How Rom Wills Learned the Game Part 2

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[@brookvalley907]

You do not have to convince me that you know what you’re talking about. You are one of the few people who are talking about what I’ve seen with my own eyes. There are only four people, three men and one woman, that I follow for information on male-female relationships. All of you have college degrees and street smarts. One went to a top private college and learned his street smarts after he dropped out three credits short of graduating with a degree in economics. The woman is an executive who did a study of female infidelity to try and understand her own behavior. So far I’ve found that deeper understanding of relationships only comes from people who, like yourself, are naturally intelligent and have higher academic training in addition to street smarts. There seems to be levels of understanding about relationships: What people say they do, what they actually do, why people say they do what they actually do, and the real (usually unconscious) reasons they do what they do. You are able to get to and explain the unconscious reasons. In fact, I’ve had to sometimes stop listening to your videos for a week or two, while I let some information you’ve given readjust my life. The information has to go through something like a “search and replace” function in a Word document and replace all of my misperceptions of past situations in my whole life with your new perceptions. This can take a couple of weeks. If I listen to more of your material during that time, and get more life-changing information, it’s like several “search and replace” programs are running at the same time, and it’s too disconcerting. So, you don’t have to convince me that you know what you’re talking about.

[@RomWills]

Thank you. I'm honored by your comments. I let people know where I'm coming so they know I'm not just talking off the top of my head. You would be surprised at the amount of info I'm not sharing because it would challenge the beliefs of many people. I give it out in little pieces.

[@brookvalley907]

Considering how some of your "small pieces" have forced me to rethink large parts of my life, I appreciate you not dropping the big stuff on us all at once.

[@Carlos-hb9lr]

@@brookvalley907 you said there is only four people you listen to, who are the other three?

[@brookvalley907]

@@Carlos-hb9lr Rollo Tomassi, Atomic Attraction and Todd Valentine. There are many other good ones, but these are the ones I listen to now. I try and date two to four women at a time and let all the women know that I sometimes date more than one woman at a time. I am also fine with the women I date dating other men. Thus, I am not interested in the Red Pill aspect of finding and keeping a "good" woman. I also do not mind dating a slightly insane woman. If I waited to find a sane woman, I would have very few dates. To paraphrase our friend, "Insanity is not a bug, it's a feature."

[@dynamodev922]

I think the white woman wearing more leggings touches on several deep dating things. For one, black woman naturally store more fat and have more muscle in the hip area , but leggings accentuate this area are very cheap and are socially acceptable even without a yoga mat. In the black community there is a sharp line between masked man and Mr. Goodbar, in other races not as much. Consequently, a good deal of black Masked Man and even the Ideal Man are undervalued in the very own communities they grew up in. So when ladies of other races see a man that's in this undervalued category. They see a ripe opportunity to choose a man in that oh so feminine way they do. Bending down to tie there shoes at the opportune time, strong eye contact and a smile, some are bold enough to even approach. This is causing a slow insidious brain drain on the black community unless the dating culture shifts.

[@RomWills]

Wow! *Standing Ovation* Great observations. Yes in other communities the line between Mr. Goodbar and the Masked Man are blurred. I would go as far as to say part of what makes a man a Goodbar in the for example the white community is having some money. Not so much in the Black community. For reasons which would take a very deep video, white women are turned on more by the man who is resource orientated. Hence why a very attractive white woman can get with an ordinary looking man. Indeed Mr. Goodbar is more of a personality thing with white women. In the Asian community it's more of a power thing. Many white and Asian women are turned on by that man who is at least enterprising. The leggings play into getting that men.

[@dynamodev922]

When you couple this with the fact that most masked man, and ideal men started off as mostly nice guys/educated lames and some gamesmen . The first time they started getting some attention from woman was when they left their communities and started going to racially-diverse colleges. Although still not getting the attention of heterosexual attention of a goodbar, they get some play, and it is then embedded in there subconscious that their personality is more coveted in other races, since their looks didn't change. Black/Latino Woman are more fiery and dramatic , and this is further propagated by the culture, and lower socio-economic standing. They want a man that will argue and fight with them. Contrast this with white and asians who have a larger percent who are willing to play the supportive house-wife role , and massage their man's back when they get home. With these two facts it's almost astonishing that more select non-goodbar black men don't marry interracially. If people in general didn't tend to marry within their race. The numbers would probably way higher.

[@RomWills]

Well said.

[@Roastmaster1]

Great podcast Rom, you are a true scholar!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@cottrellevans]

Excellent insight and analysis...

[@RomWills]

Thank you brotha.

[@reddsmoke904]

Testing out things through fiction before making it real is something im just now hearing about. And it makes sense. Why am i just now being shown your videos?

[@desmooth7284]

Black Sexual Politics: African Americans, Gender, and the New Racism by Patricia Hill Collins Black Masculinity and Sexual Politics (Routledge Research in Race and Ethnicity) by Anthony J. Lemelle Jr.

[@RomWills]

Those are two more examples.

[@kelvinlindsey7980]

Good information

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@mikerizzyraw]

love seeing asian women in leggins the most :D.. overused classic white female pick up line "anything exciting going on today"

[@RomWills]

LOL! A white female just hit me with that.

[@mikerizzyraw]

the pickup line usually comes after the extra elongated "hiiiiiii, how are yuuoo", long eye glare and hair flick..

[@bluecollar8112]

these white women wearing these legging are really showing up black females as a whole. I repair equipment in different grocery stores everyday. And everyday they in there before or after the gym with them leggings on. Even my white co-worker admitted he was distracted by it. I love my sisters, but dang...I will leave it at that....good video

[@RomWills]

You see what's up. Now how would this affect Black relationships?

[@bluecollar8112]

brother Rom, I believe this is making most black women less desirable to black men. I say this because i was never into white women, but recently i have start to notice and if you talk attitudes vs the two, man o man a major shift could happen.

[@RomWills]

Bingo. That's my point. White women are aggressively competing for whatever man they can get. That's why many are wearing leggings to show off their bodies better.

[@alvinhollingeriii2562]

Demography Becomes Destiny and the Trend is your friend when it comes to finding out the truth. Good Thinking Video Rom.

[@RomWills]

You have a poetic of putting things. You should consider writing a work of fiction. Seriously.

[@alvinhollingeriii2562]

Hahahaha...those are quotes from dome wallstreet traders like peter Lynch or Warren Buffett. Its a universal truth though. You would probably make a shit ton of money with your vantage point. You can collect so much info that one day it just all makes sense and you poistion yourself to both avoid and take advantage of something. We are on the verge of a major economic crash and Im trying to position myself credit wise to be able to scoop some of the good condition foreclosures up so I can rent them out and get a shit ton of equity. Its all about seeing the big picture.

[@RomWills]

That's how the rich do it. They position themselves to take advantage of any situation.

[@mikeprat1]

it's all commerce! private prisons have contracts with these public schools. they scout to recruit customers early.

[@RomWills]

*BOOM!!!* All this is connected.

[@mikeprat1]

+Rom Wills yeah, all law is contractual, usually implied by receiving "benefits." we go to public school and it's not a compellingly public interest to show natural person's how to avoid tax when the who system is designed to have you pay taxes until after death lol... our parent's never showed us how to operate as national's privately outside the United State's infrastructure.

[@RomWills]

Mike Prat Truth.

[@patton1909]

Rom Wills Can you point me to some of the sources you use if its not too much trouble.

[@RomWills]

That's a broad question. I use whatever information source I can come across. I've accessed info from the CDC site, Blackdemographics.com, and the US Census site. Also check out www.targetmarketnews.com. Also I'll check out random sites discussing African American issues. Sometimes in a bookstore I'll thumb through business magazines to see what the business trends are and think terms of how they will affect African Americans. For example, I knew years ago that self check out lanes at grocery stores would have an affect on jobs. Speaking of grocery stores, whenever I go into a Black neighborhood I take note of the types of businesses there. I also have informal conversations with mental health professionals whenever I can find one and of course divorce attorneys. My main info comes from simply talking to people. What I do is take info from different sources and fit everything into a puzzle in order to see the big picture.

[@patton1909]

Rom Wills Thanks so much

[@wearethefuture21]

When I was younger I turned down soooo many short trim white women. I hooked up with some but mainly I liked a taller thicker girl. The small ones coudnt take the pounding. Anyone else have that problem?

[@RomWills]

LOL! I preferred the thicker ones for the same reason.

[@wearethefuture21]

My hypothesis is that they have always had this shape. The difference we are seeing is that white culture is celebrating women with nice curves. For decades white women with ass and curves would hide their shape because they would be called fat. Any women with curves couldn't wear many of the normal styles because the fashion industry would highlight rail thin women. The cut of women's denim jeans in the 70's 80's and 90's was for skinny women with flat butts. Things changed when big butts went mainstream. Manufacturers, literally made the pockets of the jeans and the cut of the pants accentuate a curvy women's shape.

[@losmit2194]

Its the other way around slim chicks can take a lot of meat.

[@Roastmaster1]

I tell people all the time that the fact that the paternity testing industry is now a billion dollar industry is a testament to what women are today! They are only supplying a need....soooo why is there a (billion dollar) need now for this kind of testing! I think EVERY birth should be tested. In my father's and grandfather's day a dog was a man's best friend; now a man's best friend is a PT!

[@RomWills]

I think paternity testing should be mandatory.

[@PutYourselfOn100]

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[@jackmanslightpepper]

So the "pre-school to prison pipeline" really exists, huh???

[@RomWills]

In some cases.

[@MsJoyce31202]

Well being a book worn is a part of your nature, Rom. It's not necessarily learned. You just are. A person's nature is what he does in some aspects. You do things because you are created this way. Things aren't as complicated as we try to make them. As far as leggings are concerned, all that about attracting men comes about because of the fashion industry showing women who have worked out and needed clothing to show they were physically fit. It's interesting to note how things become mainstream and is accepted by the majority. Years ago the Atkins diet was tried in various fast food restaurants. This was done to allow those who want to eat healthily still enjoy fast food. This idea was a failure because of what I call the greasy mouth syndrome. (I can still taste the grease today).