How Middle Class Men Control Their Wives ?

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@Meenakshimaam
@Meenakshimaam Жыл бұрын
True
@probalroychowdhury9272
@probalroychowdhury9272 Жыл бұрын
The moral of the story is don't marry... get a maid instead... don't ever think of marriage... Indian men of middle class
@kashishkishore6844
@kashishkishore6844 Жыл бұрын
7 ways for housewife’s to earn- Sir the link for the app is asking for org code after its downloaded
@stepbysteplearning7965
@stepbysteplearning7965 11 ай бұрын
How can we earn after the pre marital counseling course Like is he going to provide you some clients or you have to start it at your place on your own
@triptistudiovlogs
@triptistudiovlogs 11 ай бұрын
Aap reality dikha rhe hai jo kisy ka Bhot bda pain hai life ka 😅👍
@jaitpurmcd5696
@jaitpurmcd5696 Жыл бұрын
Current generation girls who are working & are of marriagble age are very smart. If husband will mess up with their job they will leave husband not job. No life without financial freedom. 😅
@renug4808
@renug4808 Жыл бұрын
Me being a mother of two grown up kids..now realise how I wasted my precious golden years sitting at home doing slavery of him just for the sake of family sanskar bcoz he was against doing my job..now me having body aches regularly.. Every girl should be financially independent at any cost..no compromise on that..
@lalatech3247
@lalatech3247 Жыл бұрын
Hope you find a good wife
@amandeepkoursaini9832
@amandeepkoursaini9832 Жыл бұрын
​@@renug4808completely agree with you
@amandeepkoursaini9832
@amandeepkoursaini9832 Жыл бұрын
@jaitpurmcd5696 sahi to hai zindgi bhar padhayi ki khud par itni mehnat ki ghar pe naukrani banne ke liye thodi apni khud ki identity ho log aapko aapke naam se jaane na ki Pati ya Pita ke naam se uski Khushi alag hi hoti hai aur financially independent hona pati ke saamne Chand paiso ke liye haath failane ki zarurat na padna. To kya galat hai
@Riya-ph4zl
@Riya-ph4zl Жыл бұрын
I confirm as a defence officer's wife, we do work unpaid for husband's organization. My husband senior officer's wife once taunted me for giving priority to attending my own education and examination in very pathetic way. Nonetheless I succeeded and got my own gov job.
@Riya-ph4zl
@Riya-ph4zl Жыл бұрын
@@jyotidaspromax dude chill !! My income + his income is family's income. From family income we have our equal pocket money , rest is invested in other things which majorly decided by him because he has better knowledge of finance.
@RashmiSahrawat
@RashmiSahrawat Жыл бұрын
Same
@natureinurbanspace1280
@natureinurbanspace1280 Жыл бұрын
My husband is AVP of a company still I teach in college, my relatives tell me that I love money
@jsingh8327
@jsingh8327 Жыл бұрын
@@natureinurbanspace1280 Ha Ha tell me who doesn't love money
@SeriousStudent603
@SeriousStudent603 Жыл бұрын
@@doctorpanigrahi9975 do you work at max saket ?
@iamworstgamer
@iamworstgamer Жыл бұрын
this is spot on. My mom suffered from this. My father never gave 100rs out of expenses. and above all he used to manage all expenses. If my mom wants 10 rs she could not get. Now I dont ask my mom about money. I give her and she can ask me any money any time.
@natureinurbanspace1280
@natureinurbanspace1280 Жыл бұрын
I admit your views. I am in forties I am univ prof. My mother was working in school. My sister is lawyer. I am proud of my mother. My daughter is also very career minded and says in our family all women have their own identities. My cousin sisters are also working but they are not getting married. Boys are confused, girls are more advanced .
@prashantgoyal3454
@prashantgoyal3454 Жыл бұрын
Hello ma'am, ky aap bta skti h ki ye saare aapke relatives Jo aj professionally successful h inme se kitne married h (The goal of the question is to understand whether women whose carrier is established and they are financially good have to face issues regarding finding groom due to various reasons.)
@CosmicLion777
@CosmicLion777 Жыл бұрын
Stop putting down Women who don't want to do job.
@shashikalanarayan585
@shashikalanarayan585 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 sir some wives neither get money nor property in their name. They are asked to earn their living on their own as well as look after the family. Not all women have the strength to handle both on their own. What do we do with such husbands 😂😂
@eeeeeee15
@eeeeeee15 6 ай бұрын
Hmm yes I have seen this a lot in my circle. I have the first part where I am asked to earn and look after family. But my husband and me jointly own both our flats, so that way I have more investment in my name
@anjies8188
@anjies8188 Жыл бұрын
It's jugg jahiirr : husbands control women based on financial restrictions Elderly females control bahus based on kitchen overload/ house chores so that physically she gets exhausted and brain proply process hi na kar sake !!! This vedio has 25minutes 10 seconds of word by word truth 🙌🙌🙌🙌 it's just atleast kissi ne is baat ko publicly bola
@anthonycosta128
@anthonycosta128 3 ай бұрын
And how do wives control some innocent husbands?
@Raythelightlife
@Raythelightlife Ай бұрын
​@@anthonycosta128by giving them food water taking care of them as if they are handicapped..... Thode dono baad unse kaam hi nahi hota totally they got dependent on women.
@DeepankarChugh
@DeepankarChugh Жыл бұрын
I asked my gf that i will only marry her if she starts earning. No matter if it is just 5000 rs but she needs to build her own identity and respect. My family has always seen women who have been earning. 5 yrs later she is my wfe and loves the independence and even helps me in running home. It is all about how you think about women. Thanks to my mom and elder sister that raised me to respect a women’s independence
@shwetashukla2300
@shwetashukla2300 Жыл бұрын
I am working and earing enough but getting monthly a fixed amount by my husband widout any enquiry....amount is not too much but it gives happiness and indirectly I am also spending that money on him and his parents. It's matter of understanding.....we are open to each odr for all investments we r doing. Most of men are creating scene themselves hiding things frm partner....whatever we women's are earning or getting from husband ultimately we are supporting financially to family.
@abhaysoni926
@abhaysoni926 Жыл бұрын
@@shwetashukla2300 you people got a happy life and good partner.
@AGS456
@AGS456 Жыл бұрын
No not at all not even 5 k without justification even the husband earns in lakhs .. you are hitting the bulls eye..👍👍
@sarahtiara
@sarahtiara Жыл бұрын
Very true that's why my mom works even if the salary is less and also tells me to get a job so you don't have to ask your husband for even small things ❤❤
@meherbaker2662
@meherbaker2662 Жыл бұрын
100 % agree with you. Butler is the proper word u used. Self esteem ki toh band baj jati hai. Perfectly said. Kabu karne wala trait is true. Yes ghatiya soch bhi hai about affair. Dil tutta hai. Bitterness ho gai hai i agree. N all the illness u said is there. Loved this video
@happysoul_97
@happysoul_97 Жыл бұрын
This video will be a hard pill to swallow for many people but you are courageous enough to speak the truth . Thank you.
@madhuk1111
@madhuk1111 Жыл бұрын
best way is to self-love, emotionally secure and be as financially independent as possible. never sit at home or leave your job.
@simranvirk9005
@simranvirk9005 Жыл бұрын
200% accurate scenario. Hats off to you sir for bringing such topics .
@maha_sage
@maha_sage Жыл бұрын
The one who gives money is the power centre (not pay but give) The one who receives money has to bow (receives and not takes)
@shankarprasadmp
@shankarprasadmp Жыл бұрын
I dont want to brag about how me and my wife live.. But this a very powerful video. Adds a lot of perspective for the partners who dont have these issues.. Definately my favourite "How not to be in life" type of a content.
@246india
@246india Жыл бұрын
Absence of father and child is spoilt.💛 Housewives have more extra marital than working ladies.. 💛
@SarojKumar-nu7ng
@SarojKumar-nu7ng Жыл бұрын
I wanted my wife to work since beginning even I got her admitted in stenographer class alongwith teaching myself for competitive exams but she couldn't succeed. Anyway I am trying to make her free but she is more involved in puja path. I am just putting my example to make a point that willingness of wife is more important and that will work more efficiently
@PuneCityFarmer
@PuneCityFarmer Жыл бұрын
Along with Pooja path I guess she must be doing her household tasks as well please let her do it, your children will learn from her actions (Sanskar will be cultivate in them). Food cooked by homemaker is always better than maid that will reward your family health in future.
@SarojKumar-nu7ng
@SarojKumar-nu7ng Жыл бұрын
Dear I am not saying that home management is not as good as job. My only point is that let the other half do what she or he likes.
@PuneCityFarmer
@PuneCityFarmer Жыл бұрын
Thats good
@umasivasubramanian6758
@umasivasubramanian6758 Жыл бұрын
Also have encouraged my daughter n DIL to work n be financially independent
@AbkibarVishnuSarkar
@AbkibarVishnuSarkar Жыл бұрын
Iam 22 and listening this. A very eye opening and informative video. As a men I Support this.
@sankalpdubey653
@sankalpdubey653 Жыл бұрын
I am speculating that sir will say 'TA TA TINNA' atleast once in thie video.
@saumyathapliyal.
@saumyathapliyal. Жыл бұрын
Best comment till date 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@sankalpdubey653
@sankalpdubey653 Жыл бұрын
@@saumyathapliyal. Thanks.... Lol
@tesla9917
@tesla9917 Жыл бұрын
Ye kya hota hai
@kapilbudhaji2118
@kapilbudhaji2118 Жыл бұрын
Public demanf
@nilesh6193
@nilesh6193 Жыл бұрын
This time it was kamolika music
@vilearninglife4723
@vilearninglife4723 Жыл бұрын
Sir mere saath ulta hai. I am encouraged (nearly forced) to earn and not just normal kaam chaalu amount. I have to earn 50% of our family's income. Which sometimes is so hard for me, especially now that we have a daughter. I feel raising her sensibly is a huge huge responsibility which will get sidelined with my divided focus with earning.
@anamikatripathi2394
@anamikatripathi2394 Жыл бұрын
I think each partner should try to contribute 50% of family income. Its good that you're getting support from family.
@archanamishra2275
@archanamishra2275 Жыл бұрын
Same with me and we are supposed to maintain house as well ,vacations where also decided by them,kids education is also our responsibility if not then we are failure.
@shikhapandey242
@shikhapandey242 Жыл бұрын
@@jyotidaspromax sensible couples are already doing it! If a family has to progress this is the only way!
@shikhapandey242
@shikhapandey242 Жыл бұрын
I can relate! Being a working mother its difficult but quality over quantity is the mantra for us! Even housewives have this guilt as they are occupied with the household chores throughout the day. While growing up she will be proud of your hard work! :)
@afreenjamal4045
@afreenjamal4045 Жыл бұрын
If your husband is forcing you to work then that is not good. You earn as much as you are capable of and if you earn half of your husband's income, then contribute in the ratio of 1:2. Also, have some money saved for yourself. Yes, women should earn but there are other things men don't have to go through, like pregnancy and childbirth and breastfeeding and taking care of your child in the initial days. In such cases he cannot expect you to be an equal provider, (forcing wife to earn 50 percent all the time is beyond my comprehension 😮). Men are the providers after all, and that is the most important criterion of selecting a mate, for women. If you are nearly forced to provide your half, are you balancing each and every other thing in the family? Aren't your responsibilities becoming very high? And even if you are managing to balance everything, is your strength and capacity to earn matching your husband's? (It can match, I'm not sure, I'm asking you). Is he, for eg, getting up at night to lull your daughter to sleep? And even if you are managing to balance everything, is this how a relationship can run? I don't thing Amit ji was hinting at this scenario at all via this video. Be careful, abusers come in many forms. When some men realise they can't abuse a woman in traditional ways, they'll shape shift and abuse you and take and receive and manipulate you in other ways... I hope you stay happy
@shaileshrandive3746
@shaileshrandive3746 Жыл бұрын
Basic fundamental 60:40 of Take home salary 60 Hand over to family dont ask account and 40 keep in bank for post retirement.
@eeeeeee15
@eeeeeee15 Жыл бұрын
My husband does not ask about my salary. I have to spend household expenses from my salary, and remaining i am free to spend/save as i wish. I have closed housing loan with my salary and now saving everything after house hold expenses (maid, grocery, bills, personal transport, kids expenses). I also do not ask my husband about how he spends his salary, generally for common trips and outings, he spends. I dont know if this is good or bad, but we have found this the best way to reduce fights.
@Createyourwealth96
@Createyourwealth96 Жыл бұрын
I don't think you are living together
@afreenjamal4045
@afreenjamal4045 Жыл бұрын
You take care of all the kids' expenses and grocery? What does your husband do for you then?
@happysoul_97
@happysoul_97 Жыл бұрын
I hope u r not responsible for household chores
@ankitamishra0405
@ankitamishra0405 Жыл бұрын
Wow still men say women earn for herself.
@manjular3678
@manjular3678 Жыл бұрын
​@telugugovtjobsinfo8773 Some couples live together separately
@manjular3678
@manjular3678 Жыл бұрын
Woman want a man who is in control but not a controlling man. Know the difference. Waiting for your next video Thank you guruji 🙏
@chandrabhushan8597
@chandrabhushan8597 Жыл бұрын
What about what men wants?
@nikhilgupta1563
@nikhilgupta1563 Жыл бұрын
& why a woman's want should be so important?
@sheri3219
@sheri3219 Жыл бұрын
@@nikhilgupta1563 why men too
@nikhilgupta1563
@nikhilgupta1563 Жыл бұрын
@@sheri3219 because men feed women
@Devi-pg4rj
@Devi-pg4rj Жыл бұрын
Like someone who is willing to take equal responsibility.
@shubhagupta4303
@shubhagupta4303 Жыл бұрын
Sir please make video how men control their working wives and their finance. Thank you
@jashanbhatia
@jashanbhatia Жыл бұрын
20000? ..... 20 kaudiyan bhi nhi dete! 20 galiyan zrur dete hain poore khandan ko agr maang lo to
@akshaychand2783
@akshaychand2783 Жыл бұрын
The BESTEST VIDEO OF THE CHANNEL... STANDING OVATION TO YOU
@ruchiraasharma5278
@ruchiraasharma5278 Жыл бұрын
Male with middle class mentality will have to work hard To make his wife a Maharani. Still many working ladies are suffering from financial slavery. They earn but don't have access to their accounts. Reason.. ..? Tum se naa ho paayega... :(
@PreetiSri
@PreetiSri Жыл бұрын
That's my story. I have studied in DU.I paid for the loan of our house but had to leave it because of the reasons you mentioned now can't get a single penny out of it. Also he criticizes me for not earning but I am so occupied with house chores that I am left with no energy and even if I get a day or two off what is the point of.
@matildamaher1505
@matildamaher1505 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely agree, a dad is necessary especially when they reach teen life
@19godfather93
@19godfather93 Жыл бұрын
Wife and I both earn and both have 100% transparency with and accountability to each other about finances. Every purchase, every decision is joint, and it's OUR money, so it's both of our responsibility to ensure we save more of it. I earn more so we spend more from my account and save more from her for tax purposes! So, I think it's as healthy a situation of finances as possible. And still, I can vouch 100% for what has been said in this video. For an average Indian woman, the confidence that is achieved by having her own income is just incredible. She feels valued, she feels like her degrees were put to good use, she feels like a productive and equal player in the marriage, and of course, proud of the extra savings thanks to her job. No matter what the work - let it be making and selling cupcakes, not more than a few thousands a month - it's a game changer. Heavily recommended.
@akhandbha
@akhandbha Жыл бұрын
Middle class don't spend money freely. Most don't spend Rs 10k freely, every expenses above 10k are done with mutual discussion.
@deepak21oct
@deepak21oct Жыл бұрын
Me and my wife watched this video.. and we both agree we don't have these issues
@vandanananwani6658
@vandanananwani6658 Жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you Sir 💯 I've gone through this situation and now I'm facing a lot of health issues 😞
@user-wn1bi4vb2p5
@user-wn1bi4vb2p5 18 күн бұрын
Sahi kha apne free ki nokrani nokar hi banate hai
@246india
@246india Жыл бұрын
Housewives ke extra marital zyada hote hain. Ye point ekdum accurate hai. And first time I am listening ke koi oss important baat ko address kar rha h. Sabse badaa sach hai ye. thanks sir. 💛
@cloud_Engineer
@cloud_Engineer Жыл бұрын
Middle class mens of prev generation don’t take money out for themselves also for betterment of family 💯
@Raythelightlife
@Raythelightlife Ай бұрын
Bol to siset rahe ho jaise 100% Paisa wife ke hath me rakhte the. They controlled money. Jub wife bole mujhe ye chahiye wo turant jawab de ki tumhe kya jarurat hai.. This has brought a lot of frustration ki jub hum ( wife ) kama sakte hai to inse kyu maange. That's why more and more female wants to do job.
@cloud_Engineer
@cloud_Engineer Ай бұрын
@@Raythelightlife aap k papa k baat nahi ho rahi yaha
@Raythelightlife
@Raythelightlife Ай бұрын
@@cloud_Engineer exactly teri maa ki baat ho rahi hai
@Raythelightlife
@Raythelightlife Ай бұрын
@@cloud_Engineer exactly, teri maa ki baat ho Rahi hai 😂😂
@diya9408
@diya9408 Жыл бұрын
Woman must go out and earn instead of being lazy and stay comfortable at home without any pressure. When you both earn you can afford servants to do most of the house hold. I disagree that most of the time men force and make woman stay home. Even many woman wants to comfortably stay at home and not do any professional work (even with professional degree) which inhibits mental stress. Men are doing responsible work and taking lots of pressure. Men has lost their life expectancy 5-10 year less than woman. Men should not be blamed for every thing at office by boss and at home by wife and parents. That is hell lot of pressure to deal with for them.
@priyankadsa3488
@priyankadsa3488 5 ай бұрын
Who will look after kids?
@diya9408
@diya9408 5 ай бұрын
@@priyankadsa3488 These question comes when you don't want to work else you can manage. You can even consult families where both man and women are working. Everyone wants a rich husband but availability is not adequate.
@reenananwani9054
@reenananwani9054 Жыл бұрын
Very nice video . It's true that wife becomes depended on husband n beg for necessary things also. And if wife grow professionally husband feels jealous. They know if wife grows financially she will have more better life. Husband knows how to make his wife fool n emotionally black mail by putting the kids topic in middle. N if wife gets angry they give a tight hug to make her fool once again by saying that he loves her a lot.
@Sarojdixit1
@Sarojdixit1 Жыл бұрын
सर आप किसी भी विषय को बहुत ही शानदार तरीके से व्याख्या करते है👌👌
@ranjanabatra8458
@ranjanabatra8458 Жыл бұрын
Really a very nice video and biggest issue which majorly women are facing. During my astrological consultation when ever i see combination, I always advise the young ladies married or going to get married that be financial strong and freedom.
@NehaKumari-dl6ot
@NehaKumari-dl6ot Жыл бұрын
Your all words are true,my age is 30 but still i m suffering from bone disease.my husband and in-laws are against my job but before marriage they are not.But my family always support me in this matter.😊
@PBPanday5
@PBPanday5 Жыл бұрын
I discovered your channel very recently and I'm glad I did. I'm 30 years old Single Male and I stared working now after my MS in germany, my family is poor but now I'm the first generation middle class from my family and with me, my family is also a middle class. I have one 2bhk house (From my father) as a family wealth in a tier 2 city. I will marry an Indian working women here in Germany in 1-2 years so the family will remaining middle class. Can you make video for people like me who are first generation middle class in India on how to create wealth for the family.
@wandererpiper7869
@wandererpiper7869 Жыл бұрын
In which field have you done your MS. I am graduate (23M) wants to move abroad (sp. Germany) bcz no tution fees , I am from poor background. Can you tell me which field is good to do MS in. I am not interested in IT field. I have done bsc. Zoology and now giving govt. Exams for 3 years.
@PBPanday5
@PBPanday5 Жыл бұрын
@@wandererpiper7869 No, the tuition fee is not free in all the universities, only public university (govt funded) that too not all give free education. You have to go to their website, read their admission criteria and apply if you fulfill their conditions.
@mswr3351
@mswr3351 Жыл бұрын
Sir has videos for Sons.. he says - do things for your parents but in limit..
@GOD.KALKI.
@GOD.KALKI. Жыл бұрын
If men can bear the same then only they should behave the same. Marriage is a business in kalyuga. 🔱
@47beena
@47beena Жыл бұрын
I earned a lot of money But Due to love I gave away total control to my husband And at 77 I am struggling to take back Control my finance .
@simranseera9279
@simranseera9279 Жыл бұрын
Sir, at the end I have seen ladies winning and making men's life hell in old age as a result of what she suffers her entire life. A time comes when the gidad lady becomes sherni and has full control on the family at later stage and the same saga continues with the next generation in the house.
@Mahikasharma72837
@Mahikasharma72837 Жыл бұрын
Exactly.. thats what I am seeing in older women. Chun chun k badla leti he jab bache bade hojate he.. she pollutes children mind against father who had controlled her in yound age and then they mentally harass him
@endisnear306
@endisnear306 Жыл бұрын
Kyunki saas bhi kavi bahu thi
@enticer0000
@enticer0000 Жыл бұрын
Soooo tru.
@shashisetia225
@shashisetia225 Жыл бұрын
Oho , so true, 24x7x365 care taker , without medical , no casual leave .
@dr.sangitavaidya3657
@dr.sangitavaidya3657 Жыл бұрын
ऐसी housewives भी है जो खुद काम करना नहीं चाहती। पति तो चाहते हैं कि पत्नी कुछ काम करें पर पत्नी ही रोना शुरू कर देती है कि ऐसे ही बहुत काम होता है और कुछ नहीं हो सकता।
@vivagirdhar
@vivagirdhar Жыл бұрын
True...
@roshnisahu139
@roshnisahu139 Жыл бұрын
Yahi to bta rhe wo ki ladies ko aisa bna diya gya hai ki wo bahar jakar kuch krne ka soch bhi nhi pati.
@snehasaxena9192
@snehasaxena9192 2 ай бұрын
Insta pr nachana asaan h ye to ladies ko samjhana hoga
@dharmipatel1355
@dharmipatel1355 Жыл бұрын
Commendable Sir.. U are amazing for clear Mindset.
@kumarsontakki
@kumarsontakki Жыл бұрын
This was very much needed Thank you for this awesome advise sir
@HighUp11
@HighUp11 6 ай бұрын
Sir ap nahi hote to women ka kya hota.....u are like god ....giving wisdom to us
@maha_sage
@maha_sage Жыл бұрын
A career girl is not able to get married and have children in a timely manner. People avoid her. It is as if she is punished for being useful to the country
@InLovewithLife888
@InLovewithLife888 Жыл бұрын
Mere papa ek rupaya bi nai dete mummy ko.. i feel so sad for her
@trueword4971
@trueword4971 Жыл бұрын
Bolo apne papa ko . Wife hain ki nokrani. Aur tum nokrani ke bete ho ki apni mummy ki. Mere papa naa dete to main bolta
@Monika-oj2zp
@Monika-oj2zp Жыл бұрын
Mere ghr me bhi aesa hi hota tha Papa ek Paisa nhi dete the mummy ko , phir mango to ladai krte the aur de bhi denge to ahsaan jatayenge ki " mere paise h" Phir maine mummy ko hi job dilwa di bahar atleast aise self respect gira ke paise to nhi mangne pdte
@RashmiSahrawat
@RashmiSahrawat Жыл бұрын
Hello sir, although I also have my youtube channel on the nearly same subject,but your way of presentation is osum,I am sharing this video to all my contacts, this is really a very big Indian male mindset problem which should be addressed seriously, which is consuming lot of time and energy 🎉🎉🎉
@abhaysoni926
@abhaysoni926 Жыл бұрын
We young youth are also listening to sir .. so we'll not treat our future wives not like older male's.. we the new generation also don't want to live our wife like married women are living
@friendshiprocks8673
@friendshiprocks8673 Жыл бұрын
​@@abhaysoni926Hope every husband will think the same 😊
@IamRahul_007
@IamRahul_007 Жыл бұрын
Zabardastttttt Mazzaaaaa Aa Gayaaaaaa, Guru Ji 🔥💫🔥
@albyantony1853
@albyantony1853 Жыл бұрын
I don't see this relevant in the cities i have lived in. Men want working women only.
@komalkhandetod101
@komalkhandetod101 Жыл бұрын
I've been trying to say this for such a long time.. thank u sir for bringing this to light.. 🙏
@dhamtarirental6971
@dhamtarirental6971 Жыл бұрын
Tabahi Content GuruJi..Love Ur Channel From BASTAR Chhattisgarh
@criative481
@criative481 Жыл бұрын
Sir narrcistic parents pr ak vidio bna dijie ,mujhe samjh me nhi aata mai kese handle kru inhe kuki mai pyar inse bht karti pr ye devil h
@prasannakulkarni5728
@prasannakulkarni5728 Жыл бұрын
Very nice, fresh, truthful and well articulated perspective 😊 Raja Rani concept was very good 👍
@surajitndayahoocoin
@surajitndayahoocoin Жыл бұрын
agar middle class 50-60 hazar × 2 ( husband + wife) per month pocket money mein kharch kar de to fir wo middle class nahi hai
@Raythelightlife
@Raythelightlife 9 ай бұрын
If you cannot give them work in the house
@kanchanjain5726
@kanchanjain5726 Жыл бұрын
I m 68 n u hv used d word slave ..yes though i was a merit student in school n college bt was nt able to do a job bcoz my husband had shift duty n no one was there to tc of my kids n whole life i was a slave ...so i raised my daughters independent n my son in such a way that he respects his wife ..she is financially free n respects women ..ur videos r very close to heart u gv clarity to thoughts
@tusharaggarwal4707
@tusharaggarwal4707 Жыл бұрын
Crystal clear video, thanks Guruji.
@tanushreemishra7007
@tanushreemishra7007 Жыл бұрын
Wonderful clarity
@dollysadana842
@dollysadana842 Жыл бұрын
You speak so good and actual facts. Love it ❤
@aartik2374
@aartik2374 Жыл бұрын
Eye opener! Thank you for sharing!
@akhandbha
@akhandbha Жыл бұрын
On the contrary I think the earning man is like a financial slave. He has to keep working, slogging, paying for every unnecessary expenses etc.
@Yashkum07
@Yashkum07 Жыл бұрын
sir, first time I love your thought its a bitter truth of our society, most of lady ruined their life of this types of emotional torture and getting deep depression i am also one of them, hats of you
@manjubala7732
@manjubala7732 Жыл бұрын
Sahi main, ekdum sacchai hai Kya baat hai
@Sukhwinderkaur-up2ph
@Sukhwinderkaur-up2ph Жыл бұрын
Superb.........esko sunke society na sudhre...... phir toh bhagwan hi samjhaye 😂
@ShimlaLife13
@ShimlaLife13 Жыл бұрын
Sir also make video on woes of working women..... They become sandwich between job and house managent...
@trueword4971
@trueword4971 Жыл бұрын
Why do they marry? Going inside the hell in the name of marriage.
@asecdsi4009
@asecdsi4009 Жыл бұрын
Sir gave a hint to keep a maid and delegate all house work to them.. don't do it self. He said it's better to teach others kids and take money then to teach own kids and send kids to others. Net income is 0 but it's added in the economy
@ShimlaLife13
@ShimlaLife13 Жыл бұрын
You have to manage maids also.... Maids also take leaves..
@nirupamasharma4389
@nirupamasharma4389 Жыл бұрын
I know its tough. I do it as well, so I know! But working women of this generation are relieved a little than working women of previous generation. My mother used to wake up at 4 am to do all housework before leaving for work. She even did jhadu poncha bartan as my patriarchal father didn't like maids. But things have gotten better for us that atleast we have maids, and we can give them some more work apart from basic cleaning. We also have modern day machines. Hopefully, situation of next generation women will be better when we will be having more machines to work in place of maids, and husband will be more understanding.
@neerajmaurya8415
@neerajmaurya8415 Жыл бұрын
Sir main to kamati hu .. primary school teacher hu.. but aaj tak laga hi nahi ... Paise mujhe mere pati hi dete hain ... Mujhe independent feel hi nahi hota hai Aur apni feelings aur ikshao ki respect karnewala bhi koi nahi hai ... Apna pati bhi nahi...😢
@soniavadhera546
@soniavadhera546 Жыл бұрын
Kya bolu?? U nailed it 👍
@ArvindMalikofApexCourt
@ArvindMalikofApexCourt Жыл бұрын
Always watch you at 1.5 speed goes direct in mind 😂
@gurdeepgss
@gurdeepgss Жыл бұрын
i watch others at 1.75 or even 2x, but guruji's content always at 1 or max 1.25x.
@shubhagupta4303
@shubhagupta4303 Жыл бұрын
Sir wonderful video I have seen these things happening with my mother. Waiting for next video part-2
@akashbharti9060
@akashbharti9060 Жыл бұрын
then you have to take some action
@aishwaryabohra4366
@aishwaryabohra4366 Жыл бұрын
So true sir.. All the points u said everything is right..
@SHARMA_FAN
@SHARMA_FAN Жыл бұрын
Wow gurujii , apki vali bhi dekh rhi hai ye video
@Sudeshna-gg1vc
@Sudeshna-gg1vc Жыл бұрын
Very good content Guruji❤❤
@sandhyakameshwar04
@sandhyakameshwar04 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful video Sir ji 😊 aap ne bilkul sahi kaha hai !!!🙏🏻😊😁
@plahiri5719
@plahiri5719 Жыл бұрын
Aap bilkul sahi baat kaha rahe hai
@bhoopinderkaur6171
@bhoopinderkaur6171 Жыл бұрын
God bless you long life,we need many more people like you,who will discuss the about the hidden termites in Indian society,
@jyotirrr7798
@jyotirrr7798 Жыл бұрын
Must watch chha gaye guruji 😊
@sankalitamitra2440
@sankalitamitra2440 Жыл бұрын
U r right sir... Thanks for the video 🎉🎉
@ayushisrivastava5278
@ayushisrivastava5278 Жыл бұрын
Very Well Explained!!
@shobhitanand945
@shobhitanand945 Жыл бұрын
Very informative vedio Sir, 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻
@phaniraj5142
@phaniraj5142 Жыл бұрын
Previously family as a team used to have one capitan, one vice captain and team players...now a family has two captains..
@Mahikasharma72837
@Mahikasharma72837 Жыл бұрын
Anyone can be happy as vice captain if they are treated as Vice captain and not a slave. Now the same vice captain has levelled up and became captain... coz being a slave under name of vice captain was really depressing.
@phaniraj5142
@phaniraj5142 Жыл бұрын
@@Mahikasharma72837 strongly agree with your comments...in this Capitan, vice captain issues team is found missing...which was not the case before...but I also agree that chane is only a constant thing..
@Mahikasharma72837
@Mahikasharma72837 Жыл бұрын
@@phaniraj5142 earlier both roles were defined one will provide..other will nurture...bt dont knw why provider of the family started to feel superior and dominated the other half i.e nurturer who is doing equally important work designed by nature. So now nurturers understood that they are not valued if they just handled the housework..n world only recognises and praises provider i.e bread earner.. so they jst leveled up and now there are women who are capable enough to be a bread earner and bread maker both. 😇 If provider played their roles perfectly without disrespecting the the better half this might not have happened. Even I dont understand why this balance was disturbed but this is the reality now 😕
@phaniraj5142
@phaniraj5142 Жыл бұрын
@@Mahikasharma72837 very true. I agree
@Mahikasharma72837
@Mahikasharma72837 Жыл бұрын
@@khushboop6173 very true..
@TheGitasri
@TheGitasri Жыл бұрын
This is exactly true! This is also the reason for females to be independant.
@meenakshizone1392
@meenakshizone1392 Жыл бұрын
Thanku sir ji.
@pratyushbehera1532
@pratyushbehera1532 Жыл бұрын
Excellent content
@monika.chauhan_7
@monika.chauhan_7 Жыл бұрын
Sir i started crying after listening word financial slave Kitna sahi kehte hain sir aap. Mai apni MIL se bhi yehi kehti hun ki amma property papa ne apke naam ki hai lekin haq aapke bete ka hi rahega aap apne liye usme se kuch use nhi kar sakti.
@abhinavsingh8390
@abhinavsingh8390 Жыл бұрын
Bahut badhiya guru jii
@DalitShiv_Nagwanshi
@DalitShiv_Nagwanshi Жыл бұрын
My wife wants to quit job & nurture Childrens at home. She wants me to work, She doesn NOT desire Corporate growth
@farzanayasmean3586
@farzanayasmean3586 Жыл бұрын
About 90 percent of population he is talking .
@drarunmaurya3127
@drarunmaurya3127 Жыл бұрын
Producing and nurturing kinds is like full time career. Her decision is right. Support her with your life. She is real woman and deserve a real man.
@nirupamasharma4389
@nirupamasharma4389 Жыл бұрын
Support her in nurturing children. Make a plan how children nurturing can be managed with both of you working. Its difficult, but possible. Many people do that.
@sujatajha2153
@sujatajha2153 Жыл бұрын
Yes. All middle class wives must learn to earn ....
@abhaysoni926
@abhaysoni926 Жыл бұрын
Middle class families are toxic really .. maximum case's me toh saas hi usko job tk nhi krwana chhati.. it's true maximum families just need free slave in the form of women
@trav11ify
@trav11ify Жыл бұрын
I do give my wife 25k per month as her own expense, she also does a job...as a man I feel it's her right
@poulomimondal6145
@poulomimondal6145 Жыл бұрын
wow, you are just like my father
@Homemanagement
@Homemanagement Жыл бұрын
God bless you,your home is heaven...keep it up
@arushandsiya
@arushandsiya Жыл бұрын
Kitna kama lete ho Bhai?
@coolsatpalsingh2
@coolsatpalsingh2 Жыл бұрын
so she has a job and gets 25k from you?
@romirhyme
@romirhyme Жыл бұрын
Pisa bccha ka property ma invest kro
@moumitadas454
@moumitadas454 Жыл бұрын
Very useful video sir👏👏👏
@choudhary4249
@choudhary4249 Жыл бұрын
Wow, mereko nhi pata tha ki aisa hota hai, thoda bht pata tha but itna nhi, and aab jb bankio ko is nazar se dekhta hun to pata chlta hai ki aap shi keh rhe ho, I will never do these things.
@binduverma6887
@binduverma6887 11 ай бұрын
Greetings to you Sir ! Your all suggestions are so true. Sir mainly we all are selfish,from v. Childhood ,in the class,in the family, in politics and due to this arguments arise and clashes grow. We need to be professional at our home also ,with all family members only then relations remain forever.
@shraddharajput1120
@shraddharajput1120 4 ай бұрын
I am binge watching your videos as I am on leave for few days , I must say , your content is well researched , unbiased , thank you for your insight sir. This topic you have addressed is very important and nobody addresses it . Sir, you touched many topics superficially, would like to hear more of it . Kindly share your wisdom. Your work is a social work , our society needs it 🥰🥰🙌
@rumi1111
@rumi1111 Жыл бұрын
Yes sir affaire wala vedio banaye.. Please🙏
@BENDRE49
@BENDRE49 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for your advice
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