How to create an ideal relationship (hint: it's not the way you'd think)

Defying the conventional wisdom of most books and relationship 'gurus,' this approach may seem unconventional, but 90% of the time, it works every time.
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00:00 Intro
02:46 Looking back on relationships
05:36 Loosing people you love
07:50 Being in a loving easeful relationship
09:50 Working through things in a relationship
13:20 Movies have given us a false sense of relationsihps
18:20 Relationships are a mirror
21:00 Existing as one with everything

[@citoldyou]

You did a great job of discussing how relationships are maintained and manged with compassion and acceptance.

[@leonalin82]

I totally agree with what you say. I didn't meet my partner til I was 37. But I have to say the guys I dated for like since I was 17 werent really my type or actually liked me. I took a long time to learn like you said relationship schooling. And also retain my personality than date people who didn't actually like or love me. And also I found I'm extremely picky I can be extremely boring to someone who doesn't like me. Me and my boyfriend are more compatible because we have things in common. It may be luck that we crossed paths. And it's not a crazy love affair. But a stable love.

[@leonalin82]

I'm 41 now.

[@leonalin82]

I don't think I knew myself enough til now. And also sometimes it about common values. I believe in love. And there is such thing as a life time relationship. My parents are seniors and they are still together and I hope me and my boyfriend will too. His parents were still together for a life time. I think media and society tells us everyone is looking for a fling or a hyper sexual relationship. Finding someone who actually treats me with respect was life changing and it's hard out there. Society is like brainwashed. I don't think monogomy is dead. It's very noble. And cherished. I believe in God. Sometimes I think I found this rare love. I'm not one to take an abusive relationship or be in a relationship I'm not happy in. But this rare love can make a family. I guess my boyfriend is from an older generation which is how it worked out. I'm very happy and lucked out.

[@YOUENJOYLIFE]

To check out my latest book, wich may seem to have nothing to do with this, but in a way has EVERYTHING to do with this, check out www.fermentingwithyourfriend.com