how to be happy & best way to positively reframe your mindset | 20 "things" I loved in 2020 (week 2)

[@Jellyfishgift]

When you realize that the video is 20:20 long

[@glimmerandglow576]

Hi remember me? I'm watching to!

[@hirayaclaysplays]

WHAT. IT FELT LIKE 5MINS!

[@glimmerandglow576]

@@hirayaclaysplays ya

[@madisongold4697]

2020 lol

[@aashrithasinde6558]

came late to the party, but it is never too late to unwind and slow down.... tbh Ro, your videos are a good way to calm down.. Thanks for this series... see ya!!

[@samanthab195]

I have many wonderful things to say about this video, but let me just quickly say that YES VAGABOND. I also watched it this year and was like WOW. So unlike any other K-dramas I've seen. I was on the edge of my seat and was soooooo annoyed at the ending - there better be a season 2, I'm not used to a K-drama leaving me hanging!!

[@shafiqa.j]

Love you always. Named one of my plants after you. Same calm feeling I get when looking at it & watching your videos.

[@Manj_J]

6:45 I see you Rowena, I see you... First the RJ pillow in a previous vlog, then the Tata pen (that sold out :( unfortunately) and now this

[@erenikorllos9747]

Knowing bts is something healthy too😂❤ their message and music really help for making a good life

[@chanelh1972]

bOyFRieND???!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@nicoleonfeels]

“You’ll be ok. I am soft.” - Damn, all I needed this past year was a nice sweater.

[@sophiayuna]

Ro this is a bit random but your thumbnails are literally the best. so cute & aesthetic

[@Noemy_Corea]

That's true... I like how it looks :')

[@alex_danceskpop]

I saw BTS in the middle of this and was so confused for a minute. Love my boys and am an ARMY but wasn't expecting that. XD

[@auroramistral]

I saw it and I came to find the comment about them! Hello fellow Army! We are EVERYWHERE

[@caribonaralachibolala7884]

Same! I got excited and literally paused the video where the boys came out.

[@vprabhudk]

@@caribonaralachibolala7884 same

[@rachelquinn8505]

So glad I saw this comment so now I need to see what you are talking about!! AMI!!!!!

[@laurah1743]

I literally had to pause the video to come read the comments! 💜

[@charlylyly12]

thank you rowena for sharing these postivie messages and motivation with us💛 and sharing the little moment of me and my mom at 11:11 🙏🏻🌱hope everyone reading this would be smiling today, we can all make it through the future🥰

[@belliwatching]

thank you for sharing this moment through Rowena!! I hope you are doing well and ending this year healthily💖

[@McLuvin2000]

That was the best moment of this video for me! Thank you for sharing. It was great to hear Canto and hear mental health start to unstigmatize in our culture. Wishing you and your mom continued growth and the very best moving forward

[@sweetrealityy]

thank you for sharing such a lovely moment! so sweet to hear canto and seeing our parents also grow and change with us. this was so beautiful

[@catcat2607]

Rowena, you yelling at the cyclist wasn't breaking into road rage. You were simply speaking the language of driving in Manhattan. 😂 They don't communicate any other way there.

[@youchoobplz]

Rowena - I had a VERY SIMILAR experience this year too! I'm an expat from California now living in Germany who knows full well about how deadly cars can be to cyclists and pedestrians. As a cyclist, I was harassed by a taxi driver and had an argument in German (a language I can still barely speak) and it was such an absurd experience. Like you I'm very much a pacifist, but at that moment I got angry and snapped. I think it was a reminder to slow down and be calm, but also made me realize how much I needed to express the feeling that I belong to this country (Germany) to this street where I'm riding my bike on and that I have the absolute right to be here, just as much as anyone else. That feeling and desire needed an outlet - it just so happened to manifest in that way, I guess. I felt bad about it but just wanted to thank you for sharing this experience - good to know I'm not the only one! :)

[@itsfaithtime]

Did you make this video 20:20 long on purpose?? 🤔 or just a super happy coincidence? 😛 💖 (either way, i love it!)

[@mrdavidchang]

what if I like being a potato 🥺👉🏻👈🏻

[@rowena]

then embrace the potato life my friend 😉

[@rebeccajones9757]

Potatoes gonna potate!

[@BunnehGoesRawr]

French fries!. 😍

[@Sunflower-wq6vw]

This might be my first comment on youtube. I just started to follow your channel early this year. Since then, I've never skipped your video whenever you uploaded. I started journaling and meditating because of you. You inspire me to be a better person each day, so I just want to thank you for making these beautiful videos

[@rowena]

this means more than you know 🥺🙏🏻💕 thank you so much for being apart of this beautiful journey!

[@emerald2.063]

Rowena, this series is such a nice way to slow down and take a moment to reflect. Thanks so much for doing this!

[@elizabeththecity9674]

YES, this is so incredibly important headed into 2021. 2020 has been really hard in so many ways, and I finally feel like things are loooking up and good things are coming! Thank you for being such a positive presence on KZbin. You’re the best!

[@jkm2048]

OMG BTS GETTING A GRAMMY NOMINATION BESTEST THING AND EXPERIENCE EVER 😭💜

[@livoic4107]

Oh so you like bts Cool :)

[@amyjrobinson]

I’ve never been early to anything! it’s almost 1am here and I’ve been super anxious lately, a new video by Rowena is honestly perfection rn 🤗

[@SakuraOpalArt]

11:29 I was watching this video while drawing and I got so surprised after hearing the cantonese ,,,!!! (I'm from Hong Kong haha,,)

[@mvfromero.]

Rowena, Thank you for all you do with this channel! I can't honestly say I never NEVER comment on videos, but just wanted to let you know you are making such a positive impact on all of us ✨

[@rosenose819]

This series in incredible. Your work ethic is incredible. I love everything about this.

[@Objectsided]

Rose Nose

[@CynthiaCho]

Claim your “here within an hour” ticket right here

[@the9file]

what is my reward? the video itself, of course

[@vivekgogate3068]

Me

[@petitsjoujoux5011]

I don't know how my 2020 would've been without Rowena... I'd probably turned into a rotten potato xD

[@DanzienStudio]

wait, was that you and your mom speaking Cantonese ? ! I didn't know that you speak Cantonese😲💕 btw, love this series😘love from Hong Kong

[@beaudenefinger3312]

I'm just catching up on these reflection videos and I have to say, I've never done anything quite like this. It's helping me understand what means the most to me, and to relive all of the good moments and highlights. It's nice to realize that there are more than just 5 new experiences and shared moments :). Thank you Rowena!

[@anjalisinha4696]

This is just so self reflection I've ever had . I'm 24 and haven't had such reflection ever. And your hug at the Last😭😭😭. Love you ❤️

[@janglass8219]

You had me until you brought up the inane and obnoxious cheering / banging for the "heroes". Are you sure you're not buying into MSM's propaganda? Sounds like you need to do more research and critical thinking.

[@jadajonesoldchannel]

okay but I love how this video is 20 mins 21 seconds long... 2021 vibes already plz✨👏🏽

[@cottagegrandma]

I wrote down my 20 things I loved in 2020 and realized that I actually did many things I'm grateful for ! Thank you so much, this really opened my eyes

[@lemonadeslices]

i'm just doing this exercise, and it has truly helped me reframe 2020 more positively by keeping track of good and happy things. thank you so much for this exercise; it's helped immensely :>

[@rayalantin6742]

Rowena, you really keep me grounded and I’m so thankful to you for that

[@itsfaithtime]

such a beautiful and positive video!! :) i absolutely love this. if you don't mind - i think i want to make a video inspired by this/you! crediting your original video of course :P i think it would be a great way to not only spread more positivity. but to keep for memories too!

[@rowena]

do ittt

[@itsfaithtime]

@@rowena yess I will! 😍🤗

[@itsfaithtime]

@@rowena I made it! :) Thank you for giving us such a lovely challenge! :) I enjoyed reflecting on my Thanksgivings so much 🥰 kzbin.info/www/bejne/in61dYGYj9qioqc

[@henrytsang5989]

Here is a Hong Konger who feels so special to hear a Cantonese clip in your video :)

[@1tecito]

I almost left without my hug,,,never leaving without the hug (specially because I haven't hugged a friend in 9 months)

[@SteAndRach]

The best ending to any youtube video!! 😍💛 Rowena is the best!

[@lameperson4867]

13:40 honestly I kinda started crying

[@joymae]

I'm going to try to incorporate this into enjoying WFH life more

[@SteAndRach]

Love this video so much Rowena! It's so nice to see how you included your community for each section 😍 The chat between mother and daughter was so beautiful!! Love the point you brought up when you sat down overlooking the view of the golden gate! It's so important to be in the moment and take some time to appreciate the "little" things. 💛

[@bethanyrm]

I wasn't expecting BTS in the From You section, and it made me smile :P

[@sarahmbarik7051]

same here , but they really fit the theme I guess ? XD

[@belliwatching]

definitely unexpected but nice surprise! I definitely go back to BTS every time I'm feeling low, or going through a lot of stress. Can't say they haven't helped overcome the entire year!

[@bethanyrm]

@@belliwatching Same, my friend and I both became full Armys during quarantine

[@kaitlinb4940]

I’m still waiting for vagabond season 2

[@iyacamia]

goodmorniiing to y'all!! from ph(灬º‿º灬)♡

[@shellamaeserrano9776]

It's been a week of reflecting and thinking but I still can't answer these questions genuinely. This really makes me sad

[@erenikorllos9747]

You will eventually find answers, don't be saad❤

[@wannwen]

Rowena, thank you for helping all of us with your videos, they really do help and we'll forever be grateful 🤗

[@graceoysh]

This is so fun! Thank you so much Rowena for this challenge, it really helps me a lot on reflecting the year and prepare my self for the coming new year. #OperationUnpotato

[@liz6245]

Who else is here in 2022? 🤚

[@estrellasjournal]

I just subscribed and joined the vibely community. And I just wanna say that I'm so inspired by you and so grateful for these videos I can almost cry :')

[@odditygrdn]

Love this video! I got engaged in January, so this video reminded me to look back over the year and be thankful

[@amelia1868]

Well, sometimes what we really need is to tell the other person that he's going the wrong way, after all he might pose a threat for others too. So you did good haha :D

[@fionalillyy]

fangirling bc you put my comment in the video in the beginning hihihi. excited for part 2!!!

[@ambitiousrabbit3085]

I'm not sure if anyone else noticed but I like how the video is listed as "20:21" long but when you click on the video to watch its "20:20" haha

[@lo119]

😄

[@janiadavila1354]

Gracias por estos vídeos, me hacen sentir muy bien y casi lloro con el abrazo al final jejej 😊❤️✨

[@raehenne4082]

مرحبا جميعا، هي قناتي لل Daily vlogging عن حياتي كطالبة في الدنمارك، بتمنى تفوتوا وتتطلعوا على فيديوهاتي و ان شاء الله تنال إعجابكم 🙋‍♀️🤗Hey everyone, this is my daily vlogging channel in Arabic and English. I film my daily life in Denmark and what daily lifestyle choices I take. I'm into (mealpreping, baking, interior design, traveling and exploring nature, reading and studying)..I hope you like it 🤗

[@Annabur]

What was the recipe for the fizzy matcha? looks bomb dot com

[@todayscloudyy]

If you loved Vagabond, you'll surely love Start Up mother potato! Haha!

[@thewryreport]

Sorry if this is off topic, I only just discovered your channel. I love the content you post, and LOVE the way you write. If possible, would you please post a video about your handwriting style (e.g. how you developed it)? Thanks!

[@LRwer]

i was already getting emotional and then the bts grammy reaction video almost made me cry, appeared out of nowhere omg

[@theKiat]

I am some weeks behind but I wanted to tell you that It was so funny when I found these templates in Notion.... I just was finishing my journal, close the page, and instantly I was clicking on a link to NOTION BACK AGAIN!! I didn't pay enough attention at the time I guess. Thanks for this beautiful content

[@cjmazon]

I’m over here fan girling because you chose a video clip I sent in of me hammocking in Sherwood Forest!! It was one of my happiest moments of 2020 because I was with my best friends in a place that celebrated Electric Forest even though it was cancelled. So much love at the event❤️❤️❤️ Forever a subscriber Rowena ❤️

[@snowflakefrost]

Your videos are amazing as usual. ❤️ And yes, Vagabond is really really good! A fan of LSG here. ❤️ I actually didn't notice this video lasted for 20:20 hahaha I did enjoy your video!

[@Mika___1811]

5 cosas físicas que adquirirste este año 5 experiencias nuevas que te trajeron alegría 5 recuerdos que compartiste con alguien más 5 momentos contigo mismo

[@G3ologyRocks_]

Have you heard of Objective Personality?

[@mrswilson_]

If there was an option to subscribe twice... This would be my first channel ❤️

[@kellymiranda6797]

The flower pen!! My sister has it but I have the avocado one! They definitely bring joy ☺️

[@erenikorllos9747]

I cry everytime she hugs us Like that's really felt warm❤

[@mucktuckdye2624]

Wanna know how I got here, I search "propelling a bullet with sugar" wtf KZbin lol

[@caturina]

I really can't write down 5 things for the life of me... but what it made me realize is that I need to be more present. I've been super selfish this past year, and in general my mood hasn't been very good. I've been losing my temper a lot, etc. I found out I had fallen into depression, all due to a poor diet (no nutrients whatsoever)... All this made me realize I need to take better care of myself. I'm just so happy that I'm finally interested in my hobbies again, and there's so much I wanna do/am excited for, and this time I'm gonna make sure I'm present and mindful in everything I do 🤍 Your channel is such a huge help and motivation/inspiration to being mindful and kind to myself (and how to be a good human being in general). I'm just so thankful for your channel and your lovely self 🤍

[@Sofia-ew2ok]

Thank you so much for these videos!!I feel I have a new friend, motivational person, and making me feel I’m not alone

[@rara1716]

i love you ro! hope i could meet you in person and talk about ramdon nice things :))

[@RobertaMathias97]

I really like your videos. Watching them relaxes me a little. I've been struggling with some problems related to mental health and I always come back to this channel and just focus on what you share with us. thank you

[@NKHTAROT]

💜🌹💜🌹💜🌹💜🌹💜🌹💜🌹💜

[@mollyfaye]

The talk with your mom 😭🥰

[@SteAndRach]

totally agree, so precious 😍😍

[@EtherTheReal]

idk what youre tryin to do, happiness is an indicator of things going the right way, if youre feeling unhappy then thats EXACTLY what you should be feeling at the moment bc there is something wrong you need to fix first. As long as thats not fixed you can suffocate in your unhappiness, in that sense negative emotions are a good indicator of needing to change and act. Just trying to fill your life with happiness doesnt erase the negative emotions, it just drowns them...

[@NkuliMamabolo]

I really enjoy these videos cant wait for week 3 .. :) all the way from South Africa

[@lightwhispersreiki]

Your videos are so grounding! Thank you!🙏

[@suraiashila7716]

Lets unpotato ourselves guys... Justiceforus##

[@fehnryrnovak7544]

Can you do a video on how lively app works? I downloaded, tried to figure it out, panicked and deleted it.... oops

[@prarthanapramod3861]

When she said "I miss my family", I felt that

[@GraceLum]

omg whattt i never heard u speak canto im kinda shook cause i thought you only spoke taiwanese

[@kwanpuidai25]

i really like your matchy knit wear and your nails! where did u get them!

[@mariannestardoroja9154]

Okay, so that 40 seconds abt Fel gets me 😭😭😭

[@violetchadwell]

shel silverstein poems are the best! that was my entire childhood :)

[@tymorrowland]

thank you for helping all of us! i dearly look up to you

[@marissaacosta8015]

I really hope the Vibely Challenges continue after December!!!!!!!!

[@SteAndRach]

Agree, fingers crossed! Rowena will always find ways to add value to her community though! She even inspired me (Rach) to convince my bf to start a KZbin channel with me! Forever grateful for this woman☺️💛

[@jadesjourneyblog]

I think this is my favorite of your videos yet ❤️❤️❤️

[@jyt99jt]

Boyfriend?? Tell us more, Rowena! That’s if you don’t mind. 🥺

[@No-gh9me]

inspiring

[@rasntx]

wheerrrrre do you get these cardigan/sweaters?? So cute!!

[@rachaelhorner6257]

the way you but the grammy nom for BTS in here. my heart!

[@janettemartinez7025]

Thank you very much, I love your videos.

[@Evergreenforest33]

Gosh this video it timeless loved it! Thank you!

[@aintnobodysgirl]

I would love that cabbage recipe!

[@SanneSanne]

Ahhww that virtual hug 🤗 makes me sentimental 🥰

[@aeralv]

Hello, what app is this? I can't find it :

[@Annabanana1207]

Can you please share the layout you use on your diy planner :)

[@pankreas2195]

I am so grateful for this channel ✨

[@koalaTtime]

Keep these videos coming 😍😍😍

[@PaigeNextDoor]

What nail polish are you wearing?

I just hugged my phone and it felt so nice lool. Great exercise Rowena really loving this 🙏🏾🥺

[@nandielina]

perfect timing💕💕💕

[@gionagrace6279]

Ro...great video! Miss beautiful soul..I'm so excited about your bf! I missed that announcement! So happy that you found love! Btw..that clinique moisturizer is HEAVENLY! 😊🥰😉😍

[@ChelseaArtunez]

This was marvelous... I literally watched all the way though. I'm thoroughly inspired. I am about to do the 20 things. THANK YOUUUU!🪂 hugs back 🤗🌸