how to be the main character: *life-changing* tips to radiate confidence and romanticize your life!

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timecodes:
0:00 - intro
0:36 - characteristics of main character energy
1:29 - difference between main and side characters
2:40 - challenge yourself
4:48 - do what makes you happy
5:05 - why i hate birthday parties
5:58 - treat yourself like the main character
8:10 - find activities you enjoy
9:34 - create your main character music playlist
9:58 - get rid of the negative mindset

[@mshoneyy]

Yes people forget we wouldn't have a movie/show if the main characters life was perfect! They struggle, learn and conquer throughout. Main characters always have character development ✨✨✨

[@lenalifts]

that was so beautifully said ❤❤

[@eleni_spt]

Obsessed with Lena’s videoss🫶🏻❤️

[@lenalifts]

Obsessed w youuu thank you for watching 🥹❤️❤️

[@eleni_spt]

@@lenalifts I never miss a single one, you are by far my favorite KZbinr

[@SangateeGoutom]

I do not know why, but I cried a lot during the video. Maybe because I always feel the side character of my own story, you just gave me a reality check. Lol. Love you as always.

[@lenalifts]

awww i hope they were good tears in the end ❤❤ always feels better after crying it out. you are the main character and never forget that. sending you so much love

[@adarshkaur111]

I am just 18 years old and i am so grateful to have a big sister like you in my life. As your loyal subscriber i promise you that every day i will make me one percent better so that i can become like you🤭🤭🤭

[@hasfamiliy2765]

I swear I am lucky that I found this channel. This channel has been a safe place for me yk to have someone who understands us. Love your positivity in each video❤ Thank you sooooooo much Lena!!! We appreciate everything you do and everytime you post something literally just makes my day 1000000× better Ly from Germany 🇩🇪 ❤❤

[@lenalifts]

I am lucky for your support and love 🥹❤️ I appreciate you so so much and thank you for motivating me!!

[@user-us5oo4xy6p]

Yes! Agree 100%

[@eamoncondon3816]

I love you so much Lena!!! Everything about you!!! Your smile, your personality, your gorgeous long hair, your authenticity, your determination, your character, literally right down to your soul!!! You’re such a beautiful person and I love you!!! I love your content, I love your drive, I love everything about you and I’m so thankful to be apart of your life and journey in any way at all!! It’s an honor!!! I love you Lena!!! 🇮🇪✌🏻💜

[@lenalifts]

It’s such an honor to have your support and thank you so so much for the kind words you are too sweet 🥹❤️✨ thank u for always uplifting me and keeping me going ily sm

[@eamoncondon3816]

@@lenalifts you will ALWAYS have my support!! Wear that crown and slay my Queen!!! I love you so much too!!!💜

[@yochrisnelson]

The tip about birthdays hits different. I used to get sooo stressed about throwing a fun party for everyone but me. Definitely started having more fun when I gave that up, and you make me feel less crazy for feeling that way! Amazing video as always, Lena!

[@lenalifts]

aww im so glad you started putting yourself first and btw you are no crazy for putting yourself first on your birthday!! its your special day and you deserve to be feeling as such

[@Laceyyx]

Lena saves lifes

[@arianebustillo5883]

because of you, i stepped out of my comfort zone, like i tried jogging outside this morning so it's a new achievement unlocked for me, you really inspire me Lena ^_^

[@adriennehilll]

THANK YOU QUEEN ❤

[@c9rolina24]

you arent so intense when you give advice and I love that you are just supportive 💗

[@arcticxscythe]

I love how you're implementing sit down videos and vlogs on your channel, it's a nice switch up and you give great advice!! I always finish the end of your videos feeling super inspired, thank you Lena❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@alesamaa]

i completely agree w the advice on learning to train your brain to be self aware on how one is actually feeling and not how one is supposed to feel in x, w, z situations. It doesnt matter if socially something is deemed as “fun” or “desirable” (ex a big birthday party)…if one doesnt ACTUALLY enjoy those things, it’s sooo important to develop the self awareness to realise it and the courage to step aside and walk one’s own path to fun and happiness ❤

[@viktoriaborosan6087]

Giiirl I’m here mopping about a side character in my life and I just so needed this whole video rn. Thank you so much for being awesome Lena ❤️

[@Steps_to_Jannah]

I’ve literally been binge watching your videos, you’ve helped me improve my life sooo much ❤❤❤

[@pujatirumuru9539]

I love your videos so much, especially the confidence ones. I get so excited when you post. I literally watch your videos when I workout and before I go to bed. Keep doing what you're doing. I love love love your energy!!🫶🫶🫶

[@savanahrobinson790]

i just started working out and i just feel like i love her energy so much and the advice she gives.

[@esikuwornu]

I actually really love these advice segments, absolute gems!

[@ac-uh5lo]

"Look around and work out if you're having fun". This hit. I do this a lot, especially with my boyfriend when he's around my family. I don't enjoy hanging out with my family anymore, because I am so concerned that my boyfriend might be wishing he was somewhere else. I am not naive to the fact that partners don't always love being around their partners' family. But at the end of the day, when we are with his family, he doesn't once check to make sure I'm good. Which is fine because I usually am good. But why do I worry so much the other way round? Or when we are out with my friends on a double date. I am so so conscious about his feelings. But he never considers mine when the roles are reversed. I've never looked at this before. Thank you genuinely for opening my eyes to this. Next time I'm going to just focus on me a bit more.

[@smritithakur1518]

I watched one of her videos few days back...and i had never found someone so relatable....and now I'm just obsessed with her videos....Thank you so much lena for inspiring me 💚

[@Aditi_harsha2011]

gurly i rlly NEED YOUR PODCAST. LITERALLY

[@nelh6963]

I have really bad time right now, especially this week. But I found your channel and your vids about getting out of a slump and it really motivated me and made me feel better knowing that other people struggle with that too. Yesterday I started working out again after years and feeling much better. I don't know how long it will take to get fully out of this time right now, but I really feel better because of you. Thank you😊❤️

[@lenalifts]

i am so so proud of you for pulling yourself out of this slump - you should be so proud of yourself ❤ sending u sm love

[@karlenasanchez9376]

Girl lately I was just obsessed with all your content. It’s so motivating and effortlessly good that I couldn’t helped it but feel in love. Btw you have such a nice personality thank you for this ❤

[@livewithmattie]

Your energy is so healing Lena thank you for sharing such real messages

[@sarobidy7343]

Gurlllll I love listening to these kind of videos of yours as a podcast and it's a vibe

[@jessicac9971]

You're always radiating sunshine 🌞 always stay true to you! Thanks for your uplifting videos!

[@sixuan_wally]

ohmyy i didnt know i needed this advice THIS much!! thank you so much lena!!

[@BuiltByLinds]

I can literally tell how much youve grown mentally within the past 6 ish months, you should be sooo proud of yourself love! You are helping so many people🫶🏼

[@laradoedee970]

This is litteraly what I needed rigth now. It helps me realize to start romanticing my life again! Thank you❤

[@euixrax6352]

Hi Lena! Just thought I’d say your videos have helped me so much lately, you’ve inspired me to be more active when in the gym, to be more motivated, confident and so much more!

[@lenalifts]

im so honored to hear that and im so so proud of you for working on yourself ❤❤❤

[@julietnaranjo1961]

You have great energy, and everything in this video is very true ❤ I’m glad you posted definitely needed a refresher on this!

[@KiomoiOvO]

Ok but lemme tell ya that I’m just back from my 1 hour walk 💕 I got motivated from your 1 mile walk from your last vid! And I wrote your (how to be. Confidence) and they help me so much

[@nwnglr]

Girl you are GLOWING.

[@erica-mae]

I love the new format of your videos!! It's a new era and I'm here for it 💕

[@afefktari8826]

Thank you so much, I'm so grateful and happy that I found your channel, I'm binge watching your videos all day❤

[@TeeTajo]

I honestly needed this video. Has a lot of value to take out

[@ozatanvi]

Lena! Wanted to drop a quick shoutout - your vids have been a game-changer for me lately! You're the motivation guru, seriously. Your tips got me boosted my confidence, and inspired me big time! Much love! ❤

[@Xianelly]

I feel you on the birthday thing! I'm quite the showman, so when hosting parties I'm mostly focused on everyone else! My last birthday, my husband and I went to NYC just us and spent the weekend together doing whatever I wanted. It was perfect! Also, I love your videos, I save them for my breakfast to get me hype for the day lol

[@kkatyaan]

I feel like i should have heard those words! Thank you, Lena💗

[@nhern1515]

These videos feel like a friend giving you great advice!! Thank you 🫶🏽 Love your content and you! 💕

[@nochukiki]

With so much toxicity apparent in society, it’s so hard to be confident with who you are without feeling judged by others. Although in reality it is so true that no one cares much, and i’ve slowly been coming to realize that while rebuilding my long lost ‘me’. Thank you for the video!

[@clarakirksey7282]

Literally so inspiring. I’m always so motivated after watching your videos and it’s so nice to see you push yourself and get still look out for others and not disregard them! ☺️

[@karenntuulo4326]

Am actually watching this video again after few months u really inspire me

[@Drelhorri]

Thank you so much my dear it was great I will introduce this concept of being the main character of my life ❤

[@spikybinonnoda4564]

Perfect timing!!! I’ve just gotten sick and now I can vibe more with your videos!!! also I wish I could romanticize life more ❤ anyhoo and love your videos and support you 🙏🙏🙏

[@marisa1023]

So many people put so much pressure on going 0-100 . I love that you mentioned just doing 0.001 %better it’s actually a Japanese concept I came across recently called Kaizen I loved it so much that named my son after it 💕. Please keep making more positive and inspiring videos

[@lenalifts]

omggg i love that thank you for sharing ❤ i love kaizen!! and it is such a lovely name for a boy he is so blessed!!

[@annieyang4763]

Love the advice, thank you so much! :D

[@OfficiallyTalia]

NEEDED THISS!! THIS IS MY PRE WORKOUT BEFORE WORK!! Girll we need a video on how to style because you’re outfits are top tier !!! Love you’re videos !! Podcast soon???💗

[@lenalifts]

LOOK AT YOU GRINDING BEFORE WORK YASSSS GO GIRL 👏👏 love u sm thank you for watching and yesss can def do a video on outfits ❤️ was def thinking of a podcast too hehe

[@OfficiallyTalia]

⁠@@lenalifts 🥺 This made my dayyyy !!! Best KZbinr by far !! 💗

[@ROB-oc2uu]

​@lenalifts I NEED a self love/affirmations podcast from you

[@sarah.0928]

lena u genuinely never miss. love love love u.

[@camera0bsessedx]

I need to get into my main character energy!! your videos recently have been SO helpful, you're the best advice/tip giver and im glad we have you to help motivate and lift us up! love you so much girl

[@lenalifts]

love you more girly thank you for the hype and love as always ❤❤❤

[@hobnr5646]

Babeeee we are killing it 💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻😍😍🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🍺

[@Itzleah27]

This video just changed my life ….thank you😍

[@wolkenflauschig]

thank you, you are so motivating 🥹🤍

[@greycubano4397]

It’s now 2024 and I think I’m going to start being the main character in my own life. 2023 brought me so many lows and having to find out who I am that this year I want to become the best version of myself and I don’t care what anyone has to say! If you don’t love yourself who is going to! Thanks for always giving me the confidence and reminder to myself ❤️❤️

[@lizzyp174]

I'm twice your age, but I've learned how to love my life through your videos. True inspiration ❤❤❤

[@rubyr2217]

Loving the videos recently!! Your mindset and happiness are contagious wishing you all the best

[@ariettnguyen9976]

Girl you always motivate me love you so much!!🥰🥹🤍

[@charlotteelenore1399]

watching this while i workout using your workout plan! 🫶🏼

[@MomnaAsghar117]

Love love love your videos. I feel so good, motivated and fresh after watching each video. Love that I came across your channel.

[@juliecarter1465]

I love this, I really needed this, thank you sooooooo much!!!!!!

[@aqsaali1267]

Im literally so thankful that i found this channel.... I love you lena💗😭💗

[@ziarae03]

Thank you Lena. I have legit been needing someone to tell me all this.

[@honeyishmoon]

I got so happy when I saw you posted ❤ keep up the great work. Just love hearing from you and your day or whatever is on your mind. 🥰

[@monicayanez8455]

This is exactly the video I needed to watch today ✨🖤

[@cc.9650]

This channel came into my life at the perfect time! Lena you are the best

[@Lol85757]

Honestly when you talked about the activities part, i realised I like doing a bit of makeup and getting reading and stuff. But i thought who as a teenager does daily makeup and like thought it will be just too much doing a bit of makeup on a daily basis. But when you talked about it, i realised I literally overthink so much on a small thing which I enjoy doing and I have the right to do. No one even cares and I should do it if I love doing it. Thanks a lot! 😊❤

[@paigeschiemann6225]

Thank you girl very lucky to have your content!🫶🏽

[@user-qd6tu1mk6t]

I feel so inspired by ur vlogs ✨(idk it makes me feel like i am important)tq💖

[@mariaab1349]

Always learning from you! Bestie telling facts💜

[@prettypearl6769]

Lena please make video on how you overcame anxiety and how to stop being too sensitive and caring much about how other people think about me and also please give tips to improve my low self esteem pleaseeeee

[@darrenmycroft3885]

Your vid’s make me feel happy thank you for everything 🤍🫶🏻

[@lai_.1323]

I’m so glad I found your channel,Lena❤❤❤

[@user-ss5dq3ue8g]

could you please do a video on how you journal?? im literally in love with your vibe

[@devangana6849]

i love your videos so much....they give off such good vibes , i always watch them repeatedly when im feeling low or unmotivated, thank you .... Also can you make a video on how to conqure your uni life when you are a freshman???? that'd be so much helpful....

[@OneSteff2414]

Love you !!!!! You have changed my life ❤

[@sarahgutierrez5628]

I needed this encouragement thank you ❤

[@Thespian_adri]

Girlie…. I’ve literally been binge watching your videos for the past 3 days 😆

[@heyycynthie]

I love how you respond to comments!! I find your vlogs so relatable. I recently wanted to plan a birthday party but realized I am stressing out so much because I want to please other people. Heres to small circles

[@lenalifts]

aww thank you for watching!! ❤ also yesss heres to small circles - make your birthday about you bc you deserve it

[@Ancestras]

Love your authenticity ❤

[@MisdnightStreams]

Oh my LORD Lena! I am so happy you posted a new video, girl you have no idea. I'm hooked fr! I love watching your videos and I love the vibes! Honestly, you've helped me to keep going through with my life and validate my positive inner self, this summer has taken some unexpected turns and battles that have been fought. Although we good now and honestly, I'm living in my happily ever after era. As my OWN main character! p.s. I began working out for myself again!! Tehe, lots of biking

[@destinygarciaxo]

I just love the energy

[@marccolomayt82094]

I love Lena’s productive podcast vlog so much! ❤

[@lenalifts]

Love that you called it that ahh 🥹❤️ love u thank you for watching !!

[@marcelasantiago06]

Thank you for this🫶🏼🤍 love you!!!!

[@ideadahead4614]

Not me watching this at a starbucks drinking an iced matcha latte :D Lena you're crushing it with the self confidence and health talk! These are feeling like talking with my best friend! Been sticking to my habits these days thanks to your advice and i'm feeling great

[@Melissa23495]

I love your videos Lena, they are amazing and very motivating💌🌷

[@ruthobaro44]

New subscriber cause you know what good music is! You go girl ❤✨

[@kaylajackson2533]

Thank you for this video❤❤❤❤ this is a chef kiss 💋

[@user-oe6hy9xs7z]

im soo lucky to see this video rn ❤❤❤

[@roxannedrawings5788]

I rruly love your energy! Thank you for your videos that brings so much joy❤️💖💜

[@keerthi9716]

i am loving the amount of effort you put into these inspiring and motivating videosss....thank you soooo muchhhh

[@lenalifts]

least i can do for you guys honestly yall mean the world to me ❤

[@caitlindobbs6250]

LOVE this series ❤

[@user-zp9ck8uu2b]

I am so happy that I came across your vids ❤❤I have been improving my life aswell and you have helped me through it xx I would love for you to make a video on motivation for girlies who are in high school and improving your life style xx thankyou so much Lena xx ❤❤❤❤

[@AmlaBrown-qq8zx]

Aaah! Finally another video 💗love you girl 😭🫶🏻

[@michaelperfect]

Lena! Thank you for this! I really need it🤧

[@lenalifts]

Thank YOU for motivating me 🥹🙏

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This is the 1st video i saw urs & immediately subscribed...loved your video gaaal💞💞 love from Bangladesh 🇧🇩

[@user-qm5uv8fd9n]

lena!! you should do a q&a where we can ask u for advice i love hearing u talk about things like this 🤍🤍

[@lenalifts]

i love that idea!! i can def do that ❤❤❤

[@tashadesilver6280]

Lenal I love you so much you make me feel so motivated ❤

[@usagimoon.x.o6256]

Yess! I need this energy!!❤

[@hanint2128]

I’m addicted to ur videos Lena 🥰

[@Joshnellyorbe]

Love your videos sis!