HOW TO BEAT LUST (AS A WOMAN)

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Janel K. Lauren

Janel K. Lauren

Күн бұрын

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@JanelKLauren
@JanelKLauren 5 ай бұрын
Hey ladies! I love that you all are loving this content, I see some suggestions below - if there’s anything specific you’d like outside of the current comments leave it under here. ❤
@glowbychels
@glowbychels 5 ай бұрын
Guuuuuurl Ovulation is real realer the realest we thank God for grace 😩 May the Lord help us singles
@afrofaeries
@afrofaeries 5 ай бұрын
I NEED this video to blow up in Jesus name! Idk why some men think their sisters in Christ cannot experience lust as well. The enemy don’t discriminate 💯🫶🏾
@JanelKLauren
@JanelKLauren 5 ай бұрын
That’s my biggest frustration with the topic - which is why I’m very transparent about the struggles I went through as a woman. “ALL” have sinned and fall short to the glory. Thank you for watching sister ❤
@qqqwwwww8284
@qqqwwwww8284 5 ай бұрын
I HEAVILY agree, I love how truthful and blunt she is
@Samara077
@Samara077 5 ай бұрын
Exactly; I’ve struggled with this too ; especially when I go to the gym. I think it’s just really making your life center around Jesus and His word !! Over everything else including our thoughts
@Brandiisbeloved
@Brandiisbeloved 5 ай бұрын
​@Samara077 this is why I don't understand why modesty is always focused only on christian women. I called a brother in christ out on that the other day. Because I shouldn't have to be casting down thoughts 24/7 when im around you because you want to wear tight Grey sweats/pants but talk about christian women needing to be modest.
@sophoniedeliazard8628
@sophoniedeliazard8628 5 ай бұрын
I’m really happy this popped up on my feed. I’m really grateful for your video. I’m someone who’s new in my walk. It’s been easy giving up everything else for God, including starting celibacy, but it’s hard to give up lust. It seems like a battle everyday and I beg God to free me from it. I’ve tried hard to look at content talking about it, but 98% of the contents are made by men for men. The other 2% who are women, are being so vague. So THANK YOU! Just by your words alone, I can tell you’re a true sister in Christ and you have the right understanding! It’s hard to find Christians who are following the Bible to a tea. Anyways, you’ve earned yourself a fellow sister in Christ! May God continue to let us grow together.❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥 We’re in the last days, there’s no time to be lukewarm!
@desola-O
@desola-O 5 ай бұрын
We are in the same boat right now.. I had to run back to God. It’s been an amazing journey. This video is really for me.
@sophoniedeliazard8628
@sophoniedeliazard8628 5 ай бұрын
@@desola-O I’m soo glad you started your walk hun. Yes, it’s THE best decision we’ll ever make ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥
@sivialove475
@sivialove475 5 ай бұрын
Amen sister...🙏
@Jsween876
@Jsween876 5 ай бұрын
Instead of saying ‘in your son’s name I pray’ say ‘in Jesus name I pray’. There is power in the name of Jesus.
@youtubecommentergal4346
@youtubecommentergal4346 5 ай бұрын
I struggle with masturbation and I really regret the first time I ever did it as a stupid 12 year old. There was one time I stayed clean for one year as a teen but then I went back to it because I thought I should "test" myself and see if I'll be triggered. 🤦🏽‍♀Yeah I know I was very foolish that was obviously the devil tricking me. I am managing to beat it now it's just dirty thoughts and I know that the thoughts trigger the action. So that is my current struggle. Also as a woman I have noticed due to hormonal changes there are times I really struggle feeling aroused and when I'm on my periods and having cramps I end up masturbating because it's something I would turn to to distract myself from the pain when medicines wouldn't work. I get so nervous every time I'm almost on them because I fear that I'll end up doing it to cope with the cramps. If anyone has beat this and has any practical advise for me please help.
@chloeangelarose
@chloeangelarose 5 ай бұрын
hey love! i used to struggle with the SAME problem. i personally made “battle cards” where i would take a note card and write a bible verse on one side then write a prayer on another (or you can do it in your head ) and I would say it OUT LOUD. it helps! because you’re using Gods word as sword to fight against the enemy tempting you. also physically getting up and moving, doing something else can help too. hope this helps sister in Christ 🩷
@MrTakeProfit-01
@MrTakeProfit-01 4 ай бұрын
Fasting
@amberbaker3911
@amberbaker3911 4 ай бұрын
Hey girlie, What helped me to be better is to pray about it and be honest about the masturbation and repent and ask god for direction also don’t be ashamed of it 😊💕
@daughteroftheking01
@daughteroftheking01 5 ай бұрын
Girl the timing of this is insane. Those thoughts were definitely starting to creep in and I went to hang out with my guy friend last night 👀😱nothing happened, just small flirting but we all know that’s step 1 of 2. but this helped so much. One thing that shifted my perspective is when she said don’t date. I knew dating wasn’t in the Bible and I understood the importance of courting but I still be on the look out for my husband which leaves me open to the tricks of the enemy. I simply need to stop dating AND stop looking. It’s hard but.. I’m closer than I ever been. I had a moment of weakness last night, that’s forsure.
@bluerobot3806
@bluerobot3806 5 ай бұрын
How would you find your husband if he's not your boyfriend first? Genuine question.
@daughteroftheking01
@daughteroftheking01 5 ай бұрын
@@bluerobot3806 hey, courting/dating. “Boyfriend” just means “I’m yours and you’re mine”. In reality we belong to God until marriage. Bf gf opens the door for temptation. We can go on dates, meet each others family and pastors, and even agree to be intentional about only getting to know each other without calling one another bf and gf. Just my opinion as of right now. I’ve never done is so idk
@KAMROXX2K11
@KAMROXX2K11 5 ай бұрын
It's to the point that once I see a fione man, I look once to show interest if it doesn't lead to him pursuing me then I avoid eye contact or contact period. It's a set up. Also if a man looks a certain way....I would walk fast and look very busy or leave the area immediately. I'm vulnerable when it comes to men bc of childhood SA and I swear no mattet how much work I do on myself the ones who want to take advantage of my joy can smell that on me. I have to run, literally flee from the devil.
@Brandiisbeloved
@Brandiisbeloved 5 ай бұрын
same
@elizeviktoria
@elizeviktoria 5 ай бұрын
Very important topic for women as well. We all need to be accountable.
@JanelKLauren
@JanelKLauren 5 ай бұрын
100% agreed! Thank you for watching ❤
@SherryAmor
@SherryAmor 21 күн бұрын
8:17 Made me sit ALLL the way up! Thank you for that!😂😂
@gloriaukata
@gloriaukata 5 ай бұрын
Stumbled upon this and as someone that has overcome list I’m happy I’m over that phase. Jesus saved me and I felt emotional watching this. God bless you. Keep it going. ❤
@anahadora
@anahadora 5 ай бұрын
This video really resonated with me and all your videos have so far has confirmed that im not alone with my struggles of the flesh. i have a hard time trying to fast and i find my self trying to fast by jumping straight into a 1 day fast thinking i can handle it and end up failing….i used to be able to do 7 day fast but i had neglected my spiritual walk with Christ because i felt shame for doing things that i know i should not be doing because i did it often n it made me hid my face n ive just been off n on and just unstable in my walk with him. Your videos always comes on time when i need them the most n ik its Christ’s Holy Spirit speaking through you and i Thank the Heavenly Father. I find it really hard to pray as well but im doing better then i was before because at first i couldnt get anything out but when i did this was a prayer i couldnt utter and he answered it through u in this video 🙌🏾😭
@sandralaguerre7631
@sandralaguerre7631 5 ай бұрын
Going through a divorce and that spirit was strong on my ex and now that I’m really in this celibacy as I wait on the Lord, purity and holiness is a warfare as what hid itself before is being exposed as I’m by myself
@chantal3265
@chantal3265 5 ай бұрын
Omgosh my literal story! I stumbled many a times but the Lord has sustained me for the past 8 months or so. Take things a day at a time and continue to lean onto God!
@qqqwwwww8284
@qqqwwwww8284 5 ай бұрын
this is so helpful, the moment you actually decide to take your walk with God seriously and cut down the root of your vices, the devil will attack and he doesn't attack you just for that, he attacks you TO TAKE YOU OUT slowly or immediately, if given more room he goes for your family AND lineage (pray to God to reveal to you, your generational curses and how to break them so that your children would not have to continue the war but enjoy the prosperities), he doesn't care. Pray to God and ask the Holy Spirit to help you and LISTEN, you can ask for help along the way. Fasting really helped me, but I ASKED GOD and He gave me the exact fast to do. The Holy Spirit helps us pray and hit the exact spot we need. "He makes intercessions for me with groaning that can not be altered", SO YOU CANNOT PRAY AND MISS. Ask Him, and be willing to wait and listen.
@zarinahelizabeth
@zarinahelizabeth 5 ай бұрын
Hey sis, I am a new subbie here. I am a widow and was thrown into my single season and I’m navigating it and praying all the way through. And so many things have come up during this time that I’ve had to deal with. Thank you for sharing ❤
@JanelKLauren
@JanelKLauren 5 ай бұрын
The healing process is so beautifully ugly 😭 thank God for prayer! Welcome to the tribe sis ❤
@zarinahelizabeth
@zarinahelizabeth 5 ай бұрын
@@JanelKLauren beautifully ugly indeed sis. But God ♥️🙏
@TalkMoAboutit
@TalkMoAboutit 5 ай бұрын
So I know my algorithm is hearing me. Thank you!
@PNKHR3TS
@PNKHR3TS 5 ай бұрын
Yes, dating content please 🙏🏾
@JanelKLauren
@JanelKLauren 5 ай бұрын
Otw🫶🏽
@lorenbecka134
@lorenbecka134 5 ай бұрын
Yess
@koolsmoothfan
@koolsmoothfan 5 ай бұрын
Nice video fam, like you said at the beginning both men and women deal with lust. I have used the same tactics as you have myself to overcome it. Also, I will piggyback of off what you said about dating. It's best not to date someone spiritually weaker than yourself. You want to date someone who is on the same journey as you. Example, if you are abstinent and they are not don't put yourself into that kind of sexual temptation, more than likely they will try to seduce you. You must date someone also who is abstinent, because if they are truly from the LORD for you to date then they will also not partake in intimacy before marriage. God would not send you someone who is living in fornication, because God said we should not fornicate. Enjoyed the video and may God continue to bless you!.
@Faithandlive492
@Faithandlive492 5 ай бұрын
I got over the spirit of lust like 4-5 years ago. I do not watch lustful things anymore, but I have dreams about them?
@JanelKLauren
@JanelKLauren 5 ай бұрын
Hey there! I actually talk about this in my video where I speak on how I broke out of it and pornography.
@AxoChilð
@AxoChilð 5 ай бұрын
Walk in the spirit and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh
@melissaspence7593
@melissaspence7593 5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this sis ❤❤❤
@zarinarapstv7894
@zarinarapstv7894 5 ай бұрын
Please give us dating content! Struggling in my season of singleness 😮‍💨🙏🏼
@HannahBanana_XO
@HannahBanana_XO 5 ай бұрын
🌞🙏🏻💞✨
@karmaslyrics
@karmaslyrics 5 ай бұрын
Thank you sis. When i say i have been tempted like crazy. I said i need to fast. DAY 1 OF 3 for me. ❤
@clintmatthews4342
@clintmatthews4342 4 ай бұрын
Female sexuality is very powerful, loose and naturally supercharged at all ages human development. Lusts of woman can only be directed by a MEN. MEN of strong frame, righteousness, direction and humility will be able steer the wildness of feminity into an embodiment of productivity and happiness.
@GhostOfJade
@GhostOfJade Ай бұрын
This is such a blessing because 99% of testimonies on battling lust is targeted for men.
@daquansawyer4170
@daquansawyer4170 2 ай бұрын
Im a man that is dealing with lust and this video helped me God bless you continue to share to word with people because you have encouraged me
@Godsloveministree
@Godsloveministree 5 ай бұрын
This!!! Thank you sis! I needed this!
@DonnellSpence
@DonnellSpence 5 ай бұрын
Amen iam a true man in God and i listen to what people say about God holy scripture🙏
@veronicawilliams1957
@veronicawilliams1957 5 ай бұрын
I thoroughly enjoyed this video!!❤❤God bless you! What’s your IG? I’m gonna follow you.
@JanelKLauren
@JanelKLauren 5 ай бұрын
Thank youuu! I’ve been off of social media for the last six months now. So no instagram, only YT
@veronicawilliams1957
@veronicawilliams1957 5 ай бұрын
@@JanelKLauren I totally understand Sis. I feel a break coming for me too💗
@devotedjah
@devotedjah 5 ай бұрын
God bless you sister. Just subscribed to you, I love how straight forward and honest you are. You truly are a soldier in the army of the Lord 🙌🏾❤️ God bless you in your walk with God. Love you 🫂
@Sacious1989
@Sacious1989 5 ай бұрын
This is such a great video God is all over this 🕊️💗🙏🏾
@joliearytravels
@joliearytravels 5 ай бұрын
Finally a video for women dealing with lust ❤️ Ty ❤
@JanelKLauren
@JanelKLauren 5 ай бұрын
For us by us ❤
@TheGlowUpDiary
@TheGlowUpDiary 5 ай бұрын
Just prayed about this the other day 🙏
@amyahwright7371
@amyahwright7371 5 ай бұрын
Guys we need God! Please seek God & develop a relationship with God!God will never do you wrong 💖!..
@kyamaraaaa
@kyamaraaaa 17 күн бұрын
i need some dating content pleaseeeee😩
@ajwellsshares
@ajwellsshares 5 ай бұрын
More content! Would love to watch a video on dating vs courtship.
@JanelKLauren
@JanelKLauren 5 ай бұрын
Noted! Thank you for tuning in ❤
@Jocelynworldwide
@Jocelynworldwide 5 ай бұрын
😘😘
@ladeent294
@ladeent294 5 ай бұрын
Chizle! It’s so cool to see you talk about Jesus. I’ll be praying for you in this season
@JanelKLauren
@JanelKLauren 5 ай бұрын
Deenyyyyy❤❤❤❤.crazy you found my channel Lol welcome old friend and thank you🫶🏽
@valerieige3159
@valerieige3159 5 ай бұрын
Oop 😂 “you think he’s cute because you got a little lustful spirit”
@capricescott5480
@capricescott5480 5 ай бұрын
If you are lead, may you share your experience and journey with obedience and overcoming stubbornness and staying in relationship with God despite the disappointments that come along with this walk.
@JanelKLauren
@JanelKLauren 5 ай бұрын
I sure will ❤
@dailyhavie
@dailyhavie 5 ай бұрын
this was a read bruh
@a1clee267
@a1clee267 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video!! Major gems dropped🙌🏾🙌🏾🔥🔥
@shynyahymon6597
@shynyahymon6597 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for this helpful video. I would love some dating content to expand on your experience of courtship -engagement- marriage.
@tiffany7591
@tiffany7591 5 ай бұрын
im only worried about fasting because i work out and im scared ill faint :// any suggestions?
@JanelKLauren
@JanelKLauren 5 ай бұрын
Hey lovely, I too workout and usually during that time I stop all physical activity to preserve my energy. Sometimes walking alone can be too much for me. If you must workout I’d suggest intermittent fasting so that you can fuel yourself for your workout but have enough time spaced out to commune with God.
@katianegime
@katianegime 5 ай бұрын
YESSS PLEASEEE post more content about dating as a Christian woman
@kenyatah907
@kenyatah907 5 ай бұрын
First video and I am so glad to have found your Channel
@JanelKLauren
@JanelKLauren 5 ай бұрын
Welcome!!
@nadinapowell5820
@nadinapowell5820 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for posting this. Your video has inspired me to throw my 🌹 away. I do not want to, but I also do not want to lust after someone while engaging. So it’s hard to do but it’s necessary. 💜
@JanelKLauren
@JanelKLauren 5 ай бұрын
I’m proud of you 🫶🏽
@kiam88
@kiam88 5 ай бұрын
Absolutely! Thank you for sharing this wisdom!
@VanessaAbeja
@VanessaAbeja 5 ай бұрын
We need a dating series sis❤
@djsmokestruth29
@djsmokestruth29 5 ай бұрын
No you listen you know you're wrong coming on here talking about lust looking like da, just beautiful as all outdoors,,, SMH God forgive her WOW lol 😭 God bless you Ma🙏🌹😘
@liyshamarie4448
@liyshamarie4448 5 ай бұрын
WOW this was for me
@douglasleens
@douglasleens 5 ай бұрын
I love this!! I am working through lust right now, very clear message!
@Teachymom
@Teachymom 5 ай бұрын
God is good …thank you❤🙏🏿
@melody_20353
@melody_20353 5 ай бұрын
Glad to hear from you again 😊was really waiting for your videos...blessed🙏
@JanelKLauren
@JanelKLauren 5 ай бұрын
Missed you guys! Thank you for being part of the tribe ❤
@kinggage
@kinggage 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for this info from a woman’s perspective. Keep up the great work 🙏🏾👑
@JanelKLauren
@JanelKLauren 5 ай бұрын
You are so welcome. Thank you for tuning in!
@janicemurphy8620
@janicemurphy8620 5 ай бұрын
On time video. 😊
@gwenaellea.8277
@gwenaellea.8277 5 ай бұрын
amen
@BeautifiedbyJae
@BeautifiedbyJae 5 ай бұрын
Wow this was so good ❤️
@loveaniah
@loveaniah 5 ай бұрын
loved this so much!
@ajwellsshares
@ajwellsshares 5 ай бұрын
❤ Here we go! ❤
@ElijahSantorini
@ElijahSantorini 5 ай бұрын
Remember you from vine days “does your hair move” 🫶🏾
@JanelKLauren
@JanelKLauren 5 ай бұрын
Omggggg you’re a real one 😭😭😭 hey hey!
@kimi5425
@kimi5425 5 ай бұрын
God was putting this video at the top of my timeline relentlessly … I’ve been avoiding it due to making excuses for my lustful spirit cause I’m new to this journey but … it’s time for me to get it together. Thank you God.🤍
@TJinUniform
@TJinUniform 5 ай бұрын
I Love how real you are❤
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