feel upset and disappointed but then I'll be back to normal. It'snot the end of the world. At least I know. "Ok this approach is not working, next time I should try a different approach". I started analyzing my thoughts and asking myself Socratic questions and looking for proof of my fears and most of the time my fears don't have any evidence. A shout out to all ISFJs - you will feel so confident, so powerful, so free when you try to do what's scary. I know it's hard and I'm not gonna lie, you will fail. You will fail and sometimes you will win. But even if you fail, you will still gain confidence and freedom because at the end it's not about winning, it's about growing and knowing. Knowing what's behind the scenes.

[@Be-qy2zw]

The show starts at 13:30 - your friendly neighborhood INFP

[@knotlock]

I thought he would delete this comment, then I saw what the comment meant. Then I silently smiled.

[@knotlock]

Lin Yen Chin indeed, I’m leaning myself off burritos at the moment.

[@Cossaw]

@@linyenchin6773 xd :' )

[@edwinortiz7114]

This joke reminds me of my infp bff. Infps are my literal soul mates. -enfp

[@st3llarmemer111]

@@linyenchin6773 in Eve online I am a 🎶🌌🤠Space Cowboy 🤠🌌🎶

[@leahboynton1280]

I'm ISFJ, the only way I can step out of my comfort zone is in tears but it's well worth the trip out to try something new that will develop myself. My support people know I will be a kicking and screaming mess but I will conquer my fear when I decide to.It ain't pretty but it can be done.

[@cindyho1748]

Dont drink coffee when you are already exhausted. It just makes things worse.

[@CSJoseph]

yep

[@sillygoose582]

Istj here. I feel attacked.😂 while I do have very long stagnant periods, it’s usually broken by a burst of NE in which I make awesome (new) plans that I actually go through

[@syedmazharhasan6803]

I loved this lecture. I am INTJ, and I am lucky to have perfect parents: an ISFJ mom (loving, caring, nurturing and protecting) and an ISTJ dad (super strict regarding rules, super helpful regarding life experiences and a walking talking facts machine). I call them perfect because they fullfil their traditional duties of being the best parents ever. They have been married and together for over 30 years now. Even though they bicker alot with each other, they complement each other very well. Even though me and my dad are social misfits, my mom always force us both to attend social events "because people expect us to keep our relations healthy". Even though we hate it, we still do that to make her happy. But my parents do have some faults. They both are literally terrified of taking risks, and they are not very supportive in terms of my "imaginary ideas that are just foolish and impractical". But I respect them for shaping this environment where I feel safe and healthy. Thank you so much for making me understand my parents even better than before ❤

[@CSJoseph]

you are most welcome

[@valentynabelofsky9374]

These INFJs having such low-self worth destroys me inside because they are so incredible.

[@elnara1]

I like INFJs, they are so cute, like my little siblings

[@stefs1155]

Ugh I’m an ISTJ I don’t understand people beating around the bush & hinting. Why?!!?!! Just say what you mean. Make things easier for everyone. Funny, I’m also a minimalist. Not very extreme but it’s a nice easy & freeing way to live.

[@CSJoseph]

Se vs. Si

[@sakukullberg2697]

Wow, same here.

[@altikmillion3151]

Uh if that's is the case then how do you watch cs Joseph's videos?

[@purvab1683]

Bruh it’s bc idfk if what I’m telling u is right just take my symptoms, doc.

[@redadventurer3552]

32:00 awwww Chase showing his love and appreciation for Si heroes.

[@CerceiLannister]

A very interesting video. As an ISFJ, I learned much about the strengths and weaknesses of my personality. It’s very hard to do the changes you suggested, e.g getting out of the comfort zone and try new things.

[@Jess-yv7zc]

I love Si heros too and I tell them the harsh truth and they hate me for it at times but I love them still. That's WHY I tell them the truth: b/c I care and b/c I want them to be happy. The hardest thing for me about ISFJs is their tendency to be the tone police and to not use their logic at times (which I know damn well they have, b/c I've seen them use it). The hardest thing about ISTJs for me is their so-often wasted potential. They are f***ing brilliant and it's like they have no clue they are and so they sit around indulging in gossip and video games and smutty novels. It's super frustrating b/c it's super wasteful. Sad that Si heros live in perpetual fear and it explains a lot. I really love Te parent; whenever I need to know about politics/current affairs/taxes/procedures/medical I ask an ISTJ or an INTJ. I find ISFJs to be very warm and caring (even though they have a real tendency to talk sh** about everyone behind their backs--it doesn't bother me b/c as long it's KEPT behind my back, I don't have to waste time being annoyed or slowed down by it). The other thing is, ISTJs and ISFJs can be really super funny...I think maybe it's b/c they're are SO critical about everyone and everything and my own humor tends toward finding the irony in the many, varied asinine components of life on a daily basis.

[@NoNamedNobody692]

Hey Chase, another great video. Thanks. As an INFJ coming from a family of entire sensors (ESFJ-Mom, ISTJ- Step-dad, ISFJ-Grandmother, ESTP-Biological Father), these in-depth type comparisons where you go over Cognitive Functions and Attitudes, Temperaments, Style Interactions, etc. have really provided me with much greater insight into how they personally view and value the world, their beliefs, ideologies, etc. which I thank you for greatly. Given this, have you ever thought about doing a Type Comparison video b/w INFJs and INTJs at all? This comparison (along with xNTPs and xNFPs) have been the most fascinating to me personally. As Ni-doms, we tend to view the world around us in a profoundly different way then most people. I know you tend to define Ni as ‘Willpower/Desire/Passion’/‘Want-y for own Personal Future’/‘Sniper-Rifle like vision’, and there’s definitely truth to that given definition, but there’s more to Ni than just those aspects specifically. In regards to Ni Hero: 1. Given that we have Ne Nemesis, we actually THRIVE on having our own perspectives, ideals, values and ideologies pushed to their absolute limits (hence, why we adore Ne Heroes / ENPs so much...as much as we may secretly disdain them for the very same reason lol). Ne Heroes GATHER & COLLECT as many abstract concepts and ideas from their external environment as possible, BUT Ni Heroes ORGANIZE, SYSTEMATIZE and UNIFY as many of those abstract concepts, and ideas internally in their own minds, finding patterns, connections, and insight within how interrelated those ideas or concepts may or may not actually be. - INTJs in the form of External Systems, Processes, and Creations that they can create from their future-oriented insight and abstractions in concrete reality itself. - INFJs in the form of External values, principles, ethics, and ideals as they relate to helping better improve people as well as humanity as a whole giving their future-oriented insights as they wish to seek to turn them into concrete realities in their external environment. 2. Ni tends to be very “dream-like” and “space-y” in a phenomenological type of aspect. Oftentimes it “appears” as if we are actually experiencing a constant daydream (when using Ni in its full capacity, and not necessarily Se). It’s hard to explain, but it’s in times like these where we become our most abstract, conceptual, and/or philosophical 3. Ni LOATHES the superficial. Seeing things “as they are” or “appear”. As Ni Heroes, we are constantly looking for the deeper more fundamental meaning(s) behind virtually almost everything. Which is often why people may say that we are incredibly slow to react at almost anything and everything if not immediately life threatening, because we take time to assess the situation , let Se show us what’s going on so we can form some sort of general Ni impression about the event taking place and act accordingly. This is also why small talk abhors us immensely. For each type to its respective extroverted judging function (INTJs-Te and INFJs-Fe) 4. What is extremely interesting is how the Hero-Child axis acts in regards to INJs and how each contrasts with each other. As well how each INJ’s internal environment compares and contrasts with their external environment accordingly. - With INTJs: ----- Internal: Ni-Fi axis External: Te-Se axis - With INFJs: ----- Internal: Ni-Ti axis External: Fe-Se axis 5. Our Parent and Trickster Functions though I think is what really helps differentiate us INJs: - INTJ: --- Parent- Te Trickster- Fe - INFJ: --- Parent- Fe Trickster- Te I could keep on going but i’ll end it here. Just some points of interest for you to consider, thanks Chase! Keep the good stuff coming!

[@themoonbleu627]

dang that’s a shame the estp left I divorced my esfj ex husband he was the best now with an ISTJ 🥰

[@4thNebula]

This was a very interesting and insightful video (even without the whiteboard). I particularly like the process discussion since I am a painter and am trying to determine how much I use Se and how much Si. So, following this video, a discussion of process use in ISFPs and INFPs would be helpful in contrast since those are the other two types I suspect I may be. I am very interested in the use of Fi-Si-Se in fine art.

[@OpportunisticHunter]

@C.S. Joseph Thank you for this video... just really freaking amazing! Pragmatism is neccessary as well as a conscious moral compass. - (INTJ woman)

[@meghanwoods.phd.rdpsych]

Thanks for a super useful video!! Regardless of their type, I think anyone would benefit from the reminder that our maturity can be reflected in our willingness to accommodate others' personalities in a way that has good boundaries for ourselves as well. That reminded made me cringe, which meant I REALLY needed to hear it. Thx for all that you do!! And thanks for being willing to say the things people don't want to hear!

[@boxy_tocs2035]

SE nemisis/ti critic 47:20-47:28 49:08 49:40- Fi critic /self decplen 50:30-52:00 Te trickster 54:00-55:13 Fe trickster 55:13- Loyalty, rec 58:20-1:00:34 1:00:34- Demon

[@ritchiewantschange]

man, Chase, this is so damn timely

[@timbeer8266]

remember when these videos were about 30 min long?

[@thereaIitsybitsyspider]

I feel like the ISTJ is fast but also really slow. As an INFJ, I feel like I run circles around them in terms of personal growth. How many ISTJs just do the same things their parents do? Get out of your comfort zone!

[@Illustrious_Print]

INFJ here. ISFJ and ENTP parents, they got divorced after being married for 20 years. (20 years too long lol). Let’s just say it ended in my mom being very traumatized and my father being admittes to emergency psychoatrics for going into psychosis. Me 10 years later: Finds an ESTP and repeats their high conflict, high drama relationshipdynamics. (Got engaged, but luckily not married with kids) Gotta love duals.

[@shanpurble]

Do you believe you repeated the mistakes because you didn't forgive your parents/go to therapy for it? I as an isfj also want to be a wife to an estp but fear repeating their same mistakes. I believe my mom is infj and dad entp but possibly mistyped. I have to forgive them and still have more therapy sessions to go but it's for the time. Oftentimes I can identify truth to be said in long running toxic situations but that possibility of blow back is so high of happening in my past for doing so. I still muster up the courage to do so when I push myself. Wasn't that kid afraid of tarot, astrology but definitely sleep paralysis and hypersexual druggy people in school.

[@webkelpie]

Thank you Mr Joseph for another interesting video, (my other comments here are just my thoughts and are not the only things I have taken from this lecture).

[@CSJoseph]

you are most welcome

[@saltdealer8776]

season 10 lets go cant wait for the next one

[@AlojzyZyrokompas]

Probably one of the most awaited movies by me since I have long time problem identifying as one or the other!

[@looovee1000]

so did u figure it out?

[@AlojzyZyrokompas]

@@looovee1000 Yes.

[@looovee1000]

@@AlojzyZyrokompas as an ISFJ myself, I hate this reply

[@AlojzyZyrokompas]

@@looovee1000

[@webkelpie]

Sempre fidelis could be taken to mean ‘always faithful’ particularly in a society that adheres to religiously motivated politics. However, sempre fidelis could also be interpreted as ‘still loyal’ which, is still very applicable and very appropriate for a group who’s main objective should be the defence of their state.

[@classiccarsclassicrock9433]

I love what you say about the yin and yang. The truth.

[@Leneah99]

I like the exciting new adjective.

[@hesed_malawi7425]

Thank you very much! Wonderful lecture. I have known my self istj for almost 20 years, but as I am getting older, recently, I think I might be isfj. So to find out, came to this video and I guess your lecture is awesome. I'm still not sure about myself. But I like to be fj rather than tj. One thing for sure is for me family is my priority. So~

[@leroygordon9989]

Intj and infj would help a lot of people like me, who struggle to find their type. Im fairly confident im and intj. And all the evidence you have given me proves my theory about me being intj. But you seem to have more time/info on your hands to explore all this, which i thoroughly enjoy. So if possible in the near future, if it doesnt disrupt any plans you have, pleaseeeeeee expand the knowlege you have on the differences between the two.

[@CSJoseph]

Soon

[@scartdarcy]

INTJ = seems cold like a robot / is actually a cinnamon roll INFJ = seems like a cinnamon roll / is actually cold like a robot (but is still trying to help)

[@RippleNwhip]

Scart Darcy You got me! 🎯

[@blackkitty9098]

That explains a lot that it takes a long time to overcome their comfort zone and fear. I told them if they are afraid ,I keep saying to them," JUST FACE YOUR FEAR! YOU HAVE A POTENTIAL TO DO IT BY YOURSELF!GET UP!YOU CANT EXPECT PPL TO DO IT FOR YOU ALL THE TIME. HAVE SELF FAITH! ":/ At least my istj bbf listens to me , it may take her for a long time to face her fear, but shes getting there👍unlike my isfj colleague. Like she constantly living in stagnancy then she complains about it to me

[@ilovesamyo]

Super insightful. I got a ISTJ hubby so this is gonna majorly help my marriage 👌🏼 lol

[@kevinfukthezetamale4298]

Capricorn-ISTJ Cancer-ISFJ

[@themoonbleu627]

me ESTP - Virgo my boyfriend ISTJ- Aries

[@themoonbleu627]

me ESTP - virgo my ex husband for 15 years ESFJ- Capicorn 😆

[@realSimoneCherie]

4 years late to comment but this is still super helpful. I thought having an ISTJ direct report woud be the jackpot! But this is a new team, we move at a fast pace, the conscientiousness and detail orientation that I thought would be a huge asset for us are actually not outweighing the lag being created by the ISTJ who is paralyzed by anything new and is always looking for ways to stall via analysis paralysis and more "investigating" :/

[@fenzda]

Thanks for the insight Chase. I work with ISTJs. They are not open to different ideas. What the client wants exactly is what they are supposed to get. Not always. Kind of arrogant imho. I offer them options (my NE parent), including the original requirement. They love it. I have a very religious ISFJ tenant. I am into meta physical things (love that stuff). I can tell he's judging me all the time. Too bad. He is a person of routine totally. He is a bit too feminine for me as well. Great insight, so I now adjust ME only. They have blind spots and ... so do I!

[@MeadeSkeltonMusic]

Open your heart to Jesus

[@andree-anneaubin4662]

Hello Chase! Curious about the cognitive orbid mentioned at 11:20. Are you explaining the concept more precisely in another one of your lectures?

[@Handbook08]

Thank you. I'm an ISTJ and have long realized that you are very critical of us. But for the right reason. I want to be better. I will act on faith instead of fear. That's a promise. Thank you. Please continue doing your awesome work, you're amazing!

[@CSJoseph]

you are most welcome

[@wizsauce6798]

Where did you adopt the idea of subconscious integration? I noticed it’s absent in Beebe model of the 8 functions.

[@CSJoseph]

where indeed. I am not at liberty to discuss this as I do not have permission.

[@takashi6O3]

ISXJ’s sound super dangerous as a collective. ~same attachment style (intp), how are you attacking it?

[@elnara1]

I'm not sure what you mean by the "same attachment style", but I'll tell you how we usually attack (using Si, Ti Se and Ni). ISFJs gather data and then wait for the right moment to attack. When is the right moment? You will never know because we don't know it easier. It happens spontaneously, like, we are very responding. We see the moment and just hit our enemy right away.

[@vivian1510]

As an INFP who recently started college, it would be really helpful if you could make a video about MBTI types and careers. I'm studying a dual business and liberal arts degree, but am really uncertain with my choice. Most websites recommend rather unconventional (and not very employable) jobs for INFPs, so i would be interested to hear your insights!

[@CSJoseph]

sure

[@HayleeBaely]

awww thanks for the INFP love cookie ^w^

[@mercedbread9045]

Please do social engineering ISFJs!

[@elnara1]

Be vague lol That's how you defeat us. However, emotionally mature ISFJs will ask directly what you mean and state that they need to know what you think and what your intentions are because it stresses them out. And if after that, you continue being vague, they will shut the door and never speak with you again because we hate that. This is one of the reasons why we can't find common ground with INTPs... I love those guys but they are so vague... LOL Emotionally unstable ISFJs might beg you for an answer, be passive-aggressive, and depressed. If that's your agenda. If you want them to have a mental breakdown sure go ahead and be vague. What I suggest is, to be honest with them and tell them what you don't like and what you won't tolerate and then leave.

[@mercedbread9045]

elnara1 lol thanks

[@jaredvaughan1665]

ISTJs and ISFJs are predominantly enneagram 6 which is fear based.

[@st3llarmemer111]

True, but that means they should try to minimize the negative parts of it. I'm an ENTP 8w7 (ENTP is predominantly 7 or 8) and I have to minimize being uncooperative, overly assertive, and Se-demoning everyone I meet.

[@shaun1293]

Whether or not an ISFJ is a 6 or not, they all still have that fear of the unknown, the what if. I’m a 2 for example.

[@jaredvaughan1665]

@@shaun1293 likely 6 is in your tritype. Most isfjs have 6 and 2 in the tritype.

[@shaun1293]

@@jaredvaughan1665 most likely but I am predominantly a 2, and an Sx at that

[@aarondecker7980]

Hey +C. S. Joseph, I've been really fascinated by jungian analytical psychology lately. It started with the basic dichotomies of the mbti but slowly got more interesting upon learning the cognitive stacks and now slowly the type grid. I appreciate all the effort you have put in considering how useful this information is. I've been binge watching your content but I'm still relatively new. I was curious if I could contact you to see if you could guess my type. Its really bothering me because I've gotten different results from each site. It you're interested, I don't want to give any hints but theres one that I'm pretty sure I am (like 70%) and then two others that are definite maybes. I dont know how you do this or if you have explained it before on your podcast but if you would be willing to talk and solve this with me it would be really cool.

[@aarondecker7980]

Are you down to try and type me?

[@arande3]

@@aarondecker7980 hey Aaron, try searching "cognitive functions test" and take two or three of them. They type you by function rather than dichotomy and I found they give me a consistent result even though my functions are way different than a typical person of my type.

[@giuliodizio1972]

Bro I have read in one of your replies to a question that you have included a book to read in case we wanted to learn more about attachment interactions. Where is that? It s not in the description right? - Just another ISTJ seeking for validation on things he hears 😅

[@aidanknox2430]

I can think of lots of ISFJs that I know but the only ISTJ I can identify doesn't seem like the "library of Alexandria". Any reason for not seeing the walking libraries?

[@juni260]

Cuz not all istj's are that

[@edwinortiz7114]

Well, that last "adjustment" you made was actually a result of TE child. But, who's verifying? Oh right...me, lolol. I crack myself up. I see you and I know you see me ;). Is that my Se demon being a creep? I dunno..too tired to be able to tell. Good stuff!

[@sniffablecow]

Hi edwin!

[@M.Moadeli123]

How am I (enfp) more cutting than my father (istj)? He's really tactful, whereas I want to blurp out the truth? 😂

[@nancymoores9322]

Hi, Chase I am an INFP married to an ISTJ. I love him and he is super caring and loving. His family is a mix of sj's and sp's. But can't get along with his sfj mother and sister. Especially his ISFJ sister. She is the oldest and older than me 10 years. But I am mature for my age and also entered motherhood way before her. But she always telling me things I already know. And it is as though she can't hear me when I say " I know". In essence, she passively acts as superior to me. And when I brought it up to my husband, he said she just cares alot. But I felt that she was being fake nice. Like I couldn't feel it genuinely. And I just felt she was trying to show she is more responsible, or more motherly. Or more whatever. Like one time, she remarked that she feared that my daughter would burn by the stove when we move out into our own house. Like why? She has a mother. Anyways, I can't imagine showing her that I need her. And the other thing, is she never acts vulnerable or just normal. She is always acting perfect. And when she had her first pregnancy, she never once asked me about anything. And sometimes when she needed to, she would ask my husband, to which he would respond " I don't know anything about that, I will ask **** . And then I would give him the answer and he would tell her.

[@monito3575]

I feel what you mean with fake nice. Some people don't really get this. There is normal/appropriate nice, over the board nice and fake nice in my opinion. But I'll just assume that they don't mean it in a rude way and assume that they are high Fe users 😂🤷‍♀️ I hope you will get along better with your sister-in-law and hope you keep your cool haha I am infp too btw :P (my family are SJs and SPs too like your husband's😅)

[@mysmilewow]

56:12 now I know why I've reacted the way I did in the past when people didn't share things with me. 57:00 wow

[@TheBittenBullet]

On showing your work: Isn't it important for people to understand their thought process?

[@CSJoseph]

only to people like yourself

[@ago2018]

can you make a vid that compares infp to istj? It would really help out this enfj female. Thanks chase (:

[@caterpillar590]

Is there possibility that INFJ can change to ISFJ or ISTJ? Because before these covid things I usually an INFJ and I feel like I've become different person rn, feeling unmotivated as hell, except doing things to save my beloved person like sterilize everything and ask them to drinks vitamin, live healtily etc. Motivated by fear not by faith, unlike before. So I try the test and the results was ISFJ, the other said that I was ISTJ. And after listening this, I agree when u tell things about both of them, ISFJ and ISTJ, but depends on what situation. For social things I'm more ISFJ, but when I'm working, I'm ISTJ. Is this possible that someone can be like this? Or I'm just being weird? 😅

[@CSJoseph]

csjoseph.life/will-your-mbti-personality-have-different-results-throughout-your-lifetime/

[@LionhartM]

Hey Chase, good video. Why do you think ISTJs are so touchy about getting back to them immediately? I took a day to reply to this ISTJ, and she hasn't spoken to me in weeks because of it. Kind of an overreaction, it seems.

[@st3llarmemer111]

Lin Yen Chin they’re also the nerds of that temperament

[@shuggarush]

I took 5 minutes and she was going craaaaazyyy

[@LionhartM]

Haha glad it's not just me

[@scartdarcy]

You can't say is an overreaction because it is perfectly logical for someone who wants to be desired to fell upset by you not pay attention to them, it's their weak spot, just like everybody else has one, saddly you hit it and they got sad. I am not tryiing to guilt you but is your fault for not regarding their insecurities or not setting boundaries clear enough with them. STJ/NFP quadra is super high maintenace, be prepared (I also think they all are either tsunderes or yanderes but don't tell anybody about that)

[@LionhartM]

I agree and disagree. People are busy sometimes, and can't get back to you right away.

[@henkster6067]

21:25 Here you state an Fi person needs reference points when you're wrong, Please can someone explain to me why would I as a INFP typed person can change my thinking (just like chase said he adjust his thinking and move on) as soon as I'm told I'm wrong without facts to back it up but by a logic explanation of the problem?

[@redadventurer3552]

Can these two types have anxious attachment style, since you brought that up, over avoidant attachment style?

[@elnara1]

It depends. I have a secure attachment style but if I was in a relationship with avoidant type I’d probably be more fearful avoidant. Si users might have fearful avoidant attachment style because of fear... But not necessarily. Attachment styles form in the childhood (read Bowlby)

[@qasimimtiaz9668]

They probably secure like most people. I think enps have disorganised, infjs have anxious and intjs have avoidant.

[@henkster6067]

Here's a situation I need help with. I have an INFJ friend. She is very credential based and want to know all credentials of all people see meets (which I - infp - don't care about) I told her she can't judge people on credentials, because it fails to prove true to its title. So what I want to know, why would I be against Te credentials as INFP, but it annoys me that she wants to know all credentials or reviews of everything and everyone. If she is INFJ and I'm INFP, why isn't the roles reversed?

[@CSJoseph]

Te trickster can believe they are important for some reason.

[@BigBillBobbynator-gv3hh]

Was typed as a ISTJ on your site. Came to see if I could relate to this type on some level. Certain parts of this personality resonate with me and certain parts don't. First off I have terrible memory and Si basically holds reserves of memory. Te and citing your sources which I do agree with, I don't like the spread of misinformation and I hate when people just go spouting some shit they saw in an article somewhere without verifying to see if it's true. I don't however agree with the credentials part. If a homeless man told me the best advice and a billionaire told me that same advice, is the advice any different based on the background of the individual, or do you internalize that advice and how it applies to you? I think the information is more important than who says it to you. Just because that homeless man might not experience success does that make him any less wise? I think people value the status behind the information more than how it's actually applicable to them, they judge others and write them off for their lack of credibility and it honestly pisses me off. Also the part about being patient with people and accepting a relationship where someone would cheat on me. I abhor infidelity whole heartedly and I will eject that person from my life entirely and then make them feel like trash for what they did, not just because my feelings are hurt, but because they need to know that what they did was wrong otherwise they will just do it again to the next kind natured sap they can con in to a vampiric relationship. Plus they confirm my insecurities about them being suspicious in nature and bring my anxieties to life. That kind of vulnerability for someone who doesn't deserve it, and I'm supposed to be hoping these people come back? Not a chance, they're gone. I don't care if they become a better person, that shit is over. Being concrete in my interaction style I can't see either, I know ISTJ are supposed to be sort of abstract to a degree, but my whole life exists around the "what if" scenarios, I also make up analogies and metaphors on a daily basis without even trying. Concrete people are all about the "what is" which a lot of times I can't stand. "It is what it is" No it only is what it is because we allow it to be. The worst one of all is "if you cant beat em, join em." Way to tell everyone you've allowed the world to beat you in to it's mold. This is literally a statement of defeat. A losers way of thinking. You should want to try and change the world rather than just living in it. This is all only based on what I've been learning from what you're teaching here so far, maybe I really am a ISTJ idk. I just have a really hard time believing I am.

[@natashabaier6247]

How do you learn your attachment style?

[@CSJoseph]

read the book attached,

[@mireilleuribe2999]

Uh wow on your way back from Sacramento and you didn’t even visit me 😒 I would’ve bought you lunch

[@st3llarmemer111]

The difference in masculinity between ENTP males and ENTP females is probably among the largest of all types since while undeveloped ENTPs are feminine (though not as feminine as all the other NPs), male ENTPs can become very masculine through subconscious and shadow development, to the point that I'd say ENTPs tied with ESTJs are the most masculine Si users once developed simply because of how the ISFJ subconscious and INTJ shadow works with the ENTP ego.

[@CSJoseph]

dont forget subconscious development.

[@xandirkuro4790]

55:40 destoyal? destroy you / destruction?

[@UrbanArtCentral]

I know an isfj who went into vices (selling drugs, leading younger drug dealers overseeing underground gambling and prostitution dents), as a result of been betrayed by his parents at 16. Now he is 45, divorcee with 4 kids he don't have custody to and works loyally in a restaurant. Can one trust that a person like that can really abandon their old life?

[@CSJoseph]

Yes.

[@caffemocca8855]

When will you make INFJ vs INTJ?

[@CSJoseph]

Soon

[@NoNamedNobody692]

LOL made a comment about this on here! See if you can find it!

[@redadventurer3552]

Hey quick question do Fe users have a harder time saying no to people's requests or demands than Fi users?

[@PunkFiddler]

I, do, even though I have Fe as my inferior.

[@CSJoseph]

yes

[@elnara1]

Yes

[@angelinawilliams9491]

I think that Chase is an ENFJ and not an ENTP. Firstly, his motivation for his channel seemed very idealistic and for the bettering of others -NF. And his communication style is very firm and exhibits reliability like a control type. He is also very direct in interaction style with his listeners, as seen by his type comparison of ISTJ v ISFJ. Also he once said that people with a movement interaction style tend to be more “clingy” in relationships because they need progress. His ability to distance his channel largely from his personal life and emotions seems very control type! He also made it clear that he doesn’t care about popularity (which does not suggest a systematic temperament). And is doing this all for his own interest. And his desire to create a community online is very affiliative. - said by an ISTJ :)

[@CSJoseph]

I am not that cool.

[@arande3]

Nah Chase had a health scare a while back and along with that he's driven to do this to leave a legacy for his son. Something like that, you'd have to ask Chase to verify for sure

[@Illustrious_Print]

He is ENTP. My father is ENTP and the only difference I’ve noticed between them is looks.

[@boxy_tocs2035]

31:17-31:29 😭😭😭 Your Done lol- I'ma edit: I'm probably a diplomat

[@qasimimtiaz9668]

I don’t mind adjusting myself to certain types but I don’t like how overreactive ISFJs are or how istjs complain so much - Intj

[@Retrogamer71]

17:10 Viewer note. Sermon on the mount for lazy bums. 43:00 investments in fear can be addressed

[@webkelpie]

I do not understand how a person external to Chases inner group could justifiably accuse him of fitting the dark triad from simply watching the video lectures, (although I can see how the suspicion could easily arise), as they do not have enough information to go on. If the crux of the argument is that there is financial gain for him, then this may or may not be true. However, I would challenge anyone to run any organisation, charitable or otherwise, without some sort of income in a world based upon commercial viability. I do, however, find it interesting, (and humorous), that ad hominem attacks and labelling are mentioned here. Since, personality typing IS a form of labelling and openly describing types could be interpreted as ad hominem attacks. (Although I would hope a listener is open-minded when investigating a new idea and would not necessarily interpret it as such.)

[@CSJoseph]

they just jealous

[@Red.Butterfly]

Why do IJs do this? Everyone is having fun watching baseball and all that then suddenly they will bring up all the traumatic events that happened in their life. Like I'm sorry it happened to you but you just ruined everyone's time. Cherry on top is when things are just depressing, awkward and don't know where to go from there, that's when they will decide to go and have some fun. Like why IJs? Why?

[@Red.Butterfly]

Just to be clear, I was talking about Isjs lol

[@shanpurble]

It had to be that you gave them the space unknowingly to be vulnerable, and they thought by doing that, no tension would arise. But when it happened, they left to avoid being a burden.

[@blue-ks8zu]

the thumbnail...😂

[@milabellaful]

"If you're not challenging the masculine, what are you doing?!!" ...FINE!...commercial break 😒

[@xandirkuro4790]

57:50 did you just negate yourself? (57:40)

[@PunkFiddler]

OH MY GOD. The moment I heard labeling, I instantly got irritated. Must be an NTP thing.

[@austinwilliams8174]

Look at the way they dress.

[@delusionalfan]

How is he able to drive while giving a lecture...

[@CSJoseph]

Pure talent.

[@Havic22123]

18:55 faith is:

[@MAC...]

2 Things I'm finding issue with in this video 1. Sound Quality - Really off for this one, a bit painful to listen to, think a bit component of that is too much peaking of the audio resulting in distortion. Typically from what I've heard from business course sources sound quality is (almost) the most important. Will probably result in more people who happen to watch this video for the without experiencing your content, clicking away from it. Not sure what setup your using apart from a lapel, but you may be able to turn down the mic sensitivity on whatever you're attaching it to. 2. Visuals - No visuals showings the cognitive function stacks, which unless you have them committed to memory perfectly is harder to learn from. (Bad for visual learners like myself who make up 60% of the population. Which that being said I wonder if its worthwhile investing in that component of your videos as a whole could result in a stronger and wider impact of your teaching). Side idea: Perhaps film with yourself to the right half of the frame and then edit a graph or photo of the whiteboard on top of the left half of the frame. Probably a few programs out there that could do that easily. Thanks for your videos btw, really do appreciate them and if I do end up using them in a big way in my life I'll be sure to return the favour. (Just thought I'd appeal to the Ne desire to see other people succeed and reap your own success through that ;) ) - intp :)

[@CSJoseph]

thank you for your comment. Please note, I am not here to give anyone a good experience. I am here to merely tell the truth. Outside of that, things are a lower priority.

[@arande3]

Cool, someone who likes to critique sound. I'm really trying to get the sound right on my channel so could you check my "Stress tip for INTPs" video and comment your opinion on the sound? Thanks

[@dannyc.6988]

Please try to be more structured next time. It's quite confusing and frustrating having quality of content related comments in the middle of personality psychology related explanation.

[@CSJoseph]

bro, you have not been around enough to understand how I approach this channel, Sorry to say this but take it or leave it.

[@gabumonboys]

Why do you always have your shirt unbuttoned hella far down? Are you virtue signaling or something??

[@CSJoseph]

its hot AF here

[@asyuraabdullah3242]

im terrified of telling an is hero that they're wrong. super defensive they are

[@henkster6067]

Can Fe nemisis behave like Fe parent?

[@CSJoseph]

Depends.

[@83npat]

Intj

[@emangrabogadi1051]

I am an INFP, dating an ISFJ and this video is so accurate 😂 we are so different in how we see things and get into misunderstandings because he is forceful and actually believes everything is structural haha. I want to give them hugs too. I love the ISFJ commitment to family and friends, and also how supportive they are- but I find him very masculine compared to my ex INFJ, but also very feminine in that he doesn’t trust anything I say and I have to keep validating him in every possible way! 🫠 Dating a sensor is very stressful for me though…. it’s very difficult to get them to get into a mode of “stoner energy or thinking”- everything is realistic and logical haha! I like how you also mentioned the Avoidant part cause totally true. So funny though, I’m very loyal to SJs. I love them, so hardworking and responsible to those they care about ♥️