How To Articulate Your Thoughts and Make People Listen To You

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[@sirmister1827]

I think another major tip that I tried is to listen to how people answer interview questions, Whether it's your favorite celebrity or a well spoken person. Listen to how they answer simple questions, or complex questions, or personal questions, or even how to reject answering rude questions. Usually celebrities have unique ways to answer questions. By listening to their interviews and how they respond, you will eventually start to fomulate your own answers based on the answers that stuck to you the most.

[@user-ij6ng5bi8j]

You have a thick accent and do not articulate your English words properly. Did you really not know that?

[@user-ij6ng5bi8j]

@@sirmister1827 Your English writing is poor. I very much doubt that you speak well.

[@1ND1G066]

3:23 Rule 1: Have a clear purpose & structure 8:15 Rule 2: Speak simply 9:14 Rule 3: Learn to deliver (elements) 9:18 Eye contact 9:26 Gestures 9:33 Voice 9:43 Posture 10:25 Permit structure: Conclusion, provide your reasoning, give specific examples (practices) 11:35 Read regularly 11:43 Daily writing 11:50 Listen to good speeches 11:58 Record yourself Just like Ruri's first video that I've watched, and just like the vast majority of Dr.K's videos from the HealthygamerGG channel, this video somehow seems to have shown up at the perfect time of my life where such an issue seems to be most prevalent. During the vast majority of, if not my whole life, I've struggled to express myself properly/deliver my thoughts well enough, which has cost me more than once. Even now, I still sometimes struggle to express things clearly oftentimes, which makes me worried I'm not being taken seriously enough by the other people in a given conversation, especially once I run out of things to say; I also don't often hang out with other people in general which means I don't get to "exercise" enough in this (and I also feel embarrased to talk to/record myself even when I'm all alone); and in turn I become less willing to hang out with others in the first place out of worry that I might become an inconvenience to be around, and thus the cycle continues. I try not to think about this too much/tend to forget about it, but sometimes I'm reminded of all this and many other things and feel stuck. On that regard, this is one of the main reasons I chose to stick around Ruri's channel after watching her first video many months ago; I may not always be(come) willing to practice all the things that she suggests in her videos, but even mentioning the issues/possible tips at all makes me feel called out on a series of issues I need to fix about myself to become better as a person on the whole.

[@GigaChadBigW]

amazing

[@rawsright]

unhealthygaslighter is the kind of person who would say the richest people are those who live on the streets. Rehab room exposed him

[@GH0STD3M0NnoOni]

your the best

[@PlaceofFreedom-n2x]

Thanks for time codes, bro. You are the best)

[@AIKnowledge2Go]

Even as an introvert, it's tough when people don’t seem to care about what we have to say, leading us to shut down more over time. This video, Ruri, is a helpful reminder of what we need to work on. Thanks for the encouragement, Ruri!

[@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving]

Love this, Ruri! Communication skills are very important. It really helps to have confidence in yourself. Action Builds Experience, Experience Builds Confidence, Confidence Destroys Fear!

[@jimmynewell1885]

Awesome quote, dude!

[@ruriohama]

Damn good quote!!!

[@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving]

@@ruriohama thanks so much! Keep being awesome, Ruri!

[@user-ij6ng5bi8j]

@@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving Thanks? That's not your quote.😄

[@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving]

@@user-ij6ng5bi8jthat is my quote. I made it years ago on a video.

[@denzsamson8049]

"Listen to good speeches" One reason why I'm hooked up to Ruri's channel

[@withny1234]

Every introvert is grateful for this video, it's great!

[@loganpothast9780]

Ruri your as articulate as any life coach I have found on yourube. Been watching your videos for a week now n it's shifted me. Thank you ❤

[@miami-999]

Ruri you inspire me a lot. May God bless you with wealth, health and success. ❤

[@10xdollar]

If you are reading this comment, don’t worry your channel is going to get better we all got this!

[@LimePestoLAUGH]

Great advice. I sometimes struggle with trying to articulate my thoughts so this video could help out on that. Keep up the good content Ruri!

[@ri0san]

I just wanna say thank you so much for the the app cald minimalist tht I've make a video for its change my life

[@mansoor3159]

Ruri I am so so so glad to see you back again and I absolutely needed this video😀💖

[@ruriohama]

I’m back!! Hope you will find it valuable

[@mansoor3159]

​@@ruriohamaYes it is very valuable for me🥹🥹

[@PiggyBankStories]

This is so heard in the beginning, I can't even present using my own voice because I am not comfortable with my own voice. Thank you Ruri for sharing!

[@orlandoacontreras]

Greetings from Venezuela, South America. 🇻🇪🖐️

[@aamish.iqbal01]

Hi Ruri, I'm 17 years old & watching your videos has completely transformed my mindset. 🌟 They are incredibly inspiring and have motivated me to push myself towards achieving my goals in mental health, physical fitness and financial freedom by the end of this year. Thank you for all that you do.Lots of love ❤,

[@mohammedhadida]

Very helpful video about communication. I feel it's an important skill to have in life and someone's career.

[@spashak6]

I'm in Africa and I only speak French but you inspire me a lot. I translate your videos to listen. Thank you very much

[@kakkakarrotcake1288]

Ruri is probably one of the only content creators I could actually be comfortable calling and Influencer. Great vid mate.

[@nomidemon3607]

I just needed this to implement onto my channel. thanks

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My fav person is coming back with new video ❤

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She is back 🎉🎉🎉 welcome back ruri lot of love 😊❤

[@hanc2411]

These are the posts that I benefited from the most while watching and that helped me the most in terms of changing my perspective. Thank you very much for your efforts and sharing, Rurisan.

[@oxsammyy]

At last you made it sis, I was waiting for your new video. I am a big fan of yours❤️

[@IsaacFunez-ly7fz]

I miss you ,im glad to heard you back you’re so special dear ❤

[@turkceokuyalmmohamed4700]

Your style and how you speak ...so comfortably🎉❤

[@Education-eg5lf]

Hey I am from India. Your video are quite different and helpful. My story is same as like you“ My uncles scam my dad they stolen our property ” then we become poor. That time I small child. Now I am collage student try to become financially free and support my family. I think culture and language are different in world but human behaviour is same.

[@SaaZhang]

This video inspired me to build a approachable way for a introvert to communicate more，thx Ruri❤

[@bart4lifeZz]

This is a helpful video for me, thank you. I really like how you film yourself, it's fun. I also want to say that you are adorable and I love your creativity.

[@Sobirova7]

I admire your thoughts and advices. Thanks Ruri❤

[@Chheng_Nguon]

Thank you Ruri, I just found your channel and it’s very inspiring :)😊

[@ruriohama]

Thank you!!

[@AnthonyManzio]

@@ruriohama 70% of married couples end up having 3 some and may do swinging too. Never ever get married. All will end up divorcing you.

[@alibekKadralinov-y2s]

and you don 't need anyone to listen to you , the main thing is to listen to yourself and your mind and heart❤

[@applehead2004mj]

this is not how it works in life

[@JaysonHolechek]

Deep.. but, if you want to sell anything, have a youtube channel, or create anything at all you do lol.

[@mentaestudio]

I love this YT Channel.. it feels like it was just fit for me. Can you read my mind and this is a conspirancy to improve myself? 🤔

[@chimyonchimyon2220]

Thank you Ruri sister taşekkurlar . This video is beneficial for me❤❤

[@sarahs1212]

I agree that moving your "yes" or "no" to the beginning of the sentence is very powerful. If you're struggling to get rid of saying "Um" while you think, it can sometimes be useful to replace it with, "Hmm," or, "That's a good question, let me think on that for a moment," so long as neither is overused. Thank you for this video! As a side note, I would be interested in knowing which makeup products you use, if you ever felt like keeping that information somewhere I would use those links.

[@Davi_Cosmo]

It's gonna be helpful to us, introverts. Thanks, Ruri for sharing your knowledgement with us ❤

[@travgpeters1]

Ruri ! . have not watched a video from you in awhile cos ive been too busy . but i watched this one today during my lunch break .. and greetings from Northern Ontario Canada !

[@BrasileirosemIzumo-nq4pg]

Great insights! Thank you inspiring me for my new videos.

[@gustavorh79]

Gosh I love your videos, and I love your accent... Keep going! Your videos are a true inspiration for me. Thanks!! 😊

[@Vikoboi]

Keep up the good work! Appreciate the content! Much love to you all!

[@ChristopherGarlejo]

Thank for every tip in learning english ma'am. 🇵🇭

[@니pu]

You're back!!! Yesterday I wanted to watch your new videos and you've uploaded today

[@callwinter]

I felt that your personality really shined through at the 4:45 scene! Nice to see :)

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still she is best Mikasa cosplay i have ever seen

[@SlinkySlonkyWaffle]

i remember having this really bad when i was younger, its only once i hit 19 and kinda "stopped caring" and focused more on explaining whats in my head rather than presenting nicely, that things worked allot better for me. mind you im autistic which is important context for what worked for me, but things are hazy now that im 24

[@Ramfat_99]

very valuable lesson, thanks Ruri

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I'm favoured, $22K every week! I can now give back to the locals in my community and also support God's work and the church. God bless America.

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As a beginner what do I need to do? How can I invest, on which platform? If you know any please share.

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Same, I met Mrs Anna Davis last year for the first time at a conference in Manchester, after then my family changed for good. God bless Mrs Anna

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Please who is Mrs Anna

[@CrEaToRAndy]

I recommend using pen and paper for notes taking and you won't have any problems with articulation or anything like that. Nowadays society is endlessly fighting the symptoms instead of the roots „digitalisation“ Simplicity is the key, this is the best state for transforming into effortless intuition, over-engineering is for robots, not for humans. Believe it or not it pen and paper has many positive psychological impacts than you can think of

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Damn girl you alive, thank God

[@ruriohama]

I’m sorry for not postinggg

[@jeycholz]

Ya Posture is definitely something that I need to work on! I don't want to deviant from my own faults but honestly speaking ...all of my smart devices and hand held consoles are not helping XD

[@ruriohama]

Same same

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Indeed! You're right. ♥️♥️♥️

[@hassansong7630]

*Sometimes my head gets messed up when I try to answer with coherence, it frustrates me sometimes but I am happy to know that you share a solution you can help me fix that, appreciate it.* *Greetings from Morocco 👋* 9:20 😳

[@andrewscot8553]

Thanks for the great video! I learned a lot!

[@periteu]

Write 750 words a day Speak at minimium 20 minutes a day - You can do 4 impromptu speaking - important to not ramble - Use the new A.I. technologies to "speak with someone else" Read a novel for 20 minutes Finish 1 mini crossword a day

[@2010joao]

Excelente vídeo, thank you 👍 we all are glad you are back 🎉 I just have a doubt: is it correct I assume that the simplest comunication is always better and safer or it depends?

[@Joy-bo7hn]

I'm drawn in by your voice and your content.

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Hellooo..it's good to see you again. Thanks for making videos for us broo ❤

[@Ejobgus]

I wish you always be happy ruri💖🙂

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fav youtuber is back with essential content.

[@Shincerely]

Thank you for useful tips. 😊

[@Kemirgen_Adam]

Şahsen iyi, kötü konuşuyorum başkasının ne düşündüğü çokta umrumda değil ama bazı insanlar çok düşünüp stres yapıyor. Ben bu kadar düşünümeye üşeniyorum, rahat yaşamak en iyisi.

[@Teteerck]

i always love those shots of ruri talking to a screenshot of a video call hahahah

[@Ikuya.miraculous]

This is gonna be helpful, but first lemme get my steak ready ruriiiii

[@aml-creation]

Great video and advice!

[@Calcungruity]

More vids like these! works so well...

[@imfinetysm]

All of this time waiting for your video 💌

[@ruriohama]

Hello hello

[@CptZhu]

This is also very important for when you are streaming, being articulate, im not good at it

[@sumjkn]

I love you. you've helped me sooo much

[@Corusame]

Wish world leaders used these methods.

[@ajurdaniron422]

Love you Ruri❤

[@MunsKi]

first have something to say... everything follows if these are facts... if you have to invent it out of the blue it will be hard... this is so easy

[@Annickrr]

Love her contents❤❤😊

[@nestinino.]

1:12 in La Gomera (Canary Islands) there is a way of communication like that one.

[@muhammadmurodullayev7074]

It is important

[@ziziworld9]

I love the way you make videos❤

[@dowthechick]

You're a lifesaver Ruri! Sharing valuable and appliable advices, yet standing from other self-improvement channels helps coping with procrastination in an easy/fast way. 💝 ¤ If you don’t have ideas, read. ¤ If you have ideas, but can’t articulate them, write. ¤ If you have ideas, and the clarity to execute, build. ~ Dan Koe

[@sven8645]

Communication seems really 😎 👶 important to articulate out thoughts

[@THANOSबाबा69]

Nice work keep it up 👍

[@ziyaerel2015]

Ruri’s each and every touch to your motivation makes you feel better!

[@dayanaquintero8713]

You're the best❤

[@shagwellington]

Ruri is the most amazing woman I've ever seen.

[@naamvarr-1]

It was really useful Thankful

[@elliotgreen3203]

Yes speaking is important

[@Bduboff]

I'm the youngest of 3 and never put it together that my bad communication skills could be partly because of how I was raised as the youngest.

[@Chan-cm9do]

Again, a very high quality post, as always. Thank you Ruri  Bunu Google'da ara 

[@ruriohama]

Thanks again!

[@mormaew]

I relisten this video 4 times , some things need to crystalize in my mind

[@SoFabtastic]

This will probably get lost in the sea of comments but you will LOVE the book: Difficult Conversations by Bruce Patton. Given to UN negotiators and relationship counsellers, it goes way deeper into effective communication.

[@_xBrokenxDreamsx_]

i realized long ago that i'm right about everything but nobody ever listens to me so now i just laugh in their faces and shame people publicly when they do stupid shit. works pretty well everywhere except the gym.

[@stephenmaher1029]

This young lady is a sharp cookie

[@ayushmourya2831]

Yeah Ruri that's really a thing during our interaction 🤓

[@JamesWiinston]

Im trying to get into youtube, its so hard, I have all the equipment, been through alot, what do you reccomend, and what videos do you have to get me motivated, followed you for a while, fluctuate life changes. thank you

[@MYTENGRIWAY]

Tengri blessing!💘🤍🇰🇿

[@SelinYıldırım-y4r]

hey, here is a video content request.. Could you pls make a video about surrounding yourself with like-minded people and change your environment for good?

[@diogoalbuquerquegoncalves2575]

thanks ruri

[@sayuas4293]

Just be a beautiful girl and everyone will worship every word you say

[@W.T.F599]

I have no influence, no credibility, no power, nothing. Who would listen to me?

[@Jonnyfresh45]

Someone looking for a different perspective. Yours.

[@MrJasst]

Your content is truly impactful and provides immense value

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Jacked !!! Keep going ! 💪💪

[@ASMRLover986]

人間関係の質の高さ。それがこの世界に必要なすべてです.