How to Deal With Different--and Difficult--Personality Types Pt 1: How to Spot Which One Someone Is

[@TheWizardOfWords]

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[@jkrischner9868]

Most logical and straight to the point presentation I've seen so far. Great Job, as expected from an INTJ

[@Aliyahthebes]

I can't watch and love this video enough!!! I am the Expressive/Driver personality type. Probably why my boyfriend and I clash so often as he is an analytical/driver. You are awesome Dan!!! We are now using some of your videos as tools in my call center because YOU ROCK!!

[@mariongrantham7914]

Wow well presented. The use of examples to describe the 4 times it is a good summary. Being a nurse, it has taught me greatly in how to practice nursing. Wish I had this while in nursing school. This info would have saved a lot of miscommunication and drama.

[@OliviaBeille]

My partner is like you, a Driver-analytical!!! I so feel at home watching your videos. I like how you get to the point in a precise yet detailed way. For myself I am an Expressive-Driver. As a couple we struggle to have a social life and obviously I'm the only one who minds lol. He's a champ though, he really learned to listen to me talking for long period of times. It's on his mental checklist of "things I have to do to be a good boyfriend". For my part, I learned to have more time by myself and with other people to let him his to recharge. I also learned to directly ask what I want from him instead of explaining why or how his behavior makes me feel, which I found he dosen't really care why, he just wants to know what he needs to do to make me happy and get on with it lol!! So far, it is working surprisingly well! This way of explaining characters is so fascinating btw!

[@GS-st9ns]

Expressive driver here. very informative videos , to the point and yes I drive a Lexus.. I also enjoy the way you roll your eyes back and forth. Delightful

[@dianedonohue9855]

I thjnk I blew this test.. I am totally analytical and totally expressive. I am not a driver at all, somewhat amiable. A little. My college counselors said I'd be a great Medical professional, lawyer or entertainer. I was in medicine and then taught school for 25 years. I love art, I sing and dance, write, teach exercise classes daily and coach health. Who am I? I'm 40% Dad, scientist, 60% mom artist. My dr called me a realistic optimist. I study neuroscience and sing in a group as hobbies. Wish I was a bit more if a driver. All good I guess.

[@TheWizardOfWords]

Your last sentence says it all. :)

[@fazbell]

I just assumed that most people I worked with were going to be difficult. I was seldom disappointed.

[@AvecPoesie]

Very well-said. My work experiences and expectations have unfolded in the same way.

[@beckyfrancis481]

Aha, Self-fulfilling prophesy me think?

[@JaymeeKay]

Lol.

[@karenabrams8986]

Yes. I need to lunch alone to charge my batteries.

[@TheWizardOfWords]

Works for me!

[@asstanley8438]

I'm enfj and I think I'm a quiet expressive, or a stylish amiable. But yes I find being ignored very passive aggressive from another expressive or amiable. I did wear a christmas jumper but it was tasteful I swear! But then I'm a bit driver too because I walk to work for the sake of the environment and the efficiency of combining my commute with my exercise and I'm a bit get it done get it done get it done get it done. Interesting stuff! :-) I'm going to go and knock on the window of your car door looking for part two of this clip now.

[@jndevries2]

Dan: I love your personality! I always want to watch you and listen close because you're always spot on and funny but interesting. Your home looks different in this video, and you seemed extra clear tonight with your information on "types", extremely focused. Keep the videos coming, I tell many to listen to you on Utube. If I wasn't in such a slump, I would participate financially, you're more than worth it.!

[@boplo1]

Is there a link is the next video?

[@alert-mercy]

oh my gosh you are SPOT ON and HILARIOUS!!!!!

[@antonyka-pra-ra]

Yeah so The wall mirror in the center back ground The part of the room being reflected apparently there must be at least 2 dudes knocking boots judging from all that shaking,

[@YourGPSForSuccess]

Say that! Lol The relanguaging sells books and creates platforms. Learning the types creates better interactions. The assessments help to identify your own triggers. Great stuff in your video. Wonderful refresher for me. Thank you.

[@TheWizardOfWords]

You're welcome Raquel! Thanks for the comments today. Again--let me know what you think as you go through the videos. Useful? Not useful? Love it? Hate it? THIS IS A SAFE SPACE. :) DAN

[@YourGPSForSuccess]

Effective Communication Skills With Dan O'Connor I'm am devouring the videos. Lol like my own personal seminar

[@TheWizardOfWords]

Great. That's what they are there for Raquel, and please spread the word among your friends. It takes just a moment to share, right? And thank you for your support (not to mention your attention to my eyes rolling and popping too damn much). Dan

[@dnice2134lyfe]

I like your energy, your demeanor and how you've helped us thank you.

[@TheWizardOfWords]

Thank you so much DeAndre. I feel happy and blessed to have helped you. I greatly appreciate your post. Dan

[@SarahRejsa-oi6bq]

OMG!!! I am amiable and expressive ! Holy cow! I didn't know they are next to each other, and that I can be both ! I have been trying to figure out which one I am. I feel like I am mostly amiable, but I also have a twist of expressive side to me. Not in the way I dress (I'm a Plain Jane) but with my goofy personality. I am also super right brained! I didn't know that expressive and amiable types are also both right brained people!!! Very interesting! Dan, you are sooooo SMART and you probably have me figured out way better than I have myself figured out!!! I didn't come across this video by accident! There are no accidents in the Universe. ❤ I'm writing my resume, I'm reflecting on who I am personality wise in the work place. I know I'm amiable, but I was thinking about how I can just blurt something out sometimes at work at the right moment, and be funny and make people laugh. I had the speech pathologist laughing so hard that she said she could barely contain herself in her meeting because she thought about something I said. She wanted to laugh so hard in a meeting because of me . 😊 I do stuff like that., it's not all the time , and I'm not really trying to be funny. It's hard to explain. I wanted to know what I am because that will serve me in my career moving forward. Knowing can also help me avoid potential pitfalls. I'm amazed that you know all of this stuff about people, Dan! If you have me figured out, then you MUST know that I love you with all of my heart.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@ma_iii]

this video is so under rated.!! i found it very rewarding and usefull so many thanks for your time and efforts!

[@lotstosay6359]

Engineering/Research/Logistics - Driver HR/Sales - Socials Accounting/Detectives/Legal - Analytical Therapists/Care workers/Teachers - Amiables

[@TheWizardOfWords]

Do you think a salesperson can be a driver? I'd suggest that successful ones are. If you are too social, perhaps you should be a--wait for it--social . . . . . . . . worker.

[@stevedoetsch]

Sanguine, Phlegmatic, Choleric, and Melancholic are the original names as created by Hippocrates in ancient times, and later expounded upon by Thomas Aquinas in the middle ages. As far as dating and love life you will match best with the personality type that is your compliment; that is, someone who has your opposite primary type and the same secondary type. For example, a analytical (melancholic) / driver (choleric) would be attracted to and match well with expressive (sanguine) / driver (choleric).

[@TheWizardOfWords]

Hello Steve: My mother was in a Dominican convent for a few years (the order of both Dominic and Thomas Aquinas of course) and she studied Thomas Aquinas extensively, primarily Summa Theologica and Summa Contra Gentiles, and taught the principles of Aquinas in later years. Funny that she never mentioned Thomas expounding on personality types. If you could elaborate on your comment in re Aquinas, you could educate both my mother and me at the same time. I'll pass your info on to her and get back to you. Not my area of expertise, but certainly is hers. Thanks for writing, Steve. Dan

[@wintermatherne2524]

I would disagree. I’m analytical female and my mil is sanguine/driver. If I was in a close relationship with her, she’d be dead and I’d be in jail.

[@Peace-Love-Light]

Ha ha, again, LOVE the sound effects.

[@machumak4915]

I love, love, love this video and the fact that I am a Driver/Analytical and sometimes Driver/Expressive. The Amiables annoy the crap out of me.....uuuuuhhhh

[@DarkerSideOfDawn]

Ha! Years ago I worked at a 7-11. I used to make it my mission to make the drivers laugh... it’s a gift :)

[@TheWizardOfWords]

Actually, that is a great mission and for some people it is probably the only laugh they get all day.

[@mosaicowlstudios]

My response to the very real underhanded insult from my Expressive (and also a bit of a bully) coworker about my only seeming to wear one pair of pants was just that: "Actually, I have several pairs of pants that I rotate through and occasionally I wear a pair of jeans". I only realized days later that it was a snarky little insult. My analytical-type personality thought it was a general observation and curiosity. Nope. Mean expressive type.

[@TheWizardOfWords]

Yes, and remember--never defend. What difference does it make how many pair of pants you have--or what you wear?

[@mosaicowlstudios]

@communicationskills Unfortunately, I made the mistake of defending against other reprehensible behavior of theirs, and it resulted in a messy conflict. I think it's all smoothing out now. Somehow, during all of this, I convinced the bully that it was a grave mistake to begin targeting me. I've received feedback from their own subordinates (we are in a lateral position to each other) that they are now TERRIFIED to speak to me about anything. Also, I can observe them now trying to "prove" to their own subordinates and the other laterals that they are actually a really nice person. What it took was pointing out to them and our boss that they have a pattern of behavior and that I didn't have to HEAR that from anyone else because I've directly experienced it myself and observed it happening to others. The boss couldn't ignore it (because I know for certain that others have come to the boss before too), and the coworker now has to "prove otherwise". It's perfect. They're leaving me all the way the hell alone and they're being extra nice to everyone to prove that's the way they naturally are. Everyone wins. Now I've just got to figure out if this person is the kind of person who would sabotage my work. Probably, so I've got to be careful.

[@TheWizardOfWords]

Thanks for the share mosaicowlstudios.

[@sililabau5942]

Spot on, Dan!!

[@TheWizardOfWords]

Hey, thanks Silila--for all your support! Dan

[@sililabau5942]

Right back at ya, Dan! I appreciate all the info you share on KZbin; and I use it, too! PS: I'm an INTJ also and communication skills has always been my biggest challenge.

[@TheWizardOfWords]

And I'm happy to help you in the communication skills department Silila--any way I can. Dan

[@seanrennis]

Great job

[@HotHeadCringe]

10:26 I'M EXPRESSIVE INFJ. (I gave two years of the Meyers Briggs test to be sure of my type as an INFJ) But, confused? Hey, Dan! Can you stray so far off your natural strength that you picked up other styles and now you're resistant to say you feel like any one of these styles? 16:14 I strongly feel like a driver. 17:04 Okay, I'm absolutely not an expressive. 18:55 lol, tan panters?

[@francescamiddleton5884]

Hmm. Not sure about this. I do the visible at work thing because it's a work technique but actually it's not a personal need, it's because I'm advertising myself deliberately. At the weekends I definitely don't need to be seen, and I always get the bus.

[@francescamiddleton5884]

I'm a driver in disguise! I'm working it!

[@francescamiddleton5884]

A driver analytic and my outgoing working it is my strategy, my plan! I wear a work uniform of business-like jackets and so on in bright colours, navy and black.

[@Aliyahthebes]

I notice that you seldom enlarge some of your lesson charts to full screen in your videos. I would suggest that on occasion, you make them full screen so those of us, such as myself, may take notes. I work in a call center and recently had a slip up with a client by showing a lack of empathy. I am using your videos to apply the tools you teach to improve my performance at work so that that will never happen again. Your lessons are a lifesaver!! P.S I did retype this about 5 times to apply your lessons on how to word such things, please also let me know how I did :) thank you!

[@TheWizardOfWords]

Hi Jackie! You scored a perfect 9. It would have been a 10 if you had rearranged things JUST A BIT--so that your last sentence and a version of the one preceding it were placed first. That way you start by telling me you've found value in what I teach--AND THAT GRABS MY ATTENTION IN A VERY POSITIVE WAY--and then you proceed to tell me exactly what I might change to improve my lessons and your learning. Having said that--I will take to heart what you say. And having said that--if you are wanting to learn and improve your customer service skills (as well as your interpersonal relationships) you might consider my full 50-lesson course. AND HAVING SAID THAT--if you email Jean at [e-mail] and tell her I said to give you the deal of the century on this training--she'll do it! The 50-lesson course includes everything you've seen on my KZbin videos and much much much (too much?) more. And of course, each of the 50-lessons has a materials summary that can be printed out. For you--that's huge. And there are flashcards here and there as well. Can't beat it with a stick. Or any other course. That's [e-mail] :) And of course--thanks for your idea. I'll give that some thought. But if I give you EVERYTHING you'll get in the downloadable 50-lesson course--you'd question my business acumen and my sales skills and then WHY WOULD YOU LISTEN TO ME?? Dan

[@Aliyahthebes]

You are correct!! I neglected that part, apologies. I may just look into that! I am really enjoying these lessons and I am even learning a lot about my own personality type and how my every day relationships work as a whole and it is awesome! Thank you so much for the reply as well :) really made my day!

[@MelissaJMJ]

Happy Easter Dan. 🐣 Tan and gray pants, lunch eating alone most of the time, type.

[@TheWizardOfWords]

hahahaha, I get it--and you. :) Happy Easter Living. Dan

[@anaflores2389]

Such a great video! Thank you so much!😊

[@lotstosay6359]

Driver and accurate and I’ve embraced it fully. And Honda’s last forever and Audi seats are uncomfortable. Any long lasting German car other than (bmw) would be nice. We also need to be not like everyone else. lol at our trophy pictures! So true: Like, this is my family and stability and what my hard work has accomplished. Achievements are very motivating for us 😎

[@TheWizardOfWords]

Had to read it twice, but I think I have it. :)

[@jasoncohen1740]

why is the mirror moving?

[@TheWizardOfWords]

Jason--a Christmas miracle? Or the open window next to the mirror? You decide . . . . :) Dan

[@jasoncohen1740]

I'm an analyst, so why is the plant not moving? This video is great. I'm an ISTJ and I appreciate any education to understand others to increase my EQ. I have watched all of your videos, so keep it up.

[@TheWizardOfWords]

Hi Jason--You'll note this is a pretty large bank of windows, right? You can't see it clearly in the video, but the windows closest to the mirror are open, whereas the windwos closest to the plant remain closed. Having said that--I like the Christmas Miracle answer best-- :) BTW, I am delighted that you've watched all my videos, and I hope that you've shared a few as well. If not, please feel free! Dan

[@alexislex7915]

Jason Cohen u see it to 😱 😑😓😦

[@alexislex7915]

Jason Cohen wtf right

[@mandyinseattle]

Ooh I love that you're going to discuss the 9 enneagrams types! That is eye opening! I've learned so much about myself and my son and my roommate cuz I had them both take the test. Most profound was what I learned about myself and confirmed about myself.

[@GS-st9ns]

Now I know why people are weirded out by me. I am an enigma. I am a cross between a driver and an expressive. I do have a luxury car and I have very few things, but they are expensive and luxurious. But, I have splashes of the other two I'm creative and funny. HELP !!! LOL

[@1Wendy_Woo]

I find that I was once (in my younger years) the Expressive, the Amiable type. Now that I am older I am more of the Driver, the Analytical type. Is this 'normal'? 😃😀😆 *I have NEVER owned tan pants or it's equivalent though 😅

[@TessaPK52]

Dan, any chance you could do a video on communicating as, and with a Highly Sensitive Person? Elaine Aron did much research about the characteristics of HSP but your perspective, specifically on communication is invaluable.

[@TheWizardOfWords]

Tessa I could certainly look into this for next year. Right now I'm concentrating on a few other areas. If you remind me of this in January, I promise to look into it.

[@TessaPK52]

@@TheWizardOfWords I will gladly remind you in January 2021. I wish you all the best in your present endeavours.

[@6ixtey233]

It is so difficult task for ympathic people in doubtful circumstance background what can do for it

[@jumpingjack8482]

Omg so accurate. I'm a driver. Now I understand why I can't stand or respect Birkenstock people. As soon as you started talking about that mediocre grey type Birkenstock footwear came up in my head and low and behold you mentioned them. To me, They tend to "work" in government offices, have no brains and if their boss tells them to press a button that would blow up the world they would not hesitate because they never take personal responsibility and lack critical thinking. They play all cute and nice but their sheep mentality is dangerous. They are easily hypnotizable zombie people in down to earth uniforms. They are majority. Hitler would not have success without them and they only express their real feeling and anger when they are drunk and when they real up together in a group

[@wintermatherne2524]

Spot on.

[@lovewillwinnn]

Interesting. INFJ here.

[@OmGnomeGo]

Hi Dan, love you lots, you're fantastic. would love to see what kind of trucks the personality types might be driving. I'm picturing the Driver in a huge F-350 pick up.

[@TheWizardOfWords]

heheheheh-- I'll give that some thought.

[@MrsRaquelPerezASMR]

The “get ‘er done” song 😂😂😂😂

[@TheWizardOfWords]

Yeah, I guess I shouldn't give up my day job?? :)

[@dlon8899]

Thanks

[@TheWizardOfWords]

You're welcome, d.

[@michaellaster9129]

Your videos have really helped me a lot. Thank you for putting in so much to benefit others. I guess that’s my amiable side talking. You should see me expressive side. Of course I do share some driver qualities as well. I just wish I could bring those out more regularly. Thanks again and lots of success! Btw, almost as annoying to me as “I lied,” I really can’t stand “my bad.” Please do something!!! 😜

[@TheWizardOfWords]

I'm doing up a new list called "lazy words" to complement my danger/power phrase list. DEFINITELY "my bad" will be on it. It's passive-aggressive and childish at the same time--and generally a cop-out. Thanks for reminding me of that one. I'LL TRY TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT THAT! :) :)

[@namastewellness]

Love the Platinum Rule! #HighEQ

[@TallMichelleWithTheLongHair]

I am an expressive-driver. I would have never thought that. Ha!

[@LinYouToo]

Michelle My Belle 🙋‍♀️

[@kristinamullen4066]

Tanpantsers.LOL.The opposite of my fashion sratement.They are kind of Tanbrainers too.

[@karenfischer]

Dan, I’m such an expressive lol! How do I hear the rest of this video, the part two? Do I pay and join your club? I had a or what I perceive to be a stressful meeting and thanks to your wise words and videos I listen to last night and this morning I was able to get through it with love. Joining your club would be a pleasure and I would be honored to be a member so let me know how to do that.

[@TheWizardOfWords]

If you subscribe to my channel and click notifications, you'll know when a new video comes out, Kay. If you want to take it a little further, go to danoconnortraining.com, subscribe and perhaps check out the products there to see if any or all would be a good fit for you.

[@margoheekin7201]

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[@missjocelyngarmon204]

Man this is very good informative commentary..👂👀👣

[@TheWizardOfWords]

Glad you think so, Miss Jai. Please like and share these videos; I would appreciate it.

[@deren2001]

hah! I need to comment on the driver. We had this guy at work who you had to force to say Hi back by saying Hi first. One day I said with a very friendly voice.; Hey, if you don't want to say Hi to me just say so, I don't want to spill my social skills on you. Guess what? he always says Hi first now. Sometimes you just need to sting them a little bit.

[@wintermatherne2524]

How rude. You have no right to shame people into jumping through YOUR hoops. If you don’t want to spill your social skill, then just don’t!

[@SaraSmilesandCreates]

What about dealing with those who are “distractions!” Seriously. Can’t walk off without them following you and talking your ear off. Nothing wrong with a friend, but when I’m doing something (at work, in my front yard) how do I redirect and get on with my to-do list

[@TheWizardOfWords]

Mark, I'd love to visit with you but I'm on a really strict schedule to get this done and I'm running behind. Can I catch you later?

[@arneldelacruz9445]

How can I get a copy of the types diagram?

[@asmith7094]

Google image search

[@karenabrams8986]

I am such a driver. My theme song that plays in my head is Army of Me by Bjork. I really don’t want to hurt ppls feelings. Unless they are lazy. 😐

[@TheWizardOfWords]

WHAAAAAT? You want to hurt the feelings of lazy people????????

[@karenabrams8986]

Yes.

[@TheWizardOfWords]

OMIGOD, remind me to not be around you on days I slow down. :)

[@karenabrams8986]

Probably why I’m burnt out and watching your vids. I’ve had difficulty with work place communication and coworker relationships while being the solo night shift lab tech. Being called a Sheldon is apparently not a compliment. 😝

[@TheWizardOfWords]

Well I'd consider it a compliment. But having said that, you MIGHT want to consider the feelings of others just a tad--from what you've said. Maybe just smile more? It'll drive 'em crazy. (Maybe some of those people aren't really lazy; maybe they're overburdened. Go with that and you won't want to hurt their feelings; you'll want to help :) )

[@mariannegreg]

What song does the Analytical type come in singing? Let me know please thanks! 😉

[@ExtraordinaryLiving]

I think he mentioned that the Analytical type doesn't have theme songs--they have no time for these kinds of "nonsense".

[@usa4287]

Bill... bill... bill... bill (bill nye the science guy theme)?

[@malihehk.h7125]

I can not pin point which personality type I have. I see myself having all 4 personality traits. Is such thing possible ?

[@asmith7094]

Everyone has traits from all 4. It’s unlikely to be exactly evenly placed between all 4. Who do you like working with the most? What kinds of people do you avoid?

[@miropribanic5581]

7:33 Fiat 595 resp. Abarth 500

[@yuyingliu5225]

hilarious and informative

[@intrinsicallyme8404]

I'm pretty damn sure every single person on this planet appreciates a fine vehicle, whatever personality type u are- loud or quiet. I thought i was expressive but I hate showing off. I appreciate luxury but in a subtle way that doesn't invoke lust and envy in others for it. Edit... I am an ENFP btw so am I expressive?

[@TheWizardOfWords]

Everybody appreciates a fine vehicle? ahhhhaaaaa! Clearly you've not met my father, the author of "a car is simply a VEHICLE for going from point A to point B--nothing more."

[@ExtraordinaryLiving]

Yea, right?! Where I work, I pass by a big street-level showroom of expensive and racy luxury cars everyday. Some days there would be some kind of sexy sports car being delivered by a huge covered truck, and people would be taking photos of it and making a big deal. I have never understood why people drool over these cars ... they are simply a VEHICLE for going from point A to point B, and I certainly wouldn't care to spend the kind of money they command for a VEHICLE for going from point A to point B.

[@africkinamerican]

@@ExtraordinaryLiving to some extent, luxury cars are about branding and image, but also, there's a whole different level of performance and quality too. I had a girlfriend in college told me riding in a fast car like a Maserati gets her physically hot.... As she rode with me in my generic four-door Saturn. 😆

[@annipaulekas2349]

Good morning Dan I’m a driver amiable. Why, why why. Expletive, expletive, expletive. Such a waste of time. I drive a truck. 4 door. Love different colored pants. Love boots. Comfy clothes.

[@scilines]

Tan-pantser 😂 💀 Great insights.

[@thenewyorkcitizen]

ha! I am eating lunch alone in my car. I love alone time.

[@TheWizardOfWords]

Me too.

[@fitlyfe4138]

I like the animal one

[@TheWizardOfWords]

:)

[@aimandaim]

Omg! I'm a driver!

[@dudanunesbleff]

Call it what it is: it's Christmas time. Why nourish snowflakism (is that even a word?...)

[@funnychia9605]

I'm amiable and a driver.

[@Melitta-zx4sf]

INTJ ?! I could've sworn he's an extravert. 3 wing 2 on the Enneagram ? At least that's my guess.

[@TheWizardOfWords]

Introvert all the way.

[@personalsubliminal]

The mirror in the background is moving creepy

[@TheWizardOfWords]

It's a modern day miracle or an Ajijic breeze. You choose.

[@laurabloodiam]

Plants that are dead? Plants that are dead that hold sentimental value? Uuuh I kinda don't think so. I'm just saying.

[@DarkerSideOfDawn]

Lol hahha yes I do!! But it took me 45 years to come out! Lol

[@TheWizardOfWords]

Lol :)

[@vakhbod100]

I am amiable

[@NatureFreak1127]

Currently watching this wearing tan pants.😂 I guess I might be analytical.

[@TheWizardOfWords]

You just might be-- :) Or you might just be wearing tan pants today???

[@NatureFreak1127]

@@TheWizardOfWords I did some test online and I am more or less all of them??? Did I break the test? :D

[@asmith7094]

Yo, your mirror is haunted

[@cody3504]

Expressives: SFJ's and SFP's Annual: NFJ's and NTP's Drivers: STJ's and NTJ's Analytics: NFP's and STP's Wow, I'm really proud of myself 😂

[@TheWizardOfWords]

As you should be, Cody :) :) :)

[@AKHZ]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 thanks a lot

[@mac-ju5ot]

Boy you ate effective I can so see ypu trying to deal with battered women on my office lol ..I'm.laughing g at you.

[@TheWizardOfWords]

Wonderful.

[@hildalekan3559]

So off, I'm an expressive and most of the things he said is wrong. There are so books out there are more accurate!

[@TheWizardOfWords]

Well thank you Hilda. I wonder if you could be more precise, for the education of readers and certainly me. I'd hate to be considered "off." :) Dan

[@wintermatherne2524]

She reminds me of my know it all mother in law.

[@adrianaboga8361]

Mamma mía! 🙄🙄😖

[@reginarivera7916]

Rigidity on steroids

[@ronnipaints6128]

Blurry.

[@TheWizardOfWords]

But did you get the drift?

[@ronnipaints6128]

@@TheWizardOfWordsYou are amazing, You actually read comments on old posts and responde. Yes I did, I always listen. I was just saying couldn't read the card. Actually I think my boss is trying to push me out. I do my job I am a driver the kids and the parents love me. But because I beliefs, my religion, I think my boss is trying to push me out. He spies on me and says he has cameras watching me. I haven't done anything to be fired because I do my job. I actually came out and asked him if he wanted to let me go and he said no. I think the answer is no because if he fires me I can file for unemployment and the school district doesn't want to pay unemployment benefits. Just before Christmas vacation, he actually came to my apartment, called me and told me to come outside because he wanted to talk to me. I was already off work. I came outside and he preceded to scream at me in front of my apartment. He had wrote me up for bad behavior. I had refused to drive in the same vehicle as a man who 2 years before I had reported for stalking me on my off hours. My supervisor also knows that I had a route with that male driver, for a very short time two years ago, and that I refuse to ride with him anymore. Close contact with someone like that is no good. Basically Sup was setting me up for failure demanding that I have a route with that male driver. That driver also has Asperger's which makes him an especially difficult person to work with. Have any advice?

[@SATXHairstylist]

i disagree. No one is one set thing 24/7. It’s called experiences and emotions.

[@TheWizardOfWords]

Hi Damon: I believe people react differently to those experiences and emotions based on their personality type, and that's really what this lesson is all about. For example, if an analytical is angry he/she might show that anger quite differently from an expressive. If you confront an analytical, he/she would no doubt respond differently from an expressive.