How Men View Sex: What You Need To Know

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Tomisin

Tomisin

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How Men View Sex: What You Need To Know. Relationship and dating tips advice for women. Relationship and dating tips advice for women. This is dating advice for women who are struggling to understand how a man thinks and what he wants from a woman in a relationship. I will also break down how to create desire in a relationship with a man so that he can chase after you and you can have the relationship you want! I will use my experiences in the dating world to help give you relationship advice and dating tips to get the type of love you seek!
The Law of Attraction for Relationships. We will also discuss the law of attraction, what is the law of attraction, and the law of attraction's meaning. Other things like the secret book and the power of the law of attraction on love and relationships will be discussed
How men view sex, what you need to know... Take heed to this dating advice, and ensure you watch the entire video. I don't want you to be confused about how men view sex. I will tell you what you need to know about men and sex in this dating advice for women. I want you to understand men better and learn more about what men think about sex. I want you to know what men want and be able to communicate with men effectively. This video will share dating tips for women to let you know what men think and how men view sex. Embrace this relationship advice to get dating help and learn more about men and sex.
Timestamps:
0:00 Sex Means Pinnaples LOL
0:17 The Necessity
3:51 The Obstacles
5:21 The Tatics
21:03 The Secrets
24:34 The Quality
27:13 The Attention
30:00 The Disregard
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@Braveh3artGirl
@Braveh3artGirl 2 ай бұрын
This is exactly why men need Jesus, discipline and self control.
@tawandahaulcy8700
@tawandahaulcy8700 Ай бұрын
Amen😂
@skypehead
@skypehead Ай бұрын
Amen :D
@msa6844
@msa6844 Ай бұрын
Facts
@jf3124
@jf3124 Ай бұрын
real
@mretrees
@mretrees Ай бұрын
💯
@991jada
@991jada Ай бұрын
Just stop giving it up. That's when dating is fun ✨
@DanniBby
@DanniBby Ай бұрын
So what if you’re the one who actually wants to find good sex? How would dating not be fun?
@rachelinthelionsden
@rachelinthelionsden Ай бұрын
Delayed gratification! Very fulfilling. plus, valuing meaning, purpose, adventure, over a jolt of fun.
@Centimilli
@Centimilli 26 күн бұрын
Or when it stops hahahhha!!!
@chayo4537
@chayo4537 10 күн бұрын
​@@DanniBbybecause you're not even getting off 😂 men and women don't get off the same.
@user-kt6yx7ox7z
@user-kt6yx7ox7z Ай бұрын
Comparing celibacy with starvation is actually fucking insane
@Dreamergirl-lx5zb
@Dreamergirl-lx5zb Ай бұрын
Its actually not that far-fetched because sex is another appetite like one would have for food. and even in trending slang people refer to those who are physically attractivr as "a snack"(probably not anymore its kind of dated). But for muslims when fasting in ramadan married couples are not just fasting from food but also sex. ppl dont really talk about that. and its a right for both the husband and the wife to satisfy eachother.
@danijelaleksi7130
@danijelaleksi7130 Ай бұрын
Food is a basic need. Sex is a basic need. Without food you feel hunger, without sex (most ppl) feel a lack of intimacy and connection , two basic needs for humans
@503ashkatchem4
@503ashkatchem4 Ай бұрын
I thought men don’t get connection with sex only women do. Men can have sex and have no intimacy feeling with a woman. Men no how to disconnect naturally
@bell4898
@bell4898 Ай бұрын
@@danijelaleksi7130Since when has anyone needed constant sex to survive? Bffr
@TaphsAJ
@TaphsAJ Ай бұрын
@@danijelaleksi7130I really don’t think sex is necessary. Don’t get me wrong, sometimes I really want it but like. Dying after no food for 2 weeks vs I’ve been asexual for a year… I understand it’s a strong strong strong desire for many, but I just wouldn’t say it’s a need. I think some people confuse basic human connection with sex. We need connection absolutely, that doesn’t just come in the form of sex, and for the men and women that it does, well they’re simply toxic.
@ChloeJones-ne6ck
@ChloeJones-ne6ck 2 ай бұрын
This is my exact response when people ask me if I believe in love at first sight. No, I don’t believe in it. How can you learn me by just seeing me? Is it a nice fantasy? Yes, but it’s not reality. Men can lust you at first sight, they undress you with their eyes and start imagine a future with you… again not without mind fucking with your body first. Once I started reading and teaching myself the things no one taught me. I started asking questions about everything. Now when people say love at first sight. I just laugh to myself in my head… like they’re delusional, let’s see if this last. True love is the rarest act in the world. Rarest!!! Most people don’t take the time to love themselves… and you think they can love you at first sight… LORDT. Grateful to have that knowledge at 24. I’m attractive and my intelligence has save me in so many situations. I simply read, watch patterns and once I learn it I’m like GOT IT.
@ChloeJones-ne6ck
@ChloeJones-ne6ck 2 ай бұрын
Also, I’m learning how to not yap about myself. And you’re calling me out but again I’ve done a lot of growth so compassionate with myself. But ohhhh child thank you for this.
@ChloeJones-ne6ck
@ChloeJones-ne6ck 2 ай бұрын
Last guy was a wake up call for sure. I’m like damn I thought I was smarter than this and it woke me up to truly learn about men so I know next time better.
@user-kt6yx7ox7z
@user-kt6yx7ox7z Ай бұрын
Oh you poor soul, you have no idea
@Dreamergirl-lx5zb
@Dreamergirl-lx5zb Ай бұрын
I dont believe in love at first sight either but. I can imagine someone can be instantly attracted to someone. but thats lust not not love.
@Redangel.199
@Redangel.199 Ай бұрын
Me and my felt in love on first sight… we are together since 12 years and got three children. It’s rare but not impossible.
@cocomaire
@cocomaire Ай бұрын
This sounds like a lot of justification for men who feel entitled to sex. This view of sexual relations requires lots of disposable women. It’s a society that willfully abuses women.
@Sophiecatherina765
@Sophiecatherina765 Ай бұрын
No but they are predators its the way their wired.
@cocomaire
@cocomaire Ай бұрын
@@Sophiecatherina765 I think it’s a misogynistic excuse for poor self control. Women have natural sexual urges too, and hormones that drive us, but because we bear the responsibility of childbirth, we are forced to and expected to have more self control in the eyes of society. If men had more impetus to control themselves, more of them would. Basic human kindness towards women should be enough, but society has taught them to rationalize their behavior because it’s common and allowed.
@Sophiecatherina765
@Sophiecatherina765 Ай бұрын
@@cocomaire No it’s not misogynistic it’s just u can’t accept the truth. Women naturally can have self control easily because we don’t have a males high testosterone. Men and women are not the same stop comparing yourself to a man. It’s not giving a pass to a man’s behaviour it’s just the truth.
@maryc3102
@maryc3102 Ай бұрын
@@cocomaireyes!!! I’m glad someone recognizes this for what this is, excuses and lack of self control, not some animalistic “nature” they always use to excuses their misogynistic and disrespectful behaviour
@icejay5935
@icejay5935 Ай бұрын
And that’s why a lot of them End up on the Rapist Rosters
@smuccilicious
@smuccilicious Ай бұрын
Take your emotions out of what he’s saying and realize this is really how most men are!!! Get smarter and don’t let people play in your face.
@YahhGirlJazz
@YahhGirlJazz Ай бұрын
Literally be putting folks on game cause this is how men view sex to some men sex is just a daily habit which is sad
@60wwediva
@60wwediva 20 күн бұрын
Exactly. Idiots in tbe comments getting offended and projecting bullshit onto him for telling us the truth. Him and sprinkle sprinkle shera tells the truth. I always knew this is how men operate. Women in the comments crying have clearly never been around a man at the same time or in the same room where a hot ass woman he cant take his eyes off of is present. And they cleaely havent been aodund men enough to hear them ooen up and express who they really are. Men are just like this. If they arent cheating on their wives then best believe he has a whole ass crush or work crush he wishes he could be with too
@carlel121
@carlel121 13 күн бұрын
😂😂😂 No
@chayo4537
@chayo4537 10 күн бұрын
Nah you dont gotta take your emotions out of it to see it for what it is. And that's coming from a taurus
@smuccilicious
@smuccilicious 7 күн бұрын
@@chayo4537 Maybe you don’t but some do to see more clearly.
@starrjanai2623
@starrjanai2623 3 ай бұрын
So 3 months dating really is = 4.5 days 😭😭😭 dating makes so much more sense now. We think they switching up fast, but nope we just seeing how they really are basically on a week basis🤣!!!
@neawilliams7204
@neawilliams7204 Ай бұрын
That 3 month rule be crucial😂 in a lot of cases, even if someone do wait 3-5 months before sex (dudes will genuinely wait a whole year😗) and it’s no guarantee they’ll actually commit to you. Ladies: if you wanna have sex, please please please make sure that its what you want as well and especially with someone you trust
@Ebthehousesitter
@Ebthehousesitter Күн бұрын
And thats IF you’re going on 3 dates a week but we know these dudes are NOT taking these chicks out 3x a week. 😂
@olaalherz
@olaalherz 3 ай бұрын
why does this make me feel disgusting
@unapologeticella4540
@unapologeticella4540 24 күн бұрын
Because it is
@60wwediva
@60wwediva 20 күн бұрын
It makes me feel enlightened. Its disgusting cause its the brutal truth to how all men operate.
@BBFLYRISEN
@BBFLYRISEN Ай бұрын
Never mind. Ima just stay single/celibate.
@QueenQueenly
@QueenQueenly 29 күн бұрын
Best choice
@marycaliari
@marycaliari 25 күн бұрын
Frrr
@unapologeticella4540
@unapologeticella4540 24 күн бұрын
Being single is like flying🎉 i miss it
@60wwediva
@60wwediva 20 күн бұрын
Yes. Besides when you're single? You have freedom.
@YGPR1212
@YGPR1212 Ай бұрын
This actually opened up an entire rabbit hole of why there are so many work husbands and wives and how people start affairs at a job.. You’re spending all of your time with someone at work and only 9 hours a month with your potential partner💀
@60wwediva
@60wwediva 20 күн бұрын
Yes this is it but also because with all due respect, you're bound to meet your actual type at work. Men don't matty the women they're truly attracted to or their ideal types, they marry the wife material like he stated in the video. The fun girl is the woman he truly wants and desires but most fun girls arent wife material and wont hold the housebold and family down like tjat. This is why men lie and generally frame them not wanting to marry YOU as not wanting to marry in general or have kids in general just for them to go off and marry his ideal type QUICKLY at that right after the break up within 3 months to a year. Most men who have jobs where they interact with the public ib some format or a lot of people in general develop work wives cause the chances are higher of finding a woman hes truly attracted to. Abd yeah at work you get to know the person without the stabdard exhaustion of traditional questuons and aekwardness caus you're pushed into getting to know each other deeper and faster. I had a married man who had a crush on me at work and he treated me like a work wife but had boundaries and didnt take it too far
@isabelleboulay2651
@isabelleboulay2651 Ай бұрын
He's correct. Men are in neenderthal thinking. They haven't progressed any further than "me want" mentality. The smarter ones figure out that women prefer to hear things that are securing to her so he gets into that "role". It's a means to an end for him, there is no real engagement or connection. It's only about the end goal and thinking that women aren't smart enough to figure this out. Hence, this is what "having game" means. Look at the guys who are very rich. They will show as being able to get the beautiful women and some show off as having multiple. It's acquisition to show power over those guys who can't. It's competition. This guy here telling the truth.
@STARBOY_DW
@STARBOY_DW 22 күн бұрын
This man is not telling the truth at all. Stop blaming all men for the what the minority do. Men aren’t cavemen and nowadays most men don’t even be having sex often.
@Jess-wv3ro
@Jess-wv3ro 18 күн бұрын
What country are you commenting from? 😄
@LaceyRyan-no8mt
@LaceyRyan-no8mt Ай бұрын
This takes all the magic away. All the fun. Turned off of men forever now. I didn't know they were like this...ugh at least I know so that I can stay away permanently. Thank you so much for what you do 💗
@Sophiecatherina765
@Sophiecatherina765 Ай бұрын
It’s the way they’re wired they are predators by nature and it’s also down to their high testosterone. Only god can take those things out of a man.
@nfvjgrofgjvoldlkgvlo
@nfvjgrofgjvoldlkgvlo Ай бұрын
oh yeah life goes on long after the thrill of living is gone rock on
@superdupercoolawsome
@superdupercoolawsome 29 күн бұрын
Nah, just use this to your benefit. Now you understand them. You know that this is why men want to devalue us so badly. This tells you why, as women, we have so much power. You can use this to get things from them without giving them what they want. You can use the promise of sex to get them to do things for you.
@Rebecca-GLaines
@Rebecca-GLaines 25 күн бұрын
Magic is real, and it's found in every good respectful relationship. The key to finding a good man is patience. NEVER think "having sex w him will show him how important I think he is". That won't work. Be friends first. Hold back sex for at least 3 months. If he's unwilling to wait, he will start making excuses not to see you, that's dodging a bullet there. But most women mess this part up. When he quits reaching out, THATS when women will sleep w them to keep their attention, and now they've just gotten used because their judgement got clouded. Men loose respect for you if you sleep w them too soon. It it's something he brings up often, he's emotionally immature, stay away. Men can hold back, and if they like you, they will WANT to wait. That's facts.
@STARBOY_DW
@STARBOY_DW 22 күн бұрын
@@Rebecca-GLainesHaven’t heard anything more stupid. I wonder if you know how manipulative you sound.
@Iamsaraii
@Iamsaraii Ай бұрын
He’s not lying. Listen to this man. A lot of guys do things like this.
@STARBOY_DW
@STARBOY_DW 22 күн бұрын
He is please stop thinking like a kindergartener.
@Iamsaraii
@Iamsaraii 20 күн бұрын
@@STARBOY_DW stop using the internet to have the balls to say things you wouldnt say to my face coward. Just because you do not agree does not make it untrue. We've learned things like this in KINDERGARTEN. So maybe YOU need to STOP thinking like a child.
@melissarose888
@melissarose888 Ай бұрын
You have no idea how these men are in bed either. They can be aggressive. Stay safe.
@Jeslyn-Elayne
@Jeslyn-Elayne 26 күн бұрын
YES I’ve been graped a few times and it’s so true this you got to be careful because you might think they will respect you during s3x until it actually gets to it and they turn into someone you don’t recognize 😢
@Ovoxorose
@Ovoxorose 27 күн бұрын
"Some guys really do care about you" is insaneeeeee 😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂
@shitzulovers1404
@shitzulovers1404 3 ай бұрын
If a guy gives other girls more attention than me, I'll leave him with that girl 😂 I deserve better lmao
@blakesworld149
@blakesworld149 Ай бұрын
yeah......im gay and still-if dating is like this, we need a great reset cause this ain't it, good ones are rare. good luck y'all
@msa6844
@msa6844 Ай бұрын
Sad thing about it is the fact that it doesn’t even change with age. The older men are just as bad
@memeanimeconnoisseur
@memeanimeconnoisseur Ай бұрын
So pretty much go after the guy that tells you the opposite of everything you want to hear, he’s more of an honest person and will be a better partner long term. My husband told me in the beginning he wasn’t looking for a relationship but I liked him so much I put in the work and effort to make him want to commit to me aka I competed. I would do it all again without a second thought, he’s literally the man of my dreams and I’m blessed to have him in my life.
@JacintaLight
@JacintaLight 26 күн бұрын
Gotta love the honest hard truth
@Tashasmith7388
@Tashasmith7388 24 күн бұрын
But are you the woman of his dreams or did he settle?
@BlueBlue23
@BlueBlue23 20 күн бұрын
That's not important if she is happy ​@@Tashasmith7388
@EmmeStAnne
@EmmeStAnne 16 күн бұрын
​@@Tashasmith7388This is a great question. A woman is not supposed to be out here working for the relationship. It is the man for he is the hunter. The bible says that he who finds a wife finds a good thing and is blessed with favor not the other way around.
@gigifabuloso1618
@gigifabuloso1618 2 ай бұрын
Fun girl and Desperate girl are 2 different ppl. Wife will get the life but Fun girl will always live rent free in her mans head forever, both heads lol
@PlatinumInfinity
@PlatinumInfinity Ай бұрын
Is the wife desperate?
@cierrabennett206
@cierrabennett206 Ай бұрын
​@@PlatinumInfinity The wives who settle for less than they deserve for the sake of the title are desperate for sure.
@raisedbywolves6108
@raisedbywolves6108 Ай бұрын
Wife is opposite of desperate girl. And fun girl never gets taken seriously if she doesn't have standards. He can forget about her so easily because it's a dime a dozen.
@malaysiabaldwin562
@malaysiabaldwin562 Ай бұрын
When he said “4.5 days” 😐 I lost it 😂😂😂🤌🏽 GREAT VIDEO , smart Man ♥️
@terrylu1843
@terrylu1843 25 күн бұрын
I don’t wanna be the fun girl or the wife, both positions seem very undesirable and counterproductive. I wanna be the woman he pays for every minute of my time. 💯
@unapologeticella4540
@unapologeticella4540 24 күн бұрын
Facts💯🌷
@elsagrace3893
@elsagrace3893 20 күн бұрын
Yes! The only females available to men should be prostitutes or a wife. All this between stuff just hurts and devalues us. Giving them anything else is a waste of our time and resources.
@jadegarner2897
@jadegarner2897 Ай бұрын
This makes so much sense in why this guy was learning sign language with me ( I am not deaf, but I do work with a lot of individuals who require ASL) just to get to the pineapple 😂😂
@encyclopaedia641
@encyclopaedia641 Ай бұрын
They’ll almost worship the ground you walk on just to get the pineapple 😅
@jenniferzalik1521
@jenniferzalik1521 24 күн бұрын
you guys are gonna hate him … but take what his saying as facts he’s giving us an insight to a man’s brain. they really do and think like this. DONT GIVE IT UP EVER
@STARBOY_DW
@STARBOY_DW 22 күн бұрын
No most men don’t, a minority of men think and act like this and it’s this minority women steady dealing with. Generalizing this to all men is crazy.
@ontimeprocess
@ontimeprocess Ай бұрын
Wow he’s giving away some serious game. Thank you and God will bless you because of this. This will keep us from predators.
@carlel121
@carlel121 Ай бұрын
This is so stupid, if he wants to give attention to the fun girl being married and I’m the wife that have morals and respect myself I won’t be with that man anymore, simple as that! And not all men cheats.
@flextape718
@flextape718 13 күн бұрын
Yea I was a bit alarmed when he told us not to worry about men giving attention to other women. If he does that he's out the door idec
@Cookt21
@Cookt21 2 ай бұрын
The calculation has me ready to be a nun 😩
@tamiressoares9303
@tamiressoares9303 29 күн бұрын
Amém sister 😅
@JacintaLight
@JacintaLight 26 күн бұрын
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@unapologeticella4540
@unapologeticella4540 24 күн бұрын
Ikr 🙏🏽
@elleelizabethstyles
@elleelizabethstyles Ай бұрын
My rose colored glasses are clear now. Oh my goodness, goodness. 😅
@QueenQueenly
@QueenQueenly 29 күн бұрын
Thank you for informing and teaching women how to be aware and how to read males true intentions. Sadly most of us have horrible stories from dealing with males
@Bectopia
@Bectopia Ай бұрын
organs shutting down bc they’re starving?? but it really isn’t that serious is it
@amiehopkins
@amiehopkins Ай бұрын
Right and steal? Like stealing sex (r*pe?) No, sorry, that’s a horrible analogy.
@DanniBby
@DanniBby Ай бұрын
@@amiehopkins that’s your interpretation, steal is a metaphor for when you’re desperately in need and have to lie to get something, there’s many ways to steal & bargain.. doesn’t have to be an extreme violent crime. Manipulation is often subtle. Think about if a car salesman is going to homeless then how will they get the sale they need, they’re not going to actually rape the person.
@rachelinthelionsden
@rachelinthelionsden Ай бұрын
He’s only describing hormonal mechanism . Even women who take those same hormones can experience that same intensity . I’m glad mine are the way they are as a woman..
@Luvvserena111
@Luvvserena111 28 күн бұрын
⁠@@rachelinthelionsden women ovulate and our hormones change constantly but men are brought up socially to be more aggressive and to give in to an animalistic sexual nature while for women it’s the opposite. Not all men are this way but a lot are bc it’s wrongfully normalized in our culture. A lot of this mentality is the same as a sexual abuser the only thing stopping some men is their empathy level.
@RogueRideRomance
@RogueRideRomance 28 күн бұрын
Sex is extreme to us too though🤣 that’s what these “sexual liberty” movements been all about. Women want healthy sex😫 it’s about just being honest and not shaming/disrespecting women that actually give you their body.
@RogueRideRomance
@RogueRideRomance 28 күн бұрын
Great video though! 😭🤌🏽
@alias4506
@alias4506 24 күн бұрын
Fr! We also like sex! So exhausting that this is constantly ignored or as if not the case
@RogueRideRomance
@RogueRideRomance 20 күн бұрын
@@alias4506 we just waiting for the men’s confusion wave to pass😪 It’s hard but I really think it’s getting better! There are more aware men now bc of it all
@DanniBby
@DanniBby Ай бұрын
So it sounds like the simple answer for this is just to know whether the relationship you’re getting into is based on physical gratification or if it’s more than that to begin with, if there’s substance. It’s okay to get into a relationship that starts with mutual attraction & intent for physical desires though, because you know what you’re getting into and it’s mutually agreed upon. Often times the guys catch feelings though.
@elizabethp.-ch3kf
@elizabethp.-ch3kf Ай бұрын
I've met a few guys that don't act like manipulative animals before. But just a few.
@barbaramay9288
@barbaramay9288 22 күн бұрын
samee, they’re in the 0.1%
@STARBOY_DW
@STARBOY_DW 22 күн бұрын
@@barbaramay9288Most men aren’t like this. A vast majority of men aren’t having sex frequently. You’ve generalized the entirety of a gender based on a minority.
@hmblf687
@hmblf687 25 күн бұрын
I’m a grown woman and listening to this still triggered and upset me. But I did learn some things so thank you.
@user-qf2lt1ec3q
@user-qf2lt1ec3q Ай бұрын
This was both making me giggle & very clear information. Thank you so much 😊
@doracristal9899
@doracristal9899 Ай бұрын
This is actually kind of funny 😂😂😂
@Doesch
@Doesch Ай бұрын
This is a great video. I honestly would have loved to see this information while i was younger. Thanks!
@Ebthehousesitter
@Ebthehousesitter Күн бұрын
I like how he whispered “now tell me in the chat” 😂😂 This broke it down in a way I never would have considered. 4 and a half days 😂
@DanniBby
@DanniBby Ай бұрын
Btw I think when people say vibes they mean different things, it’s not always superficial. It could mean the way they connect and how they’re compatible with each other’s energy & personality.
@christiganesh
@christiganesh 2 ай бұрын
So true ..
@pr3ttiad285
@pr3ttiad285 Ай бұрын
This shyt is spot on 📍 lmaooo it’s wild how accurate it is
@danyanfish8850
@danyanfish8850 Ай бұрын
I think that men are called to learn self control. There are these tactics, yes, but they are not justifiable.
@vr5436
@vr5436 3 ай бұрын
Wise words to keep women grounded. Bravo!!!
@BeautyNHer
@BeautyNHer 26 күн бұрын
You are so intelligent, Thank you for helping us woman out I so appreciate you ☺
@aliciascott2993
@aliciascott2993 2 ай бұрын
So true
@safiahere3386
@safiahere3386 2 ай бұрын
Your chanel made my day. Loving it so please continue giving me positive energy!
@KeyannahKe
@KeyannahKe Ай бұрын
Thank you
@amberhenry4236
@amberhenry4236 24 күн бұрын
"That's still a stranger" ... I'm shaking laughing. These things are common sense. (After some trial and error of course)
@nickyhoffmann9166
@nickyhoffmann9166 18 күн бұрын
Thank you.....very insightful
@76evgenia
@76evgenia Ай бұрын
I kind of knew that all along, but really great to hear that from a guy))
@jesssoreal
@jesssoreal Ай бұрын
This video was so good and the perfect accurate explanation of how men fall in love and I know this for a fact to be so true. Thank you for confirming this for me. I’m new to your channel as of yesterday and I will be watching and taking notes and coming on more live streams when I can catch them.
@TheAngelChristine
@TheAngelChristine Ай бұрын
If a guy is like a guy in this video is, I’d rather stay single 😅. We need to go back to sex after marriage.
@jesssoreal
@jesssoreal Ай бұрын
@@TheAngelChristineI totally agree sex should be after marriage. I’m celibate and been for years and I am waiting until sex after marriage. So I totally agree on that part.
@TheAngelChristine
@TheAngelChristine Ай бұрын
@@jesssoreal yeah, i don't agree with this behavior in the video though! people put way too much importance on sex and lose sight on all the other important aspects of life and a relationship, as if the peak of a relationship is sex. when values and growing old together go beyond that. sex is a cherry on top of a relationship, not the main portion.
@vriiite
@vriiite 27 күн бұрын
⁠@@TheAngelChristineTo have a failed sexless marriage 😹?
@TheAngelChristine
@TheAngelChristine 27 күн бұрын
@@vriiite pretty sure it wasn't failed or sexless. there's so much pressure on sex. what about love? love is not sex. sex is just a cherry on top. if you are your girl are happy and there's a desire then yall are gonna have sex. i think dudes wanna have sex way more than women
@lailasmith4308
@lailasmith4308 26 күн бұрын
I hate how much sense this entire video makes
@mariamjackson2994
@mariamjackson2994 2 ай бұрын
You're such a young man packed with knowledge. Thanks for sharing your knowledge with us.
@M_Kru
@M_Kru 17 күн бұрын
This shook me to my core 🤣 but knowledge is power..
@lilywashere_
@lilywashere_ Ай бұрын
Would you say that - because the desire in men is so strong that they sometimes go for low quality women - men that do so are of low quality themselves? Is it just part of the nature of men or is it natural for a man to be able to control his desires?
@FDArtistry
@FDArtistry Ай бұрын
I think bc society “allows” & encourages men’s promiscuity that they act like they cannot control their desires. Women have the same desires if not more, but society has controlled us so we are more likely to deny our desires out of fear of public/private shame.
@Sophiecatherina765
@Sophiecatherina765 Ай бұрын
It’s apart of nature of men they are predators by nature.
@heartfloww
@heartfloww 24 күн бұрын
Great information for young women
@e30ollie
@e30ollie 22 күн бұрын
comparing getting no p*say to STARVING is actually insane
@Rebecca-GLaines
@Rebecca-GLaines 25 күн бұрын
Of the 4.5 days of the 3 months spent together, how much of that time is spent texting, talking on the phone on the in between days? If I go on 3 dates w you, but we talk everyday, the math does change the equation. If a guy is talking about "wanting you sooo bad" thats a red flag. Hes emotionally immature, and letting you know what hes about. Ive met a few like that and I was shocked! Lol! (This was years ago) But there is a difference in guys who want sex and men who want a relationship, they both want sex, but the approach is 100% different, and men that seek a relationship are a lot more quiet and let YOU bring that topic up, as a matter of fact, all the good ones didnt talk about ot at all, it was cool of it happened, cool if it didn't, they just enjoy spending time w the other person, they hold back alot more, ifbthe person is too anxious, another red flag.
@shea5542
@shea5542 21 күн бұрын
This is a great video
@Galaxygamergal
@Galaxygamergal 3 ай бұрын
I feel called out
@everblessash
@everblessash Ай бұрын
I’m ngl, that was a terrible analogy that justifies something really really bad
@lililalova9973
@lililalova9973 2 ай бұрын
Briliant video!
@beyondallreason-du4pq
@beyondallreason-du4pq 14 күн бұрын
This is why i am not pleased until i see anyone's dark side...who are you when you are not kind....that is how i trap them...until i know that am not dating him...i need to know exactly what I am dealing with from the beginning 😂it explains why most found me intimidating. ..i question a lot.
@carly07443
@carly07443 Ай бұрын
Its so much easier to just stay single. i fear being cheated on. love is not worth the risk.
@jadepierre2058
@jadepierre2058 Ай бұрын
Nah bc your so right, thank you🙏
@heartfloww
@heartfloww 24 күн бұрын
That last bit 🙏🏽
@voydjumpbloom9438
@voydjumpbloom9438 Ай бұрын
thank u
@Emmalynrosie
@Emmalynrosie 2 ай бұрын
You’re so funnyyyyyy hehehe and Yes it is super super tramautic. You trust him, you love him, and he …i can’t even finish the sentence its too painful. Jordan peterzon said we need marriage because women who get used become Psychopathic and bitter, and i mean… I was definitely upset😭. I am healed now tho💖😊🌸☁️✨ ans Nooooo squirtlet til marriage, but wow!!! Soooooo insightful i love ur content
@heartfloww
@heartfloww 24 күн бұрын
Very good
@jaylynnfarr1276
@jaylynnfarr1276 Ай бұрын
😂😂😂 I love the way you broke the math down for us because you know we hate math. Great video though! Subscribed!
@earthangelalchemy
@earthangelalchemy Ай бұрын
They are strangers…!!! Yes😅
@katiewaity3413
@katiewaity3413 3 ай бұрын
Ahaha this is a good video
@plug322
@plug322 Ай бұрын
😂hes giving away my secret @10:50
@naomia472
@naomia472 28 күн бұрын
The Math 3 dates per week Each dinner date is 3 hrs So now 3 times 3 is 9. Seeing you 9hrs per week barely full time job. Now if it was 3 months in each month is 4 weeks. 4 times 3 is 12 which means 12 weeks seeing each other in 3 months 9hr per week time spent tigger. so now 9 times 12 weeks that is 108 hrs you have spent with them. 108hrs divided by 24hrs bc there are that many hrs in a day. This is 4.5 days. This means you have only spent 4.5 days over course of 3 months. Avg work hours is 8 hrs. This means you are working 40 hours per week. 40 times 12 is 480 that is 480 hrs. So now divide it by 24 that means you have spent only 20 days on the job basically. So it’s crazy how we bet our jobs more than relationships.
@naomia472
@naomia472 28 күн бұрын
The dating equation: d is number dates per week h is hrs per date w is wks per month m is number of months so (d times h) times (w times m) all dived by 24. (dh)(wm)/24
@lisaclarkson7628
@lisaclarkson7628 19 күн бұрын
Lord!! I been Ray Charles this whole time dating. 😂
@tay8677
@tay8677 29 күн бұрын
Using that same “LOGIC” with months equivalent to days, dating someone for 1 year would ONLY be 20 days etc.. So with that said, is TIME really a factor is securing anything?? Living life is ALWAYS about taking chances and I would “advise” you to be HONEST with yourself and do what you can HANDLE regardless of the outcome! KNOW THY SELF!
@kendriahudson4747
@kendriahudson4747 22 күн бұрын
After a year, you still don’t know someone well enough to share your body with them. You’re a man and think you’re entitled to sex just because you want it more than you want your next meal. That’s no indication that you’re safe to have sex with.
@reserveeuphoric2283
@reserveeuphoric2283 3 ай бұрын
Damn didn’t know guy eat the Pokémon squirtle
@Emmalynrosie
@Emmalynrosie 2 ай бұрын
7:58 so true i love this hehhee
@sarah-dh7hq
@sarah-dh7hq Ай бұрын
4.5 days is insane
@Cookt21
@Cookt21 2 ай бұрын
20:38 omg 😂😂😂😂😂😂😅
@DanniBby
@DanniBby Ай бұрын
What if you never had a man switch up and instead they won’t leave you alone afterwards? What does that mean?
@jignavadher1586
@jignavadher1586 Ай бұрын
tytytytytysm for this
@ichuze7312
@ichuze7312 26 күн бұрын
I’m a rare case. I knew my husband for 3 days, he asked me to marry him. I had been praying for a husband. I had several boyfriends before him and I knew he was the right man for me. We didn’t see each other again until we got married a month later. That was 32 years ago. We are still going strong. So, it does happen, but I recommend bringing God into it. He never fails.
@alicecavalcanti9779
@alicecavalcanti9779 29 күн бұрын
Yes thats why im bi and i decide just hangout with girls
@aliciascott2993
@aliciascott2993 2 ай бұрын
Hi
@angiem7030
@angiem7030 Ай бұрын
Really nice video but the ads made it a bit tiring to watch
@jolienspigt6617
@jolienspigt6617 26 күн бұрын
Will the next episode be 'how women view sex'? Its a bit underrepresented.. tnx!
@loladivinity2
@loladivinity2 2 ай бұрын
Are you an Aquarius?
@SONYYXJUST
@SONYYXJUST Ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@JacintaLight
@JacintaLight 26 күн бұрын
Wow lol true
@JacintaLight
@JacintaLight 26 күн бұрын
Such good advice!!!!!
@elal7929
@elal7929 23 күн бұрын
I'mma go lesbian.
@ExcitedJungleWaterfall-cj5wj
@ExcitedJungleWaterfall-cj5wj 28 күн бұрын
I need a man who is strong enough to not steal now dat would b extreme i need a challenger man i cant say yess nd u as as be yess too ohh please
@dash9145
@dash9145 3 ай бұрын
what if a woman uses these tactics on men
@DontChaseinstantgratification
@DontChaseinstantgratification 3 ай бұрын
What tactics and what good would that do for you?
@ellamorani5327
@ellamorani5327 2 ай бұрын
There is already shera sprinkle sprinkle ❤
@unapologeticella4540
@unapologeticella4540 24 күн бұрын
​@ellamrani5327 yes i love her advise shes 💯% right.
@Emmalynrosie
@Emmalynrosie 2 ай бұрын
18:00 ur so funny HAHHAHAHAA omgggg fr. Hahhaha I love your personality. And wow 4 DAYS!!!!!! EMBARRASSING.
@luckyluckylucky2261
@luckyluckylucky2261 2 ай бұрын
Tomisin, you are so well spoken & articulate. Except for the word SQUIRTLE. It turns my stomach.
@bigthangz5489
@bigthangz5489 2 ай бұрын
What word do u recommend he should rather use ?
@luckyluckylucky2261
@luckyluckylucky2261 2 ай бұрын
@@bigthangz5489 squirtle sounds like a dude bro name for lady parts, makes me think of urkle, or koopa troopa turtle shells from Mario brothers. No woman would call her parts squirtle, even and especially if she were a lady fountain. Squirtle makes me think of jr high. Cringe Just say bang. Or giving it up. Or even lady parts. Women like vague.
@jennleadley9080
@jennleadley9080 Ай бұрын
Wow…….🤣
@schwesterbeller
@schwesterbeller 3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 4,5 days
@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes
@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes 2 ай бұрын
🧠
@dollface7563
@dollface7563 Ай бұрын
15:45
@xHarajukuBarbiex
@xHarajukuBarbiex 24 күн бұрын
This is too much. I'll just be single.
@amberhenry4236
@amberhenry4236 24 күн бұрын
You are hilarious.
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