How people get caught CHEATING in relationships. What happens AFTER? Find out.

I’m Shridhar, a Counselling Psychologist. We often hear that cheating in a relationship is a terrible thing. Yet, we see innumerable examples of people who are cheating or have cheated on their partners in the past. Why do people continue to do so? And what is the actual impact on someone who has been cheated on by their partner? Is it even worth it? Find answers to these crucial questions in this video, where I also discuss real-life examples of celebrities and responses to a survey we conducted with people on the same topic.
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0:00 Intro
1:26 Some statistics on cheating
1:44 Reasons why people cheat
3:03 A hypothetical question
3:25 How do cheaters get caught?
4:07 First way
4:39 Second way
4:56 Third way
5:51 What happens after getting caught?
6:12 Impact on relationship
7:58 What is worrisome about all this?
8:16 Some more statistics
8:42 Impact on the ‘cheater’
9:00 Impact on children
9:09 Impact on partner
10:38 Is cheating worth it?
11:07 The core idea
11:23 Conclusion
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[@sohinisaha597]

It usually happens when the other partner is way too giving and cares less about himself or herself. You are taken for granted for the security you have given in the relationship. That security is undervalued because it is readily available and they the person needs some excitement. Undervaluing is the basis of irresponsible behaviour.

[@unicorn615]

Then what to do ,, whats the solution,, you said very well

[@sohinisaha597]

@@unicorn615 prioritize yourself too. Give yourself the time and care and let not anyone take your world away from you. Only when both are putting efforts to be on the same page can one be vulnerable to the other person. If he goes away instead of working on ut when he stops getting the care and attention he used to get, then he is not worth your whole life.

[@chitra19]

Omg,,,,i am so scared to get married

[@sonasandhuji]

Yeah! It gives suicidal feeling ...at the end u don't trust anyone ...

[@codedusting]

Only one reason: They are trying to find something which they think they will find in either a person or object.

[@Bajisyed1]

Even the one who got the desirable partner in their life also cheating or being cheated on.. what's happening.. it makes me so confusing🤔🤔.. whom should I choose..the one I desire or the one who loves and cares me so much (catch is she is not the desirable one to me in my point of view😔😔).. sometimes I think i should choose her because she loves me so much🤔🤔 but when i see in her eyes,I don't get the same feeling.. what should I do...plz help me 😔😔

[@orangemocha3693]

Why Cheat just leave the person but the cheater doesn't want to lose everything the cheater will always loose in the end.

[@bellakim9404]

"... your partner will be angry with you, criticize you and you will have to take it." That statement is probably the reason why most people cheat in the first place. The constant criticizing, condemning & complaining in a relationship is a buzz kill. If someone is happy with who they are and is full of self love, they won't need to control others and sabotage the relationship.

[@jytr123]

Superb!! But at same time the answers to what should be done if a person is not getting from their partner or marriage needs another video

[@meghananemlekar8411]

Yaa...want a video on this

[@MentalManasulo]

If one doesn't get what he/she wants from a relationship it's upto the person to decide whether they want to be there or leave for their own good. We cannot change anyone unless the other person is willing to. It's for us to decide what we want, either to compromising or move on for good

[@garimasharma1141]

You must focus on Indian couple's only thenthis video can be helpful foreign culture us way much advance from us

[@De-tw7by]

Research has found women cheat more than men and the main reason is ignoring her emotional and physical need. So both partners have responsibility. Relationship always need constant natureing, love and care....

[@garimasharma1141]

Specially on Indian middle or uppermiddle class families

[@siddtharthabanerjee1868]

Is it possible to get job (with only MA in Psychology) (in Government Colleges) after clearing UGC NET in Psychology?

[@vishalgp7892]

Sir my girlfriend is not giving any attention & she always pretend she is busy always says any reason she goes to office at 12 pm & she says that she cant talk in mrng hours bcoz her sister is beside she says she cant talk in the cab (some time she says she is working in the cab also) after getting login she cant use phone till night 10 while in returning even cant talk on phone even phone is allowed in her office after getting returned from office she says she is tired so she cant talk at night after forcing alot she started chatting for few minutes again she get vanished by saying she is sleepy in the weekend she has plans or her sister is beside her so she cant come with me sunday she wants to spend time with her father literally we have 0 conversation from 3 months is she interested or she find find someone better than me if i ask for screenshots she starts fighting with me that why don't you believe everyone are my friends when ever she talks always says her problems but never liaten to me never understands me what to do sir make a short video on it

[@sweethome1277]

It's better for you to end this relationship, and find some other. I think she is taking you for granted.

[@user-iv3rv8dj9u]

Smart duck 35

[@messagecyberinvestigatorso6015]

👆👆Cheating cannot happen without 4 characters 1. selfishness 2. lack of connections 3. lack of empathy. 4. Not caring about the hurt you feel. Then I realized my fiance was a victim of all after having access to his device.

[@Nikita-rm1ru]

Sir guy I was seeing said he loves me but has no fear of losing me. Really ? What does this mean

[@sohinisaha597]

It can mean the relationship is secure in a positive way. He trusts you enough and finds comfort in you. You both know each other well and don't have major unresolved conflicts. But if this is not the case he might be careless and over confident in saying that. If you haven't figured it out yourself and are questioning then you can become cautious and be more vigilant of red flags.

[@nibeditasharma2665]

That means he does not love you enough..he likes you and may be enjoy your company but he doesnot love u...protect yourself from upcoming heart break

[@Nikita-rm1ru]

@@nibeditasharma2665 I left him I could sense he is not loving me he just loved my voice

[@prajwalkalangutkar1635]

@@nibeditasharma2665 I don't know how woman can trust such type of man in first place. I know many people who have extra merital affair or also involved in Red light area. Everyone knows it but their wife 👰 doesn't have a clue. I don't know what they are doing 😱😱😱😱 You called it relationship or a blind love.

[@messagecyberinvestigatorso6015]

👆👆Cheating cannot happen without 4 characters 1. selfishness 2. lack of connections 3. lack of empathy. 4. Not caring about the hurt you feel. Then I realized my fiance was a victim of all after having access to his device.

[@snapp3256]

Bill , Arnold is disgustig