How To Achieve Your Most AMBITIOUS Goals and BREAK THE ADDICTION To Negative Thoughts! | Lewis Howes

[@TomBilyeu]

WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section, that is someone impersonating me!

[@HyperSaneDemon]

Aww tom doesn't care about us 🤣

[@DarcyLane]

K fair enough, but can we please talk about the height of the table in these interviews? It always looks like two kids sitting at the counter, waiting for mom to make sandwiches. P.S. I really enjoy your content, and I appreciate all you do! 😊 You’re awesome, Tom.

[@marksavoia3687]

spirit body->quantum physics->quantum micro chemistry->macro newtonian chemistry-> biology->economics

[@Koryogden]

**Thanks TomBilyeu2**

[@lewishowes]

Thanks so much for having me Tom always love our in depth conversations!!!

[@dominikabacinska1845]

You and Tom are great thank You!!!!

[@Devyn_LV]

Currently listening, I have come a long way in just 6 months.

[@samikal4801]

Love you both

[@vladizlatko]

Thank you Lewis Howes!

[@kashifhayatpti1580]

You know Lewis, I feel I am NOT left without friends anymore since when I have started listening to you and Tom all the time! I have no other friends to have such deep conversations! One day I will be sitting with both of you and we will have live conversations

[@GamerGrade]

Lewis is a role model to us all, showing us how to deal with the hardships of life, and still come out on top of the world.

[@seekellavation]

What is beautiful about this interview to me is 1. Two amazing energies that I love watching are at the same table and 2. Listening to the timeline of when some of the challenges were being dealt with, points to times when each were helping other people become better. You never know what someone else is struggling with no matter what it looks like on the outside. Hence, don't wait to perfect yourself before moving forward. The process can transform you. Lastly, the spiritual convo was refreshing. @lewishowes you eloquently expressed your beliefs of Truth.

[@lewishowes]

Thank you

[@MichaelaSmith]

Gentlemen - LOVE this conversation. Your missions are the same and yet you are SO DIFFERENT. Lewis' path feels very aligned to mine, mission, healing wounds, peace, harmony and simple (not easy) KNOWING when you are on the right track. I love Tom and every time I listen to Tom I hear unresolved wounding. Push. Almost anger. This is not a judgement - no right / no wrong:-). I just feel like I want to give Tom a massive hug and say - it's OK. I love you both - thank you for being such inspirations!

[@Koryogden]

Fake Tom in comments

[@yannikin]

Holy crap. This literally is the best session I’ve ever listened to in this genre. Tom is such a great interviewer and Lewis is so good at packing up super emotional topics into words.

[@terrispero6292]

I have watched Lewis for a few years now. This is the most informative conversation. I am the female version of him. He is so amazing how he breaks this down. He is vulnerable and it's so attractive coming from a man. Go Lewis.. you're a beautiful human!! You are the best at being true to yourself and understand it helps so many of us in this crazy world. You're unstoppable.

[@dionnemathew780]

This is beautiful :). I am listening to two of the three to five podcasters that I believe played a strong role in leading me out of a very dark place I felt stuck in for much of 2020. You are both doing a wonderful job inspiring others and giving useful suggestions to implement change ~ body, mind, and spirit. Im so grateful for the algorithm that led me to each of your shows. Namaste’

[@codenamemasterlee]

Hi. I listen to three...Tom, Jay & Lewis. I'm curious though, who are the other two in your 5 please. I'm always looking for new sources. Thanks.

[@neuroninjacare]

My god Lewis! You have done an amazing job at reconnecting with yourself. It’s so obvious in the way you speak, and so interesting to look at your videos from years past compared to now. You’re one of the most amazing examples of the healing that’s possible and how it can change your life, as well as influence others. 💕

[@lewishowes]

🙏🙏🙏

[@conniechan1891]

Tom, I love the way you articulate-use language… Penetrates right through the mind and body, and vibrates through every cell in the body.

[@GlynTaylor]

1:09:00 the few minutes from here are absolute gold! One of the highlights of all the hundreds of podcasts I've watched the past 2 months 👍

[@KathyMcDevitt]

Lewis, thank you for being so honest so others can grow too!

[@betty39031]

Tom, I love the way you articulate disagreement still expressing curiosity. Mindblowing!

[@functionalaestheticse.c.8953]

"THE GREATEST MINDSET IS TO BE DRIVEN BY A MEANINGFUL MISSION. Amen!

[@yesreneau]

I feel the most peace when I’m sick #zeroexpectations

[@jukijunk]

Two living legends = Awesomeness!

[@sukjinderdhahan4894]

Listening to this as I tackle my final mortgage broker paper. 2 of my favourite podcast hosts. Amazing wisdom. Thank you guys. Big love from South London

[@rizziec]

I love when my faves link up 🎉

[@sihlesoldati5593]

My favs🥰😁😃 Tom thank you so much for having Lewis as your honored guest. Thank you both, for investing your precious time to give us the tools necessary so that we enjoy every moment on this beautiful planet 😍🌏

[@rmauriced]

Two Titans of the Personal Achievement, self-help Internet space. I knew this was gonna be good. THANKS GUYS!

[@bliss_555]

What a truly fascinating and important blessing of a conversation this was to witness! I've been delving into it every here and there over the past month and it gave me so much to think about. I bought Lewis's book because of this interview and I'm almost halfway through. I seriously recommend this book to anyone. I suffer from anxiety and the exercises it gives us in the first chapter finally put clear words onto my Meaningful Mission. I felt like I've always sort of known, but being able to see the common thread throughout my whole life and making it as clear as possible finally put my mind at peace. I am honestly surprised by the accuracy of the exercises. Thank you so much Lewis for your book, and thanks Tom for introducing me to Lewis Howes!

[@hteidelful]

Two of my favorite peeps on the planet having a conversation. 🎤

[@daviddriggers5659]

What a fantastic roundtable!!! It's not a typical interview - so many distinctions on what we need to do to build greatness within us... To live at the next level is not a one and done process, it's continuous. I learned SO much from both Lewis and Tom 👍👍

[@kodeshministry4612]

Tom's authenticity in this one is very relatable.

[@donnaccain]

What a useful, inspiring conversation between two great role models. Thank you, Tom and Lewis!

[@natashabanky9507]

Finally!!! The two of you together! Lewis Howes is my other favourite presenter in this growth mindset space. 🧡

[@MsFitVegan]

This was INCREDIBLE!!!!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@gabrielachavez3726]

Guys you just keep giving ❤ Thanks from the bottom of my heart ♥️

[@hejmRage]

They're just interviewing each other 😅 this podcast is a dream, love the two!

[@jzen1455]

I've grown more in the past 2 months that I have in the past 5 years by being my authentic self as much as possible. I've reduced the frequency to which I people please, say "yes" to things I've wanted to say "no" to, put others before myself, say what I think others want/expect me to say, and allow others to step on my boundaries. I feel much lighter and freer! Yes I've pushed some people away because my authentic self repulses some people. But I've found more people who accept me for who I am and vice versa and more people who operate on the same wavelength. I'm building a personal network of people who encourage each other to belong--that is to be accept for their authentic self--instead of fitting in.

[@Eserr7856]

How do you know if your authentic self that pushes some people away is healthy and good individual and not toxic? Do you self reflect? Are you honest with your shortcomings or are you self-righteous? Thank you for your feedback

[@jzen1455]

@@Eserr7856 I try to assess things from everyone's perspective as objectively as possible. For example, I was recently ghosted by a woman who was officially diagnosed with borderline. It would be easy to just say she was crazy, it was all her fault, and wallow in sour grapes. But I knew I was I was signing up for and decided to play with fire and got burned. Since I'm extremely familiar with borderline, there were no surprises and the trajectory of the relationship went as I anticipated. Also, I took note of all my actions/reactions and her action/reactions and came up with an objective analysis (with the help of my therapist) similar to a psychology case study. A co-dependent person may predominately blame themselves for not being perfect enough for such a person. A narcissist may place nearly all the blame on the other person. Me, I'm somewhat co-dependent, mildly narcissistic, and have a mildly fearful-avoidant attachment style. I'm hyper-aware of how my traumatic childhood shaped my personality and the certain mal-adaptive traits I've developed. I hold myself accountable for the actions I took that would be considered in poor taste regardless of who I was interacting with, with the understanding that acting in that manner with someone with borderline would lead to an extremely more volatile reaction. I basically analyze all my social interactions as case studies that involves viewing things from the lens of every person I interact with.

[@Eserr7856]

Wow, really introspective and thorough self analysis with professional guidance! Keep up the great work!

[@hmoen]

I love seeing you both in the same video

[@karissajones2294]

Two of my favorite interviewers. ❤

[@desireewhitney6583]

I pre-ordered you book and it arrives today. I am so excited because I know this book will be a game changer. You are Greatness personified. Thank you.

[@Squirrel-zq6oe]

_hell yes_

[@amandaknull6765]

wow this episode is fire!

[@nickirealtime]

Brillant! My book arrives in the mail today. Can't wait! Thank you Lewis & Tom for this interview!

[@lewishowes]

Thanks!!!

[@AlitzelGuerrero_]

Te amamos Lewis!

[@AwakenWithDawn]

If anyone is listening to the Salsa Dancing part and is/are worried about trying the dance style; remember to practice rotating the hips in the figure 8 motion, from up to down, side to side, and forward/backward, in the mirror at home. Make doing all 3 motions in one motion, and make it fluid, (keeping your shoulders stable the whole time) and no one will laugh at you because you'll already know how to move yourself.

[@lidiagrot-baran4812]

Two Great Men got together ❤ this program must to be absolute WOW 👏

[@GlynTaylor]

Spoiler alert, it is

[@HonzaRajnyy]

I really recommend the Book Journey of Souls by Michael Newton. It might give you a hint about what happens after our physical bodies turn off 🙂 Interesting "fact" from this book is there's a guide who confronts you about what you've missed on in your past life and what hints were given to you that you haven't capitalised on. So you're probably not that far off when you imagine there's a confrontation between who you were and who you've should have been. Great episode, love both of you.

[@The_Sacred_Feminine]

Loved this! Two of my favorite people in one room.

[@bernhardzwiker]

Great interview. Thank you!

[@Lucysara60]

Thanks for sharing your experience, I believe in the power that we can heal ourselves with the love and faith of the divine.❤

[@tomboytalk2108]

My favorite two dudes together!!

[@safourasalami]

The 2 gigants meeting 🎉❤

[@hildagertze8539]

Love love love this conversation 🙏🏼💕

[@finmin1]

Best Show Ever

[@xrpjanejane7589]

it was so good to watch you two.. 😍

[@Ironman-cz4te]

Great podcast! Thanks, Lewis for being your authentic self! Yes! I believe we are spiritual beings having an experience in a human body! I also believe the body has the ability to heal itself. It reminds me of the great Peter Crone, Joe Dispenza, Etc.❤

[@poweredby_meech]

Yayyyy Ive been really hoping to see you on an episode together :) so much love😊

[@intentional_legacy]

Talk about killing two birds with one stone. I consistently watch both of their content, and now I get to watch them in the same room!

[@realestatewith-ryan]

Great content!! Daytona Beach Realtor don’t miss our new content!! 🎉🎉

[@michellechristina8770]

Peace for me is when I am operating in harmony with myself and the world around me.

[@dahyronvalenzuela5168]

What a gem of a video 💎 thank you for this

[@mcclendonreport]

I see that fear of success is foreign (a blind spot) for Tom. It is much more common than you think. The famous Shakespeare - “to be or not to be…” quote sums up the concept accurately. It’s about the new threats that await.

[@Eustaqui0]

This was an amazing episode. Thank you both

[@healthandyum]

Lewis Howes in one of my favourite podcasters. I listen to each and every one of his podcasts. ✨

[@stepintothelightofgrace9007]

Two of my most favorite hosts with and then I found out today your married to Lisa…and she’s one of my favorites…Oh My Goodness❣️ So happy for you two🫶

[@ferrouswill]

60:44 another nugget.

[@sophieeeee93]

Hi Tom and Lewis. Thanks for this interview. I just wanted to say, I found it interesting hearing your talking about the afterlife/nothingness after death. The reason I found this interesting is because I am a Christian. I believe in life after death, and even a new physical body- for those who are saved for eternal life by trusting Jesus- a new body which will never decay or age or get ill. That the Bible even says that there will be a new physical earth... one that isn't messed up and full of suffering... but one that is full of love and peace and happiness with God. I pray that if anyone reads this comment, that they would know how real Jesus is... that you can even know Him now, and talk to Him. That He can make us in right standing with God, so that we are able to come back to life in a new body when Jesus returns. I just wanted to put forth my belief in Jesus, and pray for people to know Him. But no one can force anyone to believe in anything, only let them know, and therefore give them the opportunity!

[@Eserr7856]

I think it is very important to talk about God and spirituality because alot of self-help channels are solely focused on "the self" being the master and creator, the end all and be all of one's life in this world. I think self help can only take one so far because this is a very competitive world and not every one has the same "luck" depending on so many variables outside of our control, health, environment, race, income, country. That is why belief in God as the author and master of our lives is so important to have confidence and peace even if things do go the way we wanted even with self help, hard work, etc.

[@Tony-js7js]

I love u guys, u create great content ❤

[@tinamariedestefans5663]

39:00 my thought: everything is simultaneously right and wrong, good and bad. How you react to the neutral circumstances in your life and which aspect you focus on determines how you feel about it.

[@4adreamer]

Hi, love the episode, specially that Tom and Lewis are so different and their mind works in different ways, which makes it even more interesting. Can anyone please tell me the title of the biography mentioned in the episode?

[@scottk1525]

I see Howes is rocking the cool youth pastor look

[@ferrouswill]

Another nugget at 60:05.

[@stevenalspaw6586]

Peace within yourself is so FUCKING hard. It's easy to say no to everything but yet nothings changed.

[@jbobrik1216]

Bedros! Brother, so fucking glad I came across you 🙏🏼 You and Ed are my #1. Peace talk soon.

[@deaglefly4338]

Finally🙌🙌

[@thienthuthiennhan]

If you try, you will succeed. If you don’t, you will fail. Failure is the result of not trying

[@Ironfist_007]

Please bring back chapters in your videos like it used to be earlier

[@funnytv-1631]

Look at the sunlight warming the day. The light you see has traveled over ninety-million miles to greet you. These rays arrive, one after another, every instant to brighten the world around you. But if you were to hold up a convex lens, you would experience even more of its power. Imagine harnessing the power of your mind like a convex lens. Like cars merging when lanes are reduced, you can concentrate your thoughts together. What could you switch off today so that all your power might converge like rays of the sun brought into a focus?

[@NilsExp]

incredible

[@lilamnbdh967]

Thank you Tom 🙏❤️

[@gabrielachavez3726]

Please excuse my question I have been trying to figure this out. If we’re an idea 💡 feelings aren’t real -why do painful experiences, physical rape impact us constantly if it’s not really occurring & it’s in our mind. Why bother dealing with the past and why is it a bad rap to just disassociate ? perhaps I’m not really very clear but if anyone can help with this question I’d appreciate it. Lewis your are loved. You have helped me a great deal.

[@Gnetbird]

It's good content. But it's hard to follow. Keep up the good work. 👍👍

[@ferrouswill]

The nugget is at 30:00.

[@Relaxart8]

That s a Booooom!!

[@RudiZimmerer]

Sure I am the most imperfect person. For myself, if I write books or blogs, I benefit from them the most, because I get clarity... Success is not important, to me. It is important to serve the Lord, to connect to the Lord... All the other things are too superficial, and in the end, they don't help us... Who are You? What is God for you? What is your real mission? Are You happy with your life? What do you regret? A moment of joy or happiness is not a lost moment. (Chinese proverb)

[@chiefkaha5650]

0:09 - 0:13 was that a David Goggins quote? 😂😂

[@waldeckalex]

When does the book hit Audible?

[@laurieclarkson9180]

omg..that's just devastating to hear what happened with his Dad! Heartbreaking!

[@Kriszee4]

Aww yay, I know this is going to be a great video with both of you guys 👍👍

[@W0A1]

Wtf... I needed this...

[@hejmRage]

Lewis, when you think about psychedelics, remember your haloumi story! Just give it a shot, it can't hurt you because you are not your mind. What you are is beyond the realm of whatever can be touched in this reality.

[@andreabbott9104]

🔥🔥🔥

[@somesteak6100]

It's like the 12 step program in AA. Best life I've ever lived

[@AnjaEvelynHolm]

Wow❤ my two fav guys having a talk!!!! Psyked to listen ✌️✌️☺️☺️☀️

[@jailene8086]

“A perfect mindset is not one free of a negative inner voice, it’s one that knows how to handle and minimize the impact of said negative inner voice.” Tom Bilyeu

[@HillaryJubilee]

Someone introduce Tom to Matias de Stefanos!!!!!! ✨🦋💓

[@dawngrundy9743]

When the student is ready. The teacher will come. 😉

[@cakcross4759]

Tom you sound slightly passive aggressive towards him at times. Your personality is just different from Lewis' personality. Don't compare him to you.

[@andreaW888]

Can you interview Dr. Shawn Baker pls…

[@OmiLove]

He knows that Spanish will be #1 language by 2030!

[@rateloveable]

Tom B is talking about the Pleasure of sitting around and doing nothing while LH is actually talking about peace! Peace with what you are doing. There is a part of ambition that may entile casualties but that is another conversation.

[@HeyMichsi]

Um, he jumped in straight away with the exact thing I'm trying to overcome.

[@2strokeorchoke496]

How do you counter hopelessness if a relationship you really wanted fails? If she was a 10, ambitious, beautiful, continuous like you? I’ve been working for 8 months straight more than 16hrs a day at home to start businesses to get her back but I know I won’t get the respect if I take the first step as I was betrayed. I drive a car with 300,000 miles and look good but now it’s time to step back out into the world and get a job to fund my businesses. I don’t want a woman who’s not ambitious and feel like giving up on her is giving up on myself. Some might say I never give up but it’s taking it’s toll and I’m slowly loosing. Best regards, Jon.

[@Eserr7856]

I don't think you should seek your self worth or your value from somebody that is not yourself, because you said "giving up on her is giving up on yourself". Work hard and be ambitious for yourself. Then the right woman will come along and be attracted to your character because that is who you are and not because you are doing that to manipulate a woman into being attracted to you

[@renjithomas8088]

This was really good, until it became uncomfortable. Tom drilled down on many points. Answers weren’t the best. Ram sling was uncomfortable

[@daniel_najar]

Yeah, I noticed that too. Tom even said “I’m calling bullshit” to one of Lewis responses lol… Tom didn’t seem like his usual self on this one. The chemistry just wasn’t there.

[@jarvanwildrift8056]

Tom is quite anti god and life after we die so he cant stay quite when thats the topic 🙂

[@shelbysteiger6821]

Hey there! 🎉 Exciting news to share - I've just applied to not one, but TWO openings at your amazing company! 🚀 While I may not have all the experience listed, I'm a fast learner and genuinely passionate about your mission. I firmly believe I'd be a valuable asset to your team if given the opportunity to interview. 🌟 So, fingers crossed, and let's make this happen! 💪

[@derrickagonzales]

World's colliding

[@loisthompson1155]

And Tom, don’t worry, no one is ever going to think that you’re smart.

[@healingeveryday7429]

Many msgs are missing..... Wonder why ??