how to *actually* be CONFIDENT: radiate self worth and love, magnetic energy, and attract people

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timecodes:
0:00 - intro
0:25 - understand where confidence comes from
3:02 - confidence comes from experience
4:58 - do better for yourself
5:42 - aquasana
7:00 - be your own biggest cheerleader
7:56 - work on you for you
9:05 - stop being a people pleaser
10:29 - how to stop being a people pleaser
12:53 - self care and look your best
13:21 - be confident, not cocky
13:58 - conclusion

[@lenalifts]

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[@BBRuuu]

What kind of camera do you use?!

[@lenalifts]

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[@Antonio-5691]

5:10

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[@Readwithrameen]

The fact that lena knows when her fam is going through low confidence times and decides to help her besties love you lena 💍🥺ur a queen who's literally helping so many people I hope you'll at least say hi 👑❤️💍

[@lenalifts]

Love you more thank YOU for watching I appreciate you 🥹❤️

[@kparker905]

Agreed

[@simrankj]

Yesss

[@Lalisaxox1]

this video definitely sent me a wake up call. I struggle a lot with depression and self esteem. In high school I would always blame myself for everything, be friends with the wrong people, when they tease me i would just laugh with them trying to fit in. I never did love myself nor set any boundaries. I would always workout trying to please people instead of working on myself. This video helped me alot. I do wish I had a time machine to tell my younger self that you gotta put yourself first before anyone else. Now that I'm in my 20's I definitely learnt a lot.

[@lenalifts]

I’m so glad this video helped you and thank you for being vulnerable and sharing 🥹❤️ I feel you so much on that especially working out for other people and being teased. Just remind yourself who you are and your opinion of yourself is what is important, not others. Sending you sm love

[@niocelvn]

“No one is going to show up for you, the way you can show up for yourself.” I also like, “people will can only value as much as you value yourself” harsh but true, and why kindness is necessary in this world

[@richa_anurag]

STOP!! I WOKE UP TO WHAT I NEEDED! Girl you literally are OOZING confidence and I’m so so hear for it!! Lena my love your videos seriously have changed my life, lysm ❤!!!

[@lenalifts]

HI BAE I LITERALLY LOVE YOU you honestly keep me going thank you for the love on literally every video 🥹❤️

[@anabellemontilla1756]

I woke up so sad and with such low self confidence and after my crying sesh I came across this thank Lena for being that friend I needed this morning and always 🥰🙏🏼

[@aylavlogs222]

This is so motivating. However, I struggle most with going out of my comfort zone and talking to others because I’m so socially awkward and find fear in the unknown 😭

[@allabouthataesthetic]

Today I walked up to a girl I wanted to be friends with and asked to have lunch with her. Said yes. Was a bit awkward, weird, def not perfect. But I did it 😁 That's all that matters

[@BellaHarbor]

8:54 "No one is going to show up for you the way you can and will show up for yourself" omg I felt that

[@aaliyahsmith7534]

I needed this, I am such a people pleaser one minute then the next feel confident and not need to please others and I’m trying to learn to not people please at all anymore lol so this spoke to me ❤️

[@lenalifts]

As a former people pleaser myself I feel you!!! It’s important we are aware of it and we work on it which you already are so I am so proud of you ❤️❤️

[@denisemarie1298]

😅😅😅

[@jaylabean71]

I really needed this reminder. I have been on this “peace in solitude” journey and had to part ways with all friendships due to people pleasing so I appreciate your transparency because I hold guilt and embarrassment from that version of myself and it shouldnt be like that. Sending lots of happy vibes and blessings🎉❤

[@lenalifts]

Love to hear your growth in journey to become your best self ❤️❤️ so proud of you!!

[@harmonioussteak]

the people pleasing aspect was on POINT! I was the exact same way and now that I’ve changed, I can’t believe I ever let anything slide. so glad to be past the worst of it and much better off 💛💛💛

[@jesusiskingofmyheart]

This video was so encouraging! Your journey/progress is inspiring and amazing 🥲💛 I've been in a slump for months now. I haven't been eating healthy at all & stopped going to the gym all together due to my gym anxiety 🥺 But I'm determined to get back into taking care of myself, working out, and falling back in love with myself & who God created me to be! 🙏💕 Thank you Lena.

[@lenalifts]

im so glad it helped also im so proud of you for wanting to get back into taking care of yourself and loving yourself. 💕 sending you sm love and praying for you!

[@doublenisa]

You are helping me so much. I am struggling with depression, anxiety, insecurity and more. I am trying to find myself. And your videos give me the confidence and energy to do what i want. Thank you so much Lena

[@mutintachiedzawakatama723]

I don't have an older sister but everytime I come watch your videos, you fill that void of someone who can help me navigate life. Thank you Lena

[@bridgettesebolela6974]

So good to see you Lena I missed you. So I seriously struggle with low self esteem, I don't like mirrors cause I always find something wrong with me and when I recently shared that with my friend, I said it like its a normal thing and its not. I am a people pleaser and when I look good and no one notices or compliments me, it ruins my day. I'm working on it and I pray everyday that God can help me be kind to myself😊 this video was very helpful. Thank you Lena❤

[@enkubella]

You're beautiful. I know that for a fact as God made you with zero mistakes. You're handcrafted by God to look the way you do, and it's beautiful ❤

[@bridgettesebolela6974]

@@enkubella thank you so much❤ God bless you queen

[@lenalifts]

Thank you so much for sharing your struggles because I can relate so hard. ❤️ Even to this day I find different things I don’t like about myself and I find myself relying too much on other peoples opinions and compliments to feed that insecurity. It’s important that we are self aware about it and continue to love on ourselves and work on it 🫶 God is a huge factor on my transformation w confidence too so as a sister I pray on you that God will transform your confidence and that you will realize how beautiful you truly are

[@bridgettesebolela6974]

@@lenalifts Thank you Lena😘❤

[@Music4L-co7jt]

girl the transformation is so crazy, you are drop dead gorge my eyes is blessed today

[@victoriasvloging]

lena, you are an angel! the fact that you even gave examples of what to say in a situation where you are being disrespected like that is really helpful! thank you - i appreciate your videos so much. "uplift you weekly" is truly what your videos do!

[@gracievan2133]

Girl I had the same experience with the roommate situation and I wish I set more boundaries with this person because they truly hurt me so much and ruined my confidence 😭

[@Jenniinavarro]

Hit all the targets 🎯 my favorite that have definitely boosted my confidence is stepping outside my comfort zone even though I still am not used to it but I love meeting new people. Love having the smallest circle of friends, like you said I have less friends but I’m happier now and knowing God is in control and whatever needs to happen will happen❤

[@lenalifts]

Love to heart that girl thank you for sharing 🥹❤️

[@labibahoque4261]

girl. let me tell you. THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED TO HEAR. i fr just have not known where to start. ive just been struggling and crying and have been cranky all day everyday for the longest time. everything you mentioned in the video i could relate to. i'm turning 20 soon and i do not wanna live my youth feeling this way. i really do wanna love myself and just find some peace of mind within me. thank you for doing what you do. you truly are a light in this world. i love you!!

[@CuriousPotatoxz]

This video is very helpful!! I used to be afraid to even go outside and didn't understand the saying "life is too short to think about other’s opinion" for a long time, but now, even walking down the street without makeup, I tell myself that these people will most likely never see me again, so I shouldn't worry, and from this video I learned even more to become the best version of myself, thank you so much for doing this!!💗

[@My_Linda_]

This came at the perfect time to help me through finals week and a perfect reminder to continue journaling. Appreciating the extra push from your videos to keep me motivated.

[@AndreaLopez-ow2il]

I’m a teenager struggling with self love. My goal for the summer is to change my mindset and be set to start high school! Your videos make me feel so put together and motivated. This video really reminded me of many things.🩷 thank you Lena!! I always look forward to your videos!!❤

[@yehoshouaisrisen8237]

Let's get that self love togheter sis. Wish u goodluck on ur first day of high school ((:

[@aryalakshmiks3805]

you goo gurrlll💗😚!!!

[@notaminah]

Girl you videos have helped me so much!! Got a gym membership, fixed my mindset and overall you videos just helped me improve my life 💖💖

[@lenalifts]

Girl that literally means the world to me I’m so happy to hear that 🥹💓 I’m also so proud of you keep it up !!

[@icecream375]

before listening to ur advice I always used to be the people pleaser, the really uncomfortable loner, and the introverted jerk but now that I learned self-confidence, I learned how to love myself tysmm! and this is a sign for you to start now! and be confident sis

[@KristianaBertucci]

Lena, you are 100% the best out there. You are SO real, and your editing is amazing! Always keeping us engaged and feeling like we aren't alone❤ keep killing it!!

[@kamcshaki]

needed to hear this today lena 💗 loved your approach to how humility will drive us to recognize our humanity and become more compassionate, I feel like this has brought and caused a handful of people into my life and whatever power it may be, I have to believe that it also brought your page to my reccomendations. Much love!

[@jxckalito]

girl i've been binging your videos and it really is a wake up call to better myself for myself

[@ariol9598]

love doing things for and by yourself

[@aireannaedwards]

I just found your channel, and I couldn't relate to you any better. I love your community and positivity as well as your care for helping us become the best versions of ourselves. Thank you, Lena! 🤍

[@goosethegoose9567]

THANK YOU. I relate to soooooooooooo many of the things you were talking about, especially the bit about thinking "oh, if i looked like her I'd never be insecure". This helped me realise that nothing will change unless i change it myself. I needed this sooooooo much. In high school rn, this video is a blessing. thank you, I hope you know how many lives you're changing. sending you lots of love!!!!

[@ilarianasini8420]

I’m obsessed with your channel, you’re incredibly inspiring and you’ve been helping me SO MUCH with my depression and lack of confidence…love from Italy ❤️🇮🇹

[@edamame4528]

Lena just wanted to thank you for spreading your positivity and confidence to other people. I know I struggled with my self-worth and am doing better partially because of your videos. Thank you for teaching us about self-worth and that in their ways each and every person is valuable.

[@RebelleNutrition]

Confidence absolutely goes come from experience!! Great video girl!

[@femininewaters444]

The video barely started and im about to cry love how you talked about yourself. I relate i still have work to do but i am way more confident and proud ❤

[@heartsforjehyun]

i am turning 22 next month and my mental health/self esteem/confidence is basically none existent at this point. i have been in a slump for about 3 months now, not wanting to get out of bed, feeling so low about myself, not having many friends …. i want to do better. seeing this video come up as the first recommendation was a sign, thankyou for the advice 🫶 i really needed this, yes there may be days where we feel like crap or not be as confident as we can be but as long as we try and be more positive, we will be so much happier with ourselves. i am going to try and implement these positive thoughts and your advice into my daily life. i hope all is well for you Lena, enjoy the rest of your week and keep up the great content and advice 🩷 sending all my support from australia 🇦🇺

[@earthtolaika.]

this video made me cry and I realise how true lena is ...lots of love

[@hopiitee]

GORLLL i am here nine months from when you uploaded this. And maaaan i been thinking about everything you just vocalized. And that just solidified to me that i am on the right path for me! I love watching your videos everyday gorlie. You inspire me!

[@knightmakonde9417]

This video is speaking to me..I was so overly overly dependent on my best friend..I literally couldn't do anything alone.. I'm now learning to enjoy my own company..

[@blessme7853]

your fd might look down on you if you always depend on him/her. so dont over depend

[@sonalgoswami2860]

This is the realest confidence video I’ve seen. Thank you girl❤️✨

[@p8735]

you really hit home with the confidence comes from experience note!! i think that going through periods of spending more time alone or not having many friends is okay and healthy. we need friends and they are important, but we also have to consider that sometimes, we may not have as many or connect with as many during different periods of our life. for example, transitioning from high school to college is a VERY normal time to feel like you have no friends. in those times, however, is the opportunity to learn how to befriend OURSELVES. just like they say with romantic relationships you have to love yourself to show others how to love you. the same rule applies to friendships! you have to show up for yourself and love yourself in order to let friends in. it’s okay to be alone for a bit💜

[@sk3lovet0nx]

i love ur energy so much omg u literally bring comfort

[@saratran203]

i absolutely love this. I love that you didn't talk about it being about your looks or trying to upgrade in vain materialistic ways but truly just healing internally and being kind to others. Thank you !!

[@lenalifts]

Aww I’m so glad you enjoyed thank you for the kind words 🥹🤍✨

[@AbiEverAfter]

I haven’t seen one of your vids for a while and because of that I can see how genuinely more confident you’ve become! 👏 xxx

[@camera0bsessedx]

ive really been struggling the past few years on and off with confidence and feeling lonely, etc. this was really helpful!! you always come through and give the best tips and tricks. I hope one day I get to be like you! you're so inspiring and I appreciate you and your videos!! love you so much girl 💗💗

[@lenalifts]

I’m sorry you’ve been feeling lonely and struggling w confidence but I’m glad you shared bc you’re def not alone 🥹❤️ ya girl was going through it too!! Sending you love and good vibesss

[@ines8601]

Such a wake up call as others said this was really needed queen

[@yare8075]

Been struggling to keep up these days, I watched a lot of self-love vids but this hits to GUTS iloveilove uuu

[@angieliyah1484]

Yay bestie posted! I've had one friend for years and it does not bother me. Not that it's a bad thing to have friends but I can't juggle a bunch of relationships and my goals. I just got my master's degree, my career box is checked, I'm in a new relationship. My next goals involve learning my instrument and consistent health / working out. When I had a huge circle I didn't get anything done so there's a plus to having just one friend as well (for me) ❤️ either way love this community.

[@Mahirovic100]

The way I related so much to this video is crazyy. Made me literally tear up. Thank you for making this video ❤

[@keaiwei8818]

Hi Lena thank you for posting again it makes my day everytime you post on KZbin omg. I wanna say you are my role for everything you make me feel more confident, more motivated to workout and Romanticise my routine, and I started eating breakfast before my workouts because of you and I realized it made me able to perform better. Thank you for being my big sister on KZbin 😭😭❤️ I love you Lena

[@lenalifts]

Omg aw you just made my whole day girl thank you so for the kind words 🥹❤️ I’m so proud of you for implementing heathy habits in your life and putting yourself first!! Keep it up love

[@Alorajones19]

My mental state needed this video…i will be saving to rewatch wen im having bad mental health days. Thanks lena ❤

[@xomich.]

watching this video while taking a walk around my house.tbh when she said “go to that party and socialize” i felt that cuz i was invited to a party and didn’t wanna go cuz i’m scared of feeling isolated and insecure but i’ll go just because i gotta step out of my comfort zone and gain more friends

[@versatility-army]

Literally loved this video! I needed to hear everything you said. It’s a reminder to myself to be me and not please anyone else. Thank you!

[@TypicalLii]

This definitely made me open my eyes cause I have this friend where I am always trying to do everything to please her ( literally When she was sick and needed someone to buy Tea for her, when she traveled and had no one to watch their dog I did EVERYTHING for her) and she asked us to go out this weekend because it's J4 weekend and I told her that I'm busy and she got upset and Started giving me the thumbs up and saying " K. That's fine we Know you guys are too busy." Like Babe, Lol It's Okay to be Busy I'm 24 trying to get my life together somehow while you're 30 Still partying ( nothing wrong with age) but, Give me time. I get very drained because I'm married, I dont get the holiday off and It's not that I dont plan things around the clock. If I'm busy -- then I'm Busy lol. I also feel like she thinks she is entitled over my personal time -- she expects me to do everything with her and dont get me wrong we traveled and etc together but, she always made these comments about my outfits -- (Outfits in my Vegas & LA Vlog) My Husband was telling me about how she treats me and I Didn't want to believe it -- but, I felt like I was always going broke for this Friend.

[@molly-yx6fi]

thank you for bringing up how being a people pleaser is actually so damaging to your confidence. i just went through a similar situation with my own roommate/friend because i wouldn't have the guts to remove myself or call them out in fear of them booting me out of the group, which happened anyway due to my actions in the end lol. being a people pleaser is one of the hardest habits to break and you end up feeling like you don't really know yourself because you're so used to just mirroring other peoples words that they put on you and it sucks. this video helped a lot with putting things into perspective, especially with breaking the pleasing habit- keep up the great content!!!

[@sydneyh74]

Thank you Lena for just being such a positive inspiration in my journey! I get so excited when I see a new video on your channel! I recently just found you and I just adore your vibe and talk about self love and building confidence from within! Thank you for all those gentle reminders to be kind to myself and to learn to love myself instead of tearing myself down! Keep being a comforting ray of sunshine! You're amazing! ❤

[@lenalifts]

Thank YOU for all the kind words and for watching 🥹❤️ you’re my ray of sunshine!!

[@kaylalorica2913]

Setting boundaries is #1!! I love this so much ❤ preach girl 🎉 thank you for sharing your thoughts & experiences ♥️ much love Lena 🥺♥️

[@mel0wdice]

every video you upload is a light in my life

[@urstrulysine]

please, i needed this so much ! ♡♡ i’ve had another terrible busy week and i notice how much my self-confidence has dramatically plummeted by the turn of events that occurred during the previous weeks owing to the amount of given assignments and projects from school. my mind has this link with thoughts that would left me excessively ruminate about my own worth, my anxiety would dictate on my decision-making, the smallest of things would ruin my mood and i’d be left defeated. i am also not taking proper care of my mental, emotional and physical health. the lack of proper sleep is also causing me to feel extremely jaded during important lessons but other than that, this video really enlightened me all throughout ! i absolutely needed this video to brighten up the atmosphere ! i loveee yourr videoss and i have been watching them when i first discovered one of your videos on my recommendations, i always want to leave a comment but i was too shy to do so. thankkk youuu sooo sooo muchhh lenaaaa !! ♡♡ you have always been my inspiration !! ♡♡ thank youuu lotssssss, hope youu haveee a wonderful weeekkkk !!! ♡♡♡♡ thankkkk youuuu soooo sooooo muchhhh againnn !!!!! ♡♡♡♡

[@lenalifts]

Wow thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your struggles and I’m so glad you did ❤️❤️ so many people go through exactly what you’re going through including me so it’s comforting to know we aren’t alone!! Sending you sm love and positivty

[@TeexMack]

i love the parts about people pleasing. as i got older i learned to set boundaries and it has made my life better. love your videos ❤

[@lenalifts]

Love to hear that and I’m so proud of you ❤️

[@rylie_thompson]

Love you Lena 💕 watching you and your channel grow has been so fun.

[@Emily-rx3lk]

I've started listening to positive motivational KZbin/podcasts in the morning to help me develop a positive mindset

[@maddiebrowning6538]

What you said hit me and I found my self captured by what you were saying because I feel what you went through, and I feel like the same things are happening to me, so it was really encouraging to see what you’re doing to change for the better,

[@pearlmiran205]

Lena! I've been watching you for three years now and while I'm in a very different chapter of my life (I'm 27, getting married this year, work as a nurse in the cardiac ICU), but I see so much of my journey in you. In high school and for my first couple years in college I was incredibly self conscious and insecure not just because of my looks, but because I just didn't love myself as a whole. Even though I changed on the outside, I still felt like an awkward 17 year old on the inside. Thankfully, its true-- the self work really transforms you from the inside out. So glad you share your story for other people to look up to you and for you to inspire them. Thank you for sharing your journey- it reminded me today of how far I too have come. Love you, girl!

[@lenalifts]

hi beautiful girl! WOW congrats on the engagement and being a boss working babe as a nurse - i have a few friends who are nurses and i know its not easy at all so youre amazing!! also i feel you so hard on feeling like the awkward 17 year old I still feel that way at times. thank you sm for sharing and being vulnerable 💕 it makes me feel honestly so much better all of us (including amazing people like you that I would see as someone that has their life so put together haha) at times still feel insecure. sending you sm love and i hope your wedding is an absolute dream!!

[@kikisquared]

This girl deserves more subscribers! thank uu for the tips

[@Buska836]

Girl, I’ve spent last 2 weeks on watching your videos in every free moment 😅 I just feel so inspired and so motivated to do all of those things I was avoiding. Love your content, love your energy, biggest dream is to thank u in person 🫶🏻 maybe some day, keep going Lena you are awesome🥹❤️

[@lenalifts]

I’m so honored wow thank you for sharing 🥹❤️ your positive energy and support keeps me going so thank you!! I’m so proud of you for bettering yourself keep it up!!

[@Melissa-tl8ze]

youre like my big sister lena i really really needed this :(

[@jasmineeasmr]

OMGGG YESS THE BOUNDARIES !!! My friend would do what you just explained and when I think back I wish I would have stood up more

[@sugar_the_ghost]

Omg I love you videos. Every time I’ve watched them I immediately feel motivated to keep doing the healthy habits I’ve set for myself and to honestly just love myself. Thank you ❤

[@Trulyshi]

Girl you’re literally so beautiful stop😢❤

[@rachelhilton7902]

Definitely needed this video!!! Thank you for posting this Lena! The energy you radiate is amazing! ❤️💕

[@inescorreia3555]

I literally became a fan of your videos! The first video about confidence that really helped me out😊

[@hazelsplanet]

i have a saying on one pair of my converse shoes which says ‘life’s too short to waste’.so instead of worrying what other people think or say about you all day,just go out and live your best life ,bc those who say bad words about you have already wasted their lives , everytime you think of those words,it means they breaks you down one more time ,we don’t have to be affected by them. and strongly recommend one way to become confident ,which lena has mentioned in the video,pretend it until you make it ❤

[@helena003]

The change you have made for yourself is amazing! and so admirable!

[@lenalifts]

Thank you sm my love 🥹❤️ means the world to me!!

[@kaspertheghost3607]

Gurl this video is my new comfort video, I love your content. New sub🤍🤍🤍

[@lenalifts]

Thank you for the love I’m so grateful to have you 🥹❤️

[@suziandchopstix]

Lena I’m going to be delulu and tell myself you’re my best friend because you have made such a positive impact on my life ❤never stop making mental health videos they go such a long way

[@nmi5998]

What’s delulu means? 🥲

[@Kayleena]

Really loved this 🤍🤍 so many valid points, and lessons, especially how to respond to passive agressive remarks 👏🏼

[@cOnnEticUt18]

Thank you for uploading today Lena! These points hits me hard, even trying to come to terms with my low self-esteem and battling self-hatred is hard (add asian "standards" of beauty that I always hear from family and relatives). I'm slowly incorporating drinking water first thing before coffee after waking up after watching your videos. Keep on being you Lena! Love your videos, watching your video and just listening to you while I'm in the kitchen cooking and doing chores. Feels like you're like my little sis 😅

[@lenalifts]

Feel you heavy on the Asian standards of beauty part !! So proud of you for battling low self esteem and trying to take care of yourself in little ways ❤️❤️ keep showing up for yourself love u

[@jennifercastro8542]

You are so pretty,I can’t imagine you feeling insecure about your looks! Thanks for your video ❤😊

[@mlvvvv22]

i just stumbled upon her channel and girl, i love you so much already. the energy and positivityyyy 🤩💓💓

[@NinaAndrew-fp1sd]

Yes, Confidence is rooted in the mind. It needs to be nurtured so that it can shine. ❤

[@jennyliah]

This healed my day and year from school being alone all my high school and bullied by everyone and just being a loner that reads a lot and already graduated thanks to Lena for the inspiration these years I hope in college everything is better and my bipolar self don't take over or my negativity I just want to be happy even by myself even if people hate me for whatever feature hopefully meet Lena someday as well ily 😢❤

[@lenalifts]

I’m so glad to hear that also thank you sm for being vulnerable and sharing 🥹❤️ ik so many people will be comforted to know they aren’t alone in how they feel. Sending you sm love

[@chill.tulipan]

The more positive and happy you are, your beauty shines through 🎀🎀 Your gorgeous have a lovely day girlie x

[@kassrose]

GIRL you be speaking facts!! Thanks for this video ❤❤

[@erratic_TT]

Yes!!! My whole day got 10 times better when I saw that you posted again. You're so inspirational and I love you so so so sooooooooo much.

[@crazeerathana]

I needed to watch this, thanks Lena. I self loathe a lot so I’ve been trying to keep my Confidence up 😭

[@thedivinezero4117]

woah you've chnaged so much. i used to watch you for your nyu videos and decided to check up on you. you are glowing!!!

[@ASMRbyNemo]

Your such a great person, these tipps really helped me

[@Yuktiigahlot]

honestly this was one of the best videos of all timess.. would really hope to take advices from you in your later videos ily

[@susanlucero8620]

Yes Lena babes your given such awesome gems 💎 Can’t with passive aggressive people. Not letting them slide no more. Ima start laying boundaries

[@AngelitoAzul]

I have really learned to grow a lot watching your videos. Thank you for putting yourself out there!! We got this 😎

[@kawaiibear6751]

This is the exact video that I needed the moment I started watching this video as a person dealing with low self confidence and self love this made my day and made me feel better I really love your videos keep them coming ❤

[@mka1226]

I’m so glad I came across your channel. This is real content. I appreciate you and keep growing and glowing ✨

[@lenalifts]

Thank you so much!! I appreciate you

[@meandpuppycat5525]

you're SOO pretty and beautiful and your personality makes you EVEN prettier ,btw I love pika she's soo cute

[@Jaslinnnpm]

Never stop making these!!! ❤️

[@413ontime]

Just what I needed on this gloomy Sunday. Thank you Lena. I’m so grateful to find your channel 😊

[@lenalifts]

So grateful for such amazing support thank you for everything. ❤️❤️

[@angelinajacobe]

i’m going through a slump right now and wasn’t looking forward for this week so i saw your upload and clicked it and i’m glad i did because it inspires me to set my goals this week and to have a good week and to do nice things for myself 🥺

[@lenalifts]

OMG girl thank you that makes me so happy also I’m so proud of you for pushing yourself through the slump I know it’s not easy 🥹❤️ sending you mad love and good vibessss

[@yassidambita2385]

The way I needed to hear this. Every one of those steps are a must. Thank you for sharing this

[@loveyourselftruly696]

Thank you for posting this video, THIS REALLY HELPED ME! you are really radiating confidence and i'm working to be like you, loved that

[@akuvoid]

I just want you to know that you Lena, are someone I look up too! Your videos motivate me all the time!