HOW I MANAGE & SET MY PRIORITIES IN LIFE / VLOG - Reallife Realhome

[@deepat5088]

Congratulations, Anu!! I don't usually comment on videos, even though I'm a regular viewer. But today's video was really helpful. What you said about prioritising your family and not parties at this point of your life... and about having just a few, reliable friendships for which there's no need to go on a rampage cleaning and putting on a show... I completely get it! It felt very good hearing that spelled out esp on a platform like KZbin. Thank you for putting out such down-to-earth practical content.

[@RealLifeRealHome]

Many thanks Deepa🙏

[@meghamalabanerjee7267]

Couldn't agree with you more. You said it all.

[@ajjaguttuaruna]

Hi Anu, I am a silent viewer of your videos, of course my 9 year old daughter too😁. And this is the first comment I am posting on KZbin. I couldnt stop myself from telling you that I totally share your views on socialising. I am really pleasantly surprised to know that there are good number of people like me 😁😁

[@ninachand2075]

m banerjee 100% agreed. I am same way myself and not going to apologize for it!

[@genevievedmello618]

Couldnt agree more! Each one has their own priorities in life. As long as you are happy and love what you do there is no need to change anything! Loved your positive attitude Anu🤗🤗

[@Target-Kohls-Macys]

You are very sorted lady with your priorities completely in focus! Great job..

[@sarmisthamishra2822]

Congrats for the silver play button! It's your modesty and rooted humbleness that you are showing the button now after almost a month. I second every thought of yours, every word of yours. Have nothing more to say or add. What a great answer to the most common question of this present time we are living in which counts --- likes-dislikes on pages, parties, gatherings, chaos, 1000 apparent friendships, as the measuring tool of a real life and more so 'happiness'. It's funny and little sad. I love you Anu, I may just be another you-tube member to you, but you are very very special for me. You gave me hope through this platform when I needed the most a year back. Thanks from the bottom of my heart. Happy to see that am not the only one to feel the way - whatever you have mentioned. Stay blessed and healthy. Keep inspiring.

[@happygirl8108]

U brought tears to my eyes. My life is same just rotating around 3 ppl. Very similar to my parents view.they always say if u r happy b r happy.i have also friends countable on my hand. I literally respect u.u r very clear. Keep up with gud work.

[@hemaprakash6314]

You are truly one in a million!! Whenever I feel down, I always watch your video to get me back to positive mood! Thanks so much..

[@meghakodiatar3359]

Anu, I loved your thinking of focusing on quality of relationships rather than quantity. In today’s times people may tend to focus on having a big social circle and having “contacts” but the real connection and love is not there. I too believe that it’s important to have true and real few relationships rather than too many fake ones. Thank you for being REAL as always.

[@pingramya]

You nailed it Anu! You are one of the most genuine KZbinrs ever! I love your content and your honesty! Friends should always be a source of joy in our lives, not an additional stress causing entity! I agree completely about focusing on raising kids as the top priority. If not now, when? I admire the fact that you take time out for yourself and your health despite all other responsibilities. I need to incorporate that in my life too. Looking forward to many more "Real" videos from you!

[@truthseeker2560]

MA SHA ALLAH, your kids are very cute. Useful vlogs, thanx for sharing Anu.

[@sohelaaish3979]

This real life is so good...Kitni saadgi se Kitni gehri baat samjha di aapne..real happiness is priority of family!!!!Love u a lot u as a sister inspire me a lot.proud of u I wish me bhi aapke jesi ban pau

[@anutyagi8708]

Apne bhaut ache se khud ki priority samjhayi h, muje isse kafi help Mili apni priority life me set krne ki, thank u so much

[@shubhajaggi5487]

Anu ji, your reply to the insensitive comment about 'your little life' made me cry. Ofcourse you must miss your family, and it is awesome that your family encourages you. You didnt even have to explain but so nice you did. I look upto you for being so sorted, for prioritizing well and being organized. Simplicity is a real blessing and a gift. A lot of misguided people think that being drunk on weekends or partying hard or having 500 friends on FB is the way to live... If it works for them,cool, however I am sure most of them dont have two kids and cook healthy meals. You gave up your job to choose the life of a homemaker, and even then you made a youtube career of that! Plus I think you have a right to privacy, I don't think you have even shown your husband's coverage, and you are not obliged to share your mall trips or parties. Lol I think I am reacting even more strongly than you did haha. Anyhow, I understand. I have had very days when I have stayed up all night in nigut shifts and next day gone shopping with friends followed by dinner with family, and then there's now when I am at home almost all day, just reading writing and cooking. Phases in life ebb and flow right :) you do you.... N so happy to see your well earned medal!!

[@dip6360]

Video ki Jo starting hai..Jo point apne raise kiya hai..wo bahot hi relatable aur true hai..

[@sanhitapendse-6827]

Hi Anu, a Very sensible , sincere and mature response to the viewer's question.Thumbs up.

[@mrityunjaykumar6957]

very nice dear love you all of your thoughts and your work and thanks for your blog Arti Patna bihar

[@mrityunjaykumar6957]

very nice dear love you all of your thoughts and your work and thanks for your blog Arti Patna bihar 👍

[@happinesspeace8682]

Hats off to you... I totally believe about this fact that circle itna hi rakho jisme nibha pao. And party krne to sab ajate hain but real friends are one who have good thoughts about you even if they barely talk to you. Awesome.

[@gaurichande8406]

Bravo Anu! Great response! I completely agree with you, quality over quantity! Great to know that I am not alone to feel and be this way, sometimes it’s easy to undermine your own life seeing others’ social media posts but its messages like these that reinforce what truly matters. Thank you for using this platform in a meaningful way! It felt like my whole heart smiled after watching this! Lots of love to you and congrats! I don’t know anyone else who deserves it better!

[@RealLifeRealHome]

You touched my heart today...

[@zyebasworld5045]

I m really very happy to see a person like you... this is a true women who sacrifices everything just for her family ... and I feel family comes first not parties .... the way u r raising ur child giving them full attention that's wat will be useful .... Good job god bless u and ur family ...

[@RJMahek]

Congrets Anu Well deserved 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 Aap jaise ho wese hi acche ho Aap ki life “ real life” hai Aap koi show off nai karti hai Aur aisi koi bhi fake moment ya lifestyle create karne ki koshish nai karti hai Happiness simplicity main hai, apno k sath hai I can relate with u very well Bcoz main bhi wesi hi hu Keep it up the good work Aapke meal prep dekhkar mukhe cooking ki inspiration milti hai Jaise hai wese hi rahe Loads of love 😘😘😘😘😘

[@RealLifeRealHome]

Thankyou so much Mahek... really means a lot

[@devinasharma7011]

I have been following you for quite sometime now.. Your talks are always positive.. and i rly like your how u are so soft and polite and its a pleasure to hear you.

[@ranusaraswat1364]

Congratulations Anu ji, for the silver button. My life is also so simple yet lovely and satisfactory like u. And I feel u as like me simple and honest .

[@reshmamalik9521]

Anu...I am so happy for you ! Your silver play is very well deserved. Hearty congrats. I really had tears in my eyes when you were explaining about your life. Your life is yours to claim and live the way you want. And am sure many out there believe that your life is as true and real as most of us indian moms. You are such a dedicated and passionate mother and wife , and you are doing a fantastic job of it. You don't have to give any explanation to anybody. Most of us middle class indian women who live abroad for work purpose live a composed life and people from other walks of life may not be able to comprehend it. Your 3 men, your 4 friends, your God and your precious moments of chatting/ video calling with your family back in India maybe your universe and you are the central force of it all Anu. You make a change to your little universe and make it strive and flourish. People who don't understand the nobility of it is at loss...not you. We love you and all your efforts and the human being you are. More power to you ! Cheers.

[@AnupamaJha21]

Congrats dear👍 I am very happy to see you with your silver play button.. Infact I was waiting for this moment for you as you really deserve it.. Keep smiling and all the best dear😊

[@RealLifeRealHome]

aapka message dekh kar humesha bahut khushi hoti hai Anupama ji... thankyou so so much

[@SwatiDhunna]

I agree with you even I live in Canada and I do miss my family and relatives. But this is life... this is the way it goes, we can’t hold everything at the same point. I also have very few friends but I am happy that they are my real friends

[@nazkhan5827]

Congratulations anuji Meri maa key death key badh main pehali bar you tube par comment kar rahi hoon sahi kaha aapne hamari pehali jimedari hamri family aur bache hote hain . Meri maa ne mujhe yahi sikhaya hai n congratulations once again

[@dee10j1]

Such a cute video no fake no acting that’s the best part of your videos.. I really like your younger one he is so cute. Whenever he appears I just love his innocence.. keep up your good work.... kuch to log kahenge logon ka kaam hai kehena...I think by now everyone knows you and your life and those people who like you do not need any explanation...

[@ss7307]

I really like listening you... Do more blogs where you talk to us.. I am happy there is someone somewhere who thinks like me :) and also congratulations for silver button...

[@vijaya4sriram]

Congratulations Dear Friend ... very happy for you ... and thanks for this video

[@renukaselavarasa8832]

Hi Anu congratulation. I really love your videos. I don't know you will get a chance to read my comment because just now I watched ( today march 25 th) you are doing the correct thing. 100 percent agree with you. I am like that. I have one and only daughter. Always my first priority my daughter. Even now. My daughter is very proud of me. My daughter is fantastic,down to earth person with good values. Now she is a big girl. She is 30 years. Finished her PhDs in electrical engineering. Working as research scientist. She also very family oriented person. Got married when she was 21 years old. Even her husband also very nice person. Actually he is my son,because as we don't have our own son. Some time people say I don't socialize much. But I never worry about that. My family is my first priority. You are like my daughter. I should meet you one day. Wish you all the best from the bottom of my heart. God bless. Keep up the good work.😘😘😘😘😘💐💐💐💐💐💐

[@RealLifeRealHome]

Thankyou Renuka ji...I read each and every message ... sometimes could not reply.... I am very proud of you.... will definitely meet one day

[@shailejascreation9938]

Renuka Selavarasa hi

[@payalpandya2865]

Heartiest Congratulations Anu. You deserve it and you are worth it. It takes a lot to manage home, kids and KZbin vloging. We have our priorities and that's our life. Living away from parents is painful and it takes lot of courage. I can relate to what you are saying as I am away from homeland since almost a decade.

[@namratasatav8327]

I just want yo mention one thing abt friends.. Have less but have good..

[@jyotsnasharan-jois3399]

Anu ur just amazing. What clarity of thot and processing. U can do great things. You are so inspiring. My life is similar to urs.

[@sudiptasrivastava387]

Congrats Anu. Lovely answer. Setting up priorities and being happy in whatever we do is very important . All the best for more of your future achievements

[@vihagr6120]

Even though I am your subscriber I am commenting for the first time and I must tell you that ur thoughts are wonderful and I totally agree with you

[@shyjunambiar5313]

One of the best channel I have subscribed. It's really helping me and my wife to keep our home organised.

[@shwetamehta695]

Today I could connect with you so well than all other videos... There is also someone who's just like me...!!

[@SmitarawatsKITCHEN]

love your blog dear...aapki batao se mai kud ko relate kar pa rahi thi...appne bhut he acche se answer kiya ...real happiness jaha mile vahi prioritie pe v hona cheye.. congratulation for your silver play button ....keep it up good luck

[@rohinipandit5201]

Mam I totally agree with you. " It's better to have few Real friends than to have a thousand fake ones "

[@anamikasalui9017]

dd main bass apko sunti rahti Hoon. .apki channel ka name actually justify krta Hain..Sach mein real lagta Hain..congratulations dd..ap ko dek kar inspiration milti hai..thnk u.

[@swatichakri]

Hi anu once again ur video n the way u set the priorities Ur the best

[@jananisuppiah3449]

Wow Anu. Have been watching ur videos for quite sometime now. You nailed it by highlighting ur priorities at this point of life. Way to go! Just partying and hanging out with people often, is not the only way to be sociable. Spending time with family and catching up with gud old friends makes us feel content and happy rather than being in a party. 👍👏

[@talls3527]

You have absolutely nailed few important points in today's video. Yes, agreed that we live in a foreign land and yes we need more people around us. But to a certain limit only. That is what my thinking is and I am constantly being judged for leading this life and often misunderstood as an introvert. Days just run away from our hands and especially with a preschooler and a baby, I can only dream of having more than 24hrs a day, and why more?so that I can sleep for an extra hour or spend some time talking to my family back home or have a quiet walk around estate. So on.. I have a handful of Friends too and same way like you said, they or I don't mind "intruding" into each others kitchens. And simple Dal chawal will suffice our gathering.we don't have to lavishly get ready and show off with this group of friends. And yes, that is our comfort zone. At this stage, raising 2 human beings is the utmost priority and wouldn't be fair to compromise their future. Because, we might think it's just one day only, one party only but hey, this small counts will become a habit. At least that's how I am and sorry if some of the viewers won't agree. I know there are few people who manage every aspect beautifully. But there are some like me , like you and many viewers who commented here, who may not balance the extra social time. Congratulations and it's your exclusive content and real life that earned the award.

[@MoBellaLife]

Ss P, I just want to say thank you for the comment that you just shared. I was just experiencing those same feelings of just needing 24 hours more in a day just to sleep a little extra. As a wife and mom of 2, life cans become so demanding and we forget to set aside a small time for ourselves. I was so happy to read your comment, I needed to read that today, even though your comment was posted 4 months ago, I needed to read it today. Thank you!❤️

[@Leenasmore95]

Congratulations Anu !! Very well said about your priorities and friends.

[@sapnajain5615]

You are right We need to pick one by one thing to make it perfect

[@saritadesai7046]

Congrats and well said ...about your priorities....your a caring mother,good wife and a beautiful daughter....keep posting your videos ..I love all your videos...and keep smiling as always... love you.

[@alolikabanerjee8880]

I strongly support u .......I also prioritise my family more than anything else.......can u inspire me to do exercise.....bcz I personally can not continue an exercise routine

[@anuradhaashokrane9201]

Hi Anu Mai hamesha apki video dekhti hu aur man hi man me apko appreciate karti rahti hu lekin aaj mujhe apse baat karne ka dil kiya . Aap itni man our behaviour ki sachhi hai bahut hi honest ho aap. Aap ek achhi jimmedar maa hai.Apne aap ke vichar bahut hi clearly our saaf words main rakhe.congratulatins

[@itsmev3539]

Congrats Anu....u truly deserve it....I really look forward to all ur videos....keep doing what you do and keep inspiring....stay blessed....

[@pompey0882]

Congratulations Anu, so happy to see that you have received the silver play button. I have been a subscriber when you were three videos old. I feel so proud on your milestone. I hope that you continue to inspire me like you have in so many ways over the last year. Lots and lots of good wishes and good vibrations for you and your family.

[@sravyasudha1522]

Mam....Hats off to u🙂🙂Love all ur videos and congratulations for the KZbin silver play button...

[@sravikumar9430]

congrats mam

[@anusidanacs]

Truly said.. answer to that question.. and your channel is the best one! It's really Real.. no artificialness..

[@mahimajyoti759]

Loved your video. Nurturing our gowing up kids is very important as they are our asset. Happiness is not always about parties and social gathering. One can enjoy life with a close-knit family too.

[@vanisharma7170]

congratulations for silver button. I really appreciate your priorities and ur way of presenting yourself and things is commendable.

[@purecooking]

Congratulations Anu ji,you deserve it

[@MsBhuvi]

Congratulations on the silver button milestone. Your work is commendable and I must say your are a really smart and hard working woman. Keep going strong! Hope that you get the gold button too very soon. Thank you for sharing your wonderful life & recipes with the viewers.

[@drridaraon8114]

Didiiii... Can u do a vlog on how u manage fights with husband n all.... How u sort out things??

[@shrutikatdare3058]

Hi Anu, I have recently started watching your videos. It's inspiring to see how you do your daily chores cheerfully and systematically. All your tips are definitely going to help me in living more organized life. You are like the elder sister which I never had. Thanks :)

[@humeraismail8727]

Ur videos are so inspiring plz share more about ur marriage story and delivery story plz it’s my request

[@kanpuriyarudra8588]

Humera Ismail .hmm

[@mnegi880]

Also if you can share healthy pregnancy recipes and how you manage there alone that time, it will be useful for other working womens.

[@humeraismail8727]

M Negi yes u r right plz try to share

[@bindujacob5044]

Congrats Anu. Its great that you talked about your life. I have been in the US for twenty years. Life come in seasons. You are absolutely correct that life is not about parties but prioritizing as needed. Not everyones life is the same. Life in america is boring in reality compared to India because of being far from home. I absolutely adore your channel and love your pace and character. Keep it up.

[@smitaharshalgawand9853]

Congratulations and Best Answer ☁😊☁☁😊☁😁☁ ☁😊☁☁😊☁☁☁ ☁😊😊😊😊☁😊☁ ☁😊☁☁😊☁😊☁ ☁😊☁☁😊☁😊☁

[@pratibhamishra3823]

Jo log parties krte rhte h wo family ka dhayan nhi de pate..aap natural ,simple,or real h anu ji ..& congrats for silver play button..😊

[@gurleenbansal508]

U r so cute m living in New Zealand my life is same like u m not going out anywhere

[@s.n4922]

Gurleen Bansal mine too. I live in sydney too. Our life is similar like anu.

[@dhvanisingh5535]

S Menon me too am same I live in Melbourne

[@buttonsinbasket]

Melb Aust I also live in Melbourne. Loved what she said. Its gold for introverts like us.

[@bellashah172]

Congratulations Anu. I think you live a beautiful life and you have so much wisdom fora young mother. Too many people judge others on how social they are . We are all unique and we should be happy in our life . You ended your video so nicely and confidently. Well done. Never take to heart what others say. Hugs.

[@prakny]

Congratulations Anuji! Great achievement! Please keep it up!

[@menusinghal1066]

Congrats Anu Ji for the award. U really deserve it. Motivational video as always. Thanks for inspiring.

[@sudhandevadiga6613]

Loved it ma'am. I understand it so well. M a mother of a three old. A banker. No social life..my life revolves between my family n work..but i dont regret it. Have office friends. Apne sahi kaha un chakkaro me padenge to family life disturb hojati he. N its not worth at all. Love u so much. I enjoy seeing ur videos with ur kids and ur household chores..thats wat ur channel is abt. Real life and real home. Perfect life. God bless u always.. ap mujhse badi he..apki kitni saari kahi hui baaton se mene kitna kuch sikha he.. i have learnt to handle my kid calmly now. Give him attention wen he is around. Thats al coz of u. Thanku so much for all the efforts that u put in making these videos. Its a real stuff. Not fake like most other utubers. All the best for ur wonderful journey

[@sapnaramesh]

Congratulations Anu .Well explained about friends I too relate same with you in this regard.its true nothing should hardle our personal life. Liked the vlog boosted me .

[@rajninegi9718]

u replied so well to those people.perfect person u are.we do not need to go any party place or to have a party to be real.U show us what is real in ur life.not like others.ur simplicity is ur reality.

[@supriyasethi5535]

Congratulations Anu Ma'am..You Deserve It..God Bless You..Lots Of Love..Thanks A Lot For Sharing your thoughts with Us..

[@KN-er2ps]

Congratulations... You are an inspiration to everyone. Keep up the awesome work you are doing. God bless.

[@jivantikabarik8d157]

Congrats anu....I luv u r way of look towards life.....hats off...u.r great example for all Mothers

[@sahmed9199]

Well said Anu ji!! Your videos are actually ''real' life and real home in every true sense.. And u are a true real Indian woman who doesn't fake abt anything.. Thank u for sharing your thought on prioritizing kids over partying/socializing..Make more such videos.. Congratulations for KZbin silver play button. Hope u get Golden play button next year.. All d best

[@28Nagini]

Congratulations Anuji...keep up the god work..you are truly an inspiration

[@shwetakumar1037]

Congratulations Anu! Great work, I love to watch your videos.. lots of love xoxoxo !! :)

[@suparnapaul8904]

Very truthful video. I completely agree with you. U r so practical in life like us. This is the reason I like your videos so much. Keep it up. Love you loads.

[@chhayapatel2601]

Nice vlog...congrats real life real home muje apki soch aachi lagi 😊

[@lovingcatmonchi1804]

Awesome anuji.& congrats

[@happyhome4299]

Congrats well deserved.U r abs correct nurture kids is one's priority.U r a super mom.Appreciate ur efforts bless u

[@aBlackEyedBeauty]

Congrats Anu for the silver play button. Love the content on your channel. I always come back to your channel for ideas on making different kind of meals. I dont have kids but your lil one is such a cutie. Keep up the amazing content on your channel!

[@independence_1947]

I can relate to you like 100% I am in same situation like you. I don’t have a channel but yeah precisely it is the same school of thought and reality. I also have so much respect for you. You are the most responsible yourtuber I have ever seen. Your family and friends are blessed to have you and may god bless you and your family with more happiness.

[@akshayitapadalia2632]

Congratulations !!! Keep up the good work

[@rejeenamary4887]

Very nice vlog mam...Congrats for the award..I really appreciate the communication between you and ur kid...U r absolutely right mam family z first....

[@kalyanid6035]

Nice Anu... Love the way you take care of ur family... There is lot to learn from you... Loads of love to ur little one... One more thing even your video become more longer everyone would love to watch.... Your videos make my day..

[@UmmEesa27]

Many congratulations for the silver button. May Almighty bless you with much more. I really admire your simplicity and your dedication. And giving your family a priority is not a waste of time and energy, its a kind of worship.

[@kamaljoshi4810]

Congratulations Anu! Your videos inspire me.Keep posting.

[@mssds79]

Congratulations dear. Keep up the good work

[@19cygnet]

You totally deserve all the credit for the award Anu...congratulations dear! I totally agree with you on your thoughts about socialising... We follow the same n I'm very glad that it works the best for us

[@nehas.dwivedi5874]

Congratulations anu ji for silver play button 😊😊😊aap ye deserve karte hai.....aapki mehnat aapke vlogs me dikhti hai..isse hume bahut kuch sikhne ko milta hai....aaj samajh aaya aap apne emotions ko kaise manage karti hai😘😘😘😘aapke liye respect aur badh gai aaj🤗🤗🤗

[@AER_316]

Congrats Anu,you deserve it...love your openness about day to day life....😍

[@manjushapatil8768]

Congrats dear... keep on posting such good videos....

[@HopeyouRelateIndianMomUSA]

Ha ha i loved ur and the kido s vegetable and fruit discussion so cute of him

[@gv2311]

congratulations anu ji .absolutely correct about priorities

[@swapnacelin]

Congrats Anu👍 You are a great inspiration.The first Vlog I subscribed is your channel.

[@priteedhowtall5124]

I liked your views and convictions, very practical and sensible. Keep it up!

[@anuashnair6984]

Its been such a pleasure watching your videos! I am constant follower! You have actually helped organise my life alot.. Thanks alot! God bless :)

[@sunitha6473]

Congrats Anu, u are such a wonderful and inspiring person. Its really true that our kids are our main and top most priority in life. keep up the good work. u are a real inspiration.

[@susmitaseth7693]

Congratulations for the silver button...your contents are always so thoughtful...it inspire. Even if u say a line it helps someone somewhere to gather themselves. Only who stays away from family can understand the constant hollowness we have in our heart for not being able to with our parents or relatives or even friends sometimes...missing mostly all functions at home yet putting a smile for kids..my Ma says the same words ...if we are happy n content so shall be they :) thank you !

[@pramitaupadhyay5085]

Congrates anu ...I am very happy to see you with your sliver play button .you deserve it. Aapne bilkul sahi kaha hum sare kaam ek saath nahi kar sakte. Muhje aapke video dekh kar aisa lagta h ki kahi na kahi mai apne aap ko dekh rahi hu....luv u dear...

[@heenarangwani2175]

Wow, congratulations, Anu!! I love your values and how beautifully you expressed your views with regards to some subscribers' questions. Even my life is very simple and quiet and I love it that way. When I see other people's hectic social life on Facebook and other social media I actually get a stress reaction in my being. I don't know how they do it and I don't understand the need for such stimulation as others seem to need in their lives to feel alive and relevant. I guess that's what it means, 'different strokes for different folks'. Keep up the good work, Anu. Always enjoy watching your videos and get a valuable takeaway from them.

[@rallapallianvitha1424]

Congratulations anu ji...... ur just amazing in managing time Nd priorities in life. I love ur videos

[@sonaliamdekar2357]

Hats off to ur thinking and positive attitude. Keep up the good work.

[@potterhead2406]

Congratulations anu!!you are so genuine person..you are the motivation for many people..stay blessed..we would like to watch more day in a life .. please..

[@padmagopinath]

Good answer to whoever asked this question. Life is different in USA and we have choose our priorities and live a happy life!!