How to Be an Alpha Man - A Woman’s Guide to REAL Masculinity

[@sadiwho9724]

The fact that we live in a country where women can tell us how to be men, but men get bashed and hated from telling a woman how to be a woman is a fucking joke

[@justuspozo]

Ironic

[@knightmer3645]

YES ! YES YES ! My thoughts exactly when I saw the title : A woman telling men how to be men ? keep to telling women how to be women and let us men teach other men how to be men

[@gc8972b]

since they are the gatekeepers for sex and don't need a man to survive anymore, they use that position to control their environment. but if you don't need a woman to validate your masculinity, you can be whatever you want

[@kjettern]

Being masculine has nothing to do with providing for women or catering to women's desires in general. True masculinity is rooted in self-discipline, ambition, and independence. This also happens to be what women want in a man, but it's a secondary consequence.

[@STELLASCUTENESS]

Same thing applies to race.

[@ryan99842]

Men should know that success isn't built on success. It's built on failure and frustration, and on fear that you have to overcome. That's what the e-book called Unveiling Your Hidden Potential' by Bruce Thornwood taught me. The best read I ever had.

[@ElevateMyRelationships]

100%; great books out there

[@zizououragan4543]

Where i found this e book?​@@ElevateMyRelationships

[@Christ.is.the.reason]

Estrogen telling testosterone how to be testosterone through the eyes of estrogen..... yup, i see the logic there!

[@Zorro00444]

Shes sharing the perspective of how a woman see's masculinity..

[@godsbruh]

fully bs. all these videos want men to perform in certain way. never what women should do or how to keep a man

[@TheFriendlyPsychopath.]

That’s exactly what I was thinking 🤔

[@leeanne1457]

She's telling you from a woman's perspective. If you want to stay single then keep listening to the bros.

[@Christ.is.the.reason]

@@leeanne1457 Been happily married for 19yrs as *The man of the home. I take the hits to protect my family... No woman can teach that!

[@jameereugene9035]

If your goal is to become 'that man' every women wants to have in her life, you should definitely read an e-book called 'Mastering The First Impression: The Path To Seven Dates A Month'. After reading this masterpiece I was finally able to attract any woman I want in my life, and women started to respect me much more than before.

[@TheRedkid20]

What you really want to be is comfortable and confideny with yourself. You don't want a woman who likes the guy you are pretending to be.

[@gekko505505505]

why ? being a simp is a sickness, not a goal

[@brunolara4662]

​@@TheRedkid20pdaq

[@knightmer3645]

@@TheRedkid20 Bro accidentally made a remarkable quote by commenting on a random video and didn't realize it : "You don't want a woman who likes the guy you are PRETENDING to be" WOW ! 🤯🤯🤯🤯

[@NelajKilam]

I’ll take a look into the book

[@gregoryAsmith22]

The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalised

[@MichelleJOleary]

There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I can't live without him, I love him so much. wish I can get him back I can do anything to have him back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

[@gregoryAsmith22]

It's always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white

[@MichelleJOleary]

This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.

[@gregoryAsmith22]

You won't regret it

[@ArtistryInsights]

The main thing that existed in your relationship was willingness of both the party to stay put.

[@exfoliage]

This is a much more responsible interview because he doesn’t interrupt her, unlike that last guy. This interviewer has more respect and actually allows us to hear her wise words. Respects to both. ✨

[@guillermocaceres3854]

"a real man is what fit my narrative"

[@ligyron2835]

Step one for real masculinity: Stop calling yourself an “alpha” you dork. Real men don’t need labels we just get stuff done.

[@khambrelmathis6101]

😂😂😂

[@redemption3830]

💯💯

[@nextgenradio4477]

I actually enjoy calling myself an alpha. Especially when I can show that I am. Why would you not let a woman know what kinda of man they are dealing with? Yes if you are an alpha they will figure that out. I see no reason not to let them know if the opportunity presents itself. Shows confidence i think

[@ligyron2835]

@ it shows zero confidence. A confident man doesn’t need to “announce” himself. It’s proven through his humility and actions. The amount of “alphas” I’ve knocked out in front of their girlfriends when I was a bouncer would astound you. “Chest puffery” is not the same as actual skills.

[@emerald10005]

Lions are alphas... and you know what lionesses do when the lion is challenged? They sit back and wait for him to win or to lose. If he loses he is cast out and dishonored and all of the lionesses immediately forget about him and flock to the new victorious lion. It's an endless cycle... Alpha just means you're at the top *for now*, not for life

[@stephensegal5187]

She is not Yours, it's just Your turn.

[@QuotePire]

Thanks for sharing buddy. This is probably it fully explained.

[@Buddahabrot]

First of : I love Science. Now, since I learned how loins actually live, I stopped idolizing male lions. One of the pillars of HUMAN masculinity is being a provider : male lions don't "just fail" to do this : It's not even a part of their lifecykle. It's the female lions that hunt and scavenge for food.

[@subhramchakraborty6017]

Earlier parents used to fix marriages as soon as possible, say a farmer sons marriage is decided by his father as they both work in fields

[@WoodDemonX]

This is how animals work. Humans are different. Dudes really need to stop talking like this because you're sitting behind a computer, not fighting for your life in Everday wilderness.

[@J.M888]

Never ask a fish how to fish, ask the fisherman...

[@ElevateMyRelationships]

:)

[@alyshamorris6275]

Both men and women have to maintain RESPECTABLE conduct, otherwise their partners will mentally check out, get bored, And emotionally exit the entire relationship!

[@platinumplaya1]

I think that women don't know what the act of reciprocal behavior is and that just like everything else deprived from money.

[@allensebastian1918]

Nadia, i have watched lots of your interviews and tips and advise, these are all about a man should be this or that or men have become this that or other. I have yet to come across one where you are advising women about similar things/ issues. Yes the world and society has changed. Please share links if i am missing those videos.

[@JoeCarrUSA]

Yea I fucks with khan but I’m starting to see her bias

[@naveedrehman2987]

Just be yourself and the right person may come along.

[@michaelhussey440]

There is a lot in this. If men are trying to be something that does not come naturally and has nothing to do with the way they feel then it will ultimately fail . Be your BEST self but be YOU.

[@dend1]

Seems like the masculine man is someone who has his life so perfectly put together that he can extend it's reach towards making others lives better, AND never need help himself. This seems like an extreme. Men are human beings. If this mythical creature exists it should probably lead the human race, not just a woman

[@glassgoddess8646]

Who's the interviewer? I would like to check out his channel. I never see them listed in the description.

[@MsStarr53]

A man who can take feedback is wonderful ❤

[@AJ-ts9de]

His wife feels secure because he’s financially stable. He could’ve been 80 or 100 pounds overweight and of she still saw that he’s got enough money for her to live comfortable she wouldn’t have an issue.

[@deadsoulrob]

The simple thing is just be yourself, dont change who you are for anyone, if women or men or whatever dont like you for it, then thats their problem. For myself, i am a shy, timid, non masculine guy who lives with my mum, works with and cares for animals and i am happy with my lot, i know ill never be attractive or popular or exciting but i am happy to be a beta male as i dont believe in conflict, money matters nothign to me and im basically a boring old fart. Be yourself, dont be forced to be an alpha or beta person.

[@swimm3r137]

I hear you but be excellent in being who you are -- no matter who that is. Just be your best.

[@jeffbeamer9882]

Hey, I have a question ... Who is this dude? Why is his name not in the introduction?

[@LaFlame-5]

I suggest reading a book 'Bruce Thornwood: Unveiling Your Hidden Potential' if you want to know how to man up. Just follow everything writer suggests in there, it's one of the best reads I had in a while.

[@TheAfterglowArray]

Recently I explained to the girl I'm seeing that youtube is filled with videos telling guys to do this and that to become an alpha male. She found it upsetting and said that a lot of girls like her really don't want an alpha male.

[@jpallen719]

Wow, this woman is the total package. I hate to say it, but she’s one of the most beautiful women I’ve ever seen she really knows what she’s talking about. It’s like she can see inside of a relationship and know exactly what each partner is doing or not doing what the key to success is if you’re humble enough to accept what you need to change in order to be successful in relationships.

[@macthe-qy2ip]

She's wise, and speaks a lot of great sense; but I suspect she's never loved anyone.

[@ousamaabdu794]

Gorilla Simpin

[@VivatVeritas1]

Have a closer look and listen.

[@macthe-qy2ip]

Yes - as a married man, I get more come-ons from women than I did when single. I view them as insults, frankly. Here is my take on marriage: Marriage - whether secular or religious - exists primarily because of the transience of infatuation. You know how you can be mad into someone at the start, 24x7 shagathons etc. Pure hormones, we're designed that way, but that never lasts more than say 6 months to a couple of years, max. When you're in the hormone-rush stage, marriage is superfluous, as your hormones are impelling you towards exclusivity with the person you’re obsessed with banging. Any fool can be “committed” to someone they’re physically and emotionally obsessed with, during the infatuation phase. But that's not commitment, and there is no point to marriage in that scenario. Marriage doesn't add anything, as you're already super-obsessed, without having to try. But people like e.g. Adele see marriage as just a big day out, a public celebration of their current infatuation, some photos in Hello magazine etc, but certainly nothing more than that. Adele’s vows, if she made any, are entirely hollow. People like Adele are observers at their own life. Their "commitment" is always entirely conditional on what they may or may not feel, next week, or tomorrow. As soon as they feel a pang of lust for another person, that’s it, they’re off again. Only encroaching middle age and decreasing physical attractiveness slows them down, but then they always feel trapped and miserable. Essentially they want to stay 24 forever, and have endless short-term flings, with super-duper knee-trembler orgasms on tap. Which is arrested-development idiocy, but hey knock yourself out if you want to live like you’re immortal, when in reality all our lives are fleeting. One life is too short to know even one person properly. But this whole edifice of navel-gazing nonsense is incompatible with assuming responsibility for the growth and development of new human beings, which is a major part of any marriage. Don’t start that if you’re going to bail on it, like a weakling. You make a choice - am I ruled by my genitals, or not? And people like Adele are, essentially, ruled by their genitals. Their life is a permanent quest for the perfect orgasm. If you ever read Cosmo magazine, you can glean the mindset - about 50% of Cosmopolitan’s magazine’ articles are about finding the perfect orgasm. This arrested-development twaddle is presented as being “liberated”. Marriage is a wise and pragmatic recognition of the biological fact that physical infatuations wane (or we’d get no work done) and settle down. If you make the mistake of thinking that you should always follow your "feelings", then, logically, you’d be looking to re-marry about once a year, for most of us. Marriage is about prioritising other people, it’s about service, that's the nature of love. Someone takes a chance on you, stick with them. Respect them. Care for them. Man up, woman up, and stop acting like a teenager. Oh, and most kids who are brutalised / abused / murdered in their homes are the victims of a step mum or stepdad. Every time. Poor child abused and murdered in appalling circumstances. Always, always, it's a step-dad or step-mum. But hey, that's all right because the parent who initiated the divorce is once again having amazing knee-tremblers. Arseholes.

[@WoodDemonX]

I like the idea of life as a journey to the perfect orgasm. To each their own.

[@I_am-satisfied.]

Thank you Sadia.

[@IvanB-w9w]

Sigma males beat alphas by far, it's their natural independence, maturity, responsibility and self-respect which makes all the proper difference. These sigma traits play the crucial role once encountering with the different types of women. On the other hand, alpha man may be perceived as "yet another leader/commander/king/figurehead to be properly decapitated when the time comes". Besides, "alpha people" secretly respect sigmas of both genders, which cannot be said in the opposite direction.

[@sanjidurrahmanchowdhury2807]

The summary of what she is saying is men have to say more no, show less interest and become less dependent. She is correct.

[@Filippirgos]

What if I don't want to be alpha man ? What if I'm happy being beta introvert man ? Will any of today's women want me long-term ?

[@SLiCkJo]

No

[@MsStarr53]

Absolutely ❤ there's someone for everyone. But don't get a mean woman.

[@nilofarsayed2516]

Yes date an alpha masculine woman but you have to follow her leadership and respect her thinking 🤔 she then have to cherish your feelings. Yin and Yang. Two masculine don’t work. Two feminine energy don’t work. Opposites attract

[@gekko505505505]

nope

[@Pure_Light_of_Heaven]

All women come and go. Even if you are alpha.

[@keltecdan]

I don’t like it when people that give advice don’t give the entire true advice. You can’t just be an alpha and have a lot of masculinity. You also have to look the part as well which is the most important. You have to be tall, have a good looking masculine face and be muscular. A good example is Okan Serbes.

[@ligyron2835]

Wrong. That’s female considerations of “masculine” you’re describing. Real men know it’s about capability rather than looks. I know some “tall, muscular” guys who are completely worthless. They don’t know how to use tools, can’t fight, and purely skate through life based on their size since they have never been tested. Looking the part doesn’t mean you are actually built for it. If you’re a man calling yourself an “alpha” you aren’t the alpha you’re just a kitty we let growl for a bit. I was never named the “alpha” in my circles it is just a natural progression to who rises to the top in authority among male friends/family. And why did I rise to it at 5’10” rather than my cousin who is 6’6”? Because I’m the one who physically protected the herd thanks to my years of boxing training. You need the SKILLS to back up the looks.

[@lorenzolucifuge1653]

​@ligyron2835 Just because a man is a "boxer", MMA or whatevr DOES NOT make him alpha.That just makes a born beta chump learning a fighting skill(that is NOT evolutionary inheritance).Alpha males DON'T NEED training or intructing to be alpha.They just naturally lead and get women with their personality.

[@bigmouthentertainment3095]

what's the guy's name?

[@bphennesy]

Interesting explanation concerning married men. I have had a number of women show interest in me while I was married and I didn't make that connection because a lot of them were married as well.

[@bobbypanda6685]

Masculine men comes from Engineering, Accounting, Sales background. All other men are girly men. Sadia: you cannot talk and make someone masculine suddenly. Neither a 7 days workshop can make someone more masculine. There is a difference between knowledge and training. And training is for a decade or more, that too it starts when a man is in his teens.

[@Amanbohrahere]

Is there any channel for females like this?

[@The-Real-One-]

No woman can tell you how to be a man

[@meyrositad]

Because many man dont know what to do to be a man theses days 😂

[@kaushikvsmaniyan]

She's saying what a woman perceives as masculine

[@AJ-ts9de]

And it’s always women like her who sell these “alpha man” programs to attain the best woman possible are single and don’t have experience in real life. Doesn’t matter how many college degrees she has no woman can ever tell a man how to be a man. She should tell men to be careful and make sure the woman they’re dating signs that prenup other wise don’t waste your time with her. That would be the best most solid advice but she won’t say that because she wants to sell her programs and honestly you can find all that online or just ask married men how’s life treating them and you’ll get the real answers

[@moses.01]

@@meyrositadthey can go to their dads, uncles, grandad or someone that they look up to

[@meyrositad]

@@moses.01 for fix stuff Yes but not for relationship. Its from woman point of view

[@theexpattvshow127]

First 60 seconds, perfectly said

[@anamlemmens-ri1uf]

Ik wist dat je nederlands kon spreken😂 hahah some of your words to have that dutch mix which makes it even funnier.. are you born in the Netherlands?

[@tallspicy]

She is qualified to tell men what women want.

[@georgelmothershed5120]

She is qualified to inform you about the standards of expectations that women have in men particularly alpha men

[@michaelflamingsword3131]

😂😂😂😂for real ?

[@ArneAsada69]

Only takeaway I learned from this video is to wear a wedding ring. Women take that as a qualifier as to this guy has been vetted. He’s worthy enough to spend some time with.

[@andeydimitrov3685]

This woman is absolutely gorgeous!!!!Her lips,eyes,nose,smile,voice and body are unbelievable,puts Victoria secret models in her back pocket......

[@aquiladorada]

Words that Ive heard, is self control, intimacy, project(or run a business together).

[@Grady00683]

Truly masculine men. View women with a almost a eternal suspicion. Between sexual retention and being above the arousal is the key.

[@theuruguayanpolyglot8706]

amazing content

[@Sameer2107]

Alpha men don't learn fishing from a fish

[@wonder6789]

How come the name of the wonderful gentleman you are speaking with is nowhere to be found?

[@macthe-qy2ip]

The Greeks understood love and hate better. Love = pity; hate = fear. "A pity beyond all telling is hid at the heart of love."

[@joshuabass8953]

She is correct yet in a broken society and neither sexes are their 100% self we have to better pick our partners and build ourselves and influence the other to do the same

[@paulsaragosa371]

Physical therapy of affection s hand only

[@karimelmoutawakil7295]

3 to 4 times above average and me complaining that 4 to 5 times a week is not enough and want twice a day. 😂😂😂

[@darnelljones6607]

Yeah I miss those good old days

[@headfirst6227]

Just don’t be a sucker for infidelity.

[@DilipKumar-pz7qb]

Love without sex is foolish.

[@vesebeteg1]

Notice that if you just talk about what is a man/woman, you instantly make efforts to be a better one.

[@wherethefisalex]

Who’s the guy she’s talking with? I want to see more of his content

[@winfriedmaus]

Now please enlighten a Sigma why he should want to downgrade to become an Alpha...? (That's a rhetoric question, no answer is required.)

[@greengardens1565]

I do not care to be an alpha man. I am who i am, i want to be a humble man.

[@yes0n421]

The further they talk, it becomes obvious this only applies to married people, the mindset and set up is far different when one is single.

[@kaloyan2778]

who is the guy?

[@DustinD-h3i]

They always say, if you have to ask...

[@xavierxerxes1968]

"... You're Caribbean? Right?" 🤣🤣🤣

[@TimKirkpatrick79]

I’ve never heard of this red pill content. I guess that’s a good sign. 😂

[@mihaidragos]

Anybody else if bugged by the pictures behind which are not in the right oder? The last two should be reversed the right order of the pictures should be 1-3-2 🤷‍♂

[@honeylavender1122]

What is the guys name in this video??! Help

[@dr.samuel3285]

Smart woman

[@cedricjacquin5417]

Thanks Sadia but I m already a sigma ❤

[@disgruntledvet28]

I mean I’m going thru divorce right now and opening my eyes and believe it or not she’s actually right 🤯

[@Mia1827]

Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.

[@PrettyTasha-k8q]

It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.

[@Mia1827]

Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?

[@PrettyTasha-k8q]

His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@PrettyTasha-k8q]

he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.

[@Mia1827]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤

[@eder6877]

My fave duo!

[@ricovalentino1759]

In the western world as a man the law is not on our side.the woman becomes the boss as we know they are entitled to half of the man’s wealth.this makes a man weaker as we know this.MARRIAGE IN THE WESTERN WORLD IS LIKE A BAD BUSINESS DEAL.the man is the bread winner and brings in much more than most women.my opinion is STAY SINGLE,enjoy all your money yourselves,an alpha man will always be an alpha man,our eyes always wonder and the saying is true VARIETY IS THE SPICE OF LIFE.

[@jayrubio7299]

Imagine telling a woman how to be a woman? 😅

[@paulsaragosa371]

Play song save the last dance for me

[@simonabelson2141]

Don't trust people who constantly speak with their hands!

[@ronniedaise7522]

What about those Sigma Empaths?

[@tallspicy]

Deep red pill. Yikes.

[@stephensegal5187]

She purposefully discounts them even though she knows all about Them because it doesn't fit the narrative she is selling. It's okay because even Women know what the truth is....

[@bkannegundla1]

Where are the women who just want men for sex? I have not seen that anywhere in the USA. Please let me know!!

[@justinblount2819]

Not everybody will be an Alpha male. Work on refining the strong qualities you have instead of trying to focus on something you’re not….

[@mauliksadhu2217]

@6:57 - how can one be intimate with the other one, Vulnerability could've said to fill the void of that question more efficiently , by which sex could be more than just sex ! Intimate sex .

[@awesoham]

Y'all wont find anything wrong with this but if a dude drops a video on how to be a real woman then y'all tilted

[@thetruther954]

There is nothing wrong with “doing the dance” with another woman like you, you just have to know when to call on your wife. I’ve seen men go out there “yes, I’m a dog, but she’s a dog too”. Then why are you married?

[@curragh4635]

Its pretty simple.. you got a big wallet or a big 📦 and you get whatever woman you want. Not listening to social media influencers

[@jeuryb14]

Which one is getting interviewed 😂

[@RONNYMORRISMUSIC]

What she is saying is that women are a mess and will not take responsibility. If they are forced to they blame the man and leave. So now we know who has to be the grownup in any relationship.

[@Sigma77-n2u]

How to be sigma 😅

[@kayqq361]

So why do u like Andrew Tate who forces women to submit??

[@HagarenMetal]

so be almost perfect, and also you gotta be married to attract more and get married, yep got it 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️ like when you need experience for a job but no one hires you cuz you dont have experience 🧨🤺☠️☠️

[@edwolfsports]

This lady is nuts!!!!!!!

[@MatthiasBalling]

I got to tell them i am married haha

[@thomassantana9193]

She describing a simp with money. They have money and control at work . But let the woman control them

[@derwoodhamburger]

Man.. it is so over

[@ikramarif3896]

She makes up things as she goes along

[@barnold62]

How to be an Alpha man when cancer hits you and drains your life savings??

[@jdavid9268]

😢I’m sorry brother

[@barnold62]

@@jdavid9268 Thank you!! : )

[@jdavid9268]

@@barnold62 to answer your question, alpha is not money. Alpha is mindset and the energy you exude and your presence. It is not the surface level things like money or looks.

[@TransformacionQuiropractico]

There is nothing more hilarious to me than a woman trying to tell men how to be alpha and give relationship advice when women say one thing and their biology reacts to somethibg completely different. To top it off women admit they dont mean what they say 😂😂😂

[@ile.cheta23]

I agree with you 💯 but this one is right on the money 🤑

[@banthatracks_gaffisticks]

Be an omega man

[@WORKOUTSOLUTIONS]

❤✝️ ХРИСТОС ВОСКРЕСЕ ✝🥇 БОГ С НАМИ ПРОТИВ ЗЛА И ИСКУШЕНИЙ ✝🙏⛪👩‍❤️‍👨💍❤️‍🔥🕊️

[@DarryHardaway]

Coach SADIA🎉

[@paulsaragosa371]

Play song by Leo sayer when I need love song lyrics 1970s song

[@JAYWRITE-h3e]

wow right!! I argeee with Sadia

[@MrOmareffendy]

Why so many negative comments? she's so sweet ❤

[@mrbbkk]

Rather be a sigma

[@MotorMike24]

Masculinity is not for women to define.

[@rbfarrell1]

I totally believe men should work be the best version of themselves. And when you get to that best version, book a flight out of the U.S. to a country where you are valued and have many options with w-m-n that actually have value and compliment your life. Most American w-m-n are not going to compliment your life and the law here makes it very easy for w-m-n to ruin your life.

[@paulsaragosa371]

Play song by Marvin game let's get 😢on song lyrics

[@Yogi-Megan]

Modern day astrology!! I’m learning everyday as She does have merits!!