I love this video! After this no woman should have an issue asking a man for money. Many women are sitting here scared for some funds while they are giving their time, energy, and sleeping with the men they need help getting money from. Make it make sense! These men are EXTREMELY self serving.
@TaraKGlam3 ай бұрын
History is very important. Marriage has always been a business deal. Americans were able to marry into nobility because Europeans didn't have money. So they essentially sold their American daughters to the British for titles.
@sass18263 ай бұрын
THIS! Nothing but facts 💯
@joycejoy41193 ай бұрын
HBO Gilded Age 😅
@tammywilliams85692 ай бұрын
True Churchills Mother was the first million dollar princess who started this trend
@PreppyPrincess7773 ай бұрын
I am SCREAMING at the tiktoc😂😂😂😂😂
@sass18263 ай бұрын
I added the screaming 😂
@alicelopez1303 ай бұрын
As a woman it is important to understand the context we live in and the history of our oppression. If we want to engage in into the indentured servitude that is marriage we need to learn malicious compliance. And we need to do it intelligently because these men STILL view us a property and it is obvious everytime we interact with them. Women: Stop being confused and start educating yourselves. Thank you for everything you do and telling the truth SASS✨✨✨
@marinevaletudie96173 ай бұрын
Mariaaaa the consistancy ! WoW
@sass18263 ай бұрын
Girl I’m trying 😩
@shebababytalks3 ай бұрын
I know she is spoiling us! 😂😂
@shebababytalks3 ай бұрын
This video is one of the reasons why I had to join your patreon. No other CC in the level up space is dropping these type of gems with the facts to back it up. I loved Shera down (found her back in 2016) but even she doesn’t get this thorough with it. Love love love all that you do for us, Maria!
@sass18263 ай бұрын
Thanks girl I appreciate your love and support
@itsjenscott63203 ай бұрын
María said "BACK 👏🏽TO 👏🏽BACK" on the videos and I am so happy, please subscribe and leave a comment, let's running it up for her, NOBODY is doing this type of work for the ladies. Thank you Maria 💓
@likemycommentifyouwantareply3 ай бұрын
Maria is the real deal. Beauty and brains ❤
@lovelyleblanc73 ай бұрын
I don't think a married woman should have to ask a man for money. There was no reason for me to ask my husband for money when we were dating. When we got married, I was given access to all his money and accounts. I'm his wife. He knows he can trust me and I will never spend more than what he brings in and can save/invest.
@tiahnagrace63253 ай бұрын
Men like your husband are rare. The unfortunate reality is lots of men are conditional with their money and will withhold funds/ deny access to their account depending on how they feel about their wife, so this won’t work for most. The trick is to have him automatically deposite money into your personal account every pay period, so you don’t even have to ask.
@goddessglow69963 ай бұрын
Me too I’m lucky to have a great husband not only is he generous with me but also with my family.
@ninawestlake143 ай бұрын
I always ask, either straight up or by hinting. I do so stylishly and i get it. I've encountered one or two stingy fools znd cut them off with the quicks. There is absolutely no point in dating a stingy or broke man. Thanks for sharing, sweety.💖😊
@christieomojo3 ай бұрын
I'm glad you said most men are not naturally generous, because it's true!!!!! They are more on the vibe of "whatever I'm already paying for you can share in" That's why they cover dinner, dates and are happy for women to move in with them, because those costs are being incurred anyway and he's in control of the decision making. Giving a woman money makes her the decision maker of what that money will be spent on, which goes against their manhood. That's why the hypergamy advice was always, invent a story about your car breaking down, so he can save a damsel in distress. Also they don't like to feel scammed or as if things are transactional. These men are not dumb. My advice is to make it clear in a relationship they need to be taking the financial lead, use that time to build your own bag or save your earnings. There is no free lunch in this world.
@sofiabilous97592 ай бұрын
Things ARE transactional, men just want it to be a one way transaction in their favor
@milliondollarbaby64213 ай бұрын
I really believe if you are a man’s dream woman, he will do it naturally once you’re in a relationship. Mine bf paid for all of our date expenses during courting. Now in a relationship I own half of his assets and access to his bank accounts without me asking. Yes, like Maria says…you should be alright on your own beforehand. I have my own degree, connections, and business prior to meeting him so I was never desperate. Like Maria says, men are consumers so make sure it benefits you.
@tiahnarodriguez38092 ай бұрын
That’s putting the burden on women to mold themselves to a man’s desires, but plenty of women have found that you can be a man’s everything, and still get the short end of the stick. Your partner is a rare exception for finances
@livelovely468127 күн бұрын
@@tiahnarodriguez3809 I think you missed her point.
@kwclove76233 ай бұрын
Just the facts from Maria. The truth hurts but the sooner women accept it the better of we will be. 🌷Great video
@takilove35663 ай бұрын
Thank you honey ❤ you can definitely get to 10 K. Just keep being consistent.
@sass18263 ай бұрын
Thank you, I will
@marinevaletudie96173 ай бұрын
Answer : just ask , why are you afraid ? Him saying no ?
@sass18263 ай бұрын
Closed mouths don’t get fed.
@lovelynirvana29602 ай бұрын
If you're scared to ask a man for money, then you are asking the wrong man. No man that really likes you will turn you down because he will be too afraid to for fear of losing you. Even if the guy doesn't have it, if he wants you, he'll beg borrow or steal to get it. The problem is women are with men who don't really like them or just hate women. Being alone is better than being with a man that doesn't care about you. Being in a relationship is not always the better option.
@coonieliabsiax33 ай бұрын
True. My mom choose to be a pack donkey for most I can remember and I used to resent my father for being a consumer but nowadays I realise that both choose that life and I can chose, too. I didnt know why I used to feel such hate and bitterness towards my dad even didnt let him hug me or whatsoever It messed up my value as a woman in my head for years. I´m grateful that now I can articulate my thoughts and forgive them to heal myself and look for the best lifestyle and go on with my life. Also, not only men would sell their daugthers, some women who cannot afford a child would dispose them with any man that came across.
@sass18263 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. Sending you healing energy ♥️
@ten25.3 ай бұрын
Thank you for answering my request ❤
@sass18263 ай бұрын
No problem 😊
@aquarianess3 ай бұрын
Please do a video on how to react/what to say when men say that women's beauty fades quickly but men can always make more money as they get older. I hear this all the time. Women can always make more money as they get older too (and not just on OnlyFans)! And men get older and ugly as they age, not every 20-year-old woman likes older men. I am so sick and tired of treating women over 25 as worthless.
@emilyavery59703 ай бұрын
You ignore them and move on to someone else. He just told you in his mush mouth language "No". Find someone who will say "yes".
@aquarianess3 ай бұрын
@@emilyavery5970 ♥♥Thank you! I needed to hear this.
@sheaNERD2 ай бұрын
Excellent advice
@amysocool73 ай бұрын
great video!
@ggll52402 ай бұрын
Loved this video Maria thank you ❤
@SariahLoves3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@Logical8483 ай бұрын
Could you make a video on wife secrets please? I know you have the 🫖 😂.. please share your insights on how to keep the 🔥