HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN YOUR MARRIAGE IS OVER? | Divorce to Victory Podcast | Ep. 2 | Kevin Ray Ward

[@CrazyFreeCat82]

What if I'm disabled and she might use that against me by manipulating me and she's already splitting everything financially

[@CrazyFreeCat82]

But acting and saying like there's nothing wrong when I ask. Whenever I ask or talk about it like the plan of manipulation over the past 12 years! I laid it all on a timeline and she walked away?

[@CrazyFreeCat82]

And 3+ years ago they persuaded me to quit my job to apply for disability, over the 3+ years waiting for SSDI, ended up in debt, hospitalized, etc. etc.

[@KevinWardNOW]

Sorry to hear about your disability. The way forward is to take the initiative. Her manipulation and walking away from a conversation is just confirmation about the fact she is unwilling to work on the marriage. It's time to trust your gut and stop letting her control the narrative. You also need a good divorce attorney to guide you and protect your interests. The court is not your ally for sure, so you have to take control and move forward. Otherwise...you end up just staying stuck in a dead relationship.

[@sammcleary]

Agree with Kevin. All of what you said are red flags. I believe that when a woman is shutting down or walking away this is a decision she’s made a long time ago. If she’s manipulative or narcissistic, walk away