📺 Watch the full episode here kzbin.info/www/bejne/gn2wdJdpjMeafc0&ab_channel=TheDiaryOfACEO
@prossyboli991327 күн бұрын
Spoken like a man...
@srdvizions134527 күн бұрын
5:10 not really feeling that "we divide an conqueror" phrase
@eleenieves27 күн бұрын
#1-Sex is sex, but #2- having an intimate connection and making love is different. You can't have #2 all the time and sometimes all you want or need is #1. But this vid is more about having better quality of either one. Most guys don't have a clue, and most women just need to learn how to communicate. Kudos to the ones that have mastered this skill 🎉
@Katarzyna-h2z27 күн бұрын
Try to be human, not just animal.
@Colibriastic26 күн бұрын
Just followed Susan. Thank you so much for bringing this to the table. We need to keep bringing open conversations around what is inately central to being human.
@tylercrooks865927 күн бұрын
It’s seems to me like most self improvement today is about how men can show up better / learn more about women. While this is very important, the relationships that thrive are the ones where the women are also wanting to learn how to show up for their men, too.
@Brassai12327 күн бұрын
In Russia it is the opposite. Everything for to catch a man!:)
@tofuguru94127 күн бұрын
Exactly. But there's no money in a professional male sex therapist LOL
@Yeehaw01926 күн бұрын
Exactly. For me the situation is literally the exact opposite *
@Eddybo2226 күн бұрын
I agree with you. Most women don't even know anything about themselves. Unfortunately they always end up wasting their youth having meaningless sex and that always fucks them up by the time a man who wants to get to know them in all aspects comes around. They expect the man to know everything. Woman if you don't know what gets you off how the heck am I going to know? Lol When a woman complains just sit then down and tell them this : "You don't care to please me, why should I give a damn to please you? Did Chad and Tyrone learn how to please you? Or did you just go buckwild not even caring about your own pleasure? If that's the case don't blame me for your lack of knowledge about your own body. Shieeeeeeeetttttt" . 😂😂😂😂
@Eddybo2226 күн бұрын
@@tofuguru941men are definitely straight forward but there are certainly things that men can do to help the situation. Being open to learning and willing to understand a woman's body provided she knows what is going on as well is a great first step.
@sid-d4w27 күн бұрын
"My current relationship" "My current girlfriend" always sounds very non committal 😅
@kcollaloha27 күн бұрын
He looks so uncomfortable - lol. She might be a little flamboyant and wild, but she is right. Sorry folks. Y'all commenting must be young...just wait until you are married 20+ yrs.
@denisedecker733026 күн бұрын
Truth!
@slkonnaris847726 күн бұрын
Well said, the immaturity -in all senses of the word, is crystal clear with some comments
@BetterLover25 күн бұрын
So true!
@greywolf478420 күн бұрын
agree!
@Daniela-gn4ue24 күн бұрын
Love this woman!! 🙌💕 great guest, excellent advice for couples in long term relationships. Excitement and switching it up is key. Love her passion and enthusiasm for the topic. We wouldn’t want a monotone robot explaining sex and orgasm. Not understanding the critical comments
@rahulmodi870627 күн бұрын
Skylar new career after Breaking Bad
@HeroC1427 күн бұрын
I ****ed Ted.
@MszStealUrHeart27 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@SD2709027 күн бұрын
yeah, 20 years after
@InkyLeavesBotanicalArt27 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@manoftomorrow598727 күн бұрын
😂😂😂 aye man
@ALTheFreeMan27 күн бұрын
“Do I wanna be pounced on”? Thought she was gonna say “pounded”, lol
@MsSosase27 күн бұрын
😂😂yo same man🤣🤣
@Fraunzi27 күн бұрын
Lmfaoo
@gwelamwanza11727 күн бұрын
Great interview, u can tell she has a deep understanding of intimacy
@astroboirap27 күн бұрын
or just talking bs
@wandizzle27 күн бұрын
I beg to differ
@CJ2006-e4e27 күн бұрын
She a lively one 😅. I liked the clip though. I like people who are comfortable talking about awkward topics.
@andreabrigitteprohaska328127 күн бұрын
Hugs are the importance to find out if you can smell each other. Sympathy forwarded and let it flow 1:40 thank you for verbalizing 5:58
@jackthebasenji127 күн бұрын
She's right.
@wolfie733027 күн бұрын
After watching this I’m not having sex anymore….
@livinlicious27 күн бұрын
She assumes to know, but she has no idea what she is talking about. She describes what women want. She has no idea about men. Never ask women what men want or need.
@alienmatters310627 күн бұрын
Yeah I think this lady is nuts too. Who is she talking about? Women? What women? Maybe she thinks about sex like this but I've never met a women that talks or thinks about sex like this. Also has she ever thought about what guys want? Doesn't sound like it
@fairfaxvienna409927 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@annaphillips626325 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@greywolf478420 күн бұрын
porn has clouded your understanding
@Fraunzi27 күн бұрын
Damn the way she talks is kinda hot ngl 😂
@tonyp491423 күн бұрын
Thought it was just me 😂
@chrisgoldbach445027 күн бұрын
Work on your massage skills
@blackmcbain314527 күн бұрын
Massage Deez, Chris.
@richdb111526 күн бұрын
Happy Birthday 🎉Kyle & thank you
@xrpmindset25 күн бұрын
It’s like they die inside every other day and it’s your job to bring her back to life. Listen to this video again see for yourself it’s all about what you do for her.
@tonyp491423 күн бұрын
Unfortunately 😂
@JobjobJob-f6e27 күн бұрын
First viewer 😳 when did I become this kind of person? 😔
@HeroC1427 күн бұрын
🥈
@sithticklefingers725527 күн бұрын
The day you were born!
@happycamper13726 күн бұрын
All this sounds so complicated. When you're wife is your best friend.... it's not that hard!
@denisedecker733026 күн бұрын
It's always the men that say that because they always get off. Remember when Harry met Sally.
@maluribeiro6826 күн бұрын
Well, perhaps she is not talking to people who have it all figured out, attraction leads us to different things, our background leads us to different things, not all of us have everything figured out… There is much your wife friend might not be telling you just to Not make you insecure or create waves… Maybe you should shake things up a little bit… Or maybe you are one of those very rare couples…, The videos obviously not addressing you.
@hanneliewiese347727 күн бұрын
Making so much money out of all of this !!
@denisedecker733026 күн бұрын
Am therapy, and doctors, and surgeons that need to repair hooded clitorises and...
@23DanielVincent22 күн бұрын
Like Rollo Tomassi says, "genuine desire can't be negotiated."
@somethingandahalf27 күн бұрын
oh my god lady speak like a normal person you're a pain to listen to. clearly you know your stuff but come on
@1HeatWalk27 күн бұрын
Wait, people are having sex?!
@prossyboli991327 күн бұрын
😂 you know!
@denisedecker733026 күн бұрын
The comments on this thread are full of shame.
@wn340827 күн бұрын
why is everything complicated these days?
@dkeith-fc8hn27 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@ALTheFreeMan27 күн бұрын
Definitely seems one-sided…
@TheBlayner27 күн бұрын
@@ALTheFreeManwell it’s not all that hard to please a dude lol. Show me a nice boob and let me touch you and I’m ready😂
@denisedecker733026 күн бұрын
Yes unfortunately people don't communicate they're on their phones.
@maluribeiro6826 күн бұрын
Because for millennia men have been complaining, when the fact is their frustration was caused by the fact that they had new curiosity and sensibility to discover how women function. We are finally talking about sex for women, and the pleasure of women, only the last 20 to 30 years, it has been a very sharp rising learning curve since the 50s… Sexually speaking and emotionally speaking human beings have always been complicated, if we didn’t know that it’s just because most of our needs were neglected! The needs of women.
@delphinepujol798827 күн бұрын
She is fun ❤🎉
@beverleyreid56326 күн бұрын
She sure isn't Dr. Ruth.
@Franzino27 күн бұрын
My girlfriend was laughing out loud with the nonsense this lady is talking about….
@RJT-hp8vk27 күн бұрын
Agree with your gf
@cjlooklin191427 күн бұрын
Cope
@user-wq5ws1qs7x26 күн бұрын
Because she wishes you would listen to her
@denisedecker733026 күн бұрын
Because she didn't want to hurt you feeling. he was at 12 years of marriage.
@maluribeiro6826 күн бұрын
Then your girlfriend knows very little about most women! These particular clip, I don’t know the entire conversation, definitely was very woman centered, And also, the lady is speaking more in terms of relationship than casual sex. Casual sex has its own arousal mechanism cut out because it’s casual, it’s an adventure, it hasn’t turned into something more complex, and it might not, which makes it exciting… But in relationships, you do need to get attentive to your partner, male, or female, or non-binary, and you need to create moments of intimacy, rebuilding, trust, romance, or creativity… This lady’s language or examples might seem a little antiquated or not quite up-to-date with millennium and zoomer concerns, but she’s trying to say “sex (or inspiration for it) is all the time, it’s in a hug, it has sometimes to fit in chores, with daily pressures…” - you are not the only people on earth, and you should be more empathetic and not less to Xers and boomers, Who paved the way to the freedom that millennials and Zoomers have today!
@CaptCanuck444427 күн бұрын
If I have to put in 80%+ of the effort, is this "expert" suggests, and tiptoe around the subject of sex with my partner...sorry, I'm just not interested. It's a ludicrous premise that a guy shouldn't expect his girlfriend or wife to be similarly interested in physical encounters unless he jumps through a bunch of hoops first and has no expectations or needs himself. Such toxic advise.
@ALTheFreeMan27 күн бұрын
Yep, definitely seems one-sided, which seems to be getting more and more common on this channel.
@Katarzyna-h2z27 күн бұрын
Because you are lazy, don't know female biology. Men and women are very different,men are simple, women are not.
@livinlicious27 күн бұрын
She describes it like most women. Women-focused. She clearly has no idea what men want or need. Most women dont.
@niceworkabc27 күн бұрын
She is a woman giving a woman's perspective ... fancy that 😂
@liminalspace138227 күн бұрын
It’s not one-sided, it’s how it works.
@sampiazza32727 күн бұрын
If your starting with the hope for great sex before a great loving, sacrificing and trusting relationship within a marriage covenant, you are chasing Fools Gold. Great sex comes from Great Love, anything else is using the other for self pleasure
@jellyjams721727 күн бұрын
I’m still on the step of figuring out how to have sex in the first place
@maluribeiro6826 күн бұрын
Read a lot! Talk to closest friends. Ask your closest parent. And don’t follow much porn. No woman has orgasms in most of the ways they show in porn. It’s all pretend! Whatever gender or sexuality you are… Plus porn sex is boring! Nobody wants that all the time…
@misskeah889323 күн бұрын
Work on yourself. Love yourself. Learn how to communicate.
@triplem234527 күн бұрын
This one does not seem real to me
@gravity_well562727 күн бұрын
Family > sex. Maybe our culture should stop looking for sex and start looking for commitment...
@denisedecker733026 күн бұрын
That's like saying just eat a bowl of cereal for dinner and save the dishes instead of a steak.
@maluribeiro6826 күн бұрын
What… 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😅😅😅😅 Rethink that…
@cjj612025 күн бұрын
This is a discussion of how to have sex to sustain commitment
@alrosenblum227427 күн бұрын
Please don't "should on me". Should is an unfair, discouraging comparison with some imagined standard. Let your love life evolve
@andshewas29627 күн бұрын
It's not that complicated lady.
@Elephant_Thoughts27 күн бұрын
Read the book, "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus." Women by nature are vastly complicated compared to men so her advice is more so for men to begin to unravel the complexity of a woman's thinking.
@ionut.cvisan27 күн бұрын
😂😂
@coomessa400227 күн бұрын
I beg to differ… I bet your partner does too😂
@jphillips854527 күн бұрын
You sound like such a sexist dude right now 🤣
@GrantJackson70USD27 күн бұрын
Please expound.
@mskatefish26 күн бұрын
6:00 amen sister
@samfourness473727 күн бұрын
Very one sided pov
@maluribeiro6826 күн бұрын
True, but it is a clip within a long interview. Also, I think that if men realized what they could do to afford a better experience to someone else, they’d get back everything they dream of, probably tenfold! Because if women as frustrated sexual beings that most of us, and through history, are already very giving when we don’t get nearly as much pleasure and orgasms as men, not to mention, more used and abandoned too, imagine if women were mostly sexually satisfied! The world might even be a different place! Less bickering, More love! More humanity! We might have less wars and more peace, my friend… Just think of that…
@Spacedust191124 күн бұрын
Not every woman is like this…
@FroggerTV127 күн бұрын
Sex click bait for views 😂
@loudpipes971125 күн бұрын
You do all that and she cheats on you anyway!! She has over complicated the while thing!! She sounds like a boring time..
@misskeah889323 күн бұрын
It's not you...your partner lacks either character or communication .
@mtdofficial246624 күн бұрын
Bro said “my sexual history “😂
@jeremiahchintu250927 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂tf........
@TheWildHerb27 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@spartanmtb264027 күн бұрын
This woman is scary … way too OTT
@maluribeiro6826 күн бұрын
She may be freer than you… She may be fun! Maybe you should accept a rider range of possibilities for each of us to feel and be what we are without judgement…
@fairfaxvienna409927 күн бұрын
She’s a lot 😬
@NostalgicAtmosphere24 күн бұрын
Unwatchable. Gross.
@billyrock830527 күн бұрын
Wacko 🤪
@jdpg0127 күн бұрын
Such a waste of time......😂😂😂😂
@creativecreep27 күн бұрын
Until there's botox for the chest, stop getting it in your face. It's difficult to take advice about loving sex, from someone who doesn't even love themselves.
@patriciacurran210526 күн бұрын
Ugh. Very very sad comment. I think she loves herself actually.
@aviwepama828626 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@gigacatkun24 күн бұрын
Bruh! She's fine. She's just old. And it's normal. No need to try to beautify it with artificial toxins and stuff.
@Noo-qe9zi14 күн бұрын
Confused, how can you tell there is no self love
@PapaVikingCodes27 күн бұрын
Don’t fall for that hold me stuff before sex. Sex like an animal. The two aren’t supposed to happen at the same time.
@blackmcbain314527 күн бұрын
Maybe rape pillage and steal aren't the traditional values we should be aiming for 😂😂😂 unless she has a fetish
@PeaceFan127 күн бұрын
SO STUPID..You COMPLETELY Missed the Point and I would BET that your Partner has NEVER had an Orgasm as a result of your WACK, SELFISH Viewpoint!!!!