How This YouTuber ENDED Her Career in 7 seconds | Livestream Disaster Elisa Jordana

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This KZbinr ended her career in 7 seconds by livestreaming herself attacking her partner in the car. Elisa Jordana has a disturbing history of racism, bigotry, praising controversial people, and live streaming her aggression of others, while doxxing and claiming innocence. But what about her partner? Is there more nuance to this story than often discussed? Is she really to blame, or is this more complicated? What do you think?
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[@Ater_Draco]

Thank you for not showing the intimate partner violence

[@last-chance_]

yeah I'm going to catch some crap for this but if I was Scorrow I'd be cheating on her too. When did it become a part of relationship standards????????? Oh yeah I forgot #swoop defended that trash can dumpster fire pig of a wannabe nam yeah it's spelled wrong tite isn't a man no matter how much this POS defends him and you've got nerve #swoop calling out anyone about behavior that is not appropriate you siding with tite is inappropriate and inexcusable behavior!

[@JiminPark-bv9ce]

You look so freaking cute with the coat, so Fancy, ma'am there was no need for you to slay this much ❤❤❤

[@JackieUnfilteredASMR]

Please do a DEEP DIVE into Your SCENTBIRD founder! I can’t believe you of all people on KZbin still under this woman’s grip. Please Look 👀 it up! One of the CEO’s of SCENTBIRD Mariya is very culty! Scary actually 👀👀 a huge conspiracy theorist! I hope one day you will see the irony of what your channel is about and have her as a sponsor 😮

[@emilywilbur4241]

Mica miller case

[@shimmyalot]

The minute someone says, "I'm not gonna say anything 'cause I don't wanna be racist," is the minute you know they're about to say something racist.

[@ville__]

Don't translate... भवतः हृदयस्य धड़कनं कतिपयेषु घण्टेषु स्थगयिष्यति, अस्य शापस्य मुक्तिं प्राप्तुं एकमात्रं मार्ग मम चैनलस्य सदस्यतां कुर्वन्तु

[@petitmains]

Them: Not to sound racist but... Anyone else: But you're gonna power through it? P. Much how that goes ever time

[@Heliophobic]

Every time! Just like when someone says "No offense but...." and proceeds to say something extremely horrible. Just say whatever racist or horrible thing you're going to say and own it. We already know you meant to say the racist thing. We already know you meant to be offensive. 🙄

[@americanmanhood]

You mean to say that if someone says "I'm not going to say anything" you can tell that maybe they were about to say something? Wow, that's like psychic.

[@sarahg7996]

@@americanmanhood Get some therapy

[@AMoniqueOcampo]

I don't even know who Elisa Jordana is, but I'm getting this vibe that she is the definition of "Small name, Big Ego."

[@mijiah]

absolutely 😭 she thinks she's all that but literally no one cares about her lol

[@ville__]

Don't translate... भवतः हृदयस्य धड़कनं कतिपयेषु घण्टेषु स्थगयिष्यति, अस्य शापस्य मुक्तिं प्राप्तुं एकमात्रं मार्ग मम चैनलस्य सदस्यतां कुर्वन्तु

[@kianeko2120]

​@@ville__I'm so sick of these things. Stop pandering for subscribers that way.

[@holliefarokhi6218]

I didn’t know who she was until Swoop’s video lol

[@RubyTuesday23]

​@@ville__you're absolutely vile. I hope Karma comes after you for fear mongering 💀🤬

[@Terrasen.Wildling]

“I’ve proposed to like 4 people in my life so yeah, I’m about the commitment thing” is a WILD way to say you absolutely do not commit lmao

[@legoqueen2445]

There was a guy at the church I used to go to who proposed to 3 different women (the 3rd one said yes). But each time he proposed it he said God told him he was supposed to marry that woman. 3 times, 3 different women. Like Dude, why does God keep getting it wrong? 😂 The 3rd one did say yes and they got married but it didn't last long.

[@shannap.lawnerd125]

Soooo glad I wasn’t the only one yelling that at my screen. 😅

[@TehMomo_]

@@legoqueen2445 yeah even as a christian...this is a red flag for me

[@GeekGamer666]

@@TehMomo_ that's because it should be a red flag for everybody. If you aren't interested in a friendship and relationship with someone because you value them as a person, then the red flag gets raised.

[@theeastwood-youngfamily]

Who else has never heard of her? 😂

[@dsalzey314]

Him flinching when she raised her hand in the car after she had already hit him was pretty telling.

[@maximumeffort78]

Him flinching in the street, in front of the police, and before they got in the car was even more telling.

[@auberginebear]

I thought the same thing when I first saw this footage on the Philip Defranco Show.

[@vampyrefoxy88]

His flinching reminds me of a child also it have happened before but we don’t see it. This makes me truly sad.

[@bikesbrewsbasecamp]

Yeah, you can tell, this isn't her first rodeo of her being the aggressor in DM which is so sad. She seems like a horrendous person. It's disgusting.

[@itsmejejune128]

She admits to the cop that "you know women, we slap our men!" Or something like that. It is normal to her.

[@marie.c.c]

Onision comes up in the most unexpected ways man.

[@brittanyr9471]

The internet's cockroach. Can't get rid of him and he's always scurrying around.

[@lawliet6910]

The most annoying recurring side character 💀💀💀💀🫡

[@ademers03]

@@brittanyr9471 Poor cockroaches don't deserve that comparison 😭

[@madelinehart3933]

he is literally the most inescapable side character of internet drama 💀

[@katherinecalli]

P

[@kimielle]

Every time I'm about to see cops on camera handle DV/SA I clench so hard. Because I know some BS is coming. My own experience where a neighbour called the cops when I was being assaulted by a partner and they treated me like I was crazy because I was sobbing and shaking, and my partner was calm and collected. And then I got told not to waste police time. Girl my NEIGHBOUR called you.

[@megamovieman101]

I swear, the police need major reform and have for decades

[@VipesVonHarlot]

Yep, my ex assaulted me but I ended up getting arrested because HE was the one that called the cops! Not a mark on him, but I had a black eye and giant chunks of my hair were all over the place. Luckily the judge dropped the charges against me after spending the night in jail 🤦‍♀️

[@k0rn0ndac0b]

I got lucky and ended up with pretty lovely officers when the same thing happened to me.. I was shocked frankly because I wasn’t expecting anything great. At least there are still some pretty good ones out there -but I’m so sorry you had to deal with such shitty ones 🥺

[@kimielle]

@@k0rn0ndac0b honestly that really gives me hope that things are changing for the better

[@kimielle]

@@VipesVonHarlot that's pretty dire. Like, they couldn't see the obvious and still hauled you off?

[@j.goggels9115]

11:20 Swoop : "did we not know learn from that classic rock band" Me : "Fleetwood Mac" Swoop : "No Doubt!" I feel old.

[@j.goggels9115]

Actually, Fleetwood Mac proved the opposite.

[@hahaveggie]

I though Fleetwood Mac too lol

[@searchingfororion]

Well Stevie actually went off to go and do her own thing and Fleetwood was like 'haha good luck with that you'll be crawling back' then she went to have an incredibly successful independent career while they floundered miserably without her... Guess who ended up crawling?

[@shelaghclark5188]

The band split because of the male singer was her boyfriend and beat her all the time!

[@Ms.Prairie]

SAME LOL. I’m only 1993 ffs 😂

[@stacystrine3040]

The fact that Scorro flinched whenever she made a sudden jerky movement leads me to believe that she'd been physical in the past. As a woman, I'm a firm believer that EVERYONE has the right to defend themselves if someone else physically attacks them, regardless of the gender identity of the parties involved

[@HavianEla]

Agreed, you wouldn’t tell a woman to walk away from an abusive man. Why does society tell men to just “walk away” from abusive women? It’s hypocrisy like this that leads to extreme misogyny OR misandry.

[@jewels3846]

Where I live women get up to 3 hits before a man can claim self defense if he hits her back. I was appalled to hear that. I may be a woman and I def dont do any work outs or strength training but if I am slapping or hitting a man intentionally trying to harm them, then I think hitting me back to get space immediately for their own safety should 100% be legal. My boyfriend is a foot taller than me works a physical labour job and it 100% wouldnt be a fair fight because he can hold me down with one hand quite literally if he wanted to. If I ever attacked him, and abuse him physically I believe he should 100% have the right to hit me back so he can get to safety. Of course I think self defense ends when it enters retaliation/the threat is clearly subdued or fleeing, but if I went after someone and they had to let me keep swinging before they can physically stop me if there are no other options to safely get out seems like it is just punishing male victims. My first relationship was very emotionally abusive with so many threats of violence and death and still have trauma responses to certain things even though my current partner is one of the only people I feel truly safe with now. That shit sticks with you and the fact men got belittled and even villainized for being victimized by an abuser because their abuser is a woman is disgusting. They deserve support and to be believed just as much as I deserved to be believed and supported. Sorry. I just feel heated about these topics. Like I hate how normalized it is for a woman to be allowed to slap a man that its even in our media and its never self defense but a reaction anger or disgust to something. Like thats assault. If my BF did that to me because I said something offensive too him people would immediately jump on the "how dare he hit her" and I just hate double standards. Abusive women can perpetuate the cycle just like a man can but somehow its more okay that I do it just because statistically I am weaker and normally supposed to be a victim.

[@starrockrockstar143]

Yes she should be charged with attempted partner suicide murder

[@exhaustedcatlover7605]

100%, everyone has the right to defend themselves. I was in a shelter from late 2022 - early 2023. I saw a woman burst out from the shelter and start brutalizing a man who was very obviously under the influence. He was sat on a bench, bopping around to whatever music he heard and talking to whoever he saw. All because he allegedly told folks in the shelter not to trust her... I won't get into specifics of what she did, but if the roles were reversed... the other folks with me in the courtyard would've jumped him to protect her. But the MOMENT he grabbed her arm to STOP HER ASSAULT AND HOLD HER AWAY FROM HIM AT ARMS LENGTH. IMMEDIATELY, the crowd started cussing him off, joins in on brutalizing him, and kicked him out of the smoke pit. The way folks are so brainwashed by the patriarchal notion that "men (and boys) can't be victims of ___ assault" is disgustingly mind-boggling. The only silver lining from situations like this is the truth that anyone (unfortunately) can be a victim of abuse, and anyone can be an abuser. Hopefully, we, as a society, can improve the ways we recognize abuse and support victims, regardless of sex/gender

[@pixelninja76]

​@@HavianElawdym? women are told to "walk away" from abusive partners all the time, and if she's killed by that partner, there's always the question of "why didn't she just leave?"

[@serenetiv]

"I didn't punch you, I hit you! I'm sorry I didn't hit you with a proper fist but I didn't punch you, I hit you! Babe, you're not hurt!" comes to my mind in all of this... Hm...

[@eleniminas7742]

Amber's Heard famous words in the court with JD 😂😂😂😂

[@hauntedshadowslegacy2826]

@@eleniminas7742 Bingo. I still don't get how anyone can support her after all that.

[@xthefordx]

And most people STILL think she's the victim. The amount of fanpages that I see for her on Twitter everyday is genuinely sick. As an abuse survivor, I get physically sick seeing people wishing the best and supporting that fucking monster. I wish they had highlighted her other victims as well. What she did to Johnny Depp was fucking AWFUL but it wasn't even half of the abuse she perpetuated to all. I wish they had talk about her child assistant, the other ex boyfriend she abused, her zionist and racist tendencies, her abuse towards her mother, her criminal father, the animal abuse, the sexual harrassments...

[@xthefordx]

@@eleniminas7742 cuz it's so funny...

[@dhart1496]

one thing that people don't seem to keep in mind either, or just don't know, is he has a debilitating disease that cause minor injuries to be significantly worse, too.

[@KissyAdair]

11:40 No Doubt is actually a good example of exes being able to work together. They dated before they blew up. They were already broken up when they got big. The band didn't really break up. Gwen just wanted a solo career. Fleetwood Mac would be a good example of couples not being able to work together, especially after a split.

[@Rhiannon.Moonchild]

Yeah I thought she was heading towards Fleetwood Mac especially when she said classic rock band.. but no 😂

[@kathleenbielecki6814]

Fleetwood did 3 more albums after they split in their romantic relationships

[@GonzoMusicHistory]

​@@kathleenbielecki6814 No Doubt also released several albums after Gwen & Tony's romantic breakup. They broke up during the Tragic Kingdom tour around 1995-96 and Gwen didn't go solo until 2004.

[@nondescript123]

When Swoop was talking about the famous “old band” who broke up because of a love triangle and my old ass yelling “Fleetwood Mac!”. 💀 When Spankie said “No Doubt!”, I felt like dialling a funeral home to purchase a tombstone.

[@RenayOpish]

Same😂😂

[@AcidHouseCat917]

I get the exact same way xD homies made a whole albumn dogging eachother about eachothers affairs and then did a whole tour with that albumn. THE TEAAA

[@itstruckmeeveryday]

I'm so thrilled that I have no idea who any of these streamers are. Makes me feel like I'm living my life the right way.

[@VadaVoo]

"No hitting" is literally one of the first things we're ever taught as a child. It's not hard. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@hauntedshadowslegacy2826]

Unfortunately, some parents pair that instruction with corporal punishment...

[@Izfizlizard]

@@hauntedshadowslegacy2826 Unfortunately. No kid deserves to get beaten by the parent they’re supposed to trust.

[@atmoney4206]

⁠@@hauntedshadowslegacy2826I never understood that you can’t punish a kid with the exact thing you are telling them not to do. Makes no sense kids can’t understand that.

[@averlinbc5680]

@@atmoney4206 because when they’re adults they think that they have the right to hit people to punish them …because adults punish people by hitting them so in their head when punishing someone close to them like a child or partner or a someone they have power over it’s okay right because it just punishing them ..it’s not bad It’s only bad if you’re hitting someone that you don’t have power over.😅 Like a stranger

[@samanthahunter1759]

Thank you! You can't teach children how they should behave by using disciplinary methods that contradict the lessons you want them to learn!

[@perfectlyimperfect_8528]

Its never okay to hit someone. DV is never okay. But w that being said, I knew a girl who would INTENTIONALLY provoke her boyfriend, she'd hit or punch him, throw things at him, break his stuff... Intentionally trying to get them to react. And when she would succeed & they would react she would then call the cops to get the boyfriend arrested. It was absolutely disgusting behavior. Oh and she would even put bruises on herself, cause marks and injuries to back up her claims when police showed up. Finally one guy she dated had hidden cameras set up for months, waiting for one of these fights to happen... Sure enough, eventually a fight broke out. And she started beating this man, punching, kicking, biting, smashed a wine glass across his head... Crazy stuff. And even though be knew it was on film, after awhile you cannot blame a person for reacting. He grabbed her in a bear hug & threw her outside onto the porch, then locked the door. He didn't go out and continue the fight he just locked up his house and called 911. She too called 911. Their stories were DRASTICALLY different. She said he was hitting & kicking her before she HAD TO hit him w the wind glass & bite him to get him to stop choking her. Then she said that he grabbed her and body slammed her onto the porch before locking her out. Cops showed up ready to lock him up. And she did have some marks on her including a few broken fingers... Well, he told the cops that he had everything on camera, begged them to please watch the footage before arresting anyone. They watched the footage of the fight, her being extremely aggressive & the one physically attacking him. They saw how he grabbed her & yes he threw her outside, but it was no body slam.... And then they watched the camera footage from the security cameras he had on the outside of his house.... Those showed her intentionally slamming the lid of the grill onto her own fingers multiple times causing her to break 2 or 3 fingers, she also smashed her own forehead into the railing of the porch, causing a huge bruise. She did something else to cause a bloody nose as well. The cold were honestly stunned & speechless for a few. Meanwhile, she's outside talking w another officer, crying hysterically and telling such an elaborate & detailed story about how HE caused all of her injuries. Afterwards, the officers had a little meeting amongst themselves, watched some clips from the videos and discussed what actions to take next. She was absolutely shocked when they told her she was getting arrested for multiple charges, including making a false police report. She started cursing them out saying she's the girl, she's the victim, she has injuries & only reason be had any injuries was because she had to defend herself.... That's when they finally told her it was all recorded... The e tire fight that took place inside the house, giving examples of exactly what she did to him. And that they have footage of her smashing her own fingers w the grill lid, smashing her own forehead into the porch railing etc... Needless to say, she was absolutely enraged and tried saying that the video doesn't count because it's illegal for him to film her without her consent (he had already checked all the laws where they lived & whatnot that pertained to filming people in & outside his home etc He did nothing illegal). She tried so hard to come up w some sort of story to explain away the footage. Even saying it was all fake, he edited s bunch of other stuff together to make it look the way it did, she even tired saying it wasn't her in the videos. When that didn't work she tried saying that the entire thing was scripted, that they were both acting & filmed it all as some sort of reality show type bullshit.... Uhhh, yeah, that didn't work. But people like that, who will provoke others, intentionally doing things just to get a reaction cannot be surprised when the other person finally snaps & reacts!! And as a woman, it's not okay to continuously hit on a man, physically attack them & then cry victim when that man finally turns around & defends themselves. And no, in no situation do I condone anyone putting hands on someone else, HOWEVER I can understand how someone can be pushed to their breaking point & react wo necessarily thinking about it all. I think everyone has at one point or another, been pushed so far that they end up snapping & reacting poorly. Not necessarily physically either, but we are all humans and we all have a limit. There's only so much a person can take before it all becomes too much.

[@moethemoon]

Wtf did I just read. Holy shit that is MENTAL. What was her punishment?

[@Ferocious_Fairy]

Daaaaayyyymmm..... I usually TLDR long posts like this, but you got me hooked and this story is wild!!! I love that he had it ALL on tape, inside and out and that the cops actually took the time to review the footage and didn't just automatically assume that the woman was for sure the victim then take his a$$ to jail! Holy sh*t that's absolutely insane that she broke her own fingers!!! So what ended up happening? Did this go to trial? Did she serve jail time? Or just pay a fine and he got a restraining order??? More details PLEASE! Thank you for sharing this messed up story!

[@fawn2911]

cool story bro

[@TheArtChickRosie]

My empathy for Elisa ended the second she chose to post revenge porn and dox the other woman. Posting the is 100% a choice she made and not her reacting to the situation as she had multiple chances to stop and think about what she was doing.

[@KazMorg2198]

This. I have no idea about the DV stuff. Yes she was clearly the instigator here but long term? This could be a breaking point to long term abuse by the BF (not condoning what she did). However posting that ladies pictures and details is just so far across the line it's out of sight. That lady did nothing to her and Elisa but her in so much danger

[@Thagrynor]

"He cheated on her. She hit him." These two things are not remotely equivalent. Him being a jerk and cheating is not remotely a justifiable reason for physically assaulting someone. Getting your feelings hurt doesn't allow you to attack the person who hurt your feelings.

[@beanybabyrabie]

Idk, plenty of leftists say speech is violence and that attacking people that say things you don’t like is justified and even moral…..

[@fishtick]

@@beanybabyrabie youre being ignorant on purpose i see. because cheating on someone is not speech so you brought that up for no reason whatsoever.

[@laurendearnley9595]

Imagine the gender flip. She cheated, so he hit her. Not a single person would consider that acceptable. If they cheat, leave.

[@CelticLuna]

But he's a patron is he really cheating if he's paying for her attention?

[@Lindseyisloony]

@beanybabyrabie No, they absolutely don't. You're BEYOND pathetic for trying to push that narrative.

[@marli8907]

For her to be so full of herself, I've literally never heard of this woman.

[@bee1411]

Same. 😂

[@legoqueen2445]

Me too! It's sad, she's really pretty but her personality is so ugly it really takes away from any physical attraction she could have.

[@rebeccamueller8790]

Second that. Like, who?

[@palladium607]

Same

[@6thwilbury2331]

When this first happened, everyone who reported it had to spend a few minutes explaining how we *might* have heard of her. I sort of chalked it up to "oh, so she was to Howard Stern what Alison Rosen was to Adam Carolla." Which is certainly a cool credit and all, but not enough to warrant the "don't you know who I am" vibe that Elisa seems to have.

[@levifoster2992]

The way she opened with the police along the lines of, "Oh, that's my boyfriend, he's just R-slur, I'm so sorry he's wasted your time" is absolutely chilling. Completely vile, blatant abuse tactic. Makes my skin crawl

[@Hiiiiiiiiieeee]

Her “Is that bad?” question to the officer about hitting him laid me out. This literally could be a skit for Saturday Night Live or a comedy from the 90s. Aside from the horrifically violent outburst from both parties.

[@scudz948]

E.J. and Sniperwolf are probably long lost sisters.

[@GretchenTheGreat]

That’s funny you mention it bc I think they sound just alike. She’s like an older sister or something but their mannerisms and voice are identical

[@shanna2.2.2]

The narcissism and complete fakery, how volatile they are and nothing is ever their fault, dramatic and dishonest, etc… There’s too many of these kinds of ppl out here to count 😢

[@epictwinkaho1ic828]

Maybe it's her mom cause it's obvious Alisa is waaay older than she's "posing" to be

[@UrsulaZA]

Sssssssssssnakes

[@HellYes000]

Ahahahahahahaha

[@jinxnvm1148]

me: struggling to find content to watch. Swoop: ~posted 4 minutes ago~ me: ahhh finally. some good fucking food!!

[@nikicrowe2768]

That is the exact conversation I just had in my head!! I have a lunch to eat while I covertly watch my phone at work!!

[@ville__]

Don't translate... भवतः हृदयस्य धड़कनं कतिपयेषु घण्टेषु स्थगयिष्यति, अस्य शापस्य मुक्तिं प्राप्तुं एकमात्रं मार्ग मम चैनलस्य सदस्यतां कुर्वन्तु

[@RubyTuesday23]

​​@@ville__brutal. Shame on you. How dare you? I can only hope Karma comes right after your vile soul 💀

[@protect7clans]

Hahaha this!

[@m3r3dith]

This is so real! Same!

[@aedansilva1114]

One time, a guy took me to the mall and dragged me around trying to buy a garbage can for a Christmas present for his mom. Then we sat on a bench while he cried about his ex. I still think that was a better first date than what I just watched. "Hey, do you want to come over and be harassed by strangers online while we do nothing?"

[@geoffreydevereaux3272]

DFV Specialist here with 10 years experience. It’s important to look at a number of factors when determining primary perpetrations vs response violence. The most basic area of self defence is looking at parities and disparities. If an 80+ year old frail woman slaps my shoulder, I as a 6 foot tall 30yo male am not at risk for that and should not respond by laying her out. Now is it okay for her to hit me? No. It isn’t. But that isn’t free rein to respond with violence. Secondly, especially in relationship, we look at what we call “the rights paddock”. Who in the relationship has the most number of rights. Are the rights equal (not necessarily the same, but equal - for example if he has a job and she’s a stay at home Mum then their rights such as “going to work” and “spending more time with the kids” are going to be different in some respects). The person who has more rights is usually the person using primary perpetrations. But we still need to dig deeper. We then examine core beliefs. Perpetrators of DFV have one or more core beliefs which fall into - Superiority, Entitlement, and Adversity. The idea they are better than their partner, that they show entitlement for their partner’s time, resources, body etc., and that in order for them to win their partner must lose. When it comes to what we call ‘Mutual Conflict’ (some refer to this as mutual abuse but I disagree with the term), what we’re really looking at is a destructive conflict resolution style. Now this can include everything up to severe physical abuse. It’s two people who lack communication skills, and aren’t able to express their needs. This is still an issue and requires addressing, but isn’t the same as abuse. It’s usually characterised by people who have equal rights but aren’t attempting to control each other. Relationship counselling can work for mutual conflict. It cannot work for abuse. In fact it’s very VERY dangerous to use in abuse situations.

[@taylordean7750]

Thanks so much for that explanation!!

[@TheNormExperience]

I don’t envy your job, but thank you for taking the time to explain!

[@geoffreydevereaux3272]

@@TheNormExperience I appreciate your appreciation. Honestly though, it’s definitely my calling in life. Actually getting to try and make a difference to this entrenched social issue is really rewarding.

[@Krissyg2277]

The cop telling him he can walk away when he’s in a moving car like huh what is happening a potential victim being told they should have done better is mind blowing but who am I 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@HavianEla]

That’s, generally speaking, cops’ attitude toward male victims of violence or abuse. It’s why men don’t come forward with their abuses very often. That said, Baby Reindeer encouraged male survivors to come forth and the percentage of male survivors has risen 57%… which is both good, and horrifying. Whatever characteristics make up the identity of a survivor (male or female, ethnicity, etc.) - one must ask themselves, how many more are out there?

[@taylorschwab5374]

EXACTLY!!

[@SnowieShiba]

It's the typical cop response to any DV situation. "You should've just idk, left?" It's worse if the victim is unfortunate enough to live with the abuser because it's rarely removing the victim from the situation and when cops actually do remove victims they're often left with no reasonable access to safety or scarce supports and also typically involves the cops giving the victim a lengthy lecture about how they can "just leave" while blatantly ignoring any sound or reasonable logic and the abuser typically gets zero consequences to their actions and continue to do abuser things, typically getting worse every time cops are called to intervene (and the cops subsequently do nothing).

[@Krissyg2277]

@@SnowieShiba unfortunately know all too well or they ask the aggressor to leave and once cops leave they tend to return ( in my experience) but all sad but true they need to have train for special department idk the solution but needs to be one for sure

[@radishfest]

​@@HavianElaGoing offa my own experience and the experiences of people I've known, I think cops respond to everyone that way. It's horrifying. The general public's understanding of DV is like. Cartoonish. It's infuriating. All that ignorance actively makes it harder for people to get out alive. The way Baby Reindeer gets people to _understand what DV, stalking, and SA actually are, WHY this all matters so much_ is crucial right now. But work that personal, work that broadens the scope of empathy - that can't be churned out. That's part of the problem, I guess. The Diddy case is about to be huge tho. I'm worried for abuse survivors - people are inconsiderate about triggering material. Yesterday was not great for people with PTSD. But yeah, it might finally be time for social change. There is not a way to avoid discussing the male victims. "Just leave" being a ridiculous, cruel thing to say is lined up and ready to go after the footage from yesterday. Fingers crossed. So much depends on how the media and the public balance "queer people can do horrible things too" with "being [orientation, gender, race] doesn't mean that person represents all [orientation, gender, race]". The conspiracy theorists might be an issue, they're pretty big already. What a time to be alive. Stay strong, y'all.

[@Looshfarmer]

She is very histrionic. She also just gave not only a confession on police body cam-she gave full narration of her arrest. It’s quite impulsive, unhinged and almost pathological.

[@SaraSkyblue]

Very much gives me histrionic vibes. Even if it's just tendencies. The body cam footage is what screams it the most to me. Hopefully she can get the proper help. I know a bit about HPD but I don't know what the treatment looks like or how difficult it can be to treat, but I hope she gets to a better place.

[@dontmindme.4220]

Agree. Still her fiance was provoking a lot. He pushed her in this "golden cage" position. And then did whatever he wanted because she was addicted to the money etc. Don't know. They are both toxic af. Still I think, he started. What was the reason he fell in love with her and donated so much in the first place ? He tried to "buy" her, complaining why she is doing her job with streaming while complaining about why she streams.

[@aho5666]

⁠@@SaraSkybluewith all due respect, HPD can make you a drama-queen-attention-wh😮re, it doesn’t automatically make you a vile person. While yeah, most of B cluster ones can be pushed into questionable behaviors by their disorders, histrionics are (by my biased unprofessional opinion, but still) the ones who win the least from choosing to behave like… THAT. NPDs fear of not being perceived as the best, so pressuring the outliers into compliance is an easy way out; BPDs fear of abandonment, so poking everyone around to relieve the stress is an easy way out. Asocials are asocial. HPDs fear of being unnoticed; being an a-hole to remedy that is not easier than other options, it’s a personal choice. Basically, if “histrionic” in “histrionic a-hole” was treatable, the result would be an a-hole with lackluster performance. P. S. By mutual agreement with my therapist we’re not tackling the HPD traits cause (in my case) they don’t cause distress to anyone. But I can see how *in combination* with something else such traits may result in a feast.

[@SaraSkyblue]

@@aho5666 I'm absolutely not saying she's not an ahole or that all people with HPD are aholes. I'm just noticing tendencies. Obviously with every disorder there are people who have other issues or are just sucky people who can further stigmatize those disorders. Cluster B personality disorders being very very negatively stigmatized. So I apologize if my comment came off in a way that adds to that stigma. But my thought process was more separating HPD as a whole and more looking at her traits, which the way she acts to get the attention she's looking for is bad. I'm not saying that as a whole for all people with HPD. As you said if you treat the HPD she will still be an ahole underneath, but that doesn't reflect all people with HPD. I'm also not diagnosing anything, just noticing tendencies. She is absolutely choosing to be an ahole to get what she wants and I agree there are easier ways. I'm glad your traits aren't causing distress and you have a good therapist who seems to fit your needs and goals.

[@GirLee316]

It all feels similar to Depp/Heard trial. Toxic breeds toxic.

[@TheDlv72887]

Thank you SO much for covering this!!! It’s infuriating that she got out and immediately made a video playing the victim. Of course she had tons of support despite literally assaulting a man on camera, too. 🤦🏻‍♀️ I’m so sick of the way the media and society treat female abusers. It’s why I’m SO appreciative of those who call them out and shine light on the truth.

[@Elbi93]

When she said 'can I just pay something?' - how is no one taking that as an attempt to bribe the police???

[@emstam6598]

The cop telling the guy he could get away when he was in a moving car…. Like no shit he would have left if could but he was in a moving car, and not letting him explain the situation and the cop clearly had no idea what the situation was. So frustrating but not surprising.

[@averysspookshowspectacular6205]

Yeah, that full-on made me uncomfortable. I hope there's some kind of action about that, like the guy gets a talkin' to or something.

[@Darkfyyre]

@@averysspookshowspectacular6205 a cop getting anything more than the feeblest slap on the wrist accompanied by a knowing wink of approval? in what world? the cop could have shot all parties dead and he'd maybe get paid time off at the harshest so long as he claims "fear for his life" or similar BS

[@averysspookshowspectacular6205]

@@Darkfyyre Yeah...what can I say, I'm an optimist...

[@jeanettewilson3195]

Yeah that whole conversation made me super uncomfortable to it's like when I got arrested after my boyfriend at the time put hands on me and I never touched him but yet I went to jail because the cop told me I could just walk away I'm high I tried he's bigger than me . I had to go through all the DV classes and everything else but in the long run karma got his ass so here's open karma will get her too.

[@beanybabyrabie]

@@Darkfyyredon’t be fucking ridiculo/us.

[@bossreims3908]

Can someone please remind people like this that self defense is when you defend yourself from someone attacking you physically. Saying facts about you that you dont like doesn't make punching/slapping/kicking that person self defense. That makes it aggravated assault.

[@beanybabyrabie]

Idk many liberals today say words are violence so….

[@HavianEla]

This is a VERY important take away when violence is becoming normalized in the culture. It’s frightening.

[@renb1821]

Yes!!! Also, when it comes to self defense, while every state is a bit different, the common legal theme is that you can defend yourself with reasonable force to do so. For example, someone hits you and comes to hit you again so you shove them away and they trip/ fall and get hurt. Justified because you shoved them away to prevent you from getting assaulted again. However, for example, your partner hit you, you both go to bed, and then you shoot your sleeping partner. Highly likely it will not be justified because even though yes you were assaulted previously you were not in immediate harm when you shot them. Now, especially in intimate relationships, there's usually so much more to situations than the simple examples I gave. But just as you said you can't physically harm someone just because they said something you didn't like you also just can't go assault someone and call it self defense when they are not currently in the process of harming you or are about to harm you (i.e. have their hand in a fist starting to swing at you). Again, so much grey area but I am so sick of people claiming self defense for their violent behavior when that level of force is blatantly not necessary.

[@bagqins]

who are you referring to tho her or him?

[@alb91878]

​@@bagqinsif you're talking about this specific situation that the video is based about, then you clearly saw she was being physical with him several times and then he reacted to the physical abuse. She even admitted he didn't hit her before.

[@Ajae78]

I’ve been on a messy KZbinr drama kick lately and I noticed a theme among many of them. There is a staggering amount of these internet famous people who delusionally think that they’re A List celebrities and their minuscule fame translates to real life. It doesn’t! I’m not knocking content creators or streamers or whatever but unless you’re super young and/or perpetually online, people almost certainly don’t know you. Also, love you Swoop and I’m loving this lilac makeup.

[@HiddenDarkHM]

Honestly ngl one of the things I love about Swoop Too is just how much more fun y'all seem to be having with the editing. Like the Oniision joke, I've noticed that here and there throughout the videos and it's just always really well done, not too over the top, and fits the channel's slightly more loose aesthetic incredibly well. It livens it up and is refreshing and I really enjoy that.

[@yelhsasokolova8561]

She is exactly what I would expect a former Howard Stern show member to be like in real life

[@tesiasummers4420]

lol didn’t even make it as a Howard stern show member-idk they fired anyone

[@wendyb.9281]

As a 28-year fan of the Stern Show, I assure you that she was NOT an actual writer on the show. She was dating a writer and was trying to get herself on the show more. Her boyfriend, Benji, tried to sell Howard on the fact that Elisa was a contributor and begged for him to give her a writing credit. Howard was dismissive and basically said, “okay, whatever Benji.” She was a horrible person then and was a vapid clout chaser. She came and went very quickly. She is not a reflection of the show and had major issues even back then.

[@mpazinambao2938]

I was thinking the same!

[@johndef5075]

She wasnt an employee.

[@GonzoMusicHistory]

lol at anyone defending the Howard Stern show

[@malframrestjart6488]

I had no idea who she is until now and wow. What a mean person. Her eyes are lifeless.

[@shanna2.2.2]

I’m almost certain she’s on benzos and coke or meth in most of her vids. That’s why she’s so volatile… her nose is sooo red all the time too. I couldn’t be around her, that’s for damn sure.

[@LittleMissLion]

I feel like if your whole life is live streaming, you can't have much of an actual life and even less of a personality and identity. I would feel sorry for her if she didn't hurt people without any care.

[@lisadgingersnaps9843]

I think I'm glad I never knew of her. She's awful.

[@kristynzaishnikov1236]

38:00 I grew up in a house with mutual abuse. I didn't realize what it was as a kid, but as an adult in therapy, I realized that I had a very warped definition of love, obedience, and abuse. It wasn't until I was in my 30s that I started speaking up that they both were wrong. Didn't matter "who started it".

[@zoorenard1101]

I cant put into words how much I was craving an Onision doc by Swoop!!!! This is not drama, this is dangerous!!!!! Get him, Queen!!!!

[@bluebirds_and_bees]

I have heard he’s a really awful person but I’ve never looked into why. I’m excited to her what Swoop has to say about him.

[@bethanylamastus15]

Cruel world happy mind did a great doc on him, he’s a filth ball

[@Hopeguz3]

@@bluebirds_and_beesinabber is amazing as well.

[@Jessica_Costantini]

@@bethanylamastus15YES absolutely LOVE Madison CWHM

[@TheoRae8289]

@@bethanylamastus15 seeing him associating with andy dick is a red neon sign visible from Neptune.

[@CoffeeCatsAndMoreCats5]

Revenge p*%n is a disgusting, vile thing to do to another person. There is never any justifying it. That 20 year old girl did not make a commitment to Elisa - the guy is the one who broke the commitment, broke her trust - I hate the way society has normalised the villainisation of the "other woman". Another way women are pitted against each other (because sadly it does seem to be more common, not exclusive however, to women). Elisa Jordan just seems toxic, and this whole situation really does showcase that loud and clear.

[@cytokine_storm]

Elisa is a grown woman. They aren't "pitted" against each other. This was a setup from the start for her channel. Not all women are victims, especially Elisa.

[@CoffeeCatsAndMoreCats5]

@cytokine_storm I was talking about the revenge p*%n, which Sarah is a victim of. I at no point said that Elisa was the victim in this circumstance because she was, in fact, the perpetrator. There's no excuse for revenge p*%n, ever. And even if this was planned, showing the leaking of nude photos/videos and sexts in response to your male partner breaking his commitment on a public platform with pre-existing followers/subscribers is literally textbook normalising villainising the other woman. So many forms of media through the years have shown behaviour like this, where taking revenge on the person who did not make any commitments to you as a way of "winning", even going as far as giving it "girl power, show you're a strong independent woman" vibes.

[@paytonmarkley455]

but why does the other woman never get ANY heat?? obviously the man is in the wrong more, but she fully knew she was the other woman. i wouldn’t sent my nudes to another woman’s man and NOT expect them to be seen by other ppl bc play stupid games win stupid prizes you feel me

[@megamovieman101]

To be fair, the “other woman” IS partially to blame, unless she didn’t know about Elisa. It takes two to cheat.

[@ShawniaMarie]

Thank-you from the bottom of my heart for not showing the actual hitting!! I've been single for 22 years because of DV and SA. I almost didn't make it out and seeing DV breaks me all over again 😢I feel weak because of it, but I truly appreciate how you don't show anything 💜 This chick should be in jail for a long time for doxing people, posting the side chick's pics and info, stealing his money and phone, and who knows what else!! She is a horrible person. She's lucky her boyfriend didn't knock her out to get her to stop! His cop, really needs to find his brain: told him to walk/drive away??!!!would not stop scolding him until he apologized!!! That's victim shaming 🤬 So glad it was on camera; the boyfriend would have been arrested and he would have walked!!! Did you hear how excited the cops got when she said he strangled her?!? Cops really wanted to take the guy in🤦‍♀️

[@ankhels]

I literally *just* watched a video on this by Jaime French literally an hour ago, had never heard of Elisa before... and I'm still going to watch this one too anyway, because Swoop! ♥️

[@LH-wj2uw]

I worked in a DVSA shelter for two years-- in situations where a woman was reacting in self defense with a male aggressor, it was still very common for police to demand to know why they hadn't de-escalated the situation by walking away, etc. Women were even arrested when cops thought their response was "too aggressive."

[@SwoopToo]

Thank you so much for your insights!

[@kimielle]

Cops have a hard time knowing what to do when facing DV, not because of lack of training, but because they're also perpetrators of DVSA.

[@justingraves8649]

Howard Stern was her 1st red flag.🚩👀

[@yelhsasokolova8561]

RIGHT

[@xxzcfdxc]

Yes

[@brianmurphy250]

Dating Beni Bronk was the 2nd

[@mylenahbug3602]

The way the police officer treated to Scorro is flabbergasting.

[@heatherkeegan3148]

38:50 I was in what I called a mutually abusive relationship for years… however looking back after much therapy, it’s helped me accept and acknowledge that I was a victim of domestic violence, and what I did was in self defense/fight or flight. I do believe there are relationships that are technically mutually abusive, however I myself told myself I wasn’t a victim for YEARS because honestly it was easier then calling myself a victim, because I always viewed the word victim as synonymous to weakness, which it’s not at all. I had to retrain my perception of being a victim to someone’s abuse in order to accept it myself.

[@knitwitchpgh]

Swoop talking about band mates falling in love, saying "what was that popular band" i yell FLEETWOOD MAC and swoop says no doubt was not what i was prepared for 😂😂.

[@SwoopToo]

Hahahaha I tried!

[@thepubknight6144]

​​​@@SwoopToo Fleetwood Mac the band who made diss tracks of each other , into iconic hit songs And I love them for it They're one of my favorite bands Rip Christine McVie

[@thehauntedpineapple6851]

This was exactly the band I was thinking of!! “Sorry, my age is showing 😮” 😏😂😂

[@larry01902]

Stevie Nicks not only wrote distracks; she had the subjects perform on the tracks

[@1015SaturdayNight]

Me too lol

[@aphroditesapple4580]

Some people may not like this but, my mama always told me "No one should ever hit anyone but...If you put yourself in a man's position, you better get ready to be treated like a man." Meaning, if you hit a man first, you better get ready to be hit back. The way he reacts when she just moves her hand tells me she's hit him before. She also hit him so many times before he ever reacted and hit her back. He shouldn't have pulled her hair like that, but i guarantee if someone hits me, I'm not gonna sit there and take it. I understand losing your cool after all that. He also shouldn't have cheated. They're toxic and should've ended that relationship long ago.

[@slickmanfonzthatanti-troll]

Facts

[@NancyTigress]

I've learned from other videos, it was pretty new. She was saying 2 years but it was actually about 2 months or something.

[@ElectricRose9001]

Oh god, you unlocked some repressed memories just saying Cobra Starship! "You were a problem child~ Been grounded your whole life so now you run wild! Playing with them good girls, girl that ain't your style. You think you're hot shit ooo I love it, I love it, yeah yeah~" That was my JAM as an emo kid. 😂

[@jroko33]

I LOVE the blue hair babe butttt I am REALLY REALLY feeling the purple on you! Beautiful either way and I enjoy all your videos! Keep doing what your doing cuz I’m loving it along with all of your other followers 💋💋

[@Elyssa918]

DV Prosecutor here! In this situation we would *likely* charge Ms. Jordana - however, it's important to note that the idea of "mutual combat" is seldom actually the case. Typically, there is a primary aggressor, and someone who even if they react physically the law would consider as using self-defense. However, self-defense also has to be proportional to the level of harm that is being caused (which I do personally believe would be difficult for Zscorro in this specific situation to argue). Obviously, the specific law for various DV charges is going to be different from state to state - but that's how I personally would evaluate the case for charging purposes. DV is one of those crimes that is hard for people to even mentally prepare themselves for, so a video of the incident is going to be an INCREDIBLY powerful thing for either party to present to a jury! Great video and great analysis!

[@shannap.lawnerd125]

🤓⚖️💋🎯💯

[@museofthedamned]

Why would it be hard for Zscorro to argue that he reacted in self-defense? Genuine question, pulling a girl's hair is disrespectful but I hardly think it rises to the level of violence she was displaying with hitting him in the face so many times, it looked like she drew blood. As a chick, pulling my hair doesn't even really hurt that bad, and i'd expect someone to do that if I were punching them in the face in an attempt to get me to stop, so it seems pretty cut and dry to me. Same with pulling the car over and 'throwing her out', I suppose you could argue that he should have hopped out instead, but I think it's unrealistic to expect someone to behave perfectly in that kind of situation.

[@birdy7451]

Strange that he would have trouble arguing that. He was trapped in a moving vehicle she was in control of. He had to disable the threat to be able to leave her physical space. At least morally, to me, his actions seem perfectly defensible. But I recognize the law runs by a different standard.

[@itsmejejune128]

Yeah I agree I don't see how it would be hard to prove self defense. She was driving so he couldn't walk away. She was punching him in the face and he told her to stop. He then told her if she didn't stop he would react. After ALL that he finally....pulled her hair. Which is literally the most mild way to physically get someone to stop physically abusing you I can think of.

[@moleculeman27]

In the UK, not only is revenge p a criminal offence, but Elisa could very easily been charged with reckless endangerment for the doxxing. And that is a custodial sentence.

[@annjepsen1621]

Same in the US

[@averysspookshowspectacular6205]

Doxxing really needs to be illegal everywhere.

[@beanybabyrabie]

Yet in the UK someone that breaks into your home with a weapon to rob you can twist their ankle and sue you and pedos get 2 months

[@beanybabyrabie]

@@averysspookshowspectacular6205the issue is that it’s usually public info.

[@averysspookshowspectacular6205]

@@beanybabyrabie That is a good point. Maybe some specific language like the unconsensual mass spreading of someone's personal identifying information or something.

[@o0BlackSand0o]

I think the fact that she's clearly not sorry, it shows that even if they are both abusive to each other, she is an aggressor.

[@PotatoPothado]

39:00 ish discussion I saw the full clip, and he had her by her hair after she hit him TWICE. As far as being reactive, that guy showed a LOT of restraint. Edit: She RAN out of that car. He did not push her. Edit 2: What does it matter who started the toxicity in a toxic relationship? She assaulted him multiple times on camera. Would we be doing a forensic deep dive into this if Elisa was a man? MORE EDIT 😯 So if he was a passenger in a car, I can see how scary that would be for him. There is no where to go. Some would say, “What choice did he have?” and I think he COULD have handled it BETTER, but that was an intense situation and sometimes you gotta just act. If it was a woman, this conversation wouldn’t be occurring. I say this not as an incel or a man, but a woman who has had her share of SA and DV. We are all human.

[@WhitneyReacts]

“I played with a band for like…5 seconds who had like…2 hits so yeah, I’m kind of famous…”

[@justkiddin84]

But she has 20k followers!!

[@WhitneyReacts]

@@justkiddin84 lol I have more followers than her lol

[@justkiddin84]

@@WhitneyReacts Yes ma’am you do!😄✌️

[@torglesnarfprime]

The way the cops talk to the dude? Exhausting, sad, indicating the Problem of expectation of masculinity.

[@marshymoos]

The way I see it is, the punishment has to fit the crime. Cheating is horrible for a lot of reasons and so is hurling insults at your partner, but does it justify being repeatedly hit? Especially in a car, where you're both trapped in a confined space? I really don't think so. I 100% agree with you about the role reversal; if it were a man beating a woman for the same reasons as Elisa, then I think people would immediately clock it as a disturbing overreaction.

[@caem77]

tysm for always having an intuitive and careful approach to analyzing viral situations like this

[@aliciaperez3249]

I'm a dv victim/survivor and had an incident in a car a few times. It's scary and frightening and esp in broad daylight when you're screaming for help and you get picked up and forced back into the car.

[@HavianEla]

I feel, though probably not nearly to the same extent. The entire time you’re battling with yourself whether it’s safer to jump out of a moving car or not…

[@Marauder99991]

These kind of narcissistic tendencies, entitlement and "rearranging" of memories can be a symptom of serious mental health issues like borderline personality disorder or sociopathy. She doesn't need couples therapy, she needs intense one on one therapy. Allegedly. I mean, word on the street is she does.

[@HavianEla]

As someone with family going through that, can you elaborate a bit on the “‘rearranging’ of memories” thing? I have a sibling who seems very convinced things have happened before that never once happened. If she were just talking about her experiences, I would think I just wasn’t there, but she’ll recall memories with me saying and doing things I absolutely did not…. It’s really, really terrifying and I can’t ever get her to understand I didn’t do or say these things. And yet, at the same time, she doesn’t recall some of the (borderline abusive) things she did to me. Like, she claims to have no recollection of beating me to near unconsciousness, but whenever the moment is brought up, she says the incident hurts her more than it ever hurt me. Couldn’t breathe for awhile and it HURT to breathe for, like, a week, but sure…

[@Marauder99991]

@@HavianEla As I understand it, I'm not a mental health pro but I have talked to my pro's about it, some people with certain issues will subconsciously 'fix' their memories to keep them from being the abuser and to keep them the victim. I dated a woman once who would change things to match her feelings, for example. If I calmly told her something she didn't like she would turn it into me yelling at her and genuinely believe I had. I have a relative who even when confronted with video of their bad behaviour would deny it and claim it was fake (way before deep fakes). Unfortunately there's not much to be done that I'm aware of, if you can't get someone to understand they're the problem then it can't be fixed. Sorry to hear about your family member, I hope things get better and they get the help they need.

[@HavianEla]

@@Marauder99991 I can’t tell you enough how much that helped me, as scarce the info was. I love my sibling so much, and I’m trying so hard to help them… I just can’t be hurt by them anymore, it’s too much. I can’t run, I have no where to go, so the best I can do is TRY and help… TRY to find answers… thank you so much.

[@Marauder99991]

@@HavianEla *internet hugs* I wish you the best, I know how hard this stuff is. At the risk of being presumptuous I'd like to suggest therapy. If you can get your sibling into it, great, but not your job, but for you. It can be amazing if you find the right therapist and you don't need to be 'crazy' to do it. Just having someone neutral to talk to about things can be a life changer. Good luck, hope things get better!

[@Jaymtje]

I got this video on my recommended and I love how you take us through the story, thank you for this great video :)

[@gliitterlance]

I'm the Cobra Starship fan who went "wait that's not Vicky!!" 😂 would never have guessed they were a part of this story lmao

[@NintendosTrickster]

The thing with self defense is that when you're in a situation that needs it you don't often have time to consider all the options and worry about going too far, you just do what you need to get out of a dangerous situation, I believe when self defense goes too far is when it continues after you're out of that dangerous situation, not how violent it is. (and even then sometimes arguments could be made, continuing to hit an attacker after they're unconscious because you're still fearing for your life/safety, and you're not in a state of mind to understand that the immediate danger is over.(though that's not relevant in this case.)) In this case, he was being hit by the driver of a moving vehicle, she hit him so hard he was red in the face, he gave her a verbal warning to stop, and she didn't, he stopped the moment she was out of the car, so, as violent as his reaction was, I do still see it as valid self defense...

[@thepubknight6144]

I agree she also broke his nose , she would of kept unless he defended himself

[@beanybabyrabie]

So you support the older man that was mobbed by drunk and violent young adults that stabbed multiple of them to stop the attack on him right

[@taylorschwab5374]

100% yes. They both aren’t in the right, but he was literally defending himself from someone who has obviously hit him before this because of way he flinched.

[@hchorrorshow]

Before I say this, Scorro didn't deserve to be hit - AT ALL, there is no excuse. Having watched video of the stream and some other videos still online, they both seem like aggressive, or people quick to reactions that are maybe outside of what is reasonable to the situation. The may have their own individual issues going on - this relationship seemed horrendously toxic. I agree this was self defence, but outside of this specific situation (I'm not a mental health professional so just my opinion), I think they likely both need some help or to talk to someone. Still, Elisa is in the wrong and absolutely deserved to be charged.

[@Hiiiiiiiiieeee]

@@hchorrorshow scorro was giving me the vibes of an been abused spouse. He’s either really good at acting when he knows she’s on live stream or she’s been violent towards him a lot more than we’ve seen.

[@blakelay]

Elisa Jordana gives me the vibes of a person who has always been able to get away with bad behavior because is very pretty and plays dumb. She didn't get told no enough in her childhood imo. I think, no matter what, if you hit someone who isn't actively threatening you, like walking aggressively towards you or has a weapon, first you are the aggressor.

[@Hiiiiiiiiieeee]

YUP. And she’s finally gone too far, plus she’s getting older and the cute and young shtick is fading. She probably got away with this kind of behavior a lot more when she was in her 20s and it made her grow into the monster we see today.

[@Jackson_Roch]

Swooper Luv… thank you for being an exceptional teacher of perspective. I learn a lot from your esteemed style of commentary. I’m learning about personality disorders and content like yours assists me greatly. You rock, babe! ❤❤❤

[@greenday61892]

"I'm like sobbing right now" she says incredibly calmly.

[@laurachisnall]

LET'S GO!!! IT'S SWOOP O'CLOCK

[@hollymcdowell2865]

YYYEEEESSSSSS!!!!!

[@skeletal-decay]

When it comes to when is violence reactionary, I think it would be harmful to draw a hard line. Every situation is different, everyone's healing follows a different timeline. If we draw a hardline, then we're putting demands on healing and processing trauma without considering the nuances of the situation.

[@LiLLaLa707]

The fact that the gentleman flinches when she quickly moves tells me a whole lot about what happens behind closed doors. Her entire demeanor is aggressive, overbearing and dismissive.

[@Norigirl]

You are my new favourite channel ♥️

[@stormyskyz4251]

“What I portrayed in the livestream” Portrayed …. This type of language is her showing the public “accountability” for the assault while simultaneously being a victim and putting space between herself and her actions.

[@justkiddin84]

Narcissistic word salad and gaslighting,

[@maddy93282]

Wow cantankerous was truly the perfect word to describe Elisa and this situation as a whole. On the topic of reactionary violence, a therapist once told me that sometimes our brains don't see a good or "healthy" reaction as an option anymore when an interaction has escalated to extremes. She also stressed the importance of not viewing who you were in an abusive relationship as evidence of who you are moving forward.

[@JessicaSueO]

Self-defense is a very slippery slope. I work in a knife shop and we get a lot of people who come in for a self-defense knife. We *always* tell people to go with pepper spray or a stun gun instead because laws are very tricky. We had a man who had only one arm (his other arm was paralyzed) come in because he purchased a knife from us and someone was threatening him in a parking garage so he pulled it out to scare him off. The guy ran off but also called the cops, and the guy who was being threatened with violence and could not defend himself in any other way was given a fine. It's all down to interpretation

[@jennifercutton7516]

I love you swoop. Thanks for your content

[@potatopirate5557]

Some people clearly have "abusive personality disorder" written on their forehead like a warning scrawled in blood on the wall of an abandoned tomb.

[@MackyAttack]

Most people who "fear for their life" aren't the first one to strike, especially how she did it

[@ravens-crypt]

usually they are one’s trying to get the hell out of that situation

[@MackyAttack]

@@ravens-crypt exactly!

[@sunnymeadow575]

Stunningly beautiful look! Love the hair!

[@mariajuliamelo7232]

thank you so much for always being mindful of graphic content and language in your videos. it really makes it easier to keep up with some topics without being caught off guard

[@potatopirate5557]

I have never heard anybody use, "that's a Brooklyn truck driver" as an insult. WTF?!😅🤣

[@mininjas]

Seriously. But him saying "get a real job" was hilarious

[@beanybabyrabie]

Says a lot about how she feels about blue collar workers. HUGE industry for middle aged men and even younger men. 🤨

[@beanybabyrabie]

How will she get her avocado toast and fake vitamins and hairspray if those truckers don’t exist? LOL

[@HavianEla]

@@beanybabyrabieExactly… too many folks look down on blue collar workers and it makes me lose respect for those nasty folks so fast. I don’t care how Joe the trash guy smells, he’s a better contribution to society than these nasty people. Blue collar workers are a foundation of society.

[@gokuxsephiroth4505]

He doing much more for society than her as a Brooklyn truck driver lmao

[@kristensarai]

Okay but that lavender hair looks absolutely stunning on you Swoop!

[@sapphirecamui6447]

This is the first time i stumble upon your channel and i want to say that i like your look, and I'm surprised to see that a person can look good with so many hair colors ❤I also like how you matched your lipstick to your hair ❤❤❤

[@youthanasia8767]

Hello Queen 👸 thank you for another video already after Jo Jo. I appreciate your hard work and please keep taking care of yourself. You seem so nice and your smile is brave. I’m going through a lot of the same physical pain and on disability at an early age due to my body just being wrecked like I’m 85. You inspire me to wake up and try to make every day a good one.

[@ladyvictoria820]

47:34 Police LOVE to victim blame, I've noticed.

[@mijiah]

it's crazy that THIS is what it took for her to lose her career and any sense of credibility. like… she has always been a horrible person.

[@kimrhines3753]

"Unhingery" is a great word. Bravo to great content. Insightful and complete. Thanks!

[@ldpsvede]

Sending you love and support, Swoop. ❤

[@JuanitaAristizabal]

The way she said on her second statement that she didn't hit him reminds me of how Amber Heard said to Johnny Depp she didn't punch him, she hit him. SMH

[@tmcbgrrl0074]

just heard (lol) AH has moved to Spain and changed her name. bye grrl bye

[@xthefordx]

@@tmcbgrrl0074 She did that a long time ago to run away from debt from her lawyers which she still has a case open against her (all in court docs) As a portuguese, I get sick to the thought of her so near with a baby in her care. She literally used and abused kids but okay. Also, interesting fact: the house she's using is of a spanish politician whose in bad waters for being corruped af and stealing millions lol guess they're friends.

[@summerchild_]

Amber is a victim of reactionary violence and you are but a sad minion in a campaign with millions of dollars behind it to slander her and paint him as a victim. There are court-approved text messages of him fantasizing about killing her and raping her course.

[@coriroo9323]

Honestly, I think her backtracking is a DARVO. She knows that video shows he did not wrap his hands around her neck, yet she keeps saying it. Why? Because it makes her sound more vulnerable and victimized. As a female survivor of DV, I honestly find it insulting and vile that she is trying to claim that to get sympathy and lessen her own crimes. She attacked him, over and over, and even when he warned her, she continued. Was he emotionally abusive? Absolutely. Was his counter attack justified? Maybe, maybe not. But what she did was DV, for sure, and I don't like her riding on the backs of other victims to diminish it. It's icky, and it muddies the waters for future victims.

[@Hiiiiiiiiieeee]

You would call what he did a counter attack? I think a lot of us would call it self-defense. Whether or not they had been going back-and-forth verbally or not, he hadn’t been physical with her and he told her to stop hitting him. I don’t see a world where anybody should just allow themselves to continue to be assaulted by someone, regardless of their age, gender, or any other things. I think he made a mistake even getting in the vehicle in the first place when he knew how volatile the situation was, but that’s neither here nor there. At the end of the day, this woman is clearly a narcissistic sociopath that needs therapy and medication.

[@coriroo9323]

@Hiiiiiiiiieeee I agree that she was definitely the aggressor here, but I waver on if that's self-defense. Self-defense is not necessarily just violence, it could also be moving yourself away, verbal, etc. He got into the car after she had already tried to hit him. He had plenty of chance to disengage and get away. Additionally, self-defense is usually motivated by fear. Was he afraid when he did this, or was he angry, making it more like revenge? I'm not sure, honestly. I'm not in his head, I know nothing of his past experiences, their relationship, etc. So when I chose the term counter-attack, I did so carefully. It is meant to impart a neutral term for return of violence. I'm not making assumptions on what he did, I am unsure of how I feel about it. I don't have enough information. What I do think is that she's 100% abusive in this scenario, and it was her actions alone that I chose to comment on for this reason. Hope this helps to clarify my position.

[@Imadairymilkcow]

I love this hair color on you its sooo pretty 💜

[@richardswain3855]

cant wait for the onion vid, love your work swoop and would love your take

[@gemini.jewelz]

Berating someone, on video, is their kink... this will not end well. Ever.

[@HobieInTheBox]

Wtf dude it's not THEIR "kink". She's emotionally abusive, that's it.

[@gemini.jewelz]

@@HobieInTheBox They both seems to playing with fire 🔥

[@janewayforever]

What do I smell like? Exhaustion, and korma sauce. The perfume of a working mum coming off a busy day. 😂😭😂

[@babybluebells]

When she asked that question I shouted "ASS! SWOOP, I SMELL LIKE ASS! I'M ABOUT TO JUMP IN THE TUB OK?" 😂 The joys of being a working mother ☺️

[@ville__]

Don't translate... भवतः हृदयस्य धड़कनं कतिपयेषु घण्टेषु स्थगयिष्यति, अस्य शापस्य मुक्तिं प्राप्तुं एकमात्रं मार्ग मम चैनलस्य सदस्यतां कुर्वन्तु

[@SendMeToTheVoid]

​@ville__ dude I'm always s&$cidal so that isn't a threat😂. Fingers crossed I'm entering the void

[@impposter560]

Pecan pie and paint. They do NOT pair well🥲

[@KoukiBuri]

I smell like beeeeeeeef Ok...I jest. I smell like bacon and mocha coffee

[@chall3ng3r-ff42]

Side note from the beautifully throughout doc, the outfit is giving clawdeen wolf and I love it❤❤

[@bcpr9812]

"I've proposed to four people in my life, so, I'd say I'm pretty into that commitment thing" speaks for itself.

[@ArielleLavecchia]

Looks like she manipulates by her ditziness in the presence of people in authority. Because that's the behaviour that made her most successful. Outside of that she is belligerent and treats everyone as subhuman because she feels entitled to do so, as in her head she is better than everyone else. She's a bully.

[@ladypseudo6096]

I do smell like leftover pizza. I had leftover pizza for breakfast. Cold, too. Like the heathen that I am.

[@beanybabyrabie]

Ewwww

[@severelyunhinged]

Swoop I love the lavender on you! Gorgeous as always.... keep up the amazing content ❤

[@annavictrix]

Swoop, just gotta say your skin looks FANTASTIC here OMG absolutely glowing fr fr

[@roberta_redactedF]

Why do these people think we want to watch them for hours at a time? And who are the people who are watching these losers for hours at a time? Jesus Christ!

[@mental_r0bot459]

He never should have gotten into that car. She never should have hit him. The police should have offered him an escort to his stuff.

[@Cutiemuffinz]

Yeah, she probably should have been arrested for theft… 🫣

[@averysspookshowspectacular6205]

Saying he shouldn't have gotten into the car sounds a tad victim blamey. Getting into a car with an angry person is not giving them liscence to hit you, just like going into someone's bedroom doesn't give them license to have sex with you (this one being from a personal experience, so I hope you see where I'm coming from).

[@cozy.oak_]

Watching the police officer with Scorro eerily reminded me of how Gabby Petito was treated in Southern Utah by their police. I dunno.. It just makes me think a lot about these types of situations.

[@fawdialum258]

This is the first time I'm watching you and I gotta say, your makeup is on fleek! Big fan of that.