How I Met My Abusive (ex) Boyfriend

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illymation

illymation

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@illymation
@illymation 4 жыл бұрын
Here’s all the proof you need. This is the “report” the officer filed. twitter.com/illymation/status/1279990200806961153?s=21
@nxssie8736
@nxssie8736 4 жыл бұрын
Hi illy I went to the Atlanta airport and i saw someone who looked just liked you going to LA on southwest was that you?
@Poepy
@Poepy 4 жыл бұрын
:(
@Cole-tr8ux
@Cole-tr8ux 4 жыл бұрын
Love your animations I thought this comment would have more replies
@Firepaw20011
@Firepaw20011 4 жыл бұрын
@@nxssie8736 that's creepy.
@dovah_exe2438
@dovah_exe2438 4 жыл бұрын
Hey illy I just want you to know that I am here with you like millions of others I hope you are okay ❤️💜❤️💜❤️💜
@cs-lw5xf
@cs-lw5xf 3 жыл бұрын
“we’re like romeo and juliet, okay?” romeo and juliet was a 6 day relationship between a 16 year old and a 13 year old that ended in 3 deaths
@fizzahirfanghani9468
@fizzahirfanghani9468 2 жыл бұрын
6 deaths.....
@fizzahirfanghani9468
@fizzahirfanghani9468 2 жыл бұрын
Romeo, juliet, paris, tybalt and marcutio
@cs-lw5xf
@cs-lw5xf 2 жыл бұрын
pretty sure that’s five
@ssnekky
@ssnekky 2 жыл бұрын
@@ejohnston2543 while it is, if you are a minor, you should live by “if our grades don’t touch, neither do we.” So it is still, to most people, including me, as wrong.
@ejohnston2543
@ejohnston2543 2 жыл бұрын
@@ssnekky omg no I meant as in they both had around about the same amount of years in between. Like their gaps are almost the same amount. Im srry if u took it the wrong way. I am a minor aswell.
@AdieuAlle
@AdieuAlle 6 жыл бұрын
“Age is just a number” and jail is just a room
@haemolacriac
@haemolacriac 6 жыл бұрын
@ploess yep
@pooplooser6497
@pooplooser6497 6 жыл бұрын
Yiay is just a show
@mayonnaise215
@mayonnaise215 6 жыл бұрын
Ziestosti / Celebrating Halloween Early :D ❤️
@bostonnewyorm5637
@bostonnewyorm5637 6 жыл бұрын
Just an amazing response and I now idolize you
@mnart6126
@mnart6126 6 жыл бұрын
There thoo
@kimkardashianslostearrings173
@kimkardashianslostearrings173 3 жыл бұрын
" *Age is just a number* " And being *DEAD* is just taking a long *nap*
@existing5442
@existing5442 3 жыл бұрын
Yep
@whathappened5797
@whathappened5797 3 жыл бұрын
And I'll put him to sleep
@whathappened5797
@whathappened5797 3 жыл бұрын
@@proofz2310 but I wanted to ki- I mean put him to sleep
@jamesjackson5649
@jamesjackson5649 3 жыл бұрын
too long
@Gabynnocap
@Gabynnocap 3 жыл бұрын
A very long one...
@Yourdadleftforthemilk101
@Yourdadleftforthemilk101 Жыл бұрын
As someone who never got justice from *my* abuser, (He was 35, I was SIX. FUCKING *6* , he threatened to kill himself, AND HE ACTUALLY DID IT. HE SHOT HIMSELF IN THE FUCKING HEAD) It makes me sad to know there’s people who went through something similar to what I went through..
@froakachu8077
@froakachu8077 Жыл бұрын
My god, I'm so sorry about that. The world we live in truelly is an awful place sometimes
@RiyaGujare-np9eg
@RiyaGujare-np9eg 4 ай бұрын
Good riddance. That must have been so hard for you i hope you are doing better now ❤
@sseuregi147
@sseuregi147 3 ай бұрын
how is this okay?? that man is 35???? at least he’s gone. for good. did u know him irl or u met him online? or would u rather not say which is completely valid :) don’t feel pressured into saying things that make u uncomfortable, but if you’re fine with it, pls answer :)
@Soulful_Sorrow
@Soulful_Sorrow 3 ай бұрын
It wasn't your fault.
@dilekbicer2955
@dilekbicer2955 2 ай бұрын
@@Soulful_Sorrowtrue like you were only 6 years old it wasn’t your fault you we were just starting to learn about the world but you learned it on the hard way
@zav455
@zav455 4 жыл бұрын
“Age is just a number” And my sword is just a weapon.
@paintitpeachydontforgetthe539
@paintitpeachydontforgetthe539 4 жыл бұрын
Zavier oh this gun?? Haha it’s just a weapon hahaha. Oh did I just shoot you Harris... *not. At. All.*
@literalmalteaser7677
@literalmalteaser7677 4 жыл бұрын
@@paintitpeachydontforgetthe539 w h a t ?
@literalmalteaser7677
@literalmalteaser7677 4 жыл бұрын
@Julya Flyer cells are just rooms.
@diegoflores9267
@diegoflores9267 4 жыл бұрын
And prison is just a room
@theratking3075
@theratking3075 4 жыл бұрын
And life is just a transition.
@ActuallyRea
@ActuallyRea 6 жыл бұрын
God this hits way too close to home. Stay strong girl, you're doing amazing.
@illymation
@illymation 6 жыл бұрын
It hits home for too many people. Thank you ❤️
@bunnyqueenkj
@bunnyqueenkj 6 жыл бұрын
We love you both. You both are wonderful amazing people. Thank you for making a ton of peoples days brighter with your work
@Genderless_spoon
@Genderless_spoon 6 жыл бұрын
💜
@I_am_Lauren
@I_am_Lauren 6 жыл бұрын
💓 it's so scary how close to home this hits and how familiar this type of story sounds. Speak your truth! 💓
@I_am_Lauren
@I_am_Lauren 6 жыл бұрын
@@illymation too true Illy...💓
@teaxx2920
@teaxx2920 2 жыл бұрын
You deserve to expose his name . What he did to you was unforgivable, if he invaded your body , you have the right to invade his privacy . I’m so glad you have made the choice to spread awareness about this kind of stuff and i hope you are safe now
@R41ph3a7b6
@R41ph3a7b6 2 жыл бұрын
Preach it to the choir
@cheeze588
@cheeze588 2 жыл бұрын
Preach froggy preah
@frogdrinkmatcha
@frogdrinkmatcha 2 жыл бұрын
You deserve to expose everything about him
@awb7776
@awb7776 2 жыл бұрын
I'm surprised she didn't reveal haris's full name
@thumper84
@thumper84 2 жыл бұрын
She also had to own her part and more importantly her lousy parents need to own theirs
@jwoxhs
@jwoxhs 2 жыл бұрын
"Just stop" "Just walk away" "Just ignore him" "Just don't fall for it in the first place" Oh. my. gosh. Stop it, it doesn't help. It doesn't help to tell people that they can just simply do something. It isn't that easy. I've never been in this situation but I can imagine it. I'm glad you're okay now! Please try to stay safe ✨
@METHAMPHETAMINE999
@METHAMPHETAMINE999 2 жыл бұрын
fact, you cant just hop in a fucking time machine and prevent those types of shitheads in the first place
@N.I.A23
@N.I.A23 2 жыл бұрын
If women don't like being abused then why do they enter straight relationships?? Are they slow??
@miltonrozelle2361
@miltonrozelle2361 2 жыл бұрын
Why the fuck you say just so much
@Sandwich_People
@Sandwich_People 2 жыл бұрын
That’s basically like saying to someone who got into a car accident “just drive better”
@intensehummingofevil
@intensehummingofevil 2 жыл бұрын
@@miltonrozelle2361 is reading hard for you
@qmulus_yt
@qmulus_yt 6 жыл бұрын
At first I heard that she was 16 and he was 17 and I was like "I don't think that's pedophilia" Then I rewinded it... "I was 13 and he was 17" DUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUDE
@Sketchy_Dood
@Sketchy_Dood 6 жыл бұрын
Starry Night when she said that it started when she was 13 and he was 17 I was like “oh but at 17 you don’t count as a legal adult” and then after when she said it lasted for a few years til he was 21 it all made sense now.
@jamieroach9676
@jamieroach9676 6 жыл бұрын
that doesn’t legally count as pedophilia though? look it up
@qmulus_yt
@qmulus_yt 6 жыл бұрын
Oh I thought it was 4+ years difference
@jamieroach9676
@jamieroach9676 6 жыл бұрын
Starry Night nah dude it’s legally pedophilia when it’s 6+ years.
@Sketchy_Dood
@Sketchy_Dood 6 жыл бұрын
stormy springs nah man pedophilia starts from just a baby
@ashley431
@ashley431 6 жыл бұрын
While I was watching this, tears started to well up in my eyes at the Grooming part. When I was 5, I was sexually abused by a family member. They acted like they cared about me and they always were very nice to me, but when we were alone, he started to sexually harass me. I didn't know what to do and I was so scared so I just let it happen. I'm so glad someone like you made a video because of this and thank you so much for spreading awareness on this issue. Whatever he did you did not deserve at all and I hope you recover and become stronger. ❤❤❤❤❤
@iconicdobrev4667
@iconicdobrev4667 6 жыл бұрын
Yeah i can relate, I was abused by my moms ex and two family members :)
@madischultz7796
@madischultz7796 6 жыл бұрын
That really shouldn't happen. It sucks that this is happening in the world.
@den4744
@den4744 6 жыл бұрын
If you don't mind answering, what happened to that piece of garage?
@ddlcispoly
@ddlcispoly 6 ай бұрын
Hi!! Im 15 and i watched this when it first came out, i rewatch it regulary when im going through the roster of all of your videos. Ive had multiple people try to do this to me in the last 5 years and I probably would have fell for it if it wasn't for watching this video. Youve made so much of a difference in the world, love your content ❤️❤️❤️
@azrieldreamer
@azrieldreamer 6 жыл бұрын
"Age is just a number" And jail is just a room
@kittypie7678
@kittypie7678 6 жыл бұрын
Azriel Animations I heard from somewhere that it was originally meant that older people can still find love with people around their age such as 40, 50 or 60 and pedos turned it into an excuse to date kids.
@cc0nfused
@cc0nfused 6 жыл бұрын
This comment to the top! ❤️
@gnarthdarkanen7464
@gnarthdarkanen7464 6 жыл бұрын
...AND a grave is just a hole in the ground... ...AND a GSW is just an "artificial orifice"... ;o)
@layshamusick3069
@layshamusick3069 6 жыл бұрын
its "age is just a number" soo is a jail sail
@KMVP
@KMVP 6 жыл бұрын
Age is just a number...so is 9-1-1
@Agent-XI
@Agent-XI Жыл бұрын
I’m so so sorry…I know the words are empty when you haven’t experienced it but…Thank you for informing us about how this happens and sharing your experience with us so others and I can understand ❤
@meganh109
@meganh109 6 жыл бұрын
I think age is just a number depending on how old you are. Like if you’re 10 years apart but you’re 40 and your partner is 50 I think that’s ok because you’re both adults and you’re capable of making choices and you know how to consent. But if you’re 10 and your partner is 20 then that’s an issue.
@Ellieescent
@Ellieescent 6 жыл бұрын
Your age, halved, add 7. The less you've lived, the more age matters.
@lavenderrroses
@lavenderrroses 6 жыл бұрын
I agree.
@kawaiiartist1945
@kawaiiartist1945 6 жыл бұрын
❤️
@shamsside8193
@shamsside8193 6 жыл бұрын
@toetotipthatsabart5048
@toetotipthatsabart5048 6 жыл бұрын
When people say “age is just a number” it’s to uplift older men and women who feel like they’ll never find love because of their age, it’s NOT to valid pedophiles. My parents are 20 years apart, my dad was 50-ish when she was 23-ish. The reason he was dating was because his ex-wife emotionally abused him for years, and he was just now looking for love again. That’s a situation where age is just a number. Where it’s an older person who’s still able to find love despite not being in the “socially correct” age range.
@MrToast-fo4sp
@MrToast-fo4sp 4 жыл бұрын
"AgE iS jUsT a NuMBer" *And prison is just a room*
@user-ze5hr2pi3m
@user-ze5hr2pi3m 4 жыл бұрын
"AgE iS jUsT a NuMbEr" 999
@quakenow6484
@quakenow6484 4 жыл бұрын
Ya know what else is a number *911*
@ItsWhiteout
@ItsWhiteout 4 жыл бұрын
AnD A hOle Is juSt A pLacE
@marinoanims9235
@marinoanims9235 4 жыл бұрын
And the electric chair is what he deserve
@leilaoumarou
@leilaoumarou 4 жыл бұрын
666
@disctheartist456
@disctheartist456 2 жыл бұрын
A year ago I watched this video. A year ago I told my parents. A year ago I was 12 and couldn't tell that the 17 year old was grooming me. I couldn't tell. Please, if you are in a situation like this, please, tell someone you trust.(not them) and get somewhere you feel safe and comfortable. For me nothing big happened, no nudes, just dating during the pandemic, which I am thankful for so we couldn't get closer. I see what he was doing now, and I fucking hate him so much for it. I remember the threatened suicides, I remember watching this and my first thoughts were "he would never do that. I trust him!" I remember being scared but him gaslighting me telling me I wasn't. I remember him breaking my boundaries, I remember everything. And I hate it. Please reach out if you don't see the red flags. And illy, thank you for spreading awareness about this topic, not many people do. And if it wasn't for you, I would still be with him, I would still be scared, no, terrified. Thank you, so so much.
@ameliawaite9419
@ameliawaite9419 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry
@secondname4752
@secondname4752 2 жыл бұрын
im so proud of you
@Jujuonthatbeat777
@Jujuonthatbeat777 Жыл бұрын
Oh my…….
@Magicalwolfgamer
@Magicalwolfgamer Жыл бұрын
Please be careful out there
@superlandon14
@superlandon14 Жыл бұрын
And this was a year ago
@rr4ch
@rr4ch 6 жыл бұрын
My sister went through something like this. I hate people who blame the victim. I really do. Thank you for warning and talking to people about this type of topic.
@catwitch2479
@catwitch2479 6 жыл бұрын
❤️
@Mimi-mp2ys
@Mimi-mp2ys 6 жыл бұрын
💞
@Mr.RenTD-
@Mr.RenTD- 6 жыл бұрын
@gabrieldiaz1976
@gabrieldiaz1976 6 жыл бұрын
❤️
@docpansy2692
@docpansy2692 6 жыл бұрын
@dimachee
@dimachee 6 жыл бұрын
'aGe iS jUsT a NumBeR' yeah.. aNd jAiL iS jUsT A rOom
@axothylest4417
@axothylest4417 6 жыл бұрын
You know what else is a number? 9-1-1
@cia4u401
@cia4u401 6 жыл бұрын
I mean You're not wrong
@Ark4nin3
@Ark4nin3 6 жыл бұрын
@@axothylest4417 God-dammit I was just about to post that :(
@demonicangel3191
@demonicangel3191 6 жыл бұрын
Well said.
@dimachee
@dimachee 6 жыл бұрын
@Gazaru Noaika wanna be? Whats your @. Could be any Edit: wait.. its someone else wasnt it? OoF
@FleurvanHam
@FleurvanHam 6 жыл бұрын
I was in a relationship with a guy who lives in another country. He was 18 and I was 14 when we started dating. Watching this video, I realize how much our stories are alike and how wrong it was. The gaslichting, threatening with suicide.. I had been with him for a year and a half and it's over now, luckily, but I feel like being in that relationship has left me so many emotional and mental problems I'm still facing to today.
@haia901
@haia901 6 жыл бұрын
I hope you're safe!! You have my support and i hope that person's in jail now 😤❤️❤️ (╹◡╹)♡
@FleurvanHam
@FleurvanHam 6 жыл бұрын
thank you
@vanelly5652
@vanelly5652 6 жыл бұрын
Fleurtje glad you got out you can’t affect how people talk to you or do to you but you can affect how memories affect you hope your living happily
@FleurvanHam
@FleurvanHam 6 жыл бұрын
thank you, I'm trying my best to forget all about it
@sharkdoggo7808
@sharkdoggo7808 6 жыл бұрын
I feel sorry for you and everything but... What is wrong with you,that you start that shit with 14?!
@classydays43
@classydays43 10 ай бұрын
I think the whole world needs to hear stories like these, just so people in that situation can realise what they are going through and learn how to do something about it. Thank you for being so brave, Illy. It means a lot for the people that understand.
@lisakanzira8976
@lisakanzira8976 3 жыл бұрын
"Fuck ya privacy." Wisdom of God. Not even a joke.
@fumiko_is_typing...
@fumiko_is_typing... 3 жыл бұрын
@Logan Coppler you are too dramatic
@chaoscontrolfreak9569
@chaoscontrolfreak9569 3 жыл бұрын
Is ur profile pic moni-sans
@graetyyy_motherwas.here.1340
@graetyyy_motherwas.here.1340 Жыл бұрын
If age is just a number, so is 911.
@JadaLGBTfr
@JadaLGBTfr Жыл бұрын
When I had a friend who I met online and would also threaten and not reply for hours because I didn’t reply it absolutely killed me. I was 11 and I was in a fandom being a usual simp and a coo went of a server of people who I thought were like me. One of them was my best friend and the one who kept threatening shook me so much. I’m older now tho but what happened was crazy but now that I’ve watched this I know it’s not my fault. They would demand attention but I managed to unfriend them and recommend a therapist or something and it helped them. I cut ties with the server because they would blame me and yeah.
@DracaCat
@DracaCat Жыл бұрын
This makes me realise that my old gf gaslighted me. Very often,and used autism as an excuse
@snowmuff7467
@snowmuff7467 3 жыл бұрын
I just realised that my boyfriend was like yours. He would blackmail me with suicidal msgs if I didn't agree to something and make me do things I didn't want to do. *Phew* thankfully it's over. ✌️
@someweirdo8380
@someweirdo8380 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad your out of that awful guys life. People are the worst
@snowmuff7467
@snowmuff7467 3 жыл бұрын
@@someweirdo8380 yeah true. I am so much happier now , genuinely
@violet_magicc701
@violet_magicc701 3 жыл бұрын
so glad you got out of there!!
@snowmuff7467
@snowmuff7467 3 жыл бұрын
@@violet_magicc701 Thank you!! ^ ^
@CheeseOnTop2007
@CheeseOnTop2007 3 жыл бұрын
He deserves the worst.
@iAMtwoman22
@iAMtwoman22 10 ай бұрын
"torture is just a form of punishment" "911, WHAT'S YOUR EMERGENCY?"
@haveagoodday1187
@haveagoodday1187 Жыл бұрын
I was 13 too when I was put in a situation like this online. My friend was the one who finally convinced me to block them and get away. This hits close. I'm so proud of you for getting out.
@haveagoodday1187
@haveagoodday1187 Жыл бұрын
The amount of times I've been told "you're the one who chose to talk to them!" Is too many.
@JordanS-ww4eu
@JordanS-ww4eu Ай бұрын
@@haveagoodday1187 I’m so sorry you went through that no teenager should have to go through that
@Savethelobsters
@Savethelobsters 6 жыл бұрын
I literally started crying when you said you moved to Califórnia because of him, the whole thing he did is so messed up, It really good that you are sharing such a clearly complicated and hard story that happend to you to warn others so that they don't go throw the same stuff, I think you're awesome for that
@vivsong106
@vivsong106 6 жыл бұрын
❤️
@angelinajewel7104
@angelinajewel7104 6 жыл бұрын
@louera
@louera 6 жыл бұрын
❤️
@myramochi499
@myramochi499 6 жыл бұрын
@rachelpurity1
@rachelpurity1 6 жыл бұрын
Yeah... Must've been bad if she thinks California is better than what happened.
@tahraethestoryteller6079
@tahraethestoryteller6079 2 ай бұрын
When someone changes the name of their abuser on stories like this, it’s for their safety Not the abuser’s privacy
@Skrot7
@Skrot7 2 жыл бұрын
I’m soon turning 13. I’m so scared. I wish i could hug you Illy, especially at the end when your voice sounded so sad. You’re great and so strong, thank you for teaching us young girls and boys that this is NOT okay and that there is a way to get out. You’re such an inspiration.
@Danny883YT
@Danny883YT Жыл бұрын
It will be alright dw, just don’t give out too much personal info to random ass strangers inline. And don’t be afraid to speak up
@HackiePuffs
@HackiePuffs Жыл бұрын
Making online friends can be great but it’s also important to be aware of the dangers. If you feel like you’re in a bad situation don’t be afraid to tell your parents. Their job is to protect you from these things let them know if anything suspicious happens to you. Wish you the best in the future 💙🤍
@Danny883YT
@Danny883YT Жыл бұрын
@@HackiePuffs exactly
@bronzelaugh2350
@bronzelaugh2350 Жыл бұрын
I'll give you some advice as someone who spent a lot of their teenage years online: as soon as someone starts to threaten their life or yours in order to get you to do something for them, TELL YOUR PARENTS. They'll know what to do. If you have particularly bad parents, tell another trusted adult or your friends. Go private on everything, change your username and passwords on everything, and block the account making threats. If you still feel unsafe with all that, delete the account(s) asap. If you truly feel your life or someone else's is in danger, call an emergency number to report the person.
@OctoCorn
@OctoCorn Жыл бұрын
I’m a 14 year old girl- I’ve definitely begun to receive my fair share of messages from creepy old men online. Remember, don’t engage. IGNORE. BLOCK. REPORT.
@chrisg5466
@chrisg5466 6 жыл бұрын
"FECK YA PRIVACY" I lost it
@kaylaclark580
@kaylaclark580 6 жыл бұрын
Chris G I died so much
@kaylaclark580
@kaylaclark580 6 жыл бұрын
I just kept laughing When she said it
@jamesminroe157
@jamesminroe157 6 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@vakezanimation762
@vakezanimation762 6 жыл бұрын
What part was and is this
@ariannesmith761
@ariannesmith761 6 жыл бұрын
Saammmeee
@Froggy-s4p
@Froggy-s4p 2 ай бұрын
I started crying I feel so bad for you I hope your doing better
@Rose-ef2cm
@Rose-ef2cm 6 жыл бұрын
This.... opened my eyes about a lot of things I let slide in my own abusive relationship. I was by no means a child, but it was my first relationship ever. So by experience standards with dating, I was horribly naive. Is there a term like grooming but for adults? Because that’s what he did to me. He made me believe all these horrible things he did was normal and that I NEEDED him and that he needed me and if I left it would result in tragedy... If I didn’t have sex with him, he’s threaten to purge. He had an eating disorder I was helping him with. And if I wasn’t sexual with him, he’d threaten me with his own safety, Maki g me believe that if I wasn’t sexual with him even if I didn’t want to be, I was responsible for his health and that if I wasn’t sexual it was my fault if he got worse. I don’t know what to call this. Sexual abuse? Grooming? But I didn’t even consider the fact that I may have had Stockholm syndrome. I’m...going to talk to my therapist about this.
@illymation
@illymation 6 жыл бұрын
Rose I’m so sorry you went through that. But I’m also so glad you’re out! Hm I suppose grooming for adults would be manipulation, maybe rationalizing? I touch on rationalizing in the next video! God yes I always felt “responsible” for his well being, but also so disgusted with myself for getting to that point. But same! That was my first relationship! All I knew were the lies they were telling me.
@oliverjakelanders8466
@oliverjakelanders8466 6 жыл бұрын
❤️
@elesaur2408
@elesaur2408 6 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry you had to deal with this. Be strong and know I'm with you.
@thomasturton6683
@thomasturton6683 6 жыл бұрын
In the UK they call it coercive control. It tends to be very calculated, each step designed to lower self esteem and increase dependence on the abuser. You can get 4-5 years for it if proven. A colloquial term for the "Stockholme Syndrome" that these abused women is known as Battered Wife Syndrome (BWS), it's more associated with the PTSD that comes after (feeling like they're everywhere, that you need to come back to them when you don't etc.) But it has gained more traction in more official places recently as a condition in its own right.
@thomasturton6683
@thomasturton6683 6 жыл бұрын
Also, much like the others I am glad you've got out of it. Stay strong and if you're uk based, your therapist can talk to the police if they feel your ex has exhibited coercive control over you.
@sidrakhan9737
@sidrakhan9737 6 жыл бұрын
Harris:age is just a number Me: oh you know what else is just a number *911*
@samirmusse8543
@samirmusse8543 6 жыл бұрын
Stolen memeesssss
@lukepuke7398
@lukepuke7398 6 жыл бұрын
ROASTED
@imthegirlgrimreaperofheart5176
@imthegirlgrimreaperofheart5176 6 жыл бұрын
Ohhhh!!!! You go!!! That chicken is going down!!!
@084ironman
@084ironman 6 жыл бұрын
Harris: age is just a number Me: and jail is just a room
@km-fi6de
@km-fi6de 6 жыл бұрын
Yasss!!!!!😍😍
@applesaur3622
@applesaur3622 6 жыл бұрын
victim blaming pisses me off so much. when people say to me "why didn't you say no?" or "why didn't you leave?" I want to cry because I tried it just wasn't an option! that's the case for most people who have one through this. so I get it girl and I am amazed that you can stand up a talk about it like this to spread awareness. you're such an amazing role model for the kids who watch your videos.
@shinyumbreon696
@shinyumbreon696 6 жыл бұрын
I have no idea how anyone could watch this video and still think it was somehow Illy's fault. Some people.
@crookiemoon3547
@crookiemoon3547 6 жыл бұрын
something 323 I hate it so much too it's like telling someone who's dead to just come back to life like it's not really an option
@snowflakeanimations2990
@snowflakeanimations2990 6 жыл бұрын
something 323 I know I hate that. If I was in the same situation and my parents or adult save me they would blame it on me and my parents would ground me. Which is mess up as heck.
@zigzagoon-pl7yh
@zigzagoon-pl7yh 6 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry you've had to go through this.
@CookisxMilkx
@CookisxMilkx 6 ай бұрын
The fact that I’m exactly 13-
@meh-_-9671
@meh-_-9671 5 ай бұрын
Then be careful
@SamShiel-wy6lh
@SamShiel-wy6lh 2 ай бұрын
Yeah, when I was five, I nearly got kidnapped on Fortnite
@MRVinydf
@MRVinydf 6 жыл бұрын
I feel sick right now but thank you for sharing that’s very very important for me as a father of two girls.
@julia-nt8ll
@julia-nt8ll 6 жыл бұрын
Just make sure they're safe, don't let anything happen to them, just don't hold them back when they're full controled adults. Please don't let what happened to me or illy (I was sexually abused when I was 3)
@terra_727
@terra_727 6 жыл бұрын
@@julia-nt8ll Sexually abused... when you were THREE?!!!!!!!! WTF?
@marycannon2943
@marycannon2943 6 жыл бұрын
I think the most important thing is not to control them or helicopter parent them, but to educate them and help them understand the consequences and let them know that no matter what you love them. Let them know that if something like this were to happen you’re there to protect them and there’s always a way to get out.
@EmoXWolf
@EmoXWolf 6 жыл бұрын
Nawhh wish I had a son but WTHH IM ONLY 14 (insert derp face)
@julia-nt8ll
@julia-nt8ll 6 жыл бұрын
PoLterGhast / GDTeRra yeah I was sexually abused when I was 3 to 6 years old...bad part that it was by my brothers bff ;~;
@NejisMate
@NejisMate 6 жыл бұрын
(I'm a girl, despite my username.) When I was around 12 or 13, I used to play an online game about building cities and an army and attacking others. We could join clans with others in our area to better defend ourselves and each clan had a group forum. Anyway, so I joined a clan and this guy messaged me, we started talking, he seemed nice. After a couple months, he asked for my email because "his internet connection was slow" and loading the game to see my messages took a long time. So I did, we continued talking, he called me his internet girlfriend, he'd say he'd like to meet me (but he lived in a different country) and one day he asked for a photo of me. He sent me one of his and he was a guy probably around 30, it all suddenly felt very creepy but I didn't really stop to think about why it felt like that. Before then I used the internet mostly to look at pictures of Inuyasha, so there were things I still didn't know how to do online. I asked my mum how to attach a photo to an email, she came over to help me and she read his latest email. She told me she didn't want me talking to him or sending him any photos and that put an end to the thing. When I didn't answer him, he found me on facebook and started harrassing me through there, but my mum telling me not to talk to him made me take the iniciative to block him. Looking back, I'm really really glad my mum saw because that wasn't even the creepiest email he'd sent, I don't know what would've happened but I know I was naive, innocent and too young to know about what some people want from kids. He would've sucked me in easily and manipulated me into who knows what. You can't blame kids for finding themselves in these situations. There's an age of consent for a reason. Illymation, I'm so sorry for what you went through. This is your first video I've seen, but I hope things are better for you now!
@dreem6644
@dreem6644 6 жыл бұрын
Was it Clash of Clanz
@NejisMate
@NejisMate 6 жыл бұрын
Nah, this was about 10 years ago. I don't think Clash of clans was even around back then.
@dreem6644
@dreem6644 6 жыл бұрын
@@NejisMate Clash of Clans ancestor
@noonebossesthegarnet2890
@noonebossesthegarnet2890 6 жыл бұрын
Josh I played Clash of Clans. People would be very inappropriate and say such nasty or dirty things. No wonder I deleted it.
@thenextgeneration9030
@thenextgeneration9030 6 жыл бұрын
NO ONE! BOSSES! THE GARNET! Clash of Clans has alot of those "18+ dating" clans filled with hungry children.
@AreesDaOG
@AreesDaOG Жыл бұрын
This video is liget how I realized I got groomed
@San_Da_Frying_Pan
@San_Da_Frying_Pan Жыл бұрын
I don't know how to react to this, I'm sorry...
@SlimThief
@SlimThief Жыл бұрын
​@@San_Da_Frying_Panme neither man. I hope they're okay now
@NyanNEHKOH
@NyanNEHKOH 5 жыл бұрын
I didn't realize it until now when i was 13 i was groomed too. But it wasn't as extensive as your relationship and I'm soo glad your talking about this. THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR STORY!!!
@bat5092
@bat5092 5 жыл бұрын
❤️
@elsabrashares8877
@elsabrashares8877 5 жыл бұрын
❤️
@notemmamyass
@notemmamyass 4 жыл бұрын
♥️
@marieclaire1180
@marieclaire1180 4 жыл бұрын
@Bamboom134
@Bamboom134 5 ай бұрын
9:29 the human mind is quite an interesting piece of our body and some people don’t realize how much it can be altered and messed up
@Lightspeed840
@Lightspeed840 6 ай бұрын
My favorite line is "he invaded my fifteen year old body! Fuck your privacy Fuck your privacy!" 😂😂😂
@Koala019
@Koala019 5 жыл бұрын
OK KZbin I WATCHED IT
@bearambles.
@bearambles. 5 жыл бұрын
IKR
@davidanunez2
@davidanunez2 5 жыл бұрын
hahhhahahhhahhhahhahahahhahh
@sovietyunyun1352
@sovietyunyun1352 5 жыл бұрын
Now we are depressed together lol
@lillieshippy
@lillieshippy 5 жыл бұрын
yeah it’s been in my recommended forEVER
@conorsquid3833
@conorsquid3833 5 жыл бұрын
lol same
@ziairragotnoskills5158
@ziairragotnoskills5158 5 жыл бұрын
Harris: *says he’s going to commit suicide* me: *sends suicide hotline* okayyyy there you go getcha self some help byeee
@slaughterofelysium
@slaughterofelysium 5 жыл бұрын
Could ya not just let him commit? ... I mean... He deserved it... ... That sounded sociopathic... ... Plz don't kill meh ... Actually ye just send him a suicide prevention hotline ... 😅😁😶
@kbgamingcomics6800
@kbgamingcomics6800 5 жыл бұрын
Yo we have the same profile picture
@toleco8111
@toleco8111 5 жыл бұрын
A Google User even though he was a big *ss d*ck suicide isn’t a suitable punishment, just let him rot in prison instead!
@stinger59605
@stinger59605 5 жыл бұрын
A Google User it irrelevant anyway since he was faking it
@cr-chris4125
@cr-chris4125 5 жыл бұрын
For real, it could’ve been so simple but nooo 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️
@Phinne4Uoffical
@Phinne4Uoffical 11 ай бұрын
The woman is a legend for putting a link so that kids can stay safe. This is just amazing.
@thentheric6361
@thentheric6361 6 жыл бұрын
You see... when my sis was 7 and she started going to school, she caught me watching Elfen Lied (yes, THAT anime), and I dared to take responsibility for watching it again with her and translate every single line of it for her. After each torturous episode we discussed what happened and why. The next summer we were at "the" lake (like, a BIG lake) with a family friend and he - completely naively, no doubt about that - wanted to tease my sis a bit about going topless by saying he'd pinch her nipples. My sis jumped away, laughed him in the face and shouted: "XY, YOU'RE A PEDOPHILE!" and hopped along as a 20 feet circle around us went dead silent and staring in awe... and then, in spite of my embarrassment I was the proudest in my life, because I knew I did the right thing, since: 1) My sister noticed the inappropriate aspect of the situation 2) She pointed it out vocally without a second thought 3) She didn't experience it as a reason for shame or a form of victimization or trauma In my opinion a parent's job is to prepare their children for life, not to merely protect them from it. Wisdom is a weapon. You must pass it on. This video is valuable in its own right, because your experience is truly noxious. Thanks for sharing.
@AlphaTengua
@AlphaTengua 6 жыл бұрын
Amen brother (im not religious but that about sums it up XD) i like her she sounds fun.
@mikaylawaldorf4965
@mikaylawaldorf4965 6 жыл бұрын
❤️
@charleigh728
@charleigh728 6 жыл бұрын
💛💕💞
@charlottevicarage1331
@charlottevicarage1331 6 жыл бұрын
Good of you to do that.
@Dessi1200
@Dessi1200 6 жыл бұрын
@fabianshedenhelm2986
@fabianshedenhelm2986 10 ай бұрын
I was stuck in that hell for 8 years it normalized so many awful shit in my brain. Now I gotta learn how to catch myself, for what 10 people done to me over and over and over again. I don't like myself I know I hurt people possibly cause of it.
@nineofswords.
@nineofswords. 5 жыл бұрын
"Age is just a number" and jail is just time out for adults :^)
@curbsidetomb1279
@curbsidetomb1279 5 жыл бұрын
you know what else is just a number? 911
@Birch_ON
@Birch_ON 5 жыл бұрын
"No" is just a word
@invisiblesic3820
@invisiblesic3820 5 жыл бұрын
Lol
@Birch_ON
@Birch_ON 5 жыл бұрын
Prison is just a place @@invisiblesic3820
@kittenrants
@kittenrants 5 жыл бұрын
😂
@erictolliver8841
@erictolliver8841 Жыл бұрын
"He invaded my 15 year old body f your privacy, f your privacy." That sentence was funny. But, on a serious note I'm really sorry you had to go through that and I'm glad you left him.
@JAYDENBUGGZ
@JAYDENBUGGZ Жыл бұрын
I feel so sorry for this to happen to you =( I’ve been groomed by 2 people witch it is so awful to hear others who have ever been through this. Stay safe girl! ♥
@Swiftieforlife13-k4g
@Swiftieforlife13-k4g Жыл бұрын
Me having cerebral palsy be like:WHAT!?YOU HAVE CP!?(cp sometimes stands for cerebral palsy)
@hansolo4021
@hansolo4021 Жыл бұрын
I do have CP
@selenahopeofficial
@selenahopeofficial Жыл бұрын
I have cerebral palsy too lol
@hansolo4021
@hansolo4021 Жыл бұрын
Um CP also stands for child po-
@imannatasha3302
@imannatasha3302 6 жыл бұрын
Your voice was cracking at the end of the video and I started feeling really bad for your childhood that he ruined :'(
@backstabboi4559
@backstabboi4559 6 жыл бұрын
when she was 15 he was 21 yet she said she was 13 and he was 17 two years passed and he should be 19
@onepunch1333
@onepunch1333 6 жыл бұрын
Um... I can tell your putting the same comment under this person from the last one.... :-\ :-\ :-\ :-\
@arcticedge2022
@arcticedge2022 6 жыл бұрын
1 in 5 girls is a victim of child sexual abuse? Holy Fu- Jesus. I thought It’d be a lot smaller. I’ve been sexually abused by my own father but police say I don’t have proof on it even though my brothers and mom told all of the same stories. I’m thankful that it’s nothing more than touching my butt but it still makes me never want to be alone with him or just near him in general. This thing is still going on and since my dad is at work, all I have to do is stay in my room until he goes to sleep. I’m sorry if more than what I experienced has happened to you and I hope it gets resolved.
@shavlis
@shavlis 6 жыл бұрын
I am in the same situation, he always says that is a "joke" or something but never goes further than that. Good luck I think (? English is not my first language so sorry for any mistake
@Grayman2003
@Grayman2003 6 жыл бұрын
Arctic Edge ❤️
@fantoonstic
@fantoonstic 6 жыл бұрын
A truly fucked up world we live in. Child pornography being legal as long as it’s an animation, people having to hide from their own parents, I cannot even _fathom_ how hard it must be for you. I know I can’t help you but I wish you as much luck and goodwill as I can. I’m so sorry for you.
@spaceace9103
@spaceace9103 6 жыл бұрын
Are you talking about Shadman
@hornfury
@hornfury 6 жыл бұрын
honestly if he does anything more than that i suggest running away to a safe place or going to your grandparents house
@wildbeautyunderneath4735
@wildbeautyunderneath4735 10 ай бұрын
Trust is a movie of a teen that meets someone online, and it leads to them getting rapped. This reminded me of this.
@heidicarrillo1526
@heidicarrillo1526 5 жыл бұрын
Can't wait for part 2 stay strong
@esther7365
@esther7365 5 жыл бұрын
Roxy C when is it coming out
@issa.akwardblackgirl9203
@issa.akwardblackgirl9203 5 жыл бұрын
friday
@shinamy
@shinamy 5 жыл бұрын
She confirmed it to come out this Friday ♡
@bigtoblerone8446
@bigtoblerone8446 5 жыл бұрын
@@shinamy good to know ;o
@esther7365
@esther7365 5 жыл бұрын
shinnie did she say what time cause I’m on GMT
@RUDE7643
@RUDE7643 5 жыл бұрын
Reading those messages made me sick to my stomach.
@bigbadmodernwolf6078
@bigbadmodernwolf6078 5 жыл бұрын
Same here
@someonewithayoutube7418
@someonewithayoutube7418 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@graceh8050
@graceh8050 6 жыл бұрын
This popped up on my recommended videos to watch and I have never watched any of your content before, but this animation was really good and also a sad subject. I am so sorry this has to happen to you and I can’t wait for you to share the rest of your story. 💗
@belix7019
@belix7019 6 жыл бұрын
same
@maureenorourke7134
@maureenorourke7134 6 жыл бұрын
I agree
@cookiemunsterninjaa
@cookiemunsterninjaa 6 жыл бұрын
Same here
@beep___boop
@beep___boop 10 ай бұрын
"Well.......heris made me......" i swear someone protect her 🥲🥲
@feliciaroseantonia
@feliciaroseantonia 6 жыл бұрын
Last month I was contacted by my own pedophile abuser (on my birthday), for the first time in three years since I blocked him. I had a conversation with him since I felt it gave me emotional closure to finally completely stand up to him & block him again, which I did. However it's… scary. Horrifying. But I admitted that and moved forward, which I'm so thankful for. Still, I've wanted to tell the story of what happened to me with him, the friend group I met him in, & what my school & home lives were like as I kept talking to him, as I saw his true colors, & as I blocked him & moved forward. I don't draw or animate myself, but you've honestly truly inspired me to come forward publicly with my own story more. I've said bits and pieces here & there, but not like you have for your own story here. I want to do that too, I have for so long; but you've helped me find such a deeper courage within myself. I want to jump forward & speak up on my own stories, no matter how scary, because it helps to set me free. I couldn't thank you more, Illysa. This is the first video of yours I've seen, and I couldn't be more thankful and proud of you for all you've done. You may not see it now, but you've helped thousands of people, and that's just barely getting at the surface. Just remember to go completely at your own pace. Thank you so, so much.
@four1629
@four1629 6 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@keithkengxiong8667
@keithkengxiong8667 6 жыл бұрын
🙂
@xenmorphenthusiast5028
@xenmorphenthusiast5028 6 жыл бұрын
you are very brave for sharing that horrible experience since others won't. Stay powerful 👍
@feliciaroseantonia
@feliciaroseantonia 6 жыл бұрын
You guys are all so sweet and supportive. This community is so healing & welcoming, honestly. Thank you all so, so much ♡
@keithkengxiong8667
@keithkengxiong8667 6 жыл бұрын
U are very strong Felica
@GAY_AH_MIRROR
@GAY_AH_MIRROR Жыл бұрын
"Age is just a number" Hell is just a place where you belong Haris
@boopadoop5296
@boopadoop5296 4 жыл бұрын
Creepy guy: age is just a number😉 Girl: you know what else is just a number? Creepy guy: what? Girl: 911....
@s_0s_x1s43
@s_0s_x1s43 4 жыл бұрын
Sooooo true
@Moosemeese_
@Moosemeese_ 4 жыл бұрын
Jail is just a room
@francescamagri4977
@francescamagri4977 4 жыл бұрын
This comment is stolen but i don't care
@SukunaIsHim
@SukunaIsHim Жыл бұрын
Age is just a number So is your prison sentence
@bluesish1350
@bluesish1350 6 жыл бұрын
You: *Mentions how the viewers are around the age of 13* Me: *In my head* uH I'M 18 AM I TO OLD FOR ANIMATOR VIDEOS? With all jokes aside, I'm so glad you're safe. I know I've almost had issues with people like that. I was actually too in a toxic relationship for a good amount of time. Although it was a friendship one, not relationship one. I know how you feel, it's not nice. I could tell in the end your voice was shaking...talking about these things are never easy, and it never brings back good memories. I honestly wouldn't blame you if you didn't bring up a second video. The fears and thoughts aren't nice and it can bring bad thoughts. As I was watching this I could almost feel the vibes from the messages that were going back and forth and honestly it scared me. I've read a few abusive stories before but he just sounds plain right horrendous. I don't blame you for what happened. Like you said you were 13 and you were still young, *IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT* I know you may/might think it is sometimes, but it's not. YOU were manipulated. YOU were forced to do things you didn't want. I have your FULL support, and I hope that creep NEVER sees this video.
@XxDarnDragonxX
@XxDarnDragonxX 6 жыл бұрын
(about the "you/me" part) same, but i'm 17 aehaueh (that's my laugh, don't blame me)
@pardent
@pardent 6 жыл бұрын
❤️
@Genderless_spoon
@Genderless_spoon 6 жыл бұрын
❤❤
@kazromero3991
@kazromero3991 6 жыл бұрын
RELATABLE
@thatrantinggirl7376
@thatrantinggirl7376 6 жыл бұрын
❤️
@Angelica_378
@Angelica_378 5 жыл бұрын
Person: age is just a number? Me: yeah and jail is just a room?
@patrickivthrowaway7266
@patrickivthrowaway7266 5 жыл бұрын
Person: age is just a number? Me: so the electric chair is just a chair?
@jjongjjongiefan
@jjongjjongiefan 5 жыл бұрын
And 911 is just a number?
@alexithymia___
@alexithymia___ 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@salad13
@salad13 5 жыл бұрын
U kinda copied the other guy
@lifewithcindy2248
@lifewithcindy2248 5 жыл бұрын
PREEAACCHHH
@BowieBoy1212
@BowieBoy1212 10 ай бұрын
I never actually washed this series but i decided to today (almost 6 years later) and i cried at the end. I really hope you're doing better now illy.
@othagan9945
@othagan9945 10 ай бұрын
Your probably never going to see this comment as the video itself was uploaded 5 years ago but I recently discovered your channel and I love your content so I’m watching your old videos (they are all amazing) and I just found this and I’m really sorry for all this horrific stuff that happened to you Im about to donate as much money as I can to which ever charity supports people who have gone through or had to deal with it or is dealing with this awful stuff as I don’t know what else I could do to support or help anyone who has gone or is going through this
@dawnbslayzz
@dawnbslayzz 7 ай бұрын
I'M HERE FOR THE CHAOS!!
@bowenthomas
@bowenthomas 7 ай бұрын
Me 2!!!!!
@boodarkoart3656
@boodarkoart3656 5 жыл бұрын
When I was 13, I met someone at a comic con, who was cosplaying from the same thing as me. They were 19, and they effectively groomed me, found me online, flirting with me, giving me nicknames and calling me their girlfriend. They offered to buy me presents, and talked about coming to my house. I was lucky, because I got bored with them without really realising how horrible they were being, and the sexual things they were implying. They were horrible and blocked me, calling me many horrible words- but I kinda forgot about it. Every so often I remember it and it makes me shudder. I never realised their intentions, and what they were trying to make me do. I’m incredibly lucky I managed to get out of it. The creepy thing is that the characters we were cosplaying were Eren, and Levi from attack on Titan. I was Eren. An underage teenager, and an adult man, who people ship. Urgh.
@chloejoy10
@chloejoy10 5 жыл бұрын
Klance is canon king also sorry to hear that
@80s_graffiti
@80s_graffiti 5 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for your experience, I truly am. People can be awful. But Eren is at least 19 and Levi is at least 20. It's legal. I don't care about shipping at all but facts are important.
@boodarkoart3656
@boodarkoart3656 5 жыл бұрын
@yoyo master dude no, this was back when Eren was confirmed to be only 15, and Levi’s always been in his 30’s.
@80s_graffiti
@80s_graffiti 5 жыл бұрын
@Brigitta Freya The shippers and timeline are what matters. Way too many weirdos paired them as a couple when Eren was 15, yet I've also seen more people refer to 19 year old Eren. That would be legal, yet still weird since yeah, Levi is ancient. I haven't read or seen AoT in a while and never read AoT: No Regrets. Sorry for the error.
@80s_graffiti
@80s_graffiti 5 жыл бұрын
@@boodarkoart3656 Sorry for that mistake. But if people are talking about 19-20 year old Eren that's legal. Weird, but not illegal.
@jovannipizarro
@jovannipizarro 5 жыл бұрын
Boy am I glad that I have trust issues.
@mikrokosmos9290
@mikrokosmos9290 5 жыл бұрын
same bro
@gpettus9508
@gpettus9508 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah! Guard those boundaries!
@fnige
@fnige 5 жыл бұрын
*The positives of Trust issues!!*
@ReformedRavi
@ReformedRavi 5 жыл бұрын
Yay
@davidcrazy101
@davidcrazy101 5 жыл бұрын
...that’s not the best thing either
@Jess-kn1wk
@Jess-kn1wk 11 ай бұрын
Illssa im so sorry. I went through something like it. Im very grateful you made this video. Im crying it brings back all the horrid memories.i hope everyone stays safe. And FAR away from these people.
@Lizzy_H1d1ng
@Lizzy_H1d1ng 12 күн бұрын
The fact that Sr Pelo put this in on of his vid is kind of wild
@hadrielham
@hadrielham 5 жыл бұрын
“YOU ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR ANYONE’S HAPPINESS!!” -JaidenAnimations
@thaiangquoc9505
@thaiangquoc9505 5 жыл бұрын
Jaiden was right. That method Haris used is what she talked about, and it completely manipulated Illysa.
@sisterduosquad3123
@sisterduosquad3123 5 жыл бұрын
yellowGalaxy25 ❤️
@biserkakurilic4267
@biserkakurilic4267 5 жыл бұрын
❤️
@samisbiggaytm8763
@samisbiggaytm8763 5 жыл бұрын
❤️
@rattlingduck8454
@rattlingduck8454 5 жыл бұрын
Darn right
@zoinksitsanarchy
@zoinksitsanarchy 4 жыл бұрын
"Age is just a number" You know what else is a number? *911*
@CuteCrystalll
@CuteCrystalll 4 жыл бұрын
*anyways I started blasting* *FBI OPEN UP!*
@elimsyxes
@elimsyxes 4 жыл бұрын
Cue that song saying ‘9 1 1 1 1’
@TheAmazingFlint
@TheAmazingFlint 4 жыл бұрын
Jail is just a room
@shadow_is_weird8991
@shadow_is_weird8991 4 жыл бұрын
So true
@kat1565
@kat1565 4 жыл бұрын
Justa Bleppn’cat IM CALLING THE MEGA POLICE! *_9111_*
@NkiadangoX3
@NkiadangoX3 11 ай бұрын
I was raped at the age of 9. This hits hard. Whoever is currently dealing with this, I’m so sorry. You’re not alone.
@Cloeyonty
@Cloeyonty 5 ай бұрын
holy crap i hope you are doing well
@LuciaEdits.
@LuciaEdits. 4 ай бұрын
I am so sorry this happened to you. I hope you are well and have the right people by your side ❤
@Ryth_fan420
@Ryth_fan420 Ай бұрын
God bless you bro
@Im-at-yo-door
@Im-at-yo-door 28 күн бұрын
I hope you’re doing much better now. Be strong.
@Sageytheaxoloti
@Sageytheaxoloti 20 күн бұрын
Are you ok? Please get mental help if it helps you :(((
@sarabyrd3374
@sarabyrd3374 Жыл бұрын
I was raped when i was seven now im 18 amd was also raped in march of this year... I blame myself for all of it... Even if i didnt know what was going on at the time. I filed a report for the most recent one the police made me go through all this shit just to not even try to do anything about it. I felt so stuck. All this trauma caused me to have 5 mental diagnosises. And im scared... I really dont know how someone could do stuff like this. I 100% relate. Just know you are not alone... And NON of it was your fault...
@Westantescos
@Westantescos Жыл бұрын
Omg u okay
@sonialee-k2w
@sonialee-k2w Жыл бұрын
...I really hope you are ok, and i just need to tell you I understand. I hope you got help. I, a measly teen who didn't go through stuff close to that, don't understand fully. but I hope that you are getting mentally ok. it will take time and will, but hang in there :)
@qwertyui0o6
@qwertyui0o6 3 ай бұрын
holy sh!t
@ciku80
@ciku80 3 ай бұрын
I hope u are better now . . . all the best!!
@christopherbaltodano6584
@christopherbaltodano6584 2 ай бұрын
Man! Cops can really suck sometimes!
@TheAMaazing
@TheAMaazing 6 жыл бұрын
Wow I'm so glad you're with Chris and not with somebody who... Looks... Like.... Me???? Oh no
@illymation
@illymation 6 жыл бұрын
IM SORRY those good Maaz looks just can’t be contained
@starykun1625
@starykun1625 6 жыл бұрын
**the illuminati music plays** conspiracy theory
@journullism
@journullism 6 жыл бұрын
hmmmMMMMM MAAZ WHAT?
@KawaiitacoloverX3
@KawaiitacoloverX3 6 жыл бұрын
TheAMaazing :00
@user-ig6bg7rl1w
@user-ig6bg7rl1w 6 жыл бұрын
Screams
@Emirichu
@Emirichu 6 жыл бұрын
Wow. This was a difficult story to sit through, and I imagine it must've been even more difficult to recount and tell it. It's so important for young kids to hear about experiences like this, especially considering how normal it is to have online friendships on so many different platforms. I'm really sorry someone treated you like this for....5 years?! Disgusting. I'm really happy knowing that you managed to escape that, but just knowing that someone had that control over you for so many years got me H E A T E D. I hope Haris has to use 1-ply toilet paper for the rest of his days.
@star13745
@star13745 6 жыл бұрын
(hi i love your channel) SAMEEEE IT GOT ME SO HEATED AND IT'S FUCKED UP AND REPULSIVE AND DISGUSTING I LITERALLY WAS GAGGING PAST THE WARNING OF THE VIDEO
@nrai560
@nrai560 6 жыл бұрын
♥️
@leowright2251
@leowright2251 6 жыл бұрын
It had me raging because while I had a similarly abusive relationship as an adult and managed to get away, this had me thinking of it happening to my nieces or nephews around that age and I can't even handle the thought- I'm always telling them to keep their personal online accounts private (which they do still and that's amazing) and to be wary of adults and strangers both online and irl
@ricman2259
@ricman2259 6 жыл бұрын
Emirichu HEY 😱😱😱 FELLOW ANIMATOR SUPPORTING😱😱😱😱😱😱 RIC APPROVES 👍❤️
@waterlilyyt7056
@waterlilyyt7056 6 жыл бұрын
ILY!!!!UR MY FAV ANIMATOR!!!
@dwililith
@dwililith 4 жыл бұрын
“Age Is Just A Number” *And The Electric Chair Is Just Furniture*
@nutpeg6915
@nutpeg6915 4 жыл бұрын
And a coffin is just a bed.
@peng9625
@peng9625 4 жыл бұрын
And decaying is just ageing
@Iomu
@Iomu 4 жыл бұрын
The electric chair is just modified furniture -better yet: Killer furniture
@Trinityyy73
@Trinityyy73 4 жыл бұрын
oop
@trademarkt
@trademarkt 4 жыл бұрын
And hell is just a place
@remix__ed_AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
@remix__ed_AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA 6 ай бұрын
"Age is just a number" "911 is just a number" "Jail is just a place" "A death sentence is just a thing"
@0yster_506
@0yster_506 4 ай бұрын
knives are just objects
@DoloresMadrigalsGirlfriend
@DoloresMadrigalsGirlfriend 3 ай бұрын
Blood is just liquid
@jenniferfoster1680
@jenniferfoster1680 2 ай бұрын
Hell is just another dimension
@sm1purplmurderedme583
@sm1purplmurderedme583 Ай бұрын
i like cheddar cheese
@MistySophie
@MistySophie 3 жыл бұрын
You 👏cant👏 blame 👏children👏 for 👏falling👏 into 👏a 👏trap 👏an 👏adult 👏made
@gimmekromer1151
@gimmekromer1151 3 жыл бұрын
@Logan Coppler cringe
@akki5317
@akki5317 3 жыл бұрын
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK
@BlondebearZ
@BlondebearZ 3 жыл бұрын
LOUDER👏
@wafflelink4806
@wafflelink4806 3 жыл бұрын
m8
@mih_chayan8900
@mih_chayan8900 3 жыл бұрын
LOUDER 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@bonelesschicken7795
@bonelesschicken7795 4 жыл бұрын
Haris: "Were like Romeo and Juliet" So he wants to die?
@idk6533
@idk6533 4 жыл бұрын
Billy S Underrated
@charlenesia6037
@charlenesia6037 4 жыл бұрын
damnn noice
@crimsonwizahd2358
@crimsonwizahd2358 3 жыл бұрын
That can be arranged.
@lilgoblin69
@lilgoblin69 3 жыл бұрын
You spoiled the movie for me. I was gonna watch that (;´༎ຶٹ༎ຶ`)
@KitTheAnkafolk
@KitTheAnkafolk 3 жыл бұрын
HA Gosh as someone who loves Shakespearean literature that made me feel joy :3
@shgurr
@shgurr 6 жыл бұрын
The animation is top notch in this :0 This video was super real, thanks for being open to us. We are all here for you!
@akristalbert4091
@akristalbert4091 6 жыл бұрын
our other iconic queen has arrived, this is LIT
@someabominationfromanother3190
@someabominationfromanother3190 6 жыл бұрын
You here?that's cool!
@itsaperson5380
@itsaperson5380 6 жыл бұрын
shgurr hi
@VixieTSQ
@VixieTSQ 6 жыл бұрын
Shgurrishot
@nugnug6546
@nugnug6546 6 жыл бұрын
Hello shgurr senpai
@MinisDunyasi5
@MinisDunyasi5 8 ай бұрын
Illy, thank you for sharing your story and raising awareness. I watched this series when I was 11. I’m 15 now, and by no exaggeration, you have saved me. I’ve made many friends online and had multiple encounters where my “new friends” told me never to tell my parents. I immediately blocked and reported them because you taught me to. I didn’t learn this in school. I learned it by watching this series. Thank you.
@triggster3352
@triggster3352 4 жыл бұрын
"Age is just a number" *and hell is just a place*
@CherylAvium
@CherylAvium 4 жыл бұрын
Is someone 911 years ol... FBI OPEN UP!!!!!!
@user-ft4cs8rs9j
@user-ft4cs8rs9j 4 жыл бұрын
😭
@sm1purplmurderedme583
@sm1purplmurderedme583 4 жыл бұрын
triggster daymn
@kosherburger
@kosherburger 4 жыл бұрын
“Hell is just a place” Comment: 666 likes
@callearce166
@callearce166 4 жыл бұрын
I saw this comment and it had 666 likes i ruined it sorry :(
@babyslander3542
@babyslander3542 4 жыл бұрын
“Age is just a number” *hell is just a big fireplace*
@tomguy8151
@tomguy8151 4 жыл бұрын
That he will be sent to and tortured for eternity
@stoopiddipnut1473
@stoopiddipnut1473 4 жыл бұрын
I mean is is just one big fire place where ya burn for eternity
@skeppysdoor4135
@skeppysdoor4135 4 жыл бұрын
Oof I just said something similar to that :/
@xxwolfiexxwoofxxwolfxx8786
@xxwolfiexxwoofxxwolfxx8786 4 жыл бұрын
Dying Karen ... xD awesome
@sidkid9655
@sidkid9655 4 жыл бұрын
lmao your pfp is from lomando right
@Hatstockings
@Hatstockings 4 ай бұрын
You know this actually did help me someone texted me and I was able to see the signs and I blocked them right away. So thank you Illy for putting your story out there bc it really is helping ppl
@elliottadams2232
@elliottadams2232 3 жыл бұрын
In 2018 when I was 14, I was groomed by a man who was 28. A few weeks into it I grew emotionally strained from that relationship and ended up telling my teacher about it. I had no idea how manipulated and brainwashed I was, so the teacher told me to look up stories of other children who went through the same thing as I did, what happened to them, etc. I was busy that afternoon, so I did a quick search and downloaded all the videos, storytimes, and documentaries I found about child grooming... this being one of them. That weekend was my 15th birthday, and my parents (who knew what was going on) tried to cheer me up with a long road trip. They didn't understand that I wasn't ready to be cheered up, so I was unintentially left alone to deal with my emotions while they enjoyed the vacation. The playlist I'd saved was my only outlet. This was one of the stories that stuck with me the most, and I was captivated. It helped motivate me to leave this individual, something I'm still thankful for. I'll never forget the feeling I had, listening to the audio for the first time while staring out the car window. I was lucky. I ran into so many close calls in which I narrowly escaped being lured, enticed, and raped. I had adults in my life who I could trust. If I stayed any longer, the anguish this relationship already caused me would have been much worse, and it still affects me and my decision making at 17. I come back to this video every once in a blue moon and whenever I watch it, I feel grateful and loved. Illy, you helped a little girl dodge a bullet. Thank you. ❤
@marydiane.3400
@marydiane.3400 3 жыл бұрын
you are so strong for going through that , i love you.
@AShortDork
@AShortDork 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that :(
@christinezhao424
@christinezhao424 3 жыл бұрын
No one can hurt you again. I'm so sorry we adult didn't protect our young children.
@the_riddle_master_herself1203
@the_riddle_master_herself1203 3 жыл бұрын
@Logan Coppler what is wrong with you
@gimmieramen6032
@gimmieramen6032 3 жыл бұрын
@Logan Coppler Your like 9
@NewbieJun
@NewbieJun 5 жыл бұрын
"I was 13, just like many of you watching" Me as a 21 year old watching this: "...well then"
@lanenisdumb
@lanenisdumb 5 жыл бұрын
Newbie Jun also you (maybe): is that creepy.....?
@ms0_u
@ms0_u 5 жыл бұрын
I'm almost 12 :>
@killer-oh7ke
@killer-oh7ke 5 жыл бұрын
I'm 11......
@killer-oh7ke
@killer-oh7ke 5 жыл бұрын
@@ms0_u same
@ars202
@ars202 5 жыл бұрын
『MaríaSol』 you should stop commenting ur age...
@l0v3struck17
@l0v3struck17 3 жыл бұрын
“Age is just a number” *and hells a giant oven*
@--hr4348
@--hr4348 3 жыл бұрын
Best comment Ive seen
@l0v3struck17
@l0v3struck17 3 жыл бұрын
@@--hr4348 it’s true though👁👁
@JaliceTheShort
@JaliceTheShort 3 жыл бұрын
And 911 is also a number
@l0v3struck17
@l0v3struck17 3 жыл бұрын
@@JaliceTheShort very true
@hanashbinasif2586
@hanashbinasif2586 3 жыл бұрын
Prison is just a cell
@cindy822000
@cindy822000 5 жыл бұрын
"Age is just a number" well jail is just a room. Thanks guys for all the likes. ❤❤
@SwordOfTheRaven
@SwordOfTheRaven 5 жыл бұрын
Dude, if you came up with that yourself all the props
@cindy822000
@cindy822000 5 жыл бұрын
Lol thanks 😂
@Nou-xx2bw
@Nou-xx2bw 5 жыл бұрын
Why do people say “aGe Is JuSt A nUmBeR” when obviously it matters in a lot of situations? Cmon, a 100 yr old is allowed to date a 11 yr old because aGe Is JuSt A nUmBeR
@cindy822000
@cindy822000 5 жыл бұрын
@@Nou-xx2bw ikr lol 😂
@ooka7705
@ooka7705 5 жыл бұрын
Cindy Bentle Age is just a number
@quittleo5770
@quittleo5770 4 жыл бұрын
Illy, I just wanna thank you. My 13 year old friend texted me the other day that she had started a relationship with a 17-going-on-18 year old boy. I told her everything that could go wrong and how it was illegal and all that jazz, and she luckily ended it before anything like this could happen. This video helped me save her. So once again- thank you ❤💗💘💖💓💕💞
@quittleo5770
@quittleo5770 4 жыл бұрын
@Shitlord Diabettus well I'd like to think so.. Thanks though!!
@Trdabbb
@Trdabbb 4 жыл бұрын
Now that is what a good friend is btw I’m. The 100th like yassssssssssssssssssssssss
@lezmaramak688
@lezmaramak688 4 жыл бұрын
Can we just have a moment to appreciate this girl she is what I call a good friend fr
@kieranbaldwin2445
@kieranbaldwin2445 4 жыл бұрын
That is very wholesome.
@Jumexjuu
@Jumexjuu 4 жыл бұрын
quittleo i wish I had that but I has God, what made it worse is that he’s also a “Christian”.........
@ShartyMcFunnybags
@ShartyMcFunnybags 3 жыл бұрын
9:46 Hearing her voice start to break sent shivers down my spine. This kind of abuse should NEVER be tolerated period.
@Maid_Cafe
@Maid_Cafe 3 жыл бұрын
It just makes me feel even more bad
@7vann
@7vann 3 жыл бұрын
nvm
@Julia.is.better_
@Julia.is.better_ 3 жыл бұрын
I feel so sorry
@koifishbeats_plays8149
@koifishbeats_plays8149 3 жыл бұрын
@@Maid_Cafe yeah same
@eagle-brawlstars9774
@eagle-brawlstars9774 2 жыл бұрын
@@Julia.is.better_ same
@bunbunscreations4066
@bunbunscreations4066 11 ай бұрын
Haris deserves to rot in hell 😡
@Gd_blocker
@Gd_blocker 11 ай бұрын
Iagree
@salahuddinuddin5070
@salahuddinuddin5070 11 ай бұрын
pretty much
@NateIsLame
@NateIsLame 6 жыл бұрын
Wow. This is a remarkable and important video. Thank you so much for sharing this. This was profoundly uncomfortable for me to watch, having been through some icky weird relationships too. Videos like this cause me to reflect and realize how lucky I am that things never escelated. I'm incredibly sorry this happened to you and I want to thank and commend you for making this. Videos like these are important for the animation community, which seems to be complacent making G rated harmless videos. This kind of content is important for kids to see, and I'm so glad you're the one going out and making a difference. You're inspiring as hell and one of the most important creators in this little bit of KZbin. Bless you. This is the best video I've seen in months.
@illymation
@illymation 6 жыл бұрын
Nate!!!! You are always so kind and supportive! Thank you so so much for that
@NateIsLame
@NateIsLame 6 жыл бұрын
Start a Patreon asap. I'll support you. If AdSense won't, there are tons of folks who see value in what you do and will.
@SPUDog
@SPUDog 6 жыл бұрын
❤️
@amaliasera
@amaliasera 6 жыл бұрын
❤️
@winner23746
@winner23746 6 жыл бұрын
@mcdonaldsbadabababa7840
@mcdonaldsbadabababa7840 6 жыл бұрын
*Haris[Perv]* : Age is *just a number* *Me* : Prison is *just a room* -Edit: So many likes OwO-
@keiraisgreat7603
@keiraisgreat7603 6 жыл бұрын
Rebel Children LMAO
@oh1442
@oh1442 6 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@Moon-le9fb
@Moon-le9fb 6 жыл бұрын
Lmaoooo
@nicechild522
@nicechild522 6 жыл бұрын
[Me] jail is just a word ;-;
@enzodeganiarantes2968
@enzodeganiarantes2968 6 жыл бұрын
911 is just a number
@ihate2danimationprofiles895
@ihate2danimationprofiles895 6 жыл бұрын
Age is Just a Number You Know What else is a Number 911
@dumbass1775
@dumbass1775 6 жыл бұрын
for real its not that hard to inform the authorities of a predator instead of dating them for 5 years
@miacolorspixelslover3052
@miacolorspixelslover3052 6 жыл бұрын
That's nine hundred and eleven
@sylviawelch4819
@sylviawelch4819 6 жыл бұрын
for real @Dumbass the author explained in her comment that she contacted a lawyer and the police, who both told her she didn't have enough evidence and that if she tried to bring him to court SHE would go to jail instead bc the only thing she could prove is that she sent him nudes, which count as CP
@idkdy5972
@idkdy5972 6 жыл бұрын
@@dumbass1775 have you ever been in that sitiation
@dumbass1775
@dumbass1775 6 жыл бұрын
@@sylviawelch4819 thats now though. if she contacted authorities back then she coulda got him but oops she didnt know wtf 911 was at 15 years old.
@ame5705
@ame5705 6 жыл бұрын
F HIS PRIVACY 😂😂😂
@christinaharrell1739
@christinaharrell1739 6 жыл бұрын
Lol 🤣😆
@sullfleur
@sullfleur 6 жыл бұрын
That's gon be my new motto😂😂
@crazyXninjaXfishy
@crazyXninjaXfishy 6 жыл бұрын
And his chicken strips!
@zodiacshinywhimsicott1386
@zodiacshinywhimsicott1386 6 жыл бұрын
With all the things he's did he has no privacy! ☺
@elanalikesseman3259
@elanalikesseman3259 6 жыл бұрын
Hellokittysocutessss Family ssssffddwweeeer
@mel.is.on.top...
@mel.is.on.top... 3 жыл бұрын
"Age is just a number" - Stabbings just aggressive poking
@eufemiaeulatic4960
@eufemiaeulatic4960 3 жыл бұрын
@Logan Roof no
@eufemiaeulatic4960
@eufemiaeulatic4960 3 жыл бұрын
@Logan Roof pls no
@celest9686
@celest9686 3 жыл бұрын
@Logan Roof i swear i found u EVERYWHERE. CAN U STOP? THIS ISNT FUNNY. Have u even watched the vid this isnt a parody.
@Miaou_In_Your_Pants
@Miaou_In_Your_Pants 3 жыл бұрын
911 is also a number
@faves9347
@faves9347 3 жыл бұрын
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