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@danielsantiagourtado343018 күн бұрын
Love your content ❤❤❤❤❤
@norupologies592618 күн бұрын
Also, that top is fire 😂🔥
@sweetsbwrry18 күн бұрын
Hiii Swoop love your videos 🤍✨️
@mostlyvoid.partiallystars18 күн бұрын
I love that main channel swoop does the ad xD
@KickAssQuinn18 күн бұрын
Swoop can you please cover the accusations of Melanie Martinez. I need someone I can trust to do a deep dive on it. Edit: there is so much evidence on both sides and I wanna know what you think of Melanie’s statement back in 2017. The accusations are of SA
@melaniemagolan224118 күн бұрын
I was a teen on the beach when one of my boobs slipped out of my bikini. It was the first (and last) time I ever wore a string bikini, so I was unused to the challenge of keeping the bits in place. A woman I didn't know suddenly appeared directly next to me, like REALLY close, and I was like "um, hi?" She said as quietly as she could "your top. Fix your top." As I was fixing my top, I realized why she was standing so close - there was a group of skeezy dudes a little further down the beach who had been ogling me, and she was blocking me from their view, staring them down while she alerted me to the problem. In my mind, THAT is how you respond when you think a minor's body is exposed.
@swedishmeatball438218 күн бұрын
Or anyone's body. I am a middle school teacher and I was in my mid thirties when I had an EXTREMELY ebarrassing wardrobe malfunction. I had just been on a trip where the other passengers stuffed their luggage on top of mine in the trunk during the car rid ehome. They had a bottle of wine in their luggage that broke and destroyed EVERYTHING in my bad; I couldn't not get the stains out and had to throw away several thousands worth of clothing. The culprits refused to reimbursed me. Anyway, as a result I was short on clothes on had to dig into a pile of discarded clothes in poor condition (it was difficult to get times in at thecomplez' laundry room and some asshat had thrown away several loads of my clothes the previous time I did laundry). I had ordered new clothe sbut they wouldn't be arriving for a few more days. So, I was dressed in a very old skirt and as I walking down this corridor filled with kids aged 12- 16 I suddenly felt how the elastic around the waist snapped. Two seconds later the elastic in my panties decide dthat they also had had enough and there I was, with my panties and skirt on the ground and my naked ass and well, front, on display. I completely froze from embarrassment. This was almost 20 years ago - today I would have gone viral as someone surely would have picked up their phone and filmed the funny video of the fat teacher who dropped her clothes har har - but for some weird reason only two 13 year girls noticed what happened out of the probably 80+ students. They were by my side within milliseconds; one in front of me and the other behind, blocking me from view as they helped me get my clothes back on and comforted me. I am eternally grateful for those two angels. And yes, the skirt and panties went straight in the trash when I came home. That school for whatever reason was were all my worst experiences as a teacher took place; I had worked there a few years previously when I went to work with food poisoning. It's a long story but my students were freaking out over the exam I had scheduled for that day and I HAD to be there to comfort them. Bwaha. We had just started the the exam when my students informed me that my face was green. And then I became violently ill and puked all over the room. Truly horrendous, but the kids were very sweet. They did fine at the exam too.
@uniraffesaur18 күн бұрын
Yep; she was a queen for that.
@UrsulaZA17 күн бұрын
Had a teacher do the same with my school skirt - gone to the bathroom and my skirt got stuck to my skipants/inner short (what I wore under my school skirt like sport skirts too) - HE pulled me aside and softly told me that I should fix my skirt. I didn’t feel uncomfortable and he handled it very professionally. No unnecessary comments or drama, just assistance.
@fnzypnts17 күн бұрын
Amen. What a lovely lady!
@Dream_of_Duckie17 күн бұрын
@@swedishmeatball4382this made me tear up that is so sweet of them I’m so glad they helped make that experience less traumatizing for you
@chaotic_stupid939418 күн бұрын
"I got a standing ovation from everyone" I never thought I'd hear someone basically say "and everyone clapped" in real life, unironically 😭
@rebeccamueller879018 күн бұрын
Her story changes more than anything I've ever seen 😂
@BabetteDaniels18 күн бұрын
I cringed so hard I fully shrimp'd on the ground 🍤
@mage143918 күн бұрын
@@BabetteDaniels I call that pill-bugging. And same. 🤣
@vcutler473518 күн бұрын
I had to sit down at that part I had never thought anyone would ever actually say that aloud seriously.
@samariamccord430218 күн бұрын
That woman is fully Deranged
@ladygaladriel4414 күн бұрын
When I was 20 I had a woman in a grocery store aisle call me a slut for the shorts I was wearing. I just remember everyone else in the grocery aisle staring at me as she berated me. She told me my mom must have raised me wrong and I needed to find Jesus. I was mortified and she only left after her daughter begged her to stop. I started crying and then this other sweet woman came up and said “Honey, don’t listen to her. You can’t fix stupid. You look just fine.” And she hugged me. I think about that woman sometimes and I hope she’s doing well.
@Splat6549 күн бұрын
I always was terrified of looking "slutty" so i dressed as a boy my whole teenage years. But one time my mom bought me a beautiful LONG dress. I guess it was a little coctail like dress but its gorgeous, even retro looking. Well, the first time i ever put the dress on, i was accused by an old woman, my friend's grandma, that i want to get laid with old men. I was like...15?? 16?? Like wtf. She just didn't like the idea that we were going to the historical viking festival. She didn't just insult a child, calling me a whore, but she also ruined my friendship with that girl, because i was deeply hurt that my friend did not stood up for me. Me and my new best friend now overcompensating that lost time at 25 by dressing up like disney princesses. Cottagecore style
@PaulaJones-zu8jx9 күн бұрын
I'm a Christian. That woman who came up to you in the end acted more like Jesus than the Karen who called you a horrible name. We are not called to insult random people in the grocery store. Sometimes people will put others down to make themselves feel better and it's not right.
@spiderfart4209 күн бұрын
You should've asked her why she's looking at your ass so much in the first place. If she aint gay then she can stop staring.
@rocketbilly6 күн бұрын
I had my neighbor pull that on me a week ago and I'm 33, but I'm short and I guess people think I'm younger than I am. It was like, 100 degrees out. I was in a basic af spaghetti strap top with a sports bra on underneath it and basic af jean shorts. Like, basic as hell summer clothing? "You shouldn't dress so SLUTTY, young lady." Told her that sounds like a personal problem for her, not me to worry about. I'm gonna let my dog start pooping in her yard to be petty.
@2ndperky5 күн бұрын
I'm glad there's still some good in this fucked up world. And what does she mean you need to find Jesus??? That woman who comforted you, she was closer to Jesus than the prude who insulted you ironically. I promise you, Heaven does not have a dress code. There was nothing immoral about how you were dressed, but it's extremely immoral to call a random stranger a slut in public. Why is it always the hyper religious ones who end up being the biggest sinners?
@EffSharp18 күн бұрын
Can you imagine calling the police because “the skirts were so short”? This woman still has no insight into how wrong she is.
@summer-lilacsautumn-lilacs321918 күн бұрын
I can only imagine someone calling 911 for this! I'd probably start laughing while she was telling her story.
@Vi_Vi_118 күн бұрын
I feel like it's actually so ridiculous that she should get in trouble for wasting 911's time
@SocksWithSandalsEnjoyer18 күн бұрын
@@Vi_Vi_1 I think you CAN get in trouble for calling 911 for the wrong reasons-- I'm pretty sure there's even a money fine! All deserved, ofc.
@Tw0Dots18 күн бұрын
@@Vi_Vi_1this is worded in a why that i thought you were defending her for a sec😂
@Splatoon_Kirby18 күн бұрын
Worse is she didn't say police but CPS! They're not going to help in any way.
@anime17love18 күн бұрын
That dispatch person was literally falling asleep during that whole deal and then went “so… you committed a crime?”
@thebilliexojean15 күн бұрын
LMAO 😂 facts
@LunarEleven15 күн бұрын
Reminds me of the classic episode of Cops where the police respond to a call from a woman FURIOUSLY reporting that she was sold a chunk of plaster as crack cocaine 😂 at least SHE had drug addiction to blame, this Karen's brain is just naturally addled and there's no rehabilitation for that.
@tittosks14 күн бұрын
Reminder me of a famous video on my country,a woman was getting arrested and screaming "call the police" for the cops lmao
@solus868511 күн бұрын
So real tbh
@hotpinkcrayolas11 күн бұрын
Honestly, award to that guy for not taking any shit from her x
@kayla6877916 күн бұрын
It made me laugh when the police officer said "Uhm...we can talk about that later I guess" to her saying that when she pulled the skirt down she touched the skirt not her. You could tell he was like I do not have the time, energy or patience to explain to this grown woman why pulling down someone's skirt is wrong.
@BwooHuraca16 күн бұрын
"I didn't touch her, I just reached both hands up under her skirt!"
@Iquey13 күн бұрын
He is rehearsing in his head how he's gonna explain to her that she's gonna potentially have a sex offense mark on her in a registry. 🙃
@IJustAteYourGrapesBro6 күн бұрын
No... he's not letting her divulge a bunch of extra information until they can read her her rights about it.... She's now locked part of the story in, and they want to get that full confession so that their job is super easy. She just admitted to the crime, and instead of telling her that, he disarms her by making it seem innocuous, meanwhile, she just admitted to the crime...
@kvbstudios31618 күн бұрын
I was a teen in a bikini with a pair of ripped jean shorts at the lake and some woman yelled at me for “flaunting my body” in front of her husband. She got really mad when I told her that he should probably not be staring at underage girls at the lake, and maybe she shouldn’t bring him to the lake of he can’t not stare at children in swimsuits.
@jocelynsmyth660417 күн бұрын
That's such a weird thing for an adult woman to say too, especially at a place where you expect people to be in swimsuits 😅 that man probably didn't even notice lmao
@kvbstudios31617 күн бұрын
@@jocelynsmyth6604 I remember him trying to hide in embarassment.
@felinemoonchild17 күн бұрын
This is actually what I think happened. I think Ida's bf was checking the girls out, Ida saw and got mad, did what she did. It's ridiculous when a woman is mad at the object of her man's eye but not at her man for having wandering eyes at women who look underage.
@mrouschkateer17 күн бұрын
@@felinemoonchild Same! She got jealous!
@xchrysantha17 күн бұрын
This as fuck, and it's infuriating. Same with people who scorn the side piece and not the cheater. Like don't matter how fucked up the side piece was for getting involved, YOUR PARTNER LIED TO YOU. HOW IS THAT NOT WORSE.
@falloutsheppy882318 күн бұрын
I will never understand how grown adults can say shite like "you're probably underage" then still proceed to put hands on them. Like congrats, you're assaulting what you assume is a child. WTF
@averysspookshowspectacular620518 күн бұрын
I cringed so hard every time she said that. Both because it's embarrassing for her, but also because it's gross.
@daphne1012018 күн бұрын
Right? Disgusting.
@witchy9021018 күн бұрын
They probably think because it's a child they can somehow control them
@MsSPrescott118 күн бұрын
Right!!!!! Like does that suddenly make it more ok because they’re potentially underage????? BARF
@Kayla-rd5jd18 күн бұрын
too many adults have this weird idea that it’s okay to place hands on children if it’s in the name of “discipline”. typically it’s their own kids, family members, friends kids but that weird idea definitely exists in some weird individuals esp older ones who were taught it’s normal to be aggressive or even sometimes violent to discipline kids. it’s so wild to me, you shouldn’t place hands on anyone in that manner (bc mature adults don’t deal with things this way and escalate things duh) but esp not someone who you think is a kid
@HighAsHeckPriestess12 күн бұрын
She SA'd that girl, and then called the cops basically screaming "she was asking for it cuz of her skirt" Earth is ratchet, bro😂
@jello483518 күн бұрын
Lots of people are commenting things like "Why would you think you can touch a child!" but I think that's WHY she thought this behavior was acceptable. Our society doesn't consider children, including teens, to have any bodily autonomy at all. As far as this woman was concerned, she had every right to touch this person BECAUSE she believed she was a minor. She, the adult in the situation, was allowed to reprimand this person in a physical way because she was the authority figure between the two, and due to her youth, the victim deserved zero dignity. It's sick.
@norawade812718 күн бұрын
This is it exactly! If that had been an obviously adult woman she'd have been too scared to even speak. That's also why she kept calling them "little"
@Voodoofairy8818 күн бұрын
Exactly!!
@Air_Serpent18 күн бұрын
Definitely with older women. They think that every young girl is their catholic school student that they must correct.
@tcf_iceland18 күн бұрын
Oooh great point!
@kaymarie485118 күн бұрын
This this this!! Great point tbh
@secretzelda719817 күн бұрын
As a retired CPS investigator, I don't think Ida realizes a call to CPS would be against her not the teen girls. Ida is the one responsible for his care not the girls. So the question becomes, if it was so questionable for him to be around the girls, why did she allow her son to remain in that situation?
@dangerxbadger230013 күн бұрын
It wasn't even her son!! It was supposedly some random dude waiting next to her's son. This random father supposedly was the one who apparently said, "Thank God you did that bc if I did it would be sexual harassment". 😂😂😂 I'm gonna take a wild guess that this man and child are fictional.
@IamusTheFox11 күн бұрын
Thank you. I was so confused why she said she'd call cps. Didn't click that she thought it would do.
@woolbender16 күн бұрын
65yrs young female here, let the young peeps do their thing, I wore mini skirts in the late 60s 😊 not popular with older generation, it is what it is. Putting hands and public shaming that's out of order 😡. She's lucky she didn't get slapped tbh. 🙏❤️
@XXXXXXXXXXXXDDDDDDDDDDD8 күн бұрын
We love cool silly ppl who aren't mean
@Aperson110283 күн бұрын
Mhm I’m a teen but I feel the same way cause even if I don’t wear miniskirts my friends do and I don’t get why people get so upset if something is showing just tell them so they can fix it lol
@Fiberedfolios18 күн бұрын
M’y skirt was caught in my bag once and my ass was out in the grocery store, a nice man with his baby came up to me, apologized for noticing & then told me he thought k might like to know. I was MORTIFIED but soooo thankful he told me!
@laurenwilson938318 күн бұрын
That's so nice. I has an opposite experience, wearing loose pair of shorts, didn't notice they had ridden all the way up, some lady started screaming at me that "her husband and children are in this store" like lady, I didn't know
@shaylevene675418 күн бұрын
This is the route to go, I've done this a few times to girls before, just going over to them and lowly mentioning their skirt is being hiked up by their bag. I always think that I'd want people to tell me so I'll let folks know as well
@Fiberedfolios18 күн бұрын
@@laurenwilson9383 yup cause we totally stop before entering a store, Jack up our bottoms and waltz in the store SPECIFICALLY to scare your family ma’am 🤦🏼♀️ so sorry they were like that!
@Fiberedfolios18 күн бұрын
@@shaylevene6754 he looked so guilty for noticing too kept apologizing that he didn’t mean to look. I’m like no my dude, you saved me about 30m of shameful looks hahaha. I was very grateful!
@_SunscreenQueen_18 күн бұрын
I love that. Ite heartening to hear a man, without being sexual or creepy, let a woman know so OTHER MEN don’t be creepy. We need more men like that
@katla_phc17 күн бұрын
Even if the victim had her skirt riding up so far that she was doing a Winnie the Pooh cosplay, the only appropriate action would be for someone to say “hey your skirt is riding up a bit, you should adjust that”
@castaway285017 күн бұрын
not winnie the pooh 😭
@natty_274712 күн бұрын
no literally or tell the manager to kick them out
@lnd.ventra516211 күн бұрын
NOT WINNIE 😂
@solus868511 күн бұрын
Or, y'know, just look away lmao
@malory144411 күн бұрын
@@solus8685 no, people should wear pants in public. If they somehow aren’t aware I’m sure they will want someone to tell them.
@e.a.spikol622916 күн бұрын
I love how aware younger generations are about boundaries and inappropriate behaviour from adults. When I was a teen, we'd have been too intimidated to say anything.
@lbec94872 күн бұрын
I’m 50 and in awe of how they stood up to her. You’re right. I would’ve been scared as a kid to say anything.
@strawberryskygirl4418 күн бұрын
imagine being a person who minds everybody else's business about what they're wearing because you literally have nothing better to do with your life 😭
@nevergiveup593918 күн бұрын
Why are we here in this life? Why do we die? What will happen to us after death?
@BB-tq4mm18 күн бұрын
Its cause her bf was checking them out and she was jealous af
@AL-fl4jk18 күн бұрын
Have you been paying to the US election at all? 😂 about 50% of America apparently thinks it’s ok
@tomtommertje18 күн бұрын
I always get a little jealous about the amount of free time and mental headspace these Karens have, to mind everyone else’s business. This one went sp far over the line, whole new level of insanity.
@FabiolaRVela18 күн бұрын
Super pathetic 😂
@mango_jelly12618 күн бұрын
What ever happened to quietly telling people "i can see your underwear, i can cover you while you go to the bathroom" As governement workers we are told "we have fired people for the dumbest shit. Dont do anything stupid you dont want to end up on the news"
@dx461818 күн бұрын
Uhhh… but why would you even comment on her skirt and whether or not you can see her underwear AT ALL though? Regardless of your job, you have no right to walk up to a random woman on the street (or in a cafe/school/mall/wherever), let alone a young girl, and criticize her clothing, even if her literal @ss cheeks are out in the wind. There’s this thing called minding your own damn business, and it’s free. In this case, it’s very clear that the girl wearing the skirt knew very well what it looked like on her and how short it was (it wasn’t even that short, dear god), so this was not some sort of wardrobe malfunction that she could have appreciated being made aware of. She was just wearing a short skirt, get over it. Your idea/suggestion of walking up to an innocent young girl - who, btw, WAS minding her own business and simply existing in her body - and telling her that you can see her underwear and that you think she needs to change her outfit while you “cover her” is f!cking disgusting. You’re almost as bad as this psycho Karen! Maybe stop staring at other women’s @sses, b00bs, etc., then you won’t be so bothered by the sight of their bodies or general appearance that you feel the urge to bother innocent women with your unwanted and unwelcome feedback & comments on their bodies, clothes, or appearance in general. I know, what a wild thought, right? 🙄
@elaexplorer18 күн бұрын
She couldn't even see the underwear. The young woman was wearing shorts under her skirt.
@Klinkertinlegs18 күн бұрын
They must have forgot that warning during her orientation. 😂
@Emily-js3un18 күн бұрын
This! I saw a lady at a car show with her ass and panties showing and my first thought was “oh my gosh I hope she knows” and seconds later realized “No, it’s intentional”. And you know what I did? Moved on with my life cause it’s none of my business.
@vcutler473518 күн бұрын
People like her are the reason the harassment training is required every year because the lessons just don't seem to stick with some folks.
@LadyValhalla16 күн бұрын
Also, the way she says "a bunch of little 18, 19 and 20 year olds" - so, adults?? I reckon Karen's boyfriend glanced in the direction of the beautiful young ladies and Karen went nuts... Karen makes it seem personal!! 😂
@angelah.81018 күн бұрын
And honestly, this lady was more worried about her boyfriend looking at another woman than the young woman being a minor and the way she was dressed.
@ryannbates17 күн бұрын
Exactly! I felt like it was rooted in jealousy more than anything. Like girl, you are just big mad you can’t wear that anymore 😂💀
@NevaX33316 күн бұрын
That's EXACTLY what I thought when I heard her say her boyfriend was with her!!! She was definitely jealous cuz he was looking and that's why she flipped out like she did!
@Emilia-seakemp16 күн бұрын
As someone who's bipolar and has gone to therpay for jealousy, I can say that is 100 percent in fact what happened. The woman needs help.
@jodiegordon555916 күн бұрын
@@Emilia-seakemp you know I was gonna say borderline, because of the aggressive undertones. She can't control her anger but at the same time she's manipulative enough to know that she can't just go up to her and slap her. I loved the little John hughes slow applause of the whole waiting room giving her a standing ovation?! Yea, cos that happened! On a side note, well done you for recognizing you might have an issue & getting treatment for it! That is a very difficult thing to do! Hope you're doing alright! I'm mdd treatment resistant anxiety blah blah solidarity sister;
@MrsLyraGyrl15 күн бұрын
@@jodiegordon5559 Both you and @Emilia-seakemp should be applauded for going to treatment, and working on your MH. Anyone who takes that step and keeps at it deserves praise. I inherited GAD and MDD from my father who unallved himself when I was 10. My anxiety at that point had triggered my seizure disorder. My mother (after being informed by my neurologists that my seizures were being worsened by my ridiculous anxiety) had me in a therapist's office so quick, but my stubborn, social anxiety-ridden, self wouldn't speak. Eventually I went on my own, and have been in therapy/psychiatric care for almost 25 years. It's not easy baring the thoughts and emotions you don't even want to admit to yourself, let alone to someone else. However, for most people (more than people want to admit), it's necessary to be OK. OK is great, which is something many NTs can't understand- which is also OK, as long as they acknowledge and accept it and us. Not a fan of sideline diagnosis, but speculating for speculation sake (we cuckoos have the "sight"😂) I also thought BPD initially, but maybe HPD? BD has similar traits, but going so far as to assault a teen, who vacillates between child/adult depending on how you're telling your story, seems more HPD-level jealously/insecurity. Cluster B, yep.🎉
@Ashtari17 күн бұрын
First rule we are EVER taught in school is to keep our hands to ourselves. Why do people suddenly think it doesn't apply once we LEAVE school? QUIT TOUCHING PEOPLE WITHOUT PERMISSION!
@spooky_pumpkin_66615 күн бұрын
That and treat people how you want to be treated!!
@liz09083315 күн бұрын
Not just that but... if it's not yours, don't touch it also seems to have been completely fn forgotten!
@helixxia932012 күн бұрын
god i wish we had this rule in school because our teacher could not give a flying fck about girls getting touched and harassed by boys
@solus868511 күн бұрын
Cause gen X are entitled as hell
@envymordecai442916 күн бұрын
I had an elderly coworker who always thought it was okay to adjust our uniforms without telling asking consent. She would pull up my pants or tuck in my shirt, and I chewed her out for it every time. Management never took it seriously because she was a “sweet old lady”. Don’t fucking touch me. If I need help with my uniform I’ll ask.
@TabbyWithMittens4 күн бұрын
Yeah at most I tell someone their tag is sticking out, but I never grabbed it or tuck it in (they do it themselves or ask me to help). I don’t know what gives people the instinct that they can just touch clothing or a person in general with no consent.
@lajourdanne18 күн бұрын
The “bare butt” part is infuriating that people would be confused. If you were wearing short-shorts under a skirt, and someone touches the bottom of your butt (on the skin exposed), that’s still her touching your “bare butt”!
@Lari-lc3zq17 күн бұрын
Exactly. I don’t find this confusing at all.
@sharnisestreaty928615 күн бұрын
Yes. And underwear can ride up or be a cut that doesn't cover the cheeks completely. Women have so many options, styles, and cuts that it's not that hard to understand that you can wear underwear or shorts AND someone can touch your bare butt.
@hayleys55618 күн бұрын
The fact that she’s only had the job for two months and she says it a thousand times 😅😂
@jadesx9618 күн бұрын
some people arent even willing to update their linkedin that soon into a job 😂
@Brittney944618 күн бұрын
Went STRAIGHT to her head.
@karlaf.6418 күн бұрын
It’s wild she felt so confident in her actions that she would expose her place of work while assaulting someone! I never share my place or line of work and I’m a half decent person lol This Karen is just nuts
@Yelhsa070318 күн бұрын
It’s giving Assistant Regional Manager vibes
@ninairish76318 күн бұрын
Haha she probably felt soooo important to work for the state ha!!
@marygray742215 күн бұрын
She unironically told the police that everybody clapped. She really doesn't know about the Internet
@castorbean447218 күн бұрын
When I was in fifth grade I had a camisole strap sticking out of my tee shirt sleeve (I didn’t have bra’s yet) and my teacher walked up to me and grabbed the strap and harshly shoved it back under the shirt with her whole hand. She was then pretty mad at me for being “immodest”. It was a religious school but the shock of an adult shoving their hand in my shirt to make me be more modest has never left my memory. Truly this kind of purity aggression from older women to younger women and girls is not at all uncommon.
@TheTinFoilTiara17 күн бұрын
Ughhhhhhh. Cringe of the highest caliber.
@howdoesonesocial17 күн бұрын
Ew. The only adult I could imagine putting their hands on me like that to adjust a wardrobe malfunction on their own would be a family member or friend, but a teacher? I'm a substitute now and they made a very big deal about how we should NEVER put our hands on children in any way for any reason, even if it's meant to be a friendly gesture or something. It just isn't appropriate.
@Bubba.mitchell460317 күн бұрын
It’s just a strap though, I don’t care even if it’s at a religious school. It’s actually fucking normal. It’s your teachers fault for not understanding how that kind of shit happens that it’s not the same as a girl modifying her uniform to be a rebel that’s too sexy or grunge or something else.
@Bubba.mitchell460317 күн бұрын
@@howdoesonesocialthat but also if a strap is sticking out like that is very accidental anyway. Just wrong all together. I wouldn’t even know what kind of shirt that would be anyway.
@birdlover517 күн бұрын
Absolutely infuriating!! So sorry you had this encounter!
@klarasee80616 күн бұрын
As a German, I find it extremely strange that young people in the USA are treated like children and patronized by adults for a very long time, and on the other hand the bodies of small children are sexualized to such an extent that even three-year-old girls cover their (nonexistent) breasts when bathing in public. In Germany, children of that age often go completely naked on the beach and people think it’s normal. Because it is. Do you really have to protect a ten-year-old from looking up a young girl's skirt and seeing her underwear? Will he be traumatized otherwise, or what? And anyone who actually thinks they have to be that "protective" should cover the boy's eyes and keep their hands off the young lady's skirt! In Germany, children grow up largely without this exaggerated sexualization of human bodies, and I believe it does them no harm at all. By the time I was ten, I had already seen countless stark naked adults, and today I am neither a sex addict nor a criminal... or whatever else the Idas of this world might suspect.
@verenabecker272414 күн бұрын
As a German living in the US, thanks for expressing this, it's exactly the way I feel about it as well. It's bizarre.
@greatestever24714 күн бұрын
For the young toddler bathing suit thing (etc), I just think it’s better to be safe than sorry. Some people just don’t give a shit about what’s wrong vs right. Can’t rely on everyone to do the right thing. Nothing wrong with wanting to protect children. I also wanted to mention that, old gross men sexualizing young children is a thing that happens all over the world, not just US. I’ve seen it happen in Germany too. (I’m European)
@Esmeagolly14 күн бұрын
@@greatestever247another European here, do creepy people happen yes, but the answer to that is not to shame the kids, then you acknowledge the (ridiculous) idea that their bodies are sexual. They’re not. Also don’t let your toddler out of your sight. What you do is take care of the creeps. Bodies arnt sexual, they’re bodies, basicly the mech suits for our brains.
@TheKhaliente14 күн бұрын
What a generalized patronizing comment. Sexualization of children is not an American invention and there are subcultures in Germany that sell pictures of unprotected children online. This is a global issue, I agree that children should be children but until till they are able to be free to exist without threat I always will try to protect them.
@eliza182613 күн бұрын
This is such a backward logic. It seems like you’re promoting sexualization of children than against it.
@evilsnailmom24115 күн бұрын
the fact she got away with SA of someone she THOUGHT WAS A MINOR without being pointed at and loudly dubbed a pedophile freak in front of all those ppl waiting is insane ,,
@christiana575713 күн бұрын
I mean, I would not yell pedophile at a woman grabbing a young woman's skirt. No offense but what world do you live in where that would be expected. They're literally saying she's 19. Karen was fcked for touching her, totally, but its not weird no one shouted pedo either.
@averysspookshowspectacular620518 күн бұрын
This woman is just *dripping* in internalized misogynist. Not just the skirt thing or the weirdness of thinking she could touch another woman, but calling them "little" teenagers and a "gang" of women and stuff. It honestly grossed me out a little.
@SoapyBlubbles17 күн бұрын
Reminds me of the bodycam footage where a man calls the police on a little girl, who was black, who was outside catching lantern flies. On the 911 call, he called her a “little black woman with a hoodie on.” You can always tell when people are trying to elicit violent responses from the police.
@TehMomo_17 күн бұрын
I think she saw her boyfriend checking out one of the girls and instead of rightfully getting mad that the bf. She turned her anger towards the girls...
@Raven7440814 күн бұрын
I think part of it stems from jealousy of their youth.
@fleetwoodmacncheese415913 күн бұрын
She's incredibly ageist and was probably "seen and not heard" and taught to "always respect your elders" (which is no excuse but I bet that's what happened). The sad thing is, she looks pretty young herself so I'm sure she is projecting from being raised by old-school idiots who had no business raising children or probably even owning pets... She has zero excuses for what she did but she's definitely projecting. 🥝💚🖤
@dodi-wankenobi12 күн бұрын
Imagin growing up with a mother like that…
@456coolkid118 күн бұрын
I bet this ‘Karen’ was one of those women who would ask women who have been SA’d what they were wearing.
@ellec374718 күн бұрын
I mean, she literally SA'd someone BECAUSE of what they were wearing. So, good odds.
@SkwithOv18 күн бұрын
@@ellec3747 right??
@witchy9021018 күн бұрын
She probably assums exactly what they were wearing, no need to ask.
@elaexplorer18 күн бұрын
This is the type of woman to say it's the victims fault for being outside.
@UrsulaZA17 күн бұрын
Thought about this - we as women tried to tell men the whole time that “why are you touching minors?” And then this woman comes along and just evaporates everything we’ve been trying to communicate. If WE cannot do it, how can we expect men to be better ?
@EvieBats211 күн бұрын
Omg 1:08 the way she is holding her dog is HORRIFYING. The dog is literally choking. Animal abuser and a Karen, what a combo
@ArtNLuv4445 күн бұрын
The dog probably thought she was yelling at it while she was yelling into her phone. Poor dog. It looked like she had a leash so there's no reason to choke it like that. Hopefully, people she knows saw this and decided to do something about it.
@TabbyWithMittens4 күн бұрын
I thought the same thing. ):
@jenniferedwards17522 күн бұрын
She got the dog taken away from her and lost her job. Christian Cooper, the black birdwatcher is now hosting a show on National Geographic called "Extraordinary Birder".
@RokoFireFox17 күн бұрын
At my brothers wedding like 10+ years ago. I was underage and my back of my dress had gone up. One of my brother friends had come up and whispered that my dress had come up a bit. She ASKED ME before pulling the bottom of my dress down for me since I was busy getting pictures. There no butt touching or anything. She didn't make a scene to make me feel embarrassed or anything. She was super nice and helpful about it. This Karen is just wild to do and make a scene.
@patriciapeters760415 күн бұрын
Yep, just some miserable lady who wants attention
@Ashley-us3ci15 күн бұрын
So true. Even if she genuinely thought this was a wardrobe malfunction (which I don't believe for one second) why would you embarrass the girl in front of all those people like that? Why not just quietly mention, "hey I'm not sure if it's supposed to look like that, but your skirt might have ridden up a little"?
@angelaatkinson-brazis710414 күн бұрын
@@Ashley-us3ciright?? I am all about quietly letting people know about potential wardrobe malfunctions but you never touch someone unless they ask or you offer and they accept. Like I will always ask for help getting tag flipped down on the back of a shirt. A funny story that my mom experienced was when she was traveling in the 80s. She was in Japan at a supermarket and had gone to the bathroom. While she had buckled the top of her skirt, she had forgotten to zip it and her slip was visible. She said that a man in the store practically ran from her to get a female staff who tried her hardest to convey to my mom English only speaking mom what happened. Thankfully my mom was able to zip her skirt and ends the story by saying that it felt like the whole store sighed in relief XD
@heatherdontcare18 күн бұрын
This woman.....NO BUSINESS touching that girl!!!!
@BeccaNa18 күн бұрын
100%
@cookiez13218 күн бұрын
NO IF ANDS OR BUTS ! LADY WAS OUT OF HER GOTDAMN MIND FOR THAT!!! 👏🏼
@thechickapedia117517 күн бұрын
Right? And if the girl was underage that’s even worse. Why are we assaulting possible minors?
@Rj-2717 күн бұрын
@@thechickapedia1175 Exactly! She tried to "help" and then just ended up commiting s*xual assault.
@Luke-warm-milk16 күн бұрын
Brrooo this infuriates me sooo much!! If she had done that do me I would’ve thrown hands 🙌🙌🙌
@paigeseegert866415 күн бұрын
Ida agreeing to a plea of no contest and then making a go fund me stating that she was a victim of defamation and lies is actually crazy, definitely feels like the judge wouldn’t like seeing that, also legally doesn’t really seem like she’s admitting that she did anything wrong and only a victim
@leowic3 күн бұрын
I wonder if this would be a "Son of Sam Law" violation. She IS profiting off her crime.
@BrendaTheBuilder42018 күн бұрын
I do drag and I wear very suggestive things, the amount of strangers who have felt compelled to put their hands on me or even kiss me without my consent is absolutely wild. CLOTHING IS NOT CONSENT. And keep your damn hands to YOURSELF, I’m sorry did we not all learn that in grade school?!?
@raeraebadfingers18 күн бұрын
Oh we learned. But a lot of people didn't listen.
@kristinenoffsinger513818 күн бұрын
❤ 👏 👏 👏 exactly
@cherachapin382618 күн бұрын
I know it's not the same thing, but what you said just gave me a flashback to when I was 10 years old and going to a haunted house with my friend. There were these people in demon masks with long tongues hanging out and it was the first time I had ever seen a mask like that. I asked this one person if I could pet their tongue cause I just wanted to know if it felt like a rubbery mask or if it was like paper mache or something. I guess I didn't explain it very well because all I said was "Can I touch your tognue?" And the person NEXT to the person I was talking to comes at me and says he will definately let me touch his tongue and he stuck it through a hole in the mask that I suppose is for breathing? Then a 3rd person comes over and says "that's a little too kinky" and I don't know what was in my 10 year old head because I knew what the word meant and I probably should have been really creeped out by it, but instead I just responded with "I expected it to be bigger" I don't know if they were even men or women but I figure everyone was atleast 18? Because I think you have to be 18 to work in a haunted house? IDK, I could be wrong. I am sorry people put their hands on you though. That is completely uncalled for. I don't even like people I know hugging or touching me and to have a perfect stranger talk to you in a way like "you are asking for it" is just insane to me. Makes me wish I were a bigger stronger person, I think I have chihuahua syndrome
@darnellarocca738718 күн бұрын
Facts
@honeybeesplants894318 күн бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏
@lynnstafford791617 күн бұрын
I used to be a Karen. So difficult to admit. In my early 50s I suddenly realised what an awful pers I was. I began to realise that young people are just fab. They're smarter, more beautiful, better dressed, so much more. I also realised how badly my generation have tended to treat younger people bearing in mind the world we've left them. Self reflection is a beautiful thing. Karen's, leave them alone. Appreciate what you can learn from them. Smile. Leave your jealousy at home. Love you Swoop (a great example of our youth)xx
@lux.illuminaughty17 күн бұрын
What a thoughtful, lovely post 💖 admitting our faults is difficult enough, but actually changing one's behavior is even moreso; I love it and you.
@creaturehands16 күн бұрын
Proud of you! This post is so inspiring and so kind, I really do hope for the best for you in life, ma'am. Thank you for glowing up and spreading such a lovely message!💕
@lynnstafford791616 күн бұрын
@lux.illuminaughty Thank you so much, though I do wish I hadn't had bad behaviour to correct!You've
@lynnstafford791616 күн бұрын
@creaturehands sorry cut myself off. Just saying you're a shining example of exactly what I mean x
@woodanemone975816 күн бұрын
Self reflection and development, yes!
@quag698910 күн бұрын
Our society has a very strange issue of not seeing some SA as "valid" SA. Whenever the victim is a man or a woman attacking another women, some people just dont see it as an issue.
@ngarcia1038 күн бұрын
Sadly, some people (still?!) think SA is only SA if it is a man attacking a woman, and any other combination is, at best, ignored (or, often in cases of a woman attacking a man, disgustingly glorified).
@mamasass222918 күн бұрын
One argument: Ida doxed herself. She went on an on, in public, about working for the state. She also had it publicly available on Facebook where she worked. It really isn't hard to find people when they go on about where they work and what they do. She set herself up.
@ellemmenn293017 күн бұрын
I don’t think she realised then or now that she did something wrong
@AllieHails9217 күн бұрын
Especially when state agencies here almost always have an employee roster and usually has links to their linkedin profiles which usually contain photos. Its not hard to track down state employees here in Utah if you know what you're doing lol
@gourdguru16 күн бұрын
also, she wasn't "Doxxed". there is a big difference between the act of randomly sharing people's exact address for the purposes of harassment, and ID'ing someone who _assaulted_ you so they can be held accountable by the law and their employer can remove a liability from their company/organization. in this case, ida was a complete moron and literally ratted herself out directly to police, but in most of these kind of incidents, these sociopaths slink off into the shadows never to be held accountable only to do the same thing or worse within 3-6 months to somebody else. let's all just hope Ida's narcissistic self can't make it a year without karening out again, so they can hit her with the appropriate correctives that she got a pass on, and put her on a list with all the other abusive pre-verts.
@justkiddin8416 күн бұрын
🎯🎯🎯
@jordynniccole743415 күн бұрын
Not to mention almost all social media sites have heavy privacy settings available. She can have a lot of that info posted only for her friends, have it where only certain people can message her at all etc. maybe shes too old to know how to control Facebook settings but its not hard. If you dont want to be found online, limit everything, especially websites like LinkedIn and indeed, people can get a lot of info off of websites that aren't social media.
@amelie_g18 күн бұрын
I was never treated worse when I was in my teens and twenties than by jealous older women. Now that I’m a mom in my thirties, I will always be kind and supportive of younger women. There’s nothing worse than being demeaned because of your appearance. Shame on her for putting her hands on that poor girl.
@Brooklyntrash18 күн бұрын
I’m MUCH older than you, and I agree with everything you’ve said. I don’t know why so many older women- and men too - forget what it was like to be young and are now so quick to judge.
@limiwa18 күн бұрын
Same. Some ladies were so nasty and rude, but others were absolutely wonderful. Mixed bag out there.
@Neresdipity18 күн бұрын
Wow, I relate to this. Bless you - you're making the world a better place.
@ellebarton712318 күн бұрын
I am in my mid 30’s and YES!! I will never demean a younger more beautiful woman because of my insecurities. I actually try to hype them up.
@nallelysdream18 күн бұрын
Like Jesus Christ don’t touch people child adult what have u
@mcangmar555615 күн бұрын
I work for a different state, and she sure should have known that 1. A probationary employee can be fired without cause for literally anything that's not related to a protected class 2. You can be summarily fired for misrepresenting your powers. And then if she's a member of the bar...
@HavianEla18 күн бұрын
If someone is having a wardrobe malfunction, you quietly let them know and be their look out as they fix it. A lady did this for me at Walmart and I was SO grateful!
@howdoesonesocial17 күн бұрын
Exactly. Pointing it out isn't the issue. The issue is putting your hands on someone and being so rude about it as well. This lady is so weird. Idk how she thought she was in the right.
@marnie906317 күн бұрын
Same, I had my dress tucked into my thong, all the men were just staring at me as I walked through the store (didn't realise why) instead of telling me and this one older lady told me. Bless that woman.
@Nevyn51516 күн бұрын
Normal person: whispers “Hey, dude, you’re flying low.” Then turn away so they can adjust. This Karen: Pulls down the pants to expose them in public then call the police because of how offended you are about pants.
@feesha72418 күн бұрын
as a government employee that actually works in child protective services, flashing your badge like that in your PERSONAL life and flaunting that you work for the government which can be publicly available to the taxpayers that pay you is truly…i don’t even have an appropriate word so like the officer said “the logic wasn’t there” WOW 😮
@aurawilming604718 күн бұрын
"The logic wasn't there" is one of the most professional ways I have heard any one say "She's a fucking dumbass". This phrase is now tucked away in my lexicon, along side "As per my last email" and such to be pulled out when necessary in my business communication.
@verenabecker272414 күн бұрын
@@aurawilming6047Oh my god yes, that's such a gem. 😂
@helvete98315 күн бұрын
I was literally joking with my wife about this Karen who assaulted a girl she believed to be underage, and added "and everyone clapped" I cannot believe a minute later she actually said she got a standing ovation. Also proud of how you reacted to your unpleasant incident, I think you showed amazing restraint in not breaking her freaking arm, I certainly would had. I wished you'd have pressed charges though.
@chayden15318 күн бұрын
Literally she could have prevented all this mess by minding her own damn business
@A_YouTube_Commenter18 күн бұрын
That's 90% of stuff.
@megamovieman10117 күн бұрын
I read that in Gwen’s voice since you have her as your PFP 😂
@Alex_in_Wonderland11116 күн бұрын
I genuinely don’t think that phrase exist in these peoples vocabulary
@Death_Not3.16 күн бұрын
For a Karen that’s too much like right lol.
@justkiddin8416 күн бұрын
And keeping her hands to herself.
@marsie117 күн бұрын
Not her claiming that everyone clapped 😭😂😂😂
@prudentreality17 күн бұрын
Look, I’ll admit it: I frequently say, “and then everyone clapped!” But that’s in my head. While I’m fantasizing about some impressive public career. During my shower. I…I’m in the shower when I say that.
@patriciapeters760415 күн бұрын
@@prudentrealityI say it, but sarcastically. Like if someone's telling a story n they're clearly lying I'll be like "and then everyone clapped"lmao
@Ashley-us3ci15 күн бұрын
Truly. I have never seen someone use that phrase unironically in the wild like that.
@alainaswain434816 күн бұрын
If some strange woman came up and started pulling at my daughter’s clothing, having the police called on her would be the least of her worries. I can’t imagine how she would react to how some women dress on the beach.
@murdenamacintyre246117 күн бұрын
I am a 59(!) year old mother of a 16 year old. Do I always love the way she and her friends dress? No. Do I shame and demean them? Also no. It is different times, and girls are fiercely in charge of their own bodies and what they put on them, and I do love that! The only time I might say anything is if the outfit is not appropriate for where we are going. This has happened once in her whole life (it was my work function), and we had a respectful conversation. No one has the right to tell someone else how to dress. And for damn sure no one has the right to put their hands on anyone else without their permission, full stop. Love your channel! Keep up the good work❤
@prudentreality17 күн бұрын
I adore this take. So much. ❤ Go mom, go!!
@Yourfavoritehermit16 күн бұрын
🙄
@GrimlyYours15 күн бұрын
@@Yourfavoritehermit 🙄 Cry more, kid.
@PuffleGlurp15 күн бұрын
@@GrimlyYours Don't be mean to kids. 😑
@registeredjopper15 күн бұрын
@@PuffleGlurpkids can also fuck around and find out
@toyakasmir18 күн бұрын
TW: SA I was SA’ed. And to think about some stranger coming up to me and pulling on my skirt, it would have ended up with me throwing hands. Folks don’t think about people’s traumas when they do stupid stuff!!
@robinh959218 күн бұрын
Face*
@robinh959218 күн бұрын
And for what it’s worth: I’m very sorry you experienced that.
@knitwitchpgh18 күн бұрын
Same. My default now is to elbow behind me and start to raise hands to block while turning. After my assault i got self defense training
@marstrull18 күн бұрын
I get weirded out just from someone touching my back when I don’t know they’re going to. If someone came up to me and touched my butt or my skirt I would lose it on them
@daphne1012018 күн бұрын
Exactly. This could potentially have been very traumatic for someone with a history.
@VickiMcCormick-jf5pe13 күн бұрын
The police really need to start charging Karen's for abusing 911. I actually thought calling 911 was illegal if it wasn't an emergency. Well if Karen's had to pay for each time they called, they might think twice for abusing 911, and not putting someones life's endanger.
@Poopiepies13 күн бұрын
Lolol I knew someone went to jail for a year for false 911 calls. Classic florida
@indigo_alligator4081Күн бұрын
I mean… she was reporting a crime, after all. Even if she was the perpetrator
@Lala.Intuitive18 күн бұрын
Ida" "I touched her skirt but I didnt touch her" Officer : "hmm... we can talk about that later" 😂 He was not having it. Excellent work, Sir. Like what is she in preschool?
@zoeb357315 күн бұрын
"Now we ain't got time to unpack all that"
@smudnyk702318 күн бұрын
As a Utah resident, this sort of extreme judgement and sense of ownership of young women is not surprising. There is a very intense modesty culture that can be incredibly oppressive in the more rural and suburban regions. I'm honestly impressed at the support from the Washington county police officers being in support of the poor victim
@Valeriamtzp17 күн бұрын
It's the religion, I've heard tons of mormon stories of women being taught that it's your responsibility as a woman to dress modestly so men aren't tempted by you, and that men don't like used merchandise. It's getting better I guess but man, purity culture is still rampant
@katla_phc17 күн бұрын
Agreed - I wasn’t surprised when swoop said this occurred in Utah, but I am very happy that the officers went “we’re not being the Utah stereotype today” and took the victim seriously
@elizabethgriesse177517 күн бұрын
I was surprised that the lady was not wearing garments, tbh.
@pickledragonrebel16 күн бұрын
Honestly, my first thought was Mormon. Not sure if either of them was, but i sure thought religion. I couldn't stand to live in such an oppressive atmosphere.
@elizabethgriesse177516 күн бұрын
@pickledragonrebel I think the young women for sure were not, and the Karen was at least not orthodox LDS since she wasn't wearing garments (the neckline of her shirt is too wide for them to not show).
@brittanysmith692914 күн бұрын
I’ve had strangers come up to me in stores and grab my arm (I have 2 full sleeves of tattoos) and twist my arm all around and say “sorry I just wanted to see your tattoos!” Like LET ME GO! Do not touch me!!!! One girl almost twisted my arm all the way around and it hurt so bad I snatched my arm back!!
@coolgirl31218 күн бұрын
No, she has no right to put her hands on the girl. If they girl's skirt was blowing in the wind and putting her cheeks on display, the lady could at most, approach her and discreetly let her know know, that's all. I do remember this one time in college, as I was walking in to the dining hall in the morning, and the lady who swipes the students in suddenly calls me over and whispers to me that a part of my skirt was tucked in to the waistband and asked if I wanted her to get it for me. It's was embarrassing but I was glad she told me in a way that no one else could hear it and didn't put her hands on me until she asked.
@flamingghottea18 күн бұрын
starting off the paragraph like that makes me think you shouldn't 50 feet near any public place if you think any kind of touching without asking first is ever okay 😬🚩🚩
@_SunscreenQueen_18 күн бұрын
Right!? Like that’s just #1 in girl code. Help a girl with a clothing malfunction PRIVATELY
@KateCat42018 күн бұрын
@@flamingghottea Did you pass second grade? OP literally said "she had NO RIGHT to put her hands on that girl". Reading comprehension please sweetheart ❤
@Lari-lc3zq17 күн бұрын
@@flamingghotteaWhat?
@kellyewers569217 күн бұрын
Except the girl had shorts on. There was nothing to see.
@AllThisIsPointless18 күн бұрын
It's wild to me that she FULLY ADMITS to yanking on the clothes of someone she assumed was a child, in public, and does not somehow think she did anything wrong and that these young women were slandering and harassing her for... telling everyone what she did, but (correctly) saying it was bad, instead of like how she told everyone it was good and literally "everyone clapped" MA'AM ARE YOU LISTENING TO YOURSELF
@Itscannatella13 күн бұрын
Does she think CPS is like police for minors? 😂 also it’s so disgusting of her that she keeps saying “private parts” over and over, and acting like she was surrounded by hopeless children who were being scarred for life. 😂 the mental gymnastics is insane
@Camey7107318 күн бұрын
I was a cocktail waitress in a college town when i was in my 20s. It's crazy how people think they have the right to put their hands on other people without consequences.
@Chez199118 күн бұрын
When I worked in a haunted house in my TEENS I got grabbed by so many grown adults. It's disturbing how some people behave
@LilyCat96318 күн бұрын
You said "in" other people, which feels like a typo.... But after Swoop's story, I wouldn't be surprised if it's not a typo...
@Camey7107318 күн бұрын
@@LilyCat963 it is a typo
@SuzanneIYN18 күн бұрын
I work in a dispensary and people treat us like we’re sex workers. We are basically retail workers, but because it’s weed, they think that we’re easy??? It’s the weirdest anti-logic and half the male customers act this way. Management doesn’t even care. They just send an email saying if we’re harassed or groped again, we’re not allowed to talk about it.
@jessiegraceillustrates17 күн бұрын
I'm Australian - I've HEARD (never experienced) of this thing called 'no shirt no service'. Which basically means if you're inappropriately dressed for the restaurant, staff will stop you at the door and ask you to leave and come back appropriately dressed. I've never seen it happen, i think it's reserved for really specific situations like 'hey you can't wear flip flops (we call them thongs, you get the point) in this five star restaurant. Please come back wearing closed shoes. But essentially, if a girl walks in wearing something you think is inappropriate but she isn't stopped by staff, you can't do shit. It's not your call. Go sit somewhere else. I just feel bad for the girl though honestly. This might sit with her every time she gets ready for a fun night out, and it shouldn't. I hope the internet turning on this woman helps alleviate some of the damage
@EmberQuill14 күн бұрын
I've only ever seen "no shirt no service" as a very literal rule, usually for restaurants on beachfront property because some people will go straight from the beach to a nearby restaurant wearing nothing but their swimsuit and still dripping with seawater.
@sheridenrangitonga325613 күн бұрын
@@EmberQuillall restaurants bars and clubs have a dress code here in Australia you can be declined for anything the business deems inappropriate
@Fete_Fatale13 күн бұрын
I've only seen this once ... and in Australia. Something like a hundred years ago (well, 1984) I was travelling thru Australia, and in a pub in Darwin. This pub had a "no shoes, no shirt, no service" rule. People in the upstairs verandah bar were throwing their t-shirts and thongs (flipflops) to their friends waiting outside.
@LittleMissLion12 күн бұрын
@sheridenrangitonga3256 so...I live in the CBD of Australian city and I've honestly never seen this enforced. Generally, staff and customers tend to just be having (and promoting) a good time. I agree it can happen, but I don't see it as common.
@sheridenrangitonga325611 күн бұрын
@@LittleMissLion I live in Melbourne too and have only ever clubbed in the CBD and I’ve seen alot of people rejected from venues due to clothing. Women for wearing underwear and stockings and calling them pants and men for skimpy shirts that don’t cover enough. Its not about how often it’s enforced, I’m saying every venue has a dress code. You can’t go to an RSL with thongs/sandals or hats etc. clubs in QLD refuse based on bikie clothing or tattoos. It’s common knowledge here
@benjaminpower828615 күн бұрын
Honestly, should be forced to register. People have had to register for much lesser crimes, and the flagrant “I’m gonna walk on down to the police office to confess to my own crime because this woman I assaulted is mean.”
@ameliacallanSTEM18 күн бұрын
I’m only halfway through this, but my absolute FAVORITE thing, is that she has it on recorded phone call, that she put her hands on this girl, and slid her skirt down. And yet, somehow she thinks she’s the victim. She legitimately admitted it.
@TehilahFirewind14 күн бұрын
Where is the footage of it? I'm so confused
@ameliacallanSTEM13 күн бұрын
@@TehilahFirewind I’m confused how you’re confused….. Swoop references the phone call in snippets from like 19:25-30:45. We literally hear her talking
@TehilahFirewind13 күн бұрын
@@ameliacallanSTEM I couldn't find any footage anywhere of the woman touching her clothes
@ameliacallanSTEM13 күн бұрын
@@TehilahFirewind Then I suggest you go rewatch the entire video
@TehilahFirewind13 күн бұрын
@@ameliacallanSTEM is there footage of her actually touching the other girl's skirt? If so, maybe I will. The topic is very uninteresting to me. I just wanted to see what the fuss was about
@NoniUniques18 күн бұрын
If you are worried about a 10 yr old boy looking up her skirt why not go up to her and say something politely. Like get her attention and whisper "hey girl sorry to bug you but that little boy is looking up your skirt just so you are aware" like someone let's me know that I'll adjust my clothes or move where the child can't see me. This entire situation could have been a moment of women helping women but instead she decided to assault who she thought was a child!
@KatherineAcosta2018 күн бұрын
Or, tell the kid’s mom what he’s doing…
@Voodoofairy8818 күн бұрын
The "10yo" is the blurred out face behind her at the PD. It's HER 10yo son. Instead of teaching her son he has to control himself, she showed him he's entitled to touch people any way he wants.
@wmdkitty18 күн бұрын
Or teach your kid not to stare.
@limiwa18 күн бұрын
I agree. And yes, you should also teach kids not to stare, of course, but we as adults should also be mindful of how we display ourselves in public. A young lady like that probably just doesn't have that kind of awareness yet.
@limarba906218 күн бұрын
It could be that her boyfriend was looking.
@PhantomFerret8 күн бұрын
Honestly, imagine being so entitled you think its right to harm another human over their clothes. If you hate how someone dresses, don't engage with them, or leave to go somewhere else.
@itscomingoff923018 күн бұрын
I love how smug she looked when she was talking to the police, absolutely convinced she was in the right. The way her face dropped when he said she was under arrest made it even better.
@Lari-lc3zq17 күн бұрын
Made me laugh so hard 😂 Nodding and nodding and nodding and the second the officer said “criminal activity has occurred” she’s absolutely still 😂😂😂
@katdelphy635018 күн бұрын
19:59 Notice how she brings up her boyfriend in the 911 call. This is all about jealousy. She needs to seriously fix herself. Just because you feel insecure with yourself doesnt give you the right to hurt or embarass other. Saddening
@birdlover517 күн бұрын
Was thinking the same thing!
@hotpinkcrayolas11 күн бұрын
I'll never understand why people give a shit about others clothing. Malfunction? Cool, quietly let them know, don't touch them. Just don't like it? Find it inappropriate? Keep it to yourself. I remeber once wearing a dress that was a little tight and short, so I had it on with leggings, so completely covered. I was early 30s. As I got off the bus a woman made a disgusted sound and followed me down the road complaining to her husband about 'young women with their assess out and wiggling about'. Firstly I was stoked to be called young, and secondly, her husband wasn't complaining...
@wrendavey18 күн бұрын
How tf is your solution to believing someone’s clothing is too revealing, to reveal more of them??? How is pulling down the short skirt helping the situation?? It isn’t!! She wanted to humiliate her
@marleneflanagan713717 күн бұрын
I don't think she removed the skirt. I think she tried to pull it to an acceptable length. Like it was riding up. I don't defend her actions at all, the woman is nuts.
@goldensloth716 күн бұрын
@@marleneflanagan7137 yup
@wrendavey16 күн бұрын
@@marleneflanagan7137 yeah that part wasn’t clear. The woman who did it said she only lowered it but the girls didn’t say whether that was the case or not? And I’m just hesitant to believe the Karen. Unless there was a part I missed?
@patriciapeters760415 күн бұрын
@@marleneflanagan7137it would've most likely showed her underwear and/or butt crack from the top of the skirt tho (after being pulled down) 😭and I know bc I mostly only wear mini skirts
@jessicamitchell417 күн бұрын
I grew up in St George and let me tell you, the purity culture is STRONG there. When this story first came out, I was absolutely not surprised. I grew up being shamed for wearing a tank top and shorts in 113 degree weather. It's sad to see that it's still happening but so validating hearing everyone calling it out for what it is... absolute horseshit
@eldrichnemo931215 күн бұрын
I'm sorry you lived that experience and thank you for confirming the kind of community this was and is, I think that's getting lost in the virality of the story
@Alex-ut5ou14 күн бұрын
Imagine being a 911 operator and this is the call you receive while someone could be getting murdered elsewhere. Like i hate this woman not only for the assault but for being useless in the world.
@jayaunderwood232418 күн бұрын
As a litigation paralegal I can say: legal assistants/secretaries don't have the education, certifications to do the things paralegal do
@jansilverthorn77718 күн бұрын
As a former legal secretary, I agree. I was little more than a gopher who could type.
@gabrielledickinson453018 күн бұрын
Pretty sure even paralegals are not this damn entitled. And yeah being a secretaries or assistant does not always require a lot of training. I'm a medical receptionist and I was not even asked to take an anatomy or medical terminology course, let alone get any medical training. I'm not about go to around claiming to be a professional.
@themoondrinksmerlot426018 күн бұрын
I don’t think it’s fair to “play down” someone’s position in a company, despite their education or lack thereof. However, I understand calling out this particular woman for slinging it around like a doctorate’s degree.
@LoRosa022418 күн бұрын
@@themoondrinksmerlot4260 I agree but there is an outrageous amount of people who will sling a title around without ever saying what they actually do because it's literally just the title they base their ego entitlement around.
@Hellzangel11518 күн бұрын
Whats crazier is all the secretary jobs iv seen require bachelor degrees.....to answer phones....and file paperwork and data.....I feel like a disappointment to my parents.
@shannonfassler385217 күн бұрын
She literally said “and everybody clapped” and expected people to believe she was telling the whole truth and that she was in the right???
@ingeniousmaultasche660214 күн бұрын
Nazis also clapped when Hitler decided to go to war. It’s a stretch. But you know, just because people clapped doesn’t mean you are right
@shannonfassler385214 күн бұрын
@@ingeniousmaultasche6602 I think I maybe didn’t communicate clearly enough. “And everybody clapped” is a stereotypical addition to very obviously fake or exaggerated internet stories. That was what I was referring to.
@kseniaanna721715 күн бұрын
the "your actions have consequences" made me laugh every time
@lolalalia411918 күн бұрын
2024 and the victim is still being blamed for what they're wearing. The fact thr investigators asked for a VIDEO OF HER TWIRLING should be an offense, too. She already told the police she was psychologically traumatized and battles BDD. So messed up
@aromaladyellie17 күн бұрын
I guess it’s ’evidence’ against Ida. Bleh.
@howdoesonesocial17 күн бұрын
I agree that whatever she's wearing isn't an excuse for a random person to touch her, and it really didn't sound like the police blamed her at all, but it's possible they still needed to make sure she hadn't actually flashed any children because that's still illegal. Although I've heard from an officer that it's only really illegal if a minor sees genitalia, not booty cheeks. Or... maybe the police just wanted to see a young girl in a miniskirt, idk. But it didn't sound like a case of victim blaming for once. It could also be to proof that Ida was tripping for no reason.
@robinh959218 күн бұрын
Even if it was the classic “skirt stuck in the underwear” scenario and the full bum was visible it’s still not acceptable to put your hands on someone else’s body. All she had to do was say “hey excuse me, idk if you know but your skirt is riding up and we can see your butt” it would have taken like 5 seconds and saved that girl so much embarrassment. She probably felt so freaking violated having that woman stick her hands up under skirt and pull it down like that. Despicable.
@verenabecker272414 күн бұрын
I once had that happen to me (skirt stuck in my underwear) as I was merrily walking up to the local elementary school to pick up my kid. Bless the woman who immediately jumped into action and let me know. She was the first person to see me after I got out of my car, so she saved me a lot of potential humiliation in front of a huge cluster of parents.
@zoeb357315 күн бұрын
The way her face fell when the cop said "that's freedom of speech" after she said she believed in freedom of speech to defend herself.... so it's only freedom for you, huh? And the fact she described the situation as her getting "applauded" and "getting a standing ovation"... she genuinely added in an "and then everybody clapped" moment.
@Kyndall_Marie259 күн бұрын
Rule for thee but not for thee, I guess just reversed huh?
@elisa-beary18 күн бұрын
Imagine defending a crime by saying, ‘I got a standing ovation from EVERYONE.’ Which was a lie but also, that’s not a defense for SA & I can’t fathom having this little self awareness.🙄🤯
@carriesmith342116 күн бұрын
Yeah can you imagine a man SA-ing a young woman and using the “ everyone applauded me for what I did”. As an excuse. It still doesn’t make his actions right.
@patriciapeters760415 күн бұрын
Right. She DOES have self awareness though. At least, enough to sit there and lie to make it sound better. She's just a POS.
@Jcsim1318 күн бұрын
Thanks for this one, Swoop. I was assaulted by an older woman who randomly started fondling my butt while working as a waitress. I was so young, and in such shock, its taken me years and years to realise it was assault and to understand the grossness I felt afterwards was completely valid.
@ellemmenn293017 күн бұрын
I am so sorry you experienced that… no one deserves that
@caseyc249713 күн бұрын
she didn't just skirt a teen in public, she skirted someone she initially claimed to have believed to be a MINOR.
@DeathTheKidWazHere17 күн бұрын
Insane that she thought they were minors and thought it was appropriate to reach under their skirts to pull at it. You’re telling me you thought it was the right move to inappropriately touch someone you thought was a minor because of how short her skirt is
@avisaki690518 күн бұрын
"I got a standing ovation" is the same vibe of "And everyone clapped"
@elaexplorer18 күн бұрын
An ovation is everyone clapping
@jadedllamas14 күн бұрын
Holy hell, she really pulled out an “and then everyone applauded”
@ofthegirl18 күн бұрын
As a 50 year old woman, you can tell which 50 year old women got their asses kicked in a pit at Lollapalooza in the 90’s and which ones didn’t.
@aquatiger817 күн бұрын
*updates list of things to do before I turn 50* 😂
@lux.illuminaughty17 күн бұрын
💗
@karentapia886816 күн бұрын
Real 😂
@lux.illuminaughty16 күн бұрын
My ex and I used to talk about the people (usually guys) you could tell had never been punched in the face in their youth.
@cashyyvibez12 күн бұрын
Reminds me of one of my favorite lines: “you obviously ain’t got your ass whooped ”
@missstarstealer17 күн бұрын
Here is the deal.......I will say this forever until my last breath.......NO MATTER WHAT YOU ARE WEARING OR LACK THEREOF, NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO TOUCH ANYONE. I DON'T CARE IF YOU ARE COMPLETELY NAKED IN A ROOM FULL OF PEOPLE, NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO TOUCH YOU. NO ONE!
@traceymckenzie82729 күн бұрын
Exactly!!
@jamienotamy13 күн бұрын
I can't believe it didn't occur to anyone to just say to the 10 year old "Hey buddy I know her skirt is short but it's not polite to stare."
@ellec374718 күн бұрын
I am actually so proud of the internet on this one. The worst of what the hate mob offered to this woman was telling her she committed a crime and threatening to report her to her job. And I know thats the worst she got because it was all she even claimed. One death threat and she would have been wailing about police protection, I'm sure.
@WhiteRaven69618 күн бұрын
This situation was WILD. Even just telling the girl that her skirt is too short would be doing too much. Physically pulling it down?! She’s lucky they didn’t jump her, I know me and my girls would have.
@ravens-crypt18 күн бұрын
And when the police involved she wouldn’t have a leg to stand on legally just like she didn’t here
@xXsharpiescarsXx18 күн бұрын
Dude this^^^ Like they pointed out especially if she thought the girl in the skirt was a minor, why are you touching a strangers child!
@Mangoos39318 күн бұрын
Wtf? That’s ghetto. Why would you jump someone over words?
@starhunter238018 күн бұрын
Yeah I'm just starting this but that sounded like she sexually assaulted minors then called the cops, like she's tryna catch her own charges or smth
@WPFLAWLESS18 күн бұрын
@@xXsharpiescarsXxI watched the videos of this happening in real time and the cop was stuck on that part🤣🤣🤣
@Alex_in_Wonderland11116 күн бұрын
“I got a standing ovation from everyone around me” Yeah lemme just file that under r/thathappened
@fromage_collage18 күн бұрын
She did not go with “everyone gave me a standing ovation.” Zero awareness that she pulled the “and everybody clapped” 🤣🤣🤣💀
@leavemealone80218 күн бұрын
What is this, the 1940's?! Calling the police over a skirt? Karen's, a conservative sub category
@carissajb295518 күн бұрын
No conservatives that I've ever known would harass people.
@maybemablemaples214418 күн бұрын
@carissajb2955 that's funny.
@lysirae18 күн бұрын
It's Utah. Mormon capital, not surprising
@ItsNotReallyWork18 күн бұрын
@@lysiraeDon't you dare generalize Mormons as if we're all like Ida/Karen. I'm Mormon. I would have defended that young lady and protected her from any further physical or verbal assaults. Her skirt is not my business unless there's a wardrobe malfunction that needs to be politely & quietly addressed. I hope at least 1 adult had the decency to help these young women. As a Mormon, I absolutely would have.
@cops4robbers66317 күн бұрын
Yes..hey there dame, your gams are showing!
@tiffanym110811 күн бұрын
I used to live near a highschool and I would see students walking to school. On a really cold winter morning, I was walking to the bus stop to head to work. A highschool girl walked by me with a mini skirt. I shook my head thinking the poor girl was going to freeze. But I didn't say anything. It was none of my business and I was busy trying to get to work on time. I couldn't imagine being so bored with your life that you have to harass people.
@Camey7107318 күн бұрын
You Do Not put your hands on another person. Period.
@EdenthelRei18 күн бұрын
I mean unless you are legit saving them from walking into traffic or doing cpr
@KateCat42018 күн бұрын
@@EdenthelRei The fact you felt the need to clarify this is concerning.
@Catglittercrafts18 күн бұрын
I love how literally nobody was on her side
@cloudstrife453413 күн бұрын
Except in the made up stories in her head where everyone clapped lol.
@AerynKDesigns13 күн бұрын
As someone whose body was policed a lot as a kid, I didn't realise I had bodlily autonomy until I was 25 when I realised I didn't have to ask anyone if I wanted to get a tattoo. I moved out at 18, and married my soulmate at 19, but somehow my mom was still in my head controlling my life. The constant scrutiny and "well meaning" comments and watchful eyes just never seemed to end.
@rachelcuddington421018 күн бұрын
Low key waiting for the Sus Pool collection to drop to see if there’s pool floaties 🤣
@happygoluckyme692618 күн бұрын
😂 that's awesome
@Lucina..18 күн бұрын
They could have “maybe even us” written on them 😂
@AlliieBug18 күн бұрын
This idea is actually so good😂😂❤
@Spitfirephotographs18 күн бұрын
@@Lucina..in purple of course!
@bunnyfingerpuppet681018 күн бұрын
And beach towels!
@calamityradio18 күн бұрын
40:44 That's 100% what I thought throughout this entire thing. The fact she was on a power trip and throwing her weight around just TWO MONTHS into her new job BEFORE the probationary period was up really shows how quickly that state job went to her head.
@jvappi13 күн бұрын
As soon as I heard “my boyfriend was sitting next to me” in the police call, I said, “yep, there it is.” Ida got upset that her boyfriend might be able to see a pretty girl’s butt.
@lawrencelopez983918 күн бұрын
so she tried to publicly strip a stranger that she thought was underaged??
@justkiddin8416 күн бұрын
Yep.
@cateeles18 күн бұрын
The manipulation and behaviour is so childish, it's disgraceful to see a full grown woman act like that, especially to what she thinks are minors. The fact that she is not embarrassed by her behaviour is honestly worrying to me. Beyond sanity.
@The_dandy_zombie16 күн бұрын
I live in Utah, this is unfortunately kinda common. Older women, especially Mormon women think they have the right to police your attire. Touching her was beyond the pale though
@NotSarahLee35817 күн бұрын
She seems to hate teenagers. Every time she says about them she is snarky and derogatory, like 'little teenagers, all minors, little girls, just a bunch of little teenagers etc". Idk it was they way she said it multiple times that got me. Edit: looks like Swoop noticed this too. I should've waited 😅 25:04
@raeraebadfingers18 күн бұрын
There is something seriously wrong with a person that thinks it is okay to touch A CHILD. The fact that she's a woman doing this to a young girl makes it feel even more disgusting to me. Also, my summer sucks. I feel trapped in a shitty situation with family and it's killing me mentally. 🤷🏻♀️ Edit: okay they said she's over 18 but she is still a child compared to Karen (who oddly sounds like Karen Walker)
@DaemonKeido18 күн бұрын
the important part is the woman thought it was appropriate to put her hands on what she believed was a minor child. It doesn't matter that she was wrong, that was her FIRST INSTINCT.
@raeraebadfingers18 күн бұрын
@@DaemonKeido It absolutely baffles me! I don't even put my hands on my family, let alone a total fucking stranger that I think is a minor. Like, I'm seriously glad that she HAS to get mental health help and diagnosis. There is something not right in her head.
@SkwithOv18 күн бұрын
but she THOUGHT it was a child that she was going up and touching, so in my mind it doesn't really matter how old that girl actually was - she believed she was a child, wanted to call CPS (child protective services) about it, and still thought it was okay also i'm sorry your summer isn't going well 🫂 I really, really hope things get better for you soon mine too, i lost 2 family members (both in august, but one last year and today is the anniversary, and the other a couple weeks ago), and last year i also lost a friend (who was 34, so his passing was exceptionally tragic - both my grandparents were in their 90s and expected, but it still sucks) and a family cat ... so i've been going through it
@chaseemills18 күн бұрын
Karen Walker doesn’t claim her 😂
@limarba906218 күн бұрын
@@SkwithOvSo sorry.😢
@ruffboiALT14 күн бұрын
I think the term "legal secretary" is still in use because it does require experience working in a law office, and "legal assistant" is an existing and different role, so there's not really anything else to call them without getting super complicated.