How To Be UNBOTHERED Of What People Think

[@AnnaBeyOfficial]

Thank you for watching! ❤️ Which part of this journey are you on? And to get more life-changing tips, watch my next video 7 Life-Changing Tips For Elegant Ladies: kzbin.info/www/bejne/enbboHmuf8aBatk

[@radykalnaanomalia199]

You used too much Bronzer. Just a friendly advise.

[@haonhu7884]

Anna, you look great! Love you.

[@GGGG1040]

@@radykalnaanomalia199 I’m agree with you _ I didn’t see her wearing too much makeup until now.

[@viktoria5960]

Thank you! Your videos changed my life ❤

[@mermaidlifeonearth]

Really needed this video. Please keep doing this type of content

[@violettevbunni9508]

"I don't care what you think of me . I don't think of you at all." Coco Chanel

[@alexandra8462]

"What do you think of me?" - "But I don't think of you" (The Fountainhead)

[@limellama1490]

I freakin loved that.

[@Kaymitlit]

Love this 🙊

[@miriamhavard7621]

She really didn't, either.

[@wordgirl3893]

Oh yeah. Coco? Brilliant!! 😊

[@idkwhattonamemyself9326]

This is the best timing, as someone who is going through social anxiety can relate to this.

[@harshitkapoor1909]

Which country are u from

[@Wheeks]

Same. I saved this video too so that I can easily watch it again for reminders. Social anxiety can be debilitating but with therapy and other things, maybe we can do something we never thought we could. Rooting for you and me :)

[@afafben947]

I was gonna say this 💌

[@tiaking9924]

Same

[@darkoshmarko]

We’re in a pandemic so if anything social anxiety should be on vacation!

[@foreverglow5749]

Hey , Eating out alone is not always bad. A few weeks ago. I had dinner alone. At the end the waiter approached me and informed me that the nice couple across the room that had left already paid my dinner check. I was so happy and it made me feel so special !!

[@bebecaca8374]

So sweet🥰

[@sylvi4052]

At the end of the day our phone keeps us company and there’s so many options on there besides to just talk 😌😏👍🏼

[@mlisasweeney4308]

My daughter had to different plane home. She went to dinner and a family ask her to join them. They were from Europe. They even paid for her meal. This happened in Hawaii. I always wanted to thank that family for there kindness. She said they were so nice to her. This is what the world needs more of..

[@shimmer410-o2i]

And them be the people I'm afraid who judge me the most

[@kellyandrews9462]

Something my mother told me has helped me a lot. “It’s none of your business what other people think about you.” I don’t know why that statement is so powerful to me but I really find it helps.

[@dmsilverthorne2021]

❤️🙌🏻

[@Kalypsoo]

Well you're lucky 'cause my mother is always like "people will think of you in a bad way" "what will other think of you if you do that or this" etc... and I always respond "And ? I don't know them, why should I care ?". I swear leaving my parent's home for my studies is *the* thing that helped me feel more confident about myself, and not give a care about what people think about me

[@kilodeltawhisky1504]

Agreed. Just as they don't need to know what I think of them...🙂

[@christinagipperich2780]

That is an old 12 Step Program saying. It may not have originated from them but that is often said to those seeking recovery. It is definitely one of the most powerful concepts I’ve ever learned.

[@geovannaferreirat]

I am literally doing a marathon of all her videos, and she has changed so much my mind! Glad to find her as a 17year old lady! My inspiration!!

[@mlisasweeney4308]

Mine too. and I’m 61

[@geovannaferreirat]

@@mlisasweeney4308 You are the peak of your life! Go girl !

[@Miramiku]

I'm currently doing the same and love them all

[@alwaysyouramanda]

I focus on “future-me” and what she’ll think of me while looking back. Will she be proud? Will she feel gratitude? Or.. regret? I don’t want to let her down.

[@oliviaknight1123]

I like this way of thinking!! I'm going to use this tip if that's ok ❤

[@IevaKambarovaite]

I love this. Would 80yr old me be proud of the decisions I'm making today?? 😊

[@juliannehunter495]

This is wise and powerful.

[@anapierce8204]

@@IevaKambarovaite I don't see why not. I am 78 and still learning, and even from younger people than me. Ha ha. Love you. You own your decisions and others better make their own decisions too.

[@InShapeWithMya]

This is perfect advice!

[@orattik]

I started seeing a therapist as a result of a conflict with neighbours. It was cathartic. The most important thing I learned is that I cannot control how other people feel about me, so trying to be liked or being neutral is useless. You'll be caught in an impossible pursuit of trying to behave in an acceptable manner for a complete stranger, for someone you should not care for at all, thus shrinking yourself into nothing. And even then, they'll find something to dislike. It's not worth it. You deserve better. It's so logical but so difficult to believe and live by.

[@harshitkapoor1909]

Which country are u from

[@kellykade]

@@kiabrooks1472 whattttttt omgsh. Do they have nothing better to do?

[@mcd4370]

This type of wrong mind set is what is getting in my way of relationship and friendships. I really want to be better to not loose them. I feel like I shrink myself to the point of feeling inferior. It’s exhausting.

[@nicolew8347]

This is so true! I have an extremely intrusive neighbor and for years I had been thinking I have to accommodate her into my life because she has no one. This mindset has recently shifted and it’s so much more free to be able to feel like you can exist on your own property and not deal with someone coming over or being nosy. I’m sure she will still be nosy, but I can’t care anymore! This comment thread is cathartic ❤️

[@furbabyangels]

@@kellykade lol not sure if you're talking about people watching these videos and taking advice, but think of all the ways people do waste time such as just watching tv, hanging out doing nothing for hours, etc and don't even self-improve. These videos are about improvement and happiness, and I think that's pretty crucial.

[@ioanafilipescu2327]

Anna, I think another transformation of yours is your content transformation: did you think when you first started your yt channel that you would also have a podcast and such a creative IG content in the future, ALL at the SAME time? In the beginning you were focusing just on how to enter high society and how to attract high value men and how to look and what to do in order to do that and now you discuss way MORE topics, a lot of psychological topics such as motivation, how to stop procrastinating, how to take action etc etc. You became way more confortable now with yt, you’re being way more familial, way more ‘with us’, way more personal. You evolved so much with your content!♥️

[@AnnaBeyOfficial]

I'm happy you're enjoying some of the new topics. It would be so boring to only talk about the same thing year in and year out :)

[@taina-maariaheikkila3823]

I was first very critical about your channel, but honestly now I am hooked! Still have my H&M jacket though 😄

[@kanj6286]

Agree!

[@nurtured-channel2953]

I agree it's great to see your channel evolving ... the reality is that high quality man value all the things you are currently sharing ...more than looks or appearance. It was said that Melania Trump most attractive feature to her husband, was her character and brains, after all she speaks more than 5 or 6 languages and is also bussiness oriented. Beauty is the ticket but character maturity and personality will take you further.

[@selectiveoutrage6617]

@@nurtured-channel2953 Melania was studying architecture which is a difficult program because it involves art and engineering. Her professor said she was very intelligent and talented but understood her decision to leave to become a model. She could make a lot of money and be paid to travel while she was young. She could always pick up her studies later if desired. Trump is a builder so they actually had a lot in common since she understands his business.

[@lafastucel7714]

I’m naturally an unbothered person. But I watch all the video because it’s Anna

[@AnnaBeyOfficial]

Thank you! 😘

[@cansukokturk4815]

youre blessed

[@helenatube]

I love you unbothered types, teach me your ways!

[@jeffdredd1172]

@@AnnaBeyOfficial Did you make this video because of how many people don't like you?

[@LateshaRenee]

@@jeffdredd1172 She made this video because she's teaching people nmhpw to not care so much about other people's opinion

[@lyradaher8051]

Not only are people subjective but they can also be emotional and project their pettiness towards you. Remaining calm and collected in your network, in a stoic manner, is part of elegance, I feel.

[@jesse0121]

Wow, well said!

[@jesusisgod4992]

Classy! 💕

[@PsalmS-vi8zl]

Many years ago, a professor shared the title of a book she felt all women should read. The title of the book - "What You Think Of Me Is None Of My Business." I never did read the book, however, just the title helped me!

[@phoebehope6549]

Love that quote 💜 I also love the Ru Paul quote "if they aren't paying your bills, pay them no mind" x x x

[@anapierce8204]

@@phoebehope6549 good RuPaul, !

[@katerinamiari4213]

I downloaded the audio book. Thank you for sharing

[@romulus1007]

I watch this video whenever I feel I’m caring too much about irrelevant people and things like today. Thank you, Anna.

[@tanatswataruvinga]

“It’s not who will let me, but who will stop me,” Ayn Rand

[@rainforestblessed5031]

So long as there is democracy, the impartial rule of law, and accepted codes of decency, there might be something to that. But be careful of Ayn Rand ... from someone who's familiar with her attitudes to people.

[@dmsilverthorne2021]

Love Ayn Rand❤️❤️❤️ great quote🙌🏻

[@persephoneszeliga]

Excellent. I’m 48 years old and still working on this kind of thing. (Better late than never!) Thank you!

[@joseegaudet6109]

This has been on my mind lately. I read a quote on FB, be careful of who you open up to- very few actually care, the rest are just curious.

[@alwaysyouramanda]

Love that one! One I’ve heard: “Future-you is watching through memories.”

[@nurtured-channel2953]

So true...specially if you are attractive, sophisticated, and different.

[@superlovenikster]

Yes. Just what I needed, this is a difficult topic for many of us

[@gesundseindurchtransformat7909]

and thats the point. if you don´t feel selfworthy you´ll always think what other people might think about you. you can´t think you are selfworthy; you have to FEEL it!

[@billnai7279]

Agreed

[@yve4889]

"You wouldn't worry so much about what people thought about you if you knew how seldom they did." -Eleanor Roosevelt

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

Why not?

[@jesusisgod4992]

@@mstwelvedeadlycyns People usually have their own problems to worry about.

[@linadiaz7101]

1000% true

[@kiranjitKaur61]

Wow.

[@dominiquetheeasyminimalist]

I am open to constructive comments from the people I care for, it often allowed me to think and grow. Otherwise, I could not care less about what people think about me. I can go out by myself, I can travel solo and I meet interesting human beings! I know my worth, I know I’m a caring woman, time is a precious resource and I will not waste it wondering what others think of me 😁

[@AnnaBeyOfficial]

Absolutely! You can always find gem of information if you seek it out not for validation but for constructive reasons. I believe in that too!

[@carryg580]

This sounds like Jack (from Titanic/ Leonardo DiCaprio) dinner speech

[@RidingAGrizzly]

"The only person being in control of me is me." Thank you, Anna, for these words and for sharing your story about growing up in a controlling family! I feel supported. I too grew up in a similar family with a helicopter mum. However, thankfully, I had the freedom to decide a few big things for myself, like what I wanted to study, my career path, etc. But I did not have an identity of my own until I turned 18 and started claiming privacy- my family had never "allowed" me any. I am 23 now. Gradually I have been able to find myself and have a good idea of who I am, what I want, and how to get there.

[@artwithmamafairybreadd]

You got lucky I had the opposite. I couldn’t control the big things like career , when I wanted a boyfriend…if I wanted to get serious with a boy…it was all taken away from me…only after my life was ruined I realised what had happened and how a certain family meme her loved controlling me… She was having a ball doing it…it made her feel powerful to see how she could manipulate me… but she ruined my life…I hate her guts for it…and I can’t get over it becuase I can’t believe that evil won in the end….it’s a disgraceful outcome…why did the bad person win ??? I’m just not over it, and it’s been 3o years….

[@drcynthiabmcneill]

One of my favorite quotes. "I have already settled it for myself so flattery and criticism go down the same drain and I am quite free." Georgia O’Keefe

[@kellymoorewith4]

I love Georgia O’Keefe! She was a great artist.

[@victoriaalgra3675]

Trust me.. No one is laughing at you. Smart, positive and gorgeous girl that has done a wonderful job with her life and has validated herself and others with her work! I think you’re amazing 💕🥂💕

[@mmarie5001]

I love having lunch by myself sometimes, it’s calm and allows me to think about whatever is happening in my life, it’s also nice to soak in a beautiful atmosphere without feeling like I need to keep up with conversation. Obviously, going out with someone special or a few someones special is a delight. Girlfriend and daughter lunches are the best.

[@aashibliss2164]

Not judging others makes us a positive human ,we stop fearing judgements ourselves

[@darkoshmarko]

You’re so pretty!! 🥰

[@aashibliss2164]

@@darkoshmarko thank u but ur prettier ❤️

[@hebabassel]

So so so true!!

[@roar6566]

Especially serial killers :)

[@relaxingmomentsasmr149]

I didn’t think this would actually help me when I saw the headline but this is a must watch for anybody of any age or whatever their situation. You are one smart woman. Thank you.

[@tizianafernandez9932]

Anna, do you even understand what you're doing to us??? You're making us improve our MENTAL HEALTH!!! you're just amazing, woman. Thanks, your voice it's beautiful and the words you use with all of us are as kind as you. Greetings from Argentina💓.

[@karensetchfield3495]

She doesn’t improve my mental health. No reason why she should anyway.

[@tizianafernandez9932]

@@karensetchfield3495 well, I think it's at least a great motivation for do it. It's ok too if she can has an impact in you as she has on me :)

[@caitlynsmith1543]

"The only one who is in control of me is me ." I needed that. Thank You, Anna! Oh, and Karen I'm crying!

[@tanvi5024]

Just so grateful and blessed to have found her channel at the age of just 17. Thank you, Anna❤️ lots of love xx

[@anastasiabelucci3802]

Yeah, the same, darling! I think it is great to get self-development on yourself from the early age🥰

[@kathyalex778]

That's wonderful that you're using the Internet for inspiration & advice, instead of wasting time on meaningless content at your age!

[@jojoxd8428]

Omg same ! Thanks to Anna I feel way more confident

[@outps]

I recommend Myles Munroe as well, check him out, you might love him

[@alwaysyouramanda]

👏

[@EhRod]

I love your program, your teaching, women and young ladies, how to be ladies, and to expect to be respected, our society has forgotten the importance of respect and honor, and you’re bringing that up to the surface and I thank you.

[@HUNGRYCR4B]

I need this in my life, thank you queen for your encouragement

[@rubyben692]

I needed this video, I'm so lazy lately, I stay in my bed all day long, I'm skipping my classes... I don't feel creative at all, I don't even know how to choose my outfits anymore... Thank you for existence Anna ❤🌌🥀

[@annalesewinget6792]

May God bless you !

[@rubyben692]

@@annalesewinget6792 thanks dear, you too 🥀

[@olgak.9407]

What a first world problem. Must be hard, right dear?

[@olgak.9407]

@@sw-hg8eq She never stated that she has depression. But of course she has it the hardest. Lmao grow up kid.

[@Themoment888]

@@olgak.9407 this is a video about self improvement not ending world hunger. Stop minimizing someone's current state of being.

[@christinecooper4256]

Your vulnerability here is very much appreciated 💕 It's never too late to start rewiring our patterns

[@roberta93]

i really care of what people think, but growing up i realized i just want opinions from very closed friends or experts of the subject. that's it. we can't fill everyone's expectation. i totally agree with you Anna. and I totally agree about the things to do alone. I learned to travel alone, go around foreign cities alone, have lunch alone and so on, and i really appreciate it because it's the best way to know new people and you always learn from other people, bad or good, doesn't matter. it is something to do absolutely!

[@chantelgreig921]

I started my channel once I let go of my insecurities and what people thought of me, you are sending a great message to women

[@harshitkapoor1909]

Which country are u from

[@chantelgreig921]

America

[@harshitkapoor1909]

@@chantelgreig921 how's life in your country compared to india like I'm an average poor indians u can ask me anything I earn around 50 dollar a month I'm a toilet cleaner we live in a slum how's life there like

[@chantelgreig921]

@@harshitkapoor1909 Life is really good, My husband and I have worked really hard to get to where we are and now my husband works hard to give us a good life and I raise our children.

[@harshitkapoor1909]

@@chantelgreig921 ok

[@havanax8096]

I got this advice from a youtuber he advised me to move in silence and keep my success to myself . Because there are many people out there who are jealous of your qualities

[@marthentik]

This video reminded me about a wonderful book titled "The Courage to Be Disliked". Truly liberating! 🦋 Btw. thank you for mentioning your therapy, Anna. It was a life-changing decision for me too.

[@sandilynn8010]

I’ve been watching your videos for a couple weeks now. So much help. This video is the one that hit home. Familiar up bringing a. Still repairing after 57 years ❤️❤️❤️

[@ep4423]

I never mind eating lunch alone because I'm happy in myself, my own company, people watching, reading a book, chatting to staff for a moment then I leave happy I've eaten well and looked after myself.

[@viviyenliu8939]

I'm glad following Anna since I was 19 and now I'm 21. I hope I can grow up as elegant lady like Anna and my mama will be proud of me because I'm not girls who follow Jenner and Kardashian since they are too vulgar for my culture, or maybe other cultures too? Idk but my family is traditional and I'm blessed not influenced by vulgar trend. Thank you Anna, you're my role model after my mama and grandma💖

[@Traumatised311]

I have zero respect for Kardashians , Jenner I fine I guess, but I don't wanna follow them

[@rdeza]

I’ve seen too many motivational videos on KZbin but coming from Anna Bey doing all the things she is doing, that definitely sets her apart. She definitely knows what she’s talking about and she walks her talk. Bravo Anna ❤️

[@dysaniac3807]

How did you know Anna that I needed this video ??? Thanks a million...

[@AnnaBeyOfficial]

Because so many ladies have requested it! 😃

[@nessie4596]

@@AnnaBeyOfficial i am trying to work on my shadows as well. I am a young successful woman. But jealousy and what people think of me makes me feel always inferior. I know i can go higher but i am afrais and lack confidence

[@alexwizard7333]

You should do a video on “the Classy way to handle being ghosted” - love your content! ❤️

[@dontliveinfear.7640]

Ghost them and move one with your life...

[@sallyscott7555]

Act as if nothing happened. If the ghost comes back act as if he doesn't exist. Some things don't deserve being discussed.

[@paperveils]

There's a quote from Buddha... Says something like, once you realise you have been avoided by someone, never bother them again

[@leamontoweh715]

Ghost should always remain with the dead!

[@bIoomingjasmine]

Recently going through this and let me tell you.. Why would you want a person who doesn't want you or that chooses to want someone else over you? You don't need them. Your worth is way greater, plus ghosts are non existent, treat them as such. Focus on yourself and your life and goals and spend your energy in fighting for what you want and that's it. When you love yourself you exude confidence and self love and nothing can phase you really.

[@bozanstvena1]

Ana, if your are ever bothered about what people think of you negative, you should forget about it. I come across some negative comments about you on KZbin, I just skip it. I fell I know you, we are similar in a way. I come a long way to be free myself, and my authentic self, without therapy, because I didn’t prioritise it back in time when I need it the most. You are doing great, and you achieve so much! It’s not many people that I admire, but if that means something, I admire you.

[@dolledupbyj]

As someone who had social anxiety so bad sometimes the thought of going to school or work made me so uneasy, I totally identify with this video! It takes years of self growth and one thing I did this year was finally start my KZbin channel! At first the few dislikes really got to me, it I’m just embracing the whole process :)

[@blognroses3161]

Anna is an angel! She says things from her heart and tries to restore for all the ladies, the femininity and elegance that has been lost through the years. Set your standards high women, don't act desperate when you find a man. First and foremost, is your self. It is called self love and self respect.

[@sarahpisciuneri2656]

This video is so helpful on many levels. Thank you for helping normalize therapy. Seeking help doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you. If anything, there is more right with you!

[@Maya-xm9dh]

Well said and explained. I can support this, myself being totally independent, lived in several countries, know 6 languages, very well red, always in leader position. This is a reason I can give an honest "YES" to Anna. She deserves her praise due to helping many who need such a help... here done in not just as a school class but in a way of information, education, sharing personal life experiences and after all...entertainment. Thank you, Anna!

[@roxanaghenea3137]

What truly helped me shift my perception on 'what other people think of me and whether they like me' is by thinking that I myself don't like everyone. Why should I expect everyone else to like me?

[@janeentumbao8690]

We love you. All of you. Just as you are. Thank you for this friendly reminder. (Air hug)

[@cosmicflower11]

Thank you for advocating psychological therapy. This is very important right now when anxiety and depression levels are increasing.

[@kiramilkina1400]

You are SO right.That`s the point to live your own life.

[@joymae]

This is the big push I needed. My gosh your channel has also grown so much, you did not care what people thought and kept making videos, love it.

[@HosCreates]

This is so valuable and true ! There is so many people who negatively projecting their own insecurities and then there is who we actually are. Also, our pasts is not our present and while some people may have said you were trashy before , it doesn't matter now because you have changed and we are now better than what we were before and many of us do not want to go back.

[@victoriaharper9623]

Great video Anna! Your hair looks beautiful! I wish as a younger woman I had known that if we are at peace with our choices or who we are we never ask for the validation of others. I made a career change into law at 28 in 2020 and never looked back or asked for other people's approval, because I knew I was and will continue walking in my own light. Insecurities need to be worked on in therapy, I cannot advocate for this enough ladies!

[@faithselflove1016]

Thank you soo much for this video. I set the intention that this year is the year I take back my power from others. I’m 32 a single mum, now divorced. My family have always been negative unfortunately. I used to be such a different person maybe 8 years ago...extremely motivated, I achieved everything I put my mind to. After years of people chipping away at my confidence or telling me I’m to much of a perfectionist..to fussy..shouldn’t waste my time on some of my goals. I’ve reached my boiling point. I want to be the old me that believed truly I can do ANYTHING I set my mind to. Sometimes those closer to us are the most toxic. I now do meditations, practice gratitude everyday..woke up this morning at 5am to go to the gym. Reading and watching you, Tony Robbins, Joe Dispenza and stopped completely watching TV. I can feel i am more determined and started dreaming again and believing and taking action towards my dreams. I think we really need to be careful of others because I let others walk all over me for far to long.

[@missamy6403]

This video was amazing, as usual, i need to work on the part of "accepting that not everyone will like me", somehow is still gets me sometimes. Thank you Anna, I love this new video series, more focused on self confidence ❤

[@lacavilosastudios7583]

Ana....you hit it right on the nail. When you don't care about being disliked...or "hate"...you claimed your power...and people recognized that. Actually people respect that you don't care

[@BubblyViolin11]

Life can also be the best coach. I’ve always been a people pleaser and when I was a music teacher, I felt like I didn’t have enough leverage to really take charge of my winter concert (to an extent I actually didn’t, I was in a toxic workplace), so I tried to acquiesce to a variety of concerns. When the day came, parent, teachers, staff, and others were still complaining despite my best efforts to be accommodating. I realized then that the best thing I could do was do what I thought was best. Sticking to my guns, trusting my instincts and training, and making decisions based on my own education would be best; not because people wouldn’t judge me, but because it was MY best and a reflection of MY work and inspiration. As long as I’m doing me, nothing else really matters.

[@heidixxx2454]

Might as well (do oneself) because there will always be someone else dissatisfied regardless.

[@sarahadams968]

It is so important to realise we are born into a pre-constructed world. We view this world and then try to find our identity in it. If given the freedom, we can alter the world to suit ourselves. Imagine that every single person is trying to find their identity in this world and are changing it to suit themselves. That is why there is so much friction because we have the freedom to change our worlds. It is actually a blessing because it means the society we live in is free to adapt. Thus, you just accept that everyone is going through their journey and you move forward. 💖

[@browniec4049]

Even the room she's in, is so elegant😍😍😍

[@kg3718]

Dear Anna you have become the beautiful elegant discreet and classy woman of your dreams. On top of that you have attracted the man of your dreams. I think you found your calling because speaking to your students and YT viewers constantly cannot be easy and clearly you have a passion for your pursuit of elegance in all aspects of your life which you pass on. Your conduct on YT is exemplary of graciousness and good taste. We are so lucky to be able to refer to your channel for pleasure relaxation entertainment and learning. Thank you

[@rennigaderedd9483]

I don't remember who said this, but it's a great quote. " What other people think about you is none of your business."

[@Tony-B13]

I didn't think it was true. But, after browsing these comments, I'm pretty sure it is. Actually, I'm positive that it is 100% completely true.

[@MaccMidas]

Thank you! I needed to watch this! I have to deal with the negative energy each day at work, and it is beyond nerve wrecking! It sucks because I am so observant, and I catch just about everything even when I do not. My spirit is so in tuned to the environment, consciously and subconsciously. I am truly seeking better ways to block the negativity of others without having to display disgust and extreme distance. Thank you and please keep up the great contributions!

[@JessicaM1111]

Anna I respect you because not every woman can come up on camera, talk and express herself, say what she thinks and feels. That something to be admired from you. May God bless you and continue to give you that wonderful wisdom, bravery and courage that you carry.

[@Divinenubian]

Great video. I never care what others think of me. its a waste time to think about what others think. Younger folks will learn this eventually.

[@londiwenomusatsosane1645]

I love you Anna. I am a social worker by profession and this video speaks volumes. Mental wellbeing top notch.

[@greatmoviesrecaps]

I really need to work on my anxiety. Thank you, Anna ❤️

[@chiedzamasuwa1120]

Iam just 20 and lam so happy l watched your videos sooner

[@gesundseindurchtransformat7909]

Elegance is like self-esteem, it's you, because you feel it. You cannot learn both; you can only learn to feel it ... if you don't feel it, you are neither.

[@therefinery4726]

When you observe human behaviour and you see that people are just doing the best they can, you become more understanding of the fact that people will pass their own judgement. Its subjective and all a matter of perspective. Passing judgement/observing It's a part of human nature. When you spend time self reflecting and you are honest with yourself, aware of what your strengths and weaknesses are, you wont take other peoples perspective as solid validation of who you are since you should know yourself better then anyone else. Amazing advice once again, Anna!! x

[@abigailnewton7045]

Hello Anna! I am a 13 year old girl who truly wants a higher life, and your channel has been so incredible! I loved this video so much! I used to compare myself with a lot of people, and although I knew I had to stop, I didn't know how, so this was a lifesaver! Also, thank you so much for the free mini series! When I got the notice last week, I signed up so fast, and I am loving it! It's absolutely incredible, and I am looking forward to the rest of the series! Thanks again!

[@harshitkapoor1909]

Which country are u from

[@sofiapalacios4326]

@@harshitkapoor1909 why do you wanna know

[@harshitkapoor1909]

@@sofiapalacios4326 I want to ask something

[@pinknicho]

@@harshitkapoor1909 you're asking everyone in the comment where they're from, its a bit uncomfortable for most

[@hannardG123]

Yeah girl watch out for creeps like this Harshit Kapoor guy 🙄 don't let anyone take advantage of you. You are worth so much more than any amount of money. Be care and be safe. Wishing you the best 💕

[@megancyloneight9822]

We have the great privilege of watching Anna's authentic, solipsistic journey into wisdom, hopefully.

[@ciciKoenig]

It's an interesting fine line you are walking. On one hand it's level up, be the best you can be at the same time accept your self for who you are, right now, in this moment, today.

[@luciasetti1688]

I really admire you and think you are a great role model for women. The fact that you were not born into money and worked on yourself to be independent and attract positive people and situations, gives you so much substance underpinning all that you say.

[@Ella-tf8yv]

Anna, I just wanna say that you're so generous. Some serious wisdom was dropped in this video!

[@thandomhlng]

For someone who’s going back to KZbin I needed to hear it. This has been on my mind “what will people think of me” forgetting that I want to do it bcoz I love it. Thank u Anna.

[@thandosdance1504]

Go for it girl, am rooting for u! Do what u love and stop caring about what others think.

[@thandomhlng]

@@thandosdance1504 you are so kind. I definitely will, thank u!❤️

[@Michaeladechatillon]

You gave us this video at the most perfect time! I recently have lost a friend with no explanation, and this has helped me to let it go. ❤️

[@bellathereader1328]

Beautifully said! We need to be brave, deal with criticism, and love ourselves. You will then be free indeed!!

[@mondeliyungu5711]

Hi Ana,thank you so much for this video it just opened up my eyes.i have a bad experience more especially in my 20s has i always seeked validation ...i havent had a father figure my entire life and that made me not to know how to hundle relationships men always mistreated and cheated on me alot until recently now in my 30s i told myself im worthy more than what i have gone through. I have accepted myself,trust myself and now i can say im happy. I pray despite my age my level up journey will be the best ..Thank you,love from Africa 💞💕

[@julietterogers6887]

Never, ever have I scrutinized you for any of the face value items you have outlined. I see here how much you want to give to others. I totally admire you for freedom to give.

[@renatavilas-boas4657]

I can say that we are very thankful that you decided to start your channel, dear ana 💕

[@SomewhataMystery]

100%. Don't expect people don't expect a relationship let things flow. Love yourself let it come back treat yourself good so it flows but don't take anyone crap. I became happy when I stopped expecting others.

[@ASmileInTheRainbow]

Thank you so much for this hearttouching video, Anna ❤️. I'm single after 10 years of engagement and first times were really hard for me. I felt completely alone and afraid of my future but time by time I found myself again, doing so many things on my own and finding them so pleasant to do in this way ❤️. Even today, after 2 years has passed, so many people around me keep me judging (especially woman) and I was so upset for this. When I stop care of what other think, I found that I 'm strong enough, that everyone has its journey, that making comparison is dangerous and no sense. Keep going with what you have Now! Thank you for your work, you put your heart in it, Anna ❤️

[@angelagrazia8499]

I'm not interested in affluence and don't share your perspectives on relationships or femininity. And here I am on the umpteenth video after you somehow popped up in my feed. You are an amazing lifecoach, give great, sound advice, and I catch a tremendously good vibe from you as a person. Thank you for sharing your energy! You have been a gift from God while I'm going through a rather dark moment and I thank you.

[@twinklekaur5804]

Thank you so much for this video Anna❤❤ As women we have always been wired to think and care about opinions of others before looking into ourselves and in so many societies people use this as a tool deliberately to control and subdue women, so that women think about others before caring for themselves. Thank you so much Anna for once again showing it to us all that it's okay for us women to care about ourselves, our needs and wants and to be Confident in our own selves. ❤❤❤

[@gi_issina]

Thank you very much, dear Anna❤️ You taught me one of the most important things (in your podcast and here) that you should start being okay with being disliked. I must say it’s so liberating 🙏 Waiting for season 2 of the podcast💖

[@shairalac730]

I really needed this right now. Thank you, Miss Anna. Love from Philippines💓

[@dr.elizabethmarmaras3034]

So real, knowledgeable, brave, generous, powerful, inspiring, elegant, hard working, classy, self aware, bad ass!! Keep sharing and inspiring Anna!

[@marisolp001]

I had to watch this video three times, thank you for this important message. Much love from Mexico 🤗💕

[@austere_kore]

Who else are taking notes and sitting with a pen and paper? Thanks to you Anna for making me feel that it's completely fine not to talk about whom I am dating. I am basically that person who loves to share and want the whole world to know whom I am dating. It's not a show off for me. But, it's like I am sharing my joy. But, this has hurt me a lot in the past. And these days I am completely 🤐 Except my two closest friends

[@freya3810]

I really love how you delivered this message

[@janiesuper3222]

I used to be extremely insecure to the point where I would hold myself back. Who suffers the most? Ourselves. We don't live our lives for other people's satisfaction, especially strangers, so who cares! I am here to tell you that its VERY HARD to practice what I preach. I always remind myself, the best thing I could ever wear is a smile. Also, I'm the only one who knows how to be me. I don't know how to be anyone else but me. Keep it up and you will attract your fans.

[@Lalalu74]

Thank you Ana, for this powerful message. I think i am a highly sensitive person because i care to much of what people think about me but im working on my self-steem, self value and most important self acceptance. Gracias my dear elegant lady.😘

[@harshitkapoor1909]

Which country are u from

[@karladoane7323]

Go girl. I know that's not very elegant I'm just so proud of you Anna. As an older woman I find you so inspiring , am so glad there's a good teacher for our growth to achieve our full potential; we need good teachers.

[@phoebehope6549]

I relate so much to the fear of being disliked! Realising more and more that the criticisms that hurt are the opinions you have of yourself. Thank you so much for normalising therapy and internal healing ❤️💙❤️

[@choubeila2996]

The thing that helped me a lot is knowing that all people make mistakes you just didn't see it ,so it's ok to make some in front of them because every body does

[@AnnasStyleDictionary]

To anyone reading this, I hope you’re feeling well and having a lovely day! Stay safe and remember to keep smiling in these weird times, sending lots of love from a small KZbinr❤️ ❤️

[@nicolehoman7508]

Randomly came upon this video at just the perfect time. I'm a nurse and am finally starting my KZbin channel (not this account) for women's holistic health & wellness in a couple of week. (Not on this account). I've been TERRIFIED for 3 years for these exact reasons !! But it's still on my heart so, I'm going for it. Thanks so much for this motivation and push :)

[@jennifer3551]

Anna, this is my favorite video of yours so far. And I couldn't agree more with everything.