HOW TO DEAL WITH A NARCISSIST

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El Goliath Artist Author

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@doradestroy Жыл бұрын

I have had to deal with so many narcs in my life. Mother is a sociopath. The New Age scene is loaded with narcissists.

@demigaines5644 Жыл бұрын

I JUST STARTED LISTENING TO YOUR CHANNEL YOUR VIDEOS HAVE HELPED ME SO MUCH ON NARCISSITIC ABUSE I WAS INVOLVED WITH A MALE LEO OVERT MALIGANT NARCISSITS THIS PERSON DESTROYED MY LIFE MY SELF WORTH AND SELF ESTEEM HAS BEEN DESTROYED. I BECAME SEVERLY DEPRESSED AND ALMOST SUFFERING A NERVIOUS BREAK DOWNTHE ABUSE WAS BRUTAL.

@demigaines5644 Жыл бұрын

CAN YOU PLEASE DO A VIDEO ON THE OVERT NARCISSITS

@anitahedgeways5280 8 ай бұрын

I have been going through your videos on narcissists, because now I believe my mother is one. (I have been living far away from her for years now and have processed a lot so this is basically the last puzzle piece for me) I just wanted to let you know that these videos are very insightful and they helped me a lot

@TheElGoliathTarotDeck 8 ай бұрын

Oh no, nothing worse! Glad it can help!

@ladyvirgo013 9 ай бұрын

You are such a blessing in my life right now, im 6 months post brutal discard by my soon ex husband, low vibe Capricorn Sun, Gemini Rising. I didn't realize what he is until the discard, i mistaken his issues for alcoholism 🤷‍♀️ The ripple effects are also brutal. God give me strength through this divorce

@TheElGoliathTarotDeck 9 ай бұрын

Be strong and take comfort in knowing that you never knew him really at all to begin with, you only loved the concept of the external projection he would show you to enslave you by mirroring you at the start. This was not a normal relationship and it WILL NOT be a normal break up/ divorce. Be brave you got this!

@ladyvirgo013 9 ай бұрын

@TheElGoliathTarotDeck I absolutely Relate! I seen the true him(although he doesn't know who he is) at his discard. Dark eyes and his voice changed! Eerie Ass shit! No unseeing that😈

@qwertyqwert2772 Жыл бұрын

well, thankyou for explaining something i could never find the words for. i thought i was insane. i cut them out. but they keep coming to my house and banging on my front and back door, screaming out my name and other nuances. i am sad i experienced this but i guess i had to go thru it.

@TheElGoliathTarotDeck Жыл бұрын

Sounds like you did the right thing! Be safe!

@mg.5354 Жыл бұрын

I went through these things with two libras friend male and female.. I thought it was normal and me is the one who makes issues bigger than they seems.. thanks for lighting us up .

@AngelThaena Жыл бұрын

Hey! You nailed it once again. Very insighful. Hope some people will open their eyes on narcs around them and get enough strength to run away!!! Thank you. You said it all xxx

@starcatcher2001x Жыл бұрын

Narcissists who hold high influence positions in the public eye, such as politicians perhaps, are uniquely insidious because they reach more than just a handful of people. When you are able to gaslight masses of people that energy embeds deeply into the entire culture and effects everyone on some level. So, it's not just the amount of people the average narcissist next door can affect (which is very hurtful though, obviously). It becomes a thing that the entire culture absorbs, like a real low vibration backdrop. I feel like the narcissist who is personally in one's life is an acute threat who needs to be dealt with carefully in a certain way, which you detailed very well. But also, the narcissist who holds a high influence position and is always in the public eye is scary and insidious and very hard to extricate oneself from energetically. Because their energy loops over and over in so very many people, I feel like the amount of healthy energy projected from one person or even groups of people isn't enough to overcome it. Because the large group, or mob mentality, that has been highjacked by the high profile narcissist becomes like a hall of mirrors. Its energy bounces off everything and hits everywhere constantly. I think you spoke spectacularly about the approach to take when the narcissist is someone who is, or has been, in your personal life. I wish I knew an equally good mindset to take when the narcissist has been a very high ranking and influential public figure whose reach has gone deep and remains very hurtful in the culture.

@aprilllc3622 Жыл бұрын

Needed to hear this. The accuracy every word. You opened my eyes. After 3 years in communication he did the same to keep me hooked. Done. Thank you

@TheElGoliathTarotDeck Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, I'm glad that you got out and can see, now come the healing which will probably take the rest of your life, trust me I know.

@evonnewylie Жыл бұрын

Great info, well done. I wish I had of known this 16 years ago. It's so sad watching the idolisation of narcissists. Sickening actually. It reminds me of that "Are you ok?" Day bantered on by toxic workplaces. Thank you. X

@va7046 Жыл бұрын

Hi Goliath, Leo with Leo asc here. You seem like an intense and sweet person. Interesting channel 😊

@hannahbanana_000 9 ай бұрын

Tomorrow I’m a bicycle pump 😂 this info is heaven sent 🙏 thank you for informing and sharing your view point , it’s very assertive and reassuring❤

@TheElGoliathTarotDeck 9 ай бұрын

So so welcome! Yes assertive is good! It contains!

@Poofieful Жыл бұрын

So hard, so true, so honest. You've done your homework. Much love. L. Thank you

@mandilynn24 Жыл бұрын

You are beautiful..I mean that as a Taurus. Wow. I live with a pisces so i get it. Smh! I refuse to let my dark side out. I just want to be loved properly. ❤❤

@thetruecrimeconnoisseur 6 ай бұрын

Narcissistic creatures are not bound by a sign.

@Thewillowmoon Жыл бұрын

Such a great video Goliath. The covert Narcissist’s behaviour is so insidious & just soul destroying. I only woke up to my narcissistic mothers ways a few years back & I fully agree this shite should be schooled, I wish I knew what it actually was when I was younger !! I found Dr Ramani & Sam Vaknin on KZbin by accident really, and I just couldn’t believe how blind I had been. I hope your video helps many along the way 🖤

@helenekate0000 11 ай бұрын

Mind is blown again.. too many things for right now / here.. but everything makes more sense now.. why you understand all the things... and why you were (are) so kind.. you get it... I'll pause myself because too many thoughts and I could rant a book here... might watch this a hundred more times just because it's oddly comforting.. kind of wish you had been a friend years ago or family and I hadn't lost half my life to all of them... only people who've experienced any of these things can even begin to understand it all... = only completely random people we find on the internet.. but thats a lucky thing at least... Thanks for the crying and laughing again.. best most cathartic combo of things..

@TheElGoliathTarotDeck 11 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for your love and support I can feel it from here

@helenekate0000 11 ай бұрын

@@TheElGoliathTarotDeck thank you too.

@helenekate0000 11 ай бұрын

@TheElGoliathTarotDeck i just had a thought to ask you if ever one day you have the mood or etc for it... if you could make a video like this for people when they are having a panic attack....... your voice and demeanor and understanding and = energy / ies etc..... would be really good for that... I am in a panic right now and thought of this video because I think it will help..... it is something of how voice can effect the nervous system..... also masculine energy and etc etc..... I hope that all makes sense.... also thank you yet again because being able to express all this somewhere where i think it's safe and / because it all will actually be u n d e r s t o o d already helped calm my nervous system............

@helenekate0000 11 ай бұрын

@TheElGoliathTarotDeck **ps update again... no need for making that idea because this video just helped......... You just helped a random person get through a fucking terrifying state.. = panic attacks are the scariest god damned experience... About this video... Yes the survivor thing is real. Thank you for acknowledging all of that.. all of this.. And it's so helpful I can't explain well enough right now whenever we hear others acknowledge these things... these actual facts of actual reality........ your staring in the camera so solidly etc and saying certain things is such a helpful grounding reality affirming thing..... All that and this whole video.. everything you explain here... and any things like these are literal medicine / antidotes etc the the immense effects of gaslighting....... I have panic d i s o r d e r (cptsd / ptsd = etc etc) because of my entire first 20 years of existing = developing my human nervous system = every other system in my body in an environment with "unaware sadists"..... I really appreciate that you also see how some are and aren't aware... conscious... etc... most people insist on one or the other..... but there's differences... A few years ago they (4 of them) almost accidentally killed me because of how fucking out of control their disorders are = they are of their own legitimately fucking dangerous behaviors..... I was thankful as hell to find this video the other day... and now it just became even more helpful as a legitimate tool during a panic attack..... 🪄✨️⚓️🙏 t h a n k y o u.

@najatalqallaf5937 4 ай бұрын

Still enjoying your videos .. life now is full of these people that we did not see before. I think they are typically Psychopath that we already met in our life making us tired exhausted from relationships. I hope that we can stay strong in the darkness as you said. Thank you for your detailed videos.🌹🌹

@TheElGoliathTarotDeck 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for finding me

@najatalqallaf5937 4 ай бұрын

@@TheElGoliathTarotDeck Its my good fate and luck to find such a channel that touched my heart with its great details and information in a simple way, Good luck for you .🌹🌹

@dekkersmama9060 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this 🙏 I went through it...during the years I was with him I've never experienced such a roller coaster of traumatic incidents, including a very serious suicide attempt (mine). Getting out was hands down the hardest thing I've ever done but now it's been a couple of years I do actually feel stronger. Against all the odds I kept (& built up) my business & kept my dog & my cat with me when everyone , even the authorities, said I couldn't. I thank my Spiritual practice for that...and I feel you on the Left Hand path! Sometimes you need to fight demons with demons! Thank you again & also absolute respect to you for getting through it too 🙏 🦋

@kellieanna1016 Жыл бұрын

Hi G Beautiful spoken word Going 2 be doing a name change Wanted 2 say thank you for your support Of truth

@TheHermitsLantern Жыл бұрын

Such an excellent video, babe. THANK YOU for being so blunt and laying this all out there. I have seen ALLLLLLL of what you have described too. And your advice is spot on. Calling them out can be very dangerous though. So that safety and escape plan is crucial. Thank you for your realness for speaking this truth. And yes - even as a psychologist myself, the book knowledge doesn’t prepare you for the reality of it when you actually live it. And I just adore your laugh. It’s the best. Even during such a deep serious topic, your laugh brings lightness and joy. 🙏🏻💜

@kristinayoung6535 5 ай бұрын

Oooo that Aquarius is so narcissistic. Yes he just laughs about everything he doesn't care or be serious. Uses women. Uses everyone. I am staying strong. I will not talk to him no more. He's been blocked on everything for three years. ❤

@kristinayoung6535 5 ай бұрын

Yep. The ex Aquarius plays victim always. I've noticed that in a lot of aquarius men.

@kellieanna1016 Жыл бұрын

Ok Sharing music Son of a witch dark swamp blues Soon I will share my art Till then Inspiration is alive

@kristinayoung6535 5 ай бұрын

Aquarius narcissist about broke me but i ghosted him three years strong. ❤ I'm an Aries and people always say we are so narcissistic. I don't know about that. Aquarius are more prone to that lol. I help my whole family out and I love my family and kids. ❤ So tired of hearing the fake Aries stereotypes. I tell everyone my mom was a crack head that damn near starved me to death. Not narcissist if anything I'm too nice

@tarotcafeGamveta8 Жыл бұрын

great video so to the point, that's my father exactly, the only problem to all this is when i was born as a leo, he had no clue what leos do when they get upset...he got the biggest lesson of his life cos i can't stand this behaviour as described, since i was a child so first time i broke a brick on his head, sorry to say....theres so much more to the hole story haha but i am so happy

@candiablacktina44 Жыл бұрын

You should you would’ve been a great psychologist from your own personal experience

@TheElGoliathTarotDeck Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, I considered it but I think that I'd rather do spiritual councling as I find morden day psychology more focused on the (pharma💊) industry and just treating with out dated methods looking at the brain not the heart, and science is only the measurment of something, in the psychology field the soul dosnt even exist sadly.