How Philosophers Handle Rejection (Diogenes, Schopenhauer, Epictetus & Zhuangzi)

[@LucidLivingLL]

There is no rejection when your aim is expression. Let's put an emphasis on the power of your expression, one who expresses himself freely does not only seek admiration, but expansion.

[@moonshineonme75013]

YesYesYes!!!

[@Consciousbeing3191]

Thats a nice perspective 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

[@AnthonyGonzalez-is4jb]

🧠👌

[@catalhuyuk7]

I’m a her, but…

[@hannibalbarkas1350]

[@Ryan-Horgan]

“We generate fears while we sit. We overcome them by action.” - Dr. Henry Link

[@spontaneousbootay]

@@TruTube.1. wow. How ridiculous can you get? Nvm just saw your post history sheesh

[@QuidamByMoonlight]

@@Spectradom yes, that’s been my experience. Sitting UNCOVERS anxiety that is already there. It doesn’t create it. Action without mindfulness can create enormous amounts of anxiety!

[@zchadowhd]

What happens when you stand but take no action?

[@True38]

100%. And fear is the mind-killer. The fact is though, that we only create problems and worries in our own minds. The reality is completely neutral and it (along with other people) could care less about how you feel and think. This is why it's important to stay indifferent to most things in life and do not take it so seriously. Are you going to live with fear in your heart and mind, or are you going to live freely with love and abundance? It's really up to you at the end of the day, nobody else can decide for you.

[@True38]

@@zchadowhd Nothing. And nothing is often better than everything.

[@johnoakley6362]

" I am enough", This realisation has taken me nearly 60 years to learn, and at last I have peace both mentally and in my general life. No amount of rejection now would make the slightest bit of difference to me. Please trust me, each and everyone who reads this, regardless of your age, sex, experience or lack of, YOU ARE ENOUGH!

[@0patience4flz]

Thanks.

[@jumoney3783]

I hope you have many more peaceful years friend

[@johnoakley6362]

@@jumoney3783 Thank you.

[@jerrylleannbascon7193]

I needed this today, bless you! 🥰

[@unclesamzbastardsonu.s.b.s9315]

Thank you

[@KoH4711]

It's really incredible how these videos seem to keep coming out at the exact perfect moment I need to hear them. Uncanny. I guess the adage is true: "When the student is ready the teacher will appear."

[@west_spirit7352]

dude fr

[@thepoquer9090]

"When the student is ready the algorithm will appear."

[@toeytoey9715]

Algorithms

[@gioryu]

Haha really true

[@DH-oj2ru]

That would be the ai

[@9in3G]

Feeling rejected has helped me understand my true intentions behind the actions I take towards others. For example, If I say hello to someone and get ignored I’ll feel rejected cause I was expecting them to acknowledge me. Made me realize how selfish it was to be living with those expectations

[@Yusa_Beach]

It's not selfish to want to be acknowledged.

[@bellabong8862]

@@Yusa_Beach That's true. It only hurts to not be acknowledged, though, when we give it a negative meaning about ourselves (take it personally). The other day after dropping my daughter off at work, I was in a hurry and drove off quickly. That evening, my daughter asked why I ignored her co-worker when she waved at me. I didn't even see her and it had nothing to do with her. Things like this happen all the time.

[@childishduke]

Honestly that is very true..I hadn't realized that until today..thank u

[@tannerbryan1890]

It’s definitely a choice to take it personally or not. Hence why two people won’t find the same scenario equally offensive. One person chooses to take offence and another can brush it off as if nothing happened.

[@charcoalanderson8010]

Fantastic introspection on your part! I came to this same realization over time regarding many things: giving a compliment, giving a gift, genuinely apologizing to someone, etc. Your intentions in all these must be geared towards the benefit of the recipient. If you get upset if they don't accept these things "the way you expected or wanted them to" then you weren't truly doing them for the recipient in the first place, you were doing it for yourself. (so you feel good, so you can feel superior or have them owe you in the future, or so you could feel like all was forgiven and stop feeling bad.)

[@aliasanew3398]

WOW! I literally confessed my feelings to a woman For the first time ever in my life today and got rejected. I was searching videos about rejection a few hours ago and here this is. Stings but i’ll be alight 😮‍💨

[@egemen261]

Hey, i appreciate your courage. You did what you could only do and that is playing your part. There are millions of woman who you can love more than this woman! They are everywhere. Also, it's really great that you overcame yourself and take the leap. To me, you're a winner. You encourage me to take chances and also beat my oversensitivity to rejection no mater how many mental gymnastics i perform. What's the alternative to rejection? Literally and absolutely nothing. Nothing happens if we don't do anything. We either suffer from rejection or from no improvement or emptyness.

[@aliasanew3398]

@@egemen261 Thanks for these affirming words man. I totally agree. At the end of the day I feel like a weight has been lifted off of my shoulders regardless of the outcome. Although I didn’t get the result that I had hoped for, now I have my definitive answer and I can act like a normal human being around her, and not be so nervous anymore. Besides that, I can shift my focus towards more important things. And to be honest she let me down real easy, she was very respectful about the rejection and still considered my feelings. I feel more confident to speak my mind and be honest with myself in the future as well.

[@Munkaa]

U had the balls to do that, so don't be down on yourself. Someone better will cross paths with you eventually!

[@arnoldthegreat4138]

u wanna know the secret of rejection get rejected a 100x and u wont give a shit anymore

[@lorenzozinna4700]

In some time you'll look back at it and be proud of what you did. The worst regret is about things you felt like doing and didn't

[@ColombianoSuperior]

“Rejection is a blessing” u can’t imagine the amount of happiness this quote produces me once I reflexed on it. Gracias 🙏🏼

[@yaguking]

Reflected*

[@martinwarner1178]

A Greek saying, look it up. Peace be unto you.

[@thegrayrider7022]

This was absolutely excellent, the best eleven minutes and 38 seconds I have spent today

[@Einzelgänger]

Thank you 🙏

[@PotofTreasureExplained]

"We make a mistake if we take too seriously the judgements of other people." "When we learn by experience with what depreciation a man will speak of his fellow..... we shall understand that to lay great value upon what other people say is to pay them too much honor."

[@Fromtheforgottengardens]

One of the best way of handling rejection is learning not to care and also to learn to safe within ourselves.

[@FirsToStrike]

As the great philosopher Rick Sanchez has said: "Your boos mean nothing to me, I've seen what makes you cheer!"

[@Xarfax321]

Wubba-lubba-dub-dub!!!

[@Thisbrickwall]

LMFAO YES! This. 🎉

[@storm1024]

You say, “Thanks for watching”. I say, “Thank you for uploading”. This channel makes my brain & gut spin. I appreciate that.

[@Androrac]

Life should be seen as a game of tetris. It's a game you cannot win as the game will always get harder until there is no way you can beat it. Rather, the objective is to see how far you can get and consider improving on your previous attempts as a victory itself. By applying this philosophy you maximize the effort you put on achieving things while at the same time minimizing the pain that inevitable failure brings. If you go to a battle knowing you're defeated but at the same time focus on seeing how much of a fight you can give before falling you will get as far as you possibly can and accept defeat with a smile if such is the outcome

[@Vad3251]

I have been struggling with the fear of rejection for most of my life. But recently I found that stoicism and philosophy in general has helped me with this problem, without me even realising it. I have taken a chancs, of asking someone out. A leap that younger me would be terrified of taking. And only after doing so, did I realise how easy it was to do. Because the goal I was looking for was to simply express myself, and I didn't really put "success" as the objective of the interaction

[@tabularasa_br]

This video took me from a pit of depressive thoughts and led me to smile. Thank you once again for literally saving my day, Einzelgänger!

[@philipoconnor2236]

You made a good choice. Always choose happiness over misery. Remember we alone are the only ones who can choose our own happiness ❤️

[@SelfcareforBodyMindSpirit]

Thank you for the convincing arguments that rejection can be a good thing and that by fear of rejection, we can deprive ourselves of opportunities.

[@Munkaa]

You don't sound sick at all. Nice editing ;) "Sometimes, Man's Rejection Is God's Protection"

[@Einzelgänger]

Ha, thanks! I can hear the difference though :). And, thanks!

[@gen-x-zeke8446]

"Please God, No...." a 12-yo girl cries out. Most often getting rejected. Is she be protected? Nope, she's being raped or murdered. I don't agree with that line you shared, but I know it's not From You.

[@stephen5601]

@@gen-x-zeke8446 you didn’t even try to understand, did you?

[@Munkaa]

@@stephen5601 That's why I didn't say anything after his response :D I guess don't bother with this type of people.

[@gen-x-zeke8446]

@@stephen5601 I have Jesus and since I surrendered to Him, it is He that doesn't get it, not Me.

[@AlmostEthical]

I loved it when Rick said to a hostile crowd, 'Your boos mean nothing, I've seen what makes you cheer.'

[@myouounoanjii]

That Schopenhauer quote though. This is bang on what I need at the present moment. Thanks Einzel.

[@bitkurd]

Remember, if you don’t fit in You will for sure stand out. ❤️ ☮️

[@Noukz37]

I really like this format, with parallels between different philosophies! 👏🏻

[@bboyneon92]

Rejection, the one emotion which makes or breaks an individual. Easily one of the top tough emotions.

[@gunnasintern]

when one opportunity deflates, another inflates in its place. learning the lesson and growing is all part of the process, that really helps with looking at rejection from a higher perspective

[@JessMakeSense]

It’s been proven that rejection is literally painful, when somebody is rejected the same area lights up in the brain as if they were physically hit

[@swallowabullet7604]

our emotions are powerful

[@True38]

Doesn't bother me at all actually because I'm the prize at the end of the day and I know my own self-worth which is really high. To be completely indifferent whether you win or lose helps out a lot. Nobody can take your power away in that state of mind, and at the end of the day, nobody cares anyway so why even bother? Just focus on your own well-being and happiness because nobody gives a shit how you feel inside.

[@KJ-pu8dw]

I have experienced so much rejection in all things over my life. I’m very used to it. It’s a refreshing thought that being ‘selected’ may not have brought happiness into my life but instead maybe the opposite.

[@cirentXD]

This is exactly what I needed today because I got rejected from my dream job.

[@Orion225]

Cheer up mate. I've been there.

[@David-eu1ms]

When I was a young man I was interviewing for a good job, the interviewer asked me to write down a few good things about myself that would make me a good candidate for the job, I couldn't think of even one good thing to say about myself and just sat there feeling embarrassed, it took me a long time to understand how and why I felt that way, and why I didn't recognize anything positive about myself.

[@bballforlife1231]

That’s crazy I was in the same exact position I wasn’t asked to write it down but I was asked it. Why do you think you couldn’t come up with anything?

[@0patience4flz]

I was interviewed for a job..Walmart distribution center...( I quit from Walmart about 6 months before).."what has been your greatest accomplishment?"...i didn't say anything...two guys ...staring at me...i wanted to say.."When I quit Walmart, I received my profit sharing and paid off my house and property. That, motherfkr...has been my greatest accomplishment.".. i didn't get the job..good thing.

[@mshammond_uk1831]

@@bballforlife1231 low self esteem? When it comes down to it many of us never speak positively about ourselves

[@thechancellor-]

To the *incredible person* seeing this, I wish you all the best in life❤ don't over blame yourself, accept things and go forward. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn the skills needed and get after it, all the keys to a happy life is in your hands. Keep pushing.

[@arthurmerkulov5904]

The same goes for you, but after losing everything you've worked at for years, it just feels pointless to strive and put all of yourself in something that isnt fully controlled by you. And the only thing we fully control is ourselves, so it feels better to just go away from the world and on your own journey, inside

[@JaysonT1]

@@arthurmerkulov5904 Self-pity is always the way to go. Being a victim feels good👍

[@arthurmerkulov5904]

@@JaysonT1 why be a victim of something when you can build something with what you acquired, instead of looking for new ways to screw yourself over? Being a victim means crying about unjustice of the world and doing nothing, so you kinda. Missed the point

[@1sornram]

Thanks!!! You as well 🙂

[@Brandon_Biden]

Man, I love these little perspective realignments.... for what its worth from an internet stranger, thank you.

[@danielmonteiro5876]

Thank you Einzelganger for making philosophy fun, interesting and easy to understand for everyone. Amazing content! your channel is awesome.

[@robertduran3842]

SIR...once again an awesome viewing. I highly appreciate you an your work. With all going on in our world you present an appropriate approach to open-mindedness in thought during these times throughout the years. I so Thank You.

[@Einzelgänger]

Thank you 🙏

[@robertduran3842]

🙏♾

[@jerrylleannbascon7193]

Your videos and podcasts comfort me everyday while I heal from CPTSD. Truly a blessing to people who are struggling.

[@elpatron6537]

This is by far the most valuable KZbin channel in my humble opinion. Thank you for the videos 🙏

[@vishwmehta1813]

you never compromise on the quality of your content Respect+

[@heathernks8]

Perfect timing. And perfect advice ;) This is going to a saved playlist, thanks so much!✌🎋♥️

[@EmbraceTheStruggle24]

Same here ^__^

[@0patience4flz]

Same here

[@skeletopedia3122]

Your videos always put me at ease. Really puts life’s events into perspective. Thank you!

[@michelleburkholder2547]

I had a relationship 36 years ago that was absolutely devastated me when it ended. I'm now so grateful it did end. He was abusive to his wife of 30 years.

[@Slumking]

Thank you this is actually the best channel ever just a compilation of philosophy this is so crazy

[@buddhap396]

Be in the middle of balance, like a mother. Don't show bias towards the success and failure. Accept whatever it is and be in love with what you do.

[@drewalyson5799]

This is like a message to myself. I have always been rejected by many companies because I couldn't meet their qualifications. It was depressing to the point that it decreases my self-esteem.

[@wanderer37]

Hope you get a good job soon . Your qualification alone doesn't define you. You are loved just the way you are ❤. May your life be filled with joy and happiness.

[@drewalyson5799]

@@wanderer37 Thank you for your kind words. I really do hope I could find one.

[@TheRaccman]

Fuck capitalism

[@mariams.4953]

I just really really want to thank you for these videos. They’re like life coaching and the best therapy all at once. I’ve been feeling a little low the past couple days and it’s a sign from God how close to home your videos hit. Thank you so so much. It means the world. God bless you ❤

[@Johny40Se7en]

Probably THE greatest video about belonging, or "finding ones' self" ever. You really have a magic for making such thought provoking videos 👍😉

[@asunraychan]

After 4th failed job interview, I was so afraid of getting more job rejections, but this video helps a lot. Thank you!

[@karinem.w9173]

I just feel like your videos keep getting better and better, and more interesting for us viewers 😌 Thank you very much🥰

[@217potato]

You sir, have the best channel on this platform. You help so many people with what you do here and the creativity and artistry behind your videos only enhance that. I love every second of these. Thank you for your work.

[@Kalkirata]

This could not have had better timing for me, thank you ❤

[@rolovetolove5359]

Man! I love this channel, my favorite channel of all time! You don’t know how many times you have helped me; you always have the right video at the right time for me. Thank you Einzelgänger!

[@ravisalunke677]

Love you from India Einzelganget

[@leeannschaffer1433]

I wish that I could convey the gratitude I have for you and your channel.❤️🌻

[@kingcapricornio1193]

Rejection only feeds my desire until my heart is happy that is. But I cannot deny that the pain we feel from being rejected sometimes it's hard to handle

[@ThePopUpH8r]

Thanks man. Truly feels liberating.

[@1bwobs742]

I got Einzelganger across my upper back. Thanks for the upload

[@law_9840]

Just here to say that to me, you are my best friend. You have helped me so many times over time.

[@Arg0nautA1959]

Wonderful video as most of those created by Einzelgänger. Thank you man 😊

[@Unevequequelc0nque.]

I've been recently rejected by my ex in some way, even though I have found a solution, theses ones are different and they help me in being resilient. Thanks Einzelganger !

[@mshammond_uk1831]

Sometimes I feel ostracised and rejected in certain social settings and groups due to my race and religion..it cuts a little but this video made me feel happier

[@BennieVredestein]

This video really comes in at the perfect time, dankjewel man!

[@mariusjohnsen8430]

Einzelganger. You are a good, good man.

[@artyomschmitd47]

Thank you for bringing those ideias into my mind, they were very conforting. You make beautiful and important content in your channel. I'll be hoping for more.

[@evrensaygn1017]

Some kind of social failure happens Einzelganger: Just dont care about it bruh

[@QuynhNguyen-mf7by]

The timing is just right. I have loved your videos so much. Keep on the good work.

[@gsftom]

Excellent. It is really cool to let things happen as they will instead of desiring a specific outcome. I want some outcomes and suffer when they don’t happen, but am indifferent in other situations and am fine with whatever happens. It is very freeing not to desire a specific outcome or approval from others.

[@seddik6522]

Hi Einzelganger!! I love the quality of your work as well as the straight-forward delivery of the core content. Please can you do more videos about zen philosophy. Thank you 🙏

[@Vermontita]

Rejection ( for the 4th time by the same man over the years) has sent me down a new path That i would have never be opened to. Philosophy, meditation, psychology. My mind is blown and thankfully my perception is changing.. still effin hurts tho.

[@andydufresne299]

Thank you, Einzelganger.

[@Noctifern]

thanks loner. another great video as always!

[@jrlx86]

I've been ghosted by someone I've been talking to on and off for 6 years. Fire 2 weeks ago and now nothing. It hits different not knowing the cause.

[@blankearth5840]

A stranger online once told me “who are you and why should you be loved and cared for” after trying to explain my trauma of being rejected by family. It was the most hurtful thing I ever heard someone say to me, and I thought my narcissist father said the worst things. But deep inside me, a voice tells me that love shouldn’t need a why

[@brightspacebabe]

I like how you don’t end the lesson abruptly but give us a little lofi at the end to ponder what we learned.

[@cyshehni]

Man, I needed this so much! Thank you 🙏

[@VictoryAviation]

“Preferred Indifference”… absolutely fascinating!

[@crissdell]

Thats exactly what i was looking for after an interview

[@CassiniProjekt]

This is the story of my life, social outcast as a child, unemployable as an adult, despite education and thousands of rejections. I don't feel very human if at all.

[@she_wizzdom4410]

There are many like you my friend , many who don't fit in and are brutally rejected by the world.

[@drew2pac]

I hate saying this - but perfect timing. Applying for jobs after my Masters Degree and it’s just rejection rejection rejection… it’s tough. Been so down recently

[@egemen261]

Hey, believe me, you're meant for something so much better than your rejections. You don't know when or what for now but trust me, it will get so much better. I applied for 12 jobs and nearly rejected by all of them and found another job which i was being offered without i applied for and it was more suitable and better than all of the jobs i desired to be accepted. In fact, after some time later, i talked to some of the people in those jobs which i did not qualified for, but the people got them, they explained to me what they were like and I was disappointed what I was even getting into. So, i had a relief that those were the jobs which i would not even want to do for the long term!

[@drew2pac]

@@egemen261 You're right. I do believe this, but really, it is so hard to keep the faith at times. However, in life - things work out how they need to. So I will try stay positive, and just stick it. Interesting, many in finance and consulting are having pretty miserable times... I feel bad for a fair few of them. Thanks for your words :) I hope you are still enjoying your role!

[@egemen261]

@@drew2pac Yes, I agree, it's very soul-crushing and disappointing at times. It's like it will always be like this and there is no way out. However, it's at the same time, astonishingly interesting that life chances 360 degrees like a blink of an eye. I do really empathize with your struggle to stay with your head up against the storm. I was all over the place in terms of my emotional turmoil of desperation, hopelessness, and feelings of uselessness and incompetence. And I was very very aimless about what should I do with my life and I was pretty much lost. Nobody gave me any comfort about things would turn out better in the future. Well, right now, I am quite happy about it but I am very aware that anything can change and I might go back all over again. I think it's more about our attitudes than the circumstances in the outer world that can impact our happiness. When I am happy, the world is okay, not the other way around! I am getting more and more detached from the outcomes of circumstances to affect my well-being mentally. I am like, If I get the job, okay, If I don't I am still okay, it's their loss, there are thousands of other jobs which I can apply for. I now feel like when I go to a job interview etc, it's like the observation about new things and experimenting. That way, I am detached of the outcome but at the same time have the power to keep the faith fresh to go forward. I hope this also helps you, or anyone who reads this comment. Good luck, you will be in a much better situation as the video describes.

[@drew2pac]

@@egemen261 You know, for all the crap you see people write on the internet, comment sections ablaze with gas-lighting, people arguing, personal attacks etc - it is really refreshing to read what you wrote. A total stranger, giving me very valuable advice. The point you make about things changing is especially pertinent - I have seen so many recently have things turned upside down at the drop of a hat. Funny thing is - you are literally reciting what I would tell others. About not being dependent on external factors or opinions. It is just hard to swallow that pill for myself. Look, just wanted to say thanks. I have screen shot this message and will revisit it when I am 'having a moment'.

[@bellabong8862]

@@egemen261 Beautiful, encouraging comment.

[@johnroman4608]

People reject & they judge. Less encounters with humans the safer it is 🙏!

[@egemen261]

Not really. You need to spend some time to yourself until you are completely surrounded by yourself like in a solipsistic bubble. The emptyness and complete hole in you will outweigh any chances you could have taken but regret did not take... You are either going to suffer in rejection or not taking any chances that resulting in dullness and emptyness. What is the alternative to rejection? Literally and absolutely nothing. Nothing happens... Isn't it more painful than being rejected? You are gonna suffer either way anyways...

[@hellenheindyk4466]

Thank you for this video. I am atm feeling the pain of rejection. But l know this rejection is actually a blessing in disguise to avoid future suffering. I have to say it is hard to fight against your feelings but this is for the best.

[@kalashnikov2471]

Zhuangzi approach feels the most optimistic and practical in real life ❤️

[@pi3tr3]

an excelent point in every part of this clip. thank you.

[@steelpulsing]

Je video's helpen me immens veel. Dank je!

[@cesarmarulanda2860]

I love your videos Einzelganger. Thanks a lot from Colombia.

[@OwlofDating]

Thank you dude I really appreciate your modern day and traditional wisdom style of your videos.

[@yashwarrior5231]

This is one of the best youtube channel I have ever seen ,glad to be a part of it !

[@mbaividal4325]

Rejection may signal that maybe you are designed for more and better things

[@kamartaj3010]

✌️

[@gentleAsDoves777]

Rejection is truth baby - in the dating game, you gotta be open to rejection. And you gotta take it with grace and move on, leave the pain behind.

[@vjr5261]

In the life game

[@バラタァンズ]

Thanks Einzelganger

[@Surelinefoams]

Really good video kindly let us know who's the video editor please.appreciate your time and hard work to make such awesome videos thank you from all the viewers.

[@mancfte]

Thanks for this, helps to come to terms with how I feel about something in my life.

[@FirdavsiWebDev]

I didn't know that philosophers actually think of most useful things that other people can't even think of. I don't know where you get these stuff from but your videos are amazing. Thanks.

[@igknighte]

I knew that the best way is not to think about the outcome when you approach someone. But I didnt really understood what that means so it never worked for me. I decided just not to put myself in such situations where other people can take control of my mood. And yes, it helped me avoid stress but I always felt that I m missing something in life. This has broaden my mind about the concept and I think I will try this in practice again. I hope it will be different..

[@philipoconnor2236]

Courage to you💪

[@seananderson7153]

That tree story was so interesting. Inspiring even, Thank you! 🌳

[@pickleyeet8844]

My advice for people watching - Don't take schopenhauers words to mean that people who reject you don't deserve respect - dont be that person who lashes out or hates someone who rejects them. Just accept that you are different, not necessarily better, and that you can thrive and survive despite their opinion.

[@Provenma]

Love the channel and have been using it before I meditate and to help get me through tough times. Speaking of tough times, as a stoic enthusiast, what can one do if they are very self critical, self sabotage, and are feeling as though they have lost progress made on themselves? Thank you for your time, attention, and content 🙏🏻 All the best! - Alex

[@harrisonsilver4707]

Thank you for this channel. Simplifying and condensing philosophy. Has helped me in many ways over many years of my life. Has helped me get more of an interest to read books on these topics myself and dive deeper. ❤️ all of these videos have great lessons that I may forget at sometimes but always good to remember

[@rodrigopalma6466]

I love this guy, and... i love yall. keep the great work :)

[@Παθεια_Γνωστικα]

I have even a practical example of such a rejection. I was rejected by a girl, later I had a dream, which I interpreted as an outcome if there was no rejection, in which I was in the accident with that girl. My car was smashed in that dream, while at the same time I was with her in the car. In real life, I found out that she found another sugar daddy. So, rejection was a good thing for me and in the dream I got «proof» that it was a good thing. Also, probably inability to cope with/withstand rejection may be that a person can't choose things, people, etc. Rejection basically means to choose the things that someone needs. That person who fears rejection just can't choose the things, that mean something to him/her. It seems logical to me and at the same time it has sense. In the example above I couldn't choose people, now I can and do it easy. Though, still a bit anxious about rejection, but more in the sense of losing freedom.

[@colinf2920]

Great video as always.

[@krowkovtuber]

i literally just got rejected, how does he- 🗿 ok, einzelganger, you can come out from my closet now 🔫🗿

[@saahilh.3141]

The best part about being rejected by whatever you desire is that in the process you instead find your true self and your true potential and talent and a completely authentic way of life that suits and serves you well and much better than if the thing you desired had not rejected you.

[@fairyprincess911]

I’ve listened several times now. I love this.😻

[@perkele_534]

Bedankt voor uw videos ze dragen veel bij aan mijn gemoedstoestand en die van anderen :) keep up the good work man this channel is a goldmine of wisdom.