How Kendrick Ended Drake’s Career | Sad Boyz

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00:00:00 Sad Boyz!
00:10:25 Funny Emails
00:15:49 How are you?
00:25:08 Taking Steps Toward Improvement
00:52:33 RIP Charged Lemonade
00:58:42 Top or Bottom Teeth Talkers
01:07:19 Kendrick & Drake
01:46:05 BBL Drizzy
01:56:00 AI Music
02:09:22 Sad Boyz Nightz

[@thisurldoesnotexist]

"If i was a pedo wouldn't I have been caught" is the new "I'm not a groomer I'm a loser"

[@midsummerdreams442]

As someone who is just barely coming out of a really severe depressive episode, it's really nice to hear other people talk about that process. It's so hard, but like, I washed my sheets the other day and I was so happy I almost cried

[@ladybugd0ts]

i’m proud of u!

[@hairlessgrizzly559]

Same, depression sucks ass, and it's important to take pleasure in the little things

[@apeiceofgarbage9848]

Truely a wonderful feeling and thanks for reminding me I should replace my sheets

[@mikaylarose8198]

So proud of you! It’s not easy! You should be proud of yourself too!

[@1melinag_]

You’re doing amazing. So proud of you❤️

[@opalitecrystal]

As someone who barely knows the drake vs Kendrick lore these are just the guys I needed to cover it

[@apeiceofgarbage9848]

Agreed

[@avamin0s]

I'm the opposite, I know TOO MUCH about it but I wanna hear their perspective anyways

[@lookatdemijipers]

​@@avamin0sif anything the people that didn't follow it from the beginning are kind of annoying because they just repeat the shit they heard on twitter 😭 anybody that doesn't think Drake ate in this beef is lying, he would have BURIED anyone not named Kendrick Lamar

[@avamin0s]

@@lookatdemijipers ate what? dirt?

[@mocapcow2933]

@@lookatdemijiperswhat about Pusha T

[@Swabblydoo]

I've been in that "I feel like I'm doing everything right, so why do I still feel this way?" flavor of depression for a while. Jarvis voicing that feeling made me feel so seen.

[@oinkersboinkers7188]

As someone diagnosed with severe treatment resistant depression, severe OCD, and general anxiety, I wanted to share some good news- I’ve officially graduated therapy! I’ve been hospitalized a couple times, and had a long battle with sh and su1cid3, and I know that these issues will likely follow me through the rest of my life, but I want to remind everybody that it DOES get better. Maybe only by a little bit, and maybe not forever, but please please know that life isn’t always like this and you deserve happiness

[@midsummerdreams442]

Congratulations!! I'm so proud of you❤

[@YERIMYRE]

congratulations!! so proud of you and wishing you all the best💕

[@marzhun]

Congratulations! I hope this isn't too personal of a question, but how did you deal with things like school and or work?

[@p0rtalsx]

Congratulations on that!

[@reynao.3671]

Congratulations pookie!!! So proud of you for your resilience and thank you for the encouraging words❤

[@martinthemarine920]

The rant jordan had about how if your reaction to a protest was focused on conduct you’re just ontologically blacksouled was like, crazy intense. honestly respect, that was fire

[@brookejon3695]

I can't find that moment, when was that?

[@aficklefangirl2566]

@@brookejon3695 1:52:32 is the timecode for the whole conversation, 1:53:40 is the timecode for the rant in particular if you, or anyone else, wants it :)

[@LucasDimoveo]

@@brookejon3695I would like to know as well

[@firstname4336]

​@@brookejon3695 1:53:50

[@freeindeed7]

@@brookejon3695 1:53:53

[@mewnboy]

As someone who was raised Traditional Roman Catholic, yes, Jordan. You are completely correct. They literally just give you a number of Hail Marys, maybe an our father, say the creed and ur officially sinless 😩

[@Likeabossbeastofusa]

Yo another raised SSPX person? I always got do X number of rosarys.

[@Boooo_39]

I remember my first (and only) communion A couple of hail Marys and I was wiped free of sin. I'm not sure I ever finished though, I might have sat there with my head down

[@evanc.1591]

Umm.. as someone who's currently a traditional Roman Catholic, that's not how it works at all. The Sacraments of Baptism and Reconciliation are what forgive sins (in particular, grave sins), because those are the means that Christ instituted for the forgiveness of sins. Your penance after confession isn't doing the hard work of obtaining forgiveness. It's more like spiritual exercise, meant to get you back on track, and to help you heal from the temporal consequences of your sin.

[@brookejon3695]

​@@evanc.1591 yeah, no focus on victims of transgressions or actually making amends. It's just jabbering and poof your sins are gone.

[@user-ue8jc5tl9q]

Back in the ole days, or so I’ve heard, and apparently in poorer countries where the catholic religion has a very strong hold still , penance was much harsher and was more akin to punishment (like being told to crawl for hours on end while praying etc ). It’s true that making amends is not what the focus is on.

[@nickyyy777]

i’ve been incorporating “x bastard” into my speech lately and this episode was truly a delight for me

[@EclipseINF]

calling people rat bastards in hypixel is a new pastime for me

[@Batmantherealbatman]

SAME

[@spinecho609]

@@EclipseINF i first heard rat-batstard in a videogame dunkey video

[@cryptiddy]

@@spinecho609 yeah its a common expression, its been around for decades

[@lilyprettylamb]

@@EclipseINFif i see you in the hype-streets YOURE DEAD meat kid

[@dayzedandconfuzed]

“beef review: moooo”is one of the funniest things jordan said in the whole episode, and jordan says a LOT of funny shit

[@nalateley6795]

one thing about jordan he's going to make a DnD ability score analogy

[@FirstNameBunchANumbers]

*one of the BEST things about Jordan ✨️

[@RealElongatedMuskrat]

I told my sister recently that BBL Drake was one of my favourite memes of the last year or so. Needless to say I have been thoroughly enjoying this latest instalment of lore.

[@Polarpancakes]

The merengue version that goes "El Drake! BBL, BBL" is so fun to dance to.

[@justbeingmar2690]

jarvis’ hair looks SO NICE!! it’s cool to see his hair journey 🥹💛

[@elize2952]

Bro got those majestic coils 😭🥹

[@josephpleimann6600]

I know, I just want to touch it 🙃

[@aronhiet3203]

Jarvis: "Chick-fil-a's not open on Sundays." Jordan: "It's full! ...They're blessing all the chicken."

[@jeremyjackson4073]

As an autistic dude with depression who just started entering a depressive episode, this episode helped me process things and feel validated. Thank you Jarvis and Chick-fil-A wikipedia man

[@ezh117]

“Live in a volcano that’s active” god what a good line Jordan lmao

[@Eviuii]

Sad Boyz is my favorite thing to put on in the background while doing homework or cleaning

[@fernlikespossums]

so real! i'm making soup rn

[@00xyres]

Damnit im doing my homework right now 😭

[@squimbol]

sad boyz is my favorite thing to put on while doing absolutely nothing productive

[@hairlessgrizzly559]

I like putting it on while I play video games, personally Playing Tiny Tina's Wonderlands rn

[@Midnight-fc9yn]

For me it’s crocheting or knitting :D

[@elphiene]

having to stop watching a show because you'll never meet them is the realest thing jarvis has ever said

[@brookejon3695]

I'm so confused what this means

[@kells4315]

@@brookejon3695When Jarvis said he stopped watching fallout because he had too big of a crush on the actress and it was making him sad

[@he.said.teenjiejer]

the um actually shoutout MADE MY DAY, i can’t wait to see the boyz on this season!!

[@StabbyMcCutBleed]

Wait really???? Theyre actually appearing on Um, Actually?

[@zoes.9825]

@@StabbyMcCutBleedJarvis, at least! He was teased in the preview for the newest season!!!!

[@adrianpink8144]

@@zoes.9825both of them are! :)

[@he.said.teenjiejer]

@@zoes.9825 i’m almost positive i spotted jordan on the couch next to him but i may have hallucinated it

[@he.said.teenjiejer]

@@zoes.9825 um, actually, i just checked because i wasn’t sure and jordan was also there, with friend of the show demi adejuyigbe ☝️🤓

[@dayzedandconfuzed]

thanks for talking abt the campus protests guys 🫶🏻🫶🏻 a couple of my friends are suspended but thankfully they weren’t there to be arrested at the dismantling of our camp by the nypd. i was at school when it happened and it was insanely dystopian

[@porflock]

I think I've said it before, but this conversation really hit me again: y'all make this stranger feel deeply not alone. Not in a way that makes me want to track down your zone improvement plan. Just in a way that make me want to keep trying. Thank you boyz

[@Avendesora]

3:25 Roger gets a pickup fee for each restaurant, so you're really only getting more screwed over than normal if you ordered from a ghost kitchen and the person never went to more than one place.

[@rosebloxian]

Yeah like ofc you pay more cause he also had to spend the gas to get to both places

[@EviePontecorvo]

Good for Roger!

[@AshChiCupcak]

​@@rosebloxianI don't know if it's just for members or not, but when I use Door dash, it gives you the option to have yr dasher pick up a second order for you for no extra charge. I mean, other than what you spend on yr stuff. I never used it though cuz I feel bad enough having someone bring something to me.

[@Imbatmn57]

I hated taking orders from separate restaurants,the worst is when they're going to two different places, and then there's places like ruby tuesday and tgi fridays which take forever for the order to be ready. At least this guy had it easier taking it to one customer. I don't deliver in California but i imagine its more stressful compared to my small city.

[@Sugarman96]

Does Uber Eats declare ghost kitchens now? Because if they don't who knows whether or not Jarvis got screwed on that front

[@yourlocalmaximum]

i might have posted this already but the podcast maintenance phase really helped me with deconstructing my own internalized fatphobia (along with one of the hosts' books "you just need to lose weight and 19 other myths about fat people" and "what we don't talk about when we talk about fat"). remembering that weight and food are morally neutral is a constant process!

[@sheamarie9648]

i love that podcasts/the hosts!! it’s been so informative and really reshaped my own view about my weight/how i interact with diet culture. found them because i started with You’re Wrong About and i’ve really enjoyed all the podcasts that group of hosts have made

[@brookejon3695]

​@@sheamarie9648 you might enjoy Behind the Bastards and its spiritual opposite Cool People Who Did Cool Stuff

[@brookejon3695]

​@@sheamarie9648 you might enjoy Behind the Bastards and its spiritual opposite Cool People Who Did Cool Stuff

[@Ramberta]

watching Jarvis make excited Not Like Us references before the official discussion segment made me smile so big, this culture shift is incredible to bear witness to and thanks guys for talking about it!!!

[@gh0ulgirl]

clicked on the video for the kendrick/drake stuff but i just wanted to say that as someone who’s been watching you guys for awhile and is also palestinian, i really appreciate you guys making your stance clear and showing your support. much love to you both 💕

[@intern_dana]

my mom keeps her car radio on our local country station and without exaggeration, 90% of recent releases sound like that first AI song

[@lamessahmed6410]

"I noticed you don't have a KZbin channel" i laughed so hard i almost choked on nothing lmaoo

[@cukimiso]

I am once again coming here to say that jarvis and jordan are cutie patooties, keep tootin! 👍

[@sadlad69]

This ep is so good. I relate so much to where Jarvis is. My life is pretty good and pretty stable right now, but I'm just not doing all the things I want to be doing from day to day because of chronic fatigue and bad habits, and I'm working hard to get my schedule to a place to where doing the things I love is easier.

[@sorcersis7096]

Exact same place! Keep the momentum, and we got this!

[@paulgustafson6697]

The BBL Drizzy “beat” was so funny 🤣

[@FirstNameBunchANumbers]

You haven't lived with a partner who WON'T STOP singing it 😥😂😊

[@Bubblies005]

The way I am so happy it’s guving exposure to artists that deserve larger platforms while taking down someone that abused theirs is kinda poetic.

[@SalamanderLights]

The first publicly known disstrumental

[@bongle_dongle747]

This episode came out seconds after my first GCSE exam, very nice comfort to hear the boys talking after that stress

[@RealElongatedMuskrat]

good luck with the rest of your GCSEs, I remember em well! It's crazy to think back on how many there were, I had to do 12 so 24 exams I think? Maybe 25 because one had 3 papers iirc 😢 push through and know that you can only do your best, this summer is going to feel so nice after all of that pressure ❤

[@bongle_dongle747]

@@RealElongatedMuskrat Ay thanks for that! I cant wait for that sigh of relief once I finally leave the exam hall for the final time lol

[@opalitecrystal]

good luck! a levels are killing me rn lol

[@whatthehelliot]

​@@opalitecrystal good luck w ur a levels !! and go to bed lol its 2am in the uk

[@opalitecrystal]

@@whatthehelliot it’s 1am where i am but i should still be on bed lol will do

[@teenylank]

The convo about body image, weight and confidence really mirrors my own struggles at the moment. I also have had the exact same experience with getting back into basketball, which was so funny to hear. Thank you very much for talking so candidly about your feelings!

[@bigdingus708]

the real sad boyz talk hit me hard. accepting yourself is difficult and i'm still really struggling with it. i relate to everything you talked about so much i'm shedding some tears dude!! was not expecting to cry!!

[@mikeyourio]

Can I just throw some love to Jordan ? He has such a lovely voice and he has such a contagious laugh. You're both such a fantastic combination of sad and sweet boyz

[@TheAverageBearz]

It’s great how close you both are with Eddy, Ive always loved his videos and you guys work well together.

[@avc793]

I love Jordan doing a different intro every time

[@cogandball]

I swear i thought kendrick was doing some deep state lore with the embassy line

[@brookejon3695]

Dropping lore about a fantasy?

[@cogandball]

@@brookejon3695 what do you mean? Like about kendrick or the deep state?

[@HexZero]

The sax version was done by Masego, who actually has credits on CLB for a sample they cleared from him

[@h311dr1p]

appreciate jarvis being open about making moves to get out of his depressive episode and how tough it can be. it’s relieving hearing somebody else verbalize similar kind of things you’re also going through.

[@cassidypfefferkorn8805]

i’m an uber eats driver and i turn on sad boys when i want something fun to listen to while i drive:)

[@gloomy_gal]

Were you the Uber eats driver in the episode?

[@cassidypfefferkorn8805]

@@gloomy_gal i was not, sadly in kentucky😔😔

[@sophis9453]

Everytime Sadboyz mentions collegehumor or anything Drop Out I feel an insane amount of joy as my favorite people aknowledge my favorite content!

[@poppaelias4175]

1:17:55 no because this is so true and a big part of why I’ve continued to respect J Cole ever since i was introduced to him early in high school. he’s being so genuine when he talks about wanting to lift other artists up, and that reflects blindingly in the way he treats his record label and the artists he works with. every time he hops on a track with Dreamville, JID, Earthgang, etc. I would joke about it feeling like dad rapping with his kids🤣 also i appreciate the JID shoutout as a massive fan of his😌 edit: lol I forgot I was literally wearing a jid shirt as i wrote this. I do love that lil guy.

[@justhaku9240]

JID shirt? So I assume you've been to a concert? Cause MAN I've been to quite a few concerts but JIDs was one of the best his energy is unmatched, cant wait for the next album I will forever say that last one will become a classic 10 years down the line it's so good

[@starryvincmoon]

the ai generated country songs at the end got me so good im crying and got a stomach cramp from laughing too much and also couldn’t breathe for a second im losing my mind

[@voidify3]

AI would have potential as a tool if it was set up ethically - because the thing with AI content is that the robot has no shame. It can create things that are funny in ways real human content can’t be because the machine has no way of distinguishing reasonable requests from insane request

[@gildameriggi6720]

I love how Jarvis didn’t even think about the fact that maybe the barista recognized him from his work. I feel like it just shows how selfless and humble y’all are like wtf. Amazing convos thank you for sharing so openly ❤

[@kaobtik]

omg i've been waiting for y'alls opinion on this

[@presidentalpaca]

i swear to god every time jarvis breaks down the way his brain works with adhd and depression i spend the whole time going "yes! exactly! you put it into words!"

[@klaythoring1326]

The other day I started with something nice for myself and then did several things I needed to do and I still had spoons left. Couldn't believe it. It's taken SO long, so much discomfort and practice and hard work to make it to this point and honestly...the most worth it. social and self-care cardio is wild. Sending all the support :)

[@nickyyy777]

the boys are looking very spiffy this episode

[@AmandaJo_]

Deeply appreciate Jarvis talking about how depression robs us of the lives we want to live. It’s so hard to explain to people how all my mental issues (major depression, dysthymia, ADHD, autism, anxiety, OCD) essentially make it so I cannot engage in any of the activities I love and end up just rotting in bed 99% of the time. I have wonderful friends who have helped me get out of my house more and keep me from fully isolating, but living alone means that most of my time is spent ruminating on all the things I wish I could do and feeling resentful about the life I could’ve had if my brain just worked the way it’s supposed to. Not to mention the things I *need* to do that also rarely get done. It’s frustrating and painful and embarrassing.

[@not_you_i_dont_even_know_you]

❤❤❤ oof too relatable

[@fumowu]

one of the worst parts of depression is failing to see the reason why you should get better, esp when you can't remember the last time you were truly okay. it's really refreshing to hear you talk about getting better and trying over and over again because i start to see hope and reason as well. maybe it is worth to try and try again, maybe i too should go and play some basketball in the evening. maybe everything will work out in the end

[@OscarRodriguez-wm7dg]

I love that one line turned Metro into Heihachi Mishima and held his own King of Iron Diss Tournament

[@sinsunfun]

My name is Sandra, so when I got to Meet the Grahams, i got the creeps

[@anaugustvirgo]

I truly appreciate the "Taking Steps Toward Improvement" section of the podcast; I've regularly gone to therapy and worked on forgiving myself for the "mistakes" I made in the last few years. My young sister unfortunately passed in 2021, and I felt like I regressed as far as improving my depression/anxiety. I had a lot of guilt about her death for a lot of personal reasons, but I had to learn that I can't control things that happen to me, let alone things that happen to other people. Learning to not be hard on yourself is not easy, but baby steps 💞

[@exacto0]

I don't have a therapist but my personal journey of self improvement especially only being 21 has relied on reminding myself that the things I'm feeling are normal for me and my circumstance and my past and my history. im trans masc and a lesbian, im autistic, i have adhd, school was traumatic and stressful, money was tight, the generational trauma that was passed down to me, just all these things that result in who I am and how I interact with others and my relationship to myself. most I can do is catch myself in the moment im maybe being too harsh on myself and give myself the grace and support I deserve for just existing. especially being neurodivergent and queer, I need to be on my own team lmao I need to work with myself and have grace when I dont have that energy in me and also understand it's ok to want to have like support from other people like I need to rely on my friends more often and show my friends im there for them even if i might feel like my presence isnt needed or whatever. there's also the idea that to build community and have that social meter filled to the brim with all the good stuff, i need to let myself be helped too. It's okay to need help and ask for it, it's ok if I don't know how to do something, it's not embarassing if I happen to fuck up and this part is a little more depressing in terms of being trans and mentally ill but also part of my motivation to keep going and get better is that I don't wanna be another statistic. too many people want me gone for me not to continue living and thriving out of spite 💀 this was also my mentality as someone who was neurodivergent in the school system, cus this shit wasnt built for people like us and it's built to fail us. when i see a neurodivergent person like has a job or is finishing school i just have a big sense of pride like shit good for you

[@cameron2836]

Literally this, man. -a 19yo ftm\bi, audhd'r w all the family trauma myself I'm proud of you, and fr the thing about too many people wanting me gone or dead not to keep living out of spite. I live out of spite long enough to find things worth living for, and im really thankful to be there right now. Sending you love, you're doing great just to still be here rn and i'm proud of you.

[@baintreachas]

took me way too long to realise they were talking about the Miles Morales NPC guy and not Tom Holland

[@Khronogi]

Oh noo :0 lmao

[@veraeroes]

Jarvis is so real for liking the first two Maroon 5 albums, they had straight up bangers back then

[@dinasaur1288]

i really really enjoyed the sad boys part of the pod, some of the stuff you guys talked about i had literally never seen anyone verbalize before. i genuinely shed a tear or two at some parts because of how much i related to what you guys were expressing. thanks

[@tteokbokkibxtch]

I cannot stop consuming content about this beef, I'm so glad my fav internet boys are covering it 💜

[@thedreamer215]

Don't worry, Jarvis, I recently ordered two orders from UberEats too. But, to be fair, Uber encourages it. They force a 10 min countdown on you so you can add to your order from another restaurant. I don't know why I decided to do the 2nd order 😅, but I got 50% off my 1st order, which was pizza (it was a good deal). My 2nd order was from an asian pastry shop. I got an iced tea, some kind of crepe cake, and a free matcha cream puff. I never would have ordered from the 2nd place on my own, so no regrets. It was actually quite enjoyable. Once this depressive episode ends, I look forward to the day I can travel downtown and just grab a tea and cream puff from this shop again 😊

[@dylannilsson4758]

thank you guys so much for speaking up about the protests, so so unbelievably refreshing to hear and absolutely made my day 🇵🇸❤️

[@AKA253]

jordan is like bdg on um actually because he looks stuff up and they are legally obligated to confirm that jordan can leave whenever he wants

[@kitsunekari02]

I also know the ache that is "I feel like I'm doing everything right and everything I'm supposed to do so why aren't I happy" all too well. There's no easy fix, but it is nice to know I'm not alone.

[@TheManyThings]

You mentioned parenting yourself, and something I realize but am still in the process of learning/actually doing is that adulthood isn’t not needing to be parented anymore, it’s just taking over the job yourself.

[@angelcake001]

love Jarvis's new glasses!!

[@leinaamatsuji-berry561]

Going through a rough time and the AI alcoholic country song made me laugh the hardest I have in weeks. Thank you Sad Boyz 🫶

[@gabic722]

As a longtime Sad Boyz watcher and college student protestor, thank you both for your solidarity 🍉

[@christywillis1707]

Just have to say that as entertaining as I always find the podcast and your channels, the most impactful thing you guys do is talk about your feelings and thoughts about yourself. Talking about depression and body image openly like this seriously makes a difference in at least my life because it really helps tell my brain that it's not shameful to struggle with these things. I'm really grateful for the vulnerability you both have to talk about your real feelings and struggles with mental health on this podcast.

[@yourfriendlyrobot5415]

just won a CS2 match listening to this

[@Quzga]

I design cs2 skins listening to this lol

[@lizasplaylist]

I’m just glad y’all put out a podcast episode out in general lol and you don’t even have to do that like I’m just grateful y’all exist tbh

[@ladybugd0ts]

jarvis, i understand your feelings about ella purnell so well… she is drop dead gorgeous and so charismatic 💔 also the fallout show rocks!!!

[@NoSleepHere_]

There is nothing funnier than me getting an door dash ad on this

[@lyle_the_lemon_boy]

i love this podcast so much and its always so helpful to me. Im 18, and Im struggling. Im not doing good, i dropped out of school and i cant work. I need more help, and I dont know exactly what i need or how to get it. And there is so much fucking shame in the world and i want to wrap up all my balls of shame and hide them and cover them and make sure no one ever knows. But that is not going to help anything. step one is talking about it. And I am trying. And I dont want to be like this. If it was as easy as just trying harder id be better. Im ill, and its not my fault that I have the trauma that I do and that my body and brain has reacted in the ways it has. Im trying my best, but Im not gonna be able to do it by myself.

[@franjkav]

Hope your situation improves soon

[@SleepySigh]

Try not to let the shame overpower you. You're right there's so much. I don't know anyone who isn't struggling with awful shame. Things will get better, don't give up

[@Number1YankeeFan]

Love the “Pop Pop” magnitude reference 😂

[@ilikecherries08]

I was listening to the songs and going "wow can't wait for the Boyz to talk about this"

[@Shwimmer623]

Hot boyz speak out for a FREE PALESTINE!!!🇵🇸🍉🙌🏼💅🏻 thank you for standing in solidarity and speaking up👏🏼👏🏼

[@drew20125]

I think the best description of the Kendrick v Drake beef I saw was someone on twitter said it was exactly like the Key n Peele sketch with them doing UFC pre fight interviews

[@justbeingmar2690]

it’s like you guys KNEW i had to pack up my dorm room, ty boyz

[@ghosty9733]

You guys talking about your experience with depression has genuinely helped me so much. I constantly feel like I’m being lazy because I’m so tired and unmotivated, and it helps a lot to know that other people feel the same way. It’s really hard to feel like your mental illness is valid when it isn’t completely debilitating, so thank you so much for sharing your experience and making me and others feel better

[@GingerScrap]

Love the podcast! Can’t wait for another Brian David Gilbert episode, I really like what his energy brings to the show

[@ChaeOMatic]

That is 100% me, and as someone with adhd it's so much an adhd thing its crazy to hear how similar those feelings are and the inability to initiate a goal or challenge you are really wanting to accomplish but can't can be so crushing that you just dissociate from everything in life

[@marogmartz]

I really relate to Jarvis when he talks about his own feelings during therapy. For me, this year has been the best year in some time and I feel so different about myself and my future. I've been working through SH and Su*icidal thoughts on top of depression and anxiety, I know I'm making progress, I spend less time overthinking. But it's still so hard to remember yourself of that, to hve compassion for yourself and some days I still feel that emptiness of "why am I doing all of this?" Or "what's the point", especially when I feel down. It feels like you're working hard but still feeling unsatisfied. I know we'll all maki it, eventually, maybe some day. I just want to thank SadBoyz for helping me through this semester with all your rambling and personalities. Wishing both of you health and friends ❤

[@honey_tteok]

as someone who is currently recovering from an ed that has taken over my life the last two years tysm to jarvis for talking about this stuff it’s hard but we all appreciate him

[@racheleakes3952]

I feel like the ongoing bit about Jordan being pre-approved for the Paypal card would be the perfect segue into telling us how we (the listeners) have been pre-approved for Sad Boyz nights and would be a good silly way to plug Nights lol

[@twistedbrother]

Community reference goes crazy)

[@pezzzzzz]

i just wanted to thank you guys for opening up about your struggles. it makes me feel not alone on a very tough time in my life, and i feel better knowing people i look up to are also going through something similar :) also thank you for speaking out about palestine and the protests !!

[@estheromoyele3321]

24:51 unintentional Starkid reference- 😭 fly high ted 🕊… in hell-

[@moss574]

aaahhhhh im so glad someone else caught it!! Ted my beloved (worst man)

[@from_no_where]

Dikrats unite!

[@KBats]

Jordan's been pre-approved for a PayPal credit card? Well I'VE been pre-approved for a Canadian Tire credit card. With my infinite tire supply, I'll finally be able to play hockey as god intended by drifting my Corolla across ice rinks with total impunity. Check-and-mate.

[@catabat49654]

God, Jarvis talking about trying to break the cycle of your depression “instincts” is too real. I’ve been in therapy for almost a decade (after having untreated depression for over a decade and being undiagnosed ADHD until a few years ago) and it’s been a daily commitment the entire time to be aware of my emotions and “instincts” in situations that would originally trigger/disregulate me, including canceling plans when I’m feeling down. I’m in no way “cured,” but it is hopeful to know my improvement is noticeable to myself and others, which means growth is possible.

[@wybiekurtic7498]

i feel late to the party but i just wanted to say that as a guy who struggles with my own relationship with food i feel extremely seen when you guys bring up mental health relating to your physical health and i’ve never found creators on the internet that i can resonate with so heavily. thanks boyz

[@jimmypad5501]

And now you know how I feel watching Sad Boyz knowing Jordan Adika will never know who I am 🥹😢

[@kasperkurpershoek1937]

not that i have not been appreciating the recent episodes, they've been great and i loved the one with eddy, but i also deeply appreciate the revisitation of properly downtrodden sad boys

[@cameronsactions]

I've been going through the same kind of thing Jarvis describes at around 25:00 and so this episode (like so many sad boyz episodes) was really affirming to me, thank you ❤

[@pigeonshit440]

you guys make me feel so much more understood and heard. i love your content and i am excited to hear all the little updates you have :)

[@otter.mayhem]

The A minor stuff isn't just funny bc Drake is so one note and predictable, but on a whole music theory level! Bc A minor is in the key of C which is considered a relatively easy key to write in, and a LOT of pop songs are in C (Am) or G (Em). And then Drake clapped back with that line about Kendrick writing in B#. And if you know music theory, it's just another self own from Drake bc B# is not a very common key to write in and is not as easy to write in as the key of C. Like Kendrick made this hilarious key signature diss and then Drake was like "well you write in a weird key" ad if thats not even more impressive of Kendrick and shows how little actual musical knowledge Drake has lmfao

[@avaryleigh4397]

Its so validating to hear them talk about dealing with depression, its nice to see people open up about the feelings i have too

[@tomss888]

was waiting 4 this

[@Enbyous1313]

I’m a young Enby therapist in Texas, and I really really love how candidly and earnestly you both discuss your mental health and your strides to take care of yourselves. I really respect it and I’m sure it means a lot to a lot of listeners. :)

[@KohanaWohali]

A lot of this was extremely helpful and relatable. I grew up with that same "inner critic" and in a pretty rough home, learning to accept that someone could be attracted to me and that the voice that tells me I'm useless or failing isnt so much my own internal monologue but the voice that people who didn't care for me much put in my head

[@GlitterC8k]

I related so much to Jarvis when talking about putting weight on after losing it. I also lost 50 lbs when I was 21! I am at my exact weight I was when I was at my heaviest. I am 28 and I know this is so common for people who tend to put on weight easily, but it feels so demoralizing when you worked so hard to lose the weight in the first place. I know I can lose it again. If I don't, I will do my best to still love myself and forgive myself. Afterall, I have just been prioritizing work and school so I could survive. One day I will do more than just survive, I will thrive ❤

[@smam7667]

I think this real look at what you are currently dealing with and how you guys are doing it is so valuable. I cant imagine how it would be for me to hear stuff like this before I knew how to deal with mental issues. Ive come so far but hearing people talk like this with this terminology 5 years ago could have definetly made a differenve.

[@svarakissoon1189]

yeah jordan is completely on the nose. the priest gives you some prayers for penance and as long as you're remorseful you can be forgiven