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@BBRuuu Жыл бұрын
What kind of camera do you use?!
@lenalifts Жыл бұрын
@@BBRuuu sony zv1
@kollaps93708 ай бұрын
@@BBRuuuШМАРА)
@Ramebrainboost Жыл бұрын
The fact that lena knows when her fam is going through low confidence times and decides to help her besties love you lena 💍🥺ur a queen who's literally helping so many people I hope you'll at least say hi 👑❤️💍
@lenalifts Жыл бұрын
Love you more thank YOU for watching I appreciate you 🥹❤️
@kparker905 Жыл бұрын
Agreed
@simrankj10 ай бұрын
Yesss
@Lisaxox1-v4m Жыл бұрын
this video definitely sent me a wake up call. I struggle a lot with depression and self esteem. In high school I would always blame myself for everything, be friends with the wrong people, when they tease me i would just laugh with them trying to fit in. I never did love myself nor set any boundaries. I would always workout trying to please people instead of working on myself. This video helped me alot. I do wish I had a time machine to tell my younger self that you gotta put yourself first before anyone else. Now that I'm in my 20's I definitely learnt a lot.
@lenalifts Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad this video helped you and thank you for being vulnerable and sharing 🥹❤️ I feel you so much on that especially working out for other people and being teased. Just remind yourself who you are and your opinion of yourself is what is important, not others. Sending you sm love
@niocelvn Жыл бұрын
“No one is going to show up for you, the way you can show up for yourself.” I also like, “people will can only value as much as you value yourself” harsh but true, and why kindness is necessary in this world
@richa_anurag Жыл бұрын
STOP!! I WOKE UP TO WHAT I NEEDED! Girl you literally are OOZING confidence and I’m so so hear for it!! Lena my love your videos seriously have changed my life, lysm ❤!!!
@lenalifts Жыл бұрын
HI BAE I LITERALLY LOVE YOU you honestly keep me going thank you for the love on literally every video 🥹❤️
@Originalmusicgirly Жыл бұрын
Yesterday I was completely broken. All I saw in the mirror was ugly. When in reality we have our good days. But yesterday was a very bad day. And I started struggling to talk or move in general. And I had plans to do something’s. And I forced myself to breathe to stop thinking so critically because no one cares. Only I did. So I got up. Wore an oversized Shirt and leggings and my hair was crazy and I went to the park and ran. And even though I didn’t look any better at the end of it. I felt better because while running I was repeating. I am beautiful. I am okay. Don’t worry bout other people. And that shit worked
@BellaHarbor Жыл бұрын
8:54 "No one is going to show up for you the way you can and will show up for yourself" omg I felt that
@anabellemontilla1756 Жыл бұрын
I woke up so sad and with such low self confidence and after my crying sesh I came across this thank Lena for being that friend I needed this morning and always 🥰🙏🏼
@mutintachiedzawakatama7238 ай бұрын
I don't have an older sister but everytime I come watch your videos, you fill that void of someone who can help me navigate life. Thank you Lena
@pearlmadumere584410 ай бұрын
0:48 -> NO! You're sooooo pretty! Really!
@romanvlogs2209 Жыл бұрын
This is so motivating. However, I struggle most with going out of my comfort zone and talking to others because I’m so socially awkward and find fear in the unknown 😭
@jaylabean71 Жыл бұрын
I really needed this reminder. I have been on this “peace in solitude” journey and had to part ways with all friendships due to people pleasing so I appreciate your transparency because I hold guilt and embarrassment from that version of myself and it shouldnt be like that. Sending lots of happy vibes and blessings🎉❤
@lenalifts Жыл бұрын
Love to hear your growth in journey to become your best self ❤️❤️ so proud of you!!
@aaliyahsmith7534 Жыл бұрын
I needed this, I am such a people pleaser one minute then the next feel confident and not need to please others and I’m trying to learn to not people please at all anymore lol so this spoke to me ❤️
@lenalifts Жыл бұрын
As a former people pleaser myself I feel you!!! It’s important we are aware of it and we work on it which you already are so I am so proud of you ❤️❤️
@denisemarie1298 Жыл бұрын
😅😅😅
@jesusiskingofmyheart Жыл бұрын
This video was so encouraging! Your journey/progress is inspiring and amazing 🥲💛 I've been in a slump for months now. I haven't been eating healthy at all & stopped going to the gym all together due to my gym anxiety 🥺 But I'm determined to get back into taking care of myself, working out, and falling back in love with myself & who God created me to be! 🙏💕 Thank you Lena.
@lenalifts Жыл бұрын
im so glad it helped also im so proud of you for wanting to get back into taking care of yourself and loving yourself. 💕 sending you sm love and praying for you!
@NinaAndrew-fp1sd6 ай бұрын
Yes, Confidence is rooted in the mind. It needs to be nurtured so that it can shine. ❤
@Harmoniousteak Жыл бұрын
the people pleasing aspect was on POINT! I was the exact same way and now that I’ve changed, I can’t believe I ever let anything slide. so glad to be past the worst of it and much better off 💛💛💛
@meghnakhamrui2886 Жыл бұрын
The wizardliz, Lena lifts.. my the most favourite channels and litrally my elder sisters 💮💘💫🌸
@bridgettesebolela6974 Жыл бұрын
So good to see you Lena I missed you. So I seriously struggle with low self esteem, I don't like mirrors cause I always find something wrong with me and when I recently shared that with my friend, I said it like its a normal thing and its not. I am a people pleaser and when I look good and no one notices or compliments me, it ruins my day. I'm working on it and I pray everyday that God can help me be kind to myself😊 this video was very helpful. Thank you Lena❤
@enkubella Жыл бұрын
You're beautiful. I know that for a fact as God made you with zero mistakes. You're handcrafted by God to look the way you do, and it's beautiful ❤
@bridgettesebolela6974 Жыл бұрын
@@enkubella thank you so much❤ God bless you queen
@lenalifts Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your struggles because I can relate so hard. ❤️ Even to this day I find different things I don’t like about myself and I find myself relying too much on other peoples opinions and compliments to feed that insecurity. It’s important that we are self aware about it and continue to love on ourselves and work on it 🫶 God is a huge factor on my transformation w confidence too so as a sister I pray on you that God will transform your confidence and that you will realize how beautiful you truly are
@bridgettesebolela6974 Жыл бұрын
@@lenalifts Thank you Lena😘❤
@FlowerlyF. Жыл бұрын
„God will provide you the friends that you deserve and that deserve to be around you“ yes 🙌🏾 ❤
@kaspertheghost3607 Жыл бұрын
Gurl this video is my new comfort video, I love your content. New sub🤍🤍🤍
@lenalifts Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the love I’m so grateful to have you 🥹❤️
@ariol9598 Жыл бұрын
love doing things for and by yourself
@AndreaLopez-ow2il Жыл бұрын
I’m a teenager struggling with self love. My goal for the summer is to change my mindset and be set to start high school! Your videos make me feel so put together and motivated. This video really reminded me of many things.🩷 thank you Lena!! I always look forward to your videos!!❤
@yehoshouaisrisen8237 Жыл бұрын
Let's get that self love togheter sis. Wish u goodluck on ur first day of high school ((:
@aryalakshmiks3805 Жыл бұрын
you goo gurrlll💗😚!!!
@femininewaters44410 ай бұрын
The video barely started and im about to cry love how you talked about yourself. I relate i still have work to do but i am way more confident and proud ❤
@knightmakonde9417 Жыл бұрын
This video is speaking to me..I was so overly overly dependent on my best friend..I literally couldn't do anything alone.. I'm now learning to enjoy my own company..
@gracievan2133 Жыл бұрын
Girl I had the same experience with the roommate situation and I wish I set more boundaries with this person because they truly hurt me so much and ruined my confidence 😭
@Music4L-co7jt Жыл бұрын
girl the transformation is so crazy, you are drop dead gorge my eyes is blessed today
@vana5264 Жыл бұрын
“When you start to respect yourself other ppl respect you” !!
@noonethinks Жыл бұрын
You are helping me so much. I am struggling with depression, anxiety, insecurity and more. I am trying to find myself. And your videos give me the confidence and energy to do what i want. Thank you so much Lena
@hazelsplanet Жыл бұрын
i have a saying on one pair of my converse shoes which says ‘life’s too short to waste’.so instead of worrying what other people think or say about you all day,just go out and live your best life ,bc those who say bad words about you have already wasted their lives , everytime you think of those words,it means they breaks you down one more time ,we don’t have to be affected by them. and strongly recommend one way to become confident ,which lena has mentioned in the video,pretend it until you make it ❤
@earthtolaika. Жыл бұрын
this video made me cry and I realise how true lena is ...lots of love
@icecream375 Жыл бұрын
before listening to ur advice I always used to be the people pleaser, the really uncomfortable loner, and the introverted jerk but now that I learned self-confidence, I learned how to love myself tysmm! and this is a sign for you to start now! and be confident sis
@notaminah Жыл бұрын
Girl you videos have helped me so much!! Got a gym membership, fixed my mindset and overall you videos just helped me improve my life 💖💖
@lenalifts Жыл бұрын
Girl that literally means the world to me I’m so happy to hear that 🥹💓 I’m also so proud of you keep it up !!
@p8735 Жыл бұрын
you really hit home with the confidence comes from experience note!! i think that going through periods of spending more time alone or not having many friends is okay and healthy. we need friends and they are important, but we also have to consider that sometimes, we may not have as many or connect with as many during different periods of our life. for example, transitioning from high school to college is a VERY normal time to feel like you have no friends. in those times, however, is the opportunity to learn how to befriend OURSELVES. just like they say with romantic relationships you have to love yourself to show others how to love you. the same rule applies to friendships! you have to show up for yourself and love yourself in order to let friends in. it’s okay to be alone for a bit💜
@Autemnsky116 ай бұрын
Your hair is GORGEOUS!! ❤ What products do you use?
@hopiitee9 ай бұрын
GORLLL i am here nine months from when you uploaded this. And maaaan i been thinking about everything you just vocalized. And that just solidified to me that i am on the right path for me! I love watching your videos everyday gorlie. You inspire me!
@Jenniinavarro Жыл бұрын
Hit all the targets 🎯 my favorite that have definitely boosted my confidence is stepping outside my comfort zone even though I still am not used to it but I love meeting new people. Love having the smallest circle of friends, like you said I have less friends but I’m happier now and knowing God is in control and whatever needs to happen will happen❤
@lenalifts Жыл бұрын
Love to heart that girl thank you for sharing 🥹❤️
@lazymillionaireofficial Жыл бұрын
Confidence absolutely goes come from experience!! Great video girl!
@suziandchopstix Жыл бұрын
Lena I’m going to be delulu and tell myself you’re my best friend because you have made such a positive impact on my life ❤never stop making mental health videos they go such a long way
@nmi5998 Жыл бұрын
What’s delulu means? 🥲
@mimilikescats Жыл бұрын
I want to start working out to feel fitter and get less joint pain. What also motivates me is watching weight loss journeys of other people and scrolling through pinterest looking at cute clothes which would look good on me in hopefully 6 months. I started my journey last month and I've already changed some habits of mine. I try to go on walks more, go to bed earlier, get out of bed earlier, I try to work out, I try to eat healthy, and I'm doing a lot of things out of my comfortzone. I remember in 2021 I was afraid to go outside so it reminds me of how far I've come. Also the picture you put on your mirror reminded me of My Little Pony which I used to watch growing up and the way Twilight gave Starlight Glimmer a mirror to put photos around of her friends so every time she wakes up she remembers how great friends she has and how loved she is by them. I didn't expect that to make me so emotional but it did! Anyway, thanks for this video and allowing me to reflect while watching it.
@heartsforjehyun Жыл бұрын
i am turning 22 next month and my mental health/self esteem/confidence is basically none existent at this point. i have been in a slump for about 3 months now, not wanting to get out of bed, feeling so low about myself, not having many friends …. i want to do better. seeing this video come up as the first recommendation was a sign, thankyou for the advice 🫶 i really needed this, yes there may be days where we feel like crap or not be as confident as we can be but as long as we try and be more positive, we will be so much happier with ourselves. i am going to try and implement these positive thoughts and your advice into my daily life. i hope all is well for you Lena, enjoy the rest of your week and keep up the great content and advice 🩷 sending all my support from australia 🇦🇺
@Emily-rx3lk Жыл бұрын
I've started listening to positive motivational KZbin/podcasts in the morning to help me develop a positive mindset
@jxckalito6 ай бұрын
girl i've been binging your videos and it really is a wake up call to better myself for myself
@camera0bsessedx Жыл бұрын
ive really been struggling the past few years on and off with confidence and feeling lonely, etc. this was really helpful!! you always come through and give the best tips and tricks. I hope one day I get to be like you! you're so inspiring and I appreciate you and your videos!! love you so much girl 💗💗
@lenalifts Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry you’ve been feeling lonely and struggling w confidence but I’m glad you shared bc you’re def not alone 🥹❤️ ya girl was going through it too!! Sending you love and good vibesss
@pearlmiran205 Жыл бұрын
Lena! I've been watching you for three years now and while I'm in a very different chapter of my life (I'm 27, getting married this year, work as a nurse in the cardiac ICU), but I see so much of my journey in you. In high school and for my first couple years in college I was incredibly self conscious and insecure not just because of my looks, but because I just didn't love myself as a whole. Even though I changed on the outside, I still felt like an awkward 17 year old on the inside. Thankfully, its true-- the self work really transforms you from the inside out. So glad you share your story for other people to look up to you and for you to inspire them. Thank you for sharing your journey- it reminded me today of how far I too have come. Love you, girl!
@lenalifts Жыл бұрын
hi beautiful girl! WOW congrats on the engagement and being a boss working babe as a nurse - i have a few friends who are nurses and i know its not easy at all so youre amazing!! also i feel you so hard on feeling like the awkward 17 year old I still feel that way at times. thank you sm for sharing and being vulnerable 💕 it makes me feel honestly so much better all of us (including amazing people like you that I would see as someone that has their life so put together haha) at times still feel insecure. sending you sm love and i hope your wedding is an absolute dream!!
@loafine Жыл бұрын
please, i needed this so much ! ♡♡ i’ve had another terrible busy week and i notice how much my self-confidence has dramatically plummeted by the turn of events that occurred during the previous weeks owing to the amount of given assignments and projects from school. my mind has this link with thoughts that would left me excessively ruminate about my own worth, my anxiety would dictate on my decision-making, the smallest of things would ruin my mood and i’d be left defeated. i am also not taking proper care of my mental, emotional and physical health. the lack of proper sleep is also causing me to feel extremely jaded during important lessons but other than that, this video really enlightened me all throughout ! i absolutely needed this video to brighten up the atmosphere ! i loveee yourr videoss and i have been watching them when i first discovered one of your videos on my recommendations, i always want to leave a comment but i was too shy to do so. thankkk youuu sooo sooo muchhh lenaaaa !! ♡♡ you have always been my inspiration !! ♡♡ thank youuu lotssssss, hope youu haveee a wonderful weeekkkk !!! ♡♡♡♡ thankkkk youuuu soooo sooooo muchhhh againnn !!!!! ♡♡♡♡
@lenalifts Жыл бұрын
Wow thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your struggles and I’m so glad you did ❤️❤️ so many people go through exactly what you’re going through including me so it’s comforting to know we aren’t alone!! Sending you sm love and positivty
@curlytwirlygirlie Жыл бұрын
Girl you’re literally so beautiful stop😢❤
@poppycalliope Жыл бұрын
Baby Lena is the cutest little girl 🥺❤️ your tips and advice are really good Lena. Your videos are always uplifting and helpful, thank you 💌
@lenalifts Жыл бұрын
Aw I appreciate you for always commenting positive things you keep me going girl love you ❤️
@Kayleena Жыл бұрын
Really loved this 🤍🤍 so many valid points, and lessons, especially how to respond to passive agressive remarks 👏🏼
@Buska836 Жыл бұрын
Girl, I’ve spent last 2 weeks on watching your videos in every free moment 😅 I just feel so inspired and so motivated to do all of those things I was avoiding. Love your content, love your energy, biggest dream is to thank u in person 🫶🏻 maybe some day, keep going Lena you are awesome🥹❤️
@lenalifts Жыл бұрын
I’m so honored wow thank you for sharing 🥹❤️ your positive energy and support keeps me going so thank you!! I’m so proud of you for bettering yourself keep it up!!
@CuriousPotatoxz Жыл бұрын
This video is very helpful!! I used to be afraid to even go outside and didn't understand the saying "life is too short to think about other’s opinion" for a long time, but now, even walking down the street without makeup, I tell myself that these people will most likely never see me again, so I shouldn't worry, and from this video I learned even more to become the best version of myself, thank you so much for doing this!!💗
@kzincognito Жыл бұрын
- your inner confidence will radiate into your outer confidence - confidence is a mindset now your appearance - don’t base your level of confidence on validation or opinions -your confidence should be based on your own opinion of yourself - everyone will have different opinions on you so who cares what people think of you focus on you -your confidence shouldn’t be based on your physical appearance - strive to become the best version of you - confidence comes from experience -don’t be afraid to be by yourself -try new things even by yourself - don’t be afraid to be by yourself be confident and comfortable with who you are -get comfortable with the uncomfortable -put yourself out there and try new experiences -life is to short to care what other people think -force yourself to talk to new people even if it’s hard -do better for yourself and no one else -you’ll start to feel better and satisfied with yourself when you start taking care of yourself -be your own biggest cheerleader -stop the self hatred talk -talk to yourself how you’d talk to your best friend (hyper yourself up , compliment yourself , admire yourself , love yourself and be kinder to yourself ) - say affirmations (tell yourself your beautiful confident etc) - work on you for you -stop caring about other people and it’ll help you love yourself -you don’t need to prove anything to anyone -fake it until you make it -believe in yourself and keep going -trust yourself and value yourself -no one will show up for you the way you can show up for yourself -be your personal cheerleader (hyper yourself up encourage yourself etc) -stop being a people pleaser -instead of focusing on if they like me just focus on genuinely getting to know someone -focus on just simply interacting with people rather than getting them to like you / becoming bffs -set boundaries and respect yourself -self care and look after yourself - take care of your outer appearance -when you look good you feel good -be humble and kind -let go of being self obsessed -the world doesn’t revolve around you remeber you are beautiful condient and worthy and capable of becoming the best version of yourself (thanks for the video i like making notes to look back on)
@kadaisjahrivera873 Жыл бұрын
Facts, they don't deserve you and don't deserve to be around you. This applies to every situation that is wrong
@ASMRbyNemo Жыл бұрын
Your such a great person, these tipps really helped me
@labibahoque4261 Жыл бұрын
girl. let me tell you. THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED TO HEAR. i fr just have not known where to start. ive just been struggling and crying and have been cranky all day everyday for the longest time. everything you mentioned in the video i could relate to. i'm turning 20 soon and i do not wanna live my youth feeling this way. i really do wanna love myself and just find some peace of mind within me. thank you for doing what you do. you truly are a light in this world. i love you!!
@TypicalLii Жыл бұрын
This definitely made me open my eyes cause I have this friend where I am always trying to do everything to please her ( literally When she was sick and needed someone to buy Tea for her, when she traveled and had no one to watch their dog I did EVERYTHING for her) and she asked us to go out this weekend because it's J4 weekend and I told her that I'm busy and she got upset and Started giving me the thumbs up and saying " K. That's fine we Know you guys are too busy." Like Babe, Lol It's Okay to be Busy I'm 24 trying to get my life together somehow while you're 30 Still partying ( nothing wrong with age) but, Give me time. I get very drained because I'm married, I dont get the holiday off and It's not that I dont plan things around the clock. If I'm busy -- then I'm Busy lol. I also feel like she thinks she is entitled over my personal time -- she expects me to do everything with her and dont get me wrong we traveled and etc together but, she always made these comments about my outfits -- (Outfits in my Vegas & LA Vlog) My Husband was telling me about how she treats me and I Didn't want to believe it -- but, I felt like I was always going broke for this Friend.
@molly-yx6fi Жыл бұрын
thank you for bringing up how being a people pleaser is actually so damaging to your confidence. i just went through a similar situation with my own roommate/friend because i wouldn't have the guts to remove myself or call them out in fear of them booting me out of the group, which happened anyway due to my actions in the end lol. being a people pleaser is one of the hardest habits to break and you end up feeling like you don't really know yourself because you're so used to just mirroring other peoples words that they put on you and it sucks. this video helped a lot with putting things into perspective, especially with breaking the pleasing habit- keep up the great content!!!
@jennifercastro8542 Жыл бұрын
You are so pretty,I can’t imagine you feeling insecure about your looks! Thanks for your video ❤😊
@victoriasvloging Жыл бұрын
lena, you are an angel! the fact that you even gave examples of what to say in a situation where you are being disrespected like that is really helpful! thank you - i appreciate your videos so much. "uplift you weekly" is truly what your videos do!
@MaryNganga-r4k Жыл бұрын
Hey Lena...i have been watching your videos from Friday(that's when you appeared on my fyp on yt) so I have been really looking at your videos and there's one blog of yours that you deleted your social media and that video gave me alot to think about as a teenager. It inspired me to also take down my socials just for the remaining time of the year and improve myself privately. Plus I love your energy so much thankyou😊😊🥺
@yare80759 ай бұрын
Been struggling to keep up these days, I watched a lot of self-love vids but this hits to GUTS iloveilove uuu
@ines8601 Жыл бұрын
Such a wake up call as others said this was really needed queen
@xomich. Жыл бұрын
watching this video while taking a walk around my house.tbh when she said “go to that party and socialize” i felt that cuz i was invited to a party and didn’t wanna go cuz i’m scared of feeling isolated and insecure but i’ll go just because i gotta step out of my comfort zone and gain more friends
@nehu.2000 Жыл бұрын
I also faced that same bully ...bt you powered me that i m not alone here❣
@jennyliah Жыл бұрын
This healed my day and year from school being alone all my high school and bullied by everyone and just being a loner that reads a lot and already graduated thanks to Lena for the inspiration these years I hope in college everything is better and my bipolar self don't take over or my negativity I just want to be happy even by myself even if people hate me for whatever feature hopefully meet Lena someday as well ily 😢❤
@lenalifts Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad to hear that also thank you sm for being vulnerable and sharing 🥹❤️ ik so many people will be comforted to know they aren’t alone in how they feel. Sending you sm love
@thedivinezero4117 Жыл бұрын
woah you've chnaged so much. i used to watch you for your nyu videos and decided to check up on you. you are glowing!!!
@tioxox18 Жыл бұрын
Def a wake up call , this is gonna help me in school a lot so thank you
@susanlucero8620 Жыл бұрын
Juan is the friend we all wish we had shout out to Juan God Bless You 🫶🏽 Juan you have a heart of Gold ✨🥲
@saratran203 Жыл бұрын
i absolutely love this. I love that you didn't talk about it being about your looks or trying to upgrade in vain materialistic ways but truly just healing internally and being kind to others. Thank you !!
@lenalifts Жыл бұрын
Aww I’m so glad you enjoyed thank you for the kind words 🥹🤍✨
@jasmineeasmr Жыл бұрын
OMGGG YESS THE BOUNDARIES !!! My friend would do what you just explained and when I think back I wish I would have stood up more
@jinathosain97518 ай бұрын
Girl I ain't gonna lie there sre many overrated channel on YT but this channel is underrated ❤❤ you deserve atleast 5 million ❤❤✨
@My_Linda_ Жыл бұрын
This came at the perfect time to help me through finals week and a perfect reminder to continue journaling. Appreciating the extra push from your videos to keep me motivated.
@keaiwei8818 Жыл бұрын
Hi Lena thank you for posting again it makes my day everytime you post on KZbin omg. I wanna say you are my role for everything you make me feel more confident, more motivated to workout and Romanticise my routine, and I started eating breakfast before my workouts because of you and I realized it made me able to perform better. Thank you for being my big sister on KZbin 😭😭❤️ I love you Lena
@lenalifts Жыл бұрын
Omg aw you just made my whole day girl thank you so for the kind words 🥹❤️ I’m so proud of you for implementing heathy habits in your life and putting yourself first!! Keep it up love
@LindaThao Жыл бұрын
I can’t believe I’ve been watching you since your first glute video! 🩷😭🫶🏼
@user-nm6dr4uy3d3 ай бұрын
When I honestly ask myself: "Do I really like this person, and do I find her interesting", most of the time, the answer is "no", and that makes me feel so guilty. Sometimes I wonder if I like anyone at all, or if I just haven't met enough people.
@meandpuppycat5525 Жыл бұрын
you're SOO pretty and beautiful and your personality makes you EVEN prettier ,btw I love pika she's soo cute
@helena003 Жыл бұрын
The change you have made for yourself is amazing! and so admirable!
@lenalifts Жыл бұрын
Thank you sm my love 🥹❤️ means the world to me!!
@Alorajones19 Жыл бұрын
My mental state needed this video…i will be saving to rewatch wen im having bad mental health days. Thanks lena ❤
@cOnnEticUt18 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for uploading today Lena! These points hits me hard, even trying to come to terms with my low self-esteem and battling self-hatred is hard (add asian "standards" of beauty that I always hear from family and relatives). I'm slowly incorporating drinking water first thing before coffee after waking up after watching your videos. Keep on being you Lena! Love your videos, watching your video and just listening to you while I'm in the kitchen cooking and doing chores. Feels like you're like my little sis 😅
@lenalifts Жыл бұрын
Feel you heavy on the Asian standards of beauty part !! So proud of you for battling low self esteem and trying to take care of yourself in little ways ❤️❤️ keep showing up for yourself love u
@dowreid707411 ай бұрын
I'm so happy that I found you. ❤ Thank you so much for the content shared I love love love and continue to support you.
@Mahirovic100 Жыл бұрын
The way I related so much to this video is crazyy. Made me literally tear up. Thank you for making this video ❤
@romanevltn11 ай бұрын
I love this video, I feel like you say the same message as every other girl out there but in a kind way which makes all the difference, I felt love and understood where others are making me feel pressured and guilty
@kamcshaki Жыл бұрын
needed to hear this today lena 💗 loved your approach to how humility will drive us to recognize our humanity and become more compassionate, I feel like this has brought and caused a handful of people into my life and whatever power it may be, I have to believe that it also brought your page to my reccomendations. Much love!
@coucouvivi Жыл бұрын
you are just a sweet personnnn i wish you the best lena!!!
@mintea2006 Жыл бұрын
Agreed ❤️😊
@lenalifts Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the kind words I appreciate youuu 🥹❤️
@nil8554 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. I am starting high school and i needed this
@diva___diva Жыл бұрын
All i've heard here is true. I went through it all myself and became more confident. It's a difficult way but it worth it.
@Melissa-tl8ze Жыл бұрын
youre like my big sister lena i really really needed this :(
@TheMystical-123 Жыл бұрын
From the bottom of my heart and soul.. thank you.
@daynix_hazama Жыл бұрын
I need this, idk what is happening to me , the other day I had to ask for something, it was nothing bad or to be ashamed but I felt like I was going to cry, like whyy
@goosethegoose9567 Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU. I relate to soooooooooooo many of the things you were talking about, especially the bit about thinking "oh, if i looked like her I'd never be insecure". This helped me realise that nothing will change unless i change it myself. I needed this sooooooo much. In high school rn, this video is a blessing. thank you, I hope you know how many lives you're changing. sending you lots of love!!!!
@ilarianasini8420 Жыл бұрын
I’m obsessed with your channel, you’re incredibly inspiring and you’ve been helping me SO MUCH with my depression and lack of confidence…love from Italy ❤️🇮🇹
@sonalgoswami2860 Жыл бұрын
This is the realest confidence video I’ve seen. Thank you girl❤️✨
@kaylalorica2913 Жыл бұрын
Setting boundaries is #1!! I love this so much ❤ preach girl 🎉 thank you for sharing your thoughts & experiences ♥️ much love Lena 🥺♥️
@Zonaishpirwani Жыл бұрын
Dear Lena , thank you so much for creating these entertaining videos for us, you don't know how much I love watching ur videos and how much of an inspiration you are to
@lenalifts Жыл бұрын
You have no idea how much you help ME and keep me going I love and appreciate you 🥹😭🤍
@413ontime Жыл бұрын
Just what I needed on this gloomy Sunday. Thank you Lena. I’m so grateful to find your channel 😊
@lenalifts Жыл бұрын
So grateful for such amazing support thank you for everything. ❤️❤️
@yayahoooo Жыл бұрын
며칠 전 홍대에서 우연히 지나가다가 봤어요! 구독한지 며칠 안됐는데 실제로 보게되어서 너무 신기하고 기뻤어요!! 아는척 하고 싶었지만 부끄러워서 못했어요 정말 아름다우시더라구요! your videos are really helpful for me thank you ♡
@lenalifts Жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching and I’m so glad you found my videos 🥹❤️
@sarahyeager13767 ай бұрын
This was really good to hear. Thank you for sharing your experiences and tips!
@sydneyh74 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Lena for just being such a positive inspiration in my journey! I get so excited when I see a new video on your channel! I recently just found you and I just adore your vibe and talk about self love and building confidence from within! Thank you for all those gentle reminders to be kind to myself and to learn to love myself instead of tearing myself down! Keep being a comforting ray of sunshine! You're amazing! ❤
@lenalifts Жыл бұрын
Thank YOU for all the kind words and for watching 🥹❤️ you’re my ray of sunshine!!
@susanlucero8620 Жыл бұрын
Yes Lena babes your given such awesome gems 💎 Can’t with passive aggressive people. Not letting them slide no more. Ima start laying boundaries
@marccolomayt82094 Жыл бұрын
Love this lifestyle-confident vlog, I enjoyed it ❤
@lenalifts Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad you enjoyed it 🥹❤️
@shaunidewinter7 ай бұрын
This video was something that I really needed to hear , I love to look at your video"s. I try to watch 1 or 2 every single day ❤️ you are amazing 😍🤩 thank you for making your amazing videos 😊