How to Connect with People When You Feel like an Outsider | Eckhart Tolle

[@1j007zm]

Great video, love Eckhart!. I 'll be 60 yrs old this year, and I still don't fit in, never married, my relationships have never succeeded, but I've always been a happy camper. My sister would always call me an old soul ( even though she was 6 yrs older ), and my mother once asked me why I'm so weird. Since discovering spirituality, I've never been happier. I wish everyone Peace, Love, & tranquility!

[@user-so9yv2iq4q]

Thank you for subscribing this is my private account DM me for private reading

[@behere3319]

Best wishes and more presence to you ❤️

[@janmejaypandey2424]

Hopefully by now you would have learned the art of maintaining good relationships 🙏

[@1j007zm]

@@janmejaypandey2424 Life is always a learning process, and what I learned is that I really don't want a relationship. "I've never been happier" thanks for the reply Peace!

[@1j007zm]

@@behere3319 Thank you!

[@JDHart]

I’m 62. I’m an introvert. I have one friend, my wonderful wife of 30 years. That’s all I need.

[@Olivia-bs5wj]

How do you make a relationship works? I also want one friend, a partner, but everyone leaves me. I want commitment.

[@JDHart]

@@Olivia-bs5wj I understand how you feel and I wish that I had the answer to your question. I can tell you that for me personally, I envisioned my partner in my mind first. I meditated on exactly the kind of person my partner would be in great detail. With much clarity, I spoke the words out load to the universe. I believed and acted as if it had already been accomplished. Before I knew it that person showed up in my life and I knew with great certainty that my affirmation had manifested. I had to become the person that I wanted to attract into my life. The universe responded in kind. We have grown together over the years, always placing our friendship above everything else. We always choose to be happy over being right. I hope that sharing this will help you find your partner, your best friend and your happiness as well.

[@fozzieandflup]

@@Olivia-bs5wj everything starts with a thought. Be positive and don’t let thoughts come from a place of fear, let them come from a place of love. Don’t use words like “want”, think more like “I need commitment” but make that statement with confidence, not in a needy way. Make statements like “I am certain I will find my soul mate!”, and write it down on paper, pin it on your door, manifest it into the physical world. You will find your soulmate and it will be amazing! Take care

[@JDHart]

@@TinybirdPauline We have much in common. You were so correct in being very specific regarding details about your perfect partner. The universe always responds in kind. I am so happy for you and your successful manifestation. I have discovered that it not only works for the perfect partner, it is an immutable law that works for whatever you want to create in your life. You don’t even have to know how it works, only that it works. Thoughts become words, words become action, action becomes habit, habit becomes character, character becomes destiny. Thank you so much for sharing your story with me. May life always give back to you as you give to it. ❤️

[@ther3]

​@JohnDoe-xj1pfand its ok, love is not an Amazon shop, its shared and built with a human being

[@BBFCCO733]

Weird people are highly sensitive and perceptive, cautious people. I am one of them. It's very difficult to be around others, some groups are nicer than other, but some can be so cruel.

[@mgsBicycleO9]

The world can be an overwhelming place for sensitive people. It's a gift I believe, but needs nurturing for sure.

[@Favoredradiant]

@@mgsBicycleO9YESS

[@melissasibindi7375]

I actually said to my friend a few days ago that I've never felt like I belong to this world. I am 48 years old and FINALLY accept, no, EMBRACE my beautiful soul and those who I have been gifted with. There is ALWAYS connection and I send you all blessings for the same.

[@TheMediumChannel]

Congratulations, to be on this world but not of it is a beautiful thing and when you accept that you begin discovering your "supernatural" gifts. Many blessings

[@James-3000]

Me too! My unconscious inner mantra was "I'm in this world, not of this world", like I got sent to the wrong life...these days, I'm absolutely in love with myself and this world (most of the time anyways haha). Now I wrap up each meditation with a prayer and it goes, "Thank you, God". Blessings!

[@sarahmillson1594]

You might be Lemurian

[@globug8864]

@@sarahmillson1594 Do you know a respected person I may watch/contact? I'd love to know if I am Lemurian. I've always felt like I was adopted and not belonging to this world. 💫🧠👁👽

[@VeniVizzleVici]

@Lisa Wadsley Are you an AI?

[@bmc5367]

I believe you’re more an “insider” than you think. You’re your own best friend. It’s everyone else that’s on the outside. Be you and enjoy. ✌️

[@dinahbrown902]

❤️

[@Tererinterin]

Great approach 🤔

[@Chriswallace0405]

Thats easy to say but it gets lonely

[@JakobNoone]

​@@Chriswallace0405 I've been trying to spend time with myself so I can know myself - the true self Tolle mentions as the you that exists when you're listening to someone speaking and you're waiting for them to resume their words (so you aren't thinking or interacting, you're just being, which is the true 'you' devoid of external noise). Knowing that true 'me' means I can better recognize the qualities I see in my true self reflected/exhibited (or not) in others. If I recognize those aspects of me in them, I am not an outsider, and they are just a stranger as yet unknown. If I don't recognize any of the aspects of the true me in others I try to honor them as being sugar while I'm salt, so to speak, and the two don't need to cohabitate if they just don't pair well. My point is you - the conscious ego you think you are - can be open to connection with your own true self when you're alone (and thereby not be lonely), because you truly are 'hanging out' with a 'you' that is the realest you, but is also often a stranger to the ego-saturated you). Viewed that way, you aren't really alone. So loneliness can be less a problem despite being physically alone. Recognizing your true, non-ego self's characteristics, you are then in a better place to recognize those qualities in others and therefore again loneliness can be less a problem (or non-existent, even). True loneliness comes from not knowing your true self and from being with others whose selfhood shares little overlap with your true self.

[@Rich-wi7dn]

Still working on tolerating myself here. I feel like an outsider whether I’m in a group or alone with myself. Hoping to figure it all out at some point.

[@birgittaaxelsson9356]

...very lonely. Watching this has eased my burden of loneliness when I really needed it. Thank you, Eckhart, from my heart. Also to the sweet girl who asked. And love to all my fellow outsiders!

[@perculiar_daughter]

Birgitta, I too felt the same on listening to this. It's hard being the seemingly wrong jigsaw piece in the wrong puzzle box. My thinking is that we were never meant to sit comfortably in the reality of this particular puzzle. Peace and love to you.

[@oceanicdrop]

I am wanting to attend a gathering to meet and greet people in flesh and not satisfy with "looking at people through a slit in the jailcell that is my apartment room and computer or TV".

[@cathychase663]

You aren't alone in feeling lonely- me too.

[@alexandrawagner6330]

❤️❤️❤️

[@pleun315]

What helped me was watching video's about star seeds, feeling An absolute outsider? You are a soul from somewhere else ! We are human but souls In first place Just search for it and the answers Will come😄 There is An important reason why you are the outsider , you have Choosen tis journey ask your spirirguides die help ! They are glad to help ! Much love and light from the Netherlands ❤️🙏

[@jaycee8121]

I’ve just turned 60 yrs old & I always feel like I’m looking from the outside in. Find being in a group difficult but love to be out in nature on my own xx

[@perculiar_daughter]

I am exactly that way too Jay, so nice to know others out there feel the same. Xx

[@roisin252]

‘Looking in from the outside’ ... what a perfect way to say it

[@Vashti0825]

I am also 60 and feel like I'm in a wonderful state of acceptance. I was discarded out of a social circle 2 years ago. It was hard at 1st, but sent me on a journey of personal growth.

[@eimearlynch7414]

Exactly how I have felt

[@veroniqueverstichelen7371]

I understand.🌌💚

[@oliviajoanlowe]

I always feel like an acquaintance and I've never had close relationships with anyone except maybe a cat. I enjoy my own company more than with other people. People stress me out and I often feel drained after interactions. I love being in nature by myself. I thought that perhaps I may have had a mental disability because of my lack of communication. But it's reassuring to know that its ok.

[@LMB2301]

I once read that introverts find relationships or interactions draining because they give energy to maintain the interaction, whereas extroverts take energy from the interaction. It sounds like you are a strong introvert so you need to be careful who you spend time with. I also find some interactions can be very draining. You may also have autistic or asperger tendancies. I have a family member like that - they don't do well in company. Whatever it is, you must honour the way you feel and not try to fix it. We're not broken, just different!

[@oliviajoanlowe]

@@LMB2301 Thank you. Yes it has crossed my mind that I might be slightly autistic but I don't want to label myself. I remember when I was younger that I loved exploring the neighbourhood on my bicycle or doing adventurous things in the garden. Often, I would decide to do it and then kids my age would want to copy me or join me. But I was happy exploring even if they weren't there. Also, I've never felt the need or wanted to initiate friendships with my peers. And I'm still kind of like that now. There are the odd people who I find interesting but I really struggle to want to keep people around me. I don't know how to explain it really. But I'm realising now that it's ok to be me and to not need to behave how 'normal' people behave.

[@Vashti0825]

I share you sentiments. It's so much easier to accept than trying to conform to societal expectations. Once I did, I felt at peace.

[@ruth6833]

@@Vashti0825 helpful comment thankyou

[@soulhappy]

Have you checked out enneagram typing? It might help give you more peace. It helped me anyways

[@akaiyanagiteru]

At least we got each other here. I take being an outsider a blessing. It has save me from a lot of pain and suffering from not turning out like majority of my peers. There are worse things in life than being misunderstood and not belonging. All we can do is try to live a compassionate life and end the cycles of suffering. I love y'all and wish y'all love, happiness, and most importantly peace. 🥰

[@truseeker1]

Same to you my friend🤗

[@ylpinko98]

Beautifully said. Thank you🙏🏻🌹

[@claudiafahey1353]

You also are able to avoid group think, which is poison.....

[@butterflyfaerie8140]

@@claudiafahey1353 I totally agree.

[@luciahernandezsolano315]

Same to you 🪄

[@birgittaaxelsson9356]

I have now been living with this feeling of not belonging for close to 77 years. I found Eckhart two years ago, which has eased my burden of regret and guilt a lot though I am still

[@alexandrawagner6330]

❤️

[@clareunderwood6690]

We are so lucky to have Eckhart leading the way for all us 'misfits' and 'outsiders'. I love this man for what he is teaching us all.

[@anandakumarsanthinathan4740]

It's amazing how the Universe works. Just today, my 14-year old daughter came back from school and told me that no one talks to her in class and that they all form a 'group' and are always interacting within the group. I didn't know what to tell her. I will share this video with her. Thank you, Eckhart. 🙏🙏

[@terryhoffman2760]

It's so difficult for her. At her age she is trying to find her identity. How you react may be more important than how she reacts. Love praise and patience. Good luck.

[@anandakumarsanthinathan4740]

@@terryhoffman2760, thank you very much.

[@marciamorgan5316]

Sending her a 🤗 hug I have a 13 year old I always say never leave anyone out, if someone new starts introduce yourself and ask if they want to join in

[@anandakumarsanthinathan4740]

@@marciamorgan5316 thank you so much. Hugs coming all the way from Chennai to your little one.

[@marciamorgan5316]

❤️@@anandakumarsanthinathan4740

[@Madelro100]

I spent my whole life struggling to fit in, without success. Now, I feel good thanks to Eckhart and the people who write comments below.

[@Bodyknowledge77]

The struggle in many individuals' existence(mine included) is finding those who can appreciate, accept, and reciprocate. The worthy of the precious time commodity.

[@rubyshoes1032]

With you 100%,

[@Dancerlil]

I had similar experiences. As a child I had a friend who was deaf & another who had down syndrome. I am going on 68 & embrace my weird introvert self more than ever now. In grateful appreciation for all you do & are Eckhart. Blessings to one & all. Liliane

[@denisehay8895]

I'm 72 marycatfish and also embracing my weird introvert self!

[@bananamanly9997]

I am 14 and am learning to. Love y’all. See you later and hope you have a great day! ❤️👍

[@rouenpucelle]

Interesting! I also had a Deaf friend and a friend who had Down syndrome when I was a child!

[@FrancisTrach]

Often times we thing that the letting go of the ego construct will result in us feeling "disconnected" from Life, or other individuals, when in fact. In my experience, the opposite is the case. The more I let go and give myself permission to be who I really am unconditionally in all moments, the more I feel connected to EVERY single being around me, and the more I heal myself and others in the process. If you step into this space, you can expect to heal multiple generations of repressed desire and connection to who you really truly are. Great video Eckhart. Thanks for being one of the people that inspires me to post videos every single day. Much Love. 🙏

[@ailidhlalala1592]

Yes exactly, I have the same expirience at least sometimes. Sometimes I still feel isolated

[@mrgratitutude]

@@ailidhlalala1592 yeah this just sometimes, because we don't truly always in that state

[@samanthaphillipsdiamantesb1139]

I have felt like an outsider since I was around 5 years old I started to have realisation moments and thoughts I didn’t fit in. This has continued through school, work all my life so far. I accept its who I am since my spiritual awakening journeys and have been to healing centre to connect with people on the same level.

[@yourcalmplace]

- I just want to let anyone who’s reading this, and going through a tough time know that it’s going to be okay. You’ll get through it! ✨

[@WisconsinWanderer]

Thank you

[@Kupferdrahtful]

like the person every 40 seconds that commits suicide? Did they get through it?

[@hansmayr4600]

Thank you. It's now been almost 65 years I go throug thoug time(s). Hard to believe that it'll ever be over.

[@behere3319]

Thanks buddy ❤️

[@dinahbrown902]

😊❤️

[@michaelwachtel4165]

The women in the video really touched my heart and I could connect to what she said. I'm also from Austria(Vienna)! Maybe she reads this or someone who nows her and we can get in touch! 🙂🙂

[@alicjal4856]

I had just the same impulse as you! It means there's actually quite a lot of us spread all around? Greetings from Salzburg.🖖

[@melikairandoost9587]

😀

[@borbalaszokendi3436]

Greetings from Innsbruck:)

[@michaelwachtel4165]

@@borbalaszokendi3436 Servus, bist du das in dem Video?:-) Vom Foto kann ich es nicht ganz erkennen^^

[@michaelwachtel4165]

@@alicjal4856 Hallo Alicia, find ich toll,dass es hier einige Leute aus Österreich gibt:-)Ich hab mir gerade gedacht wir könnten eine Whatsappgruppe initieren wo wir auch mal Treffen vereinbaren können:-) Fände ich super,wenn man sich auch mit Leuten über spirituelle Themen und natürlich auch alles andere mögliche austauschen kann. Was meinst du? lG aus Wien

[@jamescadzow9545]

Multi-dimensional being living as a human experience. I see it as a gift and I cherish it everyday..

[@alexandrawagner6330]

❤️

[@natcat1984]

Can totally relate. Sometimes I think „I'm in this world, but not from it“ 🙃 Blessings from Germany

[@dinahbrown902]

You aren’t supposed to be of it😊❤️

[@walteredstates]

Hey, we are born out of this world! Like the apples grow out of an apple tree. Just more diversity in the human planet's fruitiness ☺

[@dinahbrown902]

You are and you aren’t supposed to be of it😊

[@alexandrawagner6330]

🙏

[@dinahbrown902]

You are 😊

[@kennedyblevins2174]

Needed to see this exactly today. I used to feel like this a lot in life, and sometimes when things are tough I still do, but I’ve grown more comfortable with being an “outsider”. I hope those who feel the same know you’re not outside, you are part of something bigger and you are important 💚

[@alexandrawagner6330]

❤❤❤

[@ziggy33399]

Thank you.

[@memomon23]

Those feelings of an “outsider” are a deeper calling to independence 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@alexandrawagner6330]

🙏

[@alexandrawagner6330]

❤

[@KnowledgeCollectiveOfficial]

I relate to feeling like i am not from here. Always loved Stargazing or Observing the Universe with my Telescopes. I think we are all connected and should make an effort to change the world. I know I will try!

[@bokkebokke7]

I’m 34, always had a lot of acquaintances but genuine friends are so hard to come by these days. Everyone has their own lives, their own tribes, etc. And I’m just not privileged enough to be more appreciated in those places.

[@usewisdom2]

Yep lots of acquaintances, a few true friends, which is good but none that are truly of like mind and truly resonate

[@90skidcultist]

32. Some acquaintances; hadn’t had friends since I was like 12. Only dated 4 times, and I’m currently with someone i genuinely love as of now. She’s extroverted too…😖

[@xneobloodchaosx7875]

He telling us what we NEED to hear instead of what we WANT to hear. Acceptance, especially self-acceptance is one of the most powerful, I believe, things you can ever come to love as it starts from within.

[@alexythimia7]

I feel very much the same as the questioner. Due to my unusual way of perceiving and explaining things. I think there's also a fear of rejection as that was a trend in my earlier years. I love listening to Ekhart as he puts it so beautifully clearly. It gives me hope that I'll find that broken part inside me and heal it.

[@behere3319]

Best wishes. You are not alone in this journey. More presence power to you ❤️

[@walteredstates]

I wouldn't approach your self and finding happiness from the position or belief that you have a "broken part" in you. That won't be helpful i don't think. Life/ evolution works on the very principle of variation on a theme and diversity. With us humans and our consciousness there is even greater variety. I encourage you to practice loving kindness I your self and move towards assuming that you are rare, and precious. Enjoy!

[@defender7624]

I use to think I was a outsider but now I realize I’ve always been on a deeper level then most. There’s very few people I can be around these days. I mostly like to be alone

[@alexandrawagner6330]

❤️

[@nannenon]

I could see the light in her eyes. Not many have that.

[@alexandrawagner6330]

❤️❤️❤️

[@taggstir4966]

Love her smile at the end

[@evabickerton3856]

Im 47, tried therapy because did not have "friends,found it hard to make a connection, than I went to a medium, she told me that there is nothing wrong with me, I just do not need others like most people do, I need meaningful conversations with healers like me or people who are more awakened, more aware, because " I have been around the block many times"

[@Bijju456]

I am just like u ...happy to find ppl like me..

[@tyremanguitars]

I had a friend at university who introduced me to Eckhart who I am very grateful for now who I miss a lot.

[@pr5pr]

he’s right about the creativity part. solitude can give you so much insights, ideas, freedom!

[@NextCherryParadise]

It's comforting to know that quite a few people feel like me, like this hehe And it's so tempting to just surrender and accept that I shouldn't be counting on fitting in with the majority of people ever. The desire to be liked by everybody is so strong and egoic attempts to achieve that are quite draining. Might as well just accept the futility and move on. About fitting in - maybe it'll happen, maybe it won't, who knows? But I sense it would be so liberating to stop working so hard for it. I'm getting there😀 Wish everyone a beautiful time of the day wherever you are🙃and thank you Eckhart for everything

[@alexandrawagner6330]

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[@leem3299]

If you weren't an outsider you probably wouldn't be here. Well said. I like it here.

[@Qonitah-z6m]

I'm 19 y.o and always feeling like an outsider and disconnected from everything, idk what's happen to me cause they think I just can't socialize, but honestly it's not bout that, but that feeling alone even u r in conversation cause it's just me who is excited have conversations with them, and at the end it's always me who end up alone, and after that I always isolated myself and never try have a relationship with others, it's lonely tbh but always trust in god. ❤

[@chrisberry9017]

Oh my goodness, the synchronicity of this question and answer. I felt very akin to the young lady questioner, and when she said that she came from Innsbruck I could barely believe it! I live in the UK, but have a number of very dear friends in Innsbruck - people who I feel closer to than my own family, and one particularly is very spiritual. It would be wonderful to reach out to this young lady, and put her in contact with my lovely friends.

[@alexandrawagner6330]

❤️

[@ChangeYourLife1122]

Thanks Mr Eckhart Tolle, your videos make me feel better ❤️💓🙂, and for those who are still in pain/suffering, and Im telling u everything is going to be ok, peace🙏

[@danielsavov7504]

Thank you💙

[@behere3319]

Thank you ❤️

[@paigetran824]

Touch my heart greatly! I had a yearning to find my community. I'm 21, and I never resonate with people in my life. Yes, I have acquaintances, but I always want to go deeper, and not a lot of people have the openness and strength to do that. I find peace when being with animals

[@alexandrawagner6330]

❤️

[@SunnyKindJourney]

Be YOU or be nothing ❤

[@classicmeditations9357]

It is okay not to be like everyone around you, you are unique and that is what makes you AMAZING!

[@alexandrawagner6330]

❤️

[@narcissistichealingforempaths]

I am an INFJ. I have felt like an outsider since my childhood.

[@HeavenlyLights]

INFJ are the MOST RARE people on earth. You are very special.

[@XU23]

Same :)

[@isabelalmeida7676]

I do feel the same, I also wish I could have someone to relate to, but I'm beginning to accept it with compassion and kindness without struggling and wanting that people around me change, now I accept me and them as they are and I move forward knowing who I am.😊

[@Jack-is4bd]

Your comment has helped me a lot. Embracing compassion and kindness feels much better than struggling❤

[@lindakoch9524]

Such a great shortie!! Loved the girl and Eckhart’s response….it speaks volumes that Eckhart befriended those who others rejected even when he was a child!

[@alexandrawagner6330]

❤️

[@dakotaovdan]

The moment I found presence I saw everything was so interconnected and that most other people couldn’t see beyond themselves. They felt like the outsiders and the minority to me because there’s so much more life in this universe than just human life.

[@ElizabethHaynesTX]

I love this. Thank you. I’m going to borrow this mindset.

[@veroniqueverstichelen7371]

Yes.💚🌌

[@bernadettekrejci7343]

I'm from Innsbruck too!!!!! Awakening here 😀

[@alexandrawagner6330]

❤❤❤

[@soulsootheryoga3867]

Most of outsiders are the creative ones. The misfits, i can truly relate. Purely we felt out of place because i am resonating higher callings in my life. This video made me feel less alone in this Journey. May all of outsiders find courage to fully embrace & love ourselves.🙏🏻 Sending warm hugs.🤗

[@callistomoon461]

Eckhart is truly a gift from Heaven.

[@jps8678]

Before watching this video I would say don't try to connect outside but connect to your heart. Then often outside connects to you.

[@luciboras]

What is said is so relatable. Reflecting back, childhood was pleasant emotionally, teenage years I was lost, and adult year were lots of manufactured fears. Now, middle age, after years of living life experience and meditation, I'm more relaxed. Life has brought me to a place of ease and complete trust, that I never experience before.

[@fhigher]

Cool to see there are quite of few people that are em 'seeking' a way, in the sense of a sincere thing

[@8randomprettysecret8]

I feel seen and acknowledged! Relate to feeling like an outsider.

[@denisen.893]

6:32 that's true. I'm hesitant to consider me an outsider because my ego would respond to it as being above everyone else. It is important for me to always stay humble.

[@Attila1025]

I have always felt the same, but now i know that its not a fault. Don't be afraid to be yourself.

[@amritachow]

He is so adorable!

[@lasalasdeldeseo3]

I relate with her, and I know people from Innsbruck!!!!

[@Ac-st7nw]

Eckhart gives that woman so much common sense compassion. She was genuine, beautiful, and we all relate to her.

[@alexandrawagner6330]

❤️

[@JeanineMarieCompassion]

What a beautiful offering! Thank you!

[@Shelly825]

Good afternoon master Eckhart and everyone.

[@classicmeditations9357]

Good morning from Canada!

[@kaelightupthedark]

good afternoon to you too have a great day🤍

[@PoetaPeregrino]

Bom dia do Brasil

[@Parkitloveit]

Thank you for being you and being here and now. 🙏 Whenever I watch you, also when I don’t watch you, it seems a part of you is always with me. I’ve also always been an outsider, with weird ideas and weird behavior, so I learned to be happy without the connection to other people, which is amazing. But sometimes I wish I could be a part of a community of like minded people. That’s why I’m very grateful for your videos. Seeing the people you talk to and laughing warm-heartedly with you all is always a wonderful moment. Thank you 😊

[@cjtoler9726]

I, too, understand her completely!

[@moronelsa]

I really needed to see this video today. Thank you. Sometimes for me it's hard to feel so isolated. As humans we need sometimes someone who understands... Thank you all 🙏🤍

[@alexandrawagner6330]

❤

[@ElizabethHaynesTX]

This was short but so helpful. I’m 41 and have never fit in anywhere (except with my husband), nor have I had many friends (almost none in childhood, and only a handful at a time in adulthood). I’ve lost job after job over 20 years and for mostly unknown reasons. Now I can’t get a job at all no matter what I do, so I’ve been feeling completely outcast and ostracized. It’s probably a good time for me to think about the idea that it’s ok to not fit in anywhere. And that maybe this is by design. Thank you, Eckhart.

[@alexandrawagner6330]

❤

[@neatneat9088]

So happy to find my soulmates. We are necessary or we wouldn't be here!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you for this video.

[@donnawoodward3163]

That was very sweet from both of them. It was nice to see that connection. Also to hear how I have experienced my life journey through their words. We are not alone just scattered across the planet. Coming together in such a gathering would offer possibilities to make friendships via the Internet.

[@alexandrawagner6330]

❤️

[@theresegrech1685]

From the moment that i was born i feel myself an outsider, i do not have an i terest in the events of my country and still i do not fit and i do not want to fit in.

[@bensanterre9478]

"You probably would not be here if you had not felt like an outsider for many years" That's great. I hope she finds her people, or finds the joy in being alone. I'm surprised Eckhart didn't talk about the the ego identifying as "outsider" and the way we are often influenced to feel that is a bad thing; I'm glad he pointed out that it is not.

[@yudithMakeup4]

Yo también sentí lo mismo, siempre lo he sentido, y creo que la experiencia de el humano es la más hermosa y la más difícil. Gracias .

[@mgsBicycleO9]

I'm 26, and always felt like an outsider. For some reason I could never fit into groups. I had one really close friend but our relationship broke apart. I feel very lonely at times but maybe that is the price of awakening. I still believe that there are amazing humans out there that I can connect to. I won't limit my future based on my past 🙏

[@radicalhonesty3628]

as I watch this video, I say a prayer, I pray for perfect health, for abundant wealth, and for sacred love...

[@alexandrawagner6330]

💙

[@namehere4954]

My perspective is very different as I've been blessed with deep knowing & have been shown things that most never experience. I do not need my reality externally validated or even acknowledged by others. I know universe is showing them a reality & truth that is the most ideal for their soul's advancement. When you see it from this perspective, peace will come. Accept your path and accept where another is at as well.

[@EuropopTop]

Just a few thoughts: The problem with the feeling of isolation is the tendency to then self-reject ,i.e there must be something wrong with me , which then creates more feelings of alienation. But the best prophets & thinkers were those who could observe from the outside looking in so there is much value in individuality. To combat any further feelings of isolation one must realise there are many others out there who feel similarly. So we aren’t alone after all.

[@Andrewjames319]

Someone needs to hear this 0h Lord! God almighty! I magnify your name! Yaweh I give you all the glory for my life! Forgive my sins and my un confused sins Lord! L0rd I want more of you and less of me! I thank you for your protection! I am truly blessed and highly favored I sit in heavenly places and I am the s0n of a mighty King! I love you Jesus! Lord I pray fOr those who don't know you in a intimate way that they will humble themselves and come to know you on bending knee asking for their forgiveness! Father I bind the spirit of pride! I cut it off at the head and send it back to the pit of he'll in which it has come fr0m! I release lOve, kindness, patience, humility in the name 0f Jesus! I followed my heart and I am glad I did. I lost my wife 2 years ago due to the pandemic and I was about giving up, knowing God has brought me this far was for a purpose and I kept on looking on to him. My destiny helper was sent to me the year my wife died. The moment I was about giving up, I was introduced to a business by a man I met in a seminar I went to in Florida. This was not my first time hearing of such business but I took the risk Investin 1000 USD and it was worth it feedback@markhanfarmer. C0M FOUR weeks later I kept on getting earnings and I started using the money for Gods w0rk. I am very popular in Maryland. Doing God work always give me joy. There is peace and joy in my mind. I am here to motivate you and tell you never to give up even though the situation seems so though. God has promised his children and he will surely d0 what he has promised his children.

[@fiachramacaonrae5449]

You're not the only one!

[@nick_carnelian]

Thank you, Eckhart! The timing of your videos is just incredible!

[@elinope4745]

All my friends that radically accept me are older. The younger generations don't respect individuality so much. The young demand conformity.

[@anniemccowan9902]

I disagree!! I have many younger friends who are more accepting of who I am them my peers are. People who demand conformity can be any age and at any stage of their journey.

[@linnease]

So lovely and soothing to listen to Eckhart

[@bobskimaxx]

I totally connect with this young lady. Other people bore me.

[@deboraheden6418]

Omg same I feel bad at the moment because I don’t connect with most of my friends they actually bore me and are so self absorbed i often feel drained after being with them. But I am trying to be more social I yearn to feel a bond with people only get it a few times.

[@alexandrawagner6330]

🙏

[@jeanieking3606]

Yesss, I find that if I can attend a scared ceremony to reconnect with self & self love, I get rejuvenating energy to proceed into creating my beautiful unconditional loving new earth. I cherish my scared energetic spirit family. many more are awakening and are even more curious about my growth on this path...grateful heart. The loneliness comes in from time to time, I just go inward to restore my energy. Thank you Eckhart!

[@Hvhjkvv]

Germans and Austrians always seem to know the population of various places. Admiring the knowledge from a tiny town in West Virginia of approximately 500 people.

[@davidwilliammusic]

I recognise this totally. For most of my adult life I've struggled to connect with people, often finding people gravitate towards me easily but rarely stick around. Its like they simultaneously are drawn and pulled away. For years I didn't understand it. Most of the people who don't follow this pattern are exactly like Eckhart described - those individuals who are too weird or unbalanced to fit into society themselves and not necessarily who I'd choose to hang around with. I have been lucky enough to meet two people (at different times) in all these years where it was a mutual, balanced and loving relationship, being able to be ourselves with each other but never extend it beyond that to a small group or community. Partly I suspect to any potential friends being put off by the close bond I have with the person I'm currently with. When I used to busk a few years ago I was always attracting those kinds who would feel they had a found a "friend" in me and I'd give them some time, chat with them, but they would be disruptive, never know when to shut up and let me play (which is why I was there!). I had to toughen up in those years and find ways to cut people out more. Musically, I've always been solo apart from a few years as a duo and could never understand why I wasn't able to get a band together because I see Music as a great way to unite people. I've since accepted and embraced being solo, being an outsider and found new deeper levels of enjoyment, satisfaction and appreciation in what I do and am, but it would still be good to build like-minded groups and communities and it seems to me that's the way more people will go as the system and society as we know it breaks down and refreshes itself in a new fashion (a New Earth). I see it that the failing system will continue a bit longer in its current form as most will still cling to that but more and more pockets here and there will break away and almost create their own societies from scratch that embody the values and things that are important to them because people are tired of this old, defunct system that only seems to serve and benefit a tiny few.

[@TheMediumChannel]

Yeah...I always was different but after my awakening in 1978 I really was the outcast and I only just wanted to fit in, but as time went on I embraced my gifts and developed and embraced being a teacher, medium healer etc. that was aware of things others weren't especially energy and how to channel it to heal lifelong illness and to do healing for others and witness people in hospice get out of bed and start eating again..it's all part of human ability and evolution, we can all learn these gifts..it's starts with cultivating presence which is why I'll always come back to listen to what Eckhart is saying. Brilliant as always!!!

[@kaelightupthedark]

Your an inspiration to me i truly love you an all you do God bless

[@denisehay8895]

I have always felt like an outsider and like many other outsiders I believed for a while I had been adopted because I felt like a stranger within my birth family. I now realise I am an extreme introvert and fully embrace that. I feel it's important to take on board the warning that Eckhart gives about allowing 'the outsider' to become an ego identity.

[@alexandrawagner6330]

❤

[@maysaraali5772]

I just want to tell her that life will match her up with her type of people. Life never abandon us. You are not meant to be alone 💗Trust!

[@alexandrawagner6330]

❤️

[@mcsshroff2498]

Very relevant question. I did feel the same way. Also as ekhart pointed out after the realization why so, always feared it should not get to my head.

[@alexandrawagner6330]

❤️

[@suzieque4222]

oh my goodness I have always felt very alone and like what am I doing on this planet ? I so feel like I do not belong here ... how this so makes me feel a sense of belonging after you spoke .. thank you for your honesty :-)

[@saferspaces]

I instantly felt connected with this beautiful woman the moment I saw her. I wish with all my heart she feels those connections around her. I have felt and still am in that state of kind of isolation.

[@alexandrawagner6330]

💙

[@ytevysbhtb]

As a 31 yo guy who's never had any relationship with anyone (real or just physical, out of a classic friendship), I have just accepted a decade ago that I am different from others and that I'll never be with someone, because I'm meant to be alone. It's ok now, but at the beginning, when I was still full of hopes, it was painful

[@maryb3880]

It's interesting that I've felt like an outsider most of my life, riding the unconscious waves of attention getting self pity and egoic superiority, striving to find balance in 'my life', when, with Eckhart's teaching wisdom, I'm realizing that I am as I am, not disconnected, however the consciousness emanating of Source, as we all are in varying degrees of enlightenment. ❤

[@obsoleteelite8258]

I was just talking to my therapist about feeling like an outsider and how it’s hard to meet people.

[@drcunda1]

When you see a person who is often silent and avoids people, try to stay close to him, because he has been given wisdom. 💚 Mevlânâ Celâleddin-i Rûmî

[@Burkwood]

Beautiful video, Eckhart(and the lady involved). Thank you for sharing.

[@alexandrawagner6330]

❤️

[@nellllo]

Thanks for this

[@User10980m]

The same issue here I need a co-wonderer

[@tunjiseton]

Trying to fit in can be mentally drain in most times

[@barbdixon7336]

Tolle describes what ten years of CPSI was like for me, in terms of connection and feeling a strong sense of belonging to a very large, global Tribe. 'Creativity' was honored and celebrated in all walks of life.

[@michaelthompson6080]

Everything that I have worked hard for is paying off. Rest and rejuvenation are still productive. I have the time, space, and opportunity to celebrate my accomplishments and I deserve to enjoy this present moment.

[@irishroverandthecrew]

Outsider here as well, it's lonely, that's the worst part, on the other hand very true - best people of this world, from Jesus onwards were absolute outsiders. Best of greetings to my fellow outsiders, hope to connect !

[@annianiscanlon8852]

“May the light forever dance across your path” my fellow Outsider☘️ connect anytime.

[@lenaberch7402]

I have same feelings all my life and best feeling alone.thank you for explaining this.