Top Signs she's using you and what to do when that happens

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Jessica Os

Jessica Os

Күн бұрын

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@cmkilcullen8176
@cmkilcullen8176 3 жыл бұрын
Never make anyone a priority who treats you like an option or convenience.
@donfreeman8920
@donfreeman8920 2 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏿
@heatherfulmore3412
@heatherfulmore3412 2 жыл бұрын
You are omplaining about your side chick again.
@cmkilcullen8176
@cmkilcullen8176 2 жыл бұрын
@@heatherfulmore3412 ?
@gmf62v84
@gmf62v84 2 жыл бұрын
Very true. I regret being the go to guy when I'm just an option.
@ericpalmer8250
@ericpalmer8250 Жыл бұрын
Let the Church say Amen!!! 🙏🏾
@andreasprodigyzambiaoffici9474
@andreasprodigyzambiaoffici9474 3 жыл бұрын
"She's always available when she needs you or she wants something from you." Jessica, You just hit the nail on its head. Whenever i see her phone call no matter how long she beats behind the bushes i know she'll still ask for money all the time. Its good am no longer a victim.
@adriennduwayo8564
@adriennduwayo8564 3 жыл бұрын
Adreas, also beware of some Covert Narcissistic women..a lot this days around!! See then 🏃‍♂️!! I was a victim once!!
@christopherdunkley1859
@christopherdunkley1859 2 жыл бұрын
@@adriennduwayo8564 for real fam
@solomonzack1291
@solomonzack1291 2 жыл бұрын
Nigeria
@asabarobert1233
@asabarobert1233 Жыл бұрын
😂
@johnappiah4902
@johnappiah4902 3 жыл бұрын
This is for you men without self love and low self esteem, listen to Jessica, she's telling the truth.
@SpencerAMills-zt1wm
@SpencerAMills-zt1wm 3 жыл бұрын
John, I would like to differ. The issue of women using men does not apply to low self-esteem men only but rather it referred to men in general. Rich, poor, average, low self-esteem, shot or fat. Any of them can fall prey to a woman.
@patriciadavis3549
@patriciadavis3549 3 жыл бұрын
@@SpencerAMills-zt1wm men who have good self esteem are not willing to be used. No " prize" is worth that guy's pride
@dcruffryderz9869
@dcruffryderz9869 3 жыл бұрын
Yep exactly for Simps🤷🏾‍♂️this chit don’t happen to alpha males
@neilledejongh1290
@neilledejongh1290 2 жыл бұрын
😆 🤣 😂 facts bro
@mtithewoodentank4817
@mtithewoodentank4817 2 жыл бұрын
@@dcruffryderz9869 They have to learn some way it's good they want to learn so I don't see the problem.
@thammer531
@thammer531 2 жыл бұрын
I always say no one owes you anything. This video tells me that if someone is using you, then they’re not strong enough to take care of themselves. A strong person can do well without someone until the right person comes around with the correct game. I’ve put girls on the spot about how they felt about me and the response I received was either they look away and not tell me the answer directly, stutter in their answer, or just flat out lying. Signs like that, I chuck up the deuces. We can be blinded by beauty and other things about that person we like, but the guard has to stay up. I don’t have time to use people. It’s a waste of time. Great video. Keep making more!
@michaeldickson7119
@michaeldickson7119 3 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful ❤️ n sincere woman. This is one in a million to find a woman bringing out the truth about women in general. I think this woman is more than a counselor. God bless you.
@luiscolon7195
@luiscolon7195 3 жыл бұрын
Love the way she explains everything and how truthfully she is
@vipinkoul595
@vipinkoul595 Жыл бұрын
Manipulative women must be hating her :-)
@amolemotshetlho266
@amolemotshetlho266 3 жыл бұрын
I can never say no to free advice from a woman about women...thanks Jessica 💖....
@ModernDatingMastery
@ModernDatingMastery 24 күн бұрын
*By addressing these issues directly, not only can you protect your heart, but you also invite healthier dynamics in future relationships.*
@Modikana
@Modikana 3 жыл бұрын
Lots of hun are using us here in SA🇿🇦 i have learned alot since i started watching your videos,am bold and confident i don't entertain mediocre. 🇿🇦
@shadrackkasongo3787
@shadrackkasongo3787 3 жыл бұрын
South African women ain't for the faint of heart bro😹😹😹 batlao hurta
@juniordachaser7177
@juniordachaser7177 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@wildafrica7323
@wildafrica7323 3 жыл бұрын
Stop calling skunks hun bro
@Kingda2_
@Kingda2_ 3 жыл бұрын
@@wildafrica7323 😂😂😂😂
@simantombela8686
@simantombela8686 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣No lies detected our women will play you
@arampanossian3423
@arampanossian3423 2 жыл бұрын
This lady is totally right! I am yet to find a lady who will love me instead of using me for money!
@Samuel_O.A
@Samuel_O.A 3 жыл бұрын
The truth is that I was once a victim (I can be that caring and emotional) but the more I spend time watching quality content like this I broke free so thank you Jess for putting this out.
@trustinux
@trustinux 3 жыл бұрын
My nigga😂
@MotionbyMesh
@MotionbyMesh 3 жыл бұрын
Lol you were not alone bro, i have been there too
@irmanewsome4551
@irmanewsome4551 3 жыл бұрын
Very Good A
@hudsonbartley2493
@hudsonbartley2493 2 жыл бұрын
@@trustinux Looool
@aliabdiabdi4067
@aliabdiabdi4067 2 жыл бұрын
I just notices that aweek before now am leaving in peace
@tavaresmccree5005
@tavaresmccree5005 2 жыл бұрын
Rule 1 if a woman is interested in you she will invest in you.
@letsgetitthen4507
@letsgetitthen4507 7 ай бұрын
Explain
@hectorpla9322
@hectorpla9322 Ай бұрын
Yep!
@truthteller7754
@truthteller7754 3 жыл бұрын
Jessica, men will love you for opening their eyes.
@Bencarson_1
@Bencarson_1 3 жыл бұрын
We don’t love her…..We worship her, huni 🍫🥰
@truthteller7754
@truthteller7754 3 жыл бұрын
@@Bencarson_1 How old are you? Why do you have to write such? If you praise a human being too much, they will take advantage of you. Your comment is exactly what Jessica is telling men not to do. If a woman knows you worship 🛐 her, she will tell you to do all sorts of things for her, when you refuse she will show you the "DOOR."
@Bencarson_1
@Bencarson_1 3 жыл бұрын
@@truthteller7754 ooo really ?
@turyasinguraronald6039
@turyasinguraronald6039 3 жыл бұрын
@@truthteller7754 that case is different!!! He praises her because she's a teacher to him not a girlfriend!!
@SuperM1908
@SuperM1908 3 жыл бұрын
She is our hero. We have great respect for her
@Ravlow23
@Ravlow23 3 жыл бұрын
I wish i could see someone like you who knows what to do in a true relationship.
@vickyvictorious1198
@vickyvictorious1198 2 жыл бұрын
i am here lol
@ayokunmiamoseniola8872
@ayokunmiamoseniola8872 Жыл бұрын
@@vickyvictorious1198 dey play
@markcaldwell6816
@markcaldwell6816 3 жыл бұрын
My mother may she (R.I.P...) always preached to my brother and I, " You men don't think!! You need to wake up!! Thanks for the reminder Jessica, we men need to practice more of looking beneath the surface and searching for what's happening on the inside.. putting our personal desires to the side and let our emotional nature do the sensing. Much love to you 🌹 Woman of God!!! Thanks again!!
@gorgeenj773
@gorgeenj773 2 жыл бұрын
well said..thanks. all of those i have noticed.. and when you dont give them money,,they will get mad and curse you all the way....
@betiles1
@betiles1 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for this piece. You have said it all. Infact i feel you. She always have mood swings when she is with you. The 4th one kill me.
@matusalaalemseged6671
@matusalaalemseged6671 2 ай бұрын
I really, really wish I had watched this video 4 months ago!! I would've saved myself from so much frustration. Thank you, Jessica.
@sarahboakye7691
@sarahboakye7691 3 жыл бұрын
These are red flags....not only for the men but women too. Let's get our eyes wide opened.....good job Jessica 👍❣️
@DaveOndiekAaron85
@DaveOndiekAaron85 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 I Know How To Deal With Women Like This Ooooh! I'm Very Good In Ignoring Women 😉 And They Really Feel Painful When I Do That 🤣🤣🤣
@kinglordehud
@kinglordehud 3 жыл бұрын
Well said
@sarahboakye7691
@sarahboakye7691 3 жыл бұрын
@@kinglordehud 🤩
@sarahboakye7691
@sarahboakye7691 3 жыл бұрын
@@DaveOndiekAaron85 🔥
@AkinolaOGUNYEMI
@AkinolaOGUNYEMI 3 жыл бұрын
But its scare to see women that spends on man first before the man.. So ideally, this goes for men... Its obsession that could make a woman cloudly spend on a guy and be used..
@Mlee.
@Mlee. 3 жыл бұрын
I remember when my ex-fiancé asked for a break a week before my birthday. I genuinely accepted, and on my birthday I then decided to spend my birthday with my uncle at the mall. Guess what? I saw her (ex-fiancé) with another guy in a restaurant 🍴. I hate the fact that she knew my birthday was coming but she used that same day to accommodate spending time with another man.
@irmanewsome4551
@irmanewsome4551 3 жыл бұрын
Sign by# 1 check-out
@BrowninArchie
@BrowninArchie 3 жыл бұрын
Did that so she wouldn’t have to spend money to get you anything…
@Mlee.
@Mlee. 3 жыл бұрын
@@BrowninArchie I think you are right, but I only wanted to spend time with her not money! She was not even working at the time.
@BrowninArchie
@BrowninArchie 3 жыл бұрын
@@Mlee. to a woman like that,time with you must only reap profit. Even if she wasn’t working,there are a lot of things she could’ve done that don’t require her to spend money.
@Mlee.
@Mlee. 3 жыл бұрын
@@BrowninArchie Exactly, this only means that her heart was with someone else. Or she opted to be with someone who she can 'reap profit' from. I really don`t know
@blacksonkavinga100
@blacksonkavinga100 3 жыл бұрын
This is so correct, and it's high time as Men to build confidence to escape such relationship instead of finding ways of comforting ourselves 😂 🧤🧤
@jerrydunn3673
@jerrydunn3673 Жыл бұрын
I have been going through exactly what you have been talkin about took me a time to realize but I finally realizing and I walked away I don't even accept their phone calls anymore or anyting thank you for the video
@samuelmakumbe2702
@samuelmakumbe2702 3 жыл бұрын
So true, this lady is good at analysing love situations, we love you and your videos here in Zimbabwe, just like and share guys ..... appreciated
@PoppysGuitar
@PoppysGuitar 2 жыл бұрын
I "dated" a women who seemed to like women and men. At some point I asked her what her interest was and she vehemently protested saying she was straight. Regardless whenever and whereever we went out there would suddenly appear "by chance" some of her gfs. After this happened several times I figured out that she was contacting them and inviting them to join us. I was paying of course. Well I figured it out and that ended that. So remember when you are out with someone and you keep running into her crowd and you are buying drinks and food for people it is not happening by chance.
@Samuel_O.A
@Samuel_O.A 3 жыл бұрын
Well said Jessica, I also think it is vice-versa, if either parties are not ready to be sincere ('cause if you are honest enough you'll ask yourself the question if you can take it if the same thing were been done to you) in terms of defining the purpose of their relationship then they shouldn't be together. I personally don't have patients for these kind of attitudes the moment I noticed you are coming into my space bearing selfishness you will only be warn once, you keep at it I will bid you farewell, even when you come in again you will only be welcome at the doorstep pending the time you can be trusted. Any kind of relationship that will stand the test of time most be build by both parties
@sahrkoadiama5255
@sahrkoadiama5255 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Jessica! all the points in this video are facts. I have dated a lady who pretended to love me, but little did I know she was just in for the cash. she was acted exactly like the signs you highlighted. Fear some women.
@sundayoyanda7386
@sundayoyanda7386 3 жыл бұрын
Nothing more, this is precisely correct.
@jefferybaxter1225
@jefferybaxter1225 Жыл бұрын
Very good video. The two main ones would be the guy buying everything while she doesn't make any attempts to offer. The other one is when a date is set up for both of you, but yet she brings along a friend or two.
@donniechikson8654
@donniechikson8654 3 жыл бұрын
Jessica is my best therapist.. much love from Nigeria😘
@PhillipAsare-tz8gv
@PhillipAsare-tz8gv 8 ай бұрын
Thank you very much my dear. This is my first time am contributing on this platform. I just break up with my girl friend just before listening to your tips about relationship this evening. All that you just shared with me is never a joke ,but it's real.
@JessicaOS
@JessicaOS 8 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear that
@klausmakaneta6890
@klausmakaneta6890 2 жыл бұрын
Love is just an illusion, in reality we just using each other. Hence we picky of whom we want to be with.
@chukwudihappy6059
@chukwudihappy6059 2 жыл бұрын
Bitter truth
@ericpalmer8250
@ericpalmer8250 Жыл бұрын
Did you say to her this must be the Threesome that you had promised me over the phone? 🤣🤣🤣
@kudzai6131
@kudzai6131 3 жыл бұрын
Jess is the that bigger sister ever man in the dating game needs. You're awesome Jess!
@dieudonnet.n.ebacha1653
@dieudonnet.n.ebacha1653 3 жыл бұрын
God sent Jessi thanks for all the guid lines to us the men
@ThaProtege1
@ThaProtege1 3 жыл бұрын
Look at me 2 years later with a huge debt I am only trying to pay back and a heart that will probably never try to love anyone ever again... wish I had seen something like this back then. I hope one day when I am settled, I get to have the opportunity to even talk to you. Thanks Jess
@MANDINGO74
@MANDINGO74 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry. I hope you find someone who will love you in such a way as to make you love again. You seem to be a genuine person.
@GlobeofBeauty
@GlobeofBeauty 8 ай бұрын
Happens brotha. Hang in there women are a dime a dozen
@jayMovic
@jayMovic 3 жыл бұрын
"Eat your money, blow your dough" 😂😂, it's talk like these that make me enjoy your videos so much
@mabinuorimayowa2540
@mabinuorimayowa2540 2 жыл бұрын
Mine just stopped coming to my apartment about 4 months ago, we've agreed to marry ourselves and I was wondering about the sudden change of attitude. I went to her house and I met her mum who I explained what really happened and her mum told me that if any lady is behaving like that, means she has been seeing another guy. I summoned courage that very day and I left her house tho I felt betrayed and tears dropped out of my eyes that night and couldn't sleep. Tho, I have moved on because I don't want to care about any lady anymore because they've always shown love but, they've always betrayed my love. I am a Tech guy in one of the top tech companies in Nigeria. As it is now, is the baby mama package I want to go into because I believed marriage is not met for me. Jessica, thanks for this video, and keep the good work going.
@leocardoroger6270
@leocardoroger6270 Жыл бұрын
Heard you sometimes isbnot another guy, she just playing you when a girl start ding this because you been good to her she take advantage of that
@Tuffgong313
@Tuffgong313 3 жыл бұрын
Even before listening/watching this video am just a true victim of this. I knew from the beginning was just making am not the one over thinking 😊😊 Thank you sister Blessings
@glenharrison2117
@glenharrison2117 3 жыл бұрын
I've had a friend for almost a year and I've been there for her and she just ended the friendship and rip my heart out
@yungthe3rd644
@yungthe3rd644 3 жыл бұрын
When she shows up with another girl, I give much attention to her friend & next time she'll never do it again 😂
@simbarasheblessed3872
@simbarasheblessed3872 3 жыл бұрын
hahaha nice one
@vceelyon8728
@vceelyon8728 3 жыл бұрын
That's all😂😂😂
@chriswalrath8579
@chriswalrath8579 3 жыл бұрын
Bad guy
@jahazieljacob3513
@jahazieljacob3513 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@tsatsabuzanga1490
@tsatsabuzanga1490 3 жыл бұрын
I never thought of that. Nice one.
@tesiretravels
@tesiretravels 3 жыл бұрын
I didn't think I would be the one opposing a few of your tips but I learned in hard way. Some people may be emotional not because of you but because of what they would lose if they lost you. So this may oppose what you said that if she doesnt get emotional she is using him. Another thing is that my fiance earns more than I do but even before I met him ,I did buy myself quality things so yeah when he takes me for shopping I don't go for most expensive but I go for quality(only what I need) Again , for some reasons, one may think they wanted a friend in you simply because of the situation you found them in or they need more time to make up their mind but later they find that you're all they needed. Don't f...up your current relationships because of these tips. For some she is right while for others she is wrong. Looks like I have to do my own youtube video and waste your time with explanations I have lived a life and life has lived me ,I learned both sides of stories
@NisarAhmad-jr6ol
@NisarAhmad-jr6ol 3 жыл бұрын
True that. Been there, experienced it. Good advice to RUN.....when a woman starts to pick the most expensive item from the menu and does not care about your money, you need to dump her soon after that last meal.
@auntynorma8303
@auntynorma8303 Жыл бұрын
I've been around this girl a few months now and I can never meet her parents or relatives nor I was ever invited to pass her gate. Hence I step away, thanks for all those insightful videos Jessica.
@coolgamer-vv9wd
@coolgamer-vv9wd 3 жыл бұрын
Ive been through girls like this and I've decided to change
@garykenneth4702
@garykenneth4702 2 жыл бұрын
Honestly all you just said is what she's doing to me and I really want us to go far in our relationship
@xolanivanda185
@xolanivanda185 3 жыл бұрын
Women showing up with a gang of her friends for a date happens here in South Africa too. Lol This is usually as a form of security, mostly when she has no interest in you but wants you to provide a good time. That is the time they order platters and buckets of buzz at the club. Then again, who takes a woman to the club on the first date unless he knows he is not looking for anything real, but wants a weekend special. Thus the American slang, "game recognise game". For me, one of the signs is, if you can't hold a simple conversation with each other, one of you should walk away.
@BK-ip7ie
@BK-ip7ie 3 жыл бұрын
tht is so so true wwn one can't hold simple conversation wth women.. .. or she lacking on her part to communicate then u must she not interested in u.. best not to waist u time any further n end it
@jamesbedukodjograham5508
@jamesbedukodjograham5508 3 жыл бұрын
Super Right especially discussions that are serious.
@chriscurtis8344
@chriscurtis8344 3 жыл бұрын
This is a very intelligent woman.
@donfreeman8920
@donfreeman8920 2 жыл бұрын
Yep 👍🏾
@theafricanchild9154
@theafricanchild9154 3 жыл бұрын
Some women can't stand this honest channel 😜. Thank you my friend Jessica ✌🇺🇸🇬🇭
@orlandocraigg2194
@orlandocraigg2194 2 жыл бұрын
What I like about you is what other people find it hard to do....TELLING THE TRUTH......BLESSINGS
@tossmc
@tossmc 2 жыл бұрын
I think for the most part, some of us sit around and we (foolishly) "hope" for the best, we KNOW we're being used and allow what we think to be a little "lead-way". but soon-enough we pick-up on the obvious signs, but we might get stuck in "waiting for better days", seems we do that and once we catch-on we explode. It's the same as not nipping / resolving issues as they come, yet due to sweeping things under a rug, once we trip over that lump in the carpet, it's a really hard fall because items have piled-on over time and the snap is a build-up of brewing snaps. ... PS: I love your videos, I'd agree that you're always on point.
@richardkoskei6808
@richardkoskei6808 3 жыл бұрын
I am from Kenya. Having watched this vid and others from your channel, I wish I had this information decades ago. I'd have made better decisions and fewer mistakes. Many men are being used and abused in relationships; many more are subtly aware and do not know how to get out of such situations. I have recommended (and subscribed to) this channel to other men. Thank you Jessica.
@lidrockkenyamusic254
@lidrockkenyamusic254 2 жыл бұрын
Amenisave na hizi vida sai niko rada vibaya😂
@czarlifestyle5335
@czarlifestyle5335 2 жыл бұрын
Mimi nliinvite dame for lunch...I was actually willing kulipa everything...but that night, akanishow 'don't forget to send fare to & fro' (mind that she is working)....iyo text pekee ilifanya nim block...ata iyo little effort hakuna....at least I never became lambistic 🤣...trust me a genuine girl will give u easy time...
@Bio_Dex
@Bio_Dex Жыл бұрын
I... Wish I found this a few months ago. These all literally describe her and I've been so blind to see any of it from her, it just saddens me. But thank you for clearing it all for me.
@darrenhuguenin32
@darrenhuguenin32 3 жыл бұрын
Yes Jessica ,💯💯 correct. Women will let you know by actions if she wants a relationship. If they want sex some of them will ask u for that. Some guys are in denial when their being used. Darren N.Y.C...🙂🙂🙂👌👌
@adeboyeadedamola8451
@adeboyeadedamola8451 3 жыл бұрын
I think most times we are aware of being used but to accept is not a man's thing because somehow we are getting something in return.
@michaelbogdan2797
@michaelbogdan2797 Жыл бұрын
2/06/2023 8 PM California, USA. You nailed it. It is exactly as you’ve described.
@jensvogt228
@jensvogt228 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Jessica, and I really enjoyed this cos I just ended an9 years supposed friendship with a girl I really like cos she was everything you explained on this video and she would still deny and sometimes she’s wants to be my girlfriend and asking of different things and asking for us to hangout in different places that are really expensive that even she wanted to pay for the outing, she couldn’t.... and watching your video just made me confirm that decision was totally right . My name is Ogaga from Nigeria and I’m a big fan ❤️❤️❤️
@daughterofthemosthigh1539
@daughterofthemosthigh1539 3 жыл бұрын
What a long time wasted in one woman
@jensvogt228
@jensvogt228 3 жыл бұрын
@@daughterofthemosthigh1539... Well some women still don’t know that there are men out there that only got eyes for just one woman. I always wanted her as my girlfriend but she was always playing the mind games, I would move on then she would come back blowing my phone again with apology and try to do the same thing over and over again... this time I’m done for real, still single and hoping to meet the woman of my dreams that would value my qualities and not try to use me instead
@muslimfeed2042
@muslimfeed2042 2 жыл бұрын
Jessie can I ask my woman if she likes me!? Or is it not just integral?
@ephraimpatrobas3980
@ephraimpatrobas3980 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so so much for this information, you have saved a lot of men who are falling prey to vicious girls who take advantage of them, this has opened my eyes a lot.
@JessicaOS
@JessicaOS Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@festusfamous
@festusfamous 3 жыл бұрын
Well said jessica, pay attention to details men its really eye opening to us, a lot of this happens to us without we understanding what it is, thanks alot jessica
@petermauti7352
@petermauti7352 2 жыл бұрын
I have been used for the past 5 years Now I know the truth Thanks a lot Jessicah
@marierosepascual4475
@marierosepascual4475 3 жыл бұрын
I can relate. Men and women have used me for many years.
@gokahernest294
@gokahernest294 3 жыл бұрын
Really
@keorapetsesofeleng4408
@keorapetsesofeleng4408 2 жыл бұрын
The friend issue is so common...however the other issues are very relevant particilarly around spending, quite correct
@symlexbrn5396
@symlexbrn5396 3 жыл бұрын
Here in Britain it means a lot for someone to give you their time, pretending also wastes her time and I don't think she wants that.
@nomoremazarura
@nomoremazarura 2 ай бұрын
My dear you've opened my eyes I've been dating someone for 5 month now and this person has never show an interest I'm the only one who does everything and today I have taken a decision to end everything and move own with my life.
@koalsam1494
@koalsam1494 3 жыл бұрын
Jessica thank you for putting these wonderful points out there coz it will help the younger generation most. But the older generation were brought up with the mentality of "women should secretly keep money" for security reasons and men should provide for everything as the head. Thank God I live in Western world now where most don't have such mentality. I will surely recommend your channel to my friends. Regards.
@kevincroft9848
@kevincroft9848 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jessica . I've been used in the past. But Iam getting wiser at seeing the signs of being used by women Kevin x
@Eddy-Man
@Eddy-Man 3 жыл бұрын
i like the positive energy you have today, it make you speak in Ghanaian accent
@jamesbedukodjograham5508
@jamesbedukodjograham5508 3 жыл бұрын
The Problem is Jessica speaks with a Foreign Accent.
@shanswanwaters5822
@shanswanwaters5822 3 жыл бұрын
I live in NYC. I live alone and just Date 3 times a year. I don't want a relationship or friendship. I don't trust no woman, but my daughter. And life is just fine like that. Great video. God bless.
@deemsomi7252
@deemsomi7252 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Jessica i am from South Africa, everything you say is 100% true even here in our country. You're spot on. I like your channel.
@JessicaOS
@JessicaOS 3 жыл бұрын
thank you
@ntokozohlatshwayo1836
@ntokozohlatshwayo1836 3 жыл бұрын
You 100% correct Dee, at some point in our lives we've been through this nonsense.
@benjaminondeng3210
@benjaminondeng3210 3 жыл бұрын
Same in Kenya bro . Jessica Os I've been following your videos ever since I saw it & it keeps educating me
@davidattaway6798
@davidattaway6798 Жыл бұрын
Hi Jessica you're like a fine piece of gold. Your information regarding this particular aspect of looking at a relationship is very genuine. Thank you so much for sharing.
@h.successjohnson7634
@h.successjohnson7634 3 жыл бұрын
I am listening to you from the USA, l don’t have a problem with that, she can bring as many friends she one. They are going to pay for their own food…
@JessicaOS
@JessicaOS 3 жыл бұрын
hahaha! Problem solved!
@h.successjohnson7634
@h.successjohnson7634 3 жыл бұрын
@@JessicaOS l enjoy your show’s, you are always on the right points.
@h.successjohnson7634
@h.successjohnson7634 3 жыл бұрын
@linkzable No No , communication is very important, inform the person, can I bring some of my friends or l am coming with few friends. Everything is budget .
@amberfrazier4023
@amberfrazier4023 3 жыл бұрын
@@h.successjohnson7634 💕
@global1federalexpress80
@global1federalexpress80 3 жыл бұрын
What if u both live in different countries u dont communicate constantly but she ask for money once in a while.
@brandybennett5519
@brandybennett5519 Жыл бұрын
Your advice is the best I've heard around. I guess I'm a nontraditional subscriber. I'm a lesbian and your advice still applies in my situation. I appreciate you sharing sound advice.
@siphiwekheswa9785
@siphiwekheswa9785 3 жыл бұрын
Thank You for this.its like you just read my situation and I decided to end all of it
@vintonreid3015
@vintonreid3015 2 жыл бұрын
The female who admits to the flaws of the feminine gender and doesn't act like they are exempt from mistakes as though they are perfect are far and few, especially here in the western world. It's a thing in the U.S., prominent amongst black women and unfortunately, Jamaican females (the majority) have caught the cold the States has sneezed. It is females like J.O.S. who deserve and earn my respect and admiration the most and who are true WOMEN indeed! We ALL have our flaws and it is females like her who recognise and admit to this, instead of throwing things across the fence. Continue to be an empowering force Jessica, for males and to females who are more than willing to "pull up their socks" and be better. -Vinton from Jamaica.
@kengilmartin2156
@kengilmartin2156 2 жыл бұрын
Just came across you channel. I wish I had gotten 1/100 of the advice you give from my family or those so say the "care" about me in relation to relationships. Thank you for doing this 🙂
@JessicaOS
@JessicaOS 2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome
@bradlafleur1154
@bradlafleur1154 Жыл бұрын
8:16 pm East coast USA. Thank you so much for the video. I truly needed to hear everything you had to say. Thanks again, you are amazing
@LordShockwave9
@LordShockwave9 3 жыл бұрын
When she shows up in casual clothes and you're dressed to the nines and physically runs away from you and you were already friends. Didn't happen to me, happened to another friend of mine. I laughed my ass off, not going to lie because we're good friends. Then she had the audacity to not reach out and say anything to him. Let that one go. Just saying.
@help4haiti1
@help4haiti1 2 жыл бұрын
in Haiti, women talk about their problems with you without asking you for help. She is doing that so you as a man can feel compel to help. Later on when you talk about it, she will tell you that she didn't ask you but you did it because you wanted to.
@tonnya6720
@tonnya6720 3 жыл бұрын
Priceless advice Jessica. Much appreciation. 👍🏾
@godecappraisal2982
@godecappraisal2982 3 жыл бұрын
Speaks good English, very easy to understand and perfect delivery of the subject matter.
@rudolphjohnson1687
@rudolphjohnson1687 3 жыл бұрын
Simple advice, get money my guys. They will obey 😂😂
@charlesonikosi2554
@charlesonikosi2554 3 жыл бұрын
Work hard for your money and don't expect her to be your slave for spending it on her. Idiot guys use money to try to control women to submission to their personal insecurities. Violence occurs in relationships because these guys wanted a woman to abuse not to love, simple but most women get locked in with the scare of betrayal. Stress is my second nature for my life style except if she behaved in certain ways to attract the wrong crowd of men then she is to blame for dancing with the devil. MONEY MONEY MONEY life journey without an end. Get a life and stop this shenanigan of misfortune. A nation that oppresses its women will become a beggar to the its people.
@osmana.bangura4891
@osmana.bangura4891 2 жыл бұрын
One thing i like about you Jessi is that you are always there for we the guys. You are always there to give us conscious advises, Keep doing the good job and God bless you...
@jacquestshiala2299
@jacquestshiala2299 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jessica for speaking up for men, we are always considered in this modern society as trash
@dennisrobinson8008
@dennisrobinson8008 2 жыл бұрын
Men aren't trash they are simply disposable
@PatrickMadeya-yu3lk
@PatrickMadeya-yu3lk Жыл бұрын
Jessica you a rely, what you said is what i commite with my girlfriend here 'by the way your number one
@fabinnocent7090
@fabinnocent7090 Жыл бұрын
she is 100% spot on in everything she said because i lived with one who exhibited every behaviour she described.
@eusimona3796
@eusimona3796 3 жыл бұрын
Real Talk! I'm watching from Guyana South America, this type of behavior is common amongst women around the world nothing strange but only beta male or simps tolerate this kind of behavior! A relationship should be 50-50 nothing less,each partner should meet the other half way and if that can't happen then keep moving! Men and women need a discerning spirit in order to know these type of people! Respect 👊!
@blasabwoy
@blasabwoy 2 жыл бұрын
This lady should be protected at all times☺️☺️😪
@ThePsycheGym
@ThePsycheGym 3 жыл бұрын
Your sincerity and honesty with your contents is exhilarating. I really appreciate this piece. Thank you
@alusineconteh7280
@alusineconteh7280 2 жыл бұрын
I'm watching this video from Freetown Sierra Leone & I enjoyed it. Thanks Mama
@Gabraelspeaks
@Gabraelspeaks 2 жыл бұрын
Your clarity and lucidity is topnotch. You're extremely clear and authentic in your messages and I love it. Thanks for your invaluable nuggets.
@imsodone5737
@imsodone5737 2 жыл бұрын
In my location, Nigeria, pretty much the same. Shewolves are worldwide. Thanks babe, pure humanness.
@andrewthomas3680
@andrewthomas3680 3 жыл бұрын
Discovered your channel yesterday. Great content. Well presented too. Nuff respect and Blessings from Jamaica 🇯🇲 Big ups Str8
@JessicaOS
@JessicaOS 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks and welcome
@yibanathisalimani
@yibanathisalimani 27 күн бұрын
Thanks my sister for opening my eyes
@gereflorvil309
@gereflorvil309 3 жыл бұрын
I just like your honesty as a women. God bless
@anthonylewis7168
@anthonylewis7168 Жыл бұрын
I must applaud the information/tips given because it's rare that a woman would be on youtube doing stuff like these. Yes, as much as guys in general do these things too, i'm happy she's pointing out some women be guilty because the world sees it as only men be doing the worse
@kofiduku934
@kofiduku934 3 жыл бұрын
Waba biom oOoOO❤️🔥🐐the female goatest is back..here to be educated!
@JessicaOS
@JessicaOS 3 жыл бұрын
lol!
@austinokoye4497
@austinokoye4497 3 жыл бұрын
Wish I listened to dis clip since.. now I av nothing left . They r all gone. I love ur explanation my Mama. I will still bounce back I believe
@JessicaOS
@JessicaOS 3 жыл бұрын
U will!
@richmondtei5549
@richmondtei5549 3 жыл бұрын
"A whole battalion " got me banshees
@rudsvisser8953
@rudsvisser8953 Жыл бұрын
Gogito ergo sum.(latin) Meaning : I think and therefore I am. And mush more i know.still I make these naive mistakes...😂... There's no resepies for this, Although,Ms Jessica.your guidelines and facts are solid and substantial, looking for the right partner I first had to identify my own social identity..all woman can't be wrong, impossible ,men should also know who they are
@johnkimani3231
@johnkimani3231 3 жыл бұрын
Jessica I love your advice, for the last one month you have been talking to me, I have been in that kind of a relationship where I was been used as you say... I was just keeping my hopes up that some day she will see me for me but... Anyway thank you, I owe it to you, now am out of there, it hurts tho' all the investment I made, all for nothing...
@JessicaOS
@JessicaOS 3 жыл бұрын
Better late than never
@viviennechukwu5323
@viviennechukwu5323 3 жыл бұрын
Emotional investment always crumble
@laurentiusshipipa5004
@laurentiusshipipa5004 2 жыл бұрын
I have become a man of high values since day one I became a subscriber to this channel, thanks a lot Jess, you always unpack things that us man do not know about woman
@Adesoji.F
@Adesoji.F 3 жыл бұрын
Great tips! Thanks. The ladies won't like you, but whatever is your motivation for putting out these videos, keep going !
@georgehughes5345
@georgehughes5345 2 жыл бұрын
Jess, You always hit the nail right on the head. The perfect forum for all boys and men.
@dextercollins9118
@dextercollins9118 2 жыл бұрын
Hi 👋 I had a woman that try to use me she don't work have 6 kids different baby Father's she's very beautiful but it's just not worth the headache. She never wants to get a job just beg all the time.
@move6160
@move6160 3 жыл бұрын
You are the best coach I ever met on KZbin. You don't take side you are real.
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