How To Be Happy and Single

How To Be Happy and Single. How do you view being ‘single?’ What’s your inner dialogue (and does it make you unhappy)? Here’s the key to unlocking your happiness while being single.
So many people wonder if they can ever be happy as a single person. It is the construct of your thoughts, and what you have made being “single” mean in your head that determines whether you can be happy or not.
If you’ve been dating people who have let you down, been abusive, don’t want what you want, or don’t want it with you… then the logical choice is to take a time out and enjoy the life that you have.
As for loneliness - a lot of people worry about feeling lonely. It’s impossible to feel lonely when you have your Self. There can be a yearning or a need to connect with others, and that is natural. But we don’t always need to siphon that urge into a romantic construct.
This video contains the information to re-adjust your mindset to allow the life that you have as a single person, right now, be enjoyable and rewarding.
Answering:
• How can I be happy even if I am single?
• How do I stop feeling lonely when single?
• How can I be happy alone and single?
• Why is it hard to be happy single?
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00:00 Introduction
00:35 Mindset
01:06 So, you're single. Who's 'problem' is it?
01:32 Inner Dialogue/Outer Attitude
01:58 Double Standard for 'why you're single'
02:55 Partnership Assumptions

[@candygirl1990]

Hi Susan, i am the girl who asked you to do this question. Thank you so much for this video. You are truly inspiring and beautiful ❤❤❤❤❤ I am staying single next year, i need to be myself and get some peace ❤❤❤

[@SusanWinter]

Candy girl! I am so happy to hear from you. Do you know how many times I answer these video requests I'm hoping that the person who sent them, sees the answer. You beat me to it. Normally I send an email to the subscriber who requested the video. Thank you for being a devoted follower and I really really appreciate your message. Being single is a perfectly natural state of being. As I just wrote Teri, we were born whole and complete. If we meet somebody that adds to the quality of our life, fantastic. If not, we have ourselves, and there is no better company. Wishing you a fantastic year of enjoying your serenity and peace of mind.

[@candygirl1990]

​@@SusanWinter thank you susan, i always think your advice is always needed and appreciated. I will keep myself to myself next year, and get on with my single Journey. Also wishing you a wonderful New year and many more inspiring videos ❤❤❤❤❤

[@katemoore2660]

I’m going to stay single and heal xx

[@9Ballr]

"Solitude is painful when one is young, but delightful when one is more mature." - Albert Einstein

[@sanjanagrover7436]

One can be young and mature at the same time

[@starlightdreamer1999]

I have found that I love being single. I am free to be me . I can do whatever I want whenever I want . That is priceless ti me . I dint have the energy to play head games with guys . I dont need a man to make me feel good about myself . I defintely dont want one . Life is great !!!!

[@WigglyTuffStuff]

I've been single longer than I've been attached. It always struck me as odd and judgemental when I would hear people make conclusions that being single meant being unhappy. It really showed more what those who said it thought of me, rather than what my actual lived experience was. Romantic relationships aren't the only ones that can leave you feeling fulfilled.

[@SusanWinter]

I’m so happy to read this. Thank you for sharing this with All Of Us.

[@wendimacaulay7993]

I used to be afraid of being single, but in the past year or so, I've been discovering that I like it...

[@jeanp.1303]

The freedom of being single.. refreshing.

[@SusanWinter]

🤗 thank you for watching

[@Babesinthewood97]

I think this depends hugely on wether it’s ”single right now ” or ”single forever ”. I don’t think many people feel very happy about being ”single forever ”, unless they have been in very bad relationships before. I think going for ”single right now, happy and living my dreams But hoping to meet someone nice in the foreseeable future ” is a healthy mindset.

[@luctuosaluctuosa5360]

I've been single forever and I feel unhappy about totally different things (health e.t.c.) and I can't even imagine things could be different in romantic life, so If I wouldn't have other issues I would be quite happy.

[@charmedprince]

Mother is mothering. Thank you, Susan. We love you. Sincerely, Singles and happying

[@teripersson1308]

Society tells us being coupled up is best. I'm happy being single right now. I do have an office crush but it's more fun right now imagining what a relationship would be like, rather than the stress of having to be in one. Great video Susan. Hope you're having a lovely Christmas x

[@SusanWinter]

Teri, I absolutely love what you have written. There is nothing better than your current perspective. We are born whole and complete. We do not need another person to "complete us." And huge congratulations on learning the most effective way to utilize the upside of a crush. A crush should be used to put a little Spring in your step, and a little excitement in your day. It's a mental fantasy that never needs to come to fruition. Thank you thank you thank you for being a devoted follower and merry Christmas to you as well.

[@teripersson1308]

@@SusanWinter 😘

[@sethtenrec]

@@teripersson1308 limerence… look it up, not all that healthy actually

[@watamala1]

Single and happy? I think it's all about health and growth. Like hobbies and skills and making myself beautiful to myself. And getting friends that's what I think.. her points: -mindset she says: being single doesn't mean ur less or a negative. -ur not a servant, u can use all ur time the way u want.

[@morpheus3190]

Thank you Susan! I am struggling being single again so this was very uplifting. I have been dating a lot, but it is very hard to deal with the bad behavior, personal problems, and the time it takes to learn the truth about a person. There are a lot of people out there that simply lie about their situation and it’s such a mind drain to get the real story about someone. Lots of dead ends so to speak.

[@megyerizsuzsadora]

I can relate. Really discouraging to see all the flaky/unavailable people.. Deep in my heart I feel the best is yet to come. Also decided to try and find some new friends as with the old ones are married/moved abroad etc , I find myself lonely. I loved being alone for years but now I could do with some company🤗

[@hilea.m.z4460]

Practice self care love yourself cherish yourself ❤

[@krystalmuller4673]

I just struggle with being involuntarily single. Yes all those “freedoms” are nice. But it gets lonely being the only body in your home… doing things you love by yourself.

[@SusanWinter]

I do believe that, no matter how daunting the dating market appears today, and no matter what you think you have against your odds of finding love, there is always that connection that will be made. I really urge you to get into groups of people that resonate with the hobbies and talents that you already possess.

[@kelebeksky]

​@@SusanWinter❤ You are the best 🎉❤

[@brego12317]

Amen Susan! Bravo! My married friends tell me how they envy me. After listening to them open up about their relationships, it's something to think about!

[@SusanWinter]

The grass can certainly be greener on the other side!

[@georginafronda496]

I have stopped dating and looking for a relationship. Too many bad dates, dishonest and deceitful men so have decided to be single for now and enjoy me. Am good being single and it’s refreshing- I view it as a time to reconnect with me and reflect and learn to love me again after two LTR . Am also good now paying for a hotel room for 2 for 1. It really is a mindset how you view being single- you can love, appreciate it or hate, dislike it but it’s a mindset which you have to decide on. Thank you for this video and happy 2024.

[@mischievouscat296]

I've been single pretty much my entire life. I do enjoy the freedom yes, but let's be honest -- if I was desirable I would have lots of offers coming my way, and I don't. I think this video makes sense for people who've been in and out of relationships and who have been loved and have been desired. But to those of us "involuntarily single", although we could still be happy alone, singlehood means all the things that Susan listed in the beginning.

[@deepdiver849]

You know... there is so much of benefit of being undesirable ... you would think you hit the jackpot! There is sooo much to being undesirable, which is absolute freedom !

[@sethtenrec]

I think there’s a match for everyone. Whatever you consider undesirable about yourself is undesirable about a potential partner out there as well.

[@luctuosaluctuosa5360]

Who cares what does it mean if you can still be happy on your own.

[@hannahwilson9306]

Not getting offers doesn't equate to being undesirable. Also, being in a relationship doesn't equate to being loved or desired (I've been there, and I'd much rather be single). You are complete as you are.

[@LongIslandNY-op8su]

I’m more at peace & very Happy being single. I’m a survivor of narcissistic abuse, I feel SO much better it’s just me,my Dog & Cat.I’ve never been so aware of what makes Me happy & not worrying about being alone.

[@blissbased]

❤ wonderful

[@SaystheTruth3]

Relationships are crap!! Stay single my friends! 💕

[@SusanWinter]

❤

[@MichaelRichardson36]

This video is nourishment for my soul, Susan. I am already content as a single person, but I’m working on letting go of the idea that being single is just a hold-over until I find myself in a great relationship. To shift focus to the state of being single as being even better than being in a relationship is, in your words, quite delicious 😊

[@SusanWinter]

Wonderful!

[@blissbased]

Thank you, Susan. Life is very complex. I think sometimes we have delicious moments on our own and sometimes with others, but either can only happen when we're at peace and connected....if other people keep breaking your heart, you can't be at peace and connected, not even by yourself for a while....so IMO it's much better to put the focus on "am I happy?" Than on single/not single....you can be so miserable both with a great person you don't love and a toxic person you are somehow trauma-bonded to! Both is painful. You can also be miserable on your own...I enjoy every moment of feeling painfree and healthy. All the best 🍀

[@GamercastMMs]

For me right now it's a hit or miss, because I am alone all the time. It sadly led to being isolated. Like, I adore my alone time, but it's also a vicious cycle. Lost contact with my friends and the effort put it into that have been a dealbreaker for my mental state. EDIT: And being alone for so long, I begin to find struggles in being in a relationship. I have become so reliable on myself, that I don't know how to find or sacrifice time for someone else. I wish I could work on this so it could be beneficial.

[@SusanWinter]

It can be an adjustment. When I was writing Allowing Magnificence, I had to cut back on any social engagements that detoured my time and attention. Interestingly, the longer I spent alone the harder it was to begin to re-socialize. I had to stretch those muscles all over again. But you can do it if you care to and if what you were doing is so joyous and rewarding that you feel you would be sacrificing your focus in order to go play with somebody else, maybe you don't need as much connection as you think you do. It's all about what works for us. And no two people are constructed the same way.

[@GamercastMMs]

@@SusanWinter Thank you so much, for sharing this. You have a point, something I will keep in mind.

[@rainiewhitney8089]

Thank you for being the voice of reason and positivity I needed to hear 😊

[@lymanmayhew935]

Susan, you are correct❤ my mind set is I don't give a f if they like me or not😊 I'm single and happy! They either like me or not. Their loss, not mine😂😊

[@SusanWinter]

That's a really healthy state of mind. Partnership should be a preference, not a necessity.

[@lymanmayhew935]

Exactly! People need to spend time alone to see who they really are. And I mean "TIME" not just a few days or weeks. It's the best thing that has happened to me. ❤😊

[@Malefica_Sibylla]

Most of the time it's not about what you can do when you are single, but things you can't do when you need someone the most. 😢

[@jadarobinson9861]

I feel that most people (myself Included) fear that they’ll be alone forever. It’s not so much of a right now thing, It’s the fear that we’ll never find our person. I think what happens Is, that fear turns into doubt, that turns into self doubt. I find myself paying more attention to my flaws and becoming insecure when that fear sets In. It’s almost like the fear of being alone forever disguises itself as doubt, and self loathing. You have all these “self help” gurus who say “believe it will happen and it will” but there’s so many of us who believe so much it hurts. Especially when the love we seek seems so out of reach at the moment. Thank you for all you do Susan. Your channel Is such a safe space. ❤️

[@SusanWinter]

I'm happy that you feel my channel is a safe space. I'm sorry that you find yourself focusing on more of the negative things than the positive things about yourself. I do understand that everybody has a fear of being alone. In the meantime, I would suggest really amplifying your friend circle and engaging in the activities that you love. Without even trying to find a significant other, often times your match will be where you are as far as your interests and hobbies.

[@jadarobinson9861]

@@SusanWinter Duuuuude! I’m beyond starstruck that you actually took the time to respond, and show us that we have a voice here. You’ve helped me tremendously, at 23 years of age I’m constantly trying to learn and grow, and expand my mind. You’ve helped me through many lonesome nights of feeling unworthy and unseen. Thank you x3!! ❤️

[@eunexoproducts9145]

Im very much single and enjoying my life to the fullest,, i do love myself sooo very much, im telling you Susan im living my best life,, if there's something i fear most,, it's falling in love, im very much complete alone with my God,, just taking very good care of myself 😂😂😂❤❤

[@SusanWinter]

I love reading your answer. This is the ultimate state. Not to be afraid of falling in love, but to be so comfortable with ourselves, and our lives, that we do feel, we are living our "best life." And should you ever feel tempted to want to explore love, the only Love that would work for a disposition such as the one you have currently- is to find somebody who doesn't separate you from your peace of mind. Rather, somebody who allows you to be in connection with yourself, and doesn't demand you take care of them, coddle them, fix them, heal them, or do their life for them. Somebody independent, who is also at peace with themselves- who simply loves being with you and you love being with them

[@eunexoproducts9145]

@@SusanWinter thanks alot Susan,, God Mightly bless you 🙏

[@barbaraweatherman5340]

THIS!!! ❤❤❤​@@SusanWinter

[@ronaldguerrieri3993]

What you're saying is how I am living my life and loving it.

[@SusanWinter]

Ronald, that’s amazing. So happy to hear it.

[@Ahmedabad-Single-Souls]

👍Stay single stay happy. Ours is a singles group for 40+, all never married and we all are very happy.

[@edithasannicolas9750]

I've been divorced since 2007. I'm happily single and it's also my choice!:)

[@SusanWinter]

That’s great to hear that you’re in such a positive place!

[@edithasannicolas9750]

@@SusanWinter thank you for the wonderful videos!:)

[@craigjeffries]

Thank you for this video, Susan! I actually subscribed to your channel a few years back after seeing a few positive videos you did on being single. I enjoy being single, but it can be difficult around the holidays because you see people coupled up around you. I have to remind myself that it's okay to sit with these feelings because no lifestyle is perfect. Thanks for your positive message, as always.

[@SusanWinter]

I promise you, as a relationship expert, nobody’s relationship is as you imagine it. We like the upside of the happy couple, and the lovely photographs that they post on social media. We don’t see the drunken arguments, the cold shoulder, the long-standing, resentments, or the critical behavior that can also attend what appears as a “looking good“ couple

[@Areutherehello]

I've never had anyone genuinely interested in me. I have had male friends before, but I've never been romantic material. I'm average attractive, I've got a sense of humor, I have a graduate degree and a good job, lived abroad, and I try to take care of myself. But, I'm never approached by men. I'm always on the outside watching others get married and receiving love. What is wrong with me? I'm in my mid-forties and I feel like I have really missed out on something wonderful. What is love like? 😢

[@blissbased]

Imagine you've had a lot of relationships and you can only tell what Love might be from what you haven't had. Don't worry so much about being seen as "romantic material" -btw you're not material, you're a sentient being. Instead, when you meet a guy, wonder if he is "material" for you. Does he deserve you?

[@anaterresejunio6930]

It is only now that I get to appreciate being single. A year ago, I was out there hasting to be intimate without actually sitting down with myself and asking myself what I really wanted. It took me a three-month failed date with a guy and my Mom's life-threatening disease to realize that craving for a relationship is superficial. I still believe that a man out there is meant for me, I am just not in a rush anymore. I am focused on building the future that I really want for myself, and if God willing I meet him along the way, then thank you, Lord. If not, still, thank you, Lord.

[@dajewel1982]

I came across your channel like in the beginning of the pandemic. Fast forward to today : am very very happy being single. I love my hobbies , the peace in my home , time and space to luxuriate in self love. It’s a catch 22 because am so happy this way but I know that I want to a start a family but I love being single. I literally feel that no relationship is better than me being single.

[@Lisa-fe5lv]

You’re just the best! ❤ I love being single 🙌

[@SusanWinter]

Thank you for watching!

[@hilea.m.z4460]

My dear Susan, as we are ending this year, I want to thank you for sharing your wisdom with grace, you have been my saviour and light during this year. Thank you for being you a wonderful brilliant woman… Sending love and light from Hawaii 🏝️🫶🏻💕🥰 Ps: mom said to me you are your longest commitment cherish yourself ❤

[@SusanWinter]

Oh… This is so beautiful. Thank you for your message. I’m so happy to have you on my channel and I’m grateful that my material resonates for you. Give your mom a big hug for me! What a fantastic message to share with a child.❤❤

[@hilea.m.z4460]

@@SusanWinter love you so much 🫶🏻🤗🥰

[@sethtenrec]

@@hilea.m.z4460 amazing message, social media has a lot of power for good, not just the evil that so many use it for… ❤️

[@sararatliff7707]

Sometimes being by yourself is fantastic, and other times it really sucks. I've been single for six months now after a very long term relationship. The first few weeks were great. After that it's been a slog. My job keeps me really busy and I have dental problems, so I can't even go out on dates yet. Hell, I don't even get to spend time with the few friends I have because I'm either living at work or I'm trying to take care of the basics at home (laundry, meal prep, cleaning, that stuff). And the touch starvation is real. No joke. I haven't been cuddled since the break up. I don't even care about sex, I just want someone to snuggle with and have meaningful conversations. Logically I know that nothing's wrong with me for being single, but in my heart, I can't shake the idea that all the negative ideas you listed are actually true for me and that no one will want me. It's very frustrating. My end goal is to be happy by myself (because chances are I'll never find the partner I dream of), but it is really difficult...

[@SusanWinter]

I’m sorry for the medical issues that are going on. But what’s not helping you is that in your day-to-day single life you are overworked, stressed out, and exhausted. And that doesn’t allow you to have a healthy social life. So everything is going to feel far moredifficult right now. I really hope it’s just a passing phase and that you will regain your balance because it’s clear that when you have balance, you’re a lot happier. Best wishes!

[@ceilhall8626]

Sara, it took me many years to learn to stop the negative attitudes about being single, but I did get there with persistent therapy, facing the issues in my childhood that were at the root of my negative beliefs, and working very persistently to heal them.

[@marienmocka8397]

I passeggeri all my day today looking your videos, and this is the last for tonight. I am learning to stay alone with my self and listening more to what I feel and what I want. I really really appreciate your teaching. Thank you. ❤

[@SusanWinter]

Marie, you are entering the most precious segment of your life. When we really feel OK to be with ourselves, we will never be ruled by a person with whom we are seeking their approval. You will never be a slave to a persons opinion, and you will be able to choose a mate, because they are good for you, not because you’re terrified to be alone. Brava.!!!!!!

[@marienmocka8397]

@@SusanWinter I wish you all the best that you cannot even immagine. 😘😘😘

[@DuckSeason12]

Being single has been one of my deepest hurts because I wanted a family my whole life.

[@sarahillingworth9257]

You're soo reassuring, logical and right! I'm hugely afraid of being on my own and have made my life hell to avoid it. But the reality is I can handle it. The new space I have is space for me to grow and change. Its life saying, what do you want now? Let's get it.

[@Geektaard]

This video came out at the perfect time now during the holidays and new year when it feels like EVERYONE are in a relationship and you feel like the black sheep

[@SusanWinter]

I know it appears as though “everyone” is in a relationship.… But they’re not. Some people are at home crying over the fact that they’re in something that’s making The miserable. Other people are going through a break up. Other people are dissatisfied with the mate they have. Other people are just single.

[@Geektaard]

@@SusanWinter you are absolutely right! Thank you so much for everything that you do! Have a Happy New Year!

[@adamkahuna1166]

This is so accurate, thank you Mrs. Susan Winter. 🙂 179:1. 26/12/2023. 22:16. 962.

[@suzanne5651]

Yes, all those negatives, I’m afraid... 😢so thanks so much for this presentation. I’ll watch this every day!

[@megyerizsuzsadora]

Thank you for the video, Susan!I’d love to be in a healthy relationship but I guess what I miss more is friends / people to meet up for a coffee, have a meaningful chat etc. I am based in Europe but if someone reads this comment, and is in the same boat, then maybe we should connect😊✨

[@SusanWinter]

Perfect idea. And I love that. Yes if you have a chance to catch the LiveShow, 2 PM Eastern on Thursdays, I have a lot of Europeans because it’s evening time for my EU followers. There are a number of connections that have been made during that LiveShow.

[@megyerizsuzsadora]

Thanks so much, Susan❤ Great idea - will join your upcoming LiveShow(s) 🤗

[@hilea.m.z4460]

I like having friends from all over the world 🌍

[@misslinda772]

Thank you for this video! It’s not anybody else’s job to make me happy. ❤

[@SusanWinter]

Miss Linda, you have just unearthed the key to long lasting happiness. We have the steering wheel in our hands.

[@asiabeekmann7835]

Susan!! You are absolutely glowing in this video you look radiant and beautiful. Thank you for all you do, you are truly a master. I wouldn’t have been able to make it through my breakup with out you. Much love, 🩷

[@SusanWinter]

Thank you!!

[@ceilhall8626]

@SusanWinter, you are my True North, and I am grateful for you. Usually, negative thoughts and feelings about being single come from childhood issues that need to be healed. I am healing mine in therapy and, as a result, becoming happy with my fun, full, busy life with work, friends, and hobbies. Here's a shift in the conversation, and it speaks to unhappy coupled people as well as unhappy singles: either way, our feelings and thoughts ALL stem from our relationship with ourselves. I had to change the belief that I was left out, unwanted, and unworthy. I felt that way due to CEN, Childhood Emotional Neglect, and once i realized that it was the source of my unhappiness, i began the long, painful journey to heal it. Now I'm turning 70 and happier than I've ever been, whether single or partnered.

[@SusanWinter]

Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!

[@Clintsessentials]

I'm a leo, and we can be VERY selfish with our time. Sometimes we just love being free.

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I like being single l get more tasks done but l get lonely

[@raginald7mars408]

I congratuale and applaude Each Single Wo Man for staying far away to cause any trouble to us Thank YOU So Much!

[@kyamitchell7620]

Susan, I couldn't wait for you to discuss this topic.. perfect timing!!!!!❤

[@meesh1002]

Even though I know that I’m normal, I have the hardest time worrying about what others think about me. I’m working on it though

[@sethtenrec]

Normal is abnormal… by this I mean that no one is really what we think of as “normal”

[@meesh1002]

@@sethtenrec yes agreed. I’m just referring to what society puts labels on women if we’re past 30 and single. It’s the lovely (something is must be wrong with her).

[@SusanWinter]

Good for you. All humans want the approval and respect of those around them. That’s natural. But I really commend you on taking a deeper. Look at how it’s affecting you and altering your position for your increased happiness.

[@mariad1151]

TY for this, Susan. Timely & uplifting.

[@SusanWinter]

❤❤❤❤ TY for watching!

[@jessicalong6011]

Bless you! This message was just for me and truly right in time. II was just feeling all lonely and I listened to your message. Golden! Thank you ❤

[@SusanWinter]

I’m glad that this a video resonates with you! Always remember that you’re loved more than you can ever imagine

[@m_a_d_d__y]

💚💚💚 yes it is drama free and peaceful bliss.

[@michaelhunter4891]

Susan, you’re amazing. Thank you for your kind words.

[@JournyOverDestination]

Thank you! I needed to hear this today!

[@SusanWinter]

You’re welcome! ❤

[@Paralegal1]

Thank you, Susan, for your wisdom! ❤

[@johnmoreno5965]

I love you my lady 💗 😘 sending you much love and hugs your way sweetie 🥰

[@Pinkflo363]

I needed that. Thank you Susan.

[@SusanWinter]

So glad!

[@johnbehneman1546]

Totally Awesome Video Susan

[@SusanWinter]

Thanks so much!

[@_noahrh]

You look fabulous Susan!

[@kayzeethecat9333]

So energized by this❤

[@SusanWinter]

That makes me happy

[@beachgirl4]

Thank you❤

[@SusanWinter]

Beach girl, you are welcome

[@helenschweickert8328]

Hi Susan,I'm single 🎉❤and I love it !

[@High_Priestess1111]

AMEN SISTER SUSAN!!! 🤗👌👏♥️

[@ChrisLT]

Oh hey, an Allowing Magnificence shout out. I can attest, it's a wonderful little book.

[@SusanWinter]

Thank you, Chris! It’s great to hear you liked it!

[@sparecash7199]

I think the only way to break this mindset is through some kind of hypnotherapy 🥳

[@sparecash7199]

Thank you for hearting my comment Susan I loved your video and I have been embracing a lot of this advice for a very long time even when I was a teen. I love my own company and I have recently been diagnosed ADHD which now makes a lot of sense and is helping me to put things into perspective about how I see myself. I have had lots of talking therapy which for me didn’t click but brain reworking has worked wonders.. tapping EDMR and NLP are gold!!! But not many people are aware of how powerful they are. Talking therapy can keep you in a victim loop whereas a mindset shift via a fi of hypnotherapy can transform everything… thank you for this excellent video reminder of how to accept and embrace being by and loving yourself. ❤️

[@sherriflemming3218]

I hope you had a Merry Christmas Susan and a great holiday season!

[@TheSarah730]

Love this Susan ❤ I wish there were Susan winter meetups with likeminded singles looking for partnership.

[@megyerizsuzsadora]

Great idea - I’d be up for that! 😊 Also friendship circles. I could do with more like-minded people in my life🤗

[@SusanWinter]

Great idea!! I travel quite a bit nowadays, and I will be in Singapore and Southeast Asia for about a month. I know that I can see some individuals for coaching. I’m just not sure if I can wrangle all sorts of people in one place at one time. But thank you for the kind words.

[@ceilhall8626]

We could always have our own Meetup group over Zoom! We don't have to have Susan organize it. We could call it Fans of Susan Winter. ❤

[@Matilda130_]

Off topic but your outfit is so nice! You are looking very great🥰

[@SusanWinter]

Thank you so much 😀

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

Working on my education

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I do feel unwanted

[@kelebeksky]

Love you and your videos Susan ❤ wowwww🎉 I would love a video explaining how to deal with not having children. I am pretty ok being single but the idea of having a family hunts me and I feel like time is running out. How would you advise someone to deal with that? ❤❤❤❤ Thanks 🙏🏼😢

[@TheGDEventI]

I am literally hopeless when it comes to love. Being attracted to the same gender makes it even worse. I am 25 and have never been in a relationship, haven’t even had a date in over a year. It’s not that I am not attractive, cause I’ve been told many times that I look good and my personality is amazing… but I am unlucky in love

[@MassMultiplayer]

easy, im single nad happy for 15 + years! step 1 plastic surgery, step 2 hairloss, step 3 work hard and pay all your bill

[@misaoshiraishi8714]

❤❤❤

[@inettawalker9387]

New subscriber here❤

[@SusanWinter]

Thanks for subbing!

[@inettawalker9387]

@@SusanWinter I'm rewinding this, running it back, I need this ma'am and I thank God for you.

[@sethtenrec]

Not “less” ….lonely

[@emjhendrickson8290]

I'm not single: I'm SOLO!

[@alessaxn]

Susan! Would you consider publishing Allowing Mignficance as an audiobook? I tried ordering it from Germany but it got lost in the post! 😢

[@SusanWinter]

That's a great idea! Thank you. I just know that the last book I published in audiobook format, break up triage, cost me over $900 and that was only a 33 minute audio book. So let me think about this one a bit. And I do appreciate you being interested in the book. I'm so so sorry I got lost in the mail, but you can read the ebook version online.

[@alessaxn]

@@SusanWinter thank you! I will try to find the e-book. 💜💜

[@DuckSeason12]

“I’m surrounded by married people.”

[@corie_1032]

Susan! You're so beautiful! If you are ever in Malibu lets go on a date! Great videos.

[@SusanWinter]

I love California! Malibu is absolutely beautiful!

[@junkionproductions9285]

Hey, Susan, can I email you a question, or can I ask it here?

[@SusanWinter]

You can send video requests to the contact page at www.susanwinter.net. Go to the bottom of the page where it says video request. Perhaps I will shoot a video on your topic.

[@unicornzrreal1985]

Susan-I found your channel recently and I'm so grateful. I've had my share of terrible relationships and I'm looking forward to the new year filled with happy, healthy relationships 🙏. You are so insightful and wise. I'm going to continue having an uplifting and positive attitude while I'm out here working, living, etc. I will no longer let negative minds influence my life. I will continue my self-love journey as long as it takes. Now being in my 30's, I'm really coming into my own and realizing exactly what I deserve, nothing less. I refuse to settle and I've been indulging in self-care, exercise, etc. Seriously Susan, thank you. Happy New Year. 🎉🎊🌙🌌🌠🔥✨🎈😇😁🥳💯🙏💖💓💋🤍🧡

[@SusanWinter]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@carolb3869]

Love yourself first. No one else has this job 🤍

[@AimlessThunder]

❤❤❤

[@lyndamcmullen5506]

❤❤❤