How to be happy alone (Secret of ultimate happiness)

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[@glynispalazuelos7216]

Best lesson in life is losing everything. It really shakes you into letting go, humbling you. Best spiritual experience.

[@user-hj3cx6ks4s]

This 🎉

[@user-mb6vt9zo5c]

Amen

[@RR-fn6dm]

Yes!

[@DeeDeeOrr]

We should strive for joy rather than happiness.

[@ladolcevida4427]

Got rid of trauma and all things toxic. I am the happiest I've ever been. Nothing matters more than your peace.❤

[@SIERRATREES]

you nailed it.

[@raygross1931]

I was married 23 years and planned my life around marriage, I was surrounded by family and was happy. My ex divorced me two years ago, now I am alone and I am ok sometimes but sometimes I am very broken. I never used to be sad but am struggling with loss now. Thanks for the positive words

[@giovaneescalonilla7148]

I divorced from an year now and the worst part is be far from my son, I go there and spend a day per week with but its not that much, I miss him so much and the only thing that make me feel better while I wait to see him again its work hard and be productive everyday, I know how you feel and hope that we both can reach amazing things in the future, be strong my friend

[@churchk24]

Thank you for putting this out there. I have been alone for over 8 years now and am quite happy with it. I find it gives me more time to learn, grow and be myself. While I do struggle with getting lost in the adventures of others, lack self confidence and have a hard time with self love...I feel with your help and meditation, this will come in time. Much love ❤

[@churchk24]

@Darkstar improvement is improvement. Whether it's a half step or twenty, I understand and feel your struggle. Thank you for the well wishes and I wish the same for you. Sending love and hugs your way ❤

[@AOnomad-xz1lx]

@churchk24 I am 14 years old and I've never been more alone then ever. I have a plan when I'm 17 to take my life away

[@JoshBap]

@@AOnomad-xz1lxwatch hamza self improvement

[@DrinkTeaAndBreathe]

@@AOnomad-xz1lx Please don't harm yourself. I too once thought that could no longer go on, but holding on gave way to hope and clarity. I wish the same for you -- stay with us.

[@SIERRATREES]

Wanting less can also mean not trying to do too many things. I've amazed myself, with the discovery that simple living, with quiet days of not doing much, can be really satisfying. Funnily enough, by having less on your plate, you can give more attention to the few things you are doing, and that in itself creates a positive energy, and gives you a new meaning.

[@alexfinn7989]

Why when i am alone i always feel super strong sadness and lack. I am on vacation alone in beautiful location and all i do is cry because all i see is beautiful people together, families, friends, etc. and i have nothing. It makes me feel terrible and therefor unable to male connections.

[@myaccount9498]

U are lonely & comparing yourself to others. Comparison is the thief of joy. People around u may seem happy but u have no idea what goes on when they're at home. They might be deep in debt, have family violence etc. Try to focus on what is good in your life e.g. u are on vacation in a beautiful location, u have food & drink, a beautiful place to relax. Listen to KZbin for inspiration & try to practice gratitude. ❤

[@patriciaquaglia1795]

Sit with yourself and tend to your hurts and pain. Come home to yourself by being with you with compassion. The brain protects us and will make us numb and no feel good about us when we’ve felt pain. We gotta allow ourselves to feel good inside our skin again by sitting with ourselves alone in combination with creating happiness in your mind.

[@TeaTime4Akane]

“Possession is so strong” such powerful words. My marriage ended after 33 years and I had it all. Nice big house, cars and stuff that comes with four kids etc. I moved to California with my belongings in three IKEA bags. I do miss things but now that I’m empty nesting, I miss my kids more. I encourage people to examine their life that’s holding them back esp if they grew up with immigrant parents that has stuff. Still on the journey but with less possessions. My prize possessions now are pics of my mom and one baby shoe from each kid.

[@ReeMoni24]

How did you survive a breakup after 33 years?😮

[@hayley44448]

Hope your doing OK ❤

[@TeaTime4Akane]

@@ReeMoni24My ex husband was TDY 65% of the time and at one point we lived in the UK so four kids and the pets kept me busy .

[@TeaTime4Akane]

@@hayley44448Thank you. Trying to keep positive and focusing on my well being and health .

[@DrinkTeaAndBreathe]

I understand: after decades together, my ex and I also divorced (peacefully, but it shook me nonetheless). I began all over with whatever I could fit in my car. It hasn't been easy but I've also learned how good life can be when I focus on the present moment and rely less on possessions, titles and status. Looking back, I'm actually grateful now that I've experienced loss since it's been my teacher and helper in life.

[@themicdfiles1865]

I am alone, but never lonely. I keep myself occupied with the things that bring me joy. From tattoing, to riding my dirtbike and hunting for fossils and rocks in Wyoming, to building and playing guitars, writing, podcasting, flying drones, or whatever I feel like doing. My thoughts are that happiness comes through having value, but more importantly knowing your value. When you know who you are, what you've been through, when you've come to terms with your shadow and understand the duality of life, there's nothing else you need. Gratitude and appreciation are so very necessary. I have everything I could have ever wanted. I've had and lost millions. I could make all that money again, but I've let it go. I can make the money when it's needed and it always works out. We have to walk away from anything negative, whether that's people, politics, religion, or ideologies. I had an epiphany the other night and I'm walking away from the political commentary I've been producing. My view point isn't right or left, it's the idea of walking away from it, but by putting my energy into producing that content, I am involving myself in it and it's counter-productive. Your message is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you, my brother. I am off to enjoy the company of the rattlesnakes, coyotes, wolves, badgers, antelope, deer, and my favorites of the animal kingdom, the ravens. Be well.

[@7Lyrics_Zone]

you can do whatever your into but, "it's no good for a man to be alone" says the bible -->Genesis 2:18, get a wife & build an empire MAN!.

[@travist6345]

I love this man, I’m from Arizona and I love hunting and riding dirt bikes. I’d love to live in Wyoming on day

[@wojownicza12]

Wow, respect,glad you are, so inspirational

[@MrsHippy1961]

Eight and a half years ago i moved into the house i now live in with my dog. I was 53 at the time. It was the first time ever in my life i had lived alone. It was terrifying. I've always been very independent but I'd never lived alone. No husband/boyfriend or kids. These past few years have been a steep learning curve on many levels. Healing from trauma in childhood, abusive relationships, self loathing, i guess just about everything bad. I can confidently say i am totally at peace with myself and my total aloneness, my dog passed away just before Christmas. I have absolutely no intention of sharing my life with anybody else, not living with me. I now value myself, my space and my peace more than anything. Your videos are wonderful. I just wish they'd been about 9 years ago. I do find the meditation videos useful as I'm crap at meditation. Monkey mind but your voice is relaxing to listen to. Bless you ❤

[@mariammkrey190]

dont enjoy the picture of the journey but enjoy the journey

[@kebox17]

Thank you for this today. I'm trying to get "out of my head" and appreciate all the things I CAN still do even though I have Multiple Sclerosis. Some days that's hard to do. I thank you for bringing me peace today and grounding me. ❤

[@jackytheninja2179]

I needed to hear this. Thank you. You’re a huge inspiration

[@shownemoto]

Thank you! Happy to hear that!

[@lwill5936]

Missed you ❤ thanks for coming back with this healing continent 😌

[@suzannesinclair665]

Wow, once again, needed that, thank you, just me being here at the right time & in the right place... ❤

[@quietlywandering1995]

My happiness is being content with who I am and my place in my existence.

[@Carina-2906]

Thank you very much for these beautiful feelings that you share ❤ I agree with you 😊 You are helping the world like so many other people. Kind regards ❤

[@Mkbthao]

Thank you for sharing…I needed this. I’ve been feeling sad, frustrated and putting it out on others. I’m in the process of self reflection and self love❤

[@GaryHwang]

Thanks Nemoto, it gives me some kind of peace watching your videos with everything I'm going through in life.. this is probably the worst time in my life right now and I'm trying to figure out a way to calm my mental down. Thanks man I really hope I can find peace and happiness with all the stuff going on right now. I also hope that everyone finds their own peace and happiness

[@Fabo100]

I appreciate this video! I’ve been working towards this mindset. That the past doesn’t even exist anymore if you can move forward and focus on the present. We can control that if we try. One day at a time I am trying to heal my hurt soul but I know it’s temporary and I will get to a place of comfort and happiness in due time and that keeps me pushing forward

[@SiamBonnawithU]

I have done everything for those whom I love but they betrayed me and I lost everything! After loosing everything I realized that I need to love and care myself to be happy in life of what I have, living alone is frustrating at the beginning but eventually It’s nice to be alone if you are accustomed to doing it....life is too short so enjoy yourself, don’t expect anything from others, it’s your life and you are alone ❤

[@Laurensheis91]

Show you saw possibility in yourself. So, we see possibility in you. Always believe in yourself ,show. You are doing great. I will support you

[@MalathTheBold]

You giving me reassurance of safety here as well as giving advice on how to move forward has most certainly given me happiness on its own. The advice itself will certainly make me happier in the long run

[@yooouuahh88]

If it's not inspiring, I'm not watching it. Thank you for making these videos💕 This is the second best present for my bd. The first one is being surrounded by good people, including Show through social media😊

[@jamesclear3657]

im going to re watch this thousands of times, just so i get it and it sticks

[@yurisalmon7863]

thank you for this, u open my mind! ❤❤❤❤

[@etin8392]

I always wonder why ppl feel the need to look at what people are doing. Social media just proved how narcissistic we as humans are. We turned into a society of looking for acceptance from people without even looking for acceptance from ourselves first.

[@carrie668]

I really love this message ❤you nailed on it with those questions. Thank you for delivering such a positive message to all who listen to and watch.

[@carolcollins3108]

Thank you , this is profound. God Bless you.

[@ca7582]

I think you are absolutely right with this message. Really, you hit the nail on the head. Magnificent video. ❤

[@Tiger-qg9xk]

You all probably here because somewhere you know or you assume that you have lost everything in life ,so let me help you out a lil bit to change your perspective on how life works ! Myself Tiger and I’m no experienced life coach or a motivational speaker,just a simple 18 y/o with a different perspective on life . I came across Mr.Nemo’s (yes, I found my Nemo,it’s time for you all to find yours) videos and concluded that this person is so in love with his own self and that I had to follow that simple rule to turn my life like I’m the MAIN CHARACTER, “LOVE YOURSELF”.

[@Tiger-qg9xk]

Yes, it’s that simple ..ik that loving yourself is the most common,most confusing,and yet most solid advice anyone can give . Because it’s not really about feeling love for yourself; it’s being able to feel stable enough that your mindset doesn’t rest in the narrative of a supposed other’s. Like Mr.Nemo had said once that you can never change the situation you are in but instead change yourself. You are unhappy because you expect a lot from you or maybe you think others expect a lot from you ..duck about the others part and work for you ..know your limits and start working on yourself .

[@Tiger-qg9xk]

I lost a precious friend of mine and he thought he wasn’t good enough but guess what ..he was my favourite human being ! So remind yourself that you are someone else’s favourite too ..! Don’t give up yet . I didn’t so DON’T YOU DARE GIVE UP , So until next time❤ P.S Mr.Nemo,don’t get married and wait for another 7 years .. I’ll find you and find myself!

[@shownemoto]

I'm happy that you are feeling good about yourself and improving yourself! Let's keep going!

[@CarlaJayne-jc5qz]

Absolutely love this thank you ❤

[@user-jz4vc8fr2p]

ım trying to be happy by myself and ım trying to start to love myself in these days and this video helped me a lot to review my perspective thank you so much wish you the best

[@d.r.carmel]

I needed this! Thank you so much! ❤

[@alalelo]

I needed this. thank you

[@priyamalhotra5794]

Thanks for the video, much needed at this time❤🌟

[@olisykes9470]

Damnn that spoke to me. Needed to hear this Thank you ❤

[@marianburns9037]

Thank you for my calm and peace today!

[@marialuizaturnermontarroyo6594]

so happy that I find your channel, insights and perspectives that fulfill the soul, a big thanks from Brazil :)

[@a.j5738]

❤I LOVE THIS WE R LIGHT AND OUR OWN DARKNESS..THANK U FOR THIS BEAUTIFUL JOURNEY UR SHARING . A.J GOD BLESS

[@seoulscenes]

Thank you, you really made my day❤

[@jigme2204]

Well said!

[@itscrystalclear17]

I just wanted to thank you. I watched this video right when I needed it. I agree with everything and hopefully I can apply this philosophy to my life. Thank you again! -Vanessa

[@essence____beauty_92]

Such a great message ❤❤

[@lilly-mh3vf]

This actually helped me so much... You are amazing man!

[@shownemoto]

Im happy to hear that!

[@sonnie4507]

Thank you for sharing this,I needed to hear it.I will get by one day at a time, and your voice ,soothing😊

[@idek_0752]

I’ve been told that all my happiness is external and that I need to find happiness within myself first. I have never heard of happiness that way but I figured I should try

[@arthomas7141]

Such a beautiful encounter you had in Malta. Excellent video, it really helped put a lot of things into perspective. I'm grateful to have you as my life coach 🙏

[@shownemoto]

Thanks Alicia!

[@andresalfaro2790]

Borther, you never cease to amaze me, amazing work my friend, keep it up!! Love from México

[@shownemoto]

Thanks Andrés! Happy to hear!

[@heidiirenenyhammer7890]

Do not enjoy the picture of the journey - enjoy the journey itself. That was something to think about🤔🤗

[@marielladelarama9132]

I needed this 😌😌😌

[@yplee4453]

Very awakening Video and great experience from malta. This shows that everyone can be happy if they appreciate everything they have already 💯❤ it is about the journey and the attitude towards life

[@brightestt7816]

Thank you for existing ❤

[@shownemoto]

Appreciate your love!

[@rainnnnnnn]

thank you so much ❤️❤️

[@easebya]

I have been spending so much time searching for the best bed to buy for my new place since I decided to live a new life. But after watching this, I am now considering not even buying one since I am still enjoying peaceful sleeping hours on my sofa bed right now. Really great short content! Harigatu! 🙏

[@elenaendru6407]

This video help me. Thank you❤

[@blossoming_of_lotus_flower]

We will find peace when we acknowledge that we are imperfect but we keep striving for perfection anyways.

[@Caroline-gw6gl]

You create really valuable content- thank you!✨

[@humbledone1111]

I just like your voice 🤗🤗🤗

[@SOWEODD]

I love this. Thank you

[@johnnyg7899]

My daughter lives 20 minutes away with my ex who has remarried. She was my priority for over 22 years and I stressed myself and suffered because I worried if she thought I was abandoning her after my divorce. Years later I realized I was kept close only because of my determination to be available for her financial needs including my ex wife. I decided to start a new life and leave to find my happiness since I have only a few years left of life now. I refuse to live my last years depressed and worrying about loved ones who never really care about me. After 15 birthdays, 15 Christmases and weekends alone I decided its time to go overseas and make others happy who can appreciate me.

[@trulystronger4681]

I have war on my window in my country for over 4 months..its hard to Start and investing more in my business (personal training) I'm building my own studio in my house and I love to think I could be with that mentality before the war, but today it's different.. I hope I don't lose myself in the way and it will end soon

[@zeynepdenizxx]

i’m praying for your safety 🤍

[@kamilasuiunova]

your perspective can be your superpower

[@emanmahmoud9439]

I enjoy my happiness when I'm alone. It's a good opportunity to be my own and practice my hobbies

[@dzonka54]

Good advice brother.I can improve in my life now.Thank you.

[@paparadio4168]

It was truly wonderful thanks

[@micheledillon1381]

Thank you 😊

[@user-li5vn5tl3y]

I’ve bounced back so many times and I’ve been appreciative my whole life and none of that has anything to do with being unhappy. All of these things you’ve mentioned are superficial.

[@nl7607]

So relatable!

[@shownemoto]

It is a realization to have in the process of becoming happier!

[@rsam14]

I love watching your videos

[@oyungerelchuluunbaatar2756]

Wow this was such a good video thank u ❤

[@kengy9861]

I wanna be happy again ❤😢 wish she know how much I wanna be happier

[@emanmahmoud9439]

Happiness is an inner feeling not related to material possessions.

[@zhuravel1699]

Thank you so much for your words, for your energy! It actually inspires. I believe that the key to happiness is an ability to see little good details in our lives. I mean: we are surrounded by millions of cute, kind and funny things, that can boost our mood, but we're blind to notice them! For example, one gets up early and hears birds outside a window singing. "Blind" person's gonna never pay attention to this, they'd rather think: "Here we go again, another shitty day...". But a person with a desire to see little things that can make them happier will think: "Wow, what a beautiful beginning of a day. These birds are free and happy, and it's so relatable". The main point is to make a HUGE list (in mind, on paper, doesn't matter) of things that make you feel better every day. It's something very particular (not "being rich or something") and available to you every day. I'm pretty sure that all of us has hundreds of such little things, we just need to notice them. It would be great if you text here what part of your everyday life and routine make you happy. I'm really curious! Maybe we can open each other's eyes to something new ... I can start: I do enjoy a cup of tea brewed in a teapot after busy day in my university. I love such moments because it helps me to relax.

[@ektapatel1835]

I love talking to friends far away and share my days or weeks with them on phone.

[@MildredWilsonArtist]

I love it! ❤️ thanks! Newbie here. X

[@P447x]

thank you bro

[@Officially_sad]

nice vid, this is all i need, ♥thank you Show! Love from Malaysia

[@cars_tech0025]

This is a good video brother 🙏

[@bebegurl4724]

🖤happy ... it's so nice to be happy .. everybody should be happy...

[@hayley44448]

Hello from New Zealand,i dont mind being alone at all but i do get lonely.im listening to you hoping to sort this out.thankyou ❤

[@user-no2zp5sc9f]

Amazing content and thanks for beautiful thoughts🤩

[@shownemoto]

Happy to hear that!

[@user-yp3rz6wc4z]

Bright words to me 🎉

[@shownemoto]

Happy to hear that!

[@maurogomez1585]

Nice one.

[@aldof.2966]

Happiness and satisfaction.... how can they be different...

[@patriciacarneiro734]

Your voice! 🥰

[@vnaykmar7]

Amazing

[@Princenassim14]

Im just watching the video for fun. And i like it.

[@daria.zadorozhnia]

Unfortunately, not all viewers here are safe. I live in Ukraine and over the last year and a half I've experienced quite a lot of terrible things because of the war. So I have to always keep in mind that the Russians can kill me at any moment. In addition, many things in my life were destroyed during this time. Both physical and emotional. But thanks to this, I was able to understand what true happiness really is. I've already watched similar videos before, but I can say for sure that only a real catastrophe in life (hello to that guy from Libya😉) makes it possible to fully realize everything that you're talking about in the video. It's like a purification from any social influences that allows you to understand what you really need and move towards it. Thank you very much for the video! Peace for everyonehere✌

[@joo2701]

Hi, I'm from Chile, All the best to you

[@snnneezyyy]

thank you a lot

[@user-dq5sq8rg7y]

Fantastic video🙌🏻Thank you for your nice, clam energy❤ Connecting to it really helped me today🪷🌟

[@kathychapman268]

I don't look in the SAME MIRROR AS EVERYBODY ELSE DOES .Thanx for the advice. SEE YA!

[@OldSchoolL4D-zb2kt]

Can't be lonely if you growing in something

[@helionhelion]

Thank you again for your kind and wise words.

[@shvishh_777]

bro only speak facts

[@peculiarediomo-abasi6304]

Thanks.

[@ana_geo2319]

At 29 years old, I'm tired of being in a relationship. After he insulted me with words I can never forget, I decided I needed a change. I want time for myself. I want years of being alone, improving, and not being scared, but becoming fearless. I know there is a spiritual path that awaits for me. But how you fix a broken heart? Maybe time will tell. Thank you for encouraging me. Stay strong. Greetings from Berlin, Germany.

[@Seanus32]

Very well said - sono tori desu :)

[@MintyOreosx3]

Man I just wanna cry it’s so hard 😢 this world is just pure evil it hurts it’s confusing so many happy fake people and then there’s evil it’s overwhelming I wish there was a way for me to understand it feels like some people are 2 faced sided it’s just I don’t understand human emotions idk what to do or say what to think I’m honestly completely lost.. I wanna be happy but idk what to do or how to understand body language or facial expressions or any of that or words

[@PrincesseKittyKat]

Ive been barely truly happy in 38 years. Heartbreak, Chaos, Bad Luck.

[@hiroshimoon11]

Not sure happy is my goal; it's more just not to be unhappy.