How Much Masturbation is Too Much?

[@twilightdragon87]

This is actually super helpful and well timed; I've been exploring the idea of being more purposeful with masturbation and cutting down on porn, because it has become less special and I don't feel connected to my body at all anymore. So this is good advice to try and be mindful of as I move forward. Keep doing what you do, Kae

[@ajapeusn7705]

❤❤❤❤

[@sethg2797]

I like that you're one of the few gay men on KZbin that's speaking on spiritual topics that the gay community could definitely use more of a discourse on. I was just wondering though, if you could do a video that touches on soul ties, low vibrational energies via sex and sexuality, given how relevant hook-up culture is among gays. Thanks for creating this content! Definitely what our community need these times!

[@swanubal508]

this chick is gay?

[@marccheban194]

Kae: I don't recall ever seeing you so animated and gesticulative in a video before! Also, your traps are showing growth...Congratulations!

[@Azarath_Metrion_Zinthos]

Gesticulative wow 😳 learning new vocabularies every day now.

[@Liv-jc3jx]

me who group up Catholic. i found this video to be very helpful. thanks ❤

[@briantench7167]

Thanks for being sex positive and spiritual. I am too.

[@klauspreiss]

Thank you so much for enlightening me and helping me to realize that there ought to be a relationship between myself and masturbation. That will definitely put a new spin on my auto-intimacy. Blessings to you and your husband!

[@NickSmith-ll3si]

Worrying about doing it too much is more of a problem than doing it too much IMO

[@TheTollisong]

Thank You. I watch you almost frequently and always enjoy your talks. So good to see a fellow traveler . Gary

[@BroadwayGuy]

KZbin recommended this video for me. I was going to click off, until I noticed you are well-spoken and intelligent; as well as easy on the eyes.

[@austincaufield6425]

love the straight forwardness. No pun intended

[@paulntpa1122]

Kaelan, I need to tell you, I am a 70 y/o gay man, and wake up every morning with an erection. Yep, why waste it. Life is good. Listening to you, and eyeing your shoulders got me aroused, so I don't need to say anymore. Love your channel. Keep "IT UP" with your spontaneous good work. I'm hooked.

[@wildemind1]

You are really creepy, man.

[@stumack9755]

🤑

[@arabian8873]

@@wildemind1 is it really that creepy when the guy is shirtless and talking about sex and masturbating? I guess it's only creepy cuz the guy is 70 and if it was a younger guy, it would not be creepy? I'm 27 btw.

[@jayleon2080]

Does masturbation count as Cardio Exercise? I mean....if you get your heart rate up for a good amount of time.....is it Cardio Exercise? Then, I can multi-task....doing Cardio and Masturbation at the SAME TIME ! Wow ! Wow !

[@Dan-gn3fo]

How comes KZbin didn't recommend me this channel before? I just subscribed 👍🏽❤

[@_JOCKXD]

Me too!

[@alexenchanter92]

I’m so thankful to have come across this channel, you, and your work! It all resonates with me deeply. The energies of arousal seep through the screen as you talk. ❤

[@andrzejmaranda3699]

Ecstatic Self: VERY INTERESTING & IMPORTANT video!

[@silihjedomma3112]

I just came across your KZbin. I usually masturbated because I’m sexually deprived. But later I realized that, when I masturbate, I get work done, I am unstoppable. It’s like creating energy needed to do these tasks. It could mental tasks or even physical ones. I just learnt that from this video.

[@EcstaticSelf]

Great, man. Me too :)

[@jestoniaveno1581]

.. hehehehe, Then Let me Help you, Just add some fun and reduce the effort 😅😅😅 Just kidding Sir ❤️❤️

[@ToddDouglasFox]

Sexuality and spirituality are like DNA and RNA, they cannot be separated. I wrote a thesis on this nearly 40 years ago. Aside: The way you are sitting is going to haunt you later in life. You are hyperextending when crossed legged. Sure your muscles can make up for it now but just wait…or just stop sitting in a crossed legged position. Strength to you in all you do young man. ~Todd

[@walkerricon5069]

I completely agree! High vibration joy!

[@vokun864]

I've been waiting for a video like this forever. One I relate too. Too many videos I would watch on how to quit porn or be more mindful with masturbation and those videos don't really feel inclusive and it always upset me. They'd always be like "fellas, do you want more ladies or to please your wife/girlfriend and be alpha and blah blah" and being gay I just don't relate to that. The fact that he started with saying "gay, straight, etc are invited to listen" it legit filled me with joy. Thanks for this video. Today is my first full week without pornography (gay porn specifically but that's besides the point). My goal is to never go back because it was taking a toll on me but if I do then I plan on watching more slow and sensual ones instead of hardcore/over the top ones

[@stevechatha4533]

Algorithm sent you my way. And I'm thankful 🖒 Men should take matters literally into their own hands when dealing with their sex drive 👌

[@teryckcoles]

The algorithm did the same to me and I’ve NEVER seen a video of his before today. Now, here I am.

[@stevechatha4533]

@@teryckcoles We were destined to find him 🖒 And it was high time I heard a KZbinr speak so positively about masturbation 👌

[@wallacesmallwood1465]

I agree , self love is Beautiful !! But , I don’t think there is such a thing as too much !! ❤

[@Tony-qq6ou]

Actually just follow ur mind! If u wanna do it then do it, personally I feel more relaxed after doing it so that’s my mindset

[@taronjeroneharris1313]

I'm with you on that . It's definitely relaxing.

[@hopeintruth5119]

yeah but as long as it doesn't harm anyone or you. just indulge in it

[@ForgeMasterXXL]

Have to admit if I don’t have sex or masturbate I tend to find I don’t sleep as well.

[@carlitoshoway]

This is awesome!! 😃 thank you🙏 super cute. Success is doing what makes you happy not how much money you got in the bank. Learning and loving yourself is wonderful💫😁

[@BERTONI704]

Totally agreeing with you ! You respect your body and give to your mind what it needs while masturbating when you want, and number of times is not important, as long as you feel alright with yourself, your own self. The others have nothing to do with that, no religion, noboby and only you know. It all belongs to you the way you choose to regenerate your energies and sexual energy is one of them. Thank you very much Ecstatic Self. 👍👍💖💖🌈🌈💕💕💋💋💋💋

[@ThePrime206]

Absolutely Robert I couldn't agree more with you I love masturbating I love masturbating other men as well I love grinding our manhoods together either through sexy underwear Speedos nylon running shorts I also enjoy humping nylon sleeping bags nylon ski jackets leather jackets until my manhood explodes with excitement

[@juanfranciscocabreragalvan6193]

Sos lo más

[@Nico-yi2bi]

I agree that having (or developing) a healthy masturbatory world is good for you. I myself prefer a monogamous relationship with my husband, with more outlandish fantasies remaining in a dreamed-up pocket of my imagination... For whatever reason, that works for me. I enjoy your ejaculating ... uh, I mean educating videos. 🙂 thankyou.

[@johngolden891]

At age 13, I discovered masturbation on my own, one week before my Dad and I had the talk on the birds & bees. The climax was a pleasure unlike anything I had previously experienced. My reaction was that I had made one of the world's greatest discoveries and was likely to win a Nobel Prize (whether this be in medicine, chemistry, physics, or peace was not fully clear!). How humiliating when I shared this great discovery with my closest friend who assured me that masturbation was hardly original. And, I was behind the curve -- he had discovered this self-pleasure at age 12.

[@zanealberto7741]

Gosh, this is like my story and a couple friends also, we weren’t quite sure what we had stumbled on!!! Like, was something really meant to come out,,, we figured it out pretty soon… got going and never stopped!! haha👍

[@johngolden891]

@@zanealberto7741 My dreams were filled with handsome men then and now.

[@joellebrown539]

Boy aint nobody listening to what he sayin im just here for the visuals hes a masterpiece god took time on you sir

[@EcstaticSelf]

You made me smile and laugh. Thanks for brightening my day

[@joellebrown539]

@@EcstaticSelf You're welcome. When you said 'also with other people' do you mean you and your husband are in an open relationship?

[@mariodezert]

Look at me instead! I am better looking lol

[@joellebrown539]

@@mariodezert ur hawt too damn

[@mariodezert]

@@joellebrown539 oh you’re so sweet, sugar!

[@Booger0303]

I have no idea how this video appeared on my feed.... Like I literally watch Smosh everyday... However.... Thank you. And I subscribed.

[@DmitryShuldeshov_SchemaTherapy]

Thank you for such important topics discussed so openly. I think, we, as humankind, just starting discovering ourselves. A lot of people think that they know everything about sex. But actually, we are just in the very begining of this path of knowing our inner world. We think that knowing averything about our DNA is the most important thing. Yes, it is important. But, I gues, the most important is to develope our world in a mindfull and couciencies way. And there are many things yet to do for this sake.

[@gabeescoto6590]

Hey dude thanks for your videos. It would be great and beneficial for guys to watch your videos. Many guys are really curious but afraid and paranoid if someone finds out. Be yourself and enjoy your body.

[@RM.....]

I’ve been doing it Atleast once a day and for years twice a day everyday for prob 20+ yrs now. No plans on ever stopping unless I’m physically unable to.

[@lamarrharding4776]

You can't maturation to much, if you are wearing sores just use more lube.

[@lamarrharding4776]

Damnd auto correct!,,,

[@geedee8049]

I just release at least 3x in a week which is so relaxing and i feel energetic the nextday!

[@martinluna5080]

Absolutely agree with you

[@Haggiedc2]

You are a gorgeous man… so I had to subscribe for the eye candy… great channel by the way… enjoy it

[@ytbr3383]

Funny and interesting video, you are great at explaining things(important topic, self love, sexuality etc is important and how it affects us all in different ways) with a spiritual touch yet not going too far.

[@brockbeckham5020]

It doesn't matter what you achieve in life what matters is what you overcome

[@londoncampbell889]

He is so handsome 😊

[@charlessinger7740]

Thanks for the information because growing up Catholic I've always been told watching porn is a sin, but I'm not so sure about that, so I need more info on that, thanks.

[@nooniemart1]

Relate to this

[@makemyday2385]

It is a sin. Your body was made in God's likeness and image. Your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit and was infused with God's grace at the time of baptism. It's called custody of the eyes for a reason because why would you destroy something that is beautiful by introducing pornography that treats human beings as commodities. You were made for more. You have a heart, mind, and spiritual soul. Why tarnish God's image with smut. Repent my friend. Pornography is a huge problem. This guy does not know what he is talking about and is a total narcissist. Taking advise from him is like believing in the tooth ferry.

[@dawson2324]

The Loony Tunes analogy is really cute! 💛

[@jayleon2080]

Wow ! Wow ! I guess I gotta get to it more ! 16 times in a day ??? Holy sugar !

[@keithblevins5093]

You always have so much heart in your vision to help others. I would really like to meet you, and just talk. I'm sure it would be awesome!

[@Luvozio]

Lmao u answered life’s question perfectly I’d say! Good job. Subscribed 😊

[@JackJones-ke8mo]

Oh yeah dude 😎 great post 📯. You are so inspiring, motivating and clear. Thanks 👍

[@jaswindricedric9459]

It's a pleasure I stumble on your video... It really makes me more confident and assured of myself.. Looking forward for more videos from you :) Thank you :)

[@ryv1049]

So nice to discover you 💚🙏

[@albertkundrat1734]

So coolly presented!

[@BrunoPessolani]

I think that masturbation is normal, but not 10 - 15 times per day. If somebody does that, it means that he/she is nervous. If the person is in a relationship, it means that he/she isnt happy

[@danieltran9634]

If someone really does it 10-15 times a day, he really needs help. 🙃

[@ebazileyes1475]

Agreed

[@marrkzulunuz]

Porn is Big Business: for Apple, Samsung, Verizon, ATT, Comcast, T-Mobile, ConEdison, Unilever....et al. They get paid FIRST.

[@teryckcoles]

The self-play during cooking seems a bit much and unsanitary. Otherwise, I’m onboard-except while walking the dog. I abhor walking my dog, but it’s a necessity. However, occasionally, I do pass a cute guy from time to time. 😉

[@widunbonbung8694]

Sending lots of love from northeast India Nagaland 🥰❤️😍

[@jackrippper3389]

i really enjoyed this video and you as a person. you're the kind of role model i want to become

[@dannysimion]

Wow, that’s a very great video! A new perspective of masturbation I don’t mind exploring.

[@EcstaticSelf]

Glad you enjoyed!

[@shashwatchowdhury7163]

In our culture, it's considered as sin. Our sacred texts say, that energy should only be used after marriage. I feel urges but I try to abstain from this activity.

[@keshankoomia8082]

Much thanks for this vlog, it is very informative & educating.

[@jonathantormos5650]

You are so handsome!❤❤❤

[@amirpeters2745]

You just had another subscriber in me. I love your thoughts about things!

[@benrighter5796]

This was really dope!!!

[@danielgm447]

When I was very excited I had only 4-5 time in a day maybe it's better 😉☺☺😍❤

[@dano3952]

Ah...so touching.

[@okayogi4665]

How should I talk to you..! I love your videos..!

[@michaelrash2303]

Exceptionally gorgeous

[@noelohashirodriguez]

Masturbation is the desire to share physical contact with the other party or parties 😄. So masturbation is not a selfish habit, specially if you share it with someone else 🙄😊😁

[@kalashnikovkhodorkovsky8153]

Oi Kae, you're my kind of guy!

[@richardherdman2121]

My ejaculation limit using your vids is 3, maybe 4 times daily. Actually it's probably closer to 6 or 7. If I'm being totally honest, it's more like 10. Or MAYBE 12 on a slow workday....but certainly never more than a baker's dozen!

[@andresrubio2438]

Wow I thought I ejaculated a lot I mean yummy 😋 lol when I have the chance I can go around 7 or 8. It would be cool to ejaculate with someone 12 times 😋

[@stevechatha4533]

Does that not leave you fatigued???

[@brockbeckham5020]

Where does one find other men to talk so frankly and openly about such things?

[@dududski]

glad to know im not the only one. for what its worth, thats how i stay commited and faithful 😅 funny and stupid but it works 😅

[@maxtheknife]

😍😍😍😍 and also loving the content on you channel. 😁

[@kevinwilliams-ub7uy]

Kae correct try and engage in your own body rather then turning to porn all the time. The imagination is powerful.

[@tr7b410]

Any attention payed to the senses will detract from your ability to consolidate you ojais/prana for meditation.

[@LucasFerreira-ep3pl]

Wonderful video!

[@andrewrussell6100]

Again thank you so so much 💞

[@ВалерийЗахаров-я7т]

Келан вы супер,молодец,спасибо,здоровья тебе,удачи,любви🥰🤝🙏🦋🫶👏👏👏❤️‍🔥🌶

[@ernestlam5632]

Well said

[@Delaquintiny]

Very nice, i’m French ❤❤

[@SuperRobbie1976]

rotating inventory. LOL

[@matthewjohnson7978]

Thanks for the information. I thoroughly enjoyed it. Looking forward to others. My "issue" with masturbation is not the number of times. I'm usually once a week, two sometimes. I "feel" that bad things happen to me after I masturbate. I know that sounds crazy, but please hear me out. This is something that has been going on for as long as I remember. At first, I thought it was guilt, but now view it as "punishment" for doing it. This is backed up by my own scientific research of me. It seems that bad things happen afterwards. Most of the events, normally, cost me money that I was not expecting to spend. Every time, not just one or two times. I used to sometimes do it two times on the same day. That would cause a major bad thing to happen. Such as one time we had a power outage the block I was living on. I couldn't find my flashlight, so I walked across the street to a store that had power. I came back to my apartment building. Many people, mostly Caucasian, were outside with their flashlights. However, when the police arrived, they only approached me. They asked for my ID, which thankfully had verified my address. Unfortunately for me having such a common name they later knocked on my door stating that they had an arrest warrant for me. It was resolved the next day, but it was not fun that night. I have many other times. Most of the time, before I masturbate, I have to decide if I'm okay with the things that will follow. I have even had times where I wasn't even thinking of doing it that I got the desire and the next day I would get some bad news. Again, mostly involving money. One time I broke my foot the next day after masturbating. (My apologies for the long post.)

[@muasharatimedia8498]

what information dumbo?

[@markpatrick5246]

Is this Catholic guilt type of punishment?

[@jasreyes8797]

for me.. as I believer.. this is not cause from masturbating..bad things happen becoz.. we live now in a sinful world.. the troubles are made by Satan and also that's the consequences from eden... some people are very good.. but they experienced a lot of pains and suffering... normally people have wet dreams or they cum while they sleep.. and it's normal.. for me just trust God more and be positive always..whether you experience good or bad.. in everything we should be thankful.. for our life belongs to God...

[@matthewjohnson7978]

@@markpatrick5246 I don't think its guilt. I don't feel that I'm doing anything wrong, so I don't have anything to be guilty about. However, bad things happen right after. It's not something that just started. It has been going on for as long as I can remember. After last week's "care", I got a three-inch mail stuck in my tire. I spent money trying to repair it myself to end up having to pay someone to repair it. None of my techniques were "allowed" to work.

[@shanebastion8697]

Hi Matthew I totally agree with you in terms of a bad experience after masturbation. I have experienced it myself. I finally found out that you have to be in a very good vibrational state when you masturbate or even when you have sex. For instance while masturbating and having guilt at the back end or imagining that something bad would happen can lower your vibration. That's one part of it. Also the type of beliefs one has when they masturbate can impact their vibrational state. The negative beliefs and perception of sexuality has a great impact in our reality. If it is low you certainly know what would happen. Also I have heard that its good not to waste your seed while having a negative emotion but rather use that time to create what you want in your life when you reach the peak of ecstasy. He he he there's so much to discuss but I just wanted to share something hope its helps.

[@chipwilliamson9742]

Great content! I love self pleasure. I'm 58 and my libido just keeps getting higher. If ever in Dallas let's compare techniques 😘

[@rdennis2253]

Hi @ 69 I love ❤ doing it

[@carlorizzo827]

Thank you, so soul positive💙 The only sensible reservation, not that i abide by: The prostate, i heard, takes 3 days to replenish the supply of semen, once it's depleted. Anyone operating a turkey baster knows we get a more powerful squirt with less effort when the bulb is full. A part filled bulb requires more forceful squeeze. The ejaculating muscles, like any muscle, are susceptible to repetitive over use. That's why weight lifters take rest days, or opera singers.

[@philstall6262]

MAKEING SHUR IT'S WORKING 💪

[@davesmith5634]

😂

[@philstall6262]

@@davesmith5634 why lie about it l say it like it is

[@richardzelmer8117]

I think 2 or is safe

[@officialdavsos]

I couldn't even listen to what you said the first two times.. you are gorgeous. So distracted.That is all

[@MrTommieadamsphoto]

Ive been following you for a bit now. I appreciate your discussion. Would love to talk to you a bit if that is a thing. Where do I DM you?

[@EcstaticSelf]

Shoot me an email or dm me via Twitter or insta ;)

[@josepinard30]

Love what you shared!

[@robertunderwood3393]

Too much is never even close to enough

[@ralphkkellogg]

You are so great.

[@treetop2842]

Masturbation is practice for sex.

[@gary5477]

Dr Ruth said 'in her distinctive voice', you can masturbate as much as you want, as long as you don't hurt yourself. ps- Kae I release more dopamine when watching your vids. hahaha

[@wildemind1]

I tried an ancient technique of "not spilling the seed" for a whole year and really recommend it. It gives you a keen, clear mind, kundalini activity which opens the heart, and makes you magnetic to others.

[@greensparrow3047]

Thank you so much!

[@robertgoodman4217]

Does masturbation cause less interest in others? Can too much cause too much of a loss in minerals needed, or with a healthy diet are the minerals replaced?

[@daveydorman7984]

Medically speaking too much masterbation can dehydrate you . And dehydration can cause many bad side effects .

[@NickSmith-ll3si]

drink more 🤷‍♂

[@protegemoi9819]

Swallow it

[@gsogso3444]

💫🤣

[@ebazileyes1475]

I used to have a lot of sex in my past and in relationships or flings. I also used to watch a lot of porn in my free time and masturbate too. Now, since I've been on a spiritual journey during last 5 years. A lot has changed in my life. I've been single now for 7 years. So, off and on it's been masturbation. Now, I don't watch any porn. I don't even think of it or have a desire to watch, and masturbation has decreased. But I agree with you about connecting to one's body. You're good looking with good body tone btw

[@rextrek]

1st....well for me .....it ebbs and flows.......as I ve gotten older - sex isn't on my mind constantly

[@jackwalter5970]

Unless you do it in front of others, it's nobody's business but yours. No need to ask others for advice.

[@jughound7923]

When you Drown in it !

[@sanjaymenon2974]

Too good. Tysm

[@EcstaticSelf]

You’re welcome

[@khanna394]

You the best

[@alexanderemkow6199]

.......the KZbin algorhytm.....amazing

[@austincaufield6425]

subscribed

[@sportyg725]

I saw that an 18 year old guy in Brazil was spanking it pretty intensely and was in the middle of #42 and died. So I guess 41X is the limit."

[@danielng7795]

That would still depend on your body. Each people are different. Some may not even last 20 times. haha. so approach with caution

[@brockbeckham5020]

sportyg725: I am too old to find the strength to approach 40X a day. "Iwish!