How Perfectionism is DESTROYING your life!

[@AnitaBokepalli]

Perfectionism was totally killing my vibe! Let me know your thoughts ❣️

[@mansijakar51]

Mine too ...but you expressed it in so simple way that if it happens again to me I will definitely try to overcome ✌️ thanks to you ♥️

[@richamahto8923]

Perfectionism is myth👌🏻

[@harshabaskar3664]

Relatable 🥺😟😟 Eye opening video ... Thank you 😁

[@Funday10012]

Mine too mam... After watching the perfect daily routine and other sort of perfect life video... Once I got frustrated about thinking of mine life... But lately I realized.. Perfection is myth... Improvement is always cherished

[@M.saipavan]

U know most of the parents say , if u r procrastinating just think of ur future exam .....this thinking , I was carrying from childhood but when I started engineering ...then lockdown came but there was only classes but no exams , then after 1st wave of lockdown collage took straightly both sem exams (which was incomplete due to exams )....but due to procrastination , less will power and mind control to get rid of pleasures and going to shop if dad say me to complete any tasks ( he is an business man ) , I was so much indulged and unconscious all day in those tasks that dad gave me , he thought thought I was not intrested in studies.... But when my exam came I was totally in anxiety and I was thinking that what's the use of studying right now too much ...let's see next time The sense of perfection came in between the thoughts of my anxiety The fear of failure and accepting before that I will not perform good in exams without trying I got too much anxious because of my distractions and all of that And the theory of the destruction was also the p*** addiction, My thought was not at all organized and clear when I was alone this brought me in lack of self control and less will power extra

[@paporisarmah4839]

I've been struggling with perfectionism procrastination for as long as I can remember. I have realised a few years back that I am afraid of success (I've always wondered why though; i still do). I've never voiced this to anyone. Your video gave me goosebumps. Thank you!

[@aishwaryapriya9416]

Same feeling i have @papori samah! Exactly same , i have never told it to anyone either because who can understand this feeling of being afraid of success.

[@annazilla]

What a useful and relatable message! I used to be this way until someone I love dearly said to me, you are human and flawed. Embrace it! You have nothing to prove to anyone. The older I get the more I understand this. It really has been hard to let go especially because Im stubborn! Thank you for reinforcing my mindset!

[@AnitaBokepalli]

Wow, that’s awesome!

[@supriyashikhare1]

What a wonderful message you gave anitha... Thats so much relatable . I will really need this . Thank you again for reinforcing to think. Your videos are simply great.

[@harshalsalian4941]

I didn't no this was the root cause of my unproductivity,thank you for making this video and youtube recommending !!

[@aayushiverma1314]

This was me 6 months ago and one day I just woke up to this very subtle reality of mine that I was afraid of success! I have been unapologetically unkind to the universe and to myself! This video resonated on so so many levels! My obsession with perfection reached a level where my jaw began hurting terribly because I was clenching it all the time. This by far was the cruellest I have been with myself. The only positive thing that came out of this phase was the fact that no matter how hard you try, you have to let go of everything, even the effort. Thank you for this video dee, I thought I am the only one struggling with it.

[@AnitaBokepalli]

🥺🥺 it’s crazy, so many of the things that we think we are alone in - so many others are also going through! I’m so happy you’re able to see the patterns ❤️

[@nabhoyar]

@@AnitaBokepalli Yes you have beautifully caught the pattern and really thankful to you that you have shared with us ☺️

[@ramyaganesh3152]

Thank you soooo much Anitha for sharing this......definitely clicked me.... Most underrated channel...I pray your video reach more people who will need

[@crazyarc4996]

You just described me in your video. And to think I dont even like the word 'perfectionist' and never liked anyone who endorsed it without realizing all the while that's exactly what I was trying to do. Eye opener!! 😶

[@ashutoshchauhan4928]

This is so relatable, every word struck me so hard, thanks for sharing, I will be always be indebted to you for showing me the mirror

[@candide29]

What a message filled with divine goodness, your message resonates, thanks to Yoga namaskar, through which I discovered your channel, and your beautiful energies, thank you for your sharing experience !

[@rekham6910]

Bang on!!!! This is so relatable...I guess everyone is living in this myth of PERFECTIONISM...n it needs to be changed. Thanks for an amazing video ❤❤❤❤

[@AnitaBokepalli]

Thank you ❤️

[@anithabojan7078]

This is the reality of many people. Great video.

[@tarahunt547]

Exactly what I needed to hear this morning! I'm going to watch this video every morning! Thank you so much for sharing! Love the skit too!

[@AnitaBokepalli]

Wow! Wishing you a very good morning every morning! 😁

[@NehaGupta-gs1cs]

Oh my god. This video was an eye opener. I was so frustrated at myself for certain things as I wanted everything to be perfect without realizing it is totally killing my vibe. Thank you so much. Make more such amazing videos. More power to you. ❤️

[@yadav.khushboo]

Very relatable message Anita. I often tend to think the same way that if not the best way, i don't even want to do things. I wish, I can go back to past and buy more time, but as you said, lets not let our past or future define us .

[@munishkumar4155]

I m happy that i came across ur channel and i think u deserve subscribers in millions keep it up all the best

[@durgasaishree1382]

Okay the timing was perfect! I have my exams in a month and I made a schedule and if one thing fell out of place, I was like, there is no point now, let me create a schedule for tomorrow and follow it perfectly. And then the cycle repeats!

[@slow_homemaking_with_nanthini]

It's like you are directly pointing at what I am repeating since years..the message went so deep that it's making me afraid to even question have I been this person since birth or what has made me become one ? Thank you for this video.. much gratitude

[@madhumita2557]

Oh my God!!!! Nothing in this world was as relatable as this... Thank you so so much for the exact representation... Cannot describe in words how much this has helped...it was like popping that bubble. Thanks a lot!

[@AnitaBokepalli]

You're so welcome!

[@prakratikulshreshth825]

I personally feel this video was made for me. Thank you sooo much

[@Linusrox123]

I LOVE you, Anita!! Thanks for all you share.

[@kadambarikhandelwal1601]

This is first time I am writing but this is an amazing video and very relatable. I am going through severe anxiety and I don’t know the reason and I feel somewhere this can be the reason….love this Thanks 🙏🏻

[@naveenkatti]

So me once. I mostly came out of it. I am happy to know that so many people have gone or going through this. Simple strategy could be mix physical movement work and desk work while designing the schedules. Physical movement offers better focus rather than sitting long time at desk. Personal experience.

[@taniyalulla2574]

what a video seen today,m going through this ,ty for this🌸☺️

[@VijayKumar-mx2wv]

This was so relatable Anita, thanks for sharing this..🔥❤️

[@AnitaBokepalli]

Thanks so much for watching! I'm glad you found it relatable.

[@nabhoyar]

Thank u so much Anita... How you are realising our day to day reality 🙃.. no words to describe i can totally relate the exact situation you have explained in this video.. you have spoken the words that my inner soul wanted to tell me.. really thankful for the wonderful videos.. I just wanted to meet you and had this more wonderful discussion in more deep and root level.. sorry for the longer script message 😝 .. because anyways I didn't thought of writing a perfect message 😁.. peace 🤟

[@supritibagchi1761]

I am writing this watching only the first part of the video. This video was being suggested to me by youtube since a long time but I never clicked on it as I never thought that I am a perfectionist, Today I finally clicked on this video and my goodness, the first part of this video potrays MY EVERY FUCKN DAY. Thanks a lot, ma'am. I needed this video. Let me just continue watching the rest of it.

[@Funday10012]

Truely relatable... Thank you 😊❤

[@umaangadala3359]

That is my Reality right now!!!!! Right now!! Am doing this! Seriously I felt like an sitting in your chair , and doing plans again and again to do it perfect! Thanks for this video!!!

[@007maniraj]

was going through this phase thanks for sharing and helping us! wish you lots of happiness !

[@AnitaBokepalli]

Wishing you lots of happiness too!!

[@pavithrar6504]

what a message!!!!!! wow anitha... it was with perfectionism I have wasted so much of time. Thank you for enlightening with your gracious words... LOVE YOU anitha garu....

[@cynthiacutway8951]

Thank you so much! I too will be watching this over and over until maybe one day it will be part of my new normal. Very relatable skit and your message really resonated with me.💗

[@AnitaBokepalli]

Just stop yourself whenever you catch yourself falling into these patterns and take deep breaths.. focus in your breaths and then decide on the next step of action ❣️

[@cynthiacutway8951]

@@AnitaBokepalli You're the best, thank you! Will try it!

[@Jhanvi7]

This video is a reality check..🤯🤯 Loved it ! Thankyou for making so relatable one..❤💫 More love and power to you for always coming up with most challenging things and making it easier..😊👍❤

[@AnitaBokepalli]

Thank you for your kind kind words 🥰❤️

[@alfiyakousar4438]

Oh my God..it is like..this vedio is on me... everything thing is matched...it means I am not alone in this matter

[@taruyoutube]

Thankyou Anita. Truly. Thankyou.

[@AnitaBokepalli]

You're welcome!

[@susmitaprasad7313]

OMG Anita, This is so relatable. Thank you so much for making this video.. Perfectionism mindset has really crippled me and made me feel worthless.. You are doing such a good job. Lots of good wishes and blessings to you. Jai Guru Dev 😊

[@haripriyaharipriya1217]

I just wanna thank you from the bottom of my heart mam..💖 bcos I'm the one like you.. always expecting perfection in every little thing in my life.. so as a result I missed many things in my life.. or life itself..! Slowly I am changing my self with the help of Yoga and Meditation..!🙏 But it's really great that u have shared Ur own experience which is very personal on social media.. I love Ur courage and good Moto which wants to raise others who r in need..! After heared u I accept myself and I'm ready for a complete change over..! Thank you so much mam.. Do more videos on different aspects which others don't.. like this one..!😊🌺🌺🙏

[@aditric]

Thanks Anita for sharing your little letting it go ritual, it's going to be of immense help ❤️

[@Simplyv888]

my perfectionism can stop me from going out in the world with my ideas because I always find something to improve. Letting it go is very powerful and very much needed for me ✨

[@krishnabhati5891]

You are simply amazing! Love your videos ❤

[@viralpatel3675]

anita is so right... even I deep down fear success, because it would increase the expectation from me

[@ishwaritank]

Such a beautiful video and message! 😊🤗

[@AnitaBokepalli]

Thank you so much!

[@moonie93]

I am actually speechless. I match all the signs of perfectionism you mentioned to the t and I literally didn't realise. Not even kidding I would try my hardest everyday and then just put myself down for not finishing things while I am wasting time trying to make it perfect. This literally has come to the point of my self care routines even and no I just didn't realise that I wasn't being lazy but I was being unrealistic perfectionist. You actually helped me a ton today to realise this and I really am gonna focus on letting it go. Thanks a lot again

[@AnitaBokepalli]

You’ve got this, I believe you do! ✨

[@kartikgaur]

Thank you so much for this amazing video 😊

[@TheShikha345]

Thankyou thankyou so much girl 😍😍😍....it really need to hear this at this moment ....I was just like that...but now..no more perfectionism.... ❤️❤️❤️ Thankyou so much

[@SpoorthiYavagal]

I literally have been procrastinating from past week. I woke up an hour late than my planned time and the whole day I'm miserable. This video really opened my eyes, I feel better now. Thankyou so much 🙏❤️

[@Pikuthechiku332]

Thanku soo much dii♥️....i needed this very badely ..i can't express in words what i felt what was the problem but now my all questions are answered....

[@SanikommuPriyanka]

Thanks for making this video.

[@varushar1]

Lol. Love the beginning. It's exactly like me. You're a great actress Anita. I wish to overcome perfectionism and procrastination.

[@apoorvasingh3921]

Story of my life! Thank you so so much for sharing! ❤️

[@somrajdutta8366]

Loving it Anita. Keep it up. Lots of power to you - love from Kolkata. This single video makes me your subscriber

[@sherryr1222]

I struggle with this all the time. I’m going to download it and watch every morning as a reminder!

[@AnitaBokepalli]

You’ve got this.. you are bigger than this 🌸

[@neerajatokekar1079]

Wow. KZbin recommended this video at the right time for me. I can relate to every bit of it, and I really want to let go this desire to be perfect but for me it feel like maybe I am afraid of failure. Even the small tasks I do with 'perfection', I keep thinking about it that what a great job I did n all and I aspire to have that feeling for all the things I do.

[@AnitaBokepalli]

This is the most important step - to recognise our patterns :)

[@susesteed6889]

Anita! I am so grateful, this video came to me at exactly the right time and I cannot believe how perfectly (😂) u captured why I am seemingly working all the time but never *actually* getting anything done.

[@lavanyanarasimhan467]

Thanks friend.. it is so relatable.. could not identify it.. leads to many cyclic issues. Thanks so much for explaining it.❣️

[@AnitaBokepalli]

I’m happy this helped ❣️

[@devivishnu889]

Still on this mode. Giving struggle to my surroundings too. Couldnt wave off a silly misytakes of them n ultimately taking all the resoonsiblities to my shoulder n killing myself. I watched this video as am seeing myself. Now feeling like to take a step to get out of it. Though tried and failed many times earlier. But, this time i will move forward. Thank ypu dear for this wonderful video. Stay blessed.. 😊

[@bishikarana1861]

Wow,, thankyou so much sis,love from Nepal 🇳🇵

[@akankshyadas1763]

Hey! It's me going through this devastating moves towards perfectionism..and i still am doing the same setting the tasks for later...well...this time it is worth watching..kinda certain realisation that bro..you don't need to have rigid regimes for your daily chores..it's a wave having crest and trough..plans excite but the process broods...thank you a lot for the alarm to get out of the plight...🙏

[@aparnadhar3435]

All i was doing is draining my energy and getting exhausted … its like carrying a unnecessary baggage..such a relatable content 💛

[@Aegis98]

This is my life. 😩 thank you for sharing your story ☺️

[@shrutimishra0209]

O god! Seriously I watched 15-20 videos but can't find any relatable. This is same thing what I do And the main reason of my Procrastination... Thank you so much di This will surely help in my studies. 🤗❤️

[@AnitaBokepalli]

All the best Shruti 🤗

[@mansijakar51]

✌️you are love Anita as always ......you teach me so many things that I didn't even notice I am doing 😪but a great thanks to you to help me and everyone to get out of this unwanted cycle of life ♥️ thanks you so much 😘

[@AnitaBokepalli]

Hugs and many more hugs 🤗🤗🤗

[@lakshmiprasanna5005]

I can totally relate to the content. There is someone like me who doesn’t start work to do it with 100% perfection.

[@tarz2506]

Also the main points are: Where to Start and When to Start... Instead of making us happy by making our eyes see... In the To Do list that it will be done.... Kudos to you💕🙏🏻

[@Drpoojachokhandre]

Each and every single word in this video is so me. The worst part is I'm not able to cut out myself from this so called perfectionism. Hell 😒

[@msbarnwal1499]

Thank you so much, i was literally crying My family and my girlfriend as well And mainly me Said to me that i was just lazy and really struggli g hell lot. Thanks for sharing I understand that its not just me Its normal, It can be changed Thank you

[@jayasriram9208]

Came here accidentally... but this channel is amazing... watching your videos continously... I love your lifestyle... lots of love to you...... do more videos like these .... 😀😀

[@haripriyabandi2372]

Felt sooo real 🥺

[@handlenotavailable538]

I needed this so much

[@mohanveeru9280]

As usual another masterpiece video from you madam

[@SSCCGL-ph9eb]

Relatable sis

[@pratiraj9750]

Your videos are so good

[@bunnysleeps]

Thank you for the awesome vids. I related to this. ❤️🙏🏻

[@abhinavdongre2964]

This perfectionism has been stopping me for years. I wanted all my things to be perfect. It wasn't only about work, but food, fitness, lifestyle and what not. I just started getting things done with little planning and starting execution immediately and also stopped blaming self unnecessarily for not achieving tasks. As per my understanding getting things started is first step, once you get in pace (if you are able to do things for around 10-12 days), reiterate your planning/optimize it(which a human can achieve and not like will goto the moon in 24 hours😂😂😂).

[@ladydede88]

Being like this is holding me back from my goals because I want it yo be perfect

[@pragyakashyap6034]

This is so relatable.... I felt like you did a skit on my life....your each nd every words just matched with mine ❤️ Thanks for such relatable videos Love love love❤️❤️

[@indrani442]

Thank you dear🤝

[@ShivamMishra-ir9lh]

This is my sory as well , in race of being upto the mark , we usually leave ourselves and loose us way back and hence we get struck in race w realise we are backward than our begnings.,as we are not with ourselves. I was eagerly waiting for your video, they are just positivity and self awareness.

[@AnitaBokepalli]

Isn’t it so important to be with ourselves, true to our nature? ❤️

[@ShivamMishra-ir9lh]

@@AnitaBokepalli indeed , thats the crucial aspect of life or the essence of our life and existence - the discovery of what we are, who we are and why we are. Maybe the world is toiling for something ,of which even they are not aware of, or have forgotten the purpose of toil in the race to be perfect? Would love to know your ideas over it mam.

[@simran2968]

Hi Anita can you please make a video on how to MEDITATE....

[@anishanagpal7004]

First 3 minutes are my daily routine!

[@Rm-rb4oh]

Thank u so much.....i felt so relatable.... love you❤

[@mansithul]

So relatable 👍

[@prethikaa6526]

This is sooo Relatable........🥲🥲😪

[@shivanineeli5392]

You are AMAZING!

[@AnitaBokepalli]

🥺🤗

[@irenaafrida7141]

I recently noticed that i was a perfectionist since childhood..in my case i think i was like this because i thought if i don’t do things perfectly myb my parents or other people will not accept me as i am (flawed human just like others) ..But trying to reverse the pattern.. thnx for the video 💕

[@nikitavaishnav4816]

I relate to each n every word of urs

[@vaishnavisandeepnirmal9587]

a huge thanks

[@abinjose8289]

Thank you..

[@pravinpaalangattu4770]

Great, awesome👍👏😊

[@brahma80]

Life lessons in simple sentences. Can you believe there are people who are afraid of Success. I believe because i too am.

[@sirajummoniranosaibha]

I didn't know that I am a perfectionist, until I watched this video,

[@sukhman4828]

So relatable ❤️

[@nikhilramchandani2040]

I am 18 years old and your all points are relatable, I used to be insecure about everything so I searched on Google for why everything was like that even though I achieved many things in life. I already finds that at some point I am afraid of success because I don't know what I do after that, then I find the word perfectionism which seems quite relatable and I searched on youtube now after seeing your video I know I am not wrong about my thoughts, thanks for sharing your thoughts. Maybe I start comparing myself from unrealistic things like movies , story but its nvr possible in real life Now all I wants to be happy again

[@the69thAngel]

Perfectionism is bad, but can you make a video about your hair care, you hair looks so shiny and gorgeous :)

[@AnitaBokepalli]

Hahahaha!

[@samikshasharma4033]

Me first to comment on ur video... Love u darling... That's what my husband demands from me... As he can't tolerate me the way I am...

[@AnitaBokepalli]

Sending you love and hugs and joy ❣️❣️

[@anAwesomeNameHere]

That skit was exactly me

[@santhosh_raj143]

This is exactly me everyday!! Each and every thing you mentioned happens also with me all the time. And I also suffer too. I think I'm thriving to do things the right way, but I don't expect it to be perfect. But the reality is that I expect it to be perfect at the end of the task in some other manner. I feel that all the tips you mentioned out will work for me also but I don't know somewhere from the inner most me is saying that if I don't strive for perfection I cannot develop or become better than before. I still believe this thought of mine is also correct Now I'm just confused and feel like I'm stuck in the maze. 😅😅😂 Now I think that all the time perfectionism isn't the right way because things aren't working for me either. Same meeru skit chesinattugane. Meere yelagaina naa, mee, mana ayina apayam nunchi kapadali..🙏🙏😂

[@patwari2622]

Thanku

[@sumankumar4042]

Now i'm feeling much better 😊

[@AnitaBokepalli]

Yayyy mission accomplished!!!

[@pratiraj9750]

What does it mean to be afraid of success? Why would that happen

[@chelseaj8306]

Thank you

[@AnitaBokepalli]

🤗🤗